Living Alone for the First Time *things to do if you're feeling lonely*

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @mayaleex3
    @mayaleex3  2 года назад +49

    You never walk alone :) posted this weekend’s video early! Hope you enjoy my honest thoughts ~
    If you could please help me by:
    1. Subscribing if you haven’t already 🥰
    2. Smashing the like button on this video 👍
    3. Watching the video all the way through👀
    4. Following my life on Instagram, too! @mayaleex3
    That would mean so much to me🥲!

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +270

    I feel like everyone should live alone at one point in life. It’s a great way to grow and get to know yourself better. I love this series 💛

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад +31

      I totally agree 🥰 it’s a bigger financial responsibility but definitely a huge opportunity for growth!

    • @Scphell
      @Scphell 7 месяцев назад

      I became a alcoholic👍

  • @annieaugust1567
    @annieaugust1567 2 года назад +88

    This video came while I really needed it, living alone right now is hitting me hard and to know I'm not alone and your tips will help me feel better.

    • @xoxoluvadam
      @xoxoluvadam Год назад +1

      I’m starting my journey in two weeks. I have been an emotional wreck knowing that I’ll be alone for the first ever. We will get this right?

  • @navmari
    @navmari 2 года назад +74

    this came at the perfect time for me, I'm 17 and I moved to another city bc of college and I just said goodbye to my parents. It's a scary time, but I'm sure I can make it! thank u

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад +11

      That’s a really big change! You’re going to grow so much and learn a lot about yourself :)

  • @adriennehilll
    @adriennehilll 2 года назад +39

    Needed this energy today ❤️

  • @destinythomas7860
    @destinythomas7860 2 года назад +9

    this is so crazy because yesterday i was feeling lonely and sad but uploaded this.. I just find it so weird, but I'm so grateful you made this.

  • @GeovanniDonnetello
    @GeovanniDonnetello 11 месяцев назад +1

    Single for the first time at 58. Scary but I have a lot of cleaning to do. Great video.

    • @AvaNick-hs1gh
      @AvaNick-hs1gh 11 месяцев назад

      So you love your single life?

  • @cmjk1
    @cmjk1 2 года назад +6

    Ahh the BTS sounds in your car, took me tf out for sure!! really really love your content. All your videos are so amazing

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад

      Hehehe saaaaame 😂

  • @LeMErin21
    @LeMErin21 2 года назад +4

    I love living alone. When you enjoy your own company, you’re never (or rarely) lonely 😌

  • @memesssss37
    @memesssss37 2 года назад +4

    You are doing your things by your self and it's so good 🌿

  • @brianna4098
    @brianna4098 2 года назад +1

    Ahhhh "On" is my favorite Choreo of theirs 🥰

  • @cosygracegames
    @cosygracegames 2 года назад +5

    Was feeling a little lonely the other night for the first time in a bit so this helped so much! I relate on many levels, it helps to play things all throughout the day whether sound or shows, etc just to feel like you’re with other people, fun exercises and cleaning projects or fun meals/baked goods to look forward to making :) also knowing gods there knowing just how to make you happy/feel safe :) thanks for the video!!

  • @emmagawron
    @emmagawron 2 года назад +2

    hoping i can live alone soon! i think i really do need a change of scenery and a clear head thank you for keeping me motivated!

  • @kanao_editz4248
    @kanao_editz4248 2 года назад +11

    The fact that you are so positive and inspire me soooo much.You are such a comforting person keep up the good work.Btw can we appreciate the fact that this women found the meaning of love and life.Love you so much you inspire me so much and make me positive evretime I watch your videos you make me smile so thank you(:

  • @fifochiken
    @fifochiken 2 года назад +3

    Wow maya your so positive
    You really encouraged me a lot :)

  • @Copper48
    @Copper48 2 года назад +2

    I listen to music at home all. the. time. 😍 It really helps!
    Amen, God is always with us. Thank you for the video, Maya 👋

  • @peytonb9771
    @peytonb9771 2 года назад +2

    I love the BTS car!!! 💜 great video Maya!😊

  • @samanthadeloach
    @samanthadeloach 2 года назад +3

    This is so helpful love this video so much 😇

  • @singingchristian
    @singingchristian 2 года назад

    Have been living alone for 9 months now. Agree with all this. Thank you 💚

  • @sanatshah
    @sanatshah Год назад

    Thank you for this video, I am 17 and I just started living alone for the first time in a hostle to prep for a competitive exam. And many times a day I feel lonely but your video make me feel better ❤‍🩹 Thanks 🙏 ☺

  • @Elena-di8rn
    @Elena-di8rn Год назад

    The BTS car sounds threw me 😂 I laughed out loud while doing the dishes.
    I'm living alone for the first time and this was comforting to watch.

  • @createwithlulu
    @createwithlulu 2 года назад +2

    you are such an inspiration to me! You actually inspired me to start my own RUclips channel!🤍🤍someday I want my channel to be like you! I would love to be able to share the Bible on RUclips like you do!💕keep it up friend!

  • @sahaniaaktari
    @sahaniaaktari 2 года назад +1

    best video , because this topic I thought most

  • @Aku-pm8cp
    @Aku-pm8cp 2 года назад +1

    This is helpful for living on your own! Thanks Maya!

  • @ricobuttonpusher7061
    @ricobuttonpusher7061 2 года назад +1

    Today I started living by myself for the first time in my life and I’m already feeling some loneliness

  • @teenatbabu3802
    @teenatbabu3802 2 года назад +2

    I love your videos 💜 especially your thoughts and perspective in 1:35 was amazing. Thank u so much .U NICE KEEP GOING 😁

  • @liliansimonafudong
    @liliansimonafudong 2 года назад +1

    hi maya! keep growing sending you sm love

  • @redridinghood2676
    @redridinghood2676 2 года назад +5

    I think I feel guilty as I try to be an engaged Christian I often forget to pray before my meals and before bed. These are all just things that I do and criticize myself for not holding myself to my standards. I mostly just talk to him casually. My mind is so focused on other things and God seems to be on the bottom part of the list. But I'm glad I can watch your videos and be reminded that he is with me always and that he's always there, waiting.

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад +3

      Awww don’t feel guilty! Like any relationship we love, it shouldn’t be out of obligation but out of desire 💕

    • @annieaugust1567
      @annieaugust1567 2 года назад +3

      Ohhh do not criticize yourself. The fact that you are aware that you forget or put him on the self is a first step to actually help you to start being mindful and be intentional about putting him first and actually praying. He loves you and remember the word of God says there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus. Do not condemn yourself. God loves you...start being intentional about putting him first. Lol okay bye now.

    • @redridinghood2676
      @redridinghood2676 2 года назад

      @@annieaugust1567 Honestly thank you so much! Those were some real words that I needed to hear and dang did that hit right were it needed too! Thank you 😊

    • @redridinghood2676
      @redridinghood2676 2 года назад

      @@mayaleex3 That’s so true but definitely some times hard to remember 😅

  • @snakeXxbite
    @snakeXxbite Год назад

    Watching this to prepare myself for living alone for the first time

  • @natmichelle
    @natmichelle 2 года назад

    Love you so much Maya! 💜

  • @bycapybara
    @bycapybara 2 года назад +1

    your videos are just so calming... love from pluto!!

  • @KAM-s4v
    @KAM-s4v Год назад

    I loved when u said God is with us always. Reminder to myself. He will never leave us. He is with us fil the end of the age.

  • @onestep2525
    @onestep2525 2 года назад

    a very good reminder for me while im on my living alone journey ✨🤗

  • @tarasmith7039
    @tarasmith7039 2 года назад

    I really enjoy you’re energy. I watch you’re videos all the time ❤️

  • @jennygracefully
    @jennygracefully 2 года назад

    Oh my gosh, I love your Tesla!

  • @mandyhickman8463
    @mandyhickman8463 2 года назад +24

    Wow! This is a pleasant surprise! A Saturday video!😊💜 thank you Maya! I recently got my own place too, my best friend was supposed to move in with me but bailed last minute. It is usually too quiet for my liking and I get bored easily as there is only so much to clean lol, Thank you so much!!

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад +5

      Congratulations!! Even if you didn’t initially plan for it hehe I think it’s good :)

    • @mandyhickman8463
      @mandyhickman8463 2 года назад +1

      @@mayaleex3 Exactly! And now I have more motivation to take advantage of it! Also, I found it very funny how your car uses those phrases and those exact ones are different phone notifications for my different friends... Even the "Hey, Stob it!" Lol

    • @parflegideon2854
      @parflegideon2854 2 года назад

      I like to workout when bored,this has helped much lol,some people like to read …it all depends on personal choices

    • @parflegideon2854
      @parflegideon2854 2 года назад

      Mandy maybe you were missing your former place before you moved in maybe that’s what it is not just botedom😊 did you think of it that way?

  • @JoyfulOne468
    @JoyfulOne468 2 года назад

    I loved this video! Your customization on your car is great. 😅

  • @rachelretherford8971
    @rachelretherford8971 2 года назад

    Loved this video! It is something that I struggle with!

  • @fortheshygirl4938
    @fortheshygirl4938 2 года назад

    8:11 Probably the best feature of the Tesla. First time I heard this it was hilarious. Cheers, Maya

  • @미사키정
    @미사키정 Год назад +1

    I am moving to Manila next year June 2023 from Cebu. I will be living alone for the first time and it's my first time as well that I will be going far from my mom... Reason? In my age, I just turned 23 last november, I feel like even how I dress up myself I still rely on my mom. For once I wanted to teach myself how to be independent, well, I really hope so

    • @maricorjanelaureta2330
      @maricorjanelaureta2330 2 месяца назад

      omg same! Moving to mnl in a few days now, from cdo. I’m also 23 y.o and wanted to teach myself how to be independent. I hope this would work well!!

  • @jenifermanuel4561
    @jenifermanuel4561 2 года назад +2

    Really miss the blue majik smoothie, try to make one in your next video 🥺

  • @watermelon..baby12
    @watermelon..baby12 Год назад

    I really wanna live alone when I’m old enough to move out

  • @saniya7649
    @saniya7649 2 года назад

    I will be moving to Wuppertal city for my internship and it will be the first time that I will be living alone. Actually, it is a shared accomodation and I really don't know what to expect and what not to expect.

  • @mellowbee7642
    @mellowbee7642 2 года назад

    I’m in my early thirties, I’m going to start living alone soon, I’m a Christian and the only BTS fan which means no one gets my K-pop jokes lol. I wish I had a friend like you! (although I do love my friends and I am grateful for each of them)
    Thanks for making this video and making me feel less alone 💜

  • @krishnadesai2553
    @krishnadesai2553 2 месяца назад

    Where is your sofa from? ❤

  • @Ni3.975
    @Ni3.975 2 года назад

    Love you❤️

  • @shafy5009
    @shafy5009 2 года назад +1

    its very useful vedio💜💜💜👍👍👍

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky 2 года назад

    Love you I'm so Early ❤️

  • @milenaborges9965
    @milenaborges9965 2 года назад

    Hi! I am new here and your advices seem really helpful :)
    Love your vibes 🥰
    P.S. Where did you bought the closet that keep your shoes?

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад +1

      It’s from IKEA :)

  • @chandrakamalkumar
    @chandrakamalkumar 2 года назад

    First omg 💜 ly

  • @dimplegirl21
    @dimplegirl21 2 года назад

    hiii!! i'm a new viewer and this has been so helpful as i have recently living alone as well. can you link the microfiber cloths you use on the countertop and to clean?

  • @TheMusiclover8675
    @TheMusiclover8675 2 года назад

    Hey fellow ARMY!!

  • @fortheshygirl4938
    @fortheshygirl4938 2 года назад

    8:16 Party party yeah. Any army here?

  • @vash7995
    @vash7995 2 года назад

    @8:40 omg 😱😱

  • @fionajade9000
    @fionajade9000 2 года назад

    Does putting your shoes in the washing machine ruin it?

  • @Fresh_Lemonsoda
    @Fresh_Lemonsoda 2 года назад +1

    i started to learn to live alone from the age of 8
    Both of my parents were busy out their work so i would live alone from 11 am to 9pm
    Sometimes it would become 12 am too..
    I used to come from school and then do my work by my own
    Good thing i had my birds so i would play with them
    Then tuitions
    So it wasn't that a worry to be honest.
    Before my mom was reall confident on me livin'alone
    Now my mum be like:
    *My ChIlD Is GoNnA LiVe AlOnE WhAt If ShE GeTs In TrOublE*
    Even though there's so much security here and I'm almost turning 13
    But she is still worried lol

  • @davidparnell4675
    @davidparnell4675 2 года назад

    Hi maya

  • @di__estradaa1
    @di__estradaa1 2 года назад +1

    I would love to have a car where you can press a button and have Jimin saying “uMm EXcUsE mE!l” anytime someone cut me off hahaha 😂

  • @jesslaughs408
    @jesslaughs408 Год назад

    …. But this is just you being really busy to distract yourself from loneliness.
    This doesn’t solve the loneliness issue.
    It’s like you do things and get things to fill the loneliness hole. But things don’t replace people or the need for human connection. At least for me it doesn’t….
    I was hoping this would give me hope but really it just made me feel like living alone is empty.

  • @nishkasharma1675
    @nishkasharma1675 2 года назад +1

    An army living alone? I've found my people😭

  • @Awaiskhan-br2kj
    @Awaiskhan-br2kj 2 года назад

    hi maya lee how are you

  • @mylifeingeneral
    @mylifeingeneral 2 года назад

    wish I could afford a narwhal

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky 2 года назад

    So Cutee

  • @heriled4760
    @heriled4760 2 года назад

    Mantab...

  • @나는나자신을사랑하
    @나는나자신을사랑하 2 года назад +1

    Is this a routine? 😢💋

  • @LetsFIRELife
    @LetsFIRELife 2 года назад

    🥰🥰

  • @eman-152
    @eman-152 2 года назад

    The first 🍉❤

  • @hustle2muscle
    @hustle2muscle Год назад

    Surround yourself with technology and social media 😂

  • @Tiffany-dn1vz
    @Tiffany-dn1vz Год назад

    No way I'd payb2-3 hundred for a mopping robot lol.

  • @Awaiskhan-br2kj
    @Awaiskhan-br2kj 2 года назад

    i ak hird 😯😯

  • @weasleygurl26
    @weasleygurl26 Год назад

    Randomly click on a video and I find a fellow Army

  • @tarangnarayan07
    @tarangnarayan07 2 года назад +15

    I am literally on a bus back to my work city where I ll be living alone. Your timing is impeccable, just wanted I need to cheer up for this new chapter ❤🥺❤ God bless you Maya! Thank you and Borahae 💜💜💜

  • @joannaparker8050
    @joannaparker8050 2 года назад +10

    Maya!!! Ive lived by myself for two years as well And watching your videos was always such a cool vibe. I really feel like God is doing such wonders through you and your talents to show to the world. Thank you for blessing the RUclips world. You are amazing and keep going ♥️🙏

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад

      Awww thank you so much for watching! Hope you're enjoying your journey of living alone, too ~

  • @1ogerose
    @1ogerose 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video. It was right on time! God bless you

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 2 года назад +3

    Great tips and relatable! Love the robo vaccum/mop! Tfs

  • @ClarissaRose
    @ClarissaRose 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this video with us!!!!! And awww Bangtan Bot!!!! 😆💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @kyra9051
    @kyra9051 2 года назад +2

    Aww love this video! Thank you for sharing helpful tips! So so happy for you! And I love your customization for your Tesla!

  • @dar.d
    @dar.d 2 года назад +2

    Every time I watch your videos I always want to hit the subscribe button, but it already says subscribed!!! You are the best Maya! I love love your content! You are loved and blessed ❤️

  • @ARTISINGH-bw4cw
    @ARTISINGH-bw4cw 2 года назад +3

    Hey Maya, I hope you're doing well!
    Keep going💫💟

  • @krutichudasama
    @krutichudasama 2 года назад +2

    Maya...!! You are the most relatable person for me in my current situations... I have always felt and thought about things the way you do, still I used to believe that I am the only crackhead over thinking about my life. But hey! Thank you so much for posting such a realistic video.😍🥰💜💕 Also, that "hey...Excuse me!" part😂😂

  • @slbp4290
    @slbp4290 2 года назад +2

    Omg I love it thank you Maya! Have a nice day 🤍

  • @inushuuun
    @inushuuun Год назад

    Okay so i'm gonna leave my city in a couple of weeks bc of college at 18, i was super excited but now i'm a little bit scared bc is a bigbig city, i'm gonna have a roommate but stiiiiiill thank u so much for the video, I hope it helps me!

  • @la381
    @la381 2 года назад +1

    Hi Maya! 😀Which chocolate protein powder did you use in this video?

  • @laylia99
    @laylia99 9 месяцев назад

    your life is amazing
    I wish I could live like you

  • @amandajenny6577
    @amandajenny6577 2 года назад

    Spot cooky there..

  • @shafy5009
    @shafy5009 2 года назад +1

    tnx maya

  • @danielleperez1590
    @danielleperez1590 2 года назад

    I have that book! I’m reading Chasing Vines by Beth Moore now but I’m starting it next 😁

  • @zahedakhan8789
    @zahedakhan8789 2 года назад

    I eagerly wait every Sunday for you video... watching it gives me so much positive energy, motivation and happiness.,,, you are such an inspiration to young generation for living simple and yet enjoying life.. lots of love from India.. ❤💫🌺

  • @daniellepham8280
    @daniellepham8280 2 года назад

    haha im the opposite ! i go through the day compartmentalizing issues and focusing on whats going on and then when i workout i zone and think about everything that needs to be done/ worry. then its out of my system when im done working out and i can go back to focusing on the present.

  • @bubbly_sunflower9886
    @bubbly_sunflower9886 2 года назад +3

    I haven't watched maya in quite a long time. I decided to come back and BOOM! She has a fiance, a Tesla and lives with herself?! 🤯
    I'm very happy for her 🥳

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  2 года назад

      Really just embracing all the changes that are coming my way 🥲😅

    • @bubbly_sunflower9886
      @bubbly_sunflower9886 2 года назад

      @@mayaleex3 That is awesome! Thanks for replying to my comment! You are so awesome!

  • @김진영-h2z
    @김진영-h2z 2 года назад

    love your chimmy slippers :)

  • @crystalmariegee4268
    @crystalmariegee4268 2 года назад

    I definitely need the energy you bring. I need the guidance to better and make myself happier.

  • @harshita6927
    @harshita6927 2 года назад

    I really love to stay alone 😊😊😊😊

  • @shanish985
    @shanish985 2 года назад

    Sister hi sister hi 🗼🗼📡

  • @arimartinez7775
    @arimartinez7775 2 года назад

    Where is your couch from?

  • @spelletjesaccount6271
    @spelletjesaccount6271 2 года назад

    8:02 HAHAHAHA THIS IS THE BEST

  • @ramibilal1042
    @ramibilal1042 2 года назад

    زينة

  • @halscorner
    @halscorner 2 года назад

    Great motivation!

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky 2 года назад

    First ❤️

  • @barryberkman1070
    @barryberkman1070 Год назад

    Thank you for your video! It helped!