@@muhammadsalafiahlulhadithtrue Marriage with any form of dead line as well weather it’s time based, condition for example will sleep around for few times ..etc All those are haram
🧐I agree. That is why Misyaar/Nikkah without strings is SO different from the Shia past-time Muta.😈 In fact a standard Nikkah can metamorphosis into a Misyaar Nikkah by the couple mutually, should circumstances arise where both of the couple realise that they cannot fulfil each others rights like they used to. No brainer IMO.🤷😎💓☝️🏴
Misyaar Nikkah is suited particularly for people with mental health problems, where by living with someone under the same roof all the time would breed toxicity.😤😩
I have heard of many instances where someone goes for studying in India, US, UK etc, marries a girl from poor (or unwitting) family and once he is done, he leaves misyar wife and his children behind with no financial support, and as a matter of fact, leaving no address for the children. From such "marriages", i have seen children of "Muslim" fathers going to church because exwife went back to her parents' religion after man's disappearance. 💔
As Muslims, we must never treat other Muslims with disrespect, even if the person desires to be defiled and demeaned for some reason. If a wife desires to try out disgraceful acts in marriage, then my dear brother, it is our duty to remind her that she is a queen of Paradise and mother of believers. Indeed, if you indulge your wife in sexual fantasies, then what do you think will happen once you pass away? Such habits do not go away, and she will become mad to go to another man who can satisfy her. I tell you brother, that a cancer patient complained that his wife wants a divorce. The brother suffered from prostate cancer and can no longer satisfy his wife, but they had a very active sexual lifestyle, which of course they considered perfectly halal, and used sharia and hadith to justify, but the Muslimah woman became addicted, and now cannot stay even one day without these acts, and the brother, who may die from cancer any week, was weeping bitterly now, because his wife is going mad from her desires and wishes to marry another man immediately. She cannot take care of her cancer-ridden husband because of the things he taught her to please her in their conjugal life, and now she needs a man constantly. If your wife wants to try disgusting things, it is your duty to remind her that she is too precious in the eyes of Allah to be defiled like a toilet, and the same advice goes to the Muslim wife, otherwise the moment you fall ill or die, she or he will inevitably go to another woman or man to satisfy her needs and then another until her Imaan and faith might be jeopardized. May Allah keep us all on the path of our Prophet. It is necessary to remember that we are in this world for a very short time, and our goal is not to enjoy worldly pleasures and carnal desires, but rather to worship Allah. Marriage is a sunnah of the prophets and therefore should remain pure and for procreation only. Naturally, divorce is the most hated thing in religion, and therefore, we must try to work on our personal lives and endeavour to practice upon the noble footsteps of the prophet.
Any marriage with intention to divorce later is invalid. Allah knows what is in the hearts. It does not need to be written on a paper for it to be seen by Allah.
some schools of thought are of the opinion that it is permissible if it is only an intention from the groom, if im not mistaken. Just like soemone would intend to divorce a woman for example before marrying her in case he finds that she doesnt treat him well
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandi "that it is permissible if it is only an intention from the groom, if im not mistaken" it is not allowed for a man to do this. The marriage is invalid like I said, and a void marriage would lead to and be classed as Zina or worse. Your example is on about a diffrent topic entirely. What man would constantly put up with abuse from his wife? This is a diffrent subject compared to a man using a woman's body like as if she is a woman from the streets for a period of time in return for cash.
@@shadowstorm5261 brother it is the opinion of some other schools of thoughts. some consider it permissible in that the marriage is valid but the in of itself its haram because its deceiving. The hanbali school says its haram right off the bat. you can look further into this topic on islamweb
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandistudy your deen please and never post here or anywhere else without daleel. The sheikh has already made this clear. It’s Haram with a capital H
@@Zazezoono you go study your deen. I mentioned what was explained on islamweb. If you were knowledgeable you would know that "sheikh" assim is called sheikh because of his age. he is a student of knowledge and a daee who helps laymen muslims understand the deen through what the scholars say. In this case he is from the hanbali school of though and so he explained his school's position on the matter, the view that this type of marriage is haram.
The issue is that women have made themselves totally WORTHLESS by preventing four marriages. No body wants them, divorces are on the rise. The supply of women are high, the demand is low. In societies where it is frowned upon for a divorced woman to re marry, and thats if anyone actually would want her, misyar is a LIFESAVER.
The Maliki & Hanafi madhab still views the misyar marriage as valid if the intention is to divorce, the Hanbali on the otherhand not. Assimalhakeem explains the matter from the Hanbali view
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work: If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283)
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work: If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283) Likewise, Imam Ibn al-Humam (Allah have mercy on him) states in his Fath al-Qadir: As for when the husband marries and it is in his intention to divorce her after a period that he intends, then the marriage is valid.” (Fath al-Qadir, 3/152) The Shafi’is also state that if one marries, and it is in his intention to divorce the wife after a period of time he has in mind, the marriage is considered valid. As for the Hanbalis, they have explicitly stated that if a person marries with the intention of divorcing the woman, even without stating it explicitly in the marriage contract itself, then the marriage is invalid, because it is a temporary marriage, which is invalid by explicit primary texts. (See: al-Mawsu’a al-Fiqhiyya, Kuwait)
@@Revitalization4241 You cannot cheat Allah. He knows your plan. You say you don't specify anything but it is in your heart. You are not smarter than Allah
@@h-al359yeah,true that...But the real believers don't indulge in all this.They focus on salah and charity for deen ....women should take take a promise before the wedding that not such practices will be allowed or tolerated in the marriage....
And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one... (Quran 4:3)
if she is rich, why would she think of marrying a poor guy who cannot support her and be for her only for few hours in a week? are all men dead except him? MISYAR is leading to MUTA only.
@@Sema-jv2zband our Prophet PBUH fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband and did not marry Mother Khadija RA for wealth or status so men these days should not either.
@@Sema-jv2zbhe spent all his time with her and never married another while she was alive. This is a bad example to use because the prophet is above reproach
@@Sema-jv2zb no, dear, WAt I read is Dat hzrt Abdul Mutlab was the richest man of Mecca.. He had 1k red camels, which were considered the most expensive at dat time.. So, Hazoor was also a trader and famous as SADIQ AND AMEEN... She married him for his qualities!
Honestly, when we hear these things the notion of marriage in these cases sounds less better than couples now-a-days who are not married but live together in a monogamous loving relationship.
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work: If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283) Likewise, Imam Ibn al-Humam (Allah have mercy on him) states in his Fath al-Qadir: As for when the husband marries and it is in his intention to divorce her after a period that he intends, then the marriage is valid.” (Fath al-Qadir, 3/152) The Shafi’is also state that if one marries, and it is in his intention to divorce the wife after a period of time he has in mind, the marriage is considered valid. As for the Hanbalis, they have explicitly stated that if a person marries with the intention of divorcing the woman, even without stating it explicitly in the marriage contract itself, then the marriage is invalid, because it is a temporary marriage, which is invalid by explicit primary texts. (See: al-Mawsu’a al-Fiqhiyya, Kuwait)
The only halal way to fullfil physical needs is in marriage and Allah has given both men and women natural needs for intimacy. That's why they are able to take care of those needs with each other. In addition to that she may want a companion, a father figure for her children, or just the protective presence of a man in her home and society and to be provided for. Pregnancy can be avoided with contraception.
This person is simply a messenger of what the belief is and speaks the truth. However, that does not mean it's morally and humanly acceptable. Miyar marriage is nothing but degradation of women because it was constructed as a convenient excuse allowing men to engage in sexual relations without assuming any form of responsibility. As most comments read; this practice is a form of justified prostitution, highlighting concerns about exploitative dynamics within such arrangements. The emphasis is on the perceived lack of respect and equality, as well as the potential negative implications for the individuals involved.
You need a better understanding, its the WOMAN who initiates a misyar marriage. They have become worthless because they prevented four marriages. A misyar marriage is when a woman forsakes some of her rights for HER OWN GAIN.
Basically some Muslim men want to legalise prostitution and call it short term “marriage” making it halal The more I hear about Muslim marriage, the more I believe in secular marriage. Even a cohabiting couple has more rights in uk than shariah law.
Assalaam alaikum try not to base “muslim marriage” on the actions of these people practicing therse things, Islaam has the best rules of marriage(nikah) but many people dont not follow them, or twist them. May Allah Azza wa Jall protect us from this and make us among those that truly fully submit to him and follow the divine rules he sent down and the beautiful perfect way if his Messenger Muhammed peace and blessings be upon him and his family and companions and those that follow him in goodness.
Wait till you hear that “secular marriage” has the highest divorce rates in world and the highest rates of abuse lol. In the UK divorce has reached 42%, whereas the global average is only 22%. Statistically Islamic country’s (specifically ones that predominantly practice arranged marriage) have the lowest rates of divorce on earth and the healthiest birthrates. That doesn’t even mention the mental health crisis in the west caused by modern dating culture, which is no less than the mental health equivalent of the bubonic plague.
@@SnowLeopard-lt1vfI’m Muslim had arranged marriage that ended in divorce. So that’s included in the “secular” divorce rate numbnuts. A lot of women who had arranged marriage should’ve divorced their abusive husbands but stay married cos of society pressure and the way divorced women are treated in our culture (not religion) I don’t know a single Asian woman who is happy in their marriage.
@@SnowLeopard-lt1vfjust to clarify, cos I know you will have comments. Arranged marriage lasted all of 9 months, ex initiated divorce on the grounds we were not compatible. I never dated or had boyfriend. We were legally married, ex was petitioner but islamically he refused to divorce me, stating he never gave me talak because he knew it would be hard for me to get khula and he wanted my wedding gift back. Luckily for me the imam who did nikkah, took his secular petition for divorce as him giving me talak. Took me over 2 years to finalise Islamic proceeding and remarry. If it was this hard for me to get divorced, living in uk, my own money to pay for solicitor, with parents and family supporter, how difficult will it be for a woman to get divorced in Muslim majority countries with no money or support?
If a man is not able to provide a separate accommodation for his wife and insists on her staying with her parent-in-laws, and the wife also agrees to let go her right for separate accommodation, is this considered misyar marriage ? Because the woman is letting go of one of her rights.
I don't think so because the Sheikh covered a similar question in an old video and the wife can exercise that right later. For instance if the circumstances changes and she is being oppressed, abyused, mistreated by her inlaws, she can reclaim her Godgiven right to seperate accomodation/housing. A husband can also give up a religious right now but he can reclaim it later.
Even if it is, what difference does it make? A misyar is a totally HALAL nikah which like all other nikahs requires a talaq to get out if it. A muttah is haram because it is a contract that expires by itself, it has a shelf life and requires no talaq.
Sheikh the question is Hazrat Hasan ra are reported to have more than 250 wives. It is reported and according to my knowledge they used to marry a girl and divorce giving her a decent amount of mehar so please put some light on this.
@@syedzain9279 its not weak at all. Its a fact. Hazrat hassan DID marry hundreds of times. The explanation to that is probably muttah which was considered a valid marriage before the *Prophet* abrogated it. Now its totally haram. That would also be the best explanation why shias do muttah, since they practically worship hassan ra.
@@areejshams3253 that doesn't make sense. Why do the widowed women need to marry a man that already has a wife or wives? They can and should be marrying a single man. There's no excuse in this day and age to practice polygamy.
@@akuma4uit's ur misconception. Well, I Islam women can marry a man of their choice whether he's single or married but usually single men give preference to unmarried women/girls rather divorsed/widow
@akuma4u first of all I wish to clarify that polygamy is only allowed if a man can and has the capability both financially and otherwise to support and provide exactly equal attention to both wives. If he fails to do so then he's sinning. Secondly to answer your question, as you may know there are currently more women than men in these times and it's only going to get more and more as much as 50:1. Therefore this is actually the need for polygamy if women need to settle down with a man
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Its a confusing and convoluted explanation. Whats the point in validating and promoting a sinful invention and against Shariya misyar marriage except that Asim himself could be in it as well too in justifying it
When Shia's do it calling mut'ah it's called haram when you do it with a different name it's halal 😂 right😂😂 don't fool yourself we know saudis call it misyar and iranis call it mutah both haram.
Embarrass yourself somewhere else 🙄. A misyar is NOT haram, its a genune nikah which requires a talaq, a muttah expires automatically, it has no talaq which is why it is haram.
Misyar is bid'at, established by Wahhabi scholars to match the permissible one, MUTA'H ! From Quran: فَمَا اسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِ مِنْهُنَّ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً ۚ From Hadith : تمتع أسماء ابنة أبي بكر ابن أبي قحافة برواية صحيحة السند كل رجالها من رواة البخاري ومسلم النسائي - السنن الكبرى - كتاب النكاح - المتعة الجزء : ( 5 ) - رقم الصفحة : ( 233 ) 5515 - أخبرنا : محمود بن غيلان المروزي ، قال : حدثنا : أبو داود ، قال : حدثنا : شعبة ، عن مسلم القري ، قال : دخلنا على أسماء ابنة أبي بكر ، فسألناها عن متعة النساء ، فقالت : فعلناها على عهد رسول الله (ص). عن عمران بن حصين قال : نزلت آية المتعة في كتاب الله وفعلناها مع رسول الله (ص) ثم لم ينزل قرآن يحرمها ولم ينه عنها حتى مات قال رجل برأيه ما شاء قال البخاري : يقال : إنه عمر ، المصدر ( تفسيرابن كثير ج:1 ص:234 ).
Well maintenance and spending/provision are made compulsory on the husband by Allah. This is mentioned repeatedly in the Quran as part of the mans main roles. How much time couples spend together depends on what they both agree on and what their circumstances allow.
Gulf Rulers (from Saudi/UAE) do this alot when they come to Pakistan during the hunting season ... they like to take girls in their early teen into Misyaar Marriage and then divorce them when they leave.
@@Wtakerman Gulf rulers have small private airports in Balochistan, i have seen people in Karachi who raise Falcons for hunting for these Sheikhs ... they all come during the winter specially to hunt endangered Houbara Bustard bird.
Its not the men that do it. A misyar marriage is when a woman forfeits some of her rights to benefit herself. The prophets wife sauda gave up her nights for Ayesha ra.
@@razamughal4582 Sauda's r.a. marriage was still a normal marriage not Misyar Marriage, even in normal marriage one can set the conditions of their choice ... i am really keen to know where this term "Misyar" came from, is it any mentioned in Quran or Hadith.
@@razamughal4582 we can't say its Halal or Haram without knowing about it, Quran doesn't mention any such term so it would be really interesting to know where it came from.
Marrying with an intention of divorce later is Mutah, the example he gave about the poor family is Mutah btw, it just was given a new name Misyaf but it's still falls under Mutah However Misyar is when the husband or wife agree to forgo some of their rights like the wife cooking for her husband or the husband not financially supporting the wife
@@DJNateOne there IS evidence. Asides from COMMON SENSE. the evidence is that the Prophets wife gave up her nights to Ayesha because she was old. THIS IS A MISYAR NIKAH. And it TOTALLY favours the woman.
@@razamughal9095 one wife r.a. gave up her designated nights to aisha r.a. THIS is NOT misyar marriage, and it's NOT proof of Misyar. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم married Sawda bint Zama'a r.a. and gave her full rights until she grew old . She gave up ONLY her nights by herself and still enjoyed her full rights. While Zawaj al Misyar is entering a marriage with less to no rights/obligations from the beginning. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم forbid every marriage except for 1. So don't be like the people who thought they could trick Allah by throwing the fishing nets on Friday and hauling them in Sunday to bypass Allahs decree of fishing on Saturday is forbidden.
@@BeansPredi-ch6xk that IS what a misyar marriage is. Its a perfectly fine marriage. She added her terms later on, she gave her nights to Ayesha ra. In a misyar marriage the woman adds her terms in the begining. A misyar mariage is where one woman gives up some of her rights in order to benefit herself.
There also a case in my country, a women married a man because he wants to remarried her ex-husband back after divorce but can't because they already divorce with the 3rd talak.. Many muslim mufti said islam is again it but it's still happend just not so frequent lately..
That is not a Misyar marriage which is about giving up certain marital rights to enjoy married life and halal companionship. Now if I understand you correctly a woman in your country married a second husband, because she wants to remarry her first husband who she is divorced from irrevocably (3 divorces have been issued). So her purpose is to to marry the second husband be intimate with him and then divorce him. This is haram and very insulting to the status of wives and women on our Deen. Muslims are not allowed to pre-plan such marriage. A second marriage should happen naturally with the intention of staying together. But if for some reason problems arise, and there is no solution, and the second husband then divorces her too, then there is no blame upon her if she wants to remarry the first. Such people have got to stop mixing culture and Islam.
@@takahashi2852 its not mutah AT ALL. there is NEVER an intention to divorce and besides, THATS NOT WHAT MUTTAH IS. A muttah does not require a talq. It has a shelf life and it expires to the hour minute and second of the pre agreed time, making it haram. A *MISYAR REQUIRES A TALAQ AND DOES NOT EXPIRE ON ITS OWN. This Al Hakeem has rubbish speaking skills and is wrong on a lot of things.
@@mohamedyusufallie1536 it seems your dumb. Learn your religion. Either challenge and make a point or don’t waste my time. I can spot who is a jahil just by reading their comment.
No its not the same. if it is like the last example then it is. Misyar is just a marriage when the women releases some of her rights to decrease the burden on the man. That is it.
About the marriage with the intention of divorcing later, imam Maalik said: “This practice does not suit the character of the Muslims at all.”
That makes it makrouh, not haram
@EV-EV-EV That is planning and its haram! Marrying with intention to divorce later is the same thing as shia mutah prostitution!
@@muhammadsalafiahlulhadithtrue
Marriage with any form of dead line as well weather it’s time based, condition for example will sleep around for few times ..etc
All those are haram
🧐I agree. That is why Misyaar/Nikkah without strings is SO different from the Shia past-time Muta.😈 In fact a standard Nikkah can metamorphosis into a Misyaar Nikkah by the couple mutually, should circumstances arise where both of the couple realise that they cannot fulfil each others rights like they used to. No brainer IMO.🤷😎💓☝️🏴
Misyaar Nikkah is suited particularly for people with mental health problems, where by living with someone under the same roof all the time would breed toxicity.😤😩
I have heard of many instances where someone goes for studying in India, US, UK etc, marries a girl from poor (or unwitting) family and once he is done, he leaves misyar wife and his children behind with no financial support, and as a matter of fact, leaving no address for the children.
From such "marriages", i have seen children of "Muslim" fathers going to church because exwife went back to her parents' religion after man's disappearance. 💔
Really misuse or scholars mis guided ppl
As Muslims, we must never treat other Muslims with disrespect, even if the person desires to be defiled and demeaned for some reason. If a wife desires to try out disgraceful acts in marriage, then my dear brother, it is our duty to remind her that she is a queen of Paradise and mother of believers. Indeed, if you indulge your wife in sexual fantasies, then what do you think will happen once you pass away? Such habits do not go away, and she will become mad to go to another man who can satisfy her. I tell you brother, that a cancer patient complained that his wife wants a divorce. The brother suffered from prostate cancer and can no longer satisfy his wife, but they had a very active sexual lifestyle, which of course they considered perfectly halal, and used sharia and hadith to justify, but the Muslimah woman became addicted, and now cannot stay even one day without these acts, and the brother, who may die from cancer any week, was weeping bitterly now, because his wife is going mad from her desires and wishes to marry another man immediately. She cannot take care of her cancer-ridden husband because of the things he taught her to please her in their conjugal life, and now she needs a man constantly. If your wife wants to try disgusting things, it is your duty to remind her that she is too precious in the eyes of Allah to be defiled like a toilet, and the same advice goes to the Muslim wife, otherwise the moment you fall ill or die, she or he will inevitably go to another woman or man to satisfy her needs and then another until her Imaan and faith might be jeopardized. May Allah keep us all on the path of our Prophet.
It is necessary to remember that we are in this world for a very short time, and our goal is not to enjoy worldly pleasures and carnal desires, but rather to worship Allah. Marriage is a sunnah of the prophets and therefore should remain pure and for procreation only. Naturally, divorce is the most hated thing in religion, and therefore, we must try to work on our personal lives and endeavour to practice upon the noble footsteps of the prophet.
@@MuftiUbaidullah-Awal
You are correct. However, I don't see any relevance to the topic.
Any marriage with intention to divorce later is invalid.
Allah knows what is in the hearts. It does not need to be written on a paper for it to be seen by Allah.
some schools of thought are of the opinion that it is permissible if it is only an intention from the groom, if im not mistaken. Just like soemone would intend to divorce a woman for example before marrying her in case he finds that she doesnt treat him well
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandi "that it is permissible if it is only an intention from the groom, if im not mistaken" it is not allowed for a man to do this. The marriage is invalid like I said, and a void marriage would lead to and be classed as Zina or worse.
Your example is on about a diffrent topic entirely. What man would constantly put up with abuse from his wife? This is a diffrent subject compared to a man using a woman's body like as if she is a woman from the streets for a period of time in return for cash.
@@shadowstorm5261 brother it is the opinion of some other schools of thoughts. some consider it permissible in that the marriage is valid but the in of itself its haram because its deceiving. The hanbali school says its haram right off the bat. you can look further into this topic on islamweb
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandistudy your deen please and never post here or anywhere else without daleel. The sheikh has already made this clear. It’s Haram with a capital H
@@Zazezoono you go study your deen. I mentioned what was explained on islamweb. If you were knowledgeable you would know that "sheikh" assim is called sheikh because of his age. he is a student of knowledge and a daee who helps laymen muslims understand the deen through what the scholars say. In this case he is from the hanbali school of though and so he explained his school's position on the matter, the view that this type of marriage is haram.
I would hate it for my daughter. May Allah protects her from this type of mariage.
Ameen
The issue is that women have made themselves totally WORTHLESS by preventing four marriages. No body wants them, divorces are on the rise. The supply of women are high, the demand is low. In societies where it is frowned upon for a divorced woman to re marry, and thats if anyone actually would want her, misyar is a LIFESAVER.
Yesss he is so right. So many people r very confused about muttah and misyar. This video was very much needed.
The Maliki & Hanafi madhab still views the misyar marriage as valid if the intention is to divorce, the Hanbali on the otherhand not. Assimalhakeem explains the matter from the Hanbali view
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work:
If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283)
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work:
If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283)
Likewise, Imam Ibn al-Humam (Allah have mercy on him) states in his Fath al-Qadir:
As for when the husband marries and it is in his intention to divorce her after a period that he intends, then the marriage is valid.” (Fath al-Qadir, 3/152)
The Shafi’is also state that if one marries, and it is in his intention to divorce the wife after a period of time he has in mind, the marriage is considered valid. As for the Hanbalis, they have explicitly stated that if a person marries with the intention of divorcing the woman, even without stating it explicitly in the marriage contract itself, then the marriage is invalid, because it is a temporary marriage, which is invalid by explicit primary texts. (See: al-Mawsu’a al-Fiqhiyya, Kuwait)
@@Revitalization4241 You cannot cheat Allah. He knows your plan. You say you don't specify anything but it is in your heart. You are not smarter than Allah
@@shadowstorm5261 It has nothing to do with cheating
Assalamualaikum everyone recite last two verses of surah bakarah every night before sleep
If he is married already and cant afford to support the 2nd he shouldn’t marry her
But he just said" he has needs"😢
@@simsk9306 why are we so interested into turning our women in whores!
@@simsk9306😂 the stupidest reply I've ever heard, there is too much liniency with men, i tell ya.
@@h-al359yeah,true that...But the real believers don't indulge in all this.They focus on salah and charity for deen ....women should take take a promise before the wedding that not such practices will be allowed or tolerated in the marriage....
Bismillah Rabbana ALLAH SWT guide the Ummah Ameen.
And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one... (Quran 4:3)
Which tells you that it is FARD to marry a MINIMUM OF TWO.
if she is rich, why would she think of marrying a poor guy who cannot support her and be for her only for few hours in a week? are all men dead except him? MISYAR is leading to MUTA only.
@@Sema-jv2zband our Prophet PBUH fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband and did not marry Mother Khadija RA for wealth or status so men these days should not either.
Maybe women would like children
Maybe shortages of compatible men
Maybe woman has parents whom require her daughter to live with them to care for them
@@Sema-jv2zbhe spent all his time with her and never married another while she was alive. This is a bad example to use because the prophet is above reproach
@@Sema-jv2zbour beloved Prophet was not poor, his grandfather was filthy rich
@@Sema-jv2zb no, dear, WAt I read is Dat hzrt Abdul Mutlab was the richest man of Mecca.. He had 1k red camels, which were considered the most expensive at dat time.. So, Hazoor was also a trader and famous as SADIQ AND AMEEN... She married him for his qualities!
Who and when this type of marriage was allowed and started?How many Sahaba has done it?
You can Gloogle 'Misyar marriage' and you will find all the detailed information
Honestly, when we hear these things the notion of marriage in these cases sounds less better than couples now-a-days who are not married but live together in a monogamous loving relationship.
I mean what's the difference if those couples now a days marry, allah is happy with them and the center of their relationship is Allah.
This is a later invention of saudi Ahle e sunnah ulama.Neither the prophet and his companions did this.
Except the latter is prostitution and is a classic sign of women having no self respect.
I agree but that's what Muhammed allowed so 🤷🏽♂️ Remember he was born and grew up in 7th century Arabian desert.
These are the problem for the world and also for the Muslim community
This messing with the shariah reminds me of bani israil trying to mess with the shariah by fishing on saturdays when Allah swt prohibited it
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi reference work:
If a man marries a woman unconditionally [i.e. without it being limited to a specified time], and it is in his intention to remain with her for a time that he intends [and then divorce her], then the marriage is valid…” (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya 1/283)
Likewise, Imam Ibn al-Humam (Allah have mercy on him) states in his Fath al-Qadir:
As for when the husband marries and it is in his intention to divorce her after a period that he intends, then the marriage is valid.” (Fath al-Qadir, 3/152)
The Shafi’is also state that if one marries, and it is in his intention to divorce the wife after a period of time he has in mind, the marriage is considered valid. As for the Hanbalis, they have explicitly stated that if a person marries with the intention of divorcing the woman, even without stating it explicitly in the marriage contract itself, then the marriage is invalid, because it is a temporary marriage, which is invalid by explicit primary texts. (See: al-Mawsu’a al-Fiqhiyya, Kuwait)
RasoolAllah never approved Misyar or mutta marriage
Did he tell you that personally?
He was IN ONE. His wife sauda GAVE UP HER NIGHTS FOR AYESHA.
Yes he did, you’re speaking without knowledge.
If the lady doesn't require many things why she is accepting this marriage ..is it bcoz to fulfilled phusical needs only
To have her own children
To fulfil sunah if no other good marriage partner available
Maybe shortage of men where she lives
But the kids increase her burden ..and the men fled away after fulfilling their desire
The only halal way to fullfil physical needs is in marriage and Allah has given both men and women natural needs for intimacy. That's why they are able to take care of those needs with each other.
In addition to that she may want a companion, a father figure for her children, or just the protective presence of a man in her home and society and to be provided for.
Pregnancy can be avoided with contraception.
This person is simply a messenger of what the belief is and speaks the truth. However, that does not mean it's morally and humanly acceptable. Miyar marriage is nothing but degradation of women because it was constructed as a convenient excuse allowing men to engage in sexual relations without assuming any form of responsibility. As most comments read; this practice is a form of justified prostitution, highlighting concerns about exploitative dynamics within such arrangements. The emphasis is on the perceived lack of respect and equality, as well as the potential negative implications for the individuals involved.
You need a better understanding, its the WOMAN who initiates a misyar marriage. They have become worthless because they prevented four marriages. A misyar marriage is when a woman forsakes some of her rights for HER OWN GAIN.
may Allah bless you
I wanna have a wife whose practicing And Good in taking care of me and my future children if Allah wills.
Don’t misuse women and her rights. God will punish you.
Are you saying Muhammed and the sahaba misused women?
What are you talking about?
@@slickrick2420Muhammad didn’t do misyar.
@@BeansPredi-ch6xk the Sahabas did, are you saying they did so without Muhammed allowing it?
@@slickrick2420 No. But so what? It is said to have been later prohibited.
Basically some Muslim men want to legalise prostitution and call it short term “marriage” making it halal
The more I hear about Muslim marriage, the more I believe in secular marriage. Even a cohabiting couple has more rights in uk than shariah law.
Assalaam alaikum try not to base “muslim marriage” on the actions of these people practicing therse things, Islaam has the best rules of marriage(nikah) but many people dont not follow them, or twist them. May Allah Azza wa Jall protect us from this and make us among those that truly fully submit to him and follow the divine rules he sent down and the beautiful perfect way if his Messenger Muhammed peace and blessings be upon him and his family and companions and those that follow him in goodness.
Wait till you hear that “secular marriage” has the highest divorce rates in world and the highest rates of abuse lol. In the UK divorce has reached 42%, whereas the global average is only 22%. Statistically Islamic country’s (specifically ones that predominantly practice arranged marriage) have the lowest rates of divorce on earth and the healthiest birthrates.
That doesn’t even mention the mental health crisis in the west caused by modern dating culture, which is no less than the mental health equivalent of the bubonic plague.
@@SnowLeopard-lt1vfI’m Muslim had arranged marriage that ended in divorce. So that’s included in the “secular” divorce rate numbnuts.
A lot of women who had arranged marriage should’ve divorced their abusive husbands but stay married cos of society pressure and the way divorced women are treated in our culture (not religion)
I don’t know a single Asian woman who is happy in their marriage.
@@SnowLeopard-lt1vfjust to clarify, cos I know you will have comments.
Arranged marriage lasted all of 9 months, ex initiated divorce on the grounds we were not compatible. I never dated or had boyfriend. We were legally married, ex was petitioner but islamically he refused to divorce me, stating he never gave me talak because he knew it would be hard for me to get khula and he wanted my wedding gift back.
Luckily for me the imam who did nikkah, took his secular petition for divorce as him giving me talak. Took me over 2 years to finalise Islamic proceeding and remarry.
If it was this hard for me to get divorced, living in uk, my own money to pay for solicitor, with parents and family supporter, how difficult will it be for a woman to get divorced in Muslim majority countries with no money or support?
This is a later invention of saudi Ahle e sunnah ulama.Neither prophet Mohammad or his companions did that
If a man is not able to provide a separate accommodation for his wife and insists on her staying with her parent-in-laws, and the wife also agrees to let go her right for separate accommodation, is this considered misyar marriage ? Because the woman is letting go of one of her rights.
I don't think so because the Sheikh covered a similar question in an old video and the wife can exercise that right later. For instance if the circumstances changes and she is being oppressed, abyused, mistreated by her inlaws, she can reclaim her Godgiven right to seperate accomodation/housing. A husband can also give up a religious right now but he can reclaim it later.
Even if it is, what difference does it make? A misyar is a totally HALAL nikah which like all other nikahs requires a talaq to get out if it. A muttah is haram because it is a contract that expires by itself, it has a shelf life and requires no talaq.
yes
Sheikh the question is Hazrat Hasan ra are reported to have more than 250 wives. It is reported and according to my knowledge they used to marry a girl and divorce giving her a decent amount of mehar so please put some light on this.
Weak narration brother
@@syedzain9279 really?
@@syedzain9279 its not weak at all. Its a fact. Hazrat hassan DID marry hundreds of times. The explanation to that is probably muttah which was considered a valid marriage before the *Prophet* abrogated it. Now its totally haram. That would also be the best explanation why shias do muttah, since they practically worship hassan ra.
Why is polygamy practiced these days? There's no reason for it whatsoever.
So the disadvantaged due to poverty, divorced and widowed are financially aur emotionally supported and taken care of for LIFE and not a short time.
@@areejshams3253 that doesn't make sense. Why do the widowed women need to marry a man that already has a wife or wives? They can and should be marrying a single man. There's no excuse in this day and age to practice polygamy.
Because it is permissible in Islam and no one can have say in it.
@@akuma4uit's ur misconception. Well, I Islam women can marry a man of their choice whether he's single or married but usually single men give preference to unmarried women/girls rather divorsed/widow
@akuma4u first of all I wish to clarify that polygamy is only allowed if a man can and has the capability both financially and otherwise to support and provide exactly equal attention to both wives. If he fails to do so then he's sinning.
Secondly to answer your question, as you may know there are currently more women than men in these times and it's only going to get more and more as much as 50:1. Therefore this is actually the need for polygamy if women need to settle down with a man
Its a confusing and convoluted explanation. Whats the point in validating and promoting a sinful invention and against Shariya misyar marriage except that Asim himself could be in it as well too in justifying it
I swear, the way we muslims hate on the west but we have kak going on in our muslim communities.
You are not understanding what a misyar marriage is
Most Arbian citizen doing third fort marriage doing same like rhis
When Shia's do it calling mut'ah it's called haram when you do it with a different name it's halal 😂 right😂😂 don't fool yourself we know saudis call it misyar and iranis call it mutah both haram.
Embarrass yourself somewhere else 🙄. A misyar is NOT haram, its a genune nikah which requires a talaq, a muttah expires automatically, it has no talaq which is why it is haram.
Misyar is bid'at, established by Wahhabi scholars to match the permissible one, MUTA'H ! From Quran: فَمَا اسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِ مِنْهُنَّ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً ۚ
From Hadith :
تمتع أسماء ابنة أبي بكر ابن أبي قحافة برواية صحيحة السند كل رجالها من رواة البخاري ومسلم
النسائي - السنن الكبرى - كتاب النكاح - المتعة
الجزء : ( 5 ) - رقم الصفحة : ( 233 )
5515 - أخبرنا : محمود بن غيلان المروزي ، قال : حدثنا : أبو داود ، قال : حدثنا : شعبة ، عن مسلم القري ، قال : دخلنا على أسماء ابنة أبي بكر ، فسألناها عن متعة النساء ، فقالت : فعلناها على عهد رسول الله (ص).
عن عمران بن حصين قال : نزلت آية المتعة في كتاب الله وفعلناها مع رسول
الله (ص) ثم لم ينزل قرآن يحرمها ولم ينه عنها حتى مات قال رجل برأيه ما شاء قال البخاري : يقال : إنه عمر ، المصدر ( تفسيرابن كثير ج:1 ص:234 ).
But now women only need finances ..... They say whether you come once in a couple of years just send money every month
Well maintenance and spending/provision are made compulsory on the husband by Allah. This is mentioned repeatedly in the Quran as part of the mans main roles. How much time couples spend together depends on what they both agree on and what their circumstances allow.
Gulf Rulers (from Saudi/UAE) do this alot when they come to Pakistan during the hunting season ... they like to take girls in their early teen into Misyaar Marriage and then divorce them when they leave.
Then their fathers shouldn’t view their daughters as worthless and allow it to happen, simple.
@@Wtakerman Gulf rulers have small private airports in Balochistan, i have seen people in Karachi who raise Falcons for hunting for these Sheikhs ... they all come during the winter specially to hunt endangered Houbara Bustard bird.
@@razamughal4582 the ignorance and plain stupidity of ur comment is jus crazy.
Sounds like someone was getting hopeful
"Misyaar Marriage" seems to be like a secret door to enjoyment for Rich Ladies ... Does Prophet ever did Misyaar?
Its not the men that do it. A misyar marriage is when a woman forfeits some of her rights to benefit herself. The prophets wife sauda gave up her nights for Ayesha ra.
@@razamughal4582 Sauda's r.a. marriage was still a normal marriage not Misyar Marriage, even in normal marriage one can set the conditions of their choice ... i am really keen to know where this term "Misyar" came from, is it any mentioned in Quran or Hadith.
@@sunny5610 a misyar marriage IS a normal marriage. There is nothing haram about it. I don’t know where the term came from.
@@razamughal4582 we can't say its Halal or Haram without knowing about it, Quran doesn't mention any such term so it would be really interesting to know where it came from.
@@sunny5610 we can say it. Muftis say it is halal and IT IS HALAL. What the Prophets wife did is a MISYAR MARRIAGE.
How are single women approaching married men 😂?
Quite easily. They have become worthless since they stopped four marriages. Now they are BEGGARS NOT CHOSERS.
I think this is worse than Mutah, is there any evidence of it?
Marrying with an intention of divorce later is Mutah, the example he gave about the poor family is Mutah btw, it just was given a new name Misyaf but it's still falls under Mutah
However Misyar is when the husband or wife agree to forgo some of their rights like the wife cooking for her husband or the husband not financially supporting the wife
No there is no evidence of it. That's why it's bid'a.
@@DJNateOne brother if mutah is haram and misyar is worse than that, then it's not bidah it is also haram
@@DJNateOne there IS evidence. Asides from COMMON SENSE. the evidence is that the Prophets wife gave up her nights to Ayesha because she was old. THIS IS A MISYAR NIKAH. And it TOTALLY favours the woman.
@@razamughal9095 one wife r.a. gave up her designated nights to aisha r.a. THIS is NOT misyar marriage, and it's NOT proof of Misyar. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم married Sawda bint Zama'a r.a. and gave her full rights until she grew old . She gave up ONLY her nights by herself and still enjoyed her full rights.
While Zawaj al Misyar is entering a marriage with less to no rights/obligations from the beginning.
The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم forbid every marriage except for 1. So don't be like the people who thought they could trick Allah by throwing the fishing nets on Friday and hauling them in Sunday to bypass Allahs decree of fishing on Saturday is forbidden.
Is this marriage mentioned in the Qur'aan?
In the hadith yes, sawdah ra gave up her nights for Ayesha. Its a valid genuine nikah.
@@razamughal4582That was not a misyar marriage. She was an old woman.
@@BeansPredi-ch6xk that IS what a misyar marriage is. Its a perfectly fine marriage. She added her terms later on, she gave her nights to Ayesha ra. In a misyar marriage the woman adds her terms in the begining. A misyar mariage is where one woman gives up some of her rights in order to benefit herself.
@@razamughal4582 No misyar marriage is an agreement form the star. It doesn’t count after one (especially a woman) has reached old age such as Sawdah.
@@BeansPredi-ch6xk yes it does. Thats why she did it. Its a perfectly valid nikah.
There also a case in my country, a women married a man because he wants to remarried her ex-husband back after divorce but can't because they already divorce with the 3rd talak.. Many muslim mufti said islam is again it but it's still happend just not so frequent lately..
That is not a Misyar marriage which is about giving up certain marital rights to enjoy married life and halal companionship. Now if I understand you correctly a woman in your country married a second husband, because she wants to remarry her first husband who she is divorced from irrevocably (3 divorces have been issued). So her purpose is to to marry the second husband be intimate with him and then divorce him.
This is haram and very insulting to the status of wives and women on our Deen. Muslims are not allowed to pre-plan such marriage. A second marriage should happen naturally with the intention of staying together. But if for some reason problems arise, and there is no solution, and the second husband then divorces her too, then there is no blame upon her if she wants to remarry the first.
Such people have got to stop mixing culture and Islam.
That is halala. Which is haram. Muttah is haram because it is a contract that expires itself, it requires no talaq.
Only Saudi’s would do that or perhaps other rich Arabs - I bloody fifty single and never heard of it, only Arabs 😂haha
In Shia religion, mut'aah is permissible, even encouraged, maybe because it's lots and lots of fun 😅.
What is fun with making Allah angry with Muslims? Nothing funny
AstogferAllah, yeah it’s encouraged for one self not encouraged as in here take my daughter or my sister for mut’aah
Who do practice misyar? The sunnah followers? Or that belongs to any specific sect ? Probably to sufi sect?
The saudi sect. You find this practice widely spread in Saudi Arabia.
Sounds like a “Rich Arab Sheikh Syndrome” whereby they use their wealth to abuse women.
I have never heard of this practice in my part of the World!
Salafis
@@takahashi2852 its not mutah AT ALL. there is NEVER an intention to divorce and besides, THATS NOT WHAT MUTTAH IS. A muttah does not require a talq. It has a shelf life and it expires to the hour minute and second of the pre agreed time, making it haram. A *MISYAR REQUIRES A TALAQ AND DOES NOT EXPIRE ON ITS OWN. This Al Hakeem has rubbish speaking skills and is wrong on a lot of things.
@@razamughal9095 Ow I misread Misyar as Misyaf
yet you guys cry about Mutah marriage LOL!!! sit downnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Get off your drugs and embarrass yourself somewhere else 🙄🙄🙄
he never said that last example was allowed. Its clearly impermissible so you can sit back down Shia. we are not like you
Misyar is worse than mutah
You are thick.
if followed like the last example then they are the same
Sheikh does the man need to tell that the first wife?
how are you going to hide a second life 😂
No
Be a man and tell her 😂
It is disliked( makrooh) not to mention it becuase of the harm that befalls you if she finds out later, however you are not sinful
nothing.
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Haraaam
Misyar is a "Secret" marriage practiced exclusively in Saudi Arabia.....
Rubbish. It does not have to be a secret and that is what makes it a GENUINE NIKAH.
@@razamughal4582 Rubbish?
I presume that u must be living in another world because u don't know the reality
@@mohamedyusufallie1536 you clearly dont know the alif beh of your OWN religion.
@@razamughal4582 It seems that u r also another lost case Wahabi
@@mohamedyusufallie1536 it seems your dumb. Learn your religion. Either challenge and make a point or don’t waste my time. I can spot who is a jahil just by reading their comment.
What a liar...MISYAR is the same as Mutya which is a temporary marriage. He is hiding Sunni Zana of Misyar that is same Mutya
You clearly need to learn more, there is NOTHING wrong with a misyar
No its not the same. if it is like the last example then it is.
Misyar is just a marriage when the women releases some of her rights to decrease the burden on the man. That is it.
@@razamughal4582Exactly might not be for your mom..Let me pay your sister, daughter and keep her as a Misyaar Nikah
@@Farhan_Chohan83 let me pay your hindu mother to change her hindu lifestyle at home. A jahil can be spotted from far far away, just by his comments.
@@Farhan_Chohan83 let me pay for your hindu mother to change her hindu lifestyle. Clearly you have been raised by hindu parents.