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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet 11 месяцев назад +464

    Introvert here and feeling recharged by your vlogs 💞

  • @poppycalliope
    @poppycalliope 11 месяцев назад +246

    As an introvert myself I always love seeing what other people do alone and how they are having a good time by themselves ✨️ crazy how you have been in NYC for 6 months already, feels like yesterday when you were moving!

  • @kookoosis313
    @kookoosis313 9 месяцев назад +30

    You eating a big but not so big bowl of pasta on your bed is something that looks so lovely to me as a girl I don’t know why it’s just immediately going straight to my head, you are such a lovely person

  • @memySelfandiiii
    @memySelfandiiii 11 месяцев назад +60

    That was the most authentic and truthful video you've ever made.
    I feel like u showed us a little bit more of the real you. I really enjoyed it.
    Keep up the terrific work

  • @natalia0922
    @natalia0922 11 месяцев назад +238

    zimmer 90 is a German indie band, in Germany they're pretty well known and of course now through instagram they're even bigger...its so funny to see people from other countries listening to them, love you alia

    • @chloeyeron5465
      @chloeyeron5465 11 месяцев назад +6

      soo lustig 😂

    • @JaneDoe1994xxx
      @JaneDoe1994xxx 11 месяцев назад +18

      Lol. I live in Germany and NEVER heard of Zimmer 90 😅

    • @pauuuuuu127
      @pauuuuuu127 11 месяцев назад +2

      Never heard of them, greetings from Germany 😅

    • @JaneDoe1994xxx
      @JaneDoe1994xxx 11 месяцев назад

      @@pauuuuuu127 ist echt so oder :D

    • @conneyxoxo527
      @conneyxoxo527 11 месяцев назад

      Hahaha same

  • @sadiemahon8625
    @sadiemahon8625 11 месяцев назад +53

    As a fellow introvert I finally find out why your vlogs have been so attractive to me in a very certain way! Love the video and please take care of yourself ❤

  • @unemployed_h
    @unemployed_h 11 месяцев назад +22

    I’m in my gap year in the middle of a residency for surgery, and enjoy this period focusing on myself by being introvert. It feels like I have a company:)

  • @vanillasweetcream
    @vanillasweetcream 11 месяцев назад +22

    my mental health has been terrible and this really gave me the boost I needed. sometimes it’s just one person’s words. thank you

  • @pvmin257
    @pvmin257 10 месяцев назад +72

    I became introverted this year. I was very extroverted two years ago, till I went through something with someone and completely isolated myself from everyone including people I used to be very close with. Something made me draw myself out of everyone's lives. And. I have never felt more lonely ever since I made that decision. I know I want to keep myself away from them because being surrounded by negativity was worse than me feeling lonely. But days go by where I feek the effect of loneliness even more. I crave the emotional support I need from that one specific person who has not entered my life yet. I am tired of wating but if I rush, I will hurt myself more. Im trying to embrace this loneliness feeling because I never know when I will want to come back to feeling this way again. I dont want to regret wasting my days feeling lonely, but try to enjoy being alone more. I am glad I am not the only one. and I hope I grow from being alone.

    • @Xonatirose
      @Xonatirose 6 месяцев назад +12

      I think you have more social anxiety than introvertedness. Being an introvert isn’t isolating yourself and being lonely, it’s enjoying time by yourself more than being in a large group and getting tired when socializing faster than others. Social anxiety and introverts can be together but they’re not mutually exclusive.

    • @pvmin257
      @pvmin257 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Xonatirose interesting! Thank you, I’m not sure either but I believe it’s a mix of both, maybe as you said more social anxiety than introvertedness.

    • @ritaamor283
      @ritaamor283 12 дней назад +2

      From you comment, you are not introverted, you are traumatized. Hold your hand, try tiny steps to navigate relationships again. Not everyone is terrible, although, I know, it usually seems like it. Journaling and therapy may help. The world is full of people who are deserving and looking for your friendship ❤ good luck, God bless 🙏

    • @Jessicaxixi
      @Jessicaxixi 10 дней назад +1

      I got what you mean cause I’m traumatized too… I was hurt and lost interest in social and even trust in people. We have a long way to go. Hope we both can get better. ❤

    • @theblessedblackwoman
      @theblessedblackwoman 10 дней назад

      I'm in the same position. I want to be with someone but I don't want to rush with the wrong person. Meanwhile I have to walk life alone.

  • @haileywasheree
    @haileywasheree 11 месяцев назад +30

    I find that the older I get the more I like my peace by myself abs that’s honestly so grand

  • @Mia-sb1bb
    @Mia-sb1bb 10 месяцев назад +13

    I have had SUCH an anxious day, and this calmed me right day. Thank you 💌

  • @ozatanvi
    @ozatanvi 11 месяцев назад +12

    Alia, your content keeps me coming back! 🌟 Your genuine vibe is captivating. Seeing you cozy up in NYC feels like home, and your vlogs are my comfort zone! Sending love from India! 🇮🇳💖

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee 10 месяцев назад +1

    17:48
    Man that look of excitement!
    Beautiful!

  • @chanie6892
    @chanie6892 11 месяцев назад +7

    The vibes are everything I love being alone aside from my family that’s it 🤎🤎

  • @AJ-qz5qb
    @AJ-qz5qb 11 месяцев назад +8

    yass been waiting for this refreshing subscription page woo! your vibe is infectious and helps propel me along through the week!!

  • @lastcry7027
    @lastcry7027 10 месяцев назад +4

    Hello 👋🏼 I am a new subscriber and I really enjoyed your video! Excited to binge watch all the others! You made the Korean food look so good that I went to Rice Kitchen personally about two hours ago. It’s an hour commute for me each way. Haha it was too cold to enjoy outside but I am home now. Yup, it is delicious. So thank you for the tasty recommendation and the chill vibes. 😌

  • @JonamieComedero
    @JonamieComedero 11 месяцев назад +1

    I live in Philippines but work virtually in a hospital in NYC. And this whole vids of yours in New York is giving me the feels of what NYC life is all about. :)

  • @Yhudiejames
    @Yhudiejames 9 месяцев назад +2

    I love how you enjoy your company 😊❤

  • @patsalas5170
    @patsalas5170 11 месяцев назад +4

    Now that you've settled in and NYC feels like home, ❤❤glad to see you enjoying and thriving...your apartment looks so cozy ❤😊

  • @BreannaInBrooklyn
    @BreannaInBrooklyn 11 месяцев назад +8

    I’ve really been enjoying your vlogs! You’re truly so gifted at storytelling. 👏🏾

  • @iwishiwasfreefalling
    @iwishiwasfreefalling 11 месяцев назад +5

    I casually stumbled upon one of your videos a few weeks ago and I absolutely love the cozy vibe :)

  • @mahsa0685
    @mahsa0685 4 месяца назад +1

    in past hours age i felt a lot of bad feelings about my lonliness and my introvert personality but when i saw your video i became happy so much❤

  • @ElianaRosalind
    @ElianaRosalind 11 месяцев назад +2

    i discovered your channel yesterday and i have been binge watching your videos since
    definitely found a new comfort youtuber
    salutări & gânduri bune din românia! 🥰

  • @Gamergirlyoshi
    @Gamergirlyoshi 23 часа назад

    The older I get the more I love being an introvert. I always have been. Subscribed.

  • @tatianaparmacli6570
    @tatianaparmacli6570 11 месяцев назад +5

    This vlog made me calm and peaceful ✨🫶🏻

  • @munn__zero
    @munn__zero 11 месяцев назад +2

    19:51 It’s called Yubu chobab in Korean which means rice ball with fried tofu. It’s interesting to see Korean food like kimbap in your vlog as a Korean and glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for your warm and calming vlog❤

    • @aliazaita
      @aliazaita  11 месяцев назад +1

      I loveeee it!

  • @allaboutleonie
    @allaboutleonie 11 месяцев назад +6

    yayyy i've missed your vlogs!!

  • @GabrielQuimiParedes
    @GabrielQuimiParedes 10 месяцев назад +1

    I recently joined your journey and I couldn’t noticed that you put your monstera so close to the wall, it is not recommended let it be to close cause of the differences of temperatures between the space and the wall. Love you personality, have a great day

  • @lemon8613
    @lemon8613 11 месяцев назад +6

    i love your vlogs so much ❤❤ so comfortable to watch!!

  • @withrazii.y
    @withrazii.y 4 месяца назад

    honestly i don’t write so much comments on videos, i found ur channel suddenly though and can feel that cozy atmosphere from here, just in love w ur videos

  • @hannahhannahh
    @hannahhannahh 3 месяца назад

    I just found you and you are my comfort person!! I’m so glad I found you!

  • @sophiamason1682
    @sophiamason1682 Месяц назад

    0:41 anyone else just love these sounds?

  • @hanisfaza
    @hanisfaza 8 месяцев назад

    this video just describe my self! I definetely doing all the things by my self. Love your video a lot! Keep doing this❤❤❤

  • @VasilikiTsertseli
    @VasilikiTsertseli 11 месяцев назад +1

    You are so talented Alia 😍You make videos so relaxing and easy watching 😊

  • @DoeRaeMe
    @DoeRaeMe 11 месяцев назад +1

    WHAT?! I checked last night but I didn’t see a new video from you😭 so, glad it’s here now! I’m literally lying in my bed scrolling(something I never do), but I always seem to do it when I’m looking for a new Alia video, expecting it❤ I used to be a social 🦋 before kids, now not so much! Glad to be home😊

    • @aliazaita
      @aliazaita  11 месяцев назад +1

      👋🏼👋🏼🤗

  • @elasoj
    @elasoj 11 месяцев назад +15

    Maybe this new free space in bedroom would be good for the plant :)

  • @Oliviagorskaya
    @Oliviagorskaya 11 месяцев назад +1

    Alia, I'm in love with your vlogs ❤ the food you feature in them looks awesome!

  • @에프릴
    @에프릴 2 месяца назад

    Well I just found out your vlog on youtube and your vedio makes me so chill! Love the whole vibe of this!

  • @ulyl0u
    @ulyl0u 10 месяцев назад +2

    put the monstera in the newly emptied corner and a beanbag chair or something!! cute little reading corner

  • @Phil-from-earth
    @Phil-from-earth 11 месяцев назад +2

    Fire as always Zaita!

  • @jelenalora6879
    @jelenalora6879 10 месяцев назад +2

    Merci pour cette video 🫠😊🥰💓

  • @_.themelika._
    @_.themelika._ 13 дней назад

    first time watching your videos
    too many good vibes i can't help subscribing ✨

  • @HeatherMascara
    @HeatherMascara 10 месяцев назад

    Love your videos and happy wtj season 3 started! 🫶🏻

  • @bybng9211
    @bybng9211 8 месяцев назад

    I found your channel while trying to improve my english
    .Its remind me of myself haha. Love to have a dinner at home and watching something like your vlog.Thanks for sharing the moment.😊

  • @RTW590
    @RTW590 11 месяцев назад +4

    Yes to eating in mixing bowls! It's the best 👩🏽‍🍳😀

  • @morejulka
    @morejulka 11 месяцев назад +1

    love your videos Alia! you're such an inspiration

  • @cainaldred8574
    @cainaldred8574 11 месяцев назад +7

    You could put a small bookcase or something perhaps in that gap in your bedroom. I love reading and it's so relaxing I think everybody should do more of it 😊
    I keep on seeing about this Matcha in people's videos but I've never tried it myself. I'm very intrigued to know how it tastes actually!
    Oh and I really love the colour of your green sweater! 💚 It looks really comfy too!! 😌
    Another great video. Thanks for sharing! 👍

    • @cainaldred8574
      @cainaldred8574 10 месяцев назад

      @@mizz308 I'll definitely have to try it at some point 😎

  • @gabrielachapieski7948
    @gabrielachapieski7948 11 месяцев назад +3

    the perfect vlog

  • @carolinehenson5505
    @carolinehenson5505 11 месяцев назад

    such a beautiful depiction of a lovely day in your life - thank you for sharing

  • @leytr71
    @leytr71 2 месяца назад

    You and this vlog are so beautiful 💙

  • @janeybakarbessy2330
    @janeybakarbessy2330 11 месяцев назад +6

    You did own a green sweater as I just watched your old vlogs.

  • @vintajuju
    @vintajuju 6 месяцев назад

    so cozy, I love it

  • @swimmingkim6088
    @swimmingkim6088 11 месяцев назад +2

    Happy to be introverted❤ hope u have good weekend

  • @clairebyyoung0323
    @clairebyyoung0323 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video and it’s really made my day ❤

  • @tinyangl
    @tinyangl 11 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Rice Kitchen sounds SO GOOD. I definitely want to check it out now. (The tofu+rice+fillings was probably inari--which I LOVE. I always get the salmon inari when I pass an H-Mart.)

  • @daybeamx
    @daybeamx 11 месяцев назад

    As a fellow introvert, I just wanted to say that I absolutely adore your vlogs! They make me feel like I have a friend to share my morning coffee with. ❤

  • @allurexme
    @allurexme 11 месяцев назад +2

    I looove seeing people enjoying their own company...this video was so comforting to watch ❤‍🩹

  • @RozzBerry27
    @RozzBerry27 11 месяцев назад +4

    Omg that band rec, so 🔥

  • @nakoanishikawa7635
    @nakoanishikawa7635 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your day I felt very at home and recharged in your vlogs,

  • @iyaya
    @iyaya 10 месяцев назад +1

    21:34 your sweater is giving Steve vibes from Blue’s Clues lol

  • @AimanAliQadri
    @AimanAliQadri 11 месяцев назад +3

    Queen posted 😍

  • @DSCS_JyothiR
    @DSCS_JyothiR 11 месяцев назад

    Literally waiting for ur vlogss these dayss !!❤❤🤧

  • @dddyhana
    @dddyhana 11 месяцев назад +4

    finally!! been waiting for the new vlog, thanks for ur time babezz ✨🤍

  • @gabbycastilloo
    @gabbycastilloo 11 месяцев назад +1

    aAhh I can’t wait for wtj season 3!!!! Love this sm like always 💗💗💗💗

  • @teddy_seymour
    @teddy_seymour 8 месяцев назад +1

    Fellow introvert here, loved this video! Planning to move back to nyc soon 😊

  • @costeamara3966
    @costeamara3966 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi alia! The vid is so good! Iubesc effectiv 😂❤

  • @melvinclave8457
    @melvinclave8457 11 месяцев назад +2

    IT’S TIME!!🙈🙈💖💖

  • @juliaklier
    @juliaklier 11 месяцев назад

    I love your videos so much! you're my comfort video ❤ you inspired me to create my RUclips channel (took me 10+ years to build up the courage) and I finally started posting!

  • @alinaredchin2277
    @alinaredchin2277 9 месяцев назад

    this haircut looks so good on you🥰

  • @cristitacajes4482
    @cristitacajes4482 11 месяцев назад +26

    The black top that you bought, I believe it was inspired by the Philippine culture. In our country its called “Filipiñana”. Its a dress that Rich and privilege filipino wore during meetings especially the first lady of the countries President

  • @JoVeda_xo
    @JoVeda_xo 8 месяцев назад

    introverted people are rarely famous so this is cool seeing somebody expressing what it's like because sometimes intj dont get any attention on these issues.

  • @dorofeyaa
    @dorofeyaa 11 месяцев назад

    thank You for such an incredible company !

  • @DiDaniyar
    @DiDaniyar 4 месяца назад

    I like your video, it’s helpful for my understanding English! Thx ❤

  • @_flowerdaisuki
    @_flowerdaisuki 10 месяцев назад +1

    loved the vlog✨✨✨

  • @khxmise
    @khxmise 11 месяцев назад +1

    And we enjoyed watching it ❤

  • @usutahangero2112
    @usutahangero2112 11 месяцев назад

    Yessss, we love longer vlogs 🤍🎉

  • @TheMsCroft
    @TheMsCroft 11 месяцев назад +1

    the intro is sooo sooooothing

  • @doloressanchez346
    @doloressanchez346 10 месяцев назад

    I love your videos .
    Thanks 💐

  • @gi_giooo
    @gi_giooo 11 месяцев назад +1

    When i lived in east village for a bit I would walk every week to koreatown. Its actually very easy 😅 Rice kitchen looks great. There is also a place called Yubu very close by that has the tofu skin filled with rice and fillings

    • @aliazaita
      @aliazaita  11 месяцев назад

      Added to the list!

  • @abbytheredwolf174
    @abbytheredwolf174 10 месяцев назад +2

    Chocolate hummus????? That is extremely interesting and now I have to try this.

  • @jennylim9942
    @jennylim9942 10 месяцев назад +1

    luv to see u enjoying kimbab♥

  • @SharonHKim-bz7nx
    @SharonHKim-bz7nx 10 месяцев назад +1

    I spent my late 20s in NYC. Thx for sharing. BTW, I am glad you like kimbap LOL. hi from Seoul ^^

  • @stephanienguyen326
    @stephanienguyen326 11 месяцев назад

    Ive missed this chill vibe =)

  • @tanyagarg986
    @tanyagarg986 11 месяцев назад

    Loved the vlog ❤

  • @Aria-kb6ll
    @Aria-kb6ll 11 месяцев назад

    loved this cosy vlog

  • @EthelChivonivoni.1
    @EthelChivonivoni.1 10 месяцев назад

    this is so therapeutic

  • @chiara0183
    @chiara0183 9 месяцев назад +1

    I need to now where the bag is from 😍😍 please

  • @AlamoVazquezMaria
    @AlamoVazquezMaria 10 месяцев назад +1

    an amazing vide from alia

  • @larranagadelapenaanaregina2945
    @larranagadelapenaanaregina2945 11 месяцев назад

    so cozy !!!!

  • @deja.c26
    @deja.c26 10 месяцев назад

    Wow the matcha tutorial I been out here putting more milk LOL than the water and matcha and was wondering what I was doing wrong. LOVE YOUR VLOGS

  • @legoemily
    @legoemily 8 месяцев назад

    "Time to face the real world" that's such an introvert thing

  • @oliflo0i0
    @oliflo0i0 11 месяцев назад +6

    Where is your jacket from @7:50? ☺

  • @Alex_Elise
    @Alex_Elise 11 месяцев назад +4

    these chattier vlogs are also a vibe🫧🫶🏼

  • @ceylintemizel977
    @ceylintemizel977 11 месяцев назад +3

    i just can't enjoy being alone i always feel deeply alone

  • @32446
    @32446 11 месяцев назад +7

    Put the monstera in the messy corner then it won't be as messy!

  • @clairebuxton8651
    @clairebuxton8651 11 месяцев назад

    Ok Cedar's is literally the best store bought hummus ever thats such good PR

  • @pippasparks288
    @pippasparks288 11 месяцев назад

    Love!!

  • @eddyhinojosa3544
    @eddyhinojosa3544 7 месяцев назад

    The green sweater just said "Justo que pensaba en vos, nena caí muerto"

  • @sharafleck9508
    @sharafleck9508 11 месяцев назад

    Chocolate hummus is so good with strawberries or pretzels 😋

  • @patsalas5170
    @patsalas5170 11 месяцев назад +1

    😂 just say YES to season 3 of WTJ they are soooo gooood ❤😊