That became the biggest tell for me too. All the sudden they were nastily gossiping about neighbors and strangers and their friends. Eventually the attitude came for me in the form of so-called constructive criticism really being barely veiled DESTRUCTIVE criticism in a covert way. I finally bailed. (I'm talking about a friendship or sibling situationship I escaped, not a romantic one when I mention this)
My Narcissist husband destroyed our marriage. C'mon: it's not that hard to be nice, and be a loving husband and father. That's all I wanted. I didn't even want money. But he destroyed me, I left, the kids were in a broken home, and he is praying, "Why me God?" God didn't do this to you. YOU did this to you.
I remember when I would leave my house because my ex would look or act like he was going to Rage. I would go over one of my friends house. My ex would always tell me something was going on at my house to try and get me to come back home. I would never come back until I felt like I had waited long enough. I eventually was able to get him out if my house after he had punched me in my stomach. I feel so good knowing I was able to get out of that Toxic mess!!
So true. You must hold yourself strong as they try to drag you down. Especially hsps, empaths etc. Get good help always. Ask for higher help to keep you clear of their wake.
karma sits with my mother everyday in the nursing home she went to on her own because she has not one person she could call except me but i cant help her because she destroyed everything in my life so she has no ammunition left game over
True! If they are NOT creating their own chaos..they possibly are scared that people will find out their conniving ways when things are calm and may allow people peace of mind to sit and analyse how things are being handled by the narcissist
I wish I had the knowledge I have about narcissists 5 years ago! This man did not only destroy my life but the life on my daughter as well! I never in my life thought someone can destroy other people while being so self centered and not caring about what those people have to face just to continue breathing. The hate I carry within me is the worst I have ever experienced or even heard of!
Thats why they're so angry in old age and no one there for them. He abandoned our child with medical condition and i told him to look very much forward to our child doing same to him in old age. Narcs burn bridges especially with their children
My narcissist husband left 2yr back when son was 8 month old. Last 2 year he not asking about son or paying single penny for us. He broke me completely. God is with us. God bless you
I have dealt with jealousy all my life. This demon warkock gyallis I fell in love with is by far the worst case as he sent spells to end me,but he loves me. 😂 Having a jealous mate is grotesque. Thank you Danish. ❤️
My mother did #7. All. The. Time. About me. I was so horrible. I was always doing something. I was such a bully. The thing is. I was a bully. But we know today that bullies...are bullied. And she bullied me. And when I would call her out on it, and all the ways she was cruel to me, she would shout me down as being to problem. And at every chance would tell the rest of the family how 'horrible' I was. One year her cousin got very close to the truth and she blew up saying she didn't know what was wrong with me and that she didn't feel good and ended the conversation.
Same here as a fellow dude with my Mom! Nothing like seeing them turn on the CROCODILE TEARS when you call them out, predictably followed by them smear campaigning you with your so-called EX-SIBLINGS... I got rid of all 3 of mine (or was discarded by, depending on which specific one) once the mask came off
I'm so sorry you were treated this way. My mom used to put me down to people - right in front of my face. Some would go along with it. We are definitely survivors.🏆
Narcs have an insatiable hunger for attention, and they love being on stage where everyone can see and admire them. Narcs love making announcements and keeping people informed of news events. They are harbingers of particularly bad news and enjoy making announcements about sad events such as obituaries and funerals in order to mobilize , impress and gain full attention of their audience.
This is SO true! I remember my narcissistic Mom made a huge deal of her young nephew's death and was sobbing and talking on the phone with everyone who picked up her calls. Even the nephew's own mother ( my Mom's younger sister) was calm, composed and far more graceful after the loss of her own son. I was feeling such second hand embarrassment as I watched my Mom create a scene...
There is a toxic person (possible narcissist) owning my fave roleplay (Writing) site. I always noticed this person had a click. Only talking to the high ranks and or best of the best roleplayers. And or, they also have been kicking out ppl from the staff. I noticed they are ones who are sweet and empathetic like me, but don't deal with toxic crap anymore. So I see a pattern. And those ppl who left staff said this person got mad at me and my friend in staff chat for us naming our kids in roleplay after our friend who passed away this past year. (This person was also friends with them. And she said she would do some memorial for em, but hasnt.) This toxic person has attacked me lately for no reason a couple time, trying to seem "nice" but is passive aggressive and I can read it in their text. They are also attacking those slyly in text from who left staff. I'm waiting until she self sabotaged herself and I'm having fun still and ignoring her tactics. I've seen many red flags and so have others. I'm making ppl aware of this person in private to be careful.
Tell you what, i told all the elders about my sister and they all noticed the same things. We were not gossiping, we were making observations. We understand why she is the way she is, but we do not play those games on this side of the family. We all are aware of what is happening. We can protect ourselves and each other from these passive aggressive attacks and delusions of grandeur. Coverts
They really self destruct They are afraid of abandonment and yet can't look after a relationship because they are so busy putting their partner down and bullying thst person that what they fear most happens and yet blame the other person say that person is sick and when that person stands up for themselves they will end the relationship They never learn Do the same thing over and over
I got my fingers burned over and over by that as I didn't see it at the time. They don't want their friends having a life separate from them so they sabotage their other interests and friendships by devaluing them and if that doesn't work they try other means such as 'surprise' tickets to an evening event or a 'surprise' weekend away. Even if they are non narcs they learn narcissistic ways from the television which promotes narcissistic ways of conducting family relationships and friendships, working and treating everything as a competition even baking a cake. That's because most journalists and producers and some playwrights working in television are narcissists. So those people act like narcissists too. I see soap and crime drama addicts turn into full blown narcissists and then become normal again when they stop watching them. I like to tell people they need to take a break from TV for one week now and then except for the odd old film or nature programme. We used to get that break from television every July when we went on holiday for a week in the caravan as we only had radios in it not a television set. Often when I took a break from a soap I was addicted to watching as I went on holiday or the soap went off air during a two week long sports tournament I then come back and realise the soap was rubbish.
A narcissist family is like a tower of Babel. Zero cooperation, constant ruining the others efforts and setting each others up, blame shifting. Narcissist parents will happily side up with spontaneous strangers to blame their child for anything that looks wrong. Zero integrity, regularly allowing strangers in the home to do the child harm and say "you two are always fighting/arguing". Ie child gets thrown to the wolves, then be labeled as a troublemaker.
Private boarding schools set children up to be competitive academically, in sports, and so on. They can't have a hobby when not asleep, at meals, in the classes or at prep. They have to have a skill or talent instead that they can represent the school at. So if they take up painting it's only if they are so good at it they can exhibit the paintings at an inter school art exhibition. Private day schools as well but at least then you aren't being monitored 24/7 as you go home each day.
Narcissist को Life में हर Relationship में इतने अच्छे लोग मिलते हैं Partners, Children, Relatives और भी लोग, लगता है Universe उसके Favour में काम करता है, पता नहीं क्यूं ? 🙏
This is my uncle. He is like a super narcissists. A 50 Yr old man who gossips and backbites everyone even his own nephew and neices. Puts everyone down but praises only himself. He is petty, vindictive, two faced and manipulative. He gets happy when other people do badly on life but gets depressed when people do well. After years of this evil behaviour he is now in severe depression, his business has failed because he thought he was so clever and never learnt from his mistakes, his health failed because he thought he was smarter then the doctors, so he didn't take his medication and ended up worse. His marriage has failed, his relationships with everyone else has failed. Its actually sad to see him like this, even though I know if I was in the Same situation he would be laughing at me
They are their own worst enemy, how's that gonna work you're in a relationship with them, probably not in anyone's favour really, he is (sorry kitties) my favorite dumb animal!
Uhh yes! So competitive! It's no fun playing any games with them. My mother loves to rub in how much of a loser I am. I keep feeling sorry for her, though. It's annoying. I can't go back!!! I don't want to see anything bad happen to her. I just want her to leave me alone. I had a friend many years ago. I think she could of been a narc too. I thought we were close. We shared a lot. I shared too much. And then she turned it all against me when I needed a break from her. It was just a week 😅 I was busy working at that time. She got so angry. Insane. Omg I lauged at the end there. They have no idea what it's like to be a victim.
I experienced this from the earliest conversations with my ex Narcississt girlfriend. How do I know she said to me " are you competative" when she realised I had achived certain things. Overtime I saw in everything she had to do or have something better than me. She even projected this to her friends and family and was called out by her son who reminded here she was not responsible for something she was boasting she was responsible for.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I don't believe that someone loves, problems, caos, everything that is bad. I don't even mix myself with People who are talking something bad now. Before I didn't care about such things. But now, afrer I got to know God 🙏, I don't want someone in my home gosiping, fake and all things that is bad. I prefer to be alone, because I'm in Peace now and I don't want to destroy it. It took me a lots of work to be where I'm now. 🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌
I have experienced narcissist abuse and greed and problems that these disfunctional people can do against you they hate us unbelievable how sick and unrespectful these people really are so twisted and unfeeling people who just used me for my money and my storage unit but I had to change my own bank account and storage unit lock and key because of Unscrupulous person was taking advantage of me and betrayed my trust I should be grateful for what was left for me in my storage unit!
Well my BPD girlfriend tried her best to steal my car, and get a gangster to extort me, so I opened a case of theft against her, she went crying that she didn't want to go to jail.
oh and just wanted to say when the self sabotage happened in my case my ex ran around to her family members question what a guy like me wanted with her. This was primarily because Like many of the guys she tended to desire I did not try to rush things. Over time I found out how bad this got and because I was totally opposite to guys who would jump into the sack with her in days she started cheating in a few months of meeting her in 2019 what became 5 years of INCREDIBLE narcisisstic lies deceit and manipulations of every kind...it was and has been torture.
7:10 There is a very thin line between healthy independence and a narcissist trying to reject that he may need help...or even if he takes help or is dependent , they cant accept that and they will try to undermine or downplay it or even hate the actual helper...
Inshallah... Will get you out of having any deadlines... But honestly I believe if God wants me to get something done.It will get done... I also believe judgments are the route to Most Evil.If somebody didn't do something if you don't go into thinking that the rotten about it , maybe they're not.. After all , you're still looking to blame someone
My husband threatens me for divorce but doesn't do anything about it. Now when i took a stand for myself hes completely quiet. Does he want me to stay or leave? Its so confusing
My mother does the same thing. All bark and no bite! They want to control you and those threats are to get you to fall back in line. When YOU move forward even if it's what they've raged about and verbally abused you with, they can't handle it and they crumble. Often, and this may be more with covert Narcs [my mother] may switch the rage, become the victim, and then act like they don't understand why you are growing, moving, and getting ahead. I make it a point to make sure I am successful and move forward and my goal is to get out and go no contact! I've got the FLAG! 😆
My friend has continued to hold on to her boyfriend. She thinks she can get through to him. She knows who he is but she can't leave him. He love bombs her every time.
The Narcissist in my life is my immediate neighbour. I went no contact over 18 months ago. I have a very good relationship with my other neighbours, until, a couple of weeks ago, a neighbour completely, without reason known to me, turned against me. That neighbour has started watching me, he's a Security fella at a major supermarket, today, he went out of his way to let me know he was there, fortunately, one of my friends was with me. Is this a smear campaign ? Is he a Flying Monkey? I'm finding recent events intimidating, I'm feeling very shaken.
My ex narc is facing 2 felony charges😂😂😂 off his own foolish behavior. Running a red light while having a suspended license and then they found cocaine on him😂😂😂😂😂. He has no car, lives with his parents, and has no job or money. This all happened after I stuck to ignoring him.
My narcissist spouse vspoiled my life b'coz of his extra marital affairs with other women. No confession no realization no guilty no regret. Can't explain what is he. I had never been thought nd this was never in my imagination.
The great lengths they will go to just to get attention, especially from those of us who want to escape the horror. One person told me their daughter got attacked. I saw the text but didn't respond immediately because I was out. A few minutes later, "Oh! They threw the puppy out the window as well". Something didn't sit right with me and so I waited a few days to ask him how his daughter was doing. His response was, "She okay". That was a lie! My other experience was with my now deceased Narc paternal vessel. His Mother, my grandmother told me, "Your Dad feet is getting bad" and my response was "Fuck His Feet" 😂😂 That man who was supposed to protect me out his hands, feet and words on me my entire young life into adulthood. And to think I would care about his feet, the very feet that kicked me when I was a child. He passed by a drug O'D on his kitchen floor for about a day or so and the paramedics had to break the window, climb and to retrieve his body.
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Spot on Danish. Narcisists are their own biggest enemies. Everything they touch turns into ash. Thank you 🙏
Their self sabotage efforts are crazy. Totally warped :( Never learning from previous mistakes.
Never
Truly..
They are relentless and not happy if it's not chaos of their own making...
I find it to be super funny the way they are entitled. They are so childish.Damn!
Yes , they gossiping a lot , always put other people down
I know a couple of them. They constantly have friends but they never last for long. They'll start talking about them after a short time.
That became the biggest tell for me too. All the sudden they were nastily gossiping about neighbors and strangers and their friends. Eventually the attitude came for me in the form of so-called constructive criticism really being barely veiled DESTRUCTIVE criticism in a covert way. I finally bailed. (I'm talking about a friendship or sibling situationship I escaped, not a romantic one when I mention this)
All of their jokes are put downs.
Absolutely! They LOVE gossip...gives them a lot of supply and a chance to feel happy in another's misery...
@@Chukowski-g6qbeing passive aggressive while being insecure and toxic… When I’m the one getting the last laugh😂
Deep down they’re miserable….too true 😮
Listening to you is like a breath of fresh air, a wave of assurance that we can all heal from our narcissistic trauma and tendencies.
Isolation, shame, addictions, depression and most of them are fail.
My Narcissist husband destroyed our marriage. C'mon: it's not that hard to be nice, and be a loving husband and father. That's all I wanted. I didn't even want money. But he destroyed me, I left, the kids were in a broken home, and he is praying, "Why me God?" God didn't do this to you. YOU did this to you.
Same, they are demons..He didn't destroy you. You are here for a reason ❤
Same. Now, he wants to leave bible verse and encouragement messages for me that I don't need from him anymore.
Someone without empathy cannot simply be nice. It doesn't benefit them
@@reneegardner2286To feel empathy, you have to feel love. They cannot feel love.
Are you sure you’re not telling my story? How are these narcissists so the same?! Sometimes I wonder if we are all pre-programmed
I remember when I would leave my house because my ex would look or act like he was going to Rage. I would go over one of my friends house. My ex would always tell me something was going on at my house to try and get me to come back home. I would never come back until I felt like I had waited long enough. I eventually was able to get him out if my house after he had punched me in my stomach. I feel so good knowing I was able to get out of that Toxic mess!!
Omg! That's awful! So happy to hear you're out of that now 🙏🩷
Glad you have learned to stop fueling and enabling abusers and sharing your bed with them. Once you have narc babies it goes to a entirely new level.
I am proud of you I am gone through a lot now I get out from him and I have a better life.
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Danish you are looking sharp.😊😊😊
This is exactly what I told my narcissist in my last text. He'll continue to self sabotage with his own entitled thinking.
My ex narc actually told me, "I am not going to let you be right!" 😳
That line really 'Sums It Up'....
That's just me holding me narc mother to-account for adopting the same attitude towards me.
My mother finally killed everything I felt for her. She died in a home alone. I never sat by her bed. She hated me.
In my experience, 💯☯️ Karma ☯️ * definitely has everybody's address*
So true. You must hold yourself strong as they try to drag you down. Especially hsps, empaths etc. Get good help always. Ask for higher help to keep you clear of their wake.
karma sits with my mother everyday in the nursing home she went to on her own because she has not one person she could call except me but i cant help her because she destroyed everything in my life so she has no ammunition left game over
Everytime I read the titel of your video I immediately like 😂 ❤
Me too!! 😁😂🙌......❤️🕯️Danish!
Same here! 🙂
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True! If they are NOT creating their own chaos..they possibly are scared that people will find out their conniving ways when things are calm and may allow people peace of mind to sit and analyse how things are being handled by the narcissist
I will light a candle in the RUclips chapel for the continued success of Tousi TV.
I wish I had the knowledge I have about narcissists 5 years ago! This man did not only destroy my life but the life on my daughter as well! I never in my life thought someone can destroy other people while being so self centered and not caring about what those people have to face just to continue breathing. The hate I carry within me is the worst I have ever experienced or even heard of!
Danish, I pray YOU are well. You help so many others. I hope YOU are healing too! Thank you for your great seminars and work!
5:17 this is me but i am not a narcissist but this really happened to me due to my narc family who tried their best to sabotage my career.
Narcissists self destruct but they still lack empathy- so messed up
Danish I'm so sorry you went through so much!! Thank you for helping people!!
Thats why they're so angry in old age and no one there for them. He abandoned our child with medical condition and i told him to look very much forward to our child doing same to him in old age. Narcs burn bridges especially with their children
My narcissist husband left 2yr back when son was 8 month old. Last 2 year he not asking about son or paying single penny for us. He broke me completely. God is with us. God bless you
I have dealt with jealousy all my life. This demon warkock gyallis I fell in love with is by far the worst case as he sent spells to end me,but he loves me. 😂 Having a jealous mate is grotesque. Thank you Danish. ❤️
My mother did #7. All. The. Time. About me. I was so horrible. I was always doing something. I was such a bully. The thing is. I was a bully. But we know today that bullies...are bullied. And she bullied me. And when I would call her out on it, and all the ways she was cruel to me, she would shout me down as being to problem. And at every chance would tell the rest of the family how 'horrible' I was. One year her cousin got very close to the truth and she blew up saying she didn't know what was wrong with me and that she didn't feel good and ended the conversation.
Same here as a fellow dude with my Mom! Nothing like seeing them turn on the CROCODILE TEARS when you call them out, predictably followed by them smear campaigning you with your so-called EX-SIBLINGS... I got rid of all 3 of mine (or was discarded by, depending on which specific one) once the mask came off
I'm so sorry you were treated this way.
My mom used to put me down to people - right in front of my face. Some would go along with it.
We are definitely survivors.🏆
Same. She rage baited me every day and called me a bully when I snapped.
Narcs have an insatiable hunger for attention, and they love being on stage where everyone can see and admire them. Narcs love making announcements and keeping people informed of news events. They are harbingers of particularly bad news and enjoy making announcements about sad events such as obituaries and funerals in order to mobilize , impress and gain full attention of their audience.
This is SO true!
I remember my narcissistic Mom made a huge deal of her young nephew's death and was sobbing and talking on the phone with everyone who picked up her calls. Even the nephew's own mother ( my Mom's younger sister) was calm, composed and far more graceful after the loss of her own son.
I was feeling such second hand embarrassment as I watched my Mom create a scene...
There is a toxic person (possible narcissist) owning my fave roleplay (Writing) site. I always noticed this person had a click. Only talking to the high ranks and or best of the best roleplayers. And or, they also have been kicking out ppl from the staff. I noticed they are ones who are sweet and empathetic like me, but don't deal with toxic crap anymore. So I see a pattern. And those ppl who left staff said this person got mad at me and my friend in staff chat for us naming our kids in roleplay after our friend who passed away this past year. (This person was also friends with them. And she said she would do some memorial for em, but hasnt.) This toxic person has attacked me lately for no reason a couple time, trying to seem "nice" but is passive aggressive and I can read it in their text. They are also attacking those slyly in text from who left staff. I'm waiting until she self sabotaged herself and I'm having fun still and ignoring her tactics. I've seen many red flags and so have others. I'm making ppl aware of this person in private to be careful.
Everything is random with them. Nothing pre-planned works with them. Just to create a panic situation.
Extremely Disturbing 😢😢
Tell you what, i told all the elders about my sister and they all noticed the same things. We were not gossiping, we were making observations. We understand why she is the way she is, but we do not play those games on this side of the family. We all are aware of what is happening. We can protect ourselves and each other from these passive aggressive attacks and delusions of grandeur.
Coverts
They really self destruct They are afraid of abandonment and yet can't look after a relationship because they are so busy putting their partner down and bullying thst person that what they fear most happens and yet blame the other person say that person is sick and when that person stands up for themselves they will end the relationship They never learn Do the same thing over and over
I got my fingers burned over and over by that as I didn't see it at the time. They don't want their friends having a life separate from them so they sabotage their other interests and friendships by devaluing them and if that doesn't work they try other means such as 'surprise' tickets to an evening event or a 'surprise' weekend away.
Even if they are non narcs they learn narcissistic ways from the television which promotes narcissistic ways of conducting family relationships and friendships, working and treating everything as a competition even baking a cake. That's because most journalists and producers and some playwrights working in television are narcissists. So those people act like narcissists too. I see soap and crime drama addicts turn into full blown narcissists and then become normal again when they stop watching them. I like to tell people they need to take a break from TV for one week now and then except for the odd old film or nature programme.
We used to get that break from television every July when we went on holiday for a week in the caravan as we only had radios in it not a television set. Often when I took a break from a soap I was addicted to watching as I went on holiday or the soap went off air during a two week long sports tournament I then come back and realise the soap was rubbish.
Danish, you are amazing…. Thank you!
Danish, thanks for these videos. I'm learning so much about how to cope with exactly the kind of relationship you describe so accurately.
A narcissist family is like a tower of Babel. Zero cooperation, constant ruining the others efforts and setting each others up, blame shifting. Narcissist parents will happily side up with spontaneous strangers to blame their child for anything that looks wrong. Zero integrity, regularly allowing strangers in the home to do the child harm and say "you two are always fighting/arguing". Ie child gets thrown to the wolves, then be labeled as a troublemaker.
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Private boarding schools set children up to be competitive academically, in sports, and so on. They can't have a hobby when not asleep, at meals, in the classes or at prep. They have to have a skill or talent instead that they can represent the school at. So if they take up painting it's only if they are so good at it they can exhibit the paintings at an inter school art exhibition. Private day schools as well but at least then you aren't being monitored 24/7 as you go home each day.
Narcissist को Life में हर Relationship में इतने अच्छे लोग मिलते हैं Partners, Children, Relatives और भी लोग, लगता है Universe उसके Favour में काम करता है, पता नहीं क्यूं ? 🙏
It's God's last chance to save their soul...but the narc rejects everyone and his ticket to hell is approved
So true they are so lucky nothing goes wrong for them and just walk all over people literally get away with murder.
I agree. It’s karmic luck maybe but they misuing every relation by taking advantage spoils their future
Crocodile tears. I've learned the hard way he can wipe his own fake filthy tears.
This is my uncle. He is like a super narcissists. A 50 Yr old man who gossips and backbites everyone even his own nephew and neices. Puts everyone down but praises only himself. He is petty, vindictive, two faced and manipulative. He gets happy when other people do badly on life but gets depressed when people do well. After years of this evil behaviour he is now in severe depression, his business has failed because he thought he was so clever and never learnt from his mistakes, his health failed because he thought he was smarter then the doctors, so he didn't take his medication and ended up worse. His marriage has failed, his relationships with everyone else has failed. Its actually sad to see him like this, even though I know if I was in the Same situation he would be laughing at me
Well explained 🙏🏻
You have a gift to explain it , its very clear ....
They are their own worst enemy, how's that gonna work you're in a relationship with them, probably not in anyone's favour really, he is (sorry kitties) my favorite dumb animal!
Wow finally made your billboard, thanks, yup, it's all good! 👌😇👍
Uhh yes! So competitive! It's no fun playing any games with them. My mother loves to rub in how much of a loser I am.
I keep feeling sorry for her, though. It's annoying. I can't go back!!!
I don't want to see anything bad happen to her. I just want her to leave me alone.
I had a friend many years ago. I think she could of been a narc too. I thought we were close. We shared a lot. I shared too much. And then she turned it all against me when I needed a break from her. It was just a week 😅 I was busy working at that time. She got so angry. Insane.
Omg I lauged at the end there. They have no idea what it's like to be a victim.
I think I went through this 😩.
By the way omg your haircut and facial hair look soooo good
This is deep and accurate.
Every day, I felt like I was competing with him. Like the things he would accomplish in his day. It's so exhausting. Not anymore.
I experienced this from the earliest conversations with my ex Narcississt girlfriend. How do I know she said to me " are you competative" when she realised I had achived certain things. Overtime I saw in everything she had to do or have something better than me. She even projected this to her friends and family and was called out by her son who reminded here she was not responsible for something she was boasting she was responsible for.
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I don't believe that someone loves, problems, caos, everything that is bad. I don't even mix myself with People who are talking something bad now. Before I didn't care about such things. But now, afrer I got to know God 🙏, I don't want someone in my home gosiping, fake and all things that is bad. I prefer to be alone, because I'm in Peace now and I don't want to destroy it. It took me a lots of work to be where I'm now. 🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌
I have experienced narcissist abuse and greed and problems that these disfunctional people can do against you they hate us unbelievable how sick and unrespectful these people really are so twisted and unfeeling people who just used me for my money and my storage unit but I had to change my own bank account and storage unit lock and key because of Unscrupulous person was taking advantage of me and betrayed my trust I should be grateful for what was left for me in my storage unit!
Lol he always said 'youre gonna be my karma' but cheated and treated me wrong until i really was. His choice. Weird foreshadowing.
Narcissistic will be failure
Well my BPD girlfriend tried her best to steal my car, and get a gangster to extort me, so I opened a case of theft against her, she went crying that she didn't want to go to jail.
@@geoffreybester7953 stay away from bpd women, they are the sidekick to the narc.
oh and just wanted to say when the self sabotage happened in my case my ex ran around to her family members question what a guy like me wanted with her. This was primarily because Like many of the guys she tended to desire I did not try to rush things. Over time I found out how bad this got and because I was totally opposite to guys who would jump into the sack with her in days she started cheating in a few months of meeting her in 2019 what became 5 years of INCREDIBLE narcisisstic lies deceit and manipulations of every kind...it was and has been torture.
7:10 There is a very thin line between healthy independence and a narcissist trying to reject that he may need help...or even if he takes help or is dependent , they cant accept that and they will try to undermine or downplay it or even hate the actual helper...
Off topic but I really love your shirt
do these ppl ever be honest with anyopne in their life?
No
No ,.honesty,s not be expected by a narccistist , they cannot be honest
Nope. They’re f’n nuts
Never.
They lie to themselves to begin with and then create (or try to create) situations that support those lies...
Inshallah... Will get you out of having any deadlines... But honestly I believe if God wants me to get something done.It will get done...
I also believe judgments are the route to Most Evil.If somebody didn't do something if you don't go into thinking that the rotten about it , maybe they're not.. After all , you're still looking to blame someone
Very useful.
My friend" tell him again".
karma is waving to my f*** ex and his new supply!
My husband threatens me for divorce but doesn't do anything about it. Now when i took a stand for myself hes completely quiet. Does he want me to stay or leave? Its so confusing
My mother does the same thing. All bark and no bite! They want to control you and those threats are to get you to fall back in line.
When YOU move forward even if it's what they've raged about and verbally abused you with, they can't handle it and they crumble. Often, and this may be more with covert Narcs [my mother] may switch the rage, become the victim, and then act like they don't understand why you are growing, moving, and getting ahead.
I make it a point to make sure I am successful and move forward and my goal is to get out and go no contact! I've got the FLAG! 😆
That’s because he knows you should divorce him and he’s seeing if your going to divorce him. Don’t respond!
Same here
Love yourself more than in a controlling and confusing relationship!!! It doesn't get better!!
@@MegaRose1958 realising tht...
Put addiction on top of that with enabling parents.
My narcissist father in law lost an eye after I told him that karma is a mirror and after he tried to put me and his own son, my husband, in jail.
Love from India
My friend has continued to hold on to her boyfriend. She thinks she can get through to him. She knows who he is but she can't leave him. He love bombs her every time.
The Narcissist in my life is my immediate neighbour. I went no contact over 18 months ago. I have a very good relationship with my other neighbours, until, a couple of weeks ago, a neighbour completely, without reason known to me, turned against me. That neighbour has started watching me, he's a Security fella at a major supermarket, today, he went out of his way to let me know he was there, fortunately, one of my friends was with me. Is this a smear campaign ? Is he a Flying Monkey? I'm finding recent events intimidating, I'm feeling very shaken.
My ex narc is facing 2 felony charges😂😂😂 off his own foolish behavior. Running a red light while having a suspended license and then they found cocaine on him😂😂😂😂😂. He has no car, lives with his parents, and has no job or money. This all happened after I stuck to ignoring him.
The room filled with people 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🙌
Narcissists thou 😂😂😂
Pushed in to isolation,
What is it when you are a victim of?
I am waiting that day and my dreams come true of his karma and may Allah 🙏🏻 do justice with me.
the narc can be introvert ??
yes
Yes
Oh yeah. Those are the really scary ones.
Covert Narcissists
introvert covert narcists are i think even more evil
Sir, please give subtitle also
You can press the little box on the video with the cc in it for subs 🙂 hope this helps.
My narcissist spouse vspoiled my life b'coz of his extra marital affairs with other women. No confession no realization no guilty no regret. Can't explain what is he. I had never been thought nd this was never in my imagination.
What are some strategies you've used to safeguard your health. If you don't mind sharing I'd be grateful to know.
The great lengths they will go to just to get attention, especially from those of us who want to escape the horror.
One person told me their daughter got attacked. I saw the text but didn't respond immediately because I was out. A few minutes later, "Oh! They threw the puppy out the window as well".
Something didn't sit right with me and so I waited a few days to ask him how his daughter was doing. His response was, "She okay".
That was a lie!
My other experience was with my now deceased Narc paternal vessel. His Mother, my grandmother told me, "Your Dad feet is getting bad" and my response was "Fuck His Feet" 😂😂
That man who was supposed to protect me out his hands, feet and words on me my entire young life into adulthood. And to think I would care about his feet, the very feet that kicked me when I was a child.
He passed by a drug O'D on his kitchen floor for about a day or so and the paramedics had to break the window, climb and to retrieve his body.
wowwww thank you
Danish ❤🙏 brother if we tells a narsist that he or she is evil and worst and satan .....does it give attention supply to a narsist as well
😂SOOOO TRUE
Danish bro if we show narsist the mirror....is it also a feed supply for them
Hello Danish..
I tried to buy one of your healing courses but the currency is in USD..
Is there any way I could pay on INR..
Yes absolutely. which course were you trying to buy?
@@narcabusecoach Reclaim Yourself After Being Raised by Narcissistic Parents
@@narcabusecoach Reclaim yourself after being raised by narcissistic parents
Reclaim Yourself After Being Raised By Narcissistic Parents
@@narcabusecoach How do I buy it..
Respect or fear l?
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Shout when speak?
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Stay single.
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LLIES
I su** 😂😂😂