Freedom to sleep YES. How about Freedom to take a long bath. They will not let you self care and rush you out of the bathroom and eating. Never again. I love being alone and single again.
I will never forget the night that I found out my narcissist was cheating after him gaslighting me for over a year and a half that night I slept so peacefully because I finally knew what was going on although in the back of my mind for months, I knew I was able to sleep peacefully for a change
My narc mom always wanted to do #2 when I'm in the tub. I could wait all day, the minute I get in there, here she comes. When I didn't want to speak to her I'd pull the shower curtain. 🚿🧖🏿♀️@@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
I have been married 30 years to a Monster. You have helped me so much to validate my feelings and getting my voice back and knowing it's not all my fault. So sorry that you had to go through this x2. You are an amazing man and a inspiration to all of us.
I couldn't say it any better, God is healing me through this man than any other channel, I thank God for him, I'm so grateful, I love listening to him, he always speaks right to my soul 🙏 ❤
The hardest time of my life right now; grieving separate narcissists, and choosing to not only fight for my children, but for myself. Slowly building my worth and self esteem back up again, which have been crushed. Thank you so much for what you do and giving us hope and strength.
Im sorry to hear that. Im going through 2 myself and its so hard sometimes. One of them i thought was my biggest fan but she was my biggest oppressor 😢
I cannot thank you enough for turning around your own pain to help us here! We all benefit greatly on a daily basis from your empathy, compassion, advice, validation, and firsthand knowledge and experience as well as your professional expertise! I have unsubscribed from all other narcissistic abuse recovery professionals on RUclips and now only listen to you, because of your authenticity in speaking truth about this subject! We're all so grateful that you help us so much everyday and help us to reverse the gaslighting/brainwashing traumatic effects from them!! 😊❤
I could not have said it better. His tremendous empathy and selflessness, despite what he was put through is admirable and inspirational . I'm always so grateful for poeple like Danish
Misery loves company. I carry on living my life without them in it and as a single mom my home is quiet and peaceful and the only noise are that of my children running around and playing in a toxic free environment. Freedom!❤
I am so happy for you. You deserve all the happier that comes to you. When you children grow up, they will forever remember how kind their mother is and how much you've done for them. I have left my husband 19 month ago and filed the divorce last month. I still cried myself in bed from time to time but I know only time will heal. I know I don't grieve for him anymore, what I grieve for was a man who can treat me nice. I am now looking forward for my divorce to be finalised on Jan 2025. Counting my days. I don't think I will ever meet anyone again because I have finally find my peace and happiness once again and I am not will to have it ruined by another man anytime soon. I can't live without happiness but I can live without a MAN for sure
I have been married to a evil Monster it is like living with the devil Never said he Loved me from the Day I married him he has physical and mentality abused Me 3 weeks after l married this Man l have tried and tried to Love him.. and all he does is ignore Me Like l am not Even here takes off when every he wants sometimes for days comes back like Nothing happened and nice to me for a day or 2 then back swearing at me at Me .. he has Broken my Heart in two and l tell him and he doesn't EVEN CARE When I do try to say this Has to Stop he puts ear plugs in or takes off out the door... l am So Full of Sadness and So Alone in this marriage Cry most days l Look in the Sky ask the Good Lord Why Me !!
Can’t wait to be totally free. Just served the Narc papers but stuck in our mini mansion until we can sell. With our kids. It is hell on earth. One day at a time!!
Or, get a complete and full understanding of the condition. If you take the time to do that, you will be dodging bullets like Neo in the Matrix. And no, it ain't here listening to a bunch of whining.
Danish, you are the best at teaching us and giving us the tools we need in order to be who we are born to be and who we were before the narcs abusive games and depressive life we slipped into due to the constant disrespect and chaos we been subjected to. Through your pain Danish, you have used it to rise above all those tender years of narcissistic abuse and have risen above that. Now you are an authority on this subject through what was intended to break you, has made y ou stronge and wise to help all of us to rise above what the enemy intended for our harm, God turned it for our good. Thank you!
Learning to let go, taking accountability for the part I played, stop looking at their social media, connecting with other victims, learning about narcissism, and sticking with the facts helped me! I know who he is now and capable of and he can’t play with me anymore.
Recognize and understand the importance of not dwelling once recovery begins. Learn, make time to heal, cry, don't dwell..Positive living is priority- Find the God , Pray 🙏.
Dwelling for me is not emotional. It is the thoughts that try to fix it. I can't stop it but I can ask the universe to allow me to express my feelings that are underlying it. I do dwell in the feelings until something new sparks ;itself with inspiration...
Thank you Danish. When it comes to self love, one of the things I do for myself is affirmations. I want to share one of the best self love affirmations I ever heard. “I completely and unconditionally love, accept, and approve of myself just as I am.” May we all heal and be fully recovered one day. ☮️☮️☮️
This explains why now that he is gone I am desperate to get rid of all his stuff and clean my home. The overwhelming chaos and destruction he created is challenging, but I keep telling myself, I remember what my home looked like before he came into the picture. I see it in my head. All I need to do is get rid of everything that doesn't match that picture. It makes it easier to clean up the mess, one step at the time, and every time I get that one thing done, I feel better and better, even though it's not where I would like it to be yet. One day it will be, a step at a time.
Have you made any progress? Mine slipped back in while I was redoing my bedroom floor. I have him blocked again, I cleaned out my carport of all his junk and threw away every single thing that even slightly reminds me of him. I still haven't finished my bedroom floor. It's been close to a month.
This has been one of the most peaceful and insightful videos about healing feom narcissistic abuse I saw on the internet. Thanks, Danish. I will save this to go back to whenever I need to. ❤
It's a sin to neglect yourself and not love yourself enough. Never too late to start over again. When your eyes have been opened you will realise paradise is all around you.Take advantage of every moment you have.
I want to thank you for the help your videos have given me. I have listened to several people talk about recovery from narcissistic abuse, but you really seem to be just talking to me, like there is no one else listening. What you said about hyper vigilance really resonated with me, the feeling of always walking on egg shells, never knowing when the next explosion will happen, watching every word you say and still saying the wrong thing. I got yelled at once for having no affect. I can assure you if I’d had one it would have been wrong. Thank you for giving me some peace.
I have been sharing your videos with a friend who is still embroiled with her toxic husband after nearly 40 years of abuse. She has 4 kids who are all their own version of their dad. The problem for her is - she is trapped with nowhere to go. Here in Australia there is a housing crisis, so even if she had the money, (she doesn’t) there’s literally nowhere to go. She did try for a year staying with friends (2 different places) and those people were also dysfunctional homes. She lives in a semi-rural area so there’s no help she can readily access. It’s so sad to see how financially, mentally spiritually, physically and emotionally broken she is. 😢 At least your videos (and others like it) have been helping her start the journey away from them all.
You are right Danish...very clear and true what you say about healing after being with a narc demon full of evil and toxicity..feel all the pain you have been going through with the narc and welcome whatever is coming to you with curiosity to let everything surface and show what it has to tell you and let it guide you in your life to move like an endless river floating with new life...the water in the river is running and passing you every moment but there is still an intact river...I am also Danish but that is my nationality...the big challenge for me is having an almost seven year old daughter living 10.000 km away from me with the narc monster mother totally out of normal reach and self-control. I have gone no contact with the narc mother but are doing my best to keep in contact with my daughter via the mobile and guiding her with love, sinserity and respect as a pendant to her mothers sick and insane bs...its a tough job
It's so hard especially when you are the caretaker of your narrssist mother. It's drained me mentally , emotionally and now physically. I just lock myself in my room to get some type of peace. But these videos do sure help ❤ thank you
I am a Christian so I've defeated my Narcissistic Drunken Client w/dementia. She goes off into alcoholic narcissistic rages and I just leave letting her pound on the door. I tell he the truth and the rage comes out. Lucky she has dementia so forgets but wow, my mom was a narcissist but this is 100%x more venomous. What she hates is short answers, 1-2 words then I set boundaries. Since I know who GOD is, he is the truth manifested in the Bible, it irks her bigtime. Had to separate from my narcissistic Mom but this family is so toxic, it blows my mind. And my Mom is dangerous, physically, so we had to cut it off. You really know what you talk Danish, I learn so much from you. You are the best about Narcissism on RUclips, so sorry you endured all you did. I finally, thru getting saved, forgave my mom and never want to see her again. I feel like I escaped a house fire.
Thank you so much Danish... It is so important that we get back our individuality after the years of trauma... The more we hear such messages it will help us to learn self love...
I left and let then think they still had a chance up until I got my next check, then blocked them. I know he's going insane wanting to get to me but really my money. Sorry Charlie 😅once i learned thats all you've ever really cared about, i was on my way out. Now that I've been gone only a month I feel better already ❤😊
This is so hard when you have children. They don’t understand narcissism, so they still think years later, that it was just two people that didn’t get along. I give up trying to explain. Though they KNOW their father is a bit of a monster. But it’s hard when they still throw junk in your face that was caused by the narc, but they don’t see it. So, it keeps you having to deal with that monster many years later, with grown children… and the narc father is arrogant and carries himself like sone kind of small g god. They feel they must worship him. I’m the parent to put down, because daddy does. It’s just evil and awful, and it inhibits complete healing. I am healed, but it gets dredged up. When I try to explain, they rage. Honestly, they act like him at times and that’s scary. I carry it alone. I don’t want to go no contact from my children and grand children. What a mess…
From my experience with my son and his very ill narc dad, was that to take the high road and let them experience their dad as he is will result in their finally separating from him ..usually telling him off in the teen years. As long as I fought or engaged in defending against his chaos, the longer my son was loyal to him. My lawyer was right ... there will come a day when the kid will tell dad to f. Off. Live ur best life as if he is a non-entity and powerless.
@@thereallisa1-thanks. I’m 71. I’ve been waiting for them to see it like it is. They sort of do, but still daddy can do no wrong. He didn’t do it to them, so they don’t get it. Even though they KNOW stuff he’s done. They have been groomed to believe he’s wonderful. I have to realize that it is what it is. I just go to my room when stupid stuff starts happening. No matter how it’s explained, they do not get it. So silence and I go to my room.
It is genetic. It is not your fault. This situation will further have you examine your ability to give genuine love with boundaries to guard your heart and soul. It is a most difficult and painful challenge. Peace and love from a fellow survivor and parent.
Your voice and videos are just like a Therapy and its helping me to move out from a worst relationship with a narcissist He showed me hell every single day of my life Thank you Danish
I want to be free. I am joining your class on August 31st and am so looking forward to it and start my healing. I know it will take a long time because he abused me since I was 23 and am now 66. My children are gone and I hope they one day believe what a monster he is and not me being the monster in their eyes . I am going to start the proceeding to divorce him again. After the last few weeks and what he put me through I realize I can't do it anymore. I want to be free from my constant worrying of how he is going to hurt me at any moment. No more. This session has really shown me I must leave or live dead in my body until God takes me. I deserve everything you just spoke about. Thank you Danish for showing me the courage to move on. I can't wait to let all this anger inside me go and to be peaceful inside.
True…again ! I display self love and compassion , set boundaries and pursue my hobbies,so that it gives me strength and confidence to stand up for myself ,then , after the separation , I went No Contact, I gave myself the space to be safe and the time to socialize.
U know what I never knew abt narcissm but when I saw your videos I understood that my husband is a narssicst.i saw your videos and started working on him by giving silent treatment and identified the triggers and behaviours very well. And tried to work on it.i stopped giving him any reason for the triggers .tried to be quiet and not give him supply.earlier I used to cry shout abuse and get angry But after watching your videos I was able to take control of the situation.and his mask fell he disclosed himself his collapse begun.he felt no place to hide so he started drinking a lot and tried to commit suicide in the drunk state.but he was saved luckily.then finally he realised what harm he is doing to me and my son and his friends n family.so he asked forgiveness from all and started a new life he stopped alcohol and started praying namaz and now he is very sober n kind.he got strength with sura e baqarrah quran recitation.he is a new person now.Allah has cured him after a lot of dua I did for him. I wish good luck to all those who r suffering and thank you Danish for your videos they r so helpful may Allah bless you.
@@orianam9835 This is a fake account, probably one of the 50,000 funded by the Islamophobic Indian govt. to pose as Muslims and write false posts. Because Muslims are not allowed to drink alcohol. Or even think of suicide. Suicide is a crime as big as murder, one of the MAJOR sins in Islam.
Just found your channel today. Luvin' it! You don't sugar coat the reality of what narcissism really is. I was catfished by my ASPD, NPD, HPD live in narc. He did me a favor by abandoning me for the new supply and moving out of state. Only problem is, he didn't really leave. He and his flying monkeys have been gang stalking me since his departure July 2021. If you haven't spoken about this aspect, could you? People need to be aware of this common scare/harrassment/punishment tactic. Mine also is an identity thief, scammer, fraudster, alcoholic, meth addict and possibly a sex offender that has been trying to unalive me for years. I'm embroiled with him from a legal investigation standpoint even though I've no contact and have him and his blocked. It's a real treat. I've been manifesting his arrest by the FBI specifically because he's a cross-state offender. (I found out he got arrested a week before his birthday this year for OWI...lmao! Happy Birthday Butthead!! 🤣 🤣🤣
Thanks so much I have stray with my narcissist husband for 28years now it wasn't easy but u have made me to have more skill, God helping me with all these sense in me,h e is now a little bit tired
After distancing and no contact, I'm slowly finding my "tribe". It feels so good. Your message -all of them help me understand what is normal. I cannot begin to tell you how that in particular has eased my anxiety. Please keep up the great work.
Amazing.. Its so great to hear these points! I am actually living the points you mention..and the ways to freedom are slowly revealing themselves to me... As i give myself time and a lot of ways to heal...art, evening walks, good music...all those things that i loved but took them from granted
I had to move back with my X due to poor. Health your video was And she. Is eating me up alive Your video is Extremely helpful ,Thank you so much , God bless you...
So thankful of this video. I already block all their contacts, but my living environment, the neighbors, is still filled with narcissists. I found watching this video gave me strength and courage to move out of this toxic environment. Thank you so much ❤❤❤
I love you man. Your are the only one that can understand fully what is means to live with that monster. I hope I can be free one day, unfortunately it's not possible yet :(
It feels so good to hear someone say this stuff bc I felt so bad for so long like I was this hardcore person to not put up with anything , but life does get better TYSM
Danish, I LOVE your videos! Thank you for your invaluable help. I think you will be saving so many people from goiing through hell. I'm sorry that you went through so much and no one was there for you and thank you for being there for all of us ❤❤
Thank you for helping me with your videos it’s been hard to deal with my covert narcissist. I’ve literally had my life ruined and I’m a shell of what I use to be.
Thank you, Danish, you are right. I can see your point. I'm so glad I found your channel. May God bless you for helping many people. Please keep up the good work. ❤🙏🏻❤
Thank you sir it's really true in my past 14 years experience with a narcissist family I have learned all what you r saying...but believe me it's really difficult and time taking process to come out from his grip specifically if married and kids also because your immunity is sucked and now he has a new source in the form of kids. ....I am still finding the way to save me and my kids completely.
You're speaking right to my soul, everything you said I am going through, just listening to you and feeling understood heard and seen means the world to me, thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks very much danish,very insightful sharing.this narcissistic abuse is very compress,but with your sharing u make every step to recovery alot easier.thanks very much once again
Thank you🙏🥰🌺your videos have helped me a lot 🙏🥰🌺was so traumatized still healing, I want justice, I haven’t seen him , he’s out doing more crime getting away with it God has put total strangers in my life giving me compliments in the same areas the narc try to brainwash me😭
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Freedom to sleep. Freedom to, just, be. Priceless.
Sleep depravity is a favorite narc weapon
My favorite part of this
Freedom to sleep YES.
How about Freedom to take a long bath. They will not let you self care and rush you out of the bathroom and eating. Never again. I love being alone and single again.
I will never forget the night that I found out my narcissist was cheating after him gaslighting me for over a year and a half that night I slept so peacefully because I finally knew what was going on although in the back of my mind for months, I knew I was able to sleep peacefully for a change
My narc mom always wanted to do #2 when I'm in the tub. I could wait all day, the minute I get in there, here she comes. When I didn't want to speak to her I'd pull the shower curtain. 🚿🧖🏿♀️@@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
The best teachers, the wisest and most compassionate are the ones who have been through hell and back all alone....😢
I have been married 30 years to a Monster. You have helped me so much to validate my feelings and getting my voice back and knowing it's not all my fault. So sorry that you had to go through this x2. You are an amazing man and a inspiration to all of us.
You are so compassionate. Your videos are calm and more reassuring than any channel. Thank you ❤
I agree a professional and victim such good information it doesn’t come from books only.
I've been watching many channels on this subject for 18 months. On my own for 9 months now. Your videos are truly helpful and comforting.
I couldn't say it any better, God is healing me through this man than any other channel, I thank God for him, I'm so grateful, I love listening to him, he always speaks right to my soul 🙏 ❤
@Mary-yc8vh you may like narcology unscripted as well.
@@thereallisa1 thank you so much 🙏 I'll check him out ♥️
The hardest time of my life right now; grieving separate narcissists, and choosing to not only fight for my children, but for myself. Slowly building my worth and self esteem back up again, which have been crushed. Thank you so much for what you do and giving us hope and strength.
You can do it 🫂 ❤ sooner it’ll be my turn
@@Mimi-rs9cr Thank you so much for your kind words, I also send you 🫂❤ 🙏
Im sorry to hear that. Im going through 2 myself and its so hard sometimes. One of them i thought was my biggest fan but she was my biggest oppressor 😢
Same situation here.
❤🎉🕊️🙏💪
I cannot thank you enough for turning around your own pain to help us here! We all benefit greatly on a daily basis from your empathy, compassion, advice, validation, and firsthand knowledge and experience as well as your professional expertise! I have unsubscribed from all other narcissistic abuse recovery professionals on RUclips and now only listen to you, because of your authenticity in speaking truth about this subject! We're all so grateful that you help us so much everyday and help us to reverse the gaslighting/brainwashing traumatic effects from them!! 😊❤
I could not have said it better. His tremendous empathy and selflessness, despite what he was put through is admirable and inspirational . I'm always so grateful for poeple like Danish
Beyond his professionalism , does anyone notice how handsome and radiant is this guy?!
He's beautiful INSIDE and OUTSIDE :)
But if we see him he look like a narcissist
@@Rishika25254not to me
Uh oh. Listen to the voice the message
@@kshas3what do you mean?
Misery loves company. I carry on living my life without them in it and as a single mom my home is quiet and peaceful and the only noise are that of my children running around and playing in a toxic free environment. Freedom!❤
How do you coparent ?
I am so happy for you. You deserve all the happier that comes to you. When you children grow up, they will forever remember how kind their mother is and how much you've done for them. I have left my husband 19 month ago and filed the divorce last month. I still cried myself in bed from time to time but I know only time will heal. I know I don't grieve for him anymore, what I grieve for was a man who can treat me nice. I am now looking forward for my divorce to be finalised on Jan 2025. Counting my days. I don't think I will ever meet anyone again because I have finally find my peace and happiness once again and I am not will to have it ruined by another man anytime soon. I can't live without happiness but I can live without a MAN for sure
🙏🏼 A M E N ❤
I have been married to a evil Monster it is like living with the devil Never said he Loved me from the Day I married him he has physical and mentality abused Me 3 weeks after l married this Man l have tried and tried to Love him.. and all he does is ignore Me Like l am not Even here takes off when every he wants sometimes for days comes back like Nothing happened and nice to me for a day or 2 then back swearing at me at Me .. he has Broken my Heart in two and l tell him and he doesn't EVEN CARE
When I do try to say this Has to Stop he puts ear plugs in or takes off out the door... l am So Full of Sadness and So Alone in this marriage Cry most days l Look in the Sky ask the Good Lord Why Me !!
Can’t wait to be totally free. Just served the Narc papers but stuck in our mini mansion until we can sell. With our kids. It is hell on earth. One day at a time!!
1. No contact. Disengage. Block
2. Self love
3. Safe haven. Physical space that is safe.
4. Hobbies
5. Have relationships when ready. No isolation.
Thank you 📄👏 👍🇦🇿🤝
I'm between 3 and 5, enjoying my mind feeling free
No contact with narcist but also no contact with flying monkeys around the narcist
They will get even with you if you do those things and step up their smear campaign.
Or, get a complete and full understanding of the condition. If you take the time to do that, you will be dodging bullets like Neo in the Matrix. And no, it ain't here listening to a bunch of whining.
Danish, you are the best at teaching us and giving us the tools we need in order to be who we are born to be and who we were before the narcs abusive games and depressive life we slipped into due to the constant disrespect and chaos we been subjected to.
Through your pain Danish, you have used it to rise above all those tender years of narcissistic abuse and have risen above that. Now you are an authority on this subject through what was intended to break you, has made y ou stronge and wise to help all of us to rise above what the enemy intended for our harm, God turned it for our good.
Thank you!
Learning to let go, taking accountability for the part I played, stop looking at their social media, connecting with other victims, learning about narcissism, and sticking with the facts helped me! I know who he is now and capable of and he can’t play with me anymore.
Recognize and understand the importance of not dwelling once recovery begins. Learn, make time to heal, cry, don't dwell..Positive living is priority- Find the God , Pray 🙏.
Dwelling for me is not emotional. It is the thoughts that try to fix it. I can't stop it but I can ask the universe to allow me to express my feelings that are underlying it. I do dwell in the feelings until something new sparks ;itself with inspiration...
Jesus Christ ❤
@@tailsthefox6568 Yes. "The God" IS Jesus.
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Thank you Danish. When it comes to self love, one of the things I do for myself is affirmations. I want to share one of the best self love affirmations I ever heard.
“I completely and unconditionally love, accept, and approve of myself just as I am.”
May we all heal and be fully recovered one day. ☮️☮️☮️
Wow ❤
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you
I had to do this on my own it’s the only way. Took 10 years to fix. Thank you for posting this bc I was so alone for so long.
This explains why now that he is gone I am desperate to get rid of all his stuff and clean my home. The overwhelming chaos and destruction he created is challenging, but I keep telling myself, I remember what my home looked like before he came into the picture. I see it in my head. All I need to do is get rid of everything that doesn't match that picture. It makes it easier to clean up the mess, one step at the time, and every time I get that one thing done, I feel better and better, even though it's not where I would like it to be yet. One day it will be, a step at a time.
Have you made any progress?
Mine slipped back in while I was redoing my bedroom floor. I have him blocked again, I cleaned out my carport of all his junk and threw away every single thing that even slightly reminds me of him. I still haven't finished my bedroom floor. It's been close to a month.
@verucamoon6307 i have made progress yes, but it is slow going.
This has been one of the most peaceful and insightful videos about healing feom narcissistic abuse I saw on the internet. Thanks, Danish. I will save this to go back to whenever I need to. ❤
You spoke as if you knew me. You are 100% correct
You are someone you has turned a horror story into some positive (helping us).
True, boundaries are not meant to change others' behavior. They will not. Boundaries are for us.
100 Thumbs up 👍
It's a sin to neglect yourself and not love yourself enough. Never too late to start over again. When your eyes have been opened you will realise paradise is all around you.Take advantage of every moment you have.
You're Absolutely Right. It's tough to focus on that when you got a NARCASSIST sibling that constantly competes with you. At least for me it is
Its really soothing to hear you
Thank you, Danish. This is really healthy and helpful. 🙏❤
Thank you for brilliant insights and advice Danish.
I want to thank you for the help your videos have given me. I have listened to several people talk about recovery from narcissistic abuse, but you really seem to be just talking to me, like there is no one else listening. What you said about hyper vigilance really resonated with me, the feeling of always walking on egg shells, never knowing when the next explosion will happen, watching every word you say and still saying the wrong thing. I got yelled at once for having no affect. I can assure you if I’d had one it would have been wrong. Thank you for giving me some peace.
I have been sharing your videos with a friend who is still embroiled with her toxic husband after nearly 40 years of abuse. She has 4 kids who are all their own version of their dad.
The problem for her is - she is trapped with nowhere to go. Here in Australia there is a housing crisis, so even if she had the money, (she doesn’t) there’s literally nowhere to go. She did try for a year staying with friends (2 different places) and those people were also dysfunctional homes. She lives in a semi-rural area so there’s no help she can readily access.
It’s so sad to see how financially, mentally spiritually, physically and emotionally broken she is. 😢 At least your videos (and others like it) have been helping her start the journey away from them all.
Such a valuable diagnostic....
You are right Danish...very clear and true what you say about healing after being with a narc demon full of evil and toxicity..feel all the pain you have been going through with the narc and welcome whatever is coming to you with curiosity to let everything surface and show what it has to tell you and let it guide you in your life to move like an endless river floating with new life...the water in the river is running and passing you every moment but there is still an intact river...I am also Danish but that is my nationality...the big challenge for me is having an almost seven year old daughter living 10.000 km away from me with the narc monster mother totally out of normal reach and self-control. I have gone no contact with the narc mother but are doing my best to keep in contact with my daughter via the mobile and guiding her with love, sinserity and respect as a pendant to her mothers sick and insane bs...its a tough job
It's so hard especially when you are the caretaker of your narrssist mother. It's drained me mentally , emotionally and now physically. I just lock myself in my room to get some type of peace. But these videos do sure help ❤ thank you
you give priceless information the worst kind is the ones who have the closest connection to you, such a a family member.
I am a Christian so I've defeated my Narcissistic Drunken Client w/dementia. She goes off into alcoholic narcissistic rages and I just leave letting her pound on the door. I tell he the truth and the rage comes out. Lucky she has dementia so forgets but wow, my mom was a narcissist but this is 100%x more venomous. What she hates is short answers, 1-2 words then I set boundaries. Since I know who GOD is, he is the truth manifested in the Bible, it irks her bigtime. Had to separate from my narcissistic Mom but this family is so toxic, it blows my mind. And my Mom is dangerous, physically, so we had to cut it off. You really know what you talk Danish, I learn so much from you. You are the best about Narcissism on RUclips, so sorry you endured all you did. I finally, thru getting saved, forgave my mom and never want to see her again. I feel like I escaped a house fire.
I realised I was listening to you word to word… every word felt like an experience.. because I know what they meant
Thank you so much Danish...
It is so important that we get back our individuality after the years of trauma...
The more we hear such messages it will help us to learn self love...
I left and let then think they still had a chance up until I got my next check, then blocked them. I know he's going insane wanting to get to me but really my money. Sorry Charlie 😅once i learned thats all you've ever really cared about, i was on my way out. Now that I've been gone only a month I feel better already ❤😊
You go girl! 🎉
This is so hard when you have children. They don’t understand narcissism, so they still think years later, that it was just two people that didn’t get along. I give up trying to explain. Though they KNOW their father is a bit of a monster. But it’s hard when they still throw junk in your face that was caused by the narc, but they don’t see it. So, it keeps you having to deal with that monster many years later, with grown children… and the narc father is arrogant and carries himself like sone kind of small g god. They feel they must worship him. I’m the parent to put down, because daddy does. It’s just evil and awful, and it inhibits complete healing. I am healed, but it gets dredged up. When I try to explain, they rage. Honestly, they act like him at times and that’s scary. I carry it alone. I don’t want to go no contact from my children and grand children. What a mess…
From my experience with my son and his very ill narc dad, was that to take the high road and let them experience their dad as he is will result in their finally separating from him ..usually telling him off in the teen years.
As long as I fought or engaged in defending against his chaos, the longer my son was loyal to him. My lawyer was right ... there will come a day when the kid will tell dad to f. Off. Live ur best life as if he is a non-entity and powerless.
@@thereallisa1-thanks. I’m 71. I’ve been waiting for them to see it like it is. They sort of do, but still daddy can do no wrong. He didn’t do it to them, so they don’t get it. Even though they KNOW stuff he’s done. They have been groomed to believe he’s wonderful. I have to realize that it is what it is. I just go to my room when stupid stuff starts happening. No matter how it’s explained, they do not get it. So silence and I go to my room.
@@bluebird3014 I am only 10 years younger. It sounds like you do a really great thing for yourself by exiting when things get hectic. It's not easy.
@@bluebird3014it’s ok to take extended breaks from them as well. Go do something you like travel pick up a hobby.
It is genetic. It is not your fault. This situation will further have you examine your ability to give genuine love with boundaries to guard your heart and soul. It is a most difficult and painful challenge. Peace and love from a fellow survivor and parent.
If you are living with a tiger, can you relax? NO. ❤
This is beautiful.
More like a Demon or mental patient.
Yes it feels peaceful not having the anxiety and stress from a narcissist. Im dating a very patient nice guy, with no rush
Your voice and videos are just like a Therapy and its helping me to move out from a worst relationship with a narcissist
He showed me hell every single day of my life
Thank you Danish
I want to be free. I am joining your class on August 31st and am so looking forward to it and start my healing. I know it will take a long time because he abused me since I was 23 and am now 66. My children are gone and I hope they one day believe what a monster he is and not me being the monster in their eyes . I am going to start the proceeding to divorce him again. After the last few weeks and what he put me through I realize I can't do it anymore. I want to be free from my constant worrying of how he is going to hurt me at any
moment. No more. This session has really shown me I must leave or live dead in my body until God takes me. I deserve everything you just spoke about. Thank you Danish for showing me the courage to move on. I can't wait to let all this anger inside me go and to be peaceful inside.
You are so good, calm and authentic. Thank for helping us ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for telling me how to protect my self from a narcissistic abuse you are absolutely right thank you Amen
Wonderful words Sir. Thank You sincerely.
True…again !
I display self love and compassion , set boundaries and pursue my hobbies,so that it gives me strength and confidence to stand up for myself ,then , after the separation , I went No Contact, I gave myself the space to be safe and the time to socialize.
U know what I never knew abt narcissm but when I saw your videos I understood that my husband is a narssicst.i saw your videos and started working on him by giving silent treatment and identified the triggers and behaviours very well. And tried to work on it.i stopped giving him any reason for the triggers .tried to be quiet and not give him supply.earlier I used to cry shout abuse and get angry
But after watching your videos I was able to take control of the situation.and his mask fell he disclosed himself his collapse begun.he felt no place to hide so he started drinking a lot and tried to commit suicide in the drunk state.but he was saved luckily.then finally he realised what harm he is doing to me and my son and his friends n family.so he asked forgiveness from all and started a new life he stopped alcohol and started praying namaz and now he is very sober n kind.he got strength with sura e baqarrah quran recitation.he is a new person now.Allah has cured him after a lot of dua I did for him.
I wish good luck to all those who r suffering and thank you Danish for your videos they r so helpful may Allah bless you.
Narcisists do not heal but maybe he worked on himself. Very well
@@orianam9835 This is a fake account, probably one of the 50,000 funded by the Islamophobic Indian govt. to pose as Muslims and write false posts.
Because Muslims are not allowed to drink alcohol. Or even think of suicide. Suicide is a crime as big as murder, one of the MAJOR sins in Islam.
Just found your channel today. Luvin' it! You don't sugar coat the reality of what narcissism really is. I was catfished by my ASPD, NPD, HPD live in narc. He did me a favor by abandoning me for the new supply and moving out of state. Only problem is, he didn't really leave. He and his flying monkeys have been gang stalking me since his departure July 2021. If you haven't spoken about this aspect, could you? People need to be aware of this common scare/harrassment/punishment tactic.
Mine also is an identity thief, scammer, fraudster, alcoholic, meth addict and possibly a sex offender that has been trying to unalive me for years. I'm embroiled with him from a legal investigation standpoint even though I've no contact and have him and his blocked. It's a real treat. I've been manifesting his arrest by the FBI specifically because he's a cross-state offender. (I found out he got arrested a week before his birthday this year for OWI...lmao! Happy Birthday Butthead!! 🤣
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Thanks so much I have stray with my narcissist husband for 28years now it wasn't easy but u have made me to have more skill, God helping me with all these sense in me,h e is now a little bit tired
I have been isolating myself for years. You are right Danish
Danish I have started watching your videos just three days ago,but believe me,these helped me a lot.
Thank you. You're empathy is healing.
Your*
Thank you so much...I need this video so much😊
I agree. It works when one lives alone.
After distancing and no contact, I'm slowly finding my "tribe". It feels so good. Your message -all of them help me understand what is normal. I cannot begin to tell you how that in particular has eased my anxiety. Please keep up the great work.
Thank you😊 The healing has begun & will continue.
Amazing..
Its so great to hear these points!
I am actually living the points you mention..and the ways to freedom are slowly revealing themselves to me...
As i give myself time and a lot of ways to heal...art, evening walks, good music...all those things that i loved but took them from granted
Yes, true. I agree with everything you said. Thank you for brilliant advice.
I had to move back with my X due to poor. Health your video was And she. Is eating me up alive Your video is Extremely helpful ,Thank you so much , God bless you...
Thank you so much, yes I am discovering my spiritual purpose with God now!✨ ❤️🩹🙏🩷🌟
So thankful of this video. I already block all their contacts, but my living environment, the neighbors, is still filled with narcissists. I found watching this video gave me strength and courage to move out of this toxic environment. Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Thank u 🙏
You are such a big help!!!
Thank you !
your content is golden. thank you so much!!!
Thank you Danish! Thank you so much 👍
Perfect, once again. Thank you, Danish!😊
I love you man. Your are the only one that can understand fully what is means to live with that monster. I hope I can be free one day, unfortunately it's not possible yet :(
It feels so good to hear someone say this stuff bc I felt so bad for so long like I was this hardcore person to not put up with anything , but life does get better TYSM
Amazing!! Thank You ❤
Thank you for all your hard work on helping us, your one of the best
❤ Thx for your every word.
LOL... *"Don't jump into the Dating Pool! For it's just a Pool of 🦈🦈🦈!"* You got that right, Danish!! 😁👍
Danish, I LOVE your videos! Thank you for your invaluable help. I think you will be saving so many people from goiing through hell. I'm sorry that you went through so much and no one was there for you and thank you for being there for all of us ❤❤
Thank you for helping me with your videos it’s been hard to deal with my covert narcissist. I’ve literally had my life ruined and I’m a shell of what I use to be.
Very good, Danish. Nice video. Perfectly said.
Thank you for being here. 🙏❤️
Thank you for this
Thank you for giving me this life saving Blueprint today …🙏🏻
Just what I needed ….
Me too! 🙂💯👏👏❤️
We have a bright future without them, we can do this.
@@roguequeen6323 Yes, we can do this 💪🏻 Peace be with you !
@@jangunning1676 😊❤️
@@roguequeen6323 Yes, we can do this indeed 💪🏻 Peace be with you !
God bless you Dan !
Yes love your videos ❤
Thank you, Danish, you are right. I can see your point. I'm so glad I found your channel. May God bless you for helping many people. Please keep up the good work. ❤🙏🏻❤
This is so true. Thank you🙏🏽
Thank you so much Danish this is helping
Thank you sir it's really true in my past 14 years experience with a narcissist family I have learned all what you r saying...but believe me it's really difficult and time taking process to come out from his grip specifically if married and kids also because your immunity is sucked and now he has a new source in the form of kids. ....I am still finding the way to save me and my kids completely.
I love you Danish!! You are such a beautiful human being. Your help to all of us is priceless. 😊🙏❤️👋
Thank you. ❤
Danish your videos is a big help for me.. Thank you❤
Thank u so much Danish
👏👏👏You said it!....Hats off to you....Sir🥰
You're speaking right to my soul, everything you said I am going through, just listening to you and feeling understood heard and seen means the world to me, thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks very much danish,very insightful sharing.this narcissistic abuse is very compress,but with your sharing u make every step to recovery alot easier.thanks very much once again
Very interesting informative helpful and insightful
Thanks for your kind guidance
Thank you🙏🥰🌺your videos have helped me a lot 🙏🥰🌺was so traumatized still healing, I want justice, I haven’t seen him , he’s out doing more crime getting away with it
God has put total strangers in my life giving me compliments in the same areas the narc try to brainwash me😭
Bashir, you are so ON POINT TODAY, once again…you have to be God Sent. Amazing work and thank you so, so much.
Your videos are amazing Thabk you for the hope and the light in the tunnel ❤
Just loved it ❤️ ♥️
This one is soooooooo great. Thank you.
Thank you for all of your teachings. I am learning and I am enlightened. Keep up the good work! I am healing in Jesus mighty name!
You are such a blessing! Thank you so much for this video. It is the best you’ve done! One of the best!
A beautiful person, inside and out 🙏💗
Gosh you are so spot on! 🙏
Freedom to be just you what wonderful counsel Danish this is, I will pass this information on as I do always, thank you so very much!!!!
Thankyou so so much for all your valuable suggestions,thanks a lot!