That is the biggest bunch of Horse Manure I have ever heard or read. When it is time to discuss people we must never back away because we might be thought of as having small minds. Discussing people is just what we went through in this very contested presidential election, so don't buy into that BS because it sounds clever. It is just more intellectual bubblegum. The original second stanza was; "Average minds discuss things" not events !
To me we attract what we are or looking for, we can not just get away from them, we have to love who we are, and these people will not longer affect us and there is a chance that you can have a more healthy dynamic with them, we learn to sett boundaries to express what we feel and need, respect our believes and others.
I was in the same situation , when I started focusing on my improvement , I lost most of the ppl whom i regarded as friends.. well now I'm lonely . I went from being popular to always staying indoors without friends, not entirely true since I have a handful of trust worthy friends .. but the truth is it's hard to go on without friends eventhough they are fake.. yet could never achieve your goals by being stuck to them . I hope you learn something from every experience.. and understand the true value of the ppl who truly love you . Very best of luck ..do what's best fr you.
Another point about gossipers: See how they're gossiping about so-and-so with you and your coworkers in the break room? As soon as you leave, you can bet they're gossiping about you. That's how it works.
The most difficult people, terrible toxic are the BULLY, they harm us in many ways intentionally and sometimes unintentionally which both damages our human wholeness. That's the only best I can add, all in this video are great content (+;
every person we confront in our life is one of "these".. we should know how to cope with them rather than saying goodbye to them. Anyway video is good. It's just my opinion.
people trust! not everyone is a toxic person a few acts of toxicity does not make you a toxic person.Its the practice and habit of them thats makes you a toxic person and you don't "have" to put yourself through misery for such people.
I think you could revise your list. Mood swings are normal for people who are lost and try to do their best in life not people who go completely from happy to hitting you
@@5Grace111 whenever I did that to my mom (for her constant gossiping and put me down in front of STRANGER") she argued she never did that, it was just my imagination (in fact I heard it from my room while she gossiping me with her friends)..we have been flighting for this continuously for more than 10 yrs finally I had it enough and stop talking to her for a year..
niharika mam good bless you by watching your sessions I can now realize that life is very beautiful....and your sessions gives me a chance to think that m I right or wrong.... thank you very much....may God bless you and may your dreams come true.....
2. Victims; You over generalize on this one completely. Not all victims pain and misery are optional. There are case where the victims can experience abuse from others that drive them to be a victim, not by choice. You have people who are involved with Cluster B types. Actual victims need help to heal and recover from a situation. Kind people are helpful. Now, if you are talking about people who choose to be intentional victims, then I totally agree. 6.). Mood swingers? Wait a second. Over generalizing again. What about women experiencing their monthly change and menopause; it varies. I see your points, but you are over generalizing.
Very good video- not only was it informative but it also made me reflect on certain aspects that make me toxic- I'm going to work on those things and try to be a better person
Honestly speaking,each and every person has some or all the qualities listed above. Now it isn't possible to stay away from everyone. I just maintaining boundaries with negative people and talking to a limit will work.
Hi dear I am a student from delhi. After going through your comment it looks like that you are very proficient in english. And to be honest you thoughts is very nice I appreciate you from bottom of my heart So I want to talk to you so that I can improve my speaking english as well as I can get some good things from you. Please reply if you don't mind
We all can display some of these traits - there is not a human alive who doesn't judge others; but that is different to pathological levels of judgement. You know someone is toxic when you feel drained after being around them. You are the sum of the top 5 people you spend the most time with, so choose wisely!
Most people are toxic.I had to deal with many toxic people in my life.I can think of atleast one person in each category.We need to be mentally strong in order to deal with them.At times,cutting ties with them is the best option .It is unhealthy to tolerate everything quietly.
Ofcourse your description is absolutely correct , but we live in a society were there are large numbers people who are negative people, bullying vulnerable people, arrogant people just try to put down by there attitude they know they are not competent ,.
Everyone in the world will act this way, it's just better to ignore their negativity and improve yourself so the negative things they do may be able to slip back some, but it doesn't always work
This is basically everyone . Almost all my friends have one or the other trait that's actually said in the video.....That is sad. I'll be so lonely getting rid of these people....
Sometimes we too have these characteristics in ourselves even if it's not always. We can remind ourselves not to be influenced by them but ignoring them completely is not a good idea. In reality, everybody is different. That what makes them unique. we need to accept those differences in people like how we want to be accepted by being ourselves. Maybe some people need help and maybe some are just still learning through stages of life.
Thanks niharika for the best vedios ever, The vedio how to controll being abused is such a great one,nd thinking why shouldent i watched this vedio earlier,but such problems were happening to me and dont know how but thank God i breaked my relation due to such things happening with me so,,👍best vedios
If I accept your tips I will be alone . you will never find any person who doesn't have any of these habits . It's not because people are bad but it's a human nature . it's a very easy easy to bring all golden lines together but when you look around or yourself then you understand than reality is different . Every person is unique ,so when you search people who behave according to you , you will get no one .
I truly agree with you because not every person is perfect. Every person has one of these things. Ya and as you said its just the human nature. We all have defects in us but that does not mean that we take advantage of these and make fun of others misfortune. This video has highlighted the characterstics of humans. But overall the video was nice
You’re all so toxic. I know because my spirit hurts when I read your words. Discernment and all. Something very sinister behind your minds. Creepy humans.
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thank you so much...you just make it clear in my mind about this concept.... earlier i was confused about whom to choose to hangout with...but now it is clear... thanks a lot
People talking abt dealing wid toxic ppl, but the truth is dat u can't Deal wid toxic ppl at all. Because dealing with such person is like giving dem da opportunity to use their toxic strategies against u. They won't miss any opportunity to break you. They are very gud at destroying yr inner peace,the toxic person em dealing with consists all these things in her personality.I always tried my level best to deal with her in a different way but trust me it never worked always ended up feeling drained.
In India most people discuss other people gossiping makes their negative life. And the other types you mentioned are also present in large numbers. How does one lead a life in such a place? Who inspires and supports us in India?
Hi dear I am a student from delhi. After going through your comment it looks like that you are very proficient in english. So I want to talk to you so that I can improve my speaking english as well as I can get some good things from you. Please reply if you don't mind
Wow what a nice video which describes all types of people. I note these all 7 types in my notebook so that it can be remembered thoroughly while choosing people around my self. Thanks for this AWESOME information about people.
See..everyone are one of a kind..we cant get rid of anyone around us by the way..the thing is we should b matured enough to handle them and the situation..
My bestie is a mood swinger....she changes her mood very frequently.... Sometimes I just exhausted to let her set .... But still she's my bestie... I don't want to let her suffer ... At the same time I don't want myself to suffer... What to do now....
WELL ONE THING I KNOW LIFE IS TO SHORT SO IN ORDER FOR US TO BE HAPPY HANG OUT WITH THE POSITIVE AND NON JUDGE MENTAL PEOPLE BE SUROUNDED WITH THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE GOOD ENERGY AND GOD BLESS❤
Then you support evil and must be opposed. Yes, YOU are not equal to me. I see you as below, as a supporter of evil. Try to argue with me and watch the consequences unfold.
I disagree with some things - gossip people: Just because you gossip doesn't mean that it is always negative, sometimes you can gossip about the good qualities of person or your concern about a person. - the victims: Just because you talk a lot about your problems doesn't make you a victim. Sometimes you just want advice and different opinions about something from other people. - I don't agree with the mood swingers. I also have mood swings sometimes. Also you can get mood swings caused by traumatic events and abuse and unfinished things. I agree about the envious people,the arrogant people, the criticizers and the judgemental.
Great mind discuss ideas
Average mind discuss events
Small mind discuss people.
Gossip is drama we don't need it
Laksha Deirwa ...hell yea...you know the dance.!!!
That is the biggest bunch of Horse Manure I have ever heard or read. When it is time to discuss people we must never back away because we might be thought of as having small minds. Discussing people is just what we went through in this very contested presidential election, so don't buy into that BS because it sounds clever. It is just more intellectual bubblegum.
The original second stanza was; "Average minds discuss things" not events !
Masturbation is winning
To me we attract what we are or looking for, we can not just get away from them, we have to love who we are, and these people will not longer affect us and there is a chance that you can have a more healthy dynamic with them, we learn to sett boundaries to express what we feel and need, respect our believes and others.
Well said. "There are people who inspire you, and there are people who drain you" choose well.
“Leaders can let you fail and yet not let you be a failure.” Sharing some love from small RUclipsr
basically Stay away from people 😂😂😂 Problem Solved
Neeraj Majumdar 😂😂😂😂😂😂ur mad
Neeraj Majumdar yes😂😂
Ha ha ha
Then how can u leave in this world ?
Absolutely.
The people with whom i m living have all d characters.... I need to be stay alone n be happy😊😊😊
I was in the same situation , when I started focusing on my improvement , I lost most of the ppl whom i regarded as friends.. well now I'm lonely . I went from being popular to always staying indoors without friends, not entirely true since I have a handful of trust worthy friends .. but the truth is it's hard to go on without friends eventhough they are fake.. yet could never achieve your goals by being stuck to them . I hope you learn something from every experience.. and understand the true value of the ppl who truly love you . Very best of luck ..do what's best fr you.
Another point about gossipers: See how they're gossiping about so-and-so with you and your coworkers in the break room? As soon as you leave, you can bet they're gossiping about you. That's how it works.
Rubizel Murgatroyd very, very true
Yes indeed
Moral of the vedio : Be alone and love yourself 🤗🤗
Unfortunately many jobs have employees who are gossipers, and working in close proximity with them is miserable.
The most difficult people, terrible toxic are the BULLY, they harm us in many ways intentionally and sometimes unintentionally which both damages our human wholeness. That's the only best I can add, all in this video are great content (+;
every person we confront in our life is one of "these".. we should know how to cope with them rather than saying goodbye to them. Anyway video is good. It's just my opinion.
ur pronunciation sounds fake😂
thanx...skillopedia....really helped..me....in my current stressful situation of my life.....thanx niharika....
Exactly. It is difficult to always around people who are the cream of the crop.
Yes, we need to learn how to deal with these people..
people trust! not everyone is a toxic person a few acts of toxicity does not make you a toxic person.Its the practice and habit of them thats makes you a toxic person and you don't "have" to put yourself through misery for such people.
I think you could revise your list. Mood swings are normal for people who are lost and try to do their best in life not people who go completely from happy to hitting you
I have 2 toxic friends,when i decide to away with them my positivity comes back 😊
This video is very useful for me. I am staying in hostel, so this is very important for me to remember which people are non-toxic & toxic arround me.
Correct
Anindita Sadhukhan
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Anindita Sadhukhan
If you think positive everything is good if you think negative and everything will be bad. So stay positive
Ya, make a list of toxic and non toxic people and let us know what u found.
I wish I had known these way back
niharika you're the best teacher on this channel .
No
What about if they are family members who complain about everything?
Jane Roth. Tell them to "Stop. And it is Enough." Set your boundaries with them.
Jane Roth yes stay away still miss them how?
My brothers and sisters make me hopleless everyday
@@5Grace111 whenever I did that to my mom (for her constant gossiping and put me down in front of STRANGER") she argued she never did that, it was just my imagination (in fact I heard it from my room while she gossiping me with her friends)..we have been flighting for this continuously for more than 10 yrs finally I had it enough and stop talking to her for a year..
It is so true but I recognize myself in those personalities
Holy crap, my friend almost has all of these...
I already got rid of them lately! ;) I knew they will not let me go anywhere!
everyone on this world has one of these issues. whether you like it or not you got to deal with them. Don't let the negativity influence you.
Sorry, who appointed you as my lord and master?
niharika mam good bless you by watching your sessions I can now realize that life is very beautiful....and your sessions gives me a chance to think that m I right or wrong.... thank you very much....may God bless you and may your dreams come true.....
2. Victims; You over generalize on this one completely. Not all victims pain and misery are optional. There are case where the victims can experience abuse from others that drive them to be a victim, not by choice. You have people who are involved with Cluster B types. Actual victims need help to heal and recover from a situation. Kind people are helpful. Now, if you are talking about people who choose to be intentional victims, then I totally agree.
6.). Mood swingers? Wait a second. Over generalizing again. What about women experiencing their monthly change and menopause; it varies. I see your points, but you are over generalizing.
We all have been envious from time to time ..that is human nature
good your confidence. Thanks Niharika the best teacher
Very good video- not only was it informative but it also made me reflect on certain aspects that make me toxic- I'm going to work on those things and try to be a better person
Honestly speaking,each and every person has some or all the qualities listed above. Now it isn't possible to stay away from everyone.
I just maintaining boundaries with negative people and talking to a limit will work.
This is a great talk. Thanks for giving excellent advices.
"Everything in life, is a negotiation". If I need to hear that ad one more time. geez.
extremely helpful for the beginners.....
THANKS a lot.
Hi dear I am a student from delhi. After going through your comment it looks like that you are very proficient in english. And to be honest you thoughts is very nice I appreciate you from bottom of my heart So I want to talk to you so that I can improve my speaking english as well as I can get some good things from you. Please reply if you don't mind
You are grate you inspired me thanks& God bless you
If I stay away from that people I will be alone Hahahah
Oscar Broch even i was thinking the same😂😅.......we will be all alone....Lol
Oscar Broch hahhahahaha , you're right
Oscar Broch ha ha ha
We all can display some of these traits - there is not a human alive who doesn't judge others; but that is different to pathological levels of judgement. You know someone is toxic when you feel drained after being around them. You are the sum of the top 5 people you spend the most time with, so choose wisely!
Shell Bell what to do if those draining type of ppl is Ur own family
Most people are toxic.I had to deal with many toxic people in my life.I can think of atleast one person in each category.We need to be mentally strong in order to deal with them.At times,cutting ties with them is the best option .It is unhealthy to tolerate everything quietly.
in which way u talk .... I just love that
This video learn me to realize my fiends. Nuharika is a best teacher.
"This video taught me to realise my friends. Niharika is the best teacher "
Thank you . i appreciate your help!
i suggest be confident since meeting people enriched ur experience so be yourself and learn from them especially the good part without ignoring them.
nice lesson...thanks skillopedia..
Ofcourse your description is absolutely correct , but we live in a society were there are large numbers people who are negative people, bullying vulnerable people, arrogant people just try to put down by there attitude they know they are not competent ,.
instead of stay away please allow everybody with their limitation and you stay as yourself and compassionate to their limitation.
Everyone in the world will act this way, it's just better to ignore their negativity and improve yourself so the negative things they do may be able to slip back some, but it doesn't always work
This is basically everyone . Almost all my friends have one or the other trait that's actually said in the video.....That is sad. I'll be so lonely getting rid of these people....
Sometimes we too have these characteristics in ourselves even if it's not always. We can remind ourselves not to be influenced by them but ignoring them completely is not a good idea. In reality, everybody is different. That what makes them unique. we need to accept those differences in people like how we want to be accepted by being ourselves. Maybe some people need help and maybe some are just still learning through stages of life.
That’s just so wrong and toxic in itself.
You are correct
Thanks niharika for the best vedios ever,
The vedio how to controll being abused is such a great one,nd thinking why shouldent i watched this vedio earlier,but such problems were happening to me and dont know how but thank God i breaked my relation due to such things happening with me so,,👍best vedios
niharika, i am fascinated about the way you convey meangning and i feel inspired by your lessons
Outstanding presentation! Potentially life saving. Keep it up.
you just listed 10 types of people that live in the world.
If I accept your tips I will be alone . you will never find any person who doesn't have any of these habits . It's not because people are bad but it's a human nature . it's a very easy easy to bring all golden lines together but when you look around or yourself then you understand than reality is different . Every person is unique ,so when you search people who behave according to you , you will get no one .
Rakesh Yadav true
I truly agree with you because not every person is perfect. Every person has one of these things. Ya and as you said its just the human nature. We all have defects in us but that does not mean that we take advantage of these and make fun of others misfortune. This video has highlighted the characterstics of humans. But overall the video was nice
You’re all so toxic. I know because my spirit hurts when I read your words. Discernment and all. Something very sinister behind your minds. Creepy humans.
Methinks you say that because you have these traits and don't want to change :D
If she meant people who always play victim then I understand
Wow all the tips is true....😊😊. Thank you so much ma'am.....🙏😊.
Video is excellent. Unfortunately people we meet are one of these kinds so we can not afford to stay away from everybody and be alone.
your way of teaching is superb
Only person one needs to stay away from are, insecure people. Nothing more, nothing less.
I love you niharika , I love all your videos ,in fact you are the best teacher in skillopedia
very nice video your tips are very good...as i to have seen such people trying to put good people down and criticize
I love people criticise me..don't know why,I just love this entertainment
Excellent 👍👍👍. Helpful for real life
Sometimes it's hard to break away from a toxic relationship but you will only truly move forward once you let them go
Hi dear I am a student from delhi. After going through your comment it looks like that you are very proficient in english. So I want to talk to you so that I can improve my speaking english as well as I can get some good things from you. Please reply if you don't mind
thanks Niharika.. I like all ur videos. please keep uploading such informative videos.
Great content, really it helped me a lot to grow up. It’s true that you’ll lose that people but they are nothing for you.
this video is very use for me . thanksa lot .mam
Bravo for all your videos, very good state of mind!
Your background music is very nice your word are clear and meaningful thank for valuable advice .
Thank you Niharika mam ur all videos are full of knowledge and gives the guidance for successful life and right decision in mind.
thank you so much...you just make it clear in my mind about this concept.... earlier i was confused about whom to choose to hangout with...but now it is clear... thanks a lot
I stay independent of people and try not to develop the best friend assumption mentality but will there for anyone if my time allows
One kind should be added in it "Controlling one"
People talking abt dealing wid toxic ppl, but the truth is dat u can't
Deal wid toxic ppl at all. Because dealing with such person is like giving dem da opportunity to use their toxic strategies against u. They won't miss any opportunity to break you. They are very gud at destroying yr inner peace,the toxic person em dealing with consists all these things in her personality.I always tried my level best to deal with her in a different way but trust me it never worked always ended up feeling drained.
it's really helpful to differentiate such kind of people around me....... Thank You Niharika
Very good lesson for all successful people all world full of these kind of people positivity is compulsory for all human being
In India most people discuss other people gossiping makes their negative life. And the other types you mentioned are also present in large numbers. How does one lead a life in such a place? Who inspires and supports us in India?
Your tips r very important mam but I know it is very difficult to find someone who don't have these qualities.
Hi dear I am a student from delhi. After going through your comment it looks like that you are very proficient in english. So I want to talk to you so that I can improve my speaking english as well as I can get some good things from you. Please reply if you don't mind
yours tips are inspiring me to live as a very positive person.! thanks.
"What will people say"
This sendtence has killed so many dreams more than anything else in the world.
Wow what a nice video which describes all types of people. I note these all 7 types in my notebook so that it can be remembered thoroughly while choosing people around my self. Thanks for this AWESOME information about people.
See..everyone are one of a kind..we cant get rid of anyone around us by the way..the thing is we should b matured enough to handle them and the situation..
My bestie is a mood swinger....she changes her mood very frequently.... Sometimes I just exhausted to let her set ....
But still she's my bestie...
I don't want to let her suffer ...
At the same time I don't want myself to suffer...
What to do now....
Hi thank u so much for giving us such a beautiful tips ..even v can correct yourself ...n stay away from these kind of people ..thank u
WELL ONE THING I KNOW LIFE IS TO SHORT SO IN ORDER FOR US TO BE HAPPY HANG OUT WITH THE POSITIVE AND NON JUDGE MENTAL PEOPLE BE SUROUNDED WITH THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE GOOD ENERGY AND GOD BLESS❤
Niharika you're amazing. I love watching you. Keep doing more & more stuff like this!❤
Ps: Your accent though. ✌
Thank you very much.Niharika Apu you are great..
madam that is impossible to find such good character
Then you support evil and must be opposed. Yes, YOU are not equal to me. I see you as below, as a supporter of evil. Try to argue with me and watch the consequences unfold.
Good speech by niharika the way of expressing to us i like it
very nice..very helpful.
Your speech is very delishous.
Hi its very nice to follow in future so that we can grow up gradually in a fast manner.
Yes True ,Now I have experienced 🤔🤔🤔
i consider myself victim ..and my aunty instead of avoiding me evades my thinking which is good for both.
thanks so much niharika.
such a useful terms describe in this video.we should follow this things in our day to day life.
It's really hard to find someone without any of these character around us ☹
I disagree with some things
- gossip people: Just because you gossip doesn't mean that it is always negative, sometimes you can gossip about the good qualities of person or your concern about a person.
- the victims: Just because you talk a lot about your problems doesn't make you a victim. Sometimes you just want advice and different opinions about something from other people.
- I don't agree with the mood swingers. I also have mood swings sometimes. Also you can get mood swings caused by traumatic events and abuse and unfinished things.
I agree about the envious people,the arrogant people, the criticizers and the judgemental.
Great video well done 👍👍
Excellent talk.well done.
Nice & Very much useful
Niharika thank you so much for giving a closure of good and happy environment.
Tons of love and bear hug # and I love the way u talk 😊😘❤️️👍🏻
your way of teaching is awesome .Keep it up.
Yes very great idea.
I am a mood swinger so please help me to get rid of it.Probably make an video on that.
Loved it ma'am thanks.. But I'm surrounded by these kind of people, what am I supposed to do?
You are incredibly cute (and informative) lady! Thank you so much!