Finding this video at this moment in my life is truly a blessing. It felt as though you both were in the room talking directly with me; you know how to transmit your feelings so efficiently. I can't thank the both of you enough for being the divine souls you are. I love you guys!
I cannot thank Alyse (Raw Alignment) enough for leading me to you two. I haven't stopped thinking about you two and this relationship and lifestyle. I am utterly enamored with the both of you. Thank you
Thank you very much for this video. I've been having really rough times in my life right now and this was like bringing a little bit of light into my panorama. I just started a polyamorous/open relationship like 7 months ago and I'm more than willing to learn how to make it work for me and my partners. I had been thinking about this for a long time but never actually practiced it. Now that the chance emerged I'm learning and living my process. I know it's a transition and that it takes time (and most that anything that you never stop learning), but it is hard because when we do this we need to reconfigure things that we learned since we were kids and therefore, were the base to our behavior, decisions and acts. I know it's a journey. I know it takes work, love, and time. But sometimes it's difficult. Watching your channel it's been so helpful and encouraging. Thank you very much for this, for sharing your experiences and yourselves. Love to both of you guys
I'm really happy I learned some new compassionate communication ideas here, and love the emphasis of taking responsibility for one's emotions, rather than blaming another, eg. *I* feel part sad, part ...., or, "we're not quite in sync at the moment", or "we're not quite on the same wavelength at the moment", and "I'd like to be just heard without an expectation of something being fixed", plus the desire of staying close, with love (for everyone). Also, I really like the idea that everyone is just doing their best.
your videos are so very helpful to me personally. I'm healing from co-dependancy in many areas of my life, and through your sharing I'm learning so many new communication tools. Thank you so much.... Peace to you both
I really would just love to tell y'all that I've recently come across your videos and they have had such a positive impact on me! It's opened my mind to so much and truly have made be more aware of my self and become more compassionate, much love
Oh my god you guys, I have literally binge watched your videos since last night and I just want to give you the BIGGEST THANKYOU for sharing yourselves with us because you have opened my heart and my eyes to a new level of love and communication within my own relationship. Me and my partner have just opened our relationship and I was finding the process really hard until I watched your video on jealousy and reflected that the pain I was feeling was about lack and that made me refocus on how to create that abundance within my life, and open myself up to the love from my partner instead of feeling as if I wasn't deserving of it because he wants to experience different people. I now feel SO FREEEEEEEEEEE! Thankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyou
I have been following you guys for a while now, and you have helped me develop so much more understanding for my feelings than I have ever had before. keep up the amazing work you two are perfect. thank you for providing such raw and relatable videos.
Thanks for how you both distinguish between the subtle differences in communication and motive. Your genuine approach is very engaging for the viewer! You wisdom is helping me to transform my life!
This just happened with my husband and I and we really shared and heard one another. We didn't want either one of us to change but just to listen.. It's was interesting
This is beautiful and really reassuring. It feels great to hear you guys acknowledge that space of relationship, and what can come up, and the reminders that can help us hold the light. I'm so grateful for what you guys are offering the world right now.
Rylew! So beautiful to see your face and comment here. It feels so powerful to be seen by you in this way. We both cherish your feedback. And we both love you dearly
You Both have changed my life so much, i cant wait to hug you in person and share my stories with you both. Much love and gratitude towards you. You are both beautiful and i love you as you are! :)
Comments like this are what keep the passion alive to continue sharing ourselves in this way. Thank you so much for taking the time to share here. We love you!
It was ok, a mixture of emotions but in the end it was just fine. It was what it was and our two differing opinions were both heard and were accepted by one another. We both just love each others companionship and we both just want each others love and want to be heard by one another.
Hiya! Long time listener, first time commenter. Thanks so much for sharing such a big portion of your lives. Your videos have helped me articulate more fully in my relationships... and to myself in many ways. I have a general question, but first I'd like to give a little bit of background. I am a trans-guy in a monogamous romantic relationship with a cis woman. We've been together for about 4 years and I came out to her about 1.5 years ago. This has been a huge change for us and our relationship (*obviously I suppose*) and I'm happy to report that our relationship has strengthened since coming out. I'll admit it took about a year to achieve the closeness we've found now because it was really difficult for my partner at first. My question is... What is your opinion on how to communicate when your partner's (or family's or friend's, etc) feelings affect your own? Especially when coming out to family, I find myself having to create a lot of distance in order to protect myself from my family's negative feelings of my transness. This kind of triggered reaction leaves communication pretty paralyzed from my perspective, and theirs too I'm sure. PS-- I've been practicing IFS for about a year and I'm excited to hear you share more about your experience with it, Conor. Thanks again, and Peace!
Wow. What a beautiful share Escher. Thank you so much! We are so happy to read your relationship has been strengthened by sharing more your authentic self. We think leading with this assumption is beautiful when sharing ourselves with anyone. And also, sometimes it just doesn't feel good or safe to share. We would love to make a video more directly answering your question soon. Thank you so much for asking and so much love to you!
Thanks for sharing guys! Conner, thanks for putting a shirt on this time. Don't worry though, I wouldn't be able to concentrate if Britney wasn't wearing s shirt either.... 😄
Hey I love, love, love your videos. I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now with an awesome guy. I suppose I got drawn in by the concept of Polyamory and an open relationship, specifically because of my situation. It doesn't really make sense to be in this type of relationship for me but I'm mad about the guy and I still want to learn more and more! We have ruled out an open relationship but I still want to do everything I can to make it work. I was wondering if you have any thoughts on this topic. But if you don't I still just want to say thank you so much for your videos. Your vidoes have been so refreshing and helpful. Thank you
Do you have any advice for when you feel your relationships aren't healthy? I've been working on improving my relationships (through developing self love) for years, I'm getting more and more clarity, but I'm still unsure how to communicate when I feel hurt by what the other person is doing.
Yes I thought this could be fun, especially by seeing the drawings of Connor :) But you can take the main idea of the concept and adapt it to your style! I guess I'm just curious to know more about you two, your childhood, teenage years, family etc.. : )
Your videos are so important. Thank you for making them.
You are so welcome. Your feedback is so important!
Finding this video at this moment in my life is truly a blessing. It felt as though you both were in the room talking directly with me; you know how to transmit your feelings so efficiently. I can't thank the both of you enough for being the divine souls you are. I love you guys!
I cannot thank Alyse (Raw Alignment) enough for leading me to you two. I haven't stopped thinking about you two and this relationship and lifestyle. I am utterly enamored with the both of you. Thank you
Wow thank you so much. And thank you to Alyse
Yeahhhhh!!! You guys rule so much!!! I've been growing so much in this area because of you two! Thank you thank you thank you!
You rock! Thanks so much for watching and being open. Thank you for sharing too. It means a lot to us. Love you!
You both tackled this topic perfectly and shed light onto some things I had never thought about. You're both so beautiful, keep shining and sharing!
Wonderful! Thank you!
so sweet Brittney looks at connor with such love in her eyes such acceptance
I love it! -C
Thank you very much for this video.
I've been having really rough times in my life right now and this was like bringing a little bit of light into my panorama. I just started a polyamorous/open relationship like 7 months ago and I'm more than willing to learn how to make it work for me and my partners. I had been thinking about this for a long time but never actually practiced it. Now that the chance emerged I'm learning and living my process. I know it's a transition and that it takes time (and most that anything that you never stop learning), but it is hard because when we do this we need to reconfigure things that we learned since we were kids and therefore, were the base to our behavior, decisions and acts.
I know it's a journey. I know it takes work, love, and time. But sometimes it's difficult. Watching your channel it's been so helpful and encouraging. Thank you very much for this, for sharing your experiences and yourselves. Love to both of you guys
I'm really happy I learned some new compassionate communication ideas here, and love the emphasis of taking responsibility for one's emotions, rather than blaming another, eg. *I* feel part sad, part ...., or, "we're not quite in sync at the moment", or "we're not quite on the same wavelength at the moment", and "I'd like to be just heard without an expectation of something being fixed", plus the desire of staying close, with love (for everyone). Also, I really like the idea that everyone is just doing their best.
Such a beautifully honest, wise and open conversation between two awakened beings. Thank you so much for sharing.
your videos are so very helpful to me personally. I'm healing from co-dependancy in many areas of my life, and through your sharing I'm learning so many new communication tools. Thank you so much.... Peace to you both
could you share more of your experience during times of pulling back in order to take care of yourself or taking little breaks? much love to you!
We would love to! Stay tuned
I really would just love to tell y'all that I've recently come across your videos and they have had such a positive impact on me! It's opened my mind to so much and truly have made be more aware of my self and become more compassionate, much love
That is so awesome to read Kate. Thank you so much for sharing this here. Love to you!
Oh my god you guys, I have literally binge watched your videos since last night and I just want to give you the BIGGEST THANKYOU for sharing yourselves with us because you have opened my heart and my eyes to a new level of love and communication within my own relationship. Me and my partner have just opened our relationship and I was finding the process really hard until I watched your video on jealousy and reflected that the pain I was feeling was about lack and that made me refocus on how to create that abundance within my life, and open myself up to the love from my partner instead of feeling as if I wasn't deserving of it because he wants to experience different people. I now feel SO FREEEEEEEEEEE!
Thankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyouthankyou
you guys are so smart loving connected to eachother in growing so beautiful!!! its so nice to see two ppl working together on everything lovely
Thank you! It feels really good for us
I have been following you guys for a while now, and you have helped me develop so much more understanding for my feelings than I have ever had before. keep up the amazing work you two are perfect. thank you for providing such raw and relatable videos.
This is so powerful for us to read! Thank you so much!!!! So much love to you. We will keep the vids coming
Thanks for how you both distinguish between the subtle differences in communication and motive. Your genuine approach is very engaging for the viewer! You wisdom is helping me to transform my life!
Thank you so much :D
Thank you for this candid video with a few specifics in language/communication. Much love to you both and continue the journey.
You are very welcome
This just happened with my husband and I and we really shared and heard one another. We didn't want either one of us to change but just to listen.. It's was interesting
Yes. How did it feel?
Thank you so much for putting a voice to feelings and giving me a connection to another part of myself!
Truly appreciated this.
It is so real and raw. The topic feels pretty relevant to my life and relationship right now. Thank you!!! You two rock!
You are so very welcome. Thank you so much for the positive feedback!
I'm currently going through some stuff with my partner and this video provided me a lot of comfort.
Beautiful. So happy to read this
This is beautiful and really reassuring. It feels great to hear you guys acknowledge that space of relationship, and what can come up, and the reminders that can help us hold the light. I'm so grateful for what you guys are offering the world right now.
Rylew! So beautiful to see your face and comment here. It feels so powerful to be seen by you in this way. We both cherish your feedback. And we both love you dearly
Conor and Brittany So much
That makes sense to us. We feel you
This is amazing! Especially when you were talking about rewards and punishments etc. I catch myself doing this!!
Yes! It is so common among us. Good noticing! Sending love
You Both have changed my life so much, i cant wait to hug you in person and share my stories with you both. Much love and gratitude towards you. You are both beautiful and i love you as you are! :)
Comments like this are what keep the passion alive to continue sharing ourselves in this way. Thank you so much for taking the time to share here. We love you!
It was ok, a mixture of emotions but in the end it was just fine. It was what it was and our two differing opinions were both heard and were accepted by one another. We both just love each others companionship and we both just want each others love and want to be heard by one another.
Thanks for sharing more
I love you guys so much! So inspirational!!! Always feel super connected when watching your videos ❤️
We love you so much! Thank you
Hiya! Long time listener, first time commenter. Thanks so much for sharing such a big portion of your lives. Your videos have helped me articulate more fully in my relationships... and to myself in many ways. I have a general question, but first I'd like to give a little bit of background.
I am a trans-guy in a monogamous romantic relationship with a cis woman. We've been together for about 4 years and I came out to her about 1.5 years ago. This has been a huge change for us and our relationship (*obviously I suppose*) and I'm happy to report that our relationship has strengthened since coming out. I'll admit it took about a year to achieve the closeness we've found now because it was really difficult for my partner at first.
My question is... What is your opinion on how to communicate when your partner's (or family's or friend's, etc) feelings affect your own? Especially when coming out to family, I find myself having to create a lot of distance in order to protect myself from my family's negative feelings of my transness. This kind of triggered reaction leaves communication pretty paralyzed from my perspective, and theirs too I'm sure.
PS-- I've been practicing IFS for about a year and I'm excited to hear you share more about your experience with it, Conor.
Thanks again, and Peace!
Wow. What a beautiful share Escher. Thank you so much! We are so happy to read your relationship has been strengthened by sharing more your authentic self. We think leading with this assumption is beautiful when sharing ourselves with anyone. And also, sometimes it just doesn't feel good or safe to share. We would love to make a video more directly answering your question soon. Thank you so much for asking and so much love to you!
How do you differenciate between trust and expectations?
I needed this so much. Thank you for your inspiring words 💛
You are so welcome
Thanks for sharing guys! Conner, thanks for putting a shirt on this time. Don't worry though, I wouldn't be able to concentrate if Britney wasn't wearing s shirt either.... 😄
Haha ;) Thanks my friend
What planet are ya'll from? I wanna go there ;) LOL!!! Love you two so much!!
LOL We love you so much
thanks so much Conor and Brittany, exactly what I needed, all the love to you from Ireland xxx
You are so welcome!
This is really helpful. Thanks a lot.
I love this so much! Thank you for sharing
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching
I bless your union and send it love
Thank you so much!
Hey I love, love, love your videos. I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now with an awesome guy. I suppose I got drawn in by the concept of Polyamory and an open relationship, specifically because of my situation. It doesn't really make sense to be in this type of relationship for me but I'm mad about the guy and I still want to learn more and more! We have ruled out an open relationship but I still want to do everything I can to make it work. I was wondering if you have any thoughts on this topic. But if you don't I still just want to say thank you so much for your videos. Your vidoes have been so refreshing and helpful. Thank you
I love this one (and all the others)- thank you for sharing!
Aw thank you love!
I really needed this today! Thankyou xxx
Beautiful
Truly would love to hang out with you two beautiful souls
Join us at an event! We would love to meet you
👍🏻 great video!
love your shirt conor
Ah thank you Love!!!
Do you have any advice for when you feel your relationships aren't healthy? I've been working on improving my relationships (through developing self love) for years, I'm getting more and more clarity, but I'm still unsure how to communicate when I feel hurt by what the other person is doing.
So amazing, thank you for sharing ❤️
You are so welcome!
Thank you very much for sharing
Yes yes yes. On point guys!
Yay! Thank you!
NVC right there!
Hey guys have you ever thought of making a draw my life video?
mmm Not really. What do you think? Good idea?
Yes I thought this could be fun, especially by seeing the drawings of Connor :) But you can take the main idea of the concept and adapt it to your style! I guess I'm just curious to know more about you two, your childhood, teenage years, family etc.. : )
That sounds so fun! We will look into it. Would also love to talk about our history. Thank you for the sharing your interest!
How do you prepare for this when you are still single?
This is a great video topic idea. We would love to make a video on this in the future. Thanks for asking!
love you guys!!!
what is the documentary you mentioned? I like Alfie's Cohn's ideas :)
It is a National Geographic series called "Original Sin".
Change is inevitable if you are to achieve the goal of Love.... Rick Fain ... :)
Thank you brother
Thanku!
Great video :) x
Thank you!
Love you guys!
Love you so much!
Hey beauties! Question... Are you guys seeing children in your future at all? You'd make amazing little people. :)
Yes! We made a video about it as a matter of fact ;)
when did this happen?? on it.