this is what i did in cartagena. especially on the first meetup. I asked her to meet me a café near my place. instead of a 6pm meetup tell her at 4 so she can probably arrive at six and if she flakes she flakes but you didnt expect her to arrive. once she says she is there tell her you will be there in 10 minutes and walk down there. that way you aint wasting time in a certain place and then end up disappointed.
As usual. I cannot disagree with one word that you said. You are 100% right on the money. One thing I would like to add. The women here are exactly what you described. One thing I think should be mentioned. The majority of these women are very money driven. Even the good ones. Just be aware. It doesn’t necessarily make them bad women. But they do expect to be taken care of. And when someone needs help, I have no problem helping. But there are those that will take advantage.
@@rockon8174 no I’ve got some awesome women here. My girl now is fantastic. But when you have absolutely no money and you are actually struggling for food money is an important thing. It’s to be expected. Some of them are just straight up rats. No question about that. but you have to expect to take care of any woman that you are with. And you pay for everything on any date. That’s just the way it is here. It’s old school. Men pay. Women pay later. 😉
I feel that. I don't even go partying in Europe because of that. Nighttime is for sleeping and when you are genuine yourself plus no simp she will find it attractive and there are so many activities during the day anyway. But there are different ways of handling for everyone sure
I hope I meet Colombian women who are not flaky. Flakiness is my pet peeve. If she does not respect my time then she does not respect me. I love passion and love!
Just curious would the women in Columbia come to USA to visit you ? I’m understand most do not have a passport. Would it be possible to help her get one so she could visit you here ?
Colombians need both a Passport and Visa to visit the USA. Having the US embassy aprove the visa can be a problem, and the wait times to get aproved can be over one to two years long, depending on the type of visa.
Is it common in Colombia where a woman brings her friend, sister, or relative on a date? This is a deal breaker for me in the USA. I've had ratchet women bring or ask if they could bring their friend, sister, or cousin on a date just so i can pay for her too. That would happen to me in my 20s.
That’s one of the behavior traits I despise is not being on time or flakey . I understand a few minutes or even 30 minutes things happen traffic . But 1,2 or 3 hours late is total disregard. I see it has a disrespect. Also I wonder if certain women do that when they are not highly interested. In America I will not put up that and I do not believe I will put up with it when I get to Columbia.
Then this isn’t the place for you, my friend. It’s really true. I have to remind my girl all of the time. I tell her if you’re going to be late, please just send me a message. She’s good about doing that now. But that’s about the best you can hope for. There’s a lot of things down here that would probably drive you crazy and takes getting used to. I know it took me time to adjust to some of the things that go on here. Like people cutting in line. The drivers here are absolutely clueless like you’ve never seen before in your life. And I mean all of them. I’m not exaggerating. And a few other things. It is what it is.
A potential solution, tell her a private driver is coming to pick her up at a certain time, and she needs to be ready. It would help you not waste so much of your time.
@@LifeandHealthLiving would not make a bit of a difference. I’ve sent many Uber’s to women and I would estimate half of them were never picked up because they just flake. The only one I will send an Uber to now is my girlfriend because she is responsible enough to be ready. As a matter of fact, I just called her one about five minutes ago. Ironically It is what it is down here. It is a different culture.
Saiyan just admitted that there's not that much going on in much of Colombia. He's invested in Cali, but for the normal guy, Cali is going to require time to make it enjoyable. Saiyan is a nice guy but his wallet only gets filled when you choose Cali as your destination. He has a bias. Colombia may have beautiful women, but there are beautiful women everywhere. Plan on investing before you reap any rewards in Cali. It seems many in Cali are trying to get out, so do you really want to invest your time and money in Cali?
Be realistic, stop saying that men should “date”, tell them to hire a high class escort once in while, and pay them to leave, otherwise, young men will be taken to the cleaners. Remember: only simps date or get married.
Passion can be great at times, but don't make them jealous! They'll follow through
Murderous Colombianas LOL
Oh yes lol i agree with you
Where were you when I arrived to medellin 6 years ago !!!! You are really helping guys out. Good work. I had to deal with all the bs on my own.
I was in Cali! Transitioning into my final form to be able to help men!
this is what i did in cartagena. especially on the first meetup. I asked her to meet me a café near my place. instead of a 6pm meetup tell her at 4 so she can probably arrive at six and if she flakes she flakes but you didnt expect her to arrive. once she says she is there tell her you will be there in 10 minutes and walk down there. that way you aint wasting time in a certain place and then end up disappointed.
As usual. I cannot disagree with one word that you said. You are 100% right on the money. One thing I would like to add. The women here are exactly what you described. One thing I think should be mentioned. The majority of these women are very money driven. Even the good ones. Just be aware. It doesn’t necessarily make them bad women. But they do expect to be taken care of. And when someone needs help, I have no problem helping. But there are those that will take advantage.
Dealing with the wrong ones. 😑
That's women everywhere 😂
@@rockon8174 no I’ve got some awesome women here. My girl now is fantastic. But when you have absolutely no money and you are actually struggling for food money is an important thing. It’s to be expected. Some of them are just straight up rats. No question about that. but you have to expect to take care of any woman that you are with. And you pay for everything on any date. That’s just the way it is here. It’s old school. Men pay. Women pay later. 😉
That is especially the case in Medellin. It's not that hard to screen for non- materialistic women in other cities
@Git some this issue can be solved by men by not being poor
Your not just dating her but her family but if they like you its a imostonal bonding that last forever
Guess my girl from Barranquilla was an outlier - she is always on time.
Definitely!
4:00 forget that!!!! Sleep is more important. 😴
But when you see them show up and they are dressed to the nine smelling All good, any sleepiness or tiredness goes away instantly
@Analyze With Saiyan Chan not for this fella. When the body wants rest, it rests. Sickness comes from lack of sleep.
@@rockon8174 You don't argue with the body when the body demands sleep.
I feel that. I don't even go partying in Europe because of that. Nighttime is for sleeping and when you are genuine yourself plus no simp she will find it attractive and there are so many activities during the day anyway.
But there are different ways of handling for everyone sure
For the algorithm!
Thanks!
I hope I meet Colombian women who are not flaky. Flakiness is my pet peeve. If she does not respect my time then she does not respect me. I love passion and love!
good luck those are rare
Just curious would the women in Columbia come to USA to visit you ?
I’m understand most do not have a passport.
Would it be possible to help her get one so she could visit you here ?
Unless they already have an American visa, it’s a two-year waiting list to get one. They can’t come to the US on just a passport.
Colombians need both a Passport and Visa to visit the USA. Having the US embassy aprove the visa can be a problem, and the wait times to get aproved can be over one to two years long, depending on the type of visa.
@@LifeandHealthLiving just curious what’s the reasoning for taking so long ?
@@JAYY_JAYY slow inefficeant uncaring goverment bureaucracy
@@LifeandHealthLiving oh ok
I suppose the cost as well .
They probably don’t have much disposable income.
Is it common in Colombia where a woman brings her friend, sister, or relative on a date? This is a deal breaker for me in the USA. I've had ratchet women bring or ask if they could bring their friend, sister, or cousin on a date just so i can pay for her too. That would happen to me in my 20s.
To be safe, ask ahead of time if they are coming solo. I would not deal with 2 women at once anywhere
@@saiyanchan thank you for your response. I enjoy your information and content.
That’s one of the behavior traits I despise is not being on time or flakey .
I understand a few minutes or even 30 minutes things happen traffic .
But 1,2 or 3 hours late is total disregard.
I see it has a disrespect.
Also I wonder if certain women do that when they are not highly interested.
In America I will not put up that and I do not believe I will put up with it when I get to Columbia.
Then this isn’t the place for you, my friend. It’s really true. I have to remind my girl all of the time. I tell her if you’re going to be late, please just send me a message. She’s good about doing that now. But that’s about the best you can hope for. There’s a lot of things down here that would probably drive you crazy and takes getting used to. I know it took me time to adjust to some of the things that go on here. Like people cutting in line. The drivers here are absolutely clueless like you’ve never seen before in your life. And I mean all of them. I’m not exaggerating. And a few other things. It is what it is.
A potential solution, tell her a private driver is coming to pick her up at a certain time, and she needs to be ready. It would help you not waste so much of your time.
You could also be dealing with girls that are straight up ditzes
Even with the private driver, they can just stop responding at that time only to call you an hour later, it's something that everyone will deal with
@@LifeandHealthLiving would not make a bit of a difference. I’ve sent many Uber’s to women and I would estimate half of them were never picked up because they just flake. The only one I will send an Uber to now is my girlfriend because she is responsible enough to be ready. As a matter of fact, I just called her one about five minutes ago. Ironically It is what it is down here. It is a different culture.
Saiyan just admitted that there's not that much going on in much of Colombia. He's invested in Cali, but for the normal guy, Cali is going to require time to make it enjoyable. Saiyan is a nice guy but his wallet only gets filled when you choose Cali as your destination. He has a bias. Colombia may have beautiful women, but there are beautiful women everywhere. Plan on investing before you reap any rewards in Cali. It seems many in Cali are trying to get out, so do you really want to invest your time and money in Cali?
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Sorry man blk American and I’m told we are more passionate then the Colombian men.
Colombia is "el país del cacho" ="the country of unfaithfulness
It's nuts
Lol oh man so i can say bye to her now she seems like a nice girl :😢
Be realistic, stop saying that men should “date”, tell them to hire a high class escort once in while, and pay them to leave, otherwise, young men will be taken to the cleaners. Remember: only simps date or get married.
You can have them all to yourself no thanks!