He’ll Propose 💍 ONLY if She Changes Her Attitude! II Steve Harvey
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Janice has been in relationship with her "man friend" for 11-years. She wants to marry him, but he's unwilling to pop the question until she changes her attitude! #steveharvey
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Leave him! I dated someone for 10 years I left him because he didn’t want to get married. I found some else who wanted to get married!
Good problem solved!
You did Best solution. For me 2 years the maximum timetable if the relationship is not moving to marrying throw him in the pond and leave him for good.😅
Steve definitely right. Change your address and find a man who will commit, and not play games with you. But someone who will value you and your heart.
lol if a woman don’t want an attitude from a man women will tell her she’s right and leave him, but even if she’s the one with an attitude it’s amazing watching women still try to find a way to make it not her fault 😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 if I am wrong I own up to it. Remember we should never place all women and all men in a group with those who are hurtful to others and those not willing to commit and only out to play games with a person's heart.
@Harley_Vampy_Sis_Quinn yet you demonized the men in your comment. Men have a right to want a wife who doesn't have an attitude. Men are allowed to have preferences.
@@Harley_Vampy_Sis_Quinnlook at the other comments from the women. They are completely demonizing the man even tho she is the one with the attitude. Men need to call this sisterhood bias out. Stop the double standards.
@@hawaiianrussian1047 right. It's a double standard from the sisterhood.
For the Lady with "attitude" problem. Her man is playing around and gaslighting her, which is making her question herself. Poor lady, if I were her, show him some attitude by packing up and closing the door behind him and wave goodbye. Best of luck sweetheart. You deserve better Everytime. ❤ 🙏
No man is worth waiting 11 years for, lady. WALK ON.
I've waited 15yrs
3kids 2 miscarriages 2 abortions
Still no ring 💍 he says we r a family already 😢😢😢
@@rayyola awesome that man is a legend
@@wutang23361for destroying another humans life? you need to go check yourself
@@ImOnAJourney hmmm I wonder why they always make sure that the man is never their to say his side in all of these clips 🤔😏
@@rayyola
Oh, girl! I’m so sorry you’ve gone through all of that horrible stuff. ALL of it.
As for the guy … walk, no - run! He’s just using your vagina, and that’s all he wants. It’s not a credit card reader! Shut him down.
Show him that you've changed your attitude towards him.
11 years of wasting time when you don't like her attitude? Pure manipulation tactic
Second lady looks like Marjorie, that’s why Steve is all in with his advice! 😂
😂😂😂 True!!!
Yes, yes I felt the same. She looks so like Marjorie. No wonder he wanted to find her a man
Exactlyyyyyy😅
We don't live with her so we can't conclude that there's nothing wrong with her attitude but if a man can live with you for 11years then your attitude isn't the problem.
Stop trying to blame everything on the men. Grow up. If she has an attitude problem, then she has an attitude problem. No ifs ands or buts. The sisterhood is always trying to shame men into marriage without knowing all of the facts. Stop trying to tell men when to propose.
@@mrbrave29he still with her tho lol compare to what the other said you make no sense
@@mrbrave29 women are on a biological clock unlike the men. Just keeping them around when you don't have plans for them, not being truthful with them or when you guys don't want the same thing isn't fair.
@nyamheria I make excellent sense. The sisterhood blames everything on the men.
@mrbrave29 No one in their right mind lives in the same house and is in a relationship with someone who has had an attitude problem for 11 years.
↪️Maybe she does have an attitude but He's been liking it for 11 years straight🤦🏾♀️
Move out, he's wasting your time
↪️"As a matter of fact I got 2 guys for you!" He made her day right there 😊
If he had an attitude you girls would be telling her to leave him. Thr sisterhood has a bias against men and it's very obvious. You justify her having an attitude and disrespecting him but if he was disrespectful you would tell her to leave him. How bias can you be? Men need to call out this sisterhood biad.
@@ForMySoulSistas you girls blame everything on men 24/7 and its sad. Actually he's the one that deserves better. You girls justify her having an attitude but would not support him having an attitude. Why the double standards and bias against him?
@mrbrave29 trust me, it's not every woman in this "sisterhood". Attitude either way isn't good. I'm surprised he's still with her if her Attitude sucks. He probably should of left YEARS ago. If he already knew she wasn't wife material, he shouldn't be wasting his time. And for the woman, waiting 11 years for engagement is ridiculous too. I don't know how they have been together this long. None if it makes sense. Your right though, with some women, there are double standards. Which is total BS. A relationship takes 2. Both should be held accountable. Disrespect shouldn't be allowed, period.
@@ForMySoulSistas I wonder why the man is never there in any of these clips to say his side ?! 🤔 wouldn’t the first thing women would say is “ I wonder what she has to say about you?! 😡🤬” if the roles were reversed?! 🤔🤔😏
Dont live together before you're married.
Thank you
Change that address baby !❤❤❤Beautiful Queen ! How can any woman not adore Steve Harvey? ♥️ 💙 ❤️
You live with a man you ain't married to for 11years, giving him everything that a wife is supposed to give and you're waiting around for him to propose?? What for?
You want him to spend money on something his already getting for free?
So how is the man never in any of these clips able to say his side ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂
Second lady looked like Marjorey low-key
She said “my man friend”. That should’ve been her first clue.
I was going steady for two years. At the time he told me four times that later on we will get married. He also wanted me to give him my car and go to a bank for a loan for another car. He also wanted me to sell my house so we could use the money. For a year he never brought up marriage. With his attitude I seen how much he charges in restaurant and stores. Then he couldn't figure out where his money went. He is around 70. I just had to let him go.
11 years?????? After 2 years of not being proposed to, I am leaving.
Same here
One year....maybe. One year and a half. No more. Guys know if they want to marry you or not. The rest is a game. Looking for better options until the next woman comes along. That's how one year goes into the next year.....and the next year......and the next year. No Thanks!!!
@@iellelamore9252 exactly my point. Within a year to two at the latest. The rest r all games. Men are simple. They know what they want.
@@vanessanessa7168 Yes!!!! 👍
I wanted to see the options
Me too
And..... she's still there with him 😂😂😂😂
Yea! She needs to change her attitude on how she sees herself and move on… he doesn’t want her!
@@M.Carter2 probably a good reason why he ain’t putting a ring on her finger 😬😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047Only boys behave like that. Men make a decision and it doesn’t take over a decade. That’s the most ridiculous 💩.
Never force someone to change their attitude. Either accept her or dump her.
Steve said exactly what I was thinking. If you issue an ultimatum, you have to stand on business! Mine KNOW I will leave. Got my ring 🥰 and above his "budget" too. Took me on vacation just to go ring shopping. Said all that so no woman settles. I'm not a unicorn.
Sad, she has wasted 11 years. Time she will never get back. Wish he was there so we can see how dusty he is. 😆
lol it is amazing the way women view ultimatums given towards men as compared to men giving them ultimatums😏😬😂 and hmmm I’ve noticed in all of these clips they always make sure that the man is NEVER their to say his side…interesting 🤔🤔😏😬
How is literally every single clip a grown ass woman complaining about her other half on national television and how is the husband / boyfriend never there in any of his clips to say his side ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂
I needed this today! I was about to crumble but this has given me strength.
The last girl to be introduced to some men kinda looks like Marjorie
Steve you are the man!
Instead of asking her about what bad attitude she has and helping her to work on it, he is telling her other wise. Even if she leaves and go to another man with that assumed attitude, she will be kept for another 11 years without ring.
Bro but if the guy thinks she has a bad attitude why is he still hanging around her? Shesnot his wife. He can leave.
@@piak78 thank you! 11 years of « boyfriend/malefriend » at their age is insane.
Lady #1 Hold On!!!! AND YOU’RE STILL WITH HIM
🙄🙄🙄
You don’t see that this man doesn’t want to marry you.
STEVE SPOKE THE TRUTH ON THIS EXCEPT…..she’s not the woman of his dreams; that’s WHY he’s stringing her along
Honestly hopefully he leaves her after this clip lol I definitely would 😬😂
She needs to change her attitude
🤣🤣
Facts
Facts. Its obvious
No she really needs to change the guy 😂. A womans attitude wont stop him from marrying her if hes in love with her. Even if she has an attitude of a jungle cat he will still marty her.rrst are all bull excuses
@@piak78 a man with sense & standards wouldn’t marry a woman with an attitude unless he came tame her
Steve always caping if a man says change your attitude it isn’t a game he’s deadass she look like she has a attitude problem
But that's not her being herself. She's just not the one for him.
@@tinker2217 maybe she is tho she just need to fix her attitude always room for change no relationship is perfect you know
@tinker2217 what if being herself is being a twat
@@uncleshannon1756if her attitude was so bad why was he with her for 11 years! Men will waste time because it benefits them. She’s probably cooking, cleaning and paying bills whilst that bum gets to play king of the castle for free. She needs to leave. She’s been conned for long enough
Doing wifey duties and you're the girlfriend,change your attitude but you living with me for 11yrs. Waste of life,no?🤔
Shr look just like his wife the young version! 4:42
He will not marry her until his options dry up and women aren't checking for him anymore. No need to ask, I already know she's dealing with a noncommittal BM.
How is saying that theres nothing wrong with her when he doesn't even know her
That's to Broad of statement with no details. Plus we ALL have an attitude. Silly Rabbit😂❤😂
The confidence of lady move steps beyond rather waiting... think, decide, move on...
Profound words
Finally
❤❤❤❤❤ i told you this guy is unik.....my Man 😢😢 be blessed Steve Harvey ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
At this big age, really? If you don't know what to do now, well I digress. Wow!
She looks like Steve's wife ❤
Honey he needs to change his attitude 😅
True
Hey, it's the Predator!
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Yes u do need to
She could pass for majorie sister
Steve loves to pander. Steve's gonna leave ya'll singel as hell😂😂😂😂😂
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Better than being with a bum that will make you a girlfriend for 11 years. Men are delusional to think being with that is better than being single 😩
People never change for u or me!
Ure not what he wants if he wants u to change!
He is dodging and weaving
You got 1/2 2 yrs tops. After that, no proposal, you out!
I still wish Melissa could play the game and win the money
Forget the one with the attitude....check out the lady with the mic...yes I've seen her before.
Wow 🙌 that was super cool 😎
woman #1
if she isn't giving you sex, you aren't giving what she likes.
if he isn't proposing to you, you aren't giving what he likes.
Steve is right on her walking away
but wrong in assuming that there is nothing wrong with her attitude
they will be stuck in that princess syndrome that they can never do wrong
Why Not ask her few important questions like:
What attitude is he talking about? Give me an example?
When did he first used the phrase "change your attitude" in the 11 years of relationship?
Why do you think he hasn't left you with your bad attitude?
Do you think you have a bad attitude.
I believe listening to her answer these questions will give you an insight to her problem. Based on her answers, you could genuinely help her.
Like my grandma always said "you can drop that which is in your hand but not that which is in your blood (meaning personality, behavior, or attitude)".
Asking her to leave wasn't the best answer in my opinion.
11 years with a « boyfriend/malefriend » at their age is just insane!!! Too grown to play home.
I want you to introduce me to someone too Steve 😢
Palavras sábias ❤
Uncle STEVE👏👏👏🩵🩵🩵
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Don’t listen to Steve.
Let him go
He deserves better. You girls openly support her having an attitude and disrespecting him. Also, you girls file for divorce 80 percent of the time but want to shame men into marriage? How about stop supporting no fault divorce.
Are these new?
He told you what to do.. Change your freaking attitude. But, I wonder what made him deal with it this long? We only know one side of the story. Question is, where is your nan ?
Yeah! Get gone.
That's dumb advice. Not everything is some game or mind game we be playing
Sho U Rite, Steve ❤👌🏽👏🏽👍🏽✌🏽👊🏽
How can u think she deserves better Steve u don't even know his side
🤔 Don’t meet Steve friends and employees remember Shirley Strawberry 🍓 Letters 23
This is not the radio show where Shirley works
Hi Steve, I am your big fan and would like to meet you, if I would be privileged to attend one of your shows, but unaware of the logistics how to do that as it would be my first live show I would attend, both here or in India
Please guide me to the process owner so I can get there soooon
Is it wrong for a woman to propose to a man? 🤔
She doesn't have many options.
Why didn't Steve offer to set the first lady up with someone?
Cuz hes full of shite
….because if you haven’t caught on yet this show is clearly scripted mam and geared towards middle aged feminist women lol
Steve a bamma stop giving up info
Steve got this all wrong, a guy won’t tell you to change your attitude unless it was valid, and before anyone says “he spent 11years her attitude isint that bad” well if he isint getting 🐱 anywhere else he’ll stay and waste her time👍🏿
Please answer this question? Why are you asking Steve Harvey? He's not an expert on relationships or marriage. Check into God's word then follow your heart.
for advice on what to do, God never talk to us if we ask for his advice and sometimes God give cryptic messages and what we need is immediate answer to th problem we have.
@@krishazydellesinodlay1948 And you think immediate advice come from a person like Steve Harvey? The best human advice could most likely come from a parent. But most definitely God's word has never failed us. Despite how you feel about God and His word.
That was hands down some of the worst advice I have ever heard. He's basically saying that a man should love her bad attitude. Bad attitudes lead to bad behaviors, bad behaviors lead to bad personalities. I noticed that he didn't ask her what the attitude problem was, but after a 2 minute conversation, he says, she's a nice lady. How the hell does he know? Her man asked 1 thing of her, and she doesn't want to. How lazy, inconsiderate, and narcissistic of her. He deserves better.
He’s saying that the dude is making stuff about about the bad attitude as an excuse. Which seems very plausible, because if he attitude was so bad, why would he be happy living with her for 11 years?
The thing is. For women a marriage is safety. If thing goes bad you don't walk away with nothing. For a man, not so much. Especially if the man owns and earns significantly more than the woman. Marriage is scary.
I don’t agree with Steve on the first part. She needs to listen to her man and improve her attitude.
You know Steve is smart and I’ve said this before! He knows majority of his fans are women! So he will say anything that women want to hear! No matter what! Even if sometimes it’s clear a woman is the one on the wrong he will stand on women side😂… listen! I can’t speak for all men out there but for me personally if I tell you to change your attitude if you want me to marry you and you refuse, then well I won’t marry you…. So essentially what the woman is saying is “I can’t change my attitude and you have to marry me with attitude”😂😂😂😂 I expected this kind of mindset for these kids born in 2000s not her!
I agree, actually, but the man should be brave enough to be specific and tell her what he doesn't like. What about her attitude his grating his nerves? Then, if she doesn't change her attitude, he should end it - not stay and waste her time.
@@MsCrissell I agree as well about wasting each other’s time, but come on you really believe her man hasn’t told her the specific issue for 11 years?. I think she knows exactly what’s wrong with her attitude and she refused to change, and she’s out searching for validation for her actions… she want people to tell her there’s nothing that she did wrong. In my experience if someone truly loves you they will change for you(both genders). If you ask someone to change a behavior that’s bothering you and they don’t then that’s means they don’t love you and they don’t think you are worth them changing for. So yeah! Her man is wasting her time and his own time. And also if someone won’t tell her to change and she won’t change! She’ll go to another man and that other guy will also tell her to change and she’ll end up alone. We all have things that we think are okay but to other’s aren’t. Therefore we’re obliged to work on this things.
Instead of changing her location, can you please tell her to try changing her attitude?
Secondly, woman with bad attitude may also be good at other things, therefore keeping her around is obvious. Women, get it.
Then he’s just using her. He doesn’t love or want the person she is.
That’s the problem
Women have options
Steve just added fuel to those options
Sad
I love how these Women take advice from a Comedian? What has he done to turn him into a 'Sage' on Relationships? And the same goes for every TV host specifically the daytime one's. 😮😂😅
She's old so starting over is foolish. She should be happy just to be in a committed relationship
NO
So she should leave?@@MaRiAm936
He’s telling her not to change her attitude and to leave that guy! So what will happen is once she goes to another guy the other guy will also notice the attitude and he’ll tell her to change it! 😂😂 He knows if he keeps her to her place and tell her fix her attitude not only her but majority of women will be mad and he knows majority of his fanbase are women 😂 so he’ll loose the show 😂😂😂
I absolutely love when Steve tells the hard truths.🩷🩵💙💜
Some of y’all women really need to stop rushing or think you can rush and push a man into marriage. Ladies JUST leave him. BUT ONCE AGAIN STOP RUSHING FOR MARRIAGE (69WAYS2LEARN)