Boyfriend BREAKS HER DOWN, But She Won't Leave I Steve Harvey
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
- She feels trapped in her 12-year relationship with her boyfriend. She wants to leave him, but the thought of her kids growing up in a single parent household is holding her back.
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"Kids would rather be from a broken home, rather than to live in a broken home" : Steve Harvey.
AMEN
My kids have said the same thing. My husband has been verbally and mentally abusive for years and we separated last October. They’ve said I’m happier now than before.
A broken home isn't the one without both parents I grew up without both my parents just my mom my aunt and my mom's best friend helped each other raise me from birth until now I'm 28 married with kids of my own and I can tell you one thing there was nothing broken about my upbringing❤
I like that, Steve my man
facts. facts.
Staying teaches your children that it’s normal to be unhappy & to undervalue yourself. Having 2 happy homes is better than having 1 dysfunctional, unhappy home.
Those women were so supportive great advice I was that kid wished my mom left😢
I always think it’s pretty funny how the men that’s apparently so horrible are never here on the show to say their side of the story?! 🤔🤔🤔😏😬😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047yeah,I get what you're saying,&&,I low-key agree!💯
@@andreajones886 just shocked that no one else in the comments seems to point that pretty obvious and glaring fact lol
@@hawaiianrussian1047because no one wants to hear the excuses and lies from the men. Period!
@@DivaRemy oh you mean the way women love hearing the lies and excuses from other women?! 🤔😏😂
I knew my first marriage wasn't it at 3 years. At 8 years I knew I wanted out. Stayed 15 years for the sake of the kids. When I decided enough was enough, the kids said this...."Mama, being married is no different than being divorced". My kids saw no difference because he was never around any way. My resolve to make the best life for my children became stronger, made us stronger as we grew closer to God.
I hope she finds the strength to leave this man.
sometimes the BREAK-UP is the BLESSING!!!!!🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣💯
Took me almost 10 years to realize this myself, now being a single mom of 2 its hard but been the best thing for me tho. I was in a unhappy marriage and a abusive one at that. My kids have been alot better off also as well I can tell they feel relaxed
Y’all both were abusive and separated so good 😊😏😬😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 What you are you laughing at? That's a dick thing to do.
I was that kid as well. I even begged my mother to leave my dad, i was barely 10. The day she left was honestly was one of best days of my life! I was so sick of seing my mother sad and cry all the time. I learned a lot from observing my parents' relationship, especially what to NOT tolerate from a man. And one thing about me darling, I will leave!
Yes ladies. Don't lose yourself in a relationship. Because it takes awhile to find yourself again after it's over.
Steve gives the best advice. As a man who's been thru divorce, he's the first to admit he wasn't the husband he should have been. This is not just the man's fault in the relationship. We force ourselves to stay and struggle and be the martyr, when in truth we are showing our kids that we don't value ourselves by accepting being treated any kind of way. Trust me, I stayed. And it was a MISTAKE. And I threw away 37 years of my life. Men will always think of themselves, and women fault them for it, when WE should be doing that for ourselves.
Is it okay for the woman in the relationship to think of herself first as well?
@@PHE-nomenon what? Lol
@@PHE-nomenon ABSOLUTELY. I didn't, so I taught my kids, especially my daughters, that women who are unhappy should stay in a bad situation, because we don't matter. That's what I modeled for them.
Stormi talked about how her mom got into relationships to find love and she doesn’t want to follow those footsteps but yet she’s GETTING a divorce and already living with another man and is engaged . I think she’s following her mom’s footsteps 100% . Steve is correct “ take time to find love within yourself “
Twelve years, years too long. You need to leave. Pack and wipe the dust from your feet. Kids are smart.
…it’s pretty funny because I swear if a man DARED to do the same thing and go on national television to whine about his girlfriend of 12 years and talk about how she’s apparently so horrible to him I swear wouldn’t most women just be like “ well you chose her and still with her so she must not be that bad! 🙄” ?! 🤔🤔🤔🙄
@@hawaiianrussian1047what's your point?
@@luananana4679 oh I’ll explain easily it’s the fact that women do not keep that same “ blunt / tell it like it is “ energy towards women the same way they do with men 😊😂 anytime a man complains about his other half especially if they’ve been together for a long time women will just be like “ well your still with her so must not be that bad! 🙄 “ or “ hmm I wonder what she has to say bout you ?! “ but yet a grown woman could cry a sob story and women will believe whatever she says and give a totally different energy..that’s my point 😊😂
smart and RESILIENT
My husband & i hv been married for 11 yrs been together for 18 yrs. We hv a 5 yr old & 6 month old. I am my biggest critic & i am constantly saying i feel like i dont do enough for the newest baby, i dont pump enough, i dont make enough milk & my husband is always encouraging me. You are enough, u do enough & u make enough babe. He is the best ❤
You are so beautiful. Please dont cry 😢
Self Care And Self Love, I had to find to give that to myself.
….os she’s full of it and wants attention 🙄😂
I was in a really bad marriage for 8 years. I didn't have children with him so I really don't know why I stayed so long. It wasn't physical but it was mental and verbal. Some of my family would say it's
none of their business. I wish some would have just made it their business. It took a a real life changing event with one of my children from a previous relationship. If one of your friends are in a bad situation at least say something.
The question is why would you be a girlfriend for 12 years why didn't he marry her? Im not getting it
I bet shes happy she didn't especially if she saw the red flag in the first year
….ummmm also who is with their other half for 12 YEARS and goes on a national television show to bash him and I swear how is it somehow all the women are always in his show bashing their other halves and the man just so happens to never be their to defend themselves?!? 🤔🤔 do women just automatically believe EVERYTHING other women say whenever they victimize themselves? Lol
@@Deni4Lyfe777…..maybe…….just maybe she doing this thing called…………..lying… 😱🫢🙄😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 it's become a Tyler Perry movie on Steve Harvey 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Deni4Lyfe777now,she saw the red flags,child,but,she thought she was at a carnival!!!!!🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Thanks STEVE because this conversation is needed to all people. My Dad tried to comeback to us but dealing with my mother was the pits and we were glad when he left again. Thank God for prayers because I have always prayed a better situation and my mother died at 46yrs. I was thankful because I had peace.
If you knew he was toxxic, why have a child with him, let alone 3 children.. NOT including your son..! Theyre all unplanned? come on now!
Precisely. Like 1,2,3 kids accidentally is just insane
It's a mental trap it's easier to say than do its horrible these monster break victims down on purpose 😢
He isn’t your husband. Leave
Time to “Walk Out”!!!
Stormy need to take herself to a therapist before her life crumbles. She is still married and committing adultery. See men know these lonely women with daddy issues and take advantage of that. If her fiance loved her, he wont be with a married woman and would wait until she is divorced. I agree with Steve she needs to take some time out to love herself and find the brave stormy. Until then her life relationship decisions will not be good. I am speaking from experience. 🥰
A lot of times even if someone says something you are not ready to hear it. But when you’re heart and mind are on the same page then you can really make the move to change your situation and life. Trust God , don’t waste your life and more years. I lived it as a child and experienced with my kids father. God did and will turn something bad into good. I am a witness. Trust God, get counseling for you and your children for healing, support group or family and friends who support you. It takes a village. God bless
Run! Don't walk away !❤❤❤
I feel for her because I can't treat a woman I want to marry like that cos I was train by both parents good and she's beautiful.
THE FIRST WOMAN NOT MARRIED JUST HER BOYFRIEND OF 12 YEARS
and 2 kids with him. ridiculous.
I would never put up with that from a non husband
This video makes crying a lot because this is what I'm going through
Get out! Be strong..
Listen to Steve's words.
Thankyou Steve 💕
I love that Steve help encourage good habits for young and old adults who may not know how to do wats best. He is the best. Has he gotten a Nobel yet?!
Mungu akubariki Steve.
Two happy homes are better than one unhappy home💚💛❤
That's absolutely right Steve. Kids rather be away from this bad relationship, seeing chaos and it's only hurting the kids more
Shes a placeholder untill the right one comes in. 12 years as a girlfriend? Shes accepting it.
Stop using your kids as an excuse to stay with a rotten father. The kids are probably blaming themselves for your misery. They’ll grow up thinking they’re responsible for everyone’s happiness and believing their own feelings don’t matter.
Good point
Great advice Steeve❤
None of these women are leaving they talk a good game
Ain't gon lie nut have a great support by your side is one of the best feelings !
So true.Rest in peace to my dad,but I never remember a time my parents got along.Kids know.I wanted my parents to stay together,but as a child I think I was relieved when they no longer lived together.
Big up to our Moroccan leather poof in the decor of the studio. Thank you mister Harvey. It is just amazing❤
If that beautiful was my wife everything she should say to me I would be like "yes Queen mam boo"
Yes. Kids would rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home I grew up with both parents. I would rather not have. I kept asking my mum why she stayed, and she said it was for us. I know in that time it was common to stay for kids, but the damage is so far reaching. I really struggled with having a desire for marriage, or a desire for any relationship. My faith in God and therapy has helped me, so I am open to it now though it takes a lot to get over that fear of relationship. Being single is definitely so easy for me and I've been single for all my 38 years. Now that I have met someone from church that is interested, I have really been praying for grace to not have fear and run, but just to take time to learn him as a friend before getting into a relationship.
Im from Costa Rica and Iam going through the same situation as the first women but I dont have kids with my partner he has done me so much damage that I dont leave him or feel that I cant. And I have been with him for 8 years. 😢😢😢😢
Where can we watch the full episode, please? @SteveTVShow
↪️Sometimes you've been in a situation for so long you don't even know where the door is.
↪️"Kids rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home". I come from one and 💯agree: we hear see and feel things.
↪️For me There's no cohabitation before marriage I feel like it's the door for eternal girlfriend/fiancée title
Ummm…..↪️sometimes women will create bs stories that always revolve around making there grown ass selves victims because they know other women will just believe whatever they say and never call them out on their bs
↪️how is Steve Harvey’s show always full of grown ass women just trashing their other halves on national television and other the audience is always full of man hating incel women pandering to her lol
↪️all we have to do is switch it to a guy who DARES to go on national television and bash his other half and complain about his wife if 12 YEARS and all of a sudden watch women switch up they energy and be like “ well you chose her and am still with her so she can’t be that bad! 🙄” 🙄🙄
@@ForMySoulSistas ….yet anytime a man dares to villainize his wife all of a sudden these same women be like “ well you chose to be with her and still with her so she must not be that bad! 🙄” 🙄😬😂
I was literally about to write that down.
I've known this for a long time. Kids would rather come from a broken home than live in a broken home.
When mum finally kicked my father out of the house, me n my brother helped Mum pack his bags. It was the best move/decision mum ever made. Homes Been good sense my father hasn't been in the house.
He is a narcissistic abusive drunk.
I don't drink because of him.
If I ever become a dad, I don't want to ever put my children through what me n my brother and mum went through, i want be loving a supportive for my children. Good thing I had great mentoring.
My younger brother is a dad of 2, he doesn't drink, and loves being a dad and is loving a supportive for his kids.
Our father checked out the moment we were born. He's loss
She’s what 3-4 kids in..I feel it’s harder for a man to step to you because of us women have too many kids. I am praying for her
Girl, this man is jealous of you. Leave him.
Leave that man!
The fact that she's allowing her boyfriend to verbally abuse her is showing her children that it's ok for people to treat you like dirt
Great video Steve
Somebody needs to tell this to my Aunt
@@TherealworldofBriana u may want to watch the video with her
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1yr red flags....stayed 11 more years ....do your children a favour and leave! It's better to be alone and happy, than lonely with someone.
Great video thanks
Great advice Steve keep doing the good work that you are doing
They're always the best woman and sound like the best type of person and it's the complete opposite. They are a complete different woman in real life.
Not always. I wish my mother would have left my father. She was such a good person.
@@kornaxon3522 on most cases not all women but most.
I would like to hear his side of the story.
Leave him!!!!
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And she's damn beautiful
the second woman is clueless, in one breath she says she is chasing a man, the next she is giggling because she is too ashamed to tell Steve she is already engaged and living with the guy (while still married to another dude). Ladies educate yourself, have a stable profession before you move into a man's home. Do not live together because you are cheap or trauma bonded to men through $3x. Live together because you love each other and because you are creating a stable and safe home together. This girl needs to grow up rather than pr0$titut3 herself. Sad.
She won't leave
kid from another dude,
wants to leave but gets pregnant.....
she is obviously
crazy
You need to run!
I was in a relationship for 10 years! He didn’t want to be Married! I left him and found someone else!
You kids will be fine they will bounce back and be okay your using your kids as an excuse if you want to stay in a dysfunctional relationship because she still love him
Oh he'll no get out you need to think about your happiness your kids want you to be happy just because your not together don't mean it's a broken home smh I have seen some people who co parent so well it can be done.
The way women believe ANYTHING a grown ass woman says is hilarious 😂
@@Classy_Lady23 …so 12 years and she goes on a public talk show just to villainize her other half and victimize her grown ass self and somehow the horrible bf/husband seems to never be on the show to give his side of the story on all of Steve Harvey’s episodes ?! ?? 🤔🤔I can only imagine if the roles were reversed 😏😬😂
He’s a bad guy but you went a head and had 3 kids with him?!? Okay…
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Thank God ♥️✝️🙏🏻 in India 🇮🇳 we don’t change partners and our culture support the ladies and we love to remain as a family . Thank you Jesus Christ 🙏🏻✝️🎊
Stop living with "boyfriends" they don't love you. you're making it so convenient and difficult for both of you the temptation to sleep together and then you have children and then you get hurt because you're not making him commit if he loves you he'd marry you. Kick him to the curb. Ladies you're the one that sets the standard you're the one that sets boundaries, if he can't respect you enough to marry you, then move on.
Kids know and guess what he probably won't have a relationship with the kids anymore. Oh well I did the same thing left you will have a glorious life with your kids don't worry about him or what he does.
@@sylviab.791 ….do women just automatically believe any sad story a woman says ? 🤔🤔😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047do men automatically assume every single woman is a liar?
@@PaulaRoxana-pi3gj …when it’s a show where it’s literally the same rinse wash and repeat story of “ my husband/bf is so terrible and I’m just so innocent 🥺🥺” story in which somehow the husband / bf is never on the show to say his side …yes it’s pretty easy to call out the bs 😊😬😂
A boyfriend for 12 years.
uncle Steve is so wrong with this.
Sunk cost fallacy
Leave the loser I’m single
،i loved chines face girl dammmm
😢😢😢😢 H1 be sttong
Hi,steve.why this vidio can't transform Chinese
Thank you
...stop collecting red flags...
Steve ma man can't you see that she loves him 😂😂😂😂😂 oh ma man I need to give some lessons for this matters she's crying like a baby all the show ..... Can't you see that she is crying because she loves him and she needs a way to work it out with and you didn't tell her and she keeps going crying and crying . Steve you need a lot to learn
Her story is only one side of the story, bring the man too such that we get both sides of the story
Wait….so a woman can complain about a man that she’s with AFTER 12 YEARS and pretend that it must be so horrible even though she’s still with him?!?! And all of a sudden women will all coddle her but if a man DARES to say ANYTHING about a woman that’s HES STILL WITH then all we here from women is “ well you chose her and still with her so clearly she must not be that bad?! 🙄” ?! 🙄🙄🙄
You can tell you haven’t been through it so save it
@@jazmynfranco6538 …a bad relationship 🤔🤔ummm I kinda think most adults have been through a bad relationship 😬 and ughhh I swear whenever a man DARES to complain about his other half especially if they have been in relationship for long time and start victimizing himself don’t most women give him the “ ummm you chose her and still with her so she can’t be that bad?! “ line but if it’s a woman than all of a sudden it’s different 🤔🤔
You can’t judge by one side story!
Exactly! Let's hear the other side. While I don't condone abuse, you can't get the rely on & get the
full scoop from modern women these days. You'd be surprised!
FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE IN THIS COMMENT SECTION STATED THE OBVIOUS LOL I swear I was like “ how is the guy just so happen to never be on the show as well with all these women literally going on national television to villainize their other half?! 🤨🤨” this show def gives off scripted vibes lol
You can't Judge Period!!
@@carlashelton7682 hmmm but anytime it’s a man that is complaining about his other half I swear don’t women always say “ well let’s here what she has to say! “ but the second it’s just her complaining all of sudden it’s different huh 🙄😬😂
She wasn't bad talking him. She was saying how she felt in the relationship. That's her feeling. We dont need his side to understand her emotions.
America¡¡ Still legally married But she has another guy how is that work? Is that not a crime? She dont suppose to give advice for some one because she is not following the right way of marriege not at alllllll
12 years with a boyfriend!? YOU are the problem. LEAVE. stop making excuses to stay. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. and how do you expect him to if even you can't love you?
The Bible does not advise on how women should be treated.
Read Colossians 3:19
Ephesians 5:25-29
How a man should treat a woman
According to the Bible, God created marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and woman to raise a family, and divorce is only permitted in exceptional circumstances. In the Bible, Jesus says that God's original intent was for no one to divorce, and that Moses only permitted it as a concession to people's "hardness of heart". Jesus also says that whoever divorces their spouse, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries someone else commits adultery.
The Bible does directly address two reasons for divorce: adultery and abandonment. 1 Corinthians 7:13-15 also mentions abandonment as a reason for divorce, saying that if an unbelieving husband leaves his wife, she should not divorce him.
Some say that the Bible calls divorce a sin because it breaks the marriage covenant, which is a promise between a couple and God. However, others say that God hates divorce, not the divorced.
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5th is best
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This may not be the greatest counsel 😚 there are always two sides to a story. How would you she is doing something wrong?You can not be sure you will be content with the next man you leave. Simply figure out how to be happy for yourself in a relationship 🎉, men do not have time for women at a setting level in a relationship .
Steave i am ok that you help women but you neee also to help men they are humain. i thing you dont bealeve that only women are souffer after what you did marjorie to you .
I agree with you 100%. Men don't speak out about he abuse they go through because of shame
@@ibrahimyusuf5336yes,BOTH genders matter EQUALLY!💯
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