Do I have to forgive?
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
- Forgiveness and reconciliation is generally encouraged in the Quran, because without it there is ongoing enmity and the world will be filled with heartlessness and constant pain. But is it an obligation upon a victim to accept the damage and forgive, or is the obligation on the perpetrator to seek the victim’s forgiveness? What does Islam really say?
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Sheikh, please do the full Qur'an recitation, chapter per video with translation. You have been blessed with a voice which should be shared Insha'Allah.
I agree, I am just learning about Islam and this Man def has my attention. Peace be with you all.
Sheikh, please make a playlist of full Qur'an recitation, chapter per video with translation. You have been blessed with a voice which should be shared Insha'Allah.
Love all your lecture series. May Allah bless you beloved brother here & thereafter, Ameen!!!
Ameen 🧡
I love the teachings brother. Keep it coming☝️
MashaAllah please do more relevant short clips to the youngsters….of course everyone will benefit but being a teacher you have an amazing gift of teaching MashaAllah
Assalamu Alaikum, my brother in Islam..as always you touched a very important subject Al'hamdulillah.
May Allah azzawajall bless you and your family
Sheikh your face is full of Noor. May Allah reward you. Thank you for this video
Alhamdulillah
Jzk sheikh
This came up at the time I needed the most.
بشرفي ريحته قلبي احمدالله على كل شيء
Forgiveness is not recommended in every condition. You need to analyze your condition which is unique to everyone & then forgive. Coz if u go on freely doing so it could be fatal.
So be extremely careful.
Best explanation ever, May Allah bless you brother in here and thereafter InshAllah🤲
Mashalla 💡💖💖 thankyou Nice education
Very good explanation.👍
JzkAllahu khayran
Kissing the belly part was funny 😅
Great video. Would love to hear your full recitation of every juz. You have an amazing recitation MashaAllah
Thank you so much dear brother. May Allah SWT rewards you for your teaching. Alhamdullillah I have learnt so much from your teaching. I hope my sister forget and forgive me. When I asked her forgiveness, she replied to forgive me but not to forget and completely cut off from me. I hope Allah SWT forgive me and I hope InShah-Allah one day she will understand that how I feel for her and love.... I will be waiting for that day InShah-Allah.
Wonderful video, it should get more views
Best lecture Mr Bilal....can you also give us some lectures on topics such as HYGIENE, Child care, husband wife relationship etc
JazakAllahu khayr ya Ustadh 🤲🌸
Yes sir..Mr. Bilal cos Allah swt show me that most crime begin with inosence without knowledge. Its has to be done in repeating order until the dependent that cause it, need to understand itself so it can find mercy to point freewill that required compassion, so it can obtain pleasure and .with this very pleasure.. we surrender it to Allah swt with of hope of pleasure from HIM as sign Forgiveness is accepted and cleared to be free..Subhan Allah. This is the glory of FORGIVENESS. As Salaam from Singapore.
Ma Shaa Allah 🙏💕
What can I do if I owe money to a person I was friend long time ago and don't know where he is to fulfill his rights? ☹️
Give it to the needy on his behalf, In Shaa Allah 🙏 Allah knows best
Thank you 🥺
Please do lots of short clips of good advice, according to Islam
Narcissistic psychopath behaviour believe every thing should be instantly forgiven and forgotten.
They don’t stop the pain and constant ridicule turn violence towards me
Please make duaa I’m in desperate need for a safe home of my own asap!
Dear sister,
are there in your country "safe spaces" for women who face violence from their husbands? If no, can you get help from your family? I will make Dua for you.
May Allah help you. I personally know a narcissistic woman and while I am saved from her harm, one woman in patlrticular has been suffering for years because of her. May Allah help you and her.
@@ursschnatterfleck6019I don't know where OP is from but these things are very difficult in countries like India (I'm an Indian) even if the resources are available. The default opinion, even if people know that a woman is suffering is that the woman is supposed to deal with it with patience. And a little help (if even that) is usually provided for the woman. It's very common. I personally know so many women in my family who are being mentally abused by their husbands or in-laws. I know a woman who's abusing her husband. It's cultural. I hope it changes.
Someone owed me 5 months' salary, I got stressed and anxious, for how many weeks, but he ask forgiveness, and I choose to forgive and make Du'a for him that May Allah swt Shake him for what his doing, because until now he still continues to deceive people😢
That doesn't sounds like a sincere repentance.
But what matters is not him, but you. Choose what is best for your heart and well being.
Someone owed me money too, and I can only forgive him if he pay up what he owed. Otherwise, I erase him from my mind and trust that Allah will deal with him to avoid being stressed.
Walleikhum salaam warahmatullah wabarakhatul.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤍
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته 💙
U have a beautiful voice
This is terrifying because what if the people you've hurt choose not to forgive you but you can't reach them anymore to apologize for what you've done? what then? What if you repented and regretted hurting someone and asked for Allah's forgiveness, but can't ask for the person's forgiveness? Especially if you've unknowingly wronged someone, either thinking you were doing the RIGHT thing or thinking there was nothing harmful in it? What then?
We have to be careful
May Allah forgive our short comings
Then show Allah that you are trying. Sincerely show Him deep remorse for your wrong doing. Keep putting effort that you are trying to make it upto the person you wrong and inshaAllah, Allah SWT will compensate that person without taking away anything from you. As long as you sincerely try. Because it's all about your intention and the state of your heart. Allah might look at you and say at least you tried and show you mercy. Allah knows best. But you keep trying your best to make it upto them. And Allah might even change their heart and guide their heart to forgiving you.
MashAllah
Sheikh, thank you so much for your work, for all the effort you put in your videos and speeches. I learned a lot about Islam from you. There is so much I still have to learn, so Allah wills. If my oppressors never get punished in this life and if there's never justice for me in this life, then theoretically their good deeds, so Allah wills, are going to be transferred to me after their and my death - what if the oppressors didn't do anything good in their lives? Would there be a replacement for that? What if the oppressors are not Muslims?
2:59
As mentioned at 3:20, your bad deeds will be transferred on to the perpetrators. Allah (SWT) is the Most Just and always there for the victim.
@@belal.assaad Thank you so much for your answer.
@@contentmuslimcontents it is best to say jazak allah 5ayr.
@@DodobirdThe109th Thank you. What do you mean by 5ayr?
@@contentmuslimcontents 5ayr means good. Jazak allah 5ayr = May allah give you good
Asalamualeikum wah rehmatulahi wah barakatuh. Hello sheikh I'm Ismā'īl i am a revert muslim bee 2years now. I have been following your lectures are very thoughtful i have been following most of your lectures. Sheikh i have some issues to discuss with you hmm is their any means of contact where i can converse with you in private. May allah increases your rizq while making dawah to illuminates ones world and which brings a good changed in someone daily life. Jazakh allah al khair barakh allahu fiqh.
Does forgiving me that we should again start the relationships as they were before?
thank you so much for your videos , mind if you share your biography about yourself and studies so that we can know more about you ?
You are welcome. Inshllah, will do so. It is a fairly new channel and developing inshllah.
I wish sheikh answers this. What if this involves child se*ual abuse? How can we forgive? I have many people asking me, but I don't have the answer.
Urdu subtitles please.
Assalamualaikum Sheikh, Please my question is, what if you have wronged a person unknowingly and he/she doesn't speak up about it but keeps you in his/her mind, how does one goes about the reconciliation?😥
Then make a Du’a and say, ‘my Lord, if I have wronged anyone unknowingly or hav forgotten, forgive their sins, bless them in their wealth and family and ward off harm from them’
@@belal.assaad Jazakhallahu Khair.
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What if that wrong doer is your brother?
What if z other person rejects the apologies?
If you are sincere in your apology, and if there was something you owed them and returned it or made it up to them, then you have done your duty and fixed what was wrong. As for them may forgiving after that, it will not harm you, inshllah, and Allah will deal with it justly and compassionately.
@@belal.assaad Barak Allah fee amalek, wa omrek, wa ahlek.
𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗔𝗠 🥺
Whoever leaves something for the sake of allah (SWT) .
Allah will replace it with something better.
its promise of allah ❤
Assalaamu’Alaykum Shaykh, what’s the best way to contact you?
@belal.assaad
Brother pls try to upload daily atleast 1 hour lecture.