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  • @LifeBeLifeing
    @LifeBeLifeing  Год назад +16

    Thanks for the mad love on this new channel. Let's get to 1,000 subscribers 🙌

  • @MCC876
    @MCC876 Год назад +371

    No child asks to be born. We force them here. Much respect to the childfree.

    • @HammyGirl999
      @HammyGirl999 11 месяцев назад +2

      Children do ask to be born as I see it.

    • @Ravenelvenlady
      @Ravenelvenlady 11 месяцев назад +4

      @chelseajohnston25 I agree that on a spiritual level souls CHOOSE to come here. So parents and children make that decision on a soul level.

    • @AntoinetteMarie530
      @AntoinetteMarie530 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Ravenelvenladypls explain

    • @Ravenelvenlady
      @Ravenelvenlady 11 месяцев назад

      @@AntoinetteMarie530 My answer is self explanatory.

    • @brigettelancome4063
      @brigettelancome4063 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Ravenelvenladyi’m not sure this is exactly what’s she’s talking about but i’ve done research on similar things bc trying to find the meaning of life for years lol but it’s basically (to make it simple and not long asf) you agree to come to earth from a spiritual realm, you have a soul contract and agree to the things you go through to learn lessons and have experiences so children “agree” to be born. which i wont say is false or true, we all have our own beliefs but all i will say is if you do have kids, they are your child FOR LIFE and please go to therapy before or during to ensure you’re mentally well bc it does affect the kids, they aren’t dumb, they know and will copy.

  • @CordeliaWagner1999
    @CordeliaWagner1999 11 месяцев назад +97

    People try to manipulate you when they call you selfish.
    It's that simple.

  • @SkyeID
    @SkyeID 3 месяца назад +42

    "stay single forever" or "die alone with cats"... don't threaten ME with a good time!

  • @kimcham9949
    @kimcham9949 Год назад +237

    Which act is selfish?
    1) Not having children
    2) CHOOSING to become a parent, then berating others for not parenting YOUR CHILD(REN) when you don't feel like it.

  • @daniella8400
    @daniella8400 Год назад +112

    I’m raised by a single father and he told me to NEVER ever depend on a man, always have my own and to have my own. The only man I ever depended on was him. I’m his only child, he taught me well.

  • @Step-Into-Your-Power
    @Step-Into-Your-Power Год назад +152

    honestly I do not need reasons other that the fact that I simply do not want to have children.

    • @annnee6818
      @annnee6818 Год назад +7

      No you don't need any reasons but if people are happy to elaborate why not, might help people on the fence make up their minds?

    • @paperorpaper
      @paperorpaper 8 месяцев назад +8

      @Step-Into-Your-Power I agree. Simple as that.

    • @tomboy786
      @tomboy786 6 месяцев назад +6

      tbh this should be enough

  • @Franciscaharrison1978
    @Franciscaharrison1978 Год назад +246

    My grandmothers told me never to rely on a man always have your own. They also said being a mum should be a choice not something society forces on you. My dad has 9 kids from three marriages, he was a terrible dad and now he wonders why now he is old, ill and alone. Each time he married he dumped the previous kids for the next bunch of kids.

    • @six6goddess214
      @six6goddess214 Год назад +27

      My father did the same he was married 4 times. Each time never speaking to the last wife and kids. We had a WIVES reunion with all the kids in 2021 It was great meeting my other sibling.

    • @Franciscaharrison1978
      @Franciscaharrison1978 Год назад +9

      @@six6goddess214 glad you got to meet your half siblings, my dad did his darn best to create friction between his nine kids. The first born of his second wife sent me a letter ( I live in the UK) and placed with the letter was a letter from my dad saying that I should disregard my half brother, remember his mother mistreated my brother and I. He stated that the half sibling was only making contact so that at one point he can ask for a ticket to come to the UK. And this is our so called sperm donor!!

    • @Kc-dq7zj
      @Kc-dq7zj Год назад +9

      Your grandmothers are very smart women.

    • @JesusLightsYourPath
      @JesusLightsYourPath 8 месяцев назад +2

      Same here

  • @elsugga3736
    @elsugga3736 Год назад +241

    As a woman my main reason to be childfree is that no man deserves me to go through 9 months of pain and suffering just to have 50% of his genes when he never contributed anything to the whole process. Adding to that, he can still decide to get up and leave at any moment

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Год назад +34

      Yep. 100%.
      Then again you can uno reverse and ditch the kid on him XD

    • @elsugga3736
      @elsugga3736 Год назад +18

      @@magnarcreed3801 definitely something I’d do

    • @seektruth5750
      @seektruth5750 Год назад +9

      He contributed the seed of life and it’s icky when women downplay the role of men in the life process because they don’t go through childbirth or carry babies, it’s not like they chose to, women didn’t choose to give birth and it isn’t out of their benevolence that they go through all that, it’s literally the hand that nature dealt both sexes. It’s complementary, not a competition.

    • @elsugga3736
      @elsugga3736 Год назад +1

      @@seektruth5750 what’s so difficult about nutting

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Год назад

      @@seektruth5750
      It is a competition though. Whoever spreads their dna the most wins.
      Also men’s contribution is lower. Period. That’s quite literally why females in most mammals species are highly selective. Because they risk more to spread their dna.
      Also go around an ask men if they’d give birth if they could. I do and most say no.

  • @PeriwinkleB
    @PeriwinkleB Год назад +91

    I don’t need a reason, it’s my body, my life, my choice and my relationship. I’m a grown woman, I don’t have to explain myself to anyone or “justify” my choice as if it’s taboo or wrong 😂 I can get behind any woman, or man, that’s self-aware and knows parenthood isn’t for them.

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Год назад +131

    I love the woman that went to HR about that bull her manager tried on her and child free co-workers. Child free people get screwed over all the time in the work place.

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +4

      Companies shouldn't be screwing anyone over child free or not. I know he was trying to be far but that's still not right.

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +3

      With all that said, it's much harder being a parent or just living in general.

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 Год назад

      I agree women with children have so many excuses to leave work early especially when there practically baby's themselves. I tried to do the same thing the other day went home after 8 hours and they got mad that I didn't stay and help the new girl for 10 hours even though she's 40. Child free women can't have Sundays off if they don't have senoriry yet and there only part time some of these companies are demonic when you really think about it. Who knows maybe they even have to work on Christmas.

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +8

      @@unicorn73212 And yet working women with children still aren't properly compensated with maternity leave don't receive bonuses and have to make up set hours.

    • @AbsolutelyMayhem
      @AbsolutelyMayhem Год назад +19

      ​@@daniellarkins3849 There's a solution to that if it bugs you so much. Don't have kids. You should know before you start popping out kids that kids make life difficult, they're the priority and they need time, money, affection and attention. If you're not prepared to do that, don't have kids. It's not the fault of childfree people that a parent decided to become a parent. Nor should it become their burden to pick up slack, get denied holidays, have to work extra hours or other bullshit because their random co-worker decided they wanted kids. Deal with it or don't do it. Can't expect other people to continuously make sacrifices for the choices you made.

  • @josiemchannel
    @josiemchannel 8 месяцев назад +32

    When life gets hard i remember i don't have kids and feel a lot better 😂

    • @lizzy4827
      @lizzy4827 4 месяца назад +6

      Same 😅
      Especially when I struggle financially. I can't imagine how bad it would be with a kid. Many people don't even consider that for a second.

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Год назад +90

    I agree with the first woman for the same reasons. I would add that besides loving peace and quiet I also like a clean and clutter free environment!

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +1

      What exactly do you do for a living? Do you have any friends at all? And what's your personal take on people who actually have children.

    • @angycat4262
      @angycat4262 Год назад

      ​@@daniellarkins3849are you going to ask for their social security number too? Damn dude that's not personal, most child free people don't give a single damn about people with children

    • @jscullyandmulderx25
      @jscullyandmulderx25 Год назад +7

      ​@@daniellarkins3849 You mean people who don't want kid's don't want to here from you. You denigrate my choice to have kid's and rubbing your choice on us. He may or may not have Friends. If have friends or family with children . It's his choice the reason why?

    • @aaunyea4799
      @aaunyea4799 8 месяцев назад +5

      I cherish being able to chill at home so much!

  • @jupitersnoot4915
    @jupitersnoot4915 Год назад +124

    There is nothing wrong with being a selfish person by nature so long as you don't allow your selfishness to negatively affect others. And I'd say that having children when you know yourself to be selfish is just about the worst thing I can think of.

    • @lilymohsye
      @lilymohsye Год назад +27

      Not wanting children does not automatically equal selfish.

    • @Freya1412
      @Freya1412 Год назад +26

      ​​​@@lilymohsyeno it doesn't. However it's a fine enough reason to not want children as well. My little sis is self proclaimed selfish. When people get on her case for not having kids because she's too selfish she just responds with " yes I am. I don't like sharing or taking care of anyone but myself. I'm also lazy af and have killed numerous pot plants because I lost interest in watering them. If I put through an application to adopt a pet I'd be denied because not everyone is responsible enough to own a pet and I'm one of those people. So why would me having a child be a good idea?"
      She is happy living her life on her own terms. She loves her life as is.

    • @n4musica
      @n4musica Год назад +9

      I’d argue that people who make decisions that don’t let their selfishness effect others are actually selfless.

    • @user-kg5lq6nd7q
      @user-kg5lq6nd7q Год назад

      You have to he selfless to be a parent and frankly there’s a lack of these days🤦‍♀️

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd Год назад +5

      ​@@lilymohsyeI think it usually is and I think it's okay. I think we need to reconsider the word selfish as not a merely negative one. We should be making selfish decisions, it's our life we're living. Why is society telling us that out own decisions aren't supposed to make us happy? We should be selfish. Choosing to have kids because you want them is selfish, choosing to not have kids because you don't want them is selfish. Good. Make the decisions that will serve your purpose and make you happy. It's literally the point of being alive.

  • @melissab3217
    @melissab3217 Год назад +74

    I don't understand how it can be selfish to not have kids when the kids don't even exist yet. Isn't it more selfish to ignore foster kids that already exist because you want to create new ones?

    • @theretailambassador
      @theretailambassador Год назад +25

      I say this ALL. THE. TIME!!!!! Why do we overlook this? If you want to be a parent so bad, AND you’re a selfless person, why aren’t foster children and adoption your go-to choices? Oh, I know. It’s because you want a little ‘mini me/flesh and blood/legacy’ baby.

    • @spaceparrot8702
      @spaceparrot8702 8 месяцев назад +12

      @@theretailambassador These people confuse legacy with LINEAGE. Your child is an extension of your LINEAGE, whereas legacy is something non-living you leave behind that people will find more relevant AFTER your death.

    • @shewas1984
      @shewas1984 2 месяца назад +2

      AMEN!

  • @gojiberry7201
    @gojiberry7201 6 месяцев назад +15

    I got the "You'll change your mind" by smug people.
    I'm 45. I never changed my mind. Thank God I don't have kids.

    • @lizzy4827
      @lizzy4827 4 месяца назад +4

      Imagine changing your mind when you already have a child too. I feel like my mom definitely regretted having children and even as a kid I could tell because she'd lose her temper very often and blame me for everything.

    • @SkyeID
      @SkyeID 3 месяца назад

      @@lizzy4827 sad, but true. People regret having kids, and who suffers because of it? The kids. Childfree for me!

  • @ellah2303
    @ellah2303 Год назад +47

    I hate when companies take advantage of people without kids. I even contemplated using neices pics on my office desk so i can slack and leave work early when i feel like it just bc my "kid is sick".

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +4

      Honey, companies take advantage of people with kids.

    • @silververnallbells191
      @silververnallbells191 5 месяцев назад +3

      Do what you can get away with & still keep a roof over your head. A lot of these work places like to LIE & say "we're family here" but it's a complete lie. You don't owe them anything outside of your job description.

  • @echo.echo08
    @echo.echo08 Год назад +65

    I've read some comments along the lines of "Why do you CF people love to flex so much to the world that you're soooooooo happy being child-free? do you need to keep repeating it so you can convince yourself it's the truth?" to which I replied, ”personally, it's because i've been asked countless times why did i choose to be child-free and been told just as many that i will regret it and will grow old lonely and die alone that i have to reassure people that i'll be perfectly fine and i'm genuinely happy"
    maybe if such people stop asking and making unwarranted opinions about our child-free choices, we'll stop "flexing"

    • @lizzy4827
      @lizzy4827 4 месяца назад +3

      I also want to add that they are also not necessarily flexing but showing other people we can make other choices.
      The previous generation loves to call childfree people selfish and say how unhappy they are when it's simply not true, you don't need children to have a fulfilled life.

  • @D4NC3Rable
    @D4NC3Rable 11 месяцев назад +29

    I LOVE people admitting they're too selfish or lazy to have kids, that they just don't wanna, it's too loud, too messy, too expensive - every reason is valid, even (especially) NO reason given is valid; SO many parents I know shouldn't have had kids, regretted it, had them for terrible reasons and messed their kids up - I LOVE LOVE LOVE the trend of becoming self aware enough to spare other human beings the pain of having to grow up unwanted, unsupported, unacknowledged, feeling hopeless because their parents feel hopeless. Power to the child free movement, and may everyone who actually wants kids have them.

  • @manarcabrera2528
    @manarcabrera2528 Год назад +45

    I am happy for the young lady who stood up to the manager.

  • @tonyahenry8166
    @tonyahenry8166 Год назад +26

    I AM 37 NO TOXIC BABY DADDY, NO UNWANTED DRAMA OR TANTRUMS . I CAN SLEEP UNTIL 1 PM WHEN I HAVE NOTHING TO DO THAT DAY . WHEN I FEEL SICK , I CAN LAY IN BED UNTIL I FEEL BETTER . WHEN I CAN TAKE NAP , I CAN GO TAKE A NAP & WHEN I GO I DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH PAYING SOMEONE TO BABYSIT 💖

  • @anatejada1100
    @anatejada1100 Год назад +48

    By deciding to not have kids because you know you will not be the best parent is amazing…sooooo many ppl having children that SHOULD NOT, bringing kids into this world to suffer….anyways do what makes you happy, I’m one and done and I’m happy with my princess

  • @i.cant.sleep.anymore
    @i.cant.sleep.anymore Год назад +55

    Why are some of these people saying they are selfish?? There is nothing selfish about not taking on a responsibility you don't want, especially when you already have so much of your time wrapped up in just trying not to be homeless.

  • @aomoriemma
    @aomoriemma Год назад +15

    I am so proud of the lady that went to HR. I’m sitting here nodding along with her.

  • @iqualifiedtoprovemydust
    @iqualifiedtoprovemydust Год назад +159

    U got to be insane to be marrying & having kids in this wicked environment

    • @jscullyandmulderx25
      @jscullyandmulderx25 Год назад +4

      You mean Christian fundamentalist. When you say wicked. Leave at that.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 11 месяцев назад +1

      Or islamistic. These people are way worse than Christians.

    • @silververnallbells191
      @silververnallbells191 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@jscullyandmulderx25 Muslims do it, too. It's the Abrahamics in general.

    • @quartermaster1976
      @quartermaster1976 4 месяца назад

      ​@@jscullyandmulderx25Palestinians do it during war time

    • @MikaAKAJada
      @MikaAKAJada 3 месяца назад +1

      @@quartermaster1976wild sh**.

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl Год назад +95

    I’m 35 & ppl still tell me I’m going to change my mind. I don’t want kids like accept that & go home to your deadbeat adult children still at home

    • @hotindecember1951
      @hotindecember1951 Год назад +42

      I’m a mother but I know a lot of older women who never had children and they don’t regret their decision. They travel and live however they feel

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 Год назад +10

      I used to get questioned a lot by family members but luckily that stopped once my sister and in laws started pumping out the babies for the grandparents.

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Год назад +6

      I mean with this market I can’t blame the kids for staying at home. As long as they’re working or in school.

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl Год назад

      @@hotindecember1951 those are exactly my goals…. I allowed my family to talk me into college for what they wanted & couldn’t find a job afterwards. Now I’m starting over I have one small business & hope to start another one & im back in school. Work full-time & exercise frequently I don’t have time for a kid. Many married women have to do it all even with their husbands so it’s not a lane I want to go down. Some have told me they want the throw the kids & husbands away lol. My mother said she regretted having the 4 of us. We’re self sufficient like what in the world lol. I do think maybe once I’m a little older & I get the businesses running like I want I may consider fostering & helping kids learn life skills 💕.

  • @lkf8799
    @lkf8799 Год назад +24

    Was proud of the woman who stood up to her boss (had to turn the volume off and the captions on though because that sound quality was awful).
    I do believe parents deserve extra benefits and in some cases special consideration but not in a way that punishes childfree workers the way that manager was blatantly doing.

  • @bonecarego479
    @bonecarego479 11 месяцев назад +10

    I'm so proud of all the people who choose to be childfree! Motherhood is not gr8...especially when u r a single mom...

  • @nicoleprister8525
    @nicoleprister8525 Год назад +40

    As a mother of a son, I will ALWAYS tell people to wait to have kids. PLEASE. I would never convince another person to have children, I have one son I don’t know how people do it with multiple kids.

  • @olgag9901
    @olgag9901 Год назад +22

    we are allowed to be selfish with the biggest decision of our lives

  • @HandofHolmes
    @HandofHolmes Год назад +7

    Most men hate and disrespect women like the air they breathe and they don’t even know it. I’m so glad I can just laugh at it now.

  • @amydearing9866
    @amydearing9866 Год назад +9

    I have lots of friends my age and we don't have kids. Some of us chose not to, some of us had life not give the option. We are now in our 40s and not going to change our minds.

  • @plantsntrance5513
    @plantsntrance5513 9 месяцев назад +6

    So glad I have no family pressure to have kids. What a relief 😅

    • @SkyeID
      @SkyeID 3 месяца назад +1

      my parents don't want grandkids, so it's a win-win

  • @RadicalValkyrie
    @RadicalValkyrie Год назад +8

    The pie chart guy!! 🤣🤣If I had that work hours garbage happen to me being childfree, Id be reporting them or demanding more money. We have lives too. Well done to her reporting to HR and legal. Being on salary is not an excuse.

  • @suzannimal
    @suzannimal Год назад +4

    I wish the lady with the HR problem would fix her microphone, for the simple reason that, I could happily listen to her all day. She is such a badass for not letting go of a serious problem. Love her!

  • @LauraReed-wu2ww
    @LauraReed-wu2ww Год назад +17

    You're not selfish for not wanting to have children. It's your life, your choice. Nobody should shame you and say youreselfish for it

  • @amandawarry6151
    @amandawarry6151 Год назад +28

    What is it with this generation who have to do personal care publicly…

    • @williamclark1244
      @williamclark1244 Год назад +15

      You don't have to watch it. You can place something on top of the screen and just listen.

    • @videofan1010
      @videofan1010 Год назад +15

      I love watching it! It's like deconstructing perfection. Which we need. Too many fake images.

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +8

      Just like society paints this fake picture of what life should be.

  • @calmhorizons
    @calmhorizons 2 месяца назад +1

    If someone can prove to me that life is a precious gift I will have children.

  • @MN-hv5xv
    @MN-hv5xv Год назад +14

    I accept the decision ppl make to not have children! It is a life changing choice, you can’t take it back once you go there…

  • @Kc-dq7zj
    @Kc-dq7zj Год назад +7

    I love all these women!! Do you, ladies

  • @OverEverything438
    @OverEverything438 Год назад +5

    I have the same reasons at the first woman. Minus the having a husband or having a business.
    Also love how real she was when doing her routine. Love the authenticity.

  • @winter_s_44
    @winter_s_44 Год назад +4

    I LOVE the last story and so glad we got to hear the update!

  • @annnee6818
    @annnee6818 Год назад +2

    Three cheers and one "for she's a jolly good fellow" to the lady who wiped the floor with her power crazed manager

  • @idreadFell365
    @idreadFell365 10 месяцев назад +2

    Surprised to see HR coming through. I heard they’re usually not on the employee’s side.

  • @gramplolo7530
    @gramplolo7530 10 месяцев назад +2

    Why does someone have to have responsibilities/kids/family to not have to work overtime/to get time off? It doesn't matter if you just go home by yourself sit on your butt and play video games or just sleep or literally anything! It is none of your manager's business, you don't have to be doing something important to get time off. If they try to guilt you, just tell them you're unavailable/have things you need to do, and do not elaborate further, say it's personal if you need to.
    It ain't their business what you do off the clock, you aren't obligated to work overtime, and everyone deserves time off.
    The last story was awesome, love that guy who brought all the receipts, seriously gross that the manager thought she could get away with that bs (and included herself even though her kid grown).
    Even if I had kids, I'd be fighting it too, no one deserves to be treated like that.

  • @vicp99
    @vicp99 6 месяцев назад +2

    It’s wise to know yourself. And I say that as somebody with a kid. One and done btw😂. Support the childfree!

  • @shamekabenjamin8010
    @shamekabenjamin8010 Год назад +2

    That end story was everything!!!!!!! ❤❤

  • @Justaperson354
    @Justaperson354 Год назад +7

    I really hate the three videos playing at the same time it’s so hard to focus.

  • @dontbelasagna5968
    @dontbelasagna5968 Год назад +5

    When i was 15, i decided not to marry or have kids after seeing how terrible my parents marriage are like and i thought its always gonna be like that since i talked to guys at the time, and they showed that they have the mindset that women belong to the kitchen and should submit to the husband doesnt matter what and husbands have the freedom to do whatever they want..most of then guys say that at the time (11 years ago when i was 15)..so i felt like discouraged to pursue love, i focus on my studies and now my career..i even kept my v card cuz i hated men too much to give in to anyone..but last year, i started getting this maternal feeling.. kids always love me since i was teenager (also elderly people and cats also love me a lot, rarely someone old or a cat dont like me).. so when i started to feel like getting married at 25 last year, i also dont want to accept anybody. I was and has been rejecting some men that wants to marry me because they dont have the same values as me in life (either lazy dude, misogynistic, not ambitious etcetc)..so thats one thing im proud of myself, no matter how desperate, i dont just settle..even one of my crush few years ago wants to have seggs, i declined cuz idk, i feel like i have kept myself pure for so long, i want to save for marriage (but i even reject a guy that said he wants to marry me cuz im innoceent, was such a turn off that i almost puke at how he sees and views me)..earlier this year, i finally met a man that has same values as me in life etcetc but it didnt work out because of different religious view, he is very atheist..and i had a guy with same religious view but i wasnt attracted to him 😂 sometimes i feel like i have fear of intimacy because sometimes when a crush likes me back, i become distant.. i also have body jmage issue because im overweight not obese, but i feel insecure to be naked with anybody so thats also one of the reason why im saving for marriage other than for religious reason(but im not so religious so it is more personal choice)..but now i dont mind when a man says women belong to the kitchen cuz i always love to cook, just not for a man that say the most insensitive words(they are usually the lazy broke type)..i would love to cook for a good man, for my family..to nurture them love them..i have money,i work in IT department..i do chores since i was 5.. and doesnt matter if i die alone for having high standard then im glad i dont settle for low value men that will just give me mental exhaustion

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 11 месяцев назад

      A man hhat says a woman belangt to the kitchen doesn't respect women.
      I love to cook too but I would never do it as a free Service for a man that doesn't respect me.

    • @silververnallbells191
      @silververnallbells191 5 месяцев назад +1

      I can relate to you so much! I'm 42, still have my v card, never found anyone I felt was worthy of my body, always running into atheists... now I definitely don't want a patriarchal Christian. I'm a Goddess worshiper (shout outs to Kali Ma!) & I think religiously we'd have to be on the same page. I've been picking up in my own room since I was 3, but had other household chores starting age 5 like taking out the trash and vacuuming since those were easy. (I was a really religious Seventh Day Adventist when I made a vow of chastity at 18, but b4 that I was home schooled so teenage boys weren't a problem then. They're more of a problem now, bcuz I'm babyfaced & they hit on me. They really think w/o a car, a job, an education, & being of age that they stand a chance smh) I'm also chonky & don't want anyone seeing me naked lol but I think if I lost the weight I wanted to & had abs that I still wouldn't want anyone looking at me. My body is for me. I will say ABSOLUTELY stay away from low vibrational & low value men (some men who are broke can be high vibrational, but you don't need to take on their bills)! Hahahaha & cats & elderly people (as long as they're not racist) love me, too! Toddlers also love me, but they're little germ machines. I recently stopped my 9yrs of being in childcare. I'm done. Currently I'm on disability (seizures & other medical issues).. I think sometimes I could learn to code & maybe make my own app, but... who knows. It's all a journey.

    • @dontbelasagna5968
      @dontbelasagna5968 5 месяцев назад

      @@silververnallbells191 most women I know without a man, always have babyface or look really youthful 😂 maybe because of no stress? Absolutely, even if i have lost my weight, i still would prefer to save for marriage.. i have been working out and lost a bit since i made that comment.. mostly because of my health, cuz i started getting asthmatic even tho I'm not like obese or anything but i do eat oily food a lot.. im open minded with knowing guys with different religions view but i start to think maybe a same view in religion and life would make it easier.. been talking to few guys since 7 months ago, but no connections yet.. i figured that i want a high value man, so i want to be high value as well by appearance and internally and intellectually.. btw, i would totally support learning to code.. even as a side income, it will be really useful, or just for fun for now..who knows maybe in future, it comes in useful! Programming is the future jobs, idk imo actually haha i know we're both not that desperate for a man bc we know our value already but i think we're both are open if a good high value man comes into our life so i pray you find the man of your dreams ❤️ ameen

  • @samwilson4754
    @samwilson4754 4 месяца назад +1

    I have never wished for the life of those that advocate for child-free

    • @anon-c6w
      @anon-c6w 2 месяца назад

      Good for you most of us cant even afford to have kid's good luck with that one

  • @ingridgallagher1029
    @ingridgallagher1029 9 месяцев назад

    Damn... The work stories blew me away! I went to hit the like button on this video but realized i had already liked it 😂

  • @hijiri0794
    @hijiri0794 9 месяцев назад +6

    7:36 everyone dies alone .... people aren't that stupid to understand that or are they?

    • @justsomeinternetuser
      @justsomeinternetuser 4 месяца назад

      oh for sure. grandma had 6 kids and non was with her on deathbed. No one was a day seen with her or even spending with her.. "unconditional love??" where might i ask?

    • @hijiri0794
      @hijiri0794 4 месяца назад

      @@justsomeinternetuser I didn't mean it in that weird spiritual way you describe, I mean it literally. You enter the world just as alone as you leave it again.

  • @ElizabethCox-z9o
    @ElizabethCox-z9o Месяц назад

    I think this situation with employers is honestly a way to manipulate individuals who childfree or childless not by choice and try force them into having kids.

  • @sabrinalecrivainmediaTM
    @sabrinalecrivainmediaTM 26 дней назад

    As a Woman who had children and didn't want them. I can tell u. Its not worth it at all. I admire childfree Women.

  • @anabelsama
    @anabelsama 5 месяцев назад +3

    11:08 If I'm ever able to find a fucking job (very hard in my area right now), I'm just going to fake that I have 2 children I mean they are my dogs, but children nonetheless.
    "How old are your daughter??"
    "9 and 7"
    "Omg you had them very young!"
    "I did indeed" :DD

  • @vanivani5749
    @vanivani5749 3 месяца назад +1

    i wanna get married but i don't wanna have kids in this economy

  • @justprivateinformation2669
    @justprivateinformation2669 6 месяцев назад +1

    If everyone had 3 children we would very quickly run out of resources and land space, poverty, homelessness and malnutrition rates would skyrocket the air quality would be much worse (Due to a decrease in trees and an increase in CO2 production) as we take more land many species of animals will go extinct and animals attacking humans will become much more common as we will be the most available food source.
    Now onto the economy side of things: Let's assume you're doing the legal minimum for your child, so around $20 on food per week (0-3) $40 per week (4-11) $60 per week (12-18), $60 on clothes every year, $300 on medical stuff every year, $500 for a crib (0-3), $1000 for a bed (4-18), $1000 on education every year (6-18), you would still spend roughly $62,000 raising a single child (This is if you are doing the bare legal minimum, so the child will be unhealthy due to decreased medical availability and decreased food consumption, have no entertainment whatsoever, worse education because they will have no school supplies and a worsened sleep due to sleeping on the same bed for 15 years.)
    Onto the biological and psychological side of things, many people have fertility issues, STDs and/or multiple other barriers. Additionally around 10% of the population is LGBTQIA+ and the only ones out of those people willing to reproduce are bisexuals and aromantics. Some people just don't want to have a child, some people who try experience miscarriages and some just aren't able and/or willing to find a partner.
    Not to mention that raising a child takes a lot of time and effort, time which many people don't have. Children also cause a lot of stress, which isn't good for your mental health, you would have to balance a job with raising a child that can be tough.

  • @erinc.5889
    @erinc.5889 4 месяца назад

    "and I was like....I'm 5!" I know this was a serious topic, but that delivery made me laugh😊

  • @ggglassgirl136
    @ggglassgirl136 2 месяца назад

    10:47 WHOA! She left no crumbs!

  • @TheCornDavis
    @TheCornDavis 10 месяцев назад +1

    I picked the left screen. Which did you pick to watch? Lol

  • @meghan3835
    @meghan3835 11 месяцев назад +1

    I decided I don't want children. Many reasons of course but it's just I don't want. End of story. This is how I answer people when they ask me why I am childfree

  • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
    @PettyIsMyMiddleName Год назад +8

    Honestly, I don’t know why people feel the need to tell others about why they choose to remain child free?
    I’m child free , period.
    No one will pay my bills, watch my kid when I want to travel, invest in an actual human being to try to help them become functional adults, etc etc.
    So really , why would I explain anything to anyone?

  • @KathleenFulton-u1x
    @KathleenFulton-u1x Месяц назад +1

    Children are ungrateful for all your sacrifices. It cost $25,000/year!

  • @devenrivera5842
    @devenrivera5842 9 месяцев назад +1

    that's a huge take from the podcast guy who has no children. Don't listen to these bums, because they never worked at a UPS warehouse to understand how hard it is to get that check.

  • @Sussudi0
    @Sussudi0 2 месяца назад

    How many mentally unstable and broken adults join society to make harm to other just because some one wants kids and after that being lousy parent! Or being selfish and get laid but wont take responsibility of the result. So Who is selfish.

  • @BadMattOfficial
    @BadMattOfficial Год назад +9

    God these podcast bros are so effing cringe

  • @mrs.americanpie2079
    @mrs.americanpie2079 Год назад +15

    Everyone does not need to have children.
    Open disdain for children is another matter. If you live long enough, those “sticky” annoying” etc beings will be the ones taking care of you and the rest of society, not only as nurses and doctors but as sanitation workers, cooks, and grocery delivery.
    As demographics change and the younger population dwindles, there will be more and more elderly dependent on the generations they disdained.
    I’d watch the public downing of people I will need before too long.

    • @MN-hv5xv
      @MN-hv5xv Год назад +7

      Stay healthy, and you won’t need younger caregivers 😅😂

    • @gazagxrlx2974
      @gazagxrlx2974 Год назад +24

      Don't act like parents don't rely on other people's kids. There are many Moms and Dads in nursing homes who rarely get visit from adult children that have to priortize their own family.

    • @lovelymill
      @lovelymill Год назад +9

      couldnt care less

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 Год назад +22

      My mother worked in elderly care for a decade and all the people she cared for were parents whose kids wanted absolutely NO PART in caring for them, and most never even so much as called, let alone visited. Parents like to push this belief that their kids are gonna look after them when they're old when that is overwhelmingly NOT the case 99% of the time. Even if you birth 10 kids, chances are they're not going to be the ones wiping your ass and helping you shower when you can no longer do it yourself. Also, I do hate kids, they're sticky and smelly and annoying and gross. That's the 100% truth and I'm entitled to not have to be around kids If I don't want to. Just because they're going to be adults one day doesn't change the fact that right now in this moment, they're sticky, smelly, annoying and gross.

    • @mrs.americanpie2079
      @mrs.americanpie2079 Год назад +1

      @@gazagxrlx2974 You are responding to something that I neither said nor implied, but your sensitivities aren't my problem.

  • @sociallybrenden12
    @sociallybrenden12 6 месяцев назад +1

    Winning!

  • @NP-ls3js
    @NP-ls3js 20 дней назад

    3:15 revenge. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @shawn576
    @shawn576 4 месяца назад

    I can't believe z00mie doesn't have an onlyfans. She's so cute.

  • @shea5542
    @shea5542 6 месяцев назад

    Great channel name hahahah

  • @naomimills7215
    @naomimills7215 Год назад +4

    Theres so much pride that comes from being parent. My son is 15 and told me his teachers wife died and he found out today. He was telling me how he feels bad for his teacher and wishes he could take him food or something to show he cares. The pride I felt in that moment was so simple yet so intense. I could see that me and my husband are raising an amazing teenager and his compassion and empathy is something that makes me so happy to hear and see. I know he will grow into being a man who can be respected. I would never get this pride or joy from anything other than being a parent.

    • @mahlohonololebuso741
      @mahlohonololebuso741 Год назад +16

      That is great. People like you should procreate and produce human beings that are kind and caring. The rest of us will sit back and support you while we sip our mimosas. #childfreeforlife

    • @ScreamTatumRiley
      @ScreamTatumRiley Год назад +1

      @@mahlohonololebuso741facts❤

  • @eKko0
    @eKko0 10 месяцев назад

    the lady talking about childfree at work maybe should have just done the overtime because currently it sounds like shes trying to record audio on a wet potato

  • @DrLusEnglish
    @DrLusEnglish Год назад +5

    Years ago when I was in China, America was my dream land, and American people were angels to me. The American people are full of love to human beings and their families.
    Now that I live in the USA and wittiness the American people go down the road to the hell, I feel so sad, for myself, my children, and my American people.

    • @mahlohonololebuso741
      @mahlohonololebuso741 Год назад +3

      I'm a South African 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 and I think Americans are advanced in their thinking. They live in the future. Very conscious.

    • @silververnallbells191
      @silververnallbells191 5 месяцев назад

      @@mahlohonololebuso741 Some of us are advanced, but a lot of the Christian fundamentalists/Christofascists are VERY backwards & OK w/causing real harm to women & children.

  • @rsviews2167
    @rsviews2167 10 месяцев назад +1

    I support childfree women because one of life's toughest ordeal is precisely to put up with a power hungry mother that can NEVER be satisfied.

  • @miranivari3066
    @miranivari3066 Год назад +15

    The only reason I don't really agree with is spite. You feel like you played them but you've only really played yourself. You really gave them that much power over your life.

    • @themom2250
      @themom2250 Год назад +16

      No power was given. That's your take.

    • @miranivari3066
      @miranivari3066 Год назад

      @@themom2250 Yes, it is my opinion.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 Год назад

      No power was given to the MIL because the woman didn't really want kids in the first place. Fence sitters are basically people who have FOMO. Her MIL just tipped her completely back to her senses by being such a nasty b*tch. I so admire her level of petty. 😂

    • @SomeOne-yv8jf
      @SomeOne-yv8jf Год назад +1

      What power?

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +5

      @@miranivari3066the power to decide what to do with my body? The power to not sacrifice my life for another? The power to not use my body to further a man’s bloodline? What power? If you want be a incubator, go ahead. Last I check society doesn’t respect women, especially single mothers and do you really want to be stuck being the primary parent? Maybe if I was a man I’d want children but I’m not, and so I’ll be opting out of a lifetime slave contract.

  • @ccd5942
    @ccd5942 3 месяца назад

    Kids do random dumb stuff …..

  • @violet18
    @violet18 5 месяцев назад

    Yikes. Some woman forced her husband to eat spicy foods so that she could have it her way. If a man said he conditioned his wife to finally like something his way, people would be livid.

  • @deligeorgieva8535
    @deligeorgieva8535 4 месяца назад +1

    first woman saying "life is already so expensive" while using makeup products she can go without and be fine

    • @wiglicious.
      @wiglicious. 3 месяца назад +2

      Doesn’t matter 🤷🏾‍♀️she doesn’t have to give that up for kids and her not having the makeup won’t make life not expensive

  • @Shelb13v
    @Shelb13v 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hmmm. You have a husband that doesn't want children. Doesn't that disgust you?
    But work is not a child.
    Kids are able to behave well.
    People aren't frustrated that someone doesn't have children. It's that you intentionally don't have children. There's a huge list of problems connected to it.
    In part, when you're old, the younger generations are responsible to protect and care for the women that couldn't have children or are widowed, (you know how many lonely/family less elderly women get their stuff/money stolen and just end up in bad situations?) but that kind of thing happens, just not intentionally. So "child free" women are relying on other people's children to care for them in their old age instead of investing in their own children.
    People tend to not like people that only care about money
    People tend to not like people that don't like other people (crazy right?)
    People tend to feel frustrated when there's a lack of understanding with real life problems. Unrealistic expectations become normal.
    Men with that mindset are basically wanting you to mother them so they don't have to have real responsibilities.

    • @christins.1481
      @christins.1481 5 месяцев назад +4

      So, men expect their kids to mother them then.
      My parents don't expect me to take care of them because they had me. They didn't have me for their retirement plans. They had me because they wanted to love their kid. My parents live in reality, they know I can't stop paying my Bills to take care of them. What they do is compensate by owning my Bilks when I gave to help them because I'm missing work by helping them.
      You see how that works?
      So, either way it goes, I'll be paying someone to take care of me because they can't quit working to take care of me. Might as well bypass having the kids part and just pay someone to take care of me. At least that way I'll have money for retirement. If my caretaker is having problems finding a place to live, they can live in my house rent free.

  • @LydiBugB-zk2ls
    @LydiBugB-zk2ls Месяц назад

    Here’s a reason to somebody to have kids if you’re not sure that nobody talks about. You have absolutely no one to care for you when you get old in the nursing home. It’s kinda like a scratch my back I’ll scratch yours within time lol

  • @thunderous1237
    @thunderous1237 2 месяца назад

    Where are these women that baby their husbands and children at the same time? Haha 🤣 never witnessed that kind of trait in women 😂

  • @dr.anereemorgan
    @dr.anereemorgan 11 месяцев назад

    We must also take note that some ppl claiming they don’t want kids secretly know they can’t have kids. They then start spreading made up reasons why they “choose” not to have kids scaring and influencing their light headed followers.

  • @DrLusEnglish
    @DrLusEnglish Год назад +11

    Life is the most precious gift in the world. Kids are the best gift in the world. When you miss such a gift, your life got wasted. Period. You did not live the whole life.

    • @childfreegamer8840
      @childfreegamer8840 Год назад +35

      No.

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV Год назад +1

      What if your wife divorces you and takes the kids away? Then she lies about you and says you are a monster. Then you need to pay 18 years of child support. Then your kid grows up, commits a crime and goes to jail....
      Having a kid... you have to have the right partner? Do you think people should just have a kid with ANYONE? It's very hard to find someone you love. Finding someone that can be a good spouse to help you raise a partner is very hard. So many people cheat on their wives with other lovers. If you have a kid, there is nothing you can do about it.
      DrLucEnglish... you are a dumbass.

    • @Noname-ni8qm
      @Noname-ni8qm Год назад +7

      Nope,people life is wasted when they dont want to help to foster or adopt if they cant have kids. Still so many people nowdays misprize that big thing to help a child which is in that position and maybe will end up very bad in future because SO many people think only their blood matter and they are ready to suck donations,long procedures,painful also only to get something that spoil their family life,when intimacy becomes rhoutine like u go doctor and if finally u get this child your life will be not the same or u will divorce,cus the idea for own kid is been the only one thing that is keep your marriage. All this kind procedures promote to cheapen orphaned kids,or if they are been born in bad family and majority wants to foster them because get money everymont. Same is petshops,government alows anyone to breed their animals and put them down like nothing,because like human kids they are product of irresponsible people...Society still is not civilised and is good has so many g.y people nowdays,because they are given chance to kids. And of course to has kid is precious gift,but people continue after that when they has no space for second one,not enough money or time. We see in american movies how normal families start to make savings for collage even before to has kid,right ;) And if they decide to has second one they need to save more money 😂 And again often comes the situation the two parents get tired from life and they divorce. We see this everyday,and maybe 50 percent are not because of drugs,gambling or alcoholic addiction.

    • @MN-hv5xv
      @MN-hv5xv Год назад +17

      That’s not true…think about all these horrible adults…they were once terrible kids!!!

    • @themom2250
      @themom2250 Год назад +18

      So the gift of life is a child? Some people are fine without that gift.

  • @DrLusEnglish
    @DrLusEnglish Год назад +7

    If someone offers me $100 million for not having kids, I would say go away. Don’t be stupid.

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 Год назад +1

      you need to stop commenting on this video, you're obsessed and creepy

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 Год назад +22

      If someone offered me 1 million not to have kids, I would take it in a heartbeat. I don't want them anyway. Win/win for me.

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +10

      Cool best not ask anyone to look after your burden

    • @mikeschmid4841
      @mikeschmid4841 Год назад +15

      What if you took the 100 million and adopt some of the 500,000 kids in foster care?

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel 10 месяцев назад +1

      If someone offered me a trillion for having a child, I would refuse. Even being homeless without kids would be preferable to have kids

  • @amandak.4246
    @amandak.4246 29 дней назад +1

    the woman in her 50s talking about her amicable divorce looked like she was in her late 20s, early 30s....another reason to be childfree, to stay looking young!

  • @dominiquewindom5820
    @dominiquewindom5820 Год назад +1

    Is this how we keep the species going ok do you.

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +26

      Not my job, I didn’t even ask to be here. You probably don’t even like most of the species yet you wanna make more 😂

    • @Sarah-ts1jh
      @Sarah-ts1jh Год назад +19

      Who wants to keep this cruel destructive species going anyway? Going extinct isn't bad for anyone

    • @Hollyucinogen
      @Hollyucinogen Год назад +15

      There are 50,000 children in the American foster care system. Maybe they'll keep humanity going? Just an idea.

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel 10 месяцев назад +3

      Human population is 10 times higher than sustainable. And consumption is 100 times higher

  • @DrLusEnglish
    @DrLusEnglish Год назад +9

    Kids are the most meaningful things in life, without kids life is wasted.

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl Год назад +42

      I’m sure parents w/adults kids at home don’t feel that way

    • @DrLusEnglish
      @DrLusEnglish Год назад

      @@CoCo-yv3hl
      The truth to me is that I feel like have a new life again when my adult kids moved in to my home. I am so grateful for the second life feeling.

    • @TheDavy83
      @TheDavy83 Год назад +22

      I'm sure most mothers don't feel this way.

    • @rengurenge
      @rengurenge Год назад +1

      @@CoCo-yv3hl I will be happy if my kids stay with me at home after they reach adulthood. My mom stayed with my grandma until her passing away and everybody benefited from that. It is American consumerism what shames kids for not leaving at 18 and for not dumping their parents in poorhouse when they are old because when peoples are single all they have is job and instead of needing one home and other stuff for whole family each family member needs home which drives prices up. I didn't think about having kids until I met my now husband who really wanted kids and I become pregnant, now if I could I would want lots of kids but unfortunately in todays unstable world no more than 3. You haven't lived and grew up if you don't have kids.

    • @Franciscaharrison1978
      @Franciscaharrison1978 Год назад +27

      Life is wasted??? You must be lucky that a parent didn't tell you they regretted having you, because some of us had that. Not everybody should or can be a parent for many reasons.

  • @ykonratev
    @ykonratev Год назад +4

    Lol my business is my baby....ok lets get an update in 20 years will your business take care of you and be there for you when youre old. It will bring you zero happiness you literslly will not give a crap about you business

    • @childfreegamer8840
      @childfreegamer8840 Год назад +1

      Your kids aren’t looking after you when you’re old kids aren’t a retirement plan you selfish person

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV Год назад +35

      Most adults can't retire in the US now due to the bad economy. Social security will collapse eventually.
      I have saved millions and to be honest, when I am 80... I will still be in very good shape due to excellent exercise.
      My caretakers will be young and gorgeous. I will pay them to look after me, if needed.
      Enjoy your annoying kids fighting over your will.

    • @mirjanapucarevic2105
      @mirjanapucarevic2105 Год назад +27

      Children don't care about their parents anymore

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV Год назад

      Exactly and if you try to raise kids to be decent people, the society is so sick... The environment and other kids can twist them.@@mirjanapucarevic2105

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 Год назад +1

      you are delusional if you think your children are going to be caring for you when you're old. The person wiping your ass for you will be a paid carer, not your kids who will have their own lives to focus on. You're a horrible and selfish person if you expect your kids, who did not ask to be born, to slave away looking after you

  • @Recuper8
    @Recuper8 Год назад +1

    Smart western men don't want to breed with Western women anyway. So win win😊

    • @iwillnotseeyourreply.9235
      @iwillnotseeyourreply.9235 Год назад +9

      Men not being rarted challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +1

      Check the stats, it’s global. Birth rates are dropping as we speak

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +1

      Also if you wanted women to be mothers you’d treat them better. You guys also constantly attack single mothers and cheat. So women are more likely to become single mothers, the same people men treat badly. You’ll hate us either way so best to choose the easiest option which is not reproducing

    • @LauraStutz-iu9zo
      @LauraStutz-iu9zo Год назад +9

      u want a trophy

    • @aaunyea4799
      @aaunyea4799 8 месяцев назад +6

      Cause yall want to fuck up some girl life who won't be able to run

  • @kawakiyang7049
    @kawakiyang7049 Год назад +42

    kids are just too annoying

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +17

      They're very anoyying

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 Год назад +9

      I disagree. Parents are MORE annoying, but kids are a close second.

    • @daniellarkins3849
      @daniellarkins3849 Год назад +1

      Children aren't annoying, but ignorant ass adults withing shitty interpersonal skills are.

    • @LauraStutz-iu9zo
      @LauraStutz-iu9zo Год назад

      And there BRATS

  • @mamiemoore8069
    @mamiemoore8069 Год назад +2

    This is so sad the fertility rate is so low in America . Yet we have these people rejoicing they have no one to carry on their blood line. On second thought maybe that's not such a bad idea. We don't need more people thinking like this or we will die off.

    • @childfreegamer8840
      @childfreegamer8840 Год назад +35

      No one’s bloodline is that important!!

    • @bajorekjon
      @bajorekjon Год назад +1

      Exactly, people are free to do what they want but don't promote it.

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV Год назад +2

      As a man, there are so many bad things that to perfectly align for you to raise kids now.
      1. Your wife doesn't divorce you and take 70% of everything.
      2. You don't get cheated on.
      3. You find a suitable partner that isn't selfish.
      4. WW3 doesn't occur. We are close. How can you bring children into the world, when you know that a nuclear war is right around the corner?
      5. The society is toxic and SUPER liberal. Where would you raise kids? Is there any place that hasn't been perverted in the US?
      6. You need at least 2 million USD to raise 2 kids from child birth to adulthood? Who has that money now?
      7. Kids tie you down. By that I mean... You must be ready to go to war because you are not getting far with kids when all hell brakes loose.

    • @darrellohare2573
      @darrellohare2573 Год назад +9

      @@StarPlatinumV 💯👍
      Not having a kid =
      ·Being immune to government's threats to comply with it's will or else have my kids taken from me.
      ·Not having to see my children brainwashed into getting their genitals mutilated and/or be made to celebrate such barbaric practices and being put in jail if I attempt to intervene in anyway.
      ·Knowing that when the inevitable conflagration hits (should it not come to pass during my own lifetime) that no one of my blood will be there on the pyre or among those stacking the kindling.

    • @StarPlatinumV
      @StarPlatinumV Год назад

      EXACTLY. And I believe the government knows that children are tools of compliance. @@darrellohare2573

  • @nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405
    @nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405 Год назад +1

    2:04 I can give you a very good biological reason why you shold have kids but by listening you i decide taht is better that you do not have kids.

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +2

      Noby cares what you want

    • @lovelymill
      @lovelymill Год назад +26

      we do not care

    • @nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405
      @nedyalkokarabadzhakov5405 Год назад

      @@lovelymill you dont and that is your right but biology do. If you don have kids your genome will be deleted from the evolutionary tree of life, translated to a human language as if you never existed. LIfe with no purpose. Memory of other fades when you die, your kids are your continuation on this planet. But hey if dont care me to. Just educating you,

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 Год назад +2

      I can also give you even more biological reasons not to reproduce, especially if you are a woman.

    • @mahlohonololebuso741
      @mahlohonololebuso741 Год назад

      ​@@lovelymill😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nmm913
    @nmm913 Год назад +2

    I feel bad for these people. Most of these women will be 40 yrs old and crying when the oprion is gone. Your career and free time wont be there to care for you in old age or tske your last breath. What an unfulfilling life to be childless

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад +17

      Do you know what my parents will be doing? Lol 😂 like I’m not looking after them and you can’t be sure your kids will look after you

    • @amberrichards2778
      @amberrichards2778 Год назад +13

      Adoption is an option. 🙄
      You really think your kids will be there for you? Good luck with that. Hope you didn't make any mistakes.
      (I'll be honest, you'll probably die alone with the attitude you're displaying here)

    • @LadyMarigoldWithers
      @LadyMarigoldWithers Год назад +17

      41f here, very happy with my childfree choice. I don’t like children and have never wanted them. I’m curious as to why you’re here?

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel 10 месяцев назад +6

      Oh look you think you are a psychic. Aww that's so cute 😂

    • @silververnallbells191
      @silververnallbells191 5 месяцев назад +1

      40? Most women can still give birth in their 40s. It doesn't matter if you're surrounded by people or by yourself. We all cross the rainbow bridge alone. And I will say just because you're no where near as smart as you think you are: YOU DO NOT get to choose when or how you die unless you self delete. Chances of you being alone are extremely high. You need to turn to Kali Ma and overcome your fear of old age and death.

  • @returningtoperfection
    @returningtoperfection Год назад +1

    It's stupid education to say don't trust in a man, but these females will trust in the government.
    What happens to their money when the government renders fiat currency obsolete?

    • @MN-hv5xv
      @MN-hv5xv Год назад

      Lol when the government makes fiat currency obsolete then won’t it affect the males too?? Lmao stfu😊😅

    • @lovelymill
      @lovelymill Год назад +17

      and what men will do? its not like they wont be affected 😂😂

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 Год назад +22

      calling women "females" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 Год назад +15

      Gotta love the way people think only men have money. 😂

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Год назад

      Do you care that women are being off an a hourly basis by men?

  • @Noname-ni8qm
    @Noname-ni8qm Год назад +1

    First one,so many people pop out kids that has no future so has enough to foster or adopt. Now people will say-oo is not the same 😂 Well nowdays people still follow their million years old instinct to breed,including to not make abortion when is been their fault with the excuse that every person need to feel what is to have child 😂 And that when u has no stable job,or u are not even married,and all kind thing that need kid to live happy they still reproduce and society encourage them even when they are not 18. 😂 It means parents are the same. This is happen mostly in the rotten America,that is why there has so many homeless zombies from small age. People need to accept that many of them cant take care even for cat! And when they decide to try what will be the result to have kid they end up in broken marriage when they cant bear the family life . That is why so so many men divorce nowdays and some are nowhere to be seen and dont know their kids 😂 I will give u example how century or bad life not always is excuse. My grandfather is been born in poor village family of 4,education that time is not been free except first degree and also he lived since he turned 17 without electricity also...So ,he relocated in the capital and get married and with his job he started to save money to buy apartment to live a normal life. When my grandma somehow got pregnant he told her to make abortion because " He is been born poor and wants all what he earn in his life as money and property to be enough for his only one child " For that years this is been very bold,but smart man,no matter his start in life.

    • @lovelymill
      @lovelymill Год назад +2

      "somehow get pregnant" is very funny to hear

  • @amandak.4246
    @amandak.4246 29 дней назад +1

    the audio is really bad on some of the videos, it's hard to listen to