@User_Ella_the_fairy child on child sa exists. It can happen from a younger person.The only way it would be your fault is if you initiated it and forced them to do it.
I’m not here to tell you I know your pain because I don’t. I am here to tell you that you survived and that makes you 1000 times stronger than anyone I’ve ever met. It also means they’re a people proud of you out there and that includes me.
Melina I am so sorry that you have to go through this and as someone who is also nervous about what is to come I understand you. You’re music is helping me so much through this so know you’ve helped others though this time.
I was in the 'exact' same outfit as the guy at an indoor snow place where they provided clothing. It's not the clothes, but it's the first thing people blame us for :( (thankfully my parents were able to console me and nothing too bad happened but I was scarred for a long while after)
In my family I am considered a liar for saying I was sexually assaulted. No one in my household will ever understand that what happened to me was real and though it’s sad other people can relate I’m happy to not be alone
I'm so sorry that that happened to you it's never happened to me thankfully so I can't begin to understand what you went through but that should not have happened
I’m a bisexual Christian who believes in female power in 6th grade, two years ago, I attempted because I thought no one would understand and now with everything, looking back my problems seem like recess but because of my survival of that attempt I have not attempted since even what I’m going through is 10x worse then what I was going through. For anyone out there who feels like I did or do now just know you’re not alone in your battles❤❤
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this. I cannot relate, THANKFULLY. but I’m still gonna be right by peoples’ sides when they need me, sa is not and never will be something to joke about. I’m gonna be here for anybody when they need it, female or male. I wish that we didn’t live in a world like this.
Now I don’t know anything about what you went through but, it’s not your fault. And you survived and that’s something to be proud of. And you came out stronger. And I pray for you
When I was 5, I was r@ped. I never got to reach out for help because well we 3 yr old sister was getting help for the same thing happening to her by the same 15 yr old. I feel so bad now because my mom said that I should’ve just asked for help cuz then he would’ve been in jail and that it’s my fault he never went to jail and that my sister went through everything she did for nothing all because of me. I wish hell on that man.
I am so sorry that happened to you and your sister and what you guys had to go through. I can’t imagine that pain and trauma you went through and have because of that, but I just want you to know that no matter what people say just remember that it’s not your fault AT ALL! You are amazing don’t forget that!😊❤
I keep doubting whether what I experienced was SA purely because we were dating at the time, I only let him because he kept pressuring me and kept insisting and sometimes did it anyway and played victim when I got uncomfortable, he was the first guy I was serious with and was a survivor as well
That is SA. And I’m sorry you went through that. R4pe is the absence of consent. And consent is NOT the absence of “NO!” Consent is an emphatic “yes”. Anything else is wrong. It’s. NOT! YOUR! FAULT! At all!
I have not personally been r@ped, @ssulted etc, but my ex-girlfriend (Who is still my bestie to this day) was by her grandpa when she was 4, (Yes, I got her permission to put this on the internet) And a message from both of us: "You are not alone, you didn't deserve that, it wasn't your fault, and we love you, so, so much. Keep fighting, it will all get better soon.
Menagerie made a very comforting video about how young people feel in this political climate and it genuinely made me feel so much better. It’s realistic, they understand things are fucked rn, but they give very insightful advice on ways to think big picture about things. Also for my Americans, they have a video talking about how to survive project 2025 if thats something you feel you need. Please stay safe guys💛💛💛
I was wearing a tshirt and jeans when someone tried I hate people that say that it matters what you wear If your a parent, teach your kids respect and boxing :3 (Really the only reason i didnt get 🤫d was cuz bro was scared that i was gonna hurt him back)
I'm so grateful that this is a safe space where people can feel safe and not judged for being who they are. As someone apart of the queer community, today has been really hard, and I really appreciate the love that radiates from this space. ❤ we've got this everyone. You're stronger than any darkness and can get through any battle victorious.
I was not SA’d but I’ve been sexually assaulted and every time someone says “I’m gonna touch you” or slaps ppls butts it makes me uncomfortable bc how I was sexually assaulted was from his guy who was “gay” and he would slap my butt and try to hold my hand and etc. yes after awhile the principal found out and talk with me about it.
No one believes me when I say that I was sexually violated by my ex and every time I say it’s true they believe him over me and I made the mistake on saying that I didn’t want to get the cops involved 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I was a twelve year old girl in a mental wearing modest PJs A teal short sleeve shirt and pink teal and yellow checkered pants my 11 year old girl roommate did the thing that would shatter my heart and view of myself
to every and any survivor out there: you're so brave. i'm not gonna pretend to know what you've been through,but i'm proud of you for getting this far. you are so incredibly strong.
I know this ain’t really what you meant, but it’s kinda close and I really feel like I need to get this off my chest, so, here goes nothing. When I was younger, like kindergarten-1st grade, I was really good friends with this girl(I won’t say her name becuz privacy reasons) and she had a crush on me (I had no idea until 7th grade, and she still likes me). We were on the same bus and were going home for the day when she moved to sit next to me. I was confused, because we had assigned seats, but happy because I really liked her as a friend. Then another person sat down in my seat with her and they sort of surrounded me. They covered my mouth and most of my nose, which made it really hard to breathe, and then they started kissing me. On my face, my arms, my neck. I began to cry and they didn’t stop until it was their stop and they got off the bus. I ran off the bus sobbing, told my parents, and they told the principal. The two girls never got in trouble because the principals thought it was just them playing around. They didn’t even check the security cameras on the bus to see what happened, they just dismissed it and acted like nothing happened. This part is where some of you may call be dumb and childish. I’ve found a girlfriend since then, one who I love dearly and she loves me back the same, but I can’t fully bring myself to kiss her. I’m comfortable with her kissing me (hands, cheeks, forehead) when I’m mentally okay, and I can kiss her forehead and cheeks. But then after any kiss we exchange, my mind has to mentally remember that it’s not like the bus ride. Bd if I’m not doing mentally well during a kiss, after it my kind will go crazy with thoughts and move like the speed of light. I know I’m not a survivor, and I’ve met people who think I’m childish or that I’m faking being affected by it, but I just needed to get it off my chest. I’ve been holding it in for a little too long.. Thank you for taking the time to read this, if you did. I hope you have a nice day!
I’m not good at leaving comments but that’s seriously wrong, remember this, You’re strong for going through that, and that response is normal, going through that at a young age is bound to have some effect on your mental health. Don’t think that your weak, cause your not.
No one believed my sperm donor SA'd me when I told them until I told my husband. And then he held my hand when I told my mom and godmother. They believed me. My guardians called me a liar
I’m a survivor of sa and my first kiss was without my consent in high school my councilor made me dance with a boy so I did then he kissed me and the dude who sa’d me finally got expelled but he did it to 12 other girls by that point
I see what yall are saying, but from experience the strongest women do not use negative experiences as crutches with which they beat down others. They push past and beyond to be a blessing to themselves, partners, families, and others
As a trans girl, I cannot relate to what some cis women (like most watching) are experiencing, but I hope you realize that your voices matter the most. It sucks, not being able to control the fact that some people are so utterly disgusting that they r@93 innocent people, especially children. I just hope you all know that we all support you, you can get through it. ❤
To all the survivors if they try to guilt trip you don’t listen to them just say “oh no your body your choices my body my choices so it’s not my fault* it’s not your fault it’s their fault and choices that got them there they should have not done it.
I was very young don’t remember much but my cousin she caught the PASTOR in the act my family showed me photos of me before it happened I was in a long sleeve shirt and pants with converse i to this day have scars and well can’t have kids unless I adopt showing how even if I can’t remember it it’s scared others and hurt me
When it happened to me I was 5 though 9 and for me when I was older and I told someone close to me they asked what I was wearing…, I was a little kid that didn’t know any better what do you mean what was wearing?!, but for all other survivors, stay strong and make sure no one make you feel like a victim, you need to make them think that you ARE and Surviver, one that was able to get free and one that was able to leave but if your still going through it, tell someone you can trust, tell someone that you know will do something, don’t give up on anything because there is still hope
No clue why this is on my page but I understand the sentiment of this persons music overwise I’m out Back to the walking dead shorts And other tv shows and games
i was 19 when it happened and i was terrified- i got manipulated and i was told it was my fault. depression settled in after that and i missed the first month of school becuase of it. i was wearing a pink sweater and jeans my mom bought the week before.
@@sevensworld3051this song is about fcking sexual assault it is against men who do that, and your taking offense.. so are you those men in question? NO. A good person won’t get offended by this lol, and no one cares if your pro trump lol.
To all the survivors if they try to guilt trip you don’t listen to them just say “oh no your body your choices my body my choices so it’s not my fault* it’s not your fault it’s their fault and choices that got them there they should have not done it.
to all survivors: it wasn't your fault
I’m not crying 😭
I cry my self to sleep every night thinking about it
But what if it was my fault?he was 8 and I was 9,
@@User_Ella_the_fairy well did you not want it and they didn't get your consent? if they did it then you aren't to blame
@User_Ella_the_fairy child on child sa exists. It can happen from a younger person.The only way it would be your fault is if you initiated it and forced them to do it.
I love how you have plus sized backup singers!! Your music really helps me a lot I love you so much!!❤
Yesss
I’m not here to tell you I know your pain because I don’t. I am here to tell you that you survived and that makes you 1000 times stronger than anyone I’ve ever met. It also means they’re a people proud of you out there and that includes me.
Melina I am so sorry that you have to go through this and as someone who is also nervous about what is to come I understand you. You’re music is helping me so much through this so know you’ve helped others though this time.
I was wearing a hoodie with the hood up and jeans and a mask.
Nothing was showing. It still happened.
I was in the 'exact' same outfit as the guy at an indoor snow place where they provided clothing.
It's not the clothes, but it's the first thing people blame us for :(
(thankfully my parents were able to console me and nothing too bad happened but I was scarred for a long while after)
I feel so sorry for both of you i was almost r.ped aswell but luckily got away just in time!
In my family I am considered a liar for saying I was sexually assaulted. No one in my household will ever understand that what happened to me was real and though it’s sad other people can relate I’m happy to not be alone
No one deserves to go through that. I'm sorry💔
Im so sorry. You deserve better.
I'm so sorry that that happened to you it's never happened to me thankfully so I can't begin to understand what you went through but that should not have happened
I’m a bisexual Christian who believes in female power in 6th grade, two years ago, I attempted because I thought no one would understand and now with everything, looking back my problems seem like recess but because of my survival of that attempt I have not attempted since even what I’m going through is 10x worse then what I was going through. For anyone out there who feels like I did or do now just know you’re not alone in your battles❤❤
You're amazing. Thank you for sharing your story 🫶
For all the survivors you are so brave, you are strong, you will always be stronger than the haters
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this. I cannot relate, THANKFULLY. but I’m still gonna be right by peoples’ sides when they need me, sa is not and never will be something to joke about. I’m gonna be here for anybody when they need it, female or male. I wish that we didn’t live in a world like this.
Now I don’t know anything about what you went through but, it’s not your fault. And you survived and that’s something to be proud of. And you came out stronger. And I pray for you
When I was 5, I was r@ped. I never got to reach out for help because well we 3 yr old sister was getting help for the same thing happening to her by the same 15 yr old. I feel so bad now because my mom said that I should’ve just asked for help cuz then he would’ve been in jail and that it’s my fault he never went to jail and that my sister went through everything she did for nothing all because of me. I wish hell on that man.
I am so sorry that happened to you and your sister and what you guys had to go through. I can’t imagine that pain and trauma you went through and have because of that, but I just want you to know that no matter what people say just remember that it’s not your fault AT ALL! You are amazing don’t forget that!😊❤
Im so sorry. Nobody deserves that
I keep doubting whether what I experienced was SA purely because we were dating at the time, I only let him because he kept pressuring me and kept insisting and sometimes did it anyway and played victim when I got uncomfortable, he was the first guy I was serious with and was a survivor as well
Even if your dating that is never ok. I’m so sorry ❤
That is SA. And I’m sorry you went through that.
R4pe is the absence of consent.
And consent is NOT the absence of “NO!”
Consent is an emphatic “yes”. Anything else is wrong.
It’s. NOT! YOUR! FAULT! At all!
I have not personally been r@ped, @ssulted etc, but my ex-girlfriend (Who is still my bestie to this day) was by her grandpa when she was 4, (Yes, I got her permission to put this on the internet) And a message from both of us:
"You are not alone, you didn't deserve that, it wasn't your fault, and we love you, so, so much. Keep fighting, it will all get better soon.
Ima sub just because of how open you are about speaking about this topic. Also the song is 💯
Menagerie made a very comforting video about how young people feel in this political climate and it genuinely made me feel so much better. It’s realistic, they understand things are fucked rn, but they give very insightful advice on ways to think big picture about things. Also for my Americans, they have a video talking about how to survive project 2025 if thats something you feel you need. Please stay safe guys💛💛💛
Little loves, you didn’t ask for it, you didn’t make them, you didn’t leave them no other choice. You never deserved that.
I was wearing a tshirt and jeans when someone tried
I hate people that say that it matters what you wear
If your a parent, teach your kids respect and boxing :3
(Really the only reason i didnt get 🤫d was cuz bro was scared that i was gonna hurt him back)
I love you Melina! 🩷 thank you for always supporting everyone and making us feel safe on your page!
Of course 🩵
I'm so grateful that this is a safe space where people can feel safe and not judged for being who they are. As someone apart of the queer community, today has been really hard, and I really appreciate the love that radiates from this space. ❤ we've got this everyone. You're stronger than any darkness and can get through any battle victorious.
I was not SA’d but I’ve been sexually assaulted and every time someone says “I’m gonna touch you” or slaps ppls butts it makes me uncomfortable bc how I was sexually assaulted was from his guy who was “gay” and he would slap my butt and try to hold my hand and etc. yes after awhile the principal found out and talk with me about it.
Can I vent about my experience Melina?(will edit if u say yes)
No one believes me when I say that I was sexually violated by my ex and every time I say it’s true they believe him over me and I made the mistake on saying that I didn’t want to get the cops involved 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My mother’s relationship almost got violent when I was small but she left him! And he was verbally abusive to my and my mum.
My mom told me it was my fault for allowing him in my room. The trauma I still have is more due to her response than to the actual experience.
I was a twelve year old girl in a mental wearing modest PJs A teal short sleeve shirt and pink teal and yellow checkered pants my 11 year old girl roommate did the thing that would shatter my heart and view of myself
EVERYONE in this comment section, and all of the survivors in the world are brave. #nooneisalone
to every and any survivor out there: you're so brave. i'm not gonna pretend to know what you've been through,but i'm proud of you for getting this far. you are so incredibly strong.
over 40 times. in the span a few months. by the same person.
I know this ain’t really what you meant, but it’s kinda close and I really feel like I need to get this off my chest, so, here goes nothing.
When I was younger, like kindergarten-1st grade, I was really good friends with this girl(I won’t say her name becuz privacy reasons) and she had a crush on me (I had no idea until 7th grade, and she still likes me). We were on the same bus and were going home for the day when she moved to sit next to me. I was confused, because we had assigned seats, but happy because I really liked her as a friend. Then another person sat down in my seat with her and they sort of surrounded me. They covered my mouth and most of my nose, which made it really hard to breathe, and then they started kissing me. On my face, my arms, my neck. I began to cry and they didn’t stop until it was their stop and they got off the bus. I ran off the bus sobbing, told my parents, and they told the principal. The two girls never got in trouble because the principals thought it was just them playing around. They didn’t even check the security cameras on the bus to see what happened, they just dismissed it and acted like nothing happened. This part is where some of you may call be dumb and childish. I’ve found a girlfriend since then, one who I love dearly and she loves me back the same, but I can’t fully bring myself to kiss her. I’m comfortable with her kissing me (hands, cheeks, forehead) when I’m mentally okay, and I can kiss her forehead and cheeks. But then after any kiss we exchange, my mind has to mentally remember that it’s not like the bus ride. Bd if I’m not doing mentally well during a kiss, after it my kind will go crazy with thoughts and move like the speed of light.
I know I’m not a survivor, and I’ve met people who think I’m childish or that I’m faking being affected by it, but I just needed to get it off my chest. I’ve been holding it in for a little too long..
Thank you for taking the time to read this, if you did. I hope you have a nice day!
I’m not good at leaving comments but that’s seriously wrong, remember this, You’re strong for going through that, and that response is normal, going through that at a young age is bound to have some effect on your mental health. Don’t think that your weak, cause your not.
thank you :) i hope you have many, many, many good days
No one believed my sperm donor SA'd me when I told them until I told my husband. And then he held my hand when I told my mom and godmother. They believed me. My guardians called me a liar
I’m a survivor of sa and my first kiss was without my consent in high school my councilor made me dance with a boy so I did then he kissed me and the dude who sa’d me finally got expelled but he did it to 12 other girls by that point
Kissing is not sa-
@@sevensworld3051if it was without their consent then it was tho
@@sevensworld3051 it is
I see what yall are saying, but from experience the strongest women do not use negative experiences as crutches with which they beat down others. They push past and beyond to be a blessing to themselves, partners, families, and others
Fairly sure that's the point of this entire song.
As a trans girl, I cannot relate to what some cis women (like most watching) are experiencing, but I hope you realize that your voices matter the most. It sucks, not being able to control the fact that some people are so utterly disgusting that they r@93 innocent people, especially children. I just hope you all know that we all support you, you can get through it. ❤
I was at school. She was supposed to be my friend
Girl I love you so much ❤️
Literally same
Here to give support. I’m sorry this world can be cruel.
You are amazing!!!
I’m a survivor😝😝😝😝
I have a daughter now (I just turned 14)
To all the survivors if they try to guilt trip you don’t listen to them just say “oh no your body your choices my body my choices so it’s not my fault* it’s not your fault it’s their fault and choices that got them there they should have not done it.
Ily Melina KB you actually care for your fan base
I was very young don’t remember much but my cousin she caught the PASTOR in the act my family showed me photos of me before it happened I was in a long sleeve shirt and pants with converse i to this day have scars and well can’t have kids unless I adopt showing how even if I can’t remember it it’s scared others and hurt me
When it happened to me I was 5 though 9 and for me when I was older and I told someone close to me they asked what I was wearing…, I was a little kid that didn’t know any better what do you mean what was wearing?!, but for all other survivors, stay strong and make sure no one make you feel like a victim, you need to make them think that you ARE and Surviver, one that was able to get free and one that was able to leave but if your still going through it, tell someone you can trust, tell someone that you know will do something, don’t give up on anything because there is still hope
As a victim and a survivor
Your platform and skydxddys platform is one of the safest places I have
❤
I've felt so alone because of this. Thank you 🤍
My third favourite song ❤
Thank you
I tried too :_(
Tysm
No clue why this is on my page but I understand the sentiment of this persons music overwise I’m out
Back to the walking dead shorts
And other tv shows and games
i was 19 when it happened and i was terrified- i got manipulated and i was told it was my fault. depression settled in after that and i missed the first month of school becuase of it.
i was wearing a pink sweater and jeans my mom bought the week before.
Can you post sheet music for this song?
❤❤❤
your safe here
I tried doing sewer side when I was 8… that’s all
SHOUT IT LOUDERRR
I thought they were my friend.
I thought that was my band teacher for a second I was so scared bro
The backup dancer looks like Molly grace!
@@shelbsyboo it is Molly!!! we played a coheadlining show a few years ago :)
The 4B anthem
"what she wearing"
"what was he thinking"
chose what you'll say only one is right
Hi I’m technically a survivor of the boys saying “SHUT UP MONIKA” for saying my opinion they always try to silence me
Hey gang 👋
Do I count as a “survivor” if it was just some kisses that I didn’t exactly say ‘no’ to…?
IK boys are like mean
That isn't exactly what she meant but that's alright
@@Karelison there's a difference between a boy and a man
Im silencing your voice in my ears bc im about to unsubscribe
Why the fuck would you do that?
Why?
@@sevensworld3051 Why?
@Evoimations i don’t like her anti men attitude, and i support trump, this is coming from a girl btw
@@sevensworld3051this song is about fcking sexual assault it is against men who do that, and your taking offense.. so are you those men in question? NO. A good person won’t get offended by this lol, and no one cares if your pro trump lol.
To all the survivors if they try to guilt trip you don’t listen to them just say “oh no your body your choices my body my choices so it’s not my fault* it’s not your fault it’s their fault and choices that got them there they should have not done it.
❤❤