Touching on evil is very concise , but we are in the ned giving them too much credit, this is like a form of possession over the weak spirit of the narcissist. That's why they all have the same traits . It is not them but a form of evil which has taken over their spirit .
People are easily confused nowadays by the worst of those of this kind, until their light dies and these traits start growing inside them. Because they have natural empathy, however, their confusion deepens as they can't reconcile glimpses of reality with their fabricated excuses for hurting others.
@@AnaSantos-gh4tf they wear the mask to harvest supply and keep up the illusion of their public persona. Only letting it slip to their target when they want to punish, because they are fundamentally lazy and sadistic, and feel like once they have you secured under their spell of control they don’t have to impress you as much anymore, its all about gaslighting and keeping you down, serving them, so they can establish their superiority by conditioning you to accept their abuse and your new role as their little scapegoat. What I’m saying is the others, those on the outside looking in, have no idea that the mask is fake and the persona is a lie. They have no idea what the narc is capable of, how empty and vengeful, what a vampire the narc really is, that’s why the smear campaign works and the flying monkeys defend them.
I would also call them harmful, a more down to earth word, because they do ALWAYS cause real harm to ppl they engage with. Always. Narc = will cause real life harm to those around them. No philosophy will help. Narc = real life harm to anyone who engages with them.
you are absolutely right. They are so sadistic and evil to the core. Still struggling to comprehend how someone can be like this. They choose to be evil. I choose to be nice.
Im also still struggling to comprehend...my life, spirit, everything so extremely ruined, tried so many ways as never before in a crazy hope it wouldnt be true...now im moving on allone and pregnant on another continent ..and he only finds it funny
I have seen black eyes on the narcissist, then I knew they were evil. Everything you mentioned, I have been through. Trying to remove the covert narcissist from my home. He is pure evil.
catherine7970 ~ I have seen those black demonic eyes as well. Prayers of support as you are taking steps to remove yourself from the narc. They are who they are. You are in your right frame of mind. Believe it and get yourself to a safe place. Know that you are certainly not alone on your journey.
@@ernestthompson891 yes I have seen those black eyes too. November 2, 2020 at 7:30 am. I went back to Goodyear AZ my husband house spend night for doctor appointment the next day morning , he was cold looked at me didn’t say anything, I did not say anything. Then the next day he began to targeting me for a fight. Says going to suspend my credit card, because I spent 66 dollars in Walmart didn’t tell him yesterday, says I took all the sheets wanted to sleep in different room , I said okay, then said I want separated with you , I said okay, then said I want divorce you I said okay, I got my purse and was ready to leave, he came to me with clinched fest, nose to my nose, I looked into his eyes, ( he has had blue eyes normally)they were totally black at that moment, I felt my hair stand up, I said I am not talk to you anymore. I run out of the door drove my car to the medical plaza, seated in the car waiting for my time to see doctor, I was still in shuck,my conclusion is that narcissistic is a devil.
I had to stop it when you said: "You see the devil incarnated infront of your very eyes". I didn't want to believe it, but I have seen the eyes turn to dark black, with no natural eye colour or natural human-like reaction in the face. I understand the phrase " that person has done a deal with the devil."
#5 Acting cool, calm, and collected while driving others crazy is called the dog whistle technique. Using private information to insult the target in front of others causes the target to get angry for apparently no reason at all and allows the narc to say that the target has anger or emotional issues.
🎯 Boom! Yes exactly and our children are still falling for his facade. That's what can be so hard to deal with because he's still getting away with it. This is why I pray for my children to wake up! It's extremely difficult 💚💌
Yes he knew all about dog whistling !!! People told him to stop staring at them & what he called them is not repeatable on Utube ! Did he get the message ? NO ! They just feel entitled to do what they want , brain damaged people 😱
Yes he knows all about the dog whistle, all about attention, even when people tells him to stop staring at them what he calls them is not repeatable on Utube ! Does he get the message ? NO ! Carry's on regardless despite the consequences ! They act on impulse , seriously brain damaged people 😱
I agree Danish , it is pure evil behaviour. The manipulations and lies , what a horrendous experience for me . Narcissistic abuse is one of the most horrific experiences , because it is psychological , emotional and in my case not physical , so can not be seen. This subject should be taught in schools
So true. I was isolated and the abuse gets much worst. You completely lose your mind and can't trust your perceptions at all. You always have to go to the narcissist for everything, but they don't love you.
People need to realize that people are evil because it serves them. Not because they were abused( which may be true) but constantly choosing evil makes a person numb to their conscience and its really just a twisted way to escape pain. Because everyone gets pain in life, its what you do with it that matters, will you become hardened and hurt others, or will you go through it, heal and become kinder. Narcissism is a lifestyle choice, which the narcissistic is fully responsible for.
I still don't understand why my ex narcissistic husband won't leave me alone. 1. I moved to a different state, he got a house for his new supply's mother in my new neighbourhood. 2. He visited my house unannounced ,I was not home,my almost 80 years old father asked him to leave or he would call the police. I thought that was it but I was wrong. 3. Now, he is contacting my friends. I got several calls from my friends that he contacted them, today. Narcissists are evil and crazy
He craves the attention that he can't seem to replace elsewhere. But as soon as he finds a replacement all of a sudden he would forget about you. That's how narcs works.
They do all of this and it is so painful. My ex admitted that he got off on my misery. He would hurt me and turn around and talk to a neighbor all friendly. It was the most insane experience I ever went through in my life. I hope I never have to be in that position again. I am so at peace with myself. I love and cherish my aloneness. I am happy again. Maybe my sons will come around someday. ❤ ☀️🌈🌟
Thank you your absolutely right they are pure evil and wicked to the core. Unfortunately for them though they are total cowards. If you stand up to them in a calm, loving way and stand in your own integrity it drives them crazy. I also find keeping joyful projects their evil back on themselves.
@@kalkhan816 it’s always a good thing to be calm, loving and joyful for yourself and don’t let anyone burst your bubble. It’s a disinfectant for negativity 💖
Amen. They will deny, deny, and deny. Project, project, and project. Only their own choice and awareness to change for improvement (Authentic Repentance) can repair themselves and it's nearly unheard of for a Real Narcissist to Change being so devoid of walking a mile in anyone else's shoes. Super empath myself and I spent years trying to help my narc parents. They only got worse over time and ended up wasting massive amounts of my precious time/resources that could have been spent helping folks who are appreciative and care about being their best self. One positive takeaway is that it helps strengthen you for future encounters with evil, but I admit it's an extra level of disgrace involved when your own family member(s) or spouse treat you like dirt as they should be in your trusted inner circle. Their exceptional disregard for others is definitely unfortunate as you never would like someone you love and care about to be cast into eternal Hell. Thankfully there are many bright and beaming souls in the World though that are grateful for a helping hand, heart, and soul. Good advice to just stay joyful any way you can until you can walk away from the relationship. Prepare + Leave. Matthew 12:31 “Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.”
You're going to get a ton of views on this one because so many of us believe they are EVIL. I have an entire family of them and the things they did to me as a small very sweet obedient child is beyond sick, it's beyond cruel... it's truly evil, I have no doubts.
@Danish... 🎯🎯🎯 searched for these videos 3 or 4years ago ...I've been out nov will be 2 yrs PRAISE THE LORD JESUS--- TURN TO HIM - i won't turn back he'll kill me if i do - you're INCREDIBLE DANISH 😎
If you grew up with this, and you still turned out okay, it proves that their childhood might have opened the devil’s door, but they didn’t have to walk through it.
I was wondering why my narc sister was fanatically trying to find some proof we were Jewish prior to my parent dying. We are not Jewish. I kept asking her why she was obsessed with this quest. When my last parent died I was surprised to see I was disinherited. Will did not pass probate because where I live you are not allowed to disinherit a child unless for reasons of abuse, criminal activity, etc. I was suspicious that my sister had coerced my parent to change their will, because the copy I had been given divided the estate equally between my sister and I. Then I researched Jewish inheritance custom and found that in absence of a male child, the daughters will inherit, and the eldest (my sister) gets double share. If a daughter marries (I was married) she is disinherited because she was' given' to the family of her husband. This is Old Testament stuff but I could see clearly why my narc sister was trying to prove on religious grounds her claim of the estate on the grounds we were 'Jewish". She claimed she had no knowledge the will had been changed, yet months before parent died she was suddenly trying to prove we were Jewish. I've gone no contact.
@@Human_01 I have no idea why you thought this relevant to my initial post, but statistically, most people with narcissistic personality disorder are male, not female. I have researched narcissism for almost 10 years now and have read most of the leading authors on the subject, but you are totally up a tree.
@@l.5832 I'm sure that you have researched this, but the narcissists in my family is my husband's mother and her sisters and their mother as well. So, you feel it doesn't go with your post. Doesn't really matter, does it? She told her story about her narcissistic sister. I'm so sorry that you've had to go through this. You did exactly what you should've done and cut her out of your life. I wonder what your parents would say to her. I bet they would've confirmed whether or not you're Jewish. Seems she should've already have known. Even if you do get your inheritance I would still keep her out of my life. She'll never change!!! Money is the root of all evil. I bet she didn't know about your state's law. I'm going to check in with my state and see if it's the same here. My kid's grandparents cut them out of their will, so they say. My kids deserve every penny that they get! My daughter was told to get her own life and leave them alone. They told her that they don't like her and never have, and they don't love her and never have. My daughter's dad died when she was 15 years old, told her that when she was 16 years old. They filled a phone harassment charge when she was 16 years old. SHE WAS A CHILD!!!!
@@l.5832those Authors were prob writing on NPD statistics over 20-30 yrs ago. It’s rapidly changed and still changing female narcs are very common now, especially as wives. And I bet they pass men and take the lead, if haven’t already
You did right, especially if your parents are gone. She’s proven she has zero love or respect for you; therefore, you owe her NOTHING!!! All she did was lose a sister who she’ll likely eventually need, and her trick didn’t even hold up.
The Narc was out of town. My 91 yr old spiritual Mom tells me that she just saw the "Narc" in the bathroom. I explained that he was out of town. "Then why did I see him", she asked. I told her that she didn't see him, only his evil doppelganger. It goes deeper than the flesh can comprehend.
@@CodyCole80There's a good you and a bad you. The bad you can have a powerful spirit which terrorizes anyone around. Apparently, if fed by the host long enough, it can take on a form. Spooky. Jesus Christ came to heal us: For He Himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has torn down the dividing wall of hostility 15by abolishing in His flesh the law of commandments and decrees. He did this to create in Himself one new man out of the two, thus making peace 16and reconciling both of them to God in one body through the cross, by which He extinguished their hostility.
I totally agree. They are pure evil. Everything they say and do to you are twisted lies and to harm you the most. Been there myself and barely survived. I actually almost died and had a NDE ( near death experience in 2016 ). After that experience I was so changed that my now ex husband had no choice but to leave. Life is great. Keep toxic people out of your life no matter who they are.
Yes narcs are evil. I so hear you. I had to learn to detach & not react to my classic narcissist father & my covert narcissist mother. You have to walk away & when you do have to be around them then stay detached.
Sadly, this is completely true. Once they get that way, there is no coming back for them, their soul us forever doomed and erased from living. No eternal life for such.
Thanks Danish!❤⚘ So evil and cruel!!😮😮 They take advantage of the victim's naivety and psychologically kidnap with manipulation and control. Run away! Keep no contact! Focus on healing and enjoy your new free life!😊
I remember constantly saying to my ex "my heart could NEVER do that to you" like over and over as if I was just blindly hoping he would eventually get it even though I knew he wouldn't. I definitely think the biggest mind F is trying to even fathom someone with little to no empathy.
That was a superb demonstration of a narcissistic dynamic. Human predators they are. The only way to transcend this is to listen coach's like Danish and power up supernaturally and cleanly. Cleanly.
You described my narcissistic brother 100% which is why I avoided him over 10 years now , his toxicity is something I must avoid for the sake of my sanity
I wish someone had pointed out this evil to me 40 years ago. I always felt something was SO WRONG! But because it was always "behind closed doors", no one believed me or my children. Now, 40 years too late to save my kids, I finally start learning about narcissism quite by accident. And BOY, have I been getting an education these last few months. I live on a small fixed income and am having to wait for subsidized housing to become available, but I'm leaving. Gray rocking him is just as exhausting as trying to please him. I'll be so glad when it's finally over!
It's crazy when you think about no matter how you choose to engage them they will always be toxic. You can gray rock or get upset like they want you too. The outcome is always going to be soul sucking.
100%!!! Every word! Our daughter just left her narcissist husband and this describes him to the fullest!!! He is out to ruin & destroy the complete family. But there's 1 thing he keeps forgetting...our God's bigger and more powerful than the evil! He is defeated!! We have learned so much from these videos!
It's like I was reliving years of my life I buried to protect myself. Danish you are 100% correct. They are evil to their core. I swear there is an endless pit in place of a soul in narcissists. I could feel the emptiness in him every time my husband touched me but couldn't understand until I stopped trying to make a dead thing live. Evil, soulless creatures masquerading as humans. Thank you.
Every word here is true, and you are so logical and direct in ur delivery, Danish. Still, they need to be spoken to with seething contempt, their mask burned off their face and reminded that everyone's aware of their deceit, lies and manipulation. These monsters are not worth the flesh they were born with. They don't live, they prowl and only roam the world, like ghosts.
I have a narcissistic sister and she admitted once that she hurts people on purpose and she enjoys it. She is extremely jealous and she admitted also through her conversations that she uses people. They are aware of what they do and they are purposely disrespectful and hurtful. I can't understand it. I am recovering myself and walked away from all people who have been damaging my mental state. It was confusing and hard at first but the more I learn it makes me feel more confident that it was the right thing to do.
Danish I can tell you've been there cause everything you say is FACTS! I'll tell you what's evil..I slipped on ice fell on both my elbows the narcissist was there when it happened he didn't help me up..he screamed at me " GET UP NOW" would not help me stood there and watched me in tears struggle to get up.. I'll never forget that.
Best description of the Narcissist’s behaviour I’ve seen to date. I recognized every single behaviour trait. I’ve come to realize that the simple reason they keep repeating these behaviours is because they work for them. This is the only explanation that makes sense. It is human psychology but it can also be seen as “evil” from a spiritual level. Great share Danish. Much love, Steph from Canada 🇨🇦
Many of us are dying an inch every day by their abuse, but unfortunately, almost zero information society have about these evils and the pain of victims even our close friends and family don't know about it. Spreading Narssistic information is the best human service in current period
Although, I appreciate Danish’s approach in this video, I can see the narcissist(s) watching this video saying to themselves (with that narcissistic smirk)…, ‘I know this about myself already. Who cares if you know? No one!! You’ll NEVER hold me accountable because, others are told to fear the narcissist. In fact, they’re told to RUN AWAY as fast as they can, from the narcissist! Make your videos…, I’ll always get away with whatever I want! Even law officials won’t believe the things you’ll tell them about me. I’ll simply put on my mask in front of them, then take it off when you and me are alone 😈’. I’ve experienced this☝🏼behavior from a Covert Narcissist.
If that is not evil, what is? Narcissists ARE EVIL..... The closest thing to happiness they know is watching and causing you pain and suffering. If that's not evil, what is? Thank you, Danish.
They definitely know what they are doing make no mistake about it personality disorder or not. I've seen numerous videos of diagnosed narcissists raising awareness saying they know exactly what they are doing,they just don't care.
Thank you for calling this for the Evil it is! I want to share just a single incident. I was married for 18 years.Things became so out of control that I filed for divorce. Because we had a minor child the court mandated visits to a therapist. My husband began telling friends and family, even strangers, that hewas divorcing me because I was unfaithful and our 16 year old daighter was not his child! A litany of lies! He showed up at the therapist' office where I confronted him in front of the therapist. He calmly admitted he KNEW I would never cheat on him, But it made him feel better to tell people these lies. He wasactually having a long term affair with another man! The therapist was enraged! My husband refused future appts. We had no contact ( I wanted free so much I didnt ask for alimony, child support, or an equitable divisionof property) But 30 years later he called to tell me he had never loved me, I was less than a 2 on a scale of 10, etc. I laughed at him and hung up. He kept non stop calling for days. I ignored his calls. There really is Divine Justice.
Dealt with everything you’ve mentioned in this video. It’s amazing how prevalent narcissism is. Thanks to someone I dealt with, I can now smell a narc…I avoid them at all cost. Great info👍🏽
I believe each generation is producing more narcissists. We are at the tipping point where society is getting weak due to Machevillian types running so many organizations.
They hate authentic people and people with light in them,because they are everything they are not. Their aim is to destroy them. Really hope they all get their karma. They must have demonic souls or no soul at all.
I watch quite a few videos on how to heal from narcissistic abuse and many are helpful, but your videos are the first to speak from the vantage point of walking in our shoes. Your raw and no holds barred, open description of your experiences, which mirror ours, are beyond profound. I'm so glad I found your videos and I cry the whole way through them, but not in a bad way, in a validating way. Knowing you've experienced the same thing that we have makes me feel slightly less crazy.
Sweetie, your not crazy at all and please never tell yourself that ! Because when you do your giving your power away. Hold on God, sees everything what help me is I stop given a damn about the lies, why me, can't believe this, and how could you? My grandson is a Narcissist he's 16 years old soon will be 17 I have had him since he was 7 years old because his mother passed. He was like this before she passed nobody though much of his behavior because he was a kid acting out little did I know sad too say but this child was evil as time went on after his mother passing and he came to live with me only then I realize I had something big on my hands at the time I didn't know anything about Narcissism, he took me on a ride that I don't wish on nobody and it was even harder because people would believe him over me and too make matters worse he would use his mother passing for his behavior that worked for year's up until about 3 year's ago. It will take too long to tell you my story and all I been through.anyway he's still Satan's helper but I have learn his low down ways and I fight back by not given a damn and call him out on his Bs. As soon as he hit 18 he have too get the hell out and sadly to say I don't care if I never see him again in life and wish he well.keep your head up and stay close too God, and pray.God, bless you and keep you.🙏🏾⚓⚓⚓
I have always felt this way, watching one in action who targeted my son & brainwashed him against his family. It was heartbreaking. This person tried to badmouth me with me younger son & he told them to go "F*** themselves, I'm not my brother. You can't manipulate me, you F-ing b****." I didn't mind the language, he was defending me, & this person needed to hear that. They are truly demonic.
🙏Thank you. These words and your revelations help free us. You are a soul saver. ❤🙏 They are criminals. Perpetrators who target victims behind closed doors and use the lies of love and family to keep them trapped and prevent exposure and being punished by society for their crimes. They are worse than someone who commits crimes in public because at least those bad people are honest and you can see them for what they are. Subjugation, enslavement, punishment, and destruction is their only goal.
Yes I became brain washed with the lies & love of family !! Then you ask yourself " do they really love their family or do they just view them as mere enablers ? " that's how it looked to me . At the end of the day it's all about their ego, what makes them look good.
They have a heart of stone and he would try to do things to destroy me. No heart or compassion for anyone and he played the victim all the time. He even tried to cause me to lose my job. I am still affected by all this evilness and cruelty.
it took decades !!!!!!! to finally say my father was EVIL. for it was on and off. intentionally. in the cognitive dissonance that he wanted to perpetrate in his family. I was always skimming the surface of my pain and internal chaos. stuffing it down. in decades of group therapy that just let the steam off the top of my kettle. only at 68 years old and withdrawing from a short term evil marriage with a narcissist have I dug hard and deep to learn and understand and finally release the confusion. Danish you are a significant part of my healing and I will always be grateful.
MANY THANKS I’ve been saying it for years & used to get in trouble in school for insisting they have moral choice and are accountable! Great presentation TY
You have described my husband perfectly . I lost everyone including my self for 22 years & 5 months , I finally got the courage to walk away from him and 8 years on I'm back to my old self , happy , self reliant and totally independent. I had no idea what a night mare hell my marriage was until I left him . Thank you for your videos they have helped me so very much .
He wanted max control. He was the only human being I saw for two years during COVID. He found an isolated house in the mountains of San Diego. I was going down hill mentally really fast. Adderall couldn't even get me out of the bed, but when he came home I worked out like an athlete. It was bad. He got to see people because he had to still go to work. He controlled everything in my life. Just evil. The details are bad
Mr. Bashing, I agree with you based on my experiences with my family. I am at the point where I believe that narcissism is spiritual infection that can go back generations.
I have an evil wealthy brother who is the poster child for your description. I am still recovering from a recent and last interaction. Bless anyone who has been in someone with NPD,s orbit.
Thank you for saying this! I've recently heard a mental health professional in the RUclips community who seems quite protective of the presumed innocence or unawareness of narcissists. I can't help but think they haven't experienced this abuse, or they are a narcissist themselves. Of course, they could be motivated by building their business by attracting narcissists into treatment. But, you detailing point by point which specific actions and intentions are in alignment with the common definition of what we call evil is validating and I believe completely true. Even if there is a lack of awareness to the full reason of why they do what they do, that doesn't negate that they do know what they are doing and to some extent, why. ' Some even admit they know. I wonder how a "mental health professional" could counter-explain the narcissists outright professing their knowing and their awareness of what they're doing.
Mental Health professionals are essentially scientists, academics, they could lose their license, for saying certain things, or saying things in certain ways. Just like a doctor can't tell you you're possessed by an evil spirit.
My husband didn’t want my brothers to attend our daughter’s birthday party. He just did not want them to feel welcomed at our home.😕 He was also that way with my friends.
I needed to hear this, especially right now. My nmom tried to reach out to me again and hoover me, and it made me doubt myself all over again. It's funny - she always told me that I'd "sell my family for a penny." It's her who would do that instead - it's always been her. Look what she was willing to do for narcissistic fuel.
Wow. Gone through this all myself. You are spot on. A great video should be shared with as many people as you can. Share, share, share. Pure evil. Demonic. 👏
Thank you for your video. Recently I have also used the word “evil” in my mind while thinking about how my narcissistic husband treated me. It was only after 42 years of marriage that I recognised him as a narcissist and decided to separate about 3 years later. I have only in the past few months been able to maintain my distance. He tries hard to get closer by sending msgs asking me if I’d like to go for a concert as he bought tickets, invited me for dinner etc etc. Actually I’m happy to say that I refused quite easily. My worry is he has something up his sleeve! If I don’t agree to anything, I doubt he can harm me? But I can never feel safe with him around.
Dear Danish, your channel is the information and the sensitive, caring, calm delivery of the information that I have been looking for now for several years since I found out what narcissism was. I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist who fathered my 3 children of 19ish years. I can’t thank you enough for your work, and am so sorry that you had to go through what you did in your life. I heard a quote that said something (to paraphrase because I can’t remember it exactly) but that “your life story will be someone else’s survival guide” This is what your channel is for me right now. Thank you so much. ❤
Danish, Thank you. I have experienced all the above. To hell with the Psych. behavioral analysis attempting to "package it up" in a palatable, explainable, rational form factor. Evil is just that..."EVIL". As Good is just that..."GOOD". Keep up your great and insightful video productions. You are seriously helping educate so many of us by bring clarity to the evil and deceptive actions of these people. Bless you Danish. Again, just Thank you.
He was all I had in those mountains, and he was my worst enemy! Didn't talk to friends or family either just his abusive cult like family who I wouldn't talk to them either. It's just living with a gaslighting devil. He had max control. Nowhere to go. I didn't have a car. I was trapped there.
this past weekend y husband/narc and he punched me, slapped me, threw my clothes all over, told me I was delusional and he punched me in the face. I told him today that I will never go back to his house I am done with him he went real quiet looked good on him I totally sick of this life now.
OMG I’ve not been wrong! For 8 years I lived with a monster. A month ago he wrote me and said, “I’ve ruined you for anyone else haven’t I?” He is proud of what he has done to me! He’s 56 and has the mentality of an 18 year old boy! He hangs with a young guy a lot too. 30 years younger! He slept with his ex’s daughter and was proud of it!! The trauma bond I have is unreal. I’ve never felt this out of control of myself. Like someone else took me over and I keep setting myself up for this over and over. I’ve seen the devil in him literally his eyes were demonic. It scared me, yet I let it go and the horrible things he said and did. I feel like I can’t break free from this grip. He has ruined me. I’ve wanted to die more than I’ve wanted to live. He talks about everybody and makes them look bad so I know he’s doing it to me too. I keep getting guys who emotionally abuse me and take full advantage of me. A part of me started feeling like I deserved it for something I did in the past or in a past life maybe. I don’t deserve as much as has been put on me. He never complimented me, but drooled over and commented about other women. I’ve caught him talking to other women. I don’t think he’s been sleeping with them since he is almost completely impotent from the alcohol and heavy marijuana smoking he does daily all day long. He’s always the victim and I’m always falling short somewhere. He never apologizes, or if he does it is only because I say he needs to. He doesn’t mean it. I stayed on eggshells, starved myself to look good, kept the house spotless and did everything. All he did was work and then complain about how tired he was and sit on his ass all night and the weekends while I was busting mine. I’m disabled (half physical and half mental ), and he didn’t care if I was killing myself keeping up. He would tell me to get help when I would breakdown. I’m always the problem. I’ve apologized to him for his bad behavior a dozen times. I’m more messed up than I thought I was 😭 I’m a fixer and an empath and all I’m doing is keeping him charged. Feeding his ego. Luckily everyone sees through him and he has lost it in front of all of them before. They feared for me and begged me to leave. I’ve been gone almost 6 months now. 4 months no contact then I had to get my belongings or he was throwing them out. He smoked me out to act like he cared about my well being so he said. He played a game again. I did not move back in with him thank god. Then he has done it to me again. I told him he hurt my feelings with a comment and he cut me off. This time I let loose and said everything I’ve been holding back. I blocked him when he kept trying to call me. His final text he told me t, “go f-ck yourself!” How are these people so heartless and selfish? I wasn’t raised like this. I don’t have many people left in my life. They’ve either died or moved on. I just keep losing no matter what. My soul is so tired and so am I.
They don't question if they are.... they say from "oh, you think i am a narcissist" -"how dare you..." (just from when watching this video to learn was...from behind "what do you think you're doing" not allowed on phone unless what they allow - them flipping out cause they think you're contacting anyone including relitives/siblings) (then it's flipped on you "you're a narcissist" & smear campaign...) - "i don't have to take test to see if I'm narcissist, there's nothing wrong with me" (- smear campaign - abuse....) - them abusing - trying to get rid of- threatening to hurt - kill your service dog.....
Danish, i love all of your videos, but this one, this ONE by far has hit home. I'm so grateful to God, that I'm no longer living in oppression with that demonic creature 🙏 🙌 ❤
Playing this around the narc and saying nothing. Oh, wait. I stay away from them now and moved on to a new me. They wound loose their mind if they heard this though. This is a very clever method of doing the video. Makes me feel like someone is defending me for a change, thanks Danish. Very clever. You remind me it's not me, it's them. Thanks again.
True pain in life causes growth in character and self-development. It is absolutely their choice and they just got used to lying now their heart is sick. And that’s why when people cut them off now they want to hoover like a mutant brat. They are spiritually sick individuals that are unhealthy to keep around the block. I say block.
Pure and perfect description.after 28 years of imprisonment I,m free now.l can sleep peacefully,can eat, hear music,smile.........I wonder,why I continued with that devil during these years?
Thanks very much for this. At times when they want to truly scare and intimidate it feels like you are talking to the Devil himself. It is utterly terrifying and so frustrating that if you try to tell anyone they think you must be weak, when far from it, you are insanely strong. They are so cold they are like a reptile. My narc is frightened of snakes, I think because of seeing himself. I think there is part of him that is frightened of the Devil inside him. It is like he is demon possessed.
The narcissistic ex is probably as far extreme as a narcissist gets. One thing he does is constantly accuse people of things that he does. I have never been so disturbed by someone else's behavior before. He would accuse me of being evil. I remember one time being so disturbed by his behavior, and the air was so thick, and my skin was burning and stinging. The energy was so strong and felt like it was transferring to me. I have never had to have a talk with anyone else about basic morality.
This is a GREAT Video!!! Made feel sane!!! & I left 26 yrs ago. Still second guess myself too much. & Never re married. I can't trust. But I did build a beautiful life with God's help. 🙏🏻💛
I don't believe they have any pain or depth or else they would have empathy. They are completely shallow and self-serving. If they start to feel pain, they just slip into attack mode, and it all goes away. It is kind of beyond evil in that there is no intent to harm, there is just utter indifference to the harm they cause. They have demonic self-righteousness and justification.
@@jbrown2908 Usually if you want to hurt someone, it is because you are hurt or feeling pain. I kind of think they are beyond any normal feelings. They like for people to think they are suffering or in pain, but that is just to hide how awful they really are. I think they do it for fun and pleasure, kind of like thrills. It is a power trip and a high from their otherwise boring empty existence. Attributing pain and spiteful feelings to them gives them too much credit. Usually, their victims have done nothing but be good to them and bent over backwards not to offend them.
@@CodyCole80 They love evil or ignore what is good. They think they are above it. They think laws and rules don't apply to them. That is not a sign of abuse, it is a sign of evil.
Thank you so much for this video. I shared it with my grown children because i put up with my ex covert Narcissistic ex that did this to me. I want them to understand his evilness towards me. You are 100% right on. Left him 5 years this coming October
I love it when you take this perspective. It just helps give a different angle for the abused to understand the multidimensional aspects of this type of abuse. Thank you
Thank you so much,Danish! I am going through this nightmare for a long time and I didn't know how to make sense of all the madness I am experiencing. But now thanks to you I realize what I am dealing with and slowly I start to wake up and give up the hope that this person will change. Every word you say resonates with me and reflects exactly what I am going through. Thank you and may God bless you! You do make a difference with your work!
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What ever you said its complete apt of my sister who suffered in hands of narc husband and mother in law. More power to you 🙏 bhaiyaa. Thnq
Preach🙏
Touching on evil is very concise , but we are in the ned giving them too much credit, this is like a form of possession over the weak spirit of the narcissist. That's why they all have the same traits . It is not them but a form of evil which has taken over their spirit .
No keep on, your spot on
People are easily confused nowadays by the worst of those of this kind, until their light dies and these traits start growing inside them. Because they have natural empathy, however, their confusion deepens as they can't reconcile glimpses of reality with their fabricated excuses for hurting others.
100%. Narcissistic abuse is purely evil. Those with NPD are truly evildoers. If you don’t think so, you haven’t been targeted by a narcissist.
The scary thing is those that haven’t been targeted only see the mask, and have no clue the vile empty monster that lurks behind it
@@AnaSantos-gh4tf they wear the mask to harvest supply and keep up the illusion of their public persona. Only letting it slip to their target when they want to punish, because they are fundamentally lazy and sadistic, and feel like once they have you secured under their spell of control they don’t have to impress you as much anymore, its all about gaslighting and keeping you down, serving them, so they can establish their superiority by conditioning you to accept their abuse and your new role as their little scapegoat. What I’m saying is the others, those on the outside looking in, have no idea that the mask is fake and the persona is a lie. They have no idea what the narc is capable of, how empty and vengeful, what a vampire the narc really is, that’s why the smear campaign works and the flying monkeys defend them.
I would also call them harmful, a more down to earth word, because they do ALWAYS cause real harm to ppl they engage with. Always. Narc = will cause real life harm to those around them. No philosophy will help. Narc = real life harm to anyone who engages with them.
100%
I broke free after 39 years nearly died. I see pics of my sister now and I can see the evil in her smile 😟
They do know what they are doing , because they can switch whenever it serves them.
100% their abuse is PURELY EVIL! No doubt in my mind! Spot on!
you are absolutely right. They are so sadistic and evil to the core. Still struggling to comprehend how someone can be like this. They choose to be evil. I choose to be nice.
Im also still struggling to comprehend...my life, spirit, everything so extremely ruined, tried so many ways as never before in a crazy hope it wouldnt be true...now im moving on allone and pregnant on another continent ..and he only finds it funny
I have seen black eyes on the narcissist, then I knew they were evil. Everything you mentioned, I have been through. Trying to remove the covert narcissist from my home. He is pure evil.
catherine7970 ~ I have seen those black demonic eyes as well. Prayers of support as you are taking steps to remove yourself from the narc. They are who they are. You are in your right frame of mind. Believe it and get yourself to a safe place. Know that you are certainly not alone on your journey.
100% true😢
@@ernestthompson891 yes I have seen those black eyes too. November 2, 2020 at 7:30 am.
I went back to Goodyear AZ my husband house spend night for doctor appointment the next day morning , he was cold looked at me didn’t say anything, I did not say anything. Then the next day he began to targeting me for a fight. Says going to suspend my credit card, because I spent 66 dollars in Walmart didn’t tell him yesterday, says I took all the sheets wanted to sleep in different room , I said okay, then said I want separated with you , I said okay, then said I want divorce you I said okay, I got my purse and was ready to leave, he came to me with clinched fest, nose to my nose, I looked into his eyes, ( he has had blue eyes normally)they were totally black at that moment, I felt my hair stand up, I said I am not talk to you anymore. I run out of the door drove my car to the medical plaza, seated in the car waiting for my time to see doctor, I was still in shuck,my conclusion is that narcissistic is a devil.
I saw it too!! It was demonic!!
I've seen those eyes! Demonic! As he was going for my throat with his hands!!!!😢 I went for his balls with my knee. 😅 The end.
I had to stop it when you said: "You see the devil incarnated infront of your very eyes". I didn't want to believe it, but I have seen the eyes turn to dark black, with no natural eye colour or natural human-like reaction in the face. I understand the phrase " that person has done a deal with the devil."
For lack of a better word, they are absolutely evil. Their obsessive nature is pure evil.
#5 Acting cool, calm, and collected while driving others crazy is called the dog whistle technique. Using private information to insult the target in front of others causes the target to get angry for apparently no reason at all and allows the narc to say that the target has anger or emotional issues.
my parents, and myself before lockdown.
🎯 Boom! Yes exactly and our children are still falling for his facade. That's what can be so hard to deal with because he's still getting away with it. This is why I pray for my children to wake up! It's extremely difficult 💚💌
Yes he knew all about dog whistling !!! People told him to stop staring at them & what he called them is not repeatable on Utube ! Did he get the message ? NO ! They just feel entitled to do what they want , brain damaged people 😱
Yes he knows all about the dog whistle, all about attention, even when people tells him to stop staring at them what he calls them is not repeatable on Utube ! Does he get the message ? NO ! Carry's on regardless despite the consequences ! They act on impulse , seriously brain damaged people 😱
I agree Danish , it is pure evil behaviour. The manipulations and lies , what a horrendous experience for me . Narcissistic abuse is one of the most horrific experiences , because it is psychological , emotional and in my case not physical , so can not be seen. This subject should be taught in schools
I 1000 % agree with you that narcissistic abuse is EVIL!
A person who has gone through the abuse will only know the intensity of pain ….
Yes, u r 💯 right I could see the devil right in front of me ….
So true. I was isolated and the abuse gets much worst. You completely lose your mind and can't trust your perceptions at all. You always have to go to the narcissist for everything, but they don't love you.
Hope you are feeling better now....I'm praying for you to have a good life in jesus christ....may you find the right person for your life .......... 💙
They are demon possessed. When confronted with the truth of their actions they would rather kill themselves than face their true selves
People need to realize that people are evil because it serves them. Not because they were abused( which may be true) but constantly choosing evil makes a person numb to their conscience and its really just a twisted way to escape pain. Because everyone gets pain in life, its what you do with it that matters, will you become hardened and hurt others, or will you go through it, heal and become kinder. Narcissism is a lifestyle choice, which the narcissistic is fully responsible for.
Their only objective whether conscious or not is to take anybody or everybody down with them.
I still don't understand why my ex narcissistic husband won't leave me alone.
1. I moved to a different state, he got a house for his new supply's mother in my new neighbourhood.
2. He visited my house unannounced ,I was not home,my almost 80 years old father asked him to leave or he would call the police. I thought that was it but I was wrong.
3. Now, he is contacting my friends. I got several calls from my friends that he contacted them, today.
Narcissists are evil and crazy
He craves the attention that he can't seem to replace elsewhere. But as soon as he finds a replacement all of a sudden he would forget about you. That's how narcs works.
They do all of this and it is so painful. My ex admitted that he got off on my misery. He would hurt me and turn around and talk to a neighbor all friendly. It was the most insane experience I ever went through in my life. I hope I never have to be in that position again. I am so at peace with myself. I love and cherish my aloneness. I am happy again. Maybe my sons will come around someday. ❤ ☀️🌈🌟
AMEN
God shall help you ❤
Thank you your absolutely right they are pure evil and wicked to the core. Unfortunately for them though they are total cowards. If you stand up to them in a calm, loving way and stand in your own integrity it drives them crazy. I also find keeping joyful projects their evil back on themselves.
Does it? Maybe I will try this... maybe not actually... thanks though
@@kalkhan816 it’s always a good thing to be calm, loving and joyful for yourself and don’t let anyone burst your bubble. It’s a disinfectant for negativity 💖
Amen. They will deny, deny, and deny. Project, project, and project. Only their own choice and awareness to change for improvement (Authentic Repentance) can repair themselves and it's nearly unheard of for a Real Narcissist to Change being so devoid of walking a mile in anyone else's shoes. Super empath myself and I spent years trying to help my narc parents. They only got worse over time and ended up wasting massive amounts of my precious time/resources that could have been spent helping folks who are appreciative and care about being their best self. One positive takeaway is that it helps strengthen you for future encounters with evil, but I admit it's an extra level of disgrace involved when your own family member(s) or spouse treat you like dirt as they should be in your trusted inner circle. Their exceptional disregard for others is definitely unfortunate as you never would like someone you love and care about to be cast into eternal Hell. Thankfully there are many bright and beaming souls in the World though that are grateful for a helping hand, heart, and soul. Good advice to just stay joyful any way you can until you can walk away from the relationship. Prepare + Leave. Matthew 12:31
“Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.”
Yes this is actually true!!
100% true😢
You're going to get a ton of views on this one because so many of us believe they are EVIL. I have an entire family of them and the things they did to me as a small very sweet obedient child is beyond sick, it's beyond cruel... it's truly evil, I have no doubts.
@Danish... 🎯🎯🎯 searched for these videos 3 or 4years ago ...I've been out nov will be 2 yrs PRAISE THE LORD JESUS--- TURN TO HIM - i won't turn back he'll kill me if i do - you're INCREDIBLE DANISH 😎
Ditto
If you grew up with this, and you still turned out okay, it proves that their childhood might have opened the devil’s door, but they didn’t have to walk through it.
My experience with my narcissistic brother is they have a DEMON in them.
Agree, am going through this last 3 years. I dont know how to cope😢
Seek Jesus
They know what they are doing. The evil smirk...they enjoy hurting others! I come from a family of these monsters.
I was wondering why my narc sister was fanatically trying to find some proof we were Jewish prior to my parent dying. We are not Jewish. I kept asking her why she was obsessed with this quest. When my last parent died I was surprised to see I was disinherited. Will did not pass probate because where I live you are not allowed to disinherit a child unless for reasons of abuse, criminal activity, etc. I was suspicious that my sister had coerced my parent to change their will, because the copy I had been given divided the estate equally between my sister and I. Then I researched Jewish inheritance custom and found that in absence of a male child, the daughters will inherit, and the eldest (my sister) gets double share. If a daughter marries (I was married) she is disinherited because she was' given' to the family of her husband. This is Old Testament stuff but I could see clearly why my narc sister was trying to prove on religious grounds her claim of the estate on the grounds we were 'Jewish". She claimed she had no knowledge the will had been changed, yet months before parent died she was suddenly trying to prove we were Jewish. I've gone no contact.
@@Human_01 I have no idea why you thought this relevant to my initial post, but statistically, most people with narcissistic personality disorder are male, not female. I have researched narcissism for almost 10 years now and have read most of the leading authors on the subject, but you are totally up a tree.
@@l.5832 I'm sure that you have researched this, but the narcissists in my family is my husband's mother and her sisters and their mother as well. So, you feel it doesn't go with your post. Doesn't really matter, does it? She told her story about her narcissistic sister. I'm so sorry that you've had to go through this. You did exactly what you should've done and cut her out of your life. I wonder what your parents would say to her. I bet they would've confirmed whether or not you're Jewish. Seems she should've already have known. Even if you do get your inheritance I would still keep her out of my life. She'll never change!!!
Money is the root of all evil. I bet she didn't know about your state's law. I'm going to check in with my state and see if it's the same here. My kid's grandparents cut them out of their will, so they say. My kids deserve every penny that they get! My daughter was told to get her own life and leave them alone. They told her that they don't like her and never have, and they don't love her and never have. My daughter's dad died when she was 15 years old, told her that when she was 16 years old. They filled a phone harassment charge when she was 16 years old. SHE WAS A CHILD!!!!
@@l.5832those Authors were prob writing on NPD statistics over 20-30 yrs ago. It’s rapidly changed and still changing female narcs are very common now, especially as wives. And I bet they pass men and take the lead, if haven’t already
You did right, especially if your parents are gone. She’s proven she has zero love or respect for you; therefore, you owe her NOTHING!!! All she did was lose a sister who she’ll likely eventually need, and her trick didn’t even hold up.
I really wish this video goes viral because it makes complete sense and it is presented in a unique way.
The Narc was out of town. My 91 yr old spiritual Mom tells me that she just saw the "Narc" in the bathroom. I explained that he was out of town. "Then why did I see him", she asked. I told her that she didn't see him, only his evil doppelganger. It goes deeper than the flesh can comprehend.
Yup
😮 Please elaborate. 😳
@@CodyCole80There's a good you and a bad you. The bad you can have a powerful spirit which terrorizes anyone around. Apparently, if fed by the host long enough, it can take on a form. Spooky. Jesus Christ came to heal us: For He Himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has torn down the dividing wall of hostility 15by abolishing in His flesh the law of commandments and decrees. He did this to create in Himself one new man out of the two, thus making peace 16and reconciling both of them to God in one body through the cross, by which He extinguished their hostility.
I totally agree. They are pure evil. Everything they say and do to you are twisted lies and to harm you the most. Been there myself and barely survived. I actually almost died and had a NDE ( near death experience in 2016 ). After that experience I was so changed that my now ex husband had no choice but to leave. Life is great. Keep toxic people out of your life no matter who they are.
Yes narcs are evil. I so hear you. I had to learn to detach & not react to my classic narcissist father & my covert narcissist mother. You have to walk away & when you do have to be around them then stay detached.
Sadly, this is completely true. Once they get that way, there is no coming back for them, their soul us forever doomed and erased from living. No eternal life for such.
Is forever doomed
Thanks Danish!❤⚘
So evil and cruel!!😮😮
They take advantage of the victim's naivety and psychologically kidnap with manipulation and control.
Run away! Keep no contact!
Focus on healing and enjoy your new free life!😊
I remember constantly saying to my ex "my heart could NEVER do that to you" like over and over as if I was just blindly hoping he would eventually get it even though I knew he wouldn't. I definitely think the biggest mind F is trying to even fathom someone with little to no empathy.
That was a superb demonstration of a narcissistic dynamic. Human predators they are. The only way to transcend this is to listen coach's like Danish and power up supernaturally and cleanly. Cleanly.
You described my narcissistic brother 100% which is why I avoided him over 10 years now , his toxicity is something I must avoid for the sake of my sanity
I wish someone had pointed out this evil to me 40 years ago. I always felt something was SO WRONG! But because it was always "behind closed doors", no one believed me or my children. Now, 40 years too late to save my kids, I finally start learning about narcissism quite by accident. And BOY, have I been getting an education these last few months. I live on a small fixed income and am having to wait for subsidized housing to become available, but I'm leaving. Gray rocking him is just as exhausting as trying to please him. I'll be so glad when it's finally over!
It's crazy when you think about no matter how you choose to engage them they will always be toxic. You can gray rock or get upset like they want you too. The outcome is always going to be soul sucking.
You will be so happy. You will be amazed how great life can be!
My mother did this to my disabled dad. She smeared me to him and the rest of the family basically projecting what she does onto me. Its sickening.
100%!!! Every word! Our daughter just left her narcissist husband and this describes him to the fullest!!! He is out to ruin & destroy the complete family. But there's 1 thing he keeps forgetting...our God's bigger and more powerful than the evil! He is defeated!! We have learned so much from these videos!
It's like I was reliving years of my life I buried to protect myself. Danish you are 100% correct. They are evil to their core. I swear there is an endless pit in place of a soul in narcissists. I could feel the emptiness in him every time my husband touched me but couldn't understand until I stopped trying to make a dead thing live. Evil, soulless creatures masquerading as humans. Thank you.
Every word here is true, and you are so logical and direct in ur delivery, Danish. Still, they need to be spoken to with seething contempt, their mask burned off their face and reminded that everyone's aware of their deceit, lies and manipulation. These monsters are not worth the flesh they were born with. They don't live, they prowl and only roam the world, like ghosts.
Selectively nice 💯 accurate! Thank you, Danish ❤if you are a partner of covert narcissist, you can only witness his being nice to others… 😢
I have a narcissistic sister and she admitted once that she hurts people on purpose and she enjoys it. She is extremely jealous and she admitted also through her conversations that she uses people. They are aware of what they do and they are purposely disrespectful and hurtful. I can't understand it.
I am recovering myself and walked away from all people who have been damaging my mental state. It was confusing and hard at first but the more I learn it makes me feel more confident that it was the right thing to do.
Danish I can tell you've been there cause everything you say is FACTS! I'll tell you what's evil..I slipped on ice fell on both my elbows the narcissist was there when it happened he didn't help me up..he screamed at me " GET UP NOW" would not help me stood there and watched me in tears struggle to get up.. I'll never forget that.
Best description of the Narcissist’s behaviour I’ve seen to date. I recognized every single behaviour trait. I’ve come to realize that the simple reason they keep repeating these behaviours is because they work for them. This is the only explanation that makes sense.
It is human psychology but it can also be seen as “evil” from a spiritual level. Great share Danish. Much love, Steph from Canada 🇨🇦
@@jbrown2908 Yes
Many of us are dying an inch every day by their abuse, but unfortunately, almost zero information society have about these evils and the pain of victims even our close friends and family don't know about it. Spreading Narssistic information is the best human service in current period
Although, I appreciate Danish’s approach in this video, I can see the narcissist(s) watching this video saying to themselves (with that narcissistic smirk)…,
‘I know this about myself already. Who cares if you know? No one!! You’ll NEVER hold me accountable because, others are told to fear the narcissist. In fact, they’re told to RUN AWAY as fast as they can, from the narcissist! Make your videos…, I’ll always get away with whatever I want! Even law officials won’t believe the things you’ll tell them about me. I’ll simply put on my mask in front of them, then take it off when you and me are alone 😈’.
I’ve experienced this☝🏼behavior from a Covert Narcissist.
If that is not evil, what is? Narcissists ARE EVIL..... The closest thing to happiness they know is watching and causing you pain and suffering. If that's not evil, what is? Thank you, Danish.
Dr Scott Peck " people of the lie" seminal work was the banner of this fact. Circa: 80 s
They definitely know what they are doing make no mistake about it personality disorder or not. I've seen numerous videos of diagnosed narcissists raising awareness saying they know exactly what they are doing,they just don't care.
Never again I have heard 2 narcs say the exact same thing I will always be on guard
Thank you for calling this for the Evil it is! I want to share just a single incident. I was married for 18 years.Things became so out of control that I filed for divorce. Because we had a minor child the court mandated visits to a therapist. My husband began telling friends and family, even strangers, that hewas divorcing me because I was unfaithful and our 16 year old daighter was not his child! A litany of lies! He showed up at the therapist' office where I confronted him in front of the therapist. He calmly admitted he KNEW I would never cheat on him, But it made him feel better to tell people these lies. He wasactually having a long term affair with another man! The therapist was enraged! My husband refused future appts. We had no contact ( I wanted free so much I didnt ask for alimony, child support, or an equitable divisionof property) But 30 years later he called to tell me he had never loved me, I was less than a 2 on a scale of 10, etc. I laughed at him and hung up. He kept non stop calling for days. I ignored his calls. There really is Divine Justice.
Dealt with everything you’ve mentioned in this video. It’s amazing how prevalent narcissism is. Thanks to someone I dealt with, I can now smell a narc…I avoid them at all cost. Great info👍🏽
I believe each generation is producing more narcissists. We are at the tipping point where society is getting weak due to Machevillian types running so many organizations.
They hate authentic people and people with light in them,because they are everything they are not. Their aim is to destroy them. Really hope they all get their karma. They must have demonic souls or no soul at all.
You are brilliant, this is exactly how I feel. You know these demons very well. I wish lots of karma on them for sadistically abusing people.
Don't wish bad God will make him pay.... God bless you and heal from that evil thing
🙏🙏🙏
These are very important things to hear for the victims who are struggling inside the hell narcissist (evil) created. 😢❤
I watch quite a few videos on how to heal from narcissistic abuse and many are helpful, but your videos are the first to speak from the vantage point of walking in our shoes. Your raw and no holds barred, open description of your experiences, which mirror ours, are beyond profound. I'm so glad I found your videos and I cry the whole way through them, but not in a bad way, in a validating way. Knowing you've experienced the same thing that we have makes me feel slightly less crazy.
I feel the same. I can repeat every your word and just add gratitude and thankfulness for his work. Finally, in my 63, I don't feel alone anymore.
Same here.
Sweetie, your not crazy at all and please never tell yourself that ! Because when you do your giving your power away. Hold on God, sees everything what help me is I stop given a damn about the lies, why me, can't believe this, and how could you? My grandson is a Narcissist he's 16 years old soon will be 17 I have had him since he was 7 years old because his mother passed. He was like this before she passed nobody though much of his behavior because he was a kid acting out little did I know sad too say but this child was evil as time went on after his mother passing and he came to live with me only then I realize I had something big on my hands at the time I didn't know anything about Narcissism, he took me on a ride that I don't wish on nobody and it was even harder because people would believe him over me and too make matters worse he would use his mother passing for his behavior that worked for year's up until about 3 year's ago. It will take too long to tell you my story and all I been through.anyway he's still Satan's helper but I have learn his low down ways and I fight back by not given a damn and call him out on his Bs. As soon as he hit 18 he have too get the hell out and sadly to say I don't care if I never see him again in life and wish he well.keep your head up and stay close too God, and pray.God, bless you and keep you.🙏🏾⚓⚓⚓
I have always felt this way, watching one in action who targeted my son & brainwashed him against his family. It was heartbreaking. This person tried to badmouth me with me younger son & he told them to go "F*** themselves, I'm not my brother. You can't manipulate me, you F-ing b****." I didn't mind the language, he was defending me, & this person needed to hear that. They are truly demonic.
🙏Thank you. These words and your revelations help free us. You are a soul saver. ❤🙏
They are criminals. Perpetrators who target victims behind closed doors and use the lies of love and family to keep them trapped and prevent exposure and being punished by society for their crimes.
They are worse than someone who commits crimes in public because at least those bad people are honest and you can see them for what they are.
Subjugation, enslavement, punishment, and destruction is their only goal.
Yes I became brain washed with the lies & love of family !! Then you ask yourself " do they really love their family or do they just view them as mere enablers ? " that's how it looked to me . At the end of the day it's all about their ego, what makes them look good.
I've been a victim of these types of people most of my life. But now I have a lot of evidence of the truth. Thanks. I am healing
no amount of child abuse can turn one into evil. a snake will never be a pigeon and a pigeon will never be a snake. born snake will always be a snake
Same here. I saw the devil himself several times in different bodies.
Danish, You nailed this! You do a fantastic job of describing the reality of the harm narcissists cause their targets. Thank you!
They have a heart of stone and he would try to do things to destroy me. No heart or compassion for anyone and he played the victim all the time. He even tried to cause me to lose my job. I am still affected by all this evilness and cruelty.
it took decades !!!!!!! to finally say my father was EVIL. for it was on and off. intentionally. in the cognitive dissonance that he wanted to perpetrate in his family.
I was always skimming the surface of my pain and internal chaos. stuffing it down. in decades of group therapy that just let the steam off the top of my kettle. only at 68 years old and withdrawing from a short term evil marriage with a narcissist have I dug hard and deep to learn and understand and finally release the confusion. Danish you are a significant part of my healing and I will always be grateful.
MANY THANKS I’ve been saying it for years & used to get in trouble in school for insisting they have moral choice and are accountable! Great presentation TY
You have described my husband perfectly . I lost everyone including my self for 22 years & 5 months , I finally got the courage to walk away from him and 8 years on I'm back to my old self , happy , self reliant and totally independent. I had no idea what a night mare hell my marriage was until I left him . Thank you for your videos they have helped me so very much .
He wanted max control. He was the only human being I saw for two years during COVID. He found an isolated house in the mountains of San Diego. I was going down hill mentally really fast. Adderall couldn't even get me out of the bed, but when he came home I worked out like an athlete. It was bad. He got to see people because he had to still go to work. He controlled everything in my life. Just evil. The details are bad
Mr. Bashing,
I agree with you based on my experiences with my family. I am at the point where I believe that narcissism is spiritual infection that can go back generations.
I have an evil wealthy brother who is the poster child for your description. I am still recovering from a recent and last interaction. Bless anyone who has been in someone with NPD,s orbit.
Thank you for saying this! I've recently heard a mental health professional in the RUclips community who seems quite protective of the presumed innocence or unawareness of narcissists. I can't help but think they haven't experienced this abuse, or they are a narcissist themselves. Of course, they could be motivated by building their business by attracting narcissists into treatment.
But, you detailing point by point which specific actions and intentions are in alignment with the common definition of what we call evil is validating and I believe completely true. Even if there is a lack of awareness to the full reason of why they do what they do, that doesn't negate that they do know what they are doing and to some extent, why.
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Some even admit they know. I wonder how a "mental health professional" could counter-explain the narcissists outright professing their knowing and their awareness of what they're doing.
Mental Health professionals are essentially scientists, academics, they could lose their license, for saying certain things, or saying things in certain ways. Just like a doctor can't tell you you're possessed by an evil spirit.
My husband didn’t want my brothers to attend our daughter’s birthday party. He just did not want them to feel welcomed at our home.😕
He was also that way with my friends.
I needed to hear this, especially right now. My nmom tried to reach out to me again and hoover me, and it made me doubt myself all over again.
It's funny - she always told me that I'd "sell my family for a penny." It's her who would do that instead - it's always been her. Look what she was willing to do for narcissistic fuel.
Thank you for delivering those of us in bandage, stay on top, and not beneath .
I get so angry watching some of your videos and this one is no exception.
You are right on the mark. 💯
Wow. Gone through this all myself. You are spot on. A great video should be shared with as many people as you can. Share, share, share. Pure evil. Demonic. 👏
Thank you for your video. Recently I have also used the word “evil” in my mind while thinking about how my narcissistic husband treated me. It was only after 42 years of marriage that I recognised him as a narcissist and decided to separate about 3 years later. I have only in the past few months been able to maintain my distance. He tries hard to get closer by sending msgs asking me if I’d like to go for a concert as he bought tickets, invited me for dinner etc etc. Actually I’m happy to say that I refused quite easily. My worry is he has something up his sleeve! If I don’t agree to anything, I doubt he can harm me? But I can never feel safe with him around.
Dear Danish, your channel is the information and the sensitive, caring, calm delivery of the information that I have been looking for now for several years since I found out what narcissism was. I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist who fathered my 3 children of 19ish years. I can’t thank you enough for your work, and am so sorry that you had to go through what you did in your life. I heard a quote that said something (to paraphrase because I can’t remember it exactly) but that “your life story will be someone else’s survival guide” This is what your channel is for me right now. Thank you so much. ❤
Danish, Thank you. I have experienced all the above. To hell with the Psych. behavioral analysis attempting to "package it up" in a palatable, explainable, rational form factor. Evil is just that..."EVIL". As Good is just that..."GOOD". Keep up your great and insightful video productions. You are seriously helping educate so many of us by bring clarity to the evil and deceptive actions of these people. Bless you Danish. Again, just Thank you.
Politicians indeed...who are causing catastrophe around the world.
They are participants in the bigger agenda for sure. All of them.
He was all I had in those mountains, and he was my worst enemy! Didn't talk to friends or family either just his abusive cult like family who I wouldn't talk to them either. It's just living with a gaslighting devil. He had max control. Nowhere to go. I didn't have a car. I was trapped there.
like a horror movie
this past weekend y husband/narc and he punched me, slapped me, threw my clothes all over, told me I was delusional and he punched me in the face. I told him today that I will never go back to his house I am done with him he went real quiet looked good on him I totally sick of this life now.
OMG I’ve not been wrong! For 8 years I lived with a monster. A month ago he wrote me and said, “I’ve ruined you for anyone else haven’t I?” He is proud of what he has done to me! He’s 56 and has the mentality of an 18 year old boy! He hangs with a young guy a lot too. 30 years younger! He slept with his ex’s daughter and was proud of it!! The trauma bond I have is unreal. I’ve never felt this out of control of myself. Like someone else took me over and I keep setting myself up for this over and over. I’ve seen the devil in him literally his eyes were demonic. It scared me, yet I let it go and the horrible things he said and did. I feel like I can’t break free from this grip. He has ruined me. I’ve wanted to die more than I’ve wanted to live. He talks about everybody and makes them look bad so I know he’s doing it to me too. I keep getting guys who emotionally abuse me and take full advantage of me. A part of me started feeling like I deserved it for something I did in the past or in a past life maybe. I don’t deserve as much as has been put on me. He never complimented me, but drooled over and commented about other women. I’ve caught him talking to other women. I don’t think he’s been sleeping with them since he is almost completely impotent from the alcohol and heavy marijuana smoking he does daily all day long. He’s always the victim and I’m always falling short somewhere. He never apologizes, or if he does it is only because I say he needs to. He doesn’t mean it. I stayed on eggshells, starved myself to look good, kept the house spotless and did everything. All he did was work and then complain about how tired he was and sit on his ass all night and the weekends while I was busting mine. I’m disabled (half physical and half mental ), and he didn’t care if I was killing myself keeping up. He would tell me to get help when I would breakdown. I’m always the problem. I’ve apologized to him for his bad behavior a dozen times. I’m more messed up than I thought I was 😭 I’m a fixer and an empath and all I’m doing is keeping him charged. Feeding his ego. Luckily everyone sees through him and he has lost it in front of all of them before. They feared for me and begged me to leave. I’ve been gone almost 6 months now. 4 months no contact then I had to get my belongings or he was throwing them out. He smoked me out to act like he cared about my well being so he said. He played a game again. I did not move back in with him thank god. Then he has done it to me again. I told him he hurt my feelings with a comment and he cut me off. This time I let loose and said everything I’ve been holding back. I blocked him when he kept trying to call me. His final text he told me t, “go f-ck yourself!” How are these people so heartless and selfish? I wasn’t raised like this. I don’t have many people left in my life. They’ve either died or moved on. I just keep losing no matter what. My soul is so tired and so am I.
Praying for you 🙏🙏🙏
@@ninath13 thank you and prayers to you as well! 🙏🏼
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This guy COMPLETLY gets it. The fake nice part is so spot on.
You have created a great video for anybody who questions whether or not they're the narcissistic individual 😊
They don't question if they are.... they say from "oh, you think i am a narcissist" -"how dare you..." (just from when watching this video to learn was...from behind "what do you think you're doing" not allowed on phone unless what they allow - them flipping out cause they think you're contacting anyone including relitives/siblings) (then it's flipped on you "you're a narcissist" & smear campaign...) - "i don't have to take test to see if I'm narcissist, there's nothing wrong with me" (- smear campaign - abuse....)
- them abusing - trying to get rid of- threatening to hurt - kill your service dog.....
Danish, i love all of your videos, but this one, this ONE by far has hit home. I'm so grateful to God, that I'm no longer living in oppression with that demonic creature 🙏 🙌 ❤
Wow Danish!!!!! Your analysis is so spot on that it's amazing. You are like a guardian angel for narcissistic abuse victims.
Playing this around the narc and saying nothing. Oh, wait. I stay away from them now and moved on to a new me. They wound loose their mind if they heard this though. This is a very clever method of doing the video. Makes me feel like someone is defending me for a change, thanks Danish. Very clever. You remind me it's not me, it's them. Thanks again.
My gut agrees with you. Thank you.
Minions of Satan. Thank you. ✨💖✨
True pain in life causes growth in character and self-development. It is absolutely their choice and they just got used to lying now their heart is sick. And that’s why when people cut them off now they want to hoover like a mutant brat. They are spiritually sick individuals that are unhealthy to keep around the block. I say block.
Pure and perfect description.after 28 years of imprisonment I,m free now.l can sleep peacefully,can eat, hear music,smile.........I wonder,why I continued with that devil during these years?
Thanks very much for this. At times when they want to truly scare and intimidate it feels like you are talking to the Devil himself. It is utterly terrifying and so frustrating that if you try to tell anyone they think you must be weak, when far from it, you are insanely strong. They are so cold they are like a reptile. My narc is frightened of snakes, I think because of seeing himself. I think there is part of him that is frightened of the Devil inside him. It is like he is demon possessed.
Danish you are right about this. Thanks for letting us know these important views, others will not say what you have said
The narcissistic ex is probably as far extreme as a narcissist gets. One thing he does is constantly accuse people of things that he does. I have never been so disturbed by someone else's behavior before. He would accuse me of being evil. I remember one time being so disturbed by his behavior, and the air was so thick, and my skin was burning and stinging. The energy was so strong and felt like it was transferring to me. I have never had to have a talk with anyone else about basic morality.
My sibling 100% I’m on no contact now I’m in my late 50’S and I’ve had this shit for years
This is a GREAT Video!!! Made feel sane!!! & I left 26 yrs ago. Still second guess myself too much. & Never re married. I can't trust. But I did build a beautiful life with God's help. 🙏🏻💛
Oh my God...!!!
This has happened to me. And luckily I have survived all of it...
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I don't believe they have any pain or depth or else they would have empathy. They are completely shallow and self-serving. If they start to feel pain, they just slip into attack mode, and it all goes away. It is kind of beyond evil in that there is no intent to harm, there is just utter indifference to the harm they cause. They have demonic self-righteousness and justification.
@@jbrown2908 Usually if you want to hurt someone, it is because you are hurt or feeling pain. I kind of think they are beyond any normal feelings. They like for people to think they are suffering or in pain, but that is just to hide how awful they really are. I think they do it for fun and pleasure, kind of like thrills. It is a power trip and a high from their otherwise boring empty existence. Attributing pain and spiteful feelings to them gives them too much credit. Usually, their victims have done nothing but be good to them and bent over backwards not to offend them.
I think they have a lot of intent. They are very crafty, at least some.
@@CodyCole80 They love evil or ignore what is good. They think they are above it. They think laws and rules don't apply to them. That is not a sign of abuse, it is a sign of evil.
Thank you so much for this video. I shared it with my grown children because i put up with my ex covert Narcissistic ex that did this to me. I want them to understand his evilness towards me. You are 100% right on. Left him 5 years this coming October
Yes they fake being super nice. And people get conned again and again.
kick them out of your home and life when you Notice they are Evil
Thank you so much for this information!!! You confronting a narc head on for what they are is powerful in this video! 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
I love it when you take this perspective. It just helps give a different angle for the abused to understand the multidimensional aspects of this type of abuse. Thank you
Thank you so much,Danish! I am going through this nightmare for a long time and I didn't know how to make sense of all the madness I am experiencing. But now thanks to you I realize what I am dealing with and slowly I start to wake up and give up the hope that this person will change. Every word you say resonates with me and reflects exactly what I am going through. Thank you and may God bless you! You do make a difference with your work!
Wonderful video Danish. Thanks a lot for spreading awareness. God bless you.