How would you act if one of your kids wanted to be a different gender, then seeing how badly depressed and sad they will get if you don't allow them to?
@@a.h.s5152 I would help my CHILD get the help they needed to understand the reality of their situation. We all wish something about ourselves was different. That doesn’t mean that we get surgery to change it before we even mature physically and mentally. I would give BOTH of my children everything at my disposal to help and I would accept them for exactly who they are. Just like I already do. When I was a kid it was perfectly fine to just be gay. And to figure it out on your way to adulthood, AND THEN make the big decisions. Surgery is never the answer to a mental situation. NEVER
@travisschaefer5286 I wish God would let people pick what gender they want before they are born it would make it easier on everyone, I agree about the surgeries I never did understand why men or trans woman would want to turn their big beautiful packages between their legs into vaginas that they were blessed with I will never understand that, it looks like they would wreather have more to play with instead of nothing at all.
@travisschaefer5286 I can understand the transmen wanting surgeries since they are missing things, plus female sex organs are not fun at all, all they do is cause alot of pain and suffering and cancers and can cause very painful autoimmune diseases and they cause alot of heavy bleeding, it would be more beneficial to them to have all of their reproductive organs removed like breast removed and a complete hysterectomy it would make them feel alot better and cut down on their cancer risk and they wouldn't have to hurt and bleed and be sick and miserable from it, all them uterus does is cause them alot of pain and suffering and heavy bleeding and illnesses. I never did understand why God made one set of genitals more fun than the other one, he made one that is less fun with more pain and suffer while the other one is more fun and more pleasurable, I guess someone has to suffer for the cause.
why even ask your kid if he is a boy or girl? I never asked my 2 boys if they were boys, they never asked me if they were boys. neither did my nieces or nephews. don't put shit in their heads!
How about telling the kid, "No, sweetheart, you are a girl, you will always be a girl because that's how God made you, and you are perfect, you can pretend to be a boy, and you can wish you were a boy, you can cut your hair short and play baseball and you don't have to ever wear a dress, but that doesn't mean you are a boy or will turn into a boy because that's not how things work, we love you forever and always, but you are not allowed to change your name and you are not allowed to tell people that you are a boy because mommy and daddy said so."
You realize it is a kid, right? You realize gender dysphoria can lead to suicide if not dealt with? So the parents should leave behind personal opinions and religion and focus on the science of it. And telling a child they can't change their name, isn't okay whether the kid is trans or not
@nufailanoon You do realize children have to be taught about the world around them and that you can't give them everything they want all the time because they don't know what is best for them and that's why they have parents to love them and raise them and teach them right from wrong. Gender dysphoria may exist in rare cases, but that still doesn't mean boys can become girls and girls can become boys in reality.
The children will grow out of it, as the vast majority do. Even after surgery and hormones, Trans people are 5 times more likely to commit suicide because they are still not happy when, for instance, a "transgender woman" (Man) still has no real working vagina, no ovaries, No ovum, no uterus, no naturally produced balance of female hormones, no period, no ability reproduce as a woman naturally without more surgery and artificial means. they will NEVER act like a woman, think like a woman, have a woman's brain, talk like a woman. EVERY cell in their body will STILL have the male xy chromosome in them. They will only be sad, depressed, mutilated men who will regret their decision. Most trans people who are older will tell you they regret it and counsel against it. These people need help to be happy with being the beautiful person they were born as, instead of a depressed, mutilated person.
What they wont tell you is that most children who go through this eventually grow out of it and those who transitioned before puberty are three times more likely to commit suicide.
I believe everyone are unique there are no two people exactly alike and that we were made the way we are for a reason and if we change Who We Are we will never really know what was I'll purpose here
You know how some people explain things as reincarnation feeling like they will live their life before as another person that is what this reminds me of and I have always been told that when you taken your first breath there are spirits around and that first breathe could leave you feeling like you're someone who's been here before and maybe it just let you know that it's in the wrong body not you
That's an interesting idea, except that spirit doesn't tell you who it is. That spirit IS YOU. There is no escape except by death - and that's not a good option. Since we cannot rewire the brain, we're left with reshaping the body.
Before you Christians think about commenting, remember your place on this earth and in the views of god. You are not to judge for only the lord can. Before you say "it goed against the bible" read this "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus - Galatians 3:28" It doesn't. Before you use the bible against ANYTHING, remember the bible has a lot of conflicting things in it. Besides, why even bother attacking people like this. We're here for a good time not a long time. Don't hate and let people live their lives.
As Christians, we are not here for a good time, we are here to give the glory to God. Perhaps you are here for a good time, so speak for yourself. As far as the video we are not here to judge so please don’t judge Christians as “ppl who judge,” because God will be the judge, Finally, ppl are free to agree or disagree with this because we have free will and no one has the right to take that away.
@@undergrace1808 you are right in that we have free will to think what we want, but that would also mean that this child and his parents also have the right to do what they want, so people shouldn’t hate on them. This is not a comment directed specifically to you or written to hate on you, you have a good point, just saying that we can think. What we want, but we do not have or should say it all
greeneyedgirl Arteno plus some of the time transgender people regret transitioning, therefore, they detransition. Probably what they need to do is have even more stricter standards to ensure they truly want to transition because I know in the case of MTFs, some of them felt female due to other issues such as sexual abuse as a child, among other things.
No one is "pushing" children to transition. Parents don't want their child to transition, but they don't want them to be suicidal or alcoholic either. We can guide and influence a person. Doctors trained in gender dysphoria are qualified to decide when transitioning will help a child. The parents must also give consent. If a misdiagnosed child starts to transition then stops, they generally have very little change to overcome. If a child cannot transition until adulthood they are forced to endure the wrong hormones for years. It's the same as telling a misdiagnosed child then can't stop taking the wrong hormones until they're adults. It's torture beyond imagining. Let's not forget many children are GREATFUL for their time as the opposite sex. THERE IS NO PERFECT SOLUTION. Yes! Exactly true! So choose the path with the most success. That's what doctors continue to do. The regret rate for children transitioning on hormones (age 16+) is around 2%. For some 2% is too much; yet they don't seem to realize that the reverse means 98% have regret to save the 2%.
@@abutts02actually there are only really few people who detransition, most only for a short period of time, and mostly because society pushed them to do it, people like you who tell them being trans is bad, disgusting or just weobg
"life changing decisions " ? It's only a social transition it's not permanent!!! he can change his mind at any time. it obviously made him more happy for now and that's what's important even if he doesn't decide to transition later in life.
I was wondering about this topic because I seen 6 year old transgenders. I have a 6 year old sister well she has never heard of (gender differences) I ask her how you feel about being a girl she said I DONT KNOW. She doesn’t even know what it means to be a girl. Kids are getting ideals from parents and popular media around them confusing them. I am not against gay people at all as I do have gay friends but the difference is that they knew they were not the correct gender when they where old enough to feel sexual desire.
Being Gay does not mean you are not the other gender. I am a Gay Man. I was born a Boy and I always identified as a Boy. I never had thoughts of being a Girl or wanting to Be a Girl. Sexual Orientation is about attraction.
Just because your sister doesn’t know what it means doesn’t mean no kid knows what gender is. There are kids who start experiencing gender dysphoria at the age of 6, in fact most trans kids do, this has nothing to do with their parents, just them knowing they don’t want to be their gender, but be like kids of the other gender
So many misinformed, hateful, comments. Allowing a child to exist as they please is hurting no one. There is no medical transition until the child is older. Congratulations to these parents for listening.
@@jacquelinelarsen6159 puberty blockers are not started until signs of puberty show, and if later in adolescence, the child wants to stop the puberty blockers and develop as their sex, it is possible. You are ignorant and misinformed.
I know what annoys me. Its so called Christians who are taught by their God to show love and acceptance deciding that they can judge and decide where that love and acceptance should be applied. It is appalling that anyone should force these kids to live as they do not want to and that they or their families should be subjected to the ill informed, narrow minded and downright insensitive abuse from those claiming to talk for a higher power - the existence of which is itself open to considerable debate. It must be great to be so perfect that you can throw this type of abuse around in the belief that you are always right - I pity you as much as I support these courageous children and families as they seek to make sense of the situation they are in
Are you fucking kidding me? 99% of parents would have told their DAUGHTER that it's OK for girls to do boy things, not wear dresses and play with boys. Upon hitting puberty, chances are great that their DAUGHTER would start liking boys. The parents are dumb and naive. The "experts" who convinced them of this nonsense should be in prison for child abuse.
Eric K The fuck does the child identifying as a boy have to do with their sexuality? They told him all the things you just said, it didn’t work. You don’t know everything neither are your generalizations always accurate, fuck off.
I just have a question that I've been asking for awhile but know one seems to give me an answer. So if we or you, think we're in the wrong body did GOD make a mistake. I'm just asking a question. This isn't a judgment. I just really need this answer. Do GOD, the Almighty make mistakes.
There’s a difference between gender and sexuality. Transgender people are not gay. The Bible doesn’t say anything about transgenderism if you are looking at everything in the correct context. We don’t believe God made a mistake. We don’t believe God intended to make us born with the parts we were born with. It’s the affect of sin in the world that people are born in the opposite body. Telling a transgender person “God doesn’t make mistakes.” is like telling a blind person that its their fault their blind because God made them to be able to see. Try looking at an MRI scan of a transgender brain and tell me that it matches their biological sex. I know you can’t do it. Transgender people have been trusted with this affect of our fallen world and are proving to be faithful, and we know other Christians won’t be the one judging us: “ This, then, is how you ought to regard us: as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the mysteries God has revealed. 2 Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful. 3 I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. 4 My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. 5 Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God.” (1 Corinthians 4:1-5 NIV)
Do you think God is limited in what he can make? Do you think it is a mistake if a child has Downs Syndrome? Why is it impossible to believe that God isn't making mistakes just because you or I don't understand why he does what he does? I sometimes think it happens because God needs to give the people he loves a way to show their faith. Can you be cruel to a child just because you think you know God's will? If you do are you setting yourself above God? If you pay attention you can learn a lot about what makes you uniquely you. What humans think are misfits are God's gift to mankind. The bible doesn't say we should love the normal, or the average or even the majority of people, we should love all of God's children whether we understand or not. God doesn't make mistakes, the transgender are God's children too. He made them exactly as he wanted them... a complete person with an identity that doesn't match their body. Think about what that means to you. When you get old and wrinkled you are still you. If you are a woman and have your uterus removed to save your life you are still you. God let's us change our bodies in many ways besides gender. Why single that out for denial? If you believe in a soul that can transcend life itself you believe in the separation of spirit and body. Does God have to scream in your face for you to get it?
God doesn't make errors , son does and the world does . For example one could ask the same question about their autistic child , Did God make a mistake or a child that has severe health issues . I don't believe God does anything that harms . Sin, abuse, sickness, irregularities in prenatal development, dna irregularities, genetics... So many causes for outcomes to not be as God's will for us to be perfect in his image . Human beings and nature by default was intended to be paradise and perfection but it is the mutation of dna and curruption of man that changes much
The “damage” as you call it is in fact reversible, the most damage on trans kids is caused by transphobic people like you, bullying them into believing they are disgusting
Those parents are a disgrace. Those kids need to be removed from that home ASAP. This is total child abuse. This is one of the biggest issues in this country. Parents need to go to jail.
You could say the same about religious parents who force their believes on their kids, saying they must believe in (a) god(s) if not they will have a terrible fate. And straight parents, saying their child must be straight and cis, and if they end up not being, they will get kicked out or abused
You have options but know that no matter what, you will survive this. NEVER give up hope. Tell them you need to talk with a therapist. Tell them you know something is wrong but you're not sure what it is. A therapist will help you explore your feelings and help explain things to your parents. Depending on where you live, you can talk with a teacher or school counselor. Go slow and remember how long it took you to get this far. Your parents will take longer. That means they have a LOT of catching up to do. It can be stressful for them.
Yes Christians are to love and not judge, but woe to those who cause children to stumble, have you never heard of a Tom boy, I m sure no parent desire to harm their children, and all parents make mistakes no parent is 100 percent perfect, but please let children be children, if you child wanted to be Batman would you alter their bodies into Batman, kids are impressionable and are being bombarded with this gender identity propaganda through teachers, caregivers, t.v. internet, books and pride events, no wonder they are growing in numbers, it s a new trend, just as getting tattooed was and still is or any trend that sweeps over the entire world, this trend brings a different kind of attention into a child's life, and we know children preteens and teens even young adults crave attention, love to be special and stand out of a crowd, please watch videos of people who deeply regret transitioning, before you administer puberty blockers and hormones to children who are much to young to make such life altering decisions which are irreversible, please let kids be kids, childhood is the greatest time in ones life, free of adult concerns, childhood is a time to play and to learn how to make friendships and be free of major life altering decisions. You are adding extra burdens on your children by making such a big deal of their color preferences and activity preferences, boys can be boys and like dolls and pink, they do not have to transition into a girl. Stop exposing your children to anyone who pushes this trend or plants a seed in their minds, and turn to God for guidance, these kids are being influenced someway, somehow, a 2 year old cannot grasp the concept on their own. I would per standing up as a toddler to mimic my brother, and I was mistaken for a boy from age 6 to age 10, never did anyone ever suggest I was a boy in a girls body, I grew my hair long at 11 and was never mistaken for a boy after that. I cringe at the thought of how easily I could have been influenced in this generation s way of thinking. I am not judging you, I am simply concerned of future possible regrets, which I do not wish on anyone, I m sure no parent willfully desires to cause harm on their child and am sure you are convinced you are doing what you think is best, but seek other avenues of dealing with this, all my love to all of you who are faced with such challenges, but I m absolutely certain that altering your children's gender is not the answer, and please never ever take your kids to pride parades, take them to the park where kids can be kids.
So ignorant and hateful. It is NOT someone influencing children like Jack. It is Jack informing HIS parents HE is a Boy. Gender is known as young as 2 years. No one needed to tell me I am a Boy. There is nothing wrong with taking children to Pride Parades. There is great harm in taking children to a church service because it's too immature to know or understand religious beliefs. That is a form of child abusive indoctrination.
Children have been bombarded with straight and cis “propaganda” their entire life, for as long as humans have existed. The reason more people are coming out as trans is because of more acceptance, not brainwashing
Why can't she be a tomboy? I was such a tomboy but I hit puberty and just like that, I went from climbing trees and racing bikes with boys to holding hands with them and "making eyes." My parents would have destroyed my life if they'd interfered like that because I wasn't girly as a kid. I'm all woman now...
There is a terribly big difference between having gender dysphoria and being a tomboy. An extremely debilitating medical condition is not the same as a lifestyle.
Know they are wrong doing what is best is taking a stand and directing a child to know who they are despite what is on the agenda of the status quo. He may have no preconceived limitations of what anyone can do based on ones sex, but YOU DO. Children are relentless about their ideas. They seek your approval. A parents approval and guidance; all the love and attention- the being center stage- the energy you feed into a subject, fortifies in a childs belief system. Feed into a subject and you will get a return on it girls don't like to wear dress and boys don't have to like to be rough and dirty. But you as a parent may think so. A child wants more sporty cloths fine or big cowboy hats or short hair and to be an expert on spitting and sturdy sensible shoes ect., and they are a girl...fine but your still a girl. A boy wants to be a dapper dan wear shinny thing to accent their dress is cautious is naturally fluent in his movements , and is is concerned about his hair and wants light soft stepping shoes that he keeps shinny, etc.... fine but you are still a boy. We teach are children to know their parameters. We want them to be balanced human beings. We want are children to be able to reason through to under stand what is given and to know what is not. One needs to make decisions based on parameters present for a given set of circumstances. A balanced child is rational creative successful and physical.
What you’re not getting any people you’re not getting is that this has been since he was a little kid and five it’s not like it happened overnight it’s not like they’re making a random just Decision he has been knighted his whole life
What you are ignoring is that no decisions at 5 years old are irreversible. At 5 years of age the decisions are only things like the clothes the child wears, being referred to as a Boy and using a boy's name like Jack. No medical intervention like hormone shots are required at 5 and no doctor would prescribe.
5 yos are telling their parents and doctors that SOMETHING IS WRONG. Doctors figure out the problem. (It's not always "transgender") Doctors, children and parents work to fix the 5 yo's problems. Parents provide informed consent.
In my oppinion the kid it too young 10 is a better age for hormone and stuff but still it's kind off too young he should use hormones when he's 18 for a lot of reasons BUT that doesn't meen that when he's 8 onward he can wear wigs and dresses kind off BUT NOT hormones.
F t m is female to male the boy in the video is f t m which means he identifies as a male so he is not still a girls you idiot learn your facts before being transphobic!.
Just because someone is trans does not mean you can call them in it they are still people just like you call the boy of them if you can’t get your mind around it Calling someone and it is disrespectful. You think you’re better you’re not
@@mg5679 Biology is complex. You must also believe being Gay as I am is a mental illness? I was born a Boy. I always identified a Boy. I still identify as a Male today at 56 years old. I have NEVER been attracted to girls, not ever. So, biology is complex and the outcome of each conception is not so simple. The gender we identify as is no different except that a child knows its gender as young as 2 years. A child like myself did not need my parents to tell me I am Male. It was not merely because I have male genital organs. Transgender children are the same as me. A transgender Boy also knows HE is a Boy. He will insist HE is a Boy no matter what HE is told. HE always felt HE is a Boy but he doesn't have the correct body, that of a Boy. Every person born without a disability will learn to walk. I was born with Cerebral Palsy and without the ability to walk. Did your God make a mistake with me? No, we are all created without God directing each step of our development.
This is disgusting and these parents need to be locked up. What kind of monster does this to their kid?
How would you act if one of your kids wanted to be a different gender, then seeing how badly depressed and sad they will get if you don't allow them to?
@@a.h.s5152 I would help my CHILD get the help they needed to understand the reality of their situation. We all wish something about ourselves was different. That doesn’t mean that we get surgery to change it before we even mature physically and mentally.
I would give BOTH of my children everything at my disposal to help and I would accept them for exactly who they are. Just like I already do.
When I was a kid it was perfectly fine to just be gay. And to figure it out on your way to adulthood, AND THEN make the big decisions.
Surgery is never the answer to a mental situation. NEVER
The only monster is you being hateful and commenting this, your bullying a child
@travisschaefer5286 I wish God would let people pick what gender they want before they are born it would make it easier on everyone, I agree about the surgeries I never did understand why men or trans woman would want to turn their big beautiful packages between their legs into vaginas that they were blessed with I will never understand that, it looks like they would wreather have more to play with instead of nothing at all.
@travisschaefer5286 I can understand the transmen wanting surgeries since they are missing things, plus female sex organs are not fun at all, all they do is cause alot of pain and suffering and cancers and can cause very painful autoimmune diseases and they cause alot of heavy bleeding, it would be more beneficial to them to have all of their reproductive organs removed like breast removed and a complete hysterectomy it would make them feel alot better and cut down on their cancer risk and they wouldn't have to hurt and bleed and be sick and miserable from it, all them uterus does is cause them alot of pain and suffering and heavy bleeding and illnesses. I never did understand why God made one set of genitals more fun than the other one, he made one that is less fun with more pain and suffer while the other one is more fun and more pleasurable, I guess someone has to suffer for the cause.
I can only imagine how difficult it might be for a child to change their mind after their parents go on an aggressive media campaign like this
Exactly! Why aren’t they covering this aspect of it?
why even ask your kid if he is a boy or girl? I never asked my 2 boys if they were boys, they never asked me if they were boys. neither did my nieces or nephews. don't put shit in their heads!
@@PotatoNachos I did not have to tell them they were brothers or my sons they knew that already
How about telling the kid, "No, sweetheart, you are a girl, you will always be a girl because that's how God made you, and you are perfect, you can pretend to be a boy, and you can wish you were a boy, you can cut your hair short and play baseball and you don't have to ever wear a dress, but that doesn't mean you are a boy or will turn into a boy because that's not how things work, we love you forever and always, but you are not allowed to change your name and you are not allowed to tell people that you are a boy because mommy and daddy said so."
@PotatoNachos How about you don't have to believe in God or The Bible to live in reality.
You realize it is a kid, right? You realize gender dysphoria can lead to suicide if not dealt with? So the parents should leave behind personal opinions and religion and focus on the science of it.
And telling a child they can't change their name, isn't okay whether the kid is trans or not
@nufailanoon You do realize children have to be taught about the world around them and that you can't give them everything they want all the time because they don't know what is best for them and that's why they have parents to love them and raise them and teach them right from wrong. Gender dysphoria may exist in rare cases, but that still doesn't mean boys can become girls and girls can become boys in reality.
lol😂ur funny asf
No God made us all to be on a journey of discovery. You have no idea how mysterious life is.
Why people this is a child this is a girl
Would they rather have a child kill themselves than be themselves?
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The children will grow out of it, as the vast majority do. Even after surgery and hormones, Trans people are 5 times more likely to commit suicide because they are still not happy when, for instance, a "transgender woman" (Man) still has no real working vagina, no ovaries, No ovum, no uterus, no naturally produced balance of female hormones, no period, no ability reproduce as a woman naturally without more surgery and artificial means. they will NEVER act like a woman, think like a woman, have a woman's brain, talk like a woman. EVERY cell in their body will STILL have the male xy chromosome in them. They will only be sad, depressed, mutilated men who will regret their decision. Most trans people who are older will tell you they regret it and counsel against it. These people need help to be happy with being the beautiful person they were born as, instead of a depressed, mutilated person.
Can you show some proof to me, some studies or charts, to support your claim?
Yes
@@dondedondon9270 best comment!
Thank you for doing a segment on this topic.
End transgender!! It is so dumb because transgenders always got mad and hate. Now I don’t like transgenders people.
What they wont tell you is that most children who go through this eventually grow out of it and those who transitioned before puberty are three times more likely to commit suicide.
Do you have the studies?
What would gender dysphoria look as a inside out character
I believe everyone are unique there are no two people exactly alike and that we were made the way we are for a reason and if we change Who We Are we will never really know what was I'll purpose here
👍🏻Ya so let yourself be original like you always were since you came out of womb.
You know how some people explain things as reincarnation feeling like they will live their life before as another person that is what this reminds me of and I have always been told that when you taken your first breath there are spirits around and that first breathe could leave you feeling like you're someone who's been here before and maybe it just let you know that it's in the wrong body not you
That's an interesting idea, except that spirit doesn't tell you who it is. That spirit IS YOU.
There is no escape except by death - and that's not a good option.
Since we cannot rewire the brain, we're left with reshaping the body.
Before you Christians think about commenting, remember your place on this earth and in the views of god. You are not to judge for only the lord can.
Before you say "it goed against the bible" read this
"There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus - Galatians 3:28"
It doesn't.
Before you use the bible against ANYTHING, remember the bible has a lot of conflicting things in it. Besides, why even bother attacking people like this. We're here for a good time not a long time. Don't hate and let people live their lives.
As Christians, we are not here for a good time, we are here to give the glory to God. Perhaps you are here for a good time, so speak for yourself. As far as the video we are not here to judge so please don’t judge Christians as “ppl who judge,” because God will be the judge, Finally, ppl are free to agree or disagree with this because we have free will and no one has the right to take that away.
@@undergrace1808 you are right in that we have free will to think what we want, but that would also mean that this child and his parents also have the right to do what they want, so people shouldn’t hate on them. This is not a comment directed specifically to you or written to hate on you, you have a good point, just saying that we can think. What we want, but we do not have or should say it all
as a trans man, i think they should let their kids do whatever the hell they want. just don't get surgeries and stuff!! i mean duh it's illegal :C
i wanted to be a boy in 1970. Thank God I did not want to be a boy in 2018.
unethical doctors and abusive parents
greeneyedgirl Arteno plus some of the time transgender people regret transitioning, therefore, they detransition. Probably what they need to do is have even more stricter standards to ensure they truly want to transition because I know in the case of MTFs, some of them felt female due to other issues such as sexual abuse as a child, among other things.
No one is "pushing" children to transition. Parents don't want their child to transition, but they don't want them to be suicidal or alcoholic either.
We can guide and influence a person. Doctors trained in gender dysphoria are qualified to decide when transitioning will help a child. The parents must also give consent. If a misdiagnosed child starts to transition then stops, they generally have very little change to overcome.
If a child cannot transition until adulthood they are forced to endure the wrong hormones for years. It's the same as telling a misdiagnosed child then can't stop taking the wrong hormones until they're adults. It's torture beyond imagining. Let's not forget many children are GREATFUL for their time as the opposite sex. THERE IS NO PERFECT SOLUTION. Yes! Exactly true! So choose the path with the most success.
That's what doctors continue to do. The regret rate for children transitioning on hormones (age 16+) is around 2%. For some 2% is too much; yet they don't seem to realize that the reverse means 98% have regret to save the 2%.
@@abutts02actually there are only really few people who detransition, most only for a short period of time, and mostly because society pushed them to do it, people like you who tell them being trans is bad, disgusting or just weobg
I’m all for transgender people, I’m trans (FtM) my self but this little boy is clearly to young to make life changing decisions like this
"life changing decisions " ? It's only a social transition it's not permanent!!! he can change his mind at any time. it obviously made him more happy for now and that's what's important even if he doesn't decide to transition later in life.
SniperRecons you are still a woman
My brother is now my sister and she knew at very young age and coming from some that is ftm wow
It's indoctrination and this has a long lasting impact.
I agree, people should be at least 18 to make transgender related decisions due to kids brains not being fully developed beforehand.
I was wondering about this topic because I seen 6 year old transgenders. I have a 6 year old sister well she has never heard of (gender differences) I ask her how you feel about being a girl she said I DONT KNOW. She doesn’t even know what it means to be a girl. Kids are getting ideals from parents and popular media around them confusing them. I am not against gay people at all as I do have gay friends but the difference is that they knew they were not the correct gender when they where old enough to feel sexual desire.
Being Gay does not mean you are not the other gender. I am a Gay Man. I was born a Boy and I always identified as a Boy. I never had thoughts of being a Girl or wanting to Be a Girl. Sexual Orientation is about attraction.
Just because your sister doesn’t know what it means doesn’t mean no kid knows what gender is. There are kids who start experiencing gender dysphoria at the age of 6, in fact most trans kids do, this has nothing to do with their parents, just them knowing they don’t want to be their gender, but be like kids of the other gender
So many misinformed, hateful, comments. Allowing a child to exist as they please is hurting no one. There is no medical transition until the child is older. Congratulations to these parents for listening.
False compassion
@@jacquelinelarsen6159 don't be an arse, the OP you replied to makes a good point
They want to start these little children on puberty blockers and that is very dangerous and can have life long effects
@@jacquelinelarsen6159 no it's called a social transition, that hasn't happened yet
@@jacquelinelarsen6159 puberty blockers are not started until signs of puberty show, and if later in adolescence, the child wants to stop the puberty blockers and develop as their sex, it is possible. You are ignorant and misinformed.
I know what annoys me. Its so called Christians who are taught by their God to show love and acceptance deciding that they can judge and decide where that love and acceptance should be applied. It is appalling that anyone should force these kids to live as they do not want to and that they or their families should be subjected to the ill informed, narrow minded and downright insensitive abuse from those claiming to talk for a higher power - the existence of which is itself open to considerable debate. It must be great to be so perfect that you can throw this type of abuse around in the belief that you are always right - I pity you as much as I support these courageous children and families as they seek to make sense of the situation they are in
Are you fucking kidding me? 99% of parents would have told their DAUGHTER that it's OK for girls to do boy things, not wear dresses and play with boys. Upon hitting puberty, chances are great that their DAUGHTER would start liking boys.
The parents are dumb and naive. The "experts" who convinced them of this nonsense should be in prison for child abuse.
David Chambers so what are you saying? Christians can't love while simultaneously calling out child abuse?
That is simply untrue.
Eric K The fuck does the child identifying as a boy have to do with their sexuality? They told him all the things you just said, it didn’t work. You don’t know everything neither are your generalizations always accurate, fuck off.
David Chambers why do you hate parents raising their 8 year old daughter as a son? 8 years old is old enough to make their own decisions bigot.
@@doopiss is this comment a joke
He acts like a girl. Is 100% a girl
I just have a question that I've been asking for awhile but know one seems to give me an answer. So if we or you, think we're in the wrong body did GOD make a mistake. I'm just asking a question. This isn't a judgment. I just really need this answer. Do GOD, the Almighty make mistakes.
There’s a difference between gender and sexuality. Transgender people are not gay. The Bible doesn’t say anything about transgenderism if you are looking at everything in the correct context. We don’t believe God made a mistake. We don’t believe God intended to make us born with the parts we were born with. It’s the affect of sin in the world that people are born in the opposite body. Telling a transgender person “God doesn’t make mistakes.” is like telling a blind person that its their fault their blind because God made them to be able to see. Try looking at an MRI scan of a transgender brain and tell me that it matches their biological sex. I know you can’t do it. Transgender people have been trusted with this affect of our fallen world and are proving to be faithful, and we know other Christians won’t be the one judging us: “ This, then, is how you ought to regard us: as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the mysteries God has revealed. 2 Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful. 3 I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. 4 My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. 5 Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God.” (1 Corinthians 4:1-5 NIV)
Do you think God is limited in what he can make? Do you think it is a mistake if a child has Downs Syndrome? Why is it impossible to believe that God isn't making mistakes just because you or I don't understand why he does what he does? I sometimes think it happens because God needs to give the people he loves a way to show their faith. Can you be cruel to a child just because you think you know God's will? If you do are you setting yourself above God? If you pay attention you can learn a lot about what makes you uniquely you. What humans think are misfits are God's gift to mankind. The bible doesn't say we should love the normal, or the average or even the majority of people, we should love all of God's children whether we understand or not. God doesn't make mistakes, the transgender are God's children too. He made them exactly as he wanted them... a complete person with an identity that doesn't match their body. Think about what that means to you. When you get old and wrinkled you are still you. If you are a woman and have your uterus removed to save your life you are still you. God let's us change our bodies in many ways besides gender. Why single that out for denial? If you believe in a soul that can transcend life itself you believe in the separation of spirit and body. Does God have to scream in your face for you to get it?
No, but I think God allows us to have challenges in our lives to give us the opportunity to grow into better people.
God doesn't make errors , son does and the world does . For example one could ask the same question about their autistic child , Did God make a mistake or a child that has severe health issues . I don't believe God does anything that harms . Sin, abuse, sickness, irregularities in prenatal development, dna irregularities, genetics...
So many causes for outcomes to not be as God's will for us to be perfect in his image . Human beings and nature by default was intended to be paradise and perfection but it is the mutation of dna and curruption of man that changes much
Ur not asking a question. U know God dsnt make mistakes. Everybody's journey is different
Lord help us wat if he changes his mind later
Great parents!
"Great" getting their kid shot or stabbed by haters.
You are delusional
There bad parents and they should probably go to jail
These insane people are ruining their children's lives... this damage may not be reversible.
Goof
UsserError Idk about that. I know some transgenders at Ivy League schools, and non- transgenders who can't even hold a job
They aren't ruining their child's life since when was letting your child Express themselves means you are insane idiots these days I swear!.
The “damage” as you call it is in fact reversible, the most damage on trans kids is caused by transphobic people like you, bullying them into believing they are disgusting
child abuse
Those parents are a disgrace. Those kids need to be removed from that home ASAP. This is total child abuse. This is one of the biggest issues in this country. Parents need to go to jail.
You could say the same about religious parents who force their believes on their kids, saying they must believe in (a) god(s) if not they will have a terrible fate.
And straight parents, saying their child must be straight and cis, and if they end up not being, they will get kicked out or abused
Idk how to tell my parents 🙄
What
be urself and go with the flow x
You have options but know that no matter what, you will survive this. NEVER give up hope.
Tell them you need to talk with a therapist. Tell them you know something is wrong but you're not sure what it is.
A therapist will help you explore your feelings and help explain things to your parents.
Depending on where you live, you can talk with a teacher or school counselor.
Go slow and remember how long it took you to get this far. Your parents will take longer. That means they have a LOT of catching up to do. It can be stressful for them.
Yes Christians are to love and not judge, but woe to those who cause children to stumble, have you never heard of a Tom boy, I m sure no parent desire to harm their children, and all parents make mistakes no parent is 100 percent perfect, but please let children be children, if you child wanted to be Batman would you alter their bodies into Batman, kids are impressionable and are being bombarded with this gender identity propaganda through teachers, caregivers, t.v. internet, books and pride events, no wonder they are growing in numbers, it s a new trend, just as getting tattooed was and still is or any trend that sweeps over the entire world, this trend brings a different kind of attention into a child's life, and we know children preteens and teens even young adults crave attention, love to be special and stand out of a crowd, please watch videos of people who deeply regret transitioning, before you administer puberty blockers and hormones to children who are much to young to make such life altering decisions which are irreversible, please let kids be kids, childhood is the greatest time in ones life, free of adult concerns, childhood is a time to play and to learn how to make friendships and be free of major life altering decisions. You are adding extra burdens on your children by making such a big deal of their color preferences and activity preferences, boys can be boys and like dolls and pink, they do not have to transition into a girl. Stop exposing your children to anyone who pushes this trend or plants a seed in their minds, and turn to God for guidance, these kids are being influenced someway, somehow, a 2 year old cannot grasp the concept on their own. I would per standing up as a toddler to mimic my brother, and I was mistaken for a boy from age 6 to age 10, never did anyone ever suggest I was a boy in a girls body, I grew my hair long at 11 and was never mistaken for a boy after that. I cringe at the thought of how easily I could have been influenced in this generation s way of thinking. I am not judging you, I am simply concerned of future possible regrets, which I do not wish on anyone, I m sure no parent willfully desires to cause harm on their child and am sure you are convinced you are doing what you think is best, but seek other avenues of dealing with this, all my love to all of you who are faced with such challenges, but I m absolutely certain that altering your children's gender is not the answer, and please never ever take your kids to pride parades, take them to the park where kids can be kids.
So ignorant and hateful. It is NOT someone influencing children like Jack. It is Jack informing HIS parents HE is a Boy. Gender is known as young as 2 years. No one needed to tell me I am a Boy. There is nothing wrong with taking children to Pride Parades. There is great harm in taking children to a church service because it's too immature to know or understand religious beliefs. That is a form of child abusive indoctrination.
Children have been bombarded with straight and cis “propaganda” their entire life, for as long as humans have existed. The reason more people are coming out as trans is because of more acceptance, not brainwashing
These kids need to be removed from the home. This is child abuse
Letting your child expresse them self is not abuse you idiot!
letting a child be themselfs isnt abuse thats just being a good parent
Removing a happy child that is loved by their family is child abuse. You are the person supporting the abuse of children.
I really wish the ignorant people here understood. With this mindset they are ruining their own lives.
Why can't she be a tomboy? I was such a tomboy but I hit puberty and just like that, I went from climbing trees and racing bikes with boys to holding hands with them and "making eyes." My parents would have destroyed my life if they'd interfered like that because I wasn't girly as a kid. I'm all woman now...
There is a terribly big difference between having gender dysphoria and being a tomboy. An extremely debilitating medical condition is not the same as a lifestyle.
Weird parents I would freak out
No one cares
Who says that wasn't their first reaction?
Hopefully you'd do more than just freak out.
weird with people is why the world is messed up like it is
tiht she now? sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I’m an 11 year old boy but I’m thinking about being trans. It just makes me feel really good to think about being a girl
wait until 18 to decide
@@therandom2033 ok
if u feel that’s who u wanna be, then i support u x
@@hiiwaffies don't support that retard support it when he's 18 dingus 😂
No you are a boy you’re not a girl please don’t fall for this agenda
Know they are wrong doing what is best is taking a stand and directing a child to know who they are despite what is on the agenda of the status quo. He may have no preconceived limitations of what anyone can do based on ones sex, but YOU DO. Children are relentless about their ideas. They seek your approval. A parents approval and guidance; all the love and attention- the being center stage- the energy you feed into a subject, fortifies in a childs belief system. Feed into a subject and you will get a return on it girls don't like to wear dress and boys don't have to like to be rough and dirty. But you as a parent may think so. A child wants more sporty cloths fine or big cowboy hats or short hair and to be an expert on spitting and sturdy sensible shoes ect., and they are a girl...fine but your still a girl. A boy wants to be a dapper dan wear shinny thing to accent their dress is cautious is naturally fluent in his movements , and is is concerned about his hair and wants light soft stepping shoes that he keeps shinny, etc.... fine but you are still a boy. We teach are children to know their parameters. We want them to be balanced human beings. We want are children to be able to reason through to under stand what is given and to know what is not. One needs to make decisions based on parameters present for a given set of circumstances. A balanced child is rational creative successful and physical.
Before you talk learn to spell now right idiot!
Ya, let's let 5 year olds call the shots
What you’re not getting any people you’re not getting is that this has been since he was a little kid and five it’s not like it happened overnight it’s not like they’re making a random just Decision he has been knighted his whole life
His whole life....of 5 years. 👍
What you are ignoring is that no decisions at 5 years old are irreversible. At 5 years of age the decisions are only things like the clothes the child wears, being referred to as a Boy and using a boy's name like Jack. No medical intervention like hormone shots are required at 5 and no doctor would prescribe.
@@davidmorse2310 the sooner you stop the delusion the better
5 yos are telling their parents and doctors that SOMETHING IS WRONG.
Doctors figure out the problem. (It's not always "transgender")
Doctors, children and parents work to fix the 5 yo's problems.
Parents provide informed consent.
In my oppinion the kid it too young 10 is a better age for hormone and stuff but still it's kind off too young he should use hormones when he's 18 for a lot of reasons BUT that doesn't meen that when he's 8 onward he can wear wigs and dresses kind off BUT NOT hormones.
He won’t get hormones when he’s ten, probably just puberty blockers, and those are 100% reversible. Puberty blockers will give him time to think
It’s still a girl
F t m is female to male the boy in the video is f t m which means he identifies as a male so he is not still a girls you idiot learn your facts before being transphobic!.
@@ashykneecaps3395 biology says it’s a girl.
"it" ?
Just because someone is trans does not mean you can call them in it they are still people just like you call the boy of them if you can’t get your mind around it Calling someone and it is disrespectful. You think you’re better you’re not
@@mg5679 Biology is complex. You must also believe being Gay as I am is a mental illness? I was born a Boy. I always identified a Boy. I still identify as a Male today at 56 years old. I have NEVER been attracted to girls, not ever. So, biology is complex and the outcome of each conception is not so simple. The gender we identify as is no different except that a child knows its gender as young as 2 years. A child like myself did not need my parents to tell me I am Male. It was not merely because I have male genital organs. Transgender children are the same as me. A transgender Boy also knows HE is a Boy. He will insist HE is a Boy no matter what HE is told. HE always felt HE is a Boy but he doesn't have the correct body, that of a Boy. Every person born without a disability will learn to walk. I was born with Cerebral Palsy and without the ability to walk. Did your God make a mistake with me? No, we are all created without God directing each step of our development.