I know it sounds crazy… but I dated a few Colombianas last year. Some were single moms and some were not. I met a woman a couple months ago who has a 10 year old son and so far she has been the best experience I’ve had dating in Colombia so far… she has a good job, takes care of her parents and does a great job parenting her son. The thing that impresses me most is her outlook on family and traditional gender roles. She believes that the husband is the head of the house and her role is to support him. It’s only been a couple months but so far she has been a gem… and did I mention that she is a legit 8-8.5…???
My girl had a 4 year old daughter when we met. This is the best relationship I have ever had. I am the only dad the daughter has ever known, and she's my daughter also. She is so well-behaved it's incredible. Every relationship has to be judged on its' own merits.
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This channel is a rare gem. I am considering finding a Colombian wife and will be going to Medellin with friends (my first time in Colombia) in 2 days. I joined a Colombian dating site and I have been talking with a 34 year old goddess what has an 18 year old son. Shew has a career, is going to University, etc - a true go-getter. What you are saying here is spot on and I will see for myself soon. Thanks for the good work and information!
are you serious or in la la land ?this girl got knocked up at 15 probably never met her father and her son never met his and you think she fell in love with you ? she has a career and going to university? keep in mind they are passive liars ,after 2 dates she will throw a curve ball that will say " i have to get my son a new pair of glasses" or some kind of bullshit story ,good luck. never ever get involved with a single mother
Exactly right. I have been dating my Colombian Single mom for 9 months now. She is Beautiful and College Educated. She is 23 years old with an amazing 7 year old son. I'm 56 and couldn't be more happy for my new life living in Colombia full time and raising a family. I had never had children before and in addition to her son we may have one of our own as well. The boys father has been out of his life since he was 2 years old. Never paid any child support and they were never married. Talking with our Colombian attorney I will take the extra step after we get married of adopting her son and becoming his father. Although we have no plans on living in the United States making both of them U.S. Citizens will make vacationing there much easier without needing a Visa. Great topic. I highly recommend not limiting yourself to meeting childless women as that's very rare in Latin America and if I had not been willing to look into it I would never have found the one. Just for full disclosure I she was not my 1st girlfriend as I have been dating for the last 5 years mostly in Panama and all but 1 of the girls in there 20's I have dated had children's.
Great analysis as usual Chan! As u know, ive been following your videos for 6 months now and even chatted with you. I just came back from Medellin a month ago, and many of the things u say I confirmed! I met several ladies that were fit, friendly, feminine, educated, great conversations, social dancers, etc. I went to the club, mall, movies, coffee shops, grocery store, central bus station, lake Aguatape, Communa 13, etc. Now that I've been there in person, i believe i would seriously consider dating a good woman from Medellin or the coast. I took your advice and passed up on expensive dating agencies to do it myself by meeting Colombian locals at social events. Man!.. did i meet them! Everyone spotted me and knew i was NOT native. It made me slightly different. Looking forward to going back this Summer.
The worst part about dating in Colombia is that the women have childen young so almost any 20+ woman is going to have at least one child. That being said they still treat you a million times better than a western woman would. So it's a trade off.
single moms are great for long distance relationships because they have someone to keep them busy and from feeling lonely when you're not there. also the family life can be a better experience if thats what youre into and its low risk as compared to the US. in the US there seems to be a "you touched my kid" epidemic.
Well said Cousin Chan, in the US, I run away from single moms.. And the availability of hot single moms in Colombia probably exceeds women over 25 who don't have kids. It's not a bad choice after all if you set your boundaries early-on and plus there are no repercussion in their legal system. If you ever get the "you can't tell me what to do you are not my father" speech, unlike the US, you can possibly kick them out of the house with 0 repercussion. Still given the choice, I wouldn't be fully involved with their family unless I got the woman pregnant
Baby fathers always seem to pop up outta nowhere when the woman gets a new man now all of a sudden the baby father wants to see he’s kid. And once he finds out that you’re a “gringo” from America…good luck you’ll never be able to get rid of him 🏃♂️
I can attest to this. I'm engaged now to a Columbian single mom. She is very hot. It may sound crazy but I became open to dating single moms as long as the father wasn't in their lives.
Yea, a chick working at a mall was hitting on me. I asked her on a date, she readily said yes. We went out the next day, and one of the first thing she whipped out was her 3 year old daughter. Single Moms and Night Walkers are on deck in colombia, for real!
"Colombia Reports" says 87% of Colombian children are born out of wedlock and 27% live in single mother households. So the supply of single moms with kids is great. But you have to ask yourself how long will your Colombian squeeze be satisfied with you and will she get the urge to have affairs. Affairs are also very common in Colombia. I suspect that most American men coming to Colombia are also the type that aren't satisfied with one partner. So I wonder whether a large supply of desperate moms with kids is going to necessarily mean you will find happiness in Colombia.
Thank you for your efforts, Sir Chan. Great content! From living in Colombia almost 3 months, I find that Colombian Women tend to have a different playbook for gringos which is toxic and very opportunistic that would not be played with Colombian Men. The dysfunction of single mothers generation after generation is an issue. I don’t know how they could be good wives when they never had a model at home. Submissive women? Lol don’t see it. Granted everyone is going to have their own experience but I refuse to have a transactional relationship. I’ve seen so many gringos get played and disrespected by a lot of Colombian Women. Be careful you all, don’t let looks blind you. Sir Chan, it’s an option and women will be opportunistic anywhere, I get it. it’s just so blatant at times by these women right off the bat. It’s like they have absolutely no self awareness or emotional intelligence but if guys keep leading with uhemm , they’ll always be in business. I’m going to other Latin countries for reference and who knows, a year from now maybe Colombia will be different for me. It hasn’t met my current expectations but time will tell. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has felt this. Thanks again!
you are very correct on that they have no self awareness or emotional intelligence ,they are stupid sneaky and lazy, i dont know where this saiyanchan guy is getting his hypothesis from, i been there 25 time and never met anyone that i can say was wife material ,their so called beauty is superficial, they remind me of Hyenas, lol
it's a tightrope we have to walk. one of our draws is that we are not as masculine as the men they are used to which tends to be abusive ,however the negative is that we can be perceived as weak. if you dont walk that middle line, you will get trampled
I'm 65 now. Single mother?; been there, done that. I have produced no children of my own, and though many would try to dissuade me, I'd like to find a young Latina, or perhaps Filipina to pair with and raise my own. I'm by no means ready for the rocking chair as I'm in exceptional physical condition for any age. Although I get plenty of attention from girls in their 20s here in the US, I'm looking for the traditional farm raised rural kind who would better fit my lifestyle. Plenty of adventure ahead , and my own children with the right lady would be a joy.
@@abdirahman292 I wouldn't want to expose anyone to the lunacy of the clown show going on here for too long. Maybe brief visits to tend to property I have here. IDK, I'd have to play it by ear. Definitely not for children right now.
@@davefarnsworth3020don't bring her to the US, only to visit. When women from other countries come to the US, they become infected with the local mentality
Another great video Sir. I've been watching you all weekend except when I was booking my flight and hotel stay in El Pablado for next month. I'm 60 looking for a mature 45+ to marry. Do you offer meet ups, match making or socials? And suggestions?
if you want to take the risk, make sure she is not a n4rco ex girlfriend, not a webcamer, not a s3x professional, not a scammer, not a woman in debt, not a nightclub girl or a gym rat. Don't look for good women at the disco nor tiktok, make your own research. Explore the cities well, don't get a "barrio" girl, it will cause you trouble. And try to get a lot of culture and manners. The top 10% percent of smoking hot women value presence, self care, well-dressed and knowledge.
Excellent informative video .....I’m a mature man, financially secure and from what I’ve researched about Colombia I could easily afford to support a partner with a child/children and still live a good life 👏
I don't have enough information to be able to provide an opinion. You can provide a little more I'll do my best to answer your question. saiyanchan@protonmail.com
I guess the key point here, same with other "controversial" topics, is that you're willing to live in the environment that produces that kind of single moms in troves. Because let's be honest, in going there we're just turning upside down the supply and demand market: we're the rare commodities in Colombia. And I've noticed a trend in the Colombians that I've seen in your videos, and from other channels, that I think it's more prevalent than from girls from SEA: they'd like to go to live in the US. And that's a problem. However, that in fact, might be another advantage of those single moms you didn't include? That having children growing up in Colombia, with more solid family ties, they'd no longer be "obsessed" about the American Dream? Just wondering. I'm from Spain, actually, and I don't think they want to come here to live! 😛
I think you have some valid points but I'm not sold. In Pereira now. Saying this is better than the USA is absolutely factual. The single mothers are better for everything you say. Children are better. But here's the deal. I don't care what the reason is. Ignorance of having a child with your first boyfriend or whatever the case. That still isn't my child. And if you go into it you will be dealing with a familia cohesion not like we are used to in the US. Kids stay at home after 18--you said that in prior videos and no I'm not renting an apartment for them. I'm not raising another man's child. If I don't date then so be it.
Asian godfather, what if she is a hot Colombian single mother with a daughter who is about 15 in age. Her mother is 44 years of age. And she is on a Latin dating site? Your answer is appreciated.
The dating apps have that type of woman in plentiful supply, and if you get off the dating apps, the supply is even greater. This woman had her child when she was around 30, which is late for Colombia. If you're dealing with Colombian women in their forties, their children might be age 20 and up since most of them had children in their early twenties.
it depends. i dont date single mothers beucase they are not going to have time for you. she will be busy with work and raising a kid she didnt want. you will not be her priority. In colombian forget it.
all of them are safe, if you know how to mitigate the risks - see subscribestar, I'm building out the safety course there.. it'll be done before the end of the year but until then, I make chapters as often as I can www.subscribestar.com/saiyan-chan
I like this analysis, but I have some questions. I know that in most Latin cultures, extended families living under one roof are common. Typically, if I was dating a single mom with a kid, they would likely be living with their parents with possibly other family members also. If things got serious, the single mom, kid, and me would get our own place. Now how long would the kid typically continue to live with us? A girl could potentially live at home well into her 20's? What about a boy?
I have been married to a Colombian woman with a large extended family for 13 years (we live in the States, however). It's been my experience with my neices and nephews that most children live with the parents (unless they have moved to another city for work) until they get married. My Colombian family tells me that that is the norm for most Colombians.
What happens when she is successful in her field as she wants to move herself and her daughter her to the United States? Is this normal or is there something wrong with this? Your answer is appreciated.
Saiyen, isn't it true that, if you bring your Colombian wife over on a K-1 or K-3 visa, and she has children, that the birth Father must sign off on the child's leaving the country? What if he is alive, but just "missing in action" ? Do they just give him a certain period of time to respond?
you are correct. a child has to travel with both parents or the parent that is not traveling jas to fill out a form from the immigration website and have it notorized giving permission.
If your children are grown or you don’t want any biological children of your own. Single Mother is not a bad look. Depending on the circumstances, i.e… widow, etc..
i been there 25 times and its not how this guy dishes it out, the only thing these girls want is $$$ dont let anyone fool you and dont think you will find the love of your life cause you wont , best hit the whore houses at least there you know what your getting your chances are 100,000 to 1 on finding a good woman, good luck
Great points. I’m not sure but i believe: as chan said, if you marry in Colombia and then divorce, the divorce follows colombian law (no financial support); If you marry in the usa then the divorce will follow the laws of the usa (financial support). The incentive for the women to keep their faithfulness/loyal nature stays intact. Less likely to become “westernized”. Aside from this, as an older gentleman i would be happy to find a woman who had a child but i would prefer the child is older than 10 only because of my age. I’d like some “free” retired life time to travel and enjoy with the company of my lady. If i were 40-50’s there’d be no problem.
Thank you for the comment. The conclusion that you drew for yourself is what many men would also draw for themselves if they make it here so I wanted to prepare the guys in case they fall into that category
@@saiyanchan What's your theory on why they are childless? If women are losing their virginity in their early teens, are the ones without children the leftover undesirable women like in China?
Dude, you’re crazy. I get what you were aiming for but Orlando and Tampa have great looking women. Miami does as well, but Miami has a lore that is much different than the Disney narrative everyone knows for Orlando but Orlando got em here. How do I know, I live here.
@saiyanchan You are correct. I have a second house in Orlando. To find a Colombian/Brazilian/Asian-type woman in Orlando is far and few between almost to impossible. If you're in Disney Springs, you probably may get lucky, but the chances of meeting that type of women in Orlando you talked about hardly ever existed. I know firsthand. My girlfriend, from Colombia, has an 8 year old when she was 20. She's now 28. Been with only one man (the defunct father that left her when she was pregnant) and have been single and celebate for 8 years. (Almost a virgin.) The first question she asked me when we first met online was "Would you ever fall in love with a single mom?" My answer was: "It depends on the circumstances and I'm not in any position to judge anyone." Her response was: That's a beautiful reply. I like that. I'm in my mid 50s with no kids. And you're right. Why should I not help another human being. I hope one day we can have an interview with you.
same. If she had 2 or more she is already used at that point. I wouldnt want to be a with a colombian girl that has more than one child. She wont have time for you plus she most likely not have more kids. I want to have children of my own but do not want to take care of 3 kids that arent mine.
Good video as always and those childless Men are fools for dealing with single mothers anywhere in any country on planet earth. If its not your seed don't take care of it plain and simple. 🏃♂👩👧👦
i think you presented this all rosie. and i say never ever get involved with a single mother no exceptions especially with a colombian unless if your a BETA male and it wont bother you being married to her parents also cause its coming around the corner
It's not rosie. I'm explaining that whether or not men find me or listen to me, a significant percentage of them will find single moms that they will like. I'm just laying out for them the landscape overall as I see it.
dude its an option, it may work for you or it may not. there are already tons of videos laying out the cons. but you seem to be stuck in labels beta alpha. you live in absolutes
I know it sounds crazy… but I dated a few Colombianas last year. Some were single moms and some were not. I met a woman a couple months ago who has a 10 year old son and so far she has been the best experience I’ve had dating in Colombia so far… she has a good job, takes care of her parents and does a great job parenting her son. The thing that impresses me most is her outlook on family and traditional gender roles. She believes that the husband is the head of the house and her role is to support him. It’s only been a couple months but so far she has been a gem… and did I mention that she is a legit 8-8.5…???
Best thing about all of this there is no risks legally. If you ever decide to walk away you are not on the hook
My girl had a 4 year old daughter when we met. This is the best relationship I have ever had. I am the only dad the daughter has ever known, and she's my daughter also. She is so well-behaved it's incredible. Every relationship has to be judged on its' own merits.
Wait until 5-7 living together especially bring her to western countries then you will know.
You were very lucky.
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This channel is a rare gem. I am considering finding a Colombian wife and will be going to Medellin with friends (my first time in Colombia) in 2 days. I joined a Colombian dating site and I have been talking with a 34 year old goddess what has an 18 year old son. Shew has a career, is going to University, etc - a true go-getter. What you are saying here is spot on and I will see for myself soon. Thanks for the good work and information!
are you serious or in la la land ?this girl got knocked up at 15 probably never met her father and her son never met his and you think she fell in love with you ? she has a career and going to university? keep in mind they are passive liars ,after 2 dates she will throw a curve ball that will say " i have to get my son a new pair of glasses" or some kind of bullshit story ,good luck. never ever get involved with a single mother
CAN YOU TELL US HOW YOUR TRIP WENT?
@davidlindgren7605 probably dead
Youre a clown@EvertonGeorge-by5zp
Exactly right. I have been dating my Colombian Single mom for 9 months now. She is Beautiful and College Educated. She is 23 years old with an amazing 7 year old son. I'm 56 and couldn't be more happy for my new life living in Colombia full time and raising a family. I had never had children before and in addition to her son we may have one of our own as well. The boys father has been out of his life since he was 2 years old. Never paid any child support and they were never married. Talking with our Colombian attorney I will take the extra step after we get married of adopting her son and becoming his father. Although we have no plans on living in the United States making both of them U.S. Citizens will make vacationing there much easier without needing a Visa. Great topic. I highly recommend not limiting yourself to meeting childless women as that's very rare in Latin America and if I had not been willing to look into it I would never have found the one. Just for full disclosure I she was not my 1st girlfriend as I have been dating for the last 5 years mostly in Panama and all but 1 of the girls in there 20's I have dated had children's.
Great analysis as usual Chan!
As u know, ive been following your videos for 6 months now and even chatted with you. I just came back from Medellin a month ago, and many of the things u say I confirmed! I met several ladies that were fit, friendly, feminine, educated, great conversations, social dancers, etc. I went to the club, mall, movies, coffee shops, grocery store, central bus station, lake Aguatape, Communa 13, etc.
Now that I've been there in person, i believe i would seriously consider dating a good woman from Medellin or the coast. I took your advice and passed up on expensive dating agencies to do it myself by meeting Colombian locals at social events. Man!.. did i meet them! Everyone spotted me and knew i was NOT native. It made me slightly different. Looking forward to going back this Summer.
I'm glad you were able to experience it first hand! Thanks for sharing your experiences. I hope more guys get down there!
Very valuable information!
You’re doing important work my Brother! 🙌🏼
I am doing the best I can! Please email me at saiyanchan@protonmail.com if you think there are topics that I can cover which would help men!
The video is immensely helpful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
The worst part about dating in Colombia is that the women have childen young so almost any 20+ woman is going to have at least one child. That being said they still treat you a million times better than a western woman would. So it's a trade off.
single moms are great for long distance relationships because they have someone to keep them busy and from feeling lonely when you're not there. also the family life can be a better experience if thats what youre into and its low risk as compared to the US. in the US there seems to be a "you touched my kid" epidemic.
agree completely. most men cannot afford even the slightest encounter with the USA legal system
Ok. You gained my respect. My Asian brotha is the Asian Kevin samuels. No nonsense 🤜🏽
Thanks!
Thanks for sharing this informative episode my Asian Godfather! Gracias a ti!
Well said Cousin Chan, in the US, I run away from single moms.. And the availability of hot single moms in Colombia probably exceeds women over 25 who don't have kids. It's not a bad choice after all if you set your boundaries early-on and plus there are no repercussion in their legal system. If you ever get the "you can't tell me what to do you are not my father" speech, unlike the US, you can possibly kick them out of the house with 0 repercussion. Still given the choice, I wouldn't be fully involved with their family unless I got the woman pregnant
yep, the point is foreign men have good selection in Colombia!
Baby fathers always seem to pop up outta nowhere when the woman gets a new man now all of a sudden the baby father wants to see he’s kid. And once he finds out that you’re a “gringo” from America…good luck you’ll never be able to get rid of him 🏃♂️
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Great content and a great motivator. Keep 'em coming !
I will, thank you!
I can attest to this. I'm engaged now to a Columbian single mom. She is very hot. It may sound crazy but I became open to dating single moms as long as the father wasn't in their lives.
thanks for sharing. truly, there are many single moms with a child that has not had any contact with the father in years and years
Yea, a chick working at a mall was hitting on me. I asked her on a date, she readily said yes. We went out the next day, and one of the first thing she whipped out was her 3 year old daughter.
Single Moms and Night Walkers are on deck in colombia, for real!
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great works, info
Thanks!
"Colombia Reports" says 87% of Colombian children are born out of wedlock and 27% live in single mother households. So the supply of single moms with kids is great. But you have to ask yourself how long will your Colombian squeeze be satisfied with you and will she get the urge to have affairs. Affairs are also very common in Colombia. I suspect that most American men coming to Colombia are also the type that aren't satisfied with one partner. So I wonder whether a large supply of desperate moms with kids is going to necessarily mean you will find happiness in Colombia.
It's another option, that's the best i can do
@@saiyanchanhe will never find "happiness" anywhere external. it comes from inside, shouldnt be dependent on another person
Chan, thanks for “ Cogitate”
always cogitating!
Thank you for your efforts, Sir Chan. Great content! From living in Colombia almost 3 months, I find that Colombian Women tend to have a different playbook for gringos which is toxic and very opportunistic that would not be played with Colombian Men. The dysfunction of single mothers generation after generation is an issue. I don’t know how they could be good wives when they never had a model at home. Submissive women? Lol don’t see it. Granted everyone is going to have their own experience but I refuse to have a transactional relationship. I’ve seen so many gringos get played and disrespected by a lot of Colombian Women. Be careful you all, don’t let looks blind you.
Sir Chan, it’s an option and women will be opportunistic anywhere, I get it. it’s just so blatant at times by these women right off the bat. It’s like they have absolutely no self awareness or emotional intelligence but if guys keep leading with uhemm , they’ll always be in business.
I’m going to other Latin countries for reference and who knows, a year from now maybe Colombia will be different for me. It hasn’t met my current expectations but time will tell. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has felt this. Thanks again!
you are very correct on that they have no self awareness or emotional intelligence ,they are stupid sneaky and lazy, i dont know where this saiyanchan guy is getting his hypothesis from, i been there 25 time and never met anyone that i can say was wife material ,their so called beauty is superficial, they remind me of Hyenas, lol
it's a tightrope we have to walk. one of our draws is that we are not as masculine as the men they are used to which tends to be abusive ,however the negative is that we can be perceived as weak. if you dont walk that middle line, you will get trampled
I'm 65 now. Single mother?; been there, done that. I have produced no children of my own, and though many would try to dissuade me, I'd like to find a young Latina, or perhaps Filipina to pair with and raise my own. I'm by no means ready for the rocking chair as I'm in exceptional physical condition for any age. Although I get plenty of attention from girls in their 20s here in the US, I'm looking for the traditional farm raised rural kind who would better fit my lifestyle. Plenty of adventure ahead , and my own children with the right lady would be a joy.
Are you planning to bring her over yo the US?
@@abdirahman292 I wouldn't want to expose anyone to the lunacy of the clown show going on here for too long. Maybe brief visits to tend to property I have here. IDK, I'd have to play it by ear. Definitely not for children right now.
@@davefarnsworth3020don't bring her to the US, only to visit. When women from other countries come to the US, they become infected with the local mentality
Starting a little late. But if you’re gonna do it. The Philippines or Colombia would be an excellent choice.
@Dave Farnsworth please check out Geno Perez Adventures on youtube!
Another great video Sir. I've been watching you all weekend except when I was booking my flight and hotel stay in El Pablado for next month. I'm 60 looking for a mature 45+ to marry. Do you offer meet ups, match making or socials? And suggestions?
if you want to take the risk, make sure she is not a n4rco ex girlfriend, not a webcamer, not a s3x professional, not a scammer, not a woman in debt, not a nightclub girl or a gym rat. Don't look for good women at the disco nor tiktok, make your own research. Explore the cities well, don't get a "barrio" girl, it will cause you trouble. And try to get a lot of culture and manners. The top 10% percent of smoking hot women value presence, self care, well-dressed and knowledge.
Looks like church and the library are the only places 😅
Asian Godfather giving putting us on game!!!
I'm working as hard as i can!
"Never!" - General Zod
Haha!
Excellent informative video .....I’m a mature man, financially secure and from what I’ve researched about Colombia I could easily afford to support a partner with a child/children and still live a good life 👏
yep, that's the summation of my whole channel!
Do you figure that leaving her there, or bringing her to the US?
Fact Base Data. What you say is 100 percent true.
Thanks! I'm trying
I'm dating a single mom, but I'm a single father of 3, she has 1. Any thoughts? She is from Columbia, living in panama
I don't have enough information to be able to provide an opinion. You can provide a little more I'll do my best to answer your question. saiyanchan@protonmail.com
I guess the key point here, same with other "controversial" topics, is that you're willing to live in the environment that produces that kind of single moms in troves.
Because let's be honest, in going there we're just turning upside down the supply and demand market: we're the rare commodities in Colombia.
And I've noticed a trend in the Colombians that I've seen in your videos, and from other channels, that I think it's more prevalent than from girls from SEA: they'd like to go to live in the US. And that's a problem.
However, that in fact, might be another advantage of those single moms you didn't include? That having children growing up in Colombia, with more solid family ties, they'd no longer be "obsessed" about the American Dream?
Just wondering. I'm from Spain, actually, and I don't think they want to come here to live! 😛
I JUST SAID THAT...WOW... AND WHEN YOU BRING THEM HOME THEY RELIZE THEY ARE SUPER STARS
I think you have some valid points but I'm not sold. In Pereira now. Saying this is better than the USA is absolutely factual. The single mothers are better for everything you say. Children are better. But here's the deal. I don't care what the reason is. Ignorance of having a child with your first boyfriend or whatever the case. That still isn't my child. And if you go into it you will be dealing with a familia cohesion not like we are used to in the US. Kids stay at home after 18--you said that in prior videos and no I'm not renting an apartment for them. I'm not raising another man's child. If I don't date then so be it.
Asian godfather, what if she is a hot Colombian single mother with a daughter who is about 15 in age. Her mother is 44 years of age. And she is on a Latin dating site? Your answer is appreciated.
The dating apps have that type of woman in plentiful supply, and if you get off the dating apps, the supply is even greater. This woman had her child when she was around 30, which is late for Colombia. If you're dealing with Colombian women in their forties, their children might be age 20 and up since most of them had children in their early twenties.
I don't think a single mom is the goal. A young, childless, adult female is better.
it doesn't have to be the goal... just another option!
it depends. i dont date single mothers beucase they are not going to have time for you. she will be busy with work and raising a kid she didnt want. you will not be her priority. In colombian forget it.
I DONT CARE HOW GOOD LOOKING A WOMAN IS. IF SHE HAS A CHILD, ITS A DEAL BREAKER!
I don't believe you. I think you'd be among the first to marry. I also think you should change your whole way of thinking.
i think you are one of the smartest out of all these hopeless romantic gullible gringos
people who speak in absolutes have issues
@@out42c Facts!!!
whats the safest dating app in colombia ?
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I like this analysis, but I have some questions. I know that in most Latin cultures, extended families living under one roof are common. Typically, if I was dating a single mom with a kid, they would likely be living with their parents with possibly other family members also. If things got serious, the single mom, kid, and me would get our own place. Now how long would the kid typically continue to live with us? A girl could potentially live at home well into her 20's? What about a boy?
Yes but this is easily fixed if you want them out of your house earlier by renting them a room in a shared apartment or house for only $100 a month
Great tip! I like how you think!
I have been married to a Colombian woman with a large extended family for 13 years (we live in the States, however). It's been my experience with my neices and nephews that most children live with the parents (unless they have moved to another city for work) until they get married. My Colombian family tells me that that is the norm for most Colombians.
Same as girls
No hay problema.
What happens when she is successful in her field as she wants to move herself and her daughter her to the United States? Is this normal or is there something wrong with this? Your answer is appreciated.
If you are not interested in bringing her back (I don't recommend it), find another woman if the one you are seeing insists on moving
She just wants citizenship!
Saiyen, isn't it true that, if you bring your Colombian wife over on a K-1 or K-3 visa, and she has children, that the birth Father must sign off on the child's leaving the country? What if he is alive, but just "missing in action" ? Do they just give him a certain period of time to respond?
I do not know, my recommendation is that you consult an attorney
@@saiyanchan ok, fair enough
you are correct. a child has to travel with both parents or the parent that is not traveling jas to fill out a form from the immigration website and have it notorized giving permission.
if the father has disappeared the mother would need to get a judgement from the court stating she is the sole parent.
Advantage she already has kids don’t need to impregnate her
Don’t drink the milk, or you’ll be hooked! 🍼🍼
haha
If your children are grown or you don’t want any biological children of your own. Single Mother is not a bad look. Depending on the circumstances, i.e… widow, etc..
yes options for men is the goal of this channel!
Just leave them there. Don’t bring her to your country you will regret.
Can't wait to visit Colombia 🇨🇴
i been there 25 times and its not how this guy dishes it out, the only thing these girls want is $$$ dont let anyone fool you and dont think you will find the love of your life cause you wont , best hit the whore houses at least there you know what your getting your chances are 100,000 to 1 on finding a good woman, good luck
Facts... "they're no longer manufacturing them"
It's a well known fact that Colombia is home to the most beautiful Latinas in all of Latin America, if not the world!
agreed!
Would you date a single mom yourself ?
Great points. I’m not sure but i believe: as chan said, if you marry in Colombia and then divorce, the divorce follows colombian law (no financial support); If you marry in the usa then the divorce will follow the laws of the usa (financial support). The incentive for the women to keep their faithfulness/loyal nature stays intact. Less likely to become “westernized”. Aside from this, as an older gentleman i would be happy to find a woman who had a child but i would prefer the child is older than 10 only because of my age. I’d like some “free” retired life time to travel and enjoy with the company of my lady. If i were 40-50’s there’d be no problem.
Thank you for the comment. The conclusion that you drew for yourself is what many men would also draw for themselves if they make it here so I wanted to prepare the guys in case they fall into that category
Sounds so appealing I can't wait to wake up to a hot, faithful Colombian wife!
The faithful part might take some work to find haha
it wont be a dream it would be a nightmare
Let’s say the average woman that we date in Columbia is 27 years old that woman’s will have at least one kid ,
the average woman that you date in Colombia can have 0 kids if you limit yourself to dating Colombian women that have 0 kids
that's a no for me
There are plenty of child free women in Colombia, come on down!
@@saiyanchan What's your theory on why they are childless? If women are losing their virginity in their early teens, are the ones without children the leftover undesirable women like in China?
I wish American women understood you cant be a single mom of a 3 year old when they are 38 years old. No man wants to deal with that.
you don't need American women to understand anything. you don't need them at all. Come to Colombia
you anit wrong thats forsure
Thanks!
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Dude, you’re crazy. I get what you were aiming for but Orlando and Tampa have great looking women. Miami does as well, but Miami has a lore that is much different than the Disney narrative everyone knows for Orlando but Orlando got em here. How do I know, I live here.
Have you been to Cali? Miami is my other base. My opinion is that for beautiful women, Cali easily beats Miami in terms of quantity AND quality
@saiyanchan You are correct. I have a second house in Orlando. To find a Colombian/Brazilian/Asian-type woman in Orlando is far and few between almost to impossible.
If you're in Disney Springs, you probably may get lucky, but the chances of meeting that type of women in Orlando you talked about hardly ever existed. I know firsthand.
My girlfriend, from Colombia, has an 8 year old when she was 20. She's now 28. Been with only one man (the defunct father that left her when she was pregnant) and have been single and celebate for 8 years. (Almost a virgin.) The first question she asked me when we first met online was "Would you ever fall in love with a single mom?"
My answer was: "It depends on the circumstances and I'm not in any position to judge anyone."
Her response was: That's a beautiful reply. I like that.
I'm in my mid 50s with no kids. And you're right. Why should I not help another human being. I hope one day we can have an interview with you.
having to go to a 3rd World country and only date single mothers is really low objectively speaking. These men honestly have to work on themselves.
I would NEVER EVER marry a western single mom, would consider a Colombiana though, but only if she have 1 kid.
I have none myself.
same. If she had 2 or more she is already used at that point. I wouldnt want to be a with a colombian girl that has more than one child. She wont have time for you plus she most likely not have more kids. I want to have children of my own but do not want to take care of 3 kids that arent mine.
I'm a big believer in attention to detail. Your thumbnail proves you are, too.
I try, thank you!
Sometimes good women get pregnant and the man leaves them.
happens all the time in Colombia with great frequency. it's a mess
Colombian girls chase the wrong men. That is the problem. one of them@@saiyanchan
NO.
Hate this passport bro shit
Good video as always and those childless Men are fools for dealing with single mothers anywhere in any country on planet earth. If its not your seed don't take care of it plain and simple. 🏃♂👩👧👦
Any room for adoptions?
@@MrFranman01 sure as long as
it’s a newborn 👶 and both parents are dead ⚰️
@Fran Fargen thanks for the comment. I actually never thought about that.
i would agree, if i wanted children of my own, it would not be logical to engage with a women with a proven track record of leaving the father.
Boring
i think you presented this all rosie. and i say never ever get involved with a single mother no exceptions especially with a colombian unless if your a BETA male and it wont bother you being married to her parents also cause its coming around the corner
It's not rosie. I'm explaining that whether or not men find me or listen to me, a significant percentage of them will find single moms that they will like. I'm just laying out for them the landscape overall as I see it.
dude its an option, it may work for you or it may not. there are already tons of videos laying out the cons. but you seem to be stuck in labels beta alpha. you live in absolutes