Ooh yeah come to think of it, it's such a huge red flag. If he did the same to me, I definitely wouldn't have broken up with him because I loved him for real. Thanks boo🥰🥰
That's sincere and painful,i wish he can give you another chance.Please if it doesn't happen ,move on with that gratitude , and God will give you the desires of your heart.
As it is I'm not waiting for any second chance so let's just believe that God will send someone who will perfectly align with my dreams and I with theirs. Thanks so much for your feedback 🥰🥰
I love your hair, it’s so beautiful i admired it throughout the video. That’s not to say i wasn’t paying attention to the story because for one you’re an amazing storyteller! I did, i believe you were on the right and you shouldn’t be blaming yourself whatsoever. Why you blaming yourself? Ati you couldn’t have gone? Haiya! Haiya, women we still need to learn (speaking for us women folk all) learn to stop doubting ourselves and learn to put ourselves first no matter what. Surely what you did was so logical and yet he didn’t want you to do it😂😂😂😂😂 as who if i may ask? Like seriously? Aiii being understanding/mature/grown up is a major component of a relationship! Being that this person knew your story, this was money (your mothers) you’re an adult with children, your desire to travel! Ngai when we love someone we like to see them happy doing something they love or have always liked to do. He should have understood. Mimi i believe you dodged a bullet. True love is not selfish in any way. We support our lovers, without feeling the need to control them. Love can’t also be bought, it’s so expensive that one can’t afford it with money.
Aawww thanks so much dear for compliments. I am honoured. I still feel I did the right thing. Unfortunately it wasn't so for him and so I had very little I could have done to salvage the situation. Yes I agree with you. I tried to remind him of when he got his visa to US, how happy and excited he was. I was in that situation as well and I had truly worked hard for it. To even imagine I was willing to be back after a few months just for his sake🤦. This life indeed no balance. My heart is content. God knows best. Thanks so much for encouragement. God bless you abundantly 🙏🏾💓💓
Mine is very simple am very happy that you choose yourself and your dream....king bae I know you here give this beautiful soul another chance....love is a beautiful thing when loved right.
It’s not just boarding a plane. The day you get a visa to travel majuu, hulali. I think you did the right thing. He should have come through Turkey at least to get to meet and chat and figure out where you stood. By the way, I don’t know if you’ll remember I had congratulated you for landing king bae, and even asked you to hook me up with a good person. I told you I was in my 50s going 40s. You laughed and told me to find that person myself. I landed a Queen in Kenya in May 2022 and she’s about to join me USA. Wako ako kwa njia. You’re an open soul and you’ll land a soulmate.
Woow congratulations. I don't recall that but all I can say is that I am really happy for you. I don't do hook ups and probably that was the reason I said what I said. Furthermore even now if someone told me to hook them up I have no idea because I don't have friends and the few I know are all married. Congratulations and wish you both a beautiful union. Yes I believe I will have in God's time. King Bae hakuwa wangu. Angelikuwa wangu hangeniacha. Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 once again
Wooooi mapenzi aki inaweza fanya mtu achizi...but it is well ..he was a good man and you loved him.. and he loved your kids and May God bless him... I pray that you guys get back maybe someday
Mapenzi wewe 🤣🤣🤣 this life no balance at all. Ooh yes may God bless him abundantly. He deserves it. Indeed I can say I was privileged to have a real man in my life. I pray and wish him well. Thanks so much for well wishes 🥰🥰🥰
Don't give up on love, just train your heart not to be so fragile. If it doesn't happen move, your person is somewhere and will not break your heart. Be strong, we move 💪🏾🥰🥰
Rose I like /love you and follow your stories.let me tell you ...king bae was God sent to your so that you may forget your past.God is opening a new phase in your life and children and be happy there after.peace.
Thanks so much my dearie and blessings for the support. Indeed I believe God has great plans for the girls and I. I pray for King Bae too to get his heart desires🥰
This is a true definition...of.......when the deal is too GOOD, THINK TWICE... . AM SORRY THINGS TURNED OUT THIS WAY .. UNFORTUNATELY STILL HAPPY FOR YOU... ALL THE BEST..
Yes there are online witches it depends what your depth of knowing God is if you are just religious but not knowing God for real or living a righteous and holy life because God requires holiness
True God is Holy and requires us to be righteous. I know that and I have not mixed myself with worldly pleasures. I'm assured of meeting him when my time comes to leave this world🙏🏾
It is well, my dear. If it was meant to be that love will come back to you. It is good that you experienced love and learned how to be loved correctly. Some of us here only get to know such love through videos or movies. 😂
Ooh yes I experienced it first hand. King Bae was a real lover. I kept imagining how it will be when we finally met in person. For that I will forever be grateful. My dear, your time will surely come. I pray you also experience it better than the movies and it will last forever. All the best boo 🥰🥰
Weee Rose here i am can't believe what you are telling us , n the way i congratulated you for him, i even thought he was the one invited you there, and staying in his house you remember where you were cooking turkey tea🙆 waah do not blame your self if he was meant for you he will indeed come back, if not God will bring the right one at the right time
Hiding information in any relationship leads to doom. You must admit you did wrong. Place yourself objectively in his shoes. Do unto others what you will want done to you. Sincerity and transparency are paramount.....
@@rosewilliamskenya2478the guy was probably concerned about how many other secrets you will be keeping from him going in to the future. He probably has been heartbroken before for him to run at first sign of red flag
There is nothing wrong with being single but the key to this is being single and whole emotionally 8n every area of your life look at what you did wrong in thar relationship and learn from it pray and ask God to heal you from inside out
Yass there's definitely nothing wrong with being single. It's better than being in a toxic relationship. This however was not toxic and so being in a good relationship is also better than being single. God knows best and whoever He has destined for me will surely find me🙏🏾
So sorry mama bear venye i was excited for you anyway it reminded me of a guy that we used to talk in 2020 and he disappeared my goodness the conversation aah he was so amazing in as much as he never spent on me he changed my life in so many ways he lived in UK and i wish i can meet him and just say hi aah i miss him and i tried looking for him in so many men but woii i blundered i was too kisirani akachoka namimi 😢,.he disappeared yani karibu niende UK nimtafute i can give anything tu kumuona anywhu we move,,the only mistake you did nikukosa kumwambia your future plans but the rest you were okay following your dreams,,you will find love sooner than you think sending you hugs..
Woiiii atleast you have an idea where I am coming from. Anyways I believe whatever is meant to be must be, so if you find you broke up without any solid reason it wasn't meant to be and we moved. I believe our men are still out there and in God's appointed time, He will make everything beautiful. Thanks so much for your comment. Blessings 🙏🏾💞
You are not alone, I met this guy and the day I landed in kenya to meet him and he never waited for me at the airport as arranged. When I called he was still sleeping somewhere in kiambu and that is how I took taxify to my village and the tea was still on the fire.
Woiiii that's really sad. Don't mind him. He was not what he pretended to be and was scared you would find out after meeting him. Good riddance. I pray you find someone who deserves you 💕💕
all along i thought you where having a good time with him in Turkey thats what i assumed. It will be well Rose you cannot keep crying forever. Sometimes some people come into your life for a purpose and maybe his purpose was to rekindle your heart to love again. To take away the pain you had gone through.
Wueh, noo he never stepped his feet there. I was alone and hustling. Yeah we are not crying forever, we dust ourselves and keep walking like Johny walker. Thanks so much. I appreciate your thoughts 🥰🥰🥰
Healing should be your the main priority. To do this, you have to accept what once was is no longer present and work through those emotions. Closure is not an option, sometimes, things are better off left unsaid-you might find that ignorance is bliss. It can become a crutch that keeps you from working on your healing. Ask yourself, If the " dumper" suddenly passed away, for instance, does this mean you will you never get closure?
It makes a lot of sense dear. You know what, I didn't get closure with my ex husband. That didn't stop me from moving on. Life has to move on. I told him so because that would make me really happy. That doesn't mean if he doesn't that I will stick at the same place waiting for him, no way, life goes on. As for passing away may God forbid. He must live long to testify of God's goodness. Thanks so much for your concerns. I really appreciate your time and effort. God bless you abundantly 🙏🏾💓
Mama Bear 😢😂😢😂 ,I had congratulated Yu for meeting king bae,,usilie saaana,, just kidogo, it's ok,, Sasa here is my biggest hug for choosing to go to turkey,, mwaaaa Yu obeyed your Mom ❤,, no matter what happens jitume Kwanza...a real love 💕 is not only understanding but true love waits, King bae could have jeopardized your feelings in due course,angekuudhi vizurii sana huyo some years ahead.hadi your mom angelia vizurii kabisa,Yu guys had gist, time was on your side but somehow the tides hit differently,, Yes Kuna a Man who can spend on you vizurii kabisa na no strings attached,na anakuinua to another level of life,, it's a gift for ladies,,😊 but it wasn't going to end up in marriage because the past somehow made it difficult for him,, dating in our 40s n 50s is very delicate coz career Wise tuko climax,,huwezi ignore,,I myself am heading in my mid 40s soon and I'm hustling too well to let go and find love,, Mama Bear jipee time for the tides to calm down,,soko tutatoka tu one fine day,,,,na sparks shall last forever,and Yu did well to travel to another country, keep being the real you,, kisses 😘💕 to Yu Rose
Heey Evelyn woow I appreciate the thought and time taken to write such a lengthy comment. It's really an honour to take your time. I really appreciate you. The fact also that you understood me very well makes me love you all the more❤❤. Indeed our time is coming. Age doesn't matter, what matters is finding the right person who understands you and aligns perfectly with your goals. I'm in my mid 30's and so I believe I still have time, you are in your mid 40's and so life just began. Let's keep pushing. Whatever God has in store for us shall not go to someone else. Blessings darling 💞💞💓
I wish you were open and tell him about travel plans ,anyway we move on regardless, I dated like you hiyo online and we are happily married now ,i have zero regrets hao watu wanajua kupenda.
Weh.....when you hold that kind of information.....the other significant person one would wonder what else are you withholding.... hopefully he comes around....I feel for him honestly
Fortunately I was not withholding anything else. Unfortunately it's hard to convince someone that. Anyways whatever happened happened and life must continue 😊
Weeeh mama bea you have gone through alot but anyway just Thank the lord for everything maybe he wasn't meant for you for God knows the end of every matter from the beginning. The bible says everything works together for good to those who loves the lord.Pole Rossy
I thank God my online bae accepted to meet me, and later married me. There are amazing people in this world. He healed a broken heart and stood by my side. I hope King bae will hear your plea n meet you mama
Huyo alinyakuliwa na mwingine ambaye hakuwa na mipango mob either that ama alikuwa na familia pahali na alitaka mwk who knows 🤷♀️ Just follow your dreams your real king bae atakupata tu kwenye hustle. At least you ticked bucket list ya kutoka 254 😂
Familia ingine issa no 😂😂😂. There's no way vile tulikuwa tunashinda kwa Simu, kwani wengine aliongea nao lini 😅. That's a no. Tuseme kunyakuliwa alternatively he gave up on women and categorised us as liars which is really sad 😢
My dear I have been uploading though not so often. Sometimes when you stay long without uploading, RUclips stops recommending your videos and that's what happened. You can watch them on the channel. I have done several videos. Welcome back to the channel. Feel at home
Ooh yes I did and I don't take it for granted. I will forever be grateful to God. I pray you also experience it as well and may it be permanent in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏾🥰
From my bank this man was in contact with other women and from my chama pain of falling out of love is like mourning a death and you have to go through all the mourning stages and for now you are in denial, you still have to go through other stages in no particular order....denial. anger. bargaining. depression. acceptance.
Well I don't want to say whether what you said about him speaking to other women is true or not. Only God knows. As for mourning, I mourned 1 man in my life. I will not allow me to keep mourning. If it doesn't happen we move 💪🏾
I still stand that sikukosa. If he felt offended it's unfortunate. The blessings of God are not followed by sorrows. Angelikuwa wangu hangeondoka. I have released him in good faith 🙏🏾💕
Hi Rose, this is my honest opinion about the whole situation: 1. Long distance relationships are not a walk in the park. I’m speaking from experience 2.If this man loved you so much as you suppose, why didn’t he invite you to visit him even for one week or a month? Is there a possibility that he was involved with another woman/women? 3. You said that you talked about everything and he literally took you and your children as his responsibility; why was it difficult to be honest about traveling to Turkey? As a man who was committed to you, why would he not think that you were double dealing him with another man and that was the reason you didn’t want him to know about the travel and you were alone; you left your children in Kenya 🤔 4. This man relatives are in Kenya and as much as he wanted to meet you, he also had a plan to spend time with his people so asking him to come through Turkey at his expense was selfish on your part 5. Rose, when he told you he was still coming to Kenya in December, the least you could have done is making yourself available by being in Kenya. This is a man who has made immense financial sacrifices for you and your children; you should have made this sacrifice for him 6. It was very insensitive also to say that maybe this man was supporting you because he had a lot of money...how do you think that made him feel? And declare yourself as single even before the man declared your relationship dead; in my view he just needed sometime off to think what happened through Having said that, it would be advisable to go back to the crossroads. Surrendering your life to Jesus will give divine direction to your life. Shalom Rose and all the best
Woow what a lengthy comment. I really appreciate the time and concern put in it. Now there's somewhere I think you didn't understand. I didn't say the man sent us money because he had so much. I said what do you think my mom would have said, probably he did it out of a clean heart because he had it. For me I knew he did it out of love. Hope you get it. My dear I didn't declare myself single. I'm not stupid to keep waiting for someone who has not spoken for the last 3 months. Kwani how will you not speak to someone you once professed love to. Mwenye macho haambiwi tazama. Anyways no one will repair my relationship here. Was just sharing my story and as you can see some people have also gone through same shit and others are learning. I appreciate your concerns though. God bless
I surrendered my life to Christ a long time ago. God is the only reason I live otherwise I would have given up along the way. He will guide me where I need to be in His own time. I leave everything in His able hands 🙏🏾
Rose you did the right thing to follow your dreams, don't feel guilty for spending his money since he gave willingly. It wasn't meant to be and thank God for protection ❤
People here are judging Rosy as if they're angels. I cane to realise that long distance relationships are very hard especially when started as strangers. Plus long calls are always sweet nothings heading nowhere. Theres more to life than relationships. The best thing is to move on n be the best version of oneself. God will bless us with spouses tgat will support our dreams.😊
my opinion on this is that don't blame yourself i feel you made the decision of moving without involving him because there must be something you saw in him, he might have been controlling.
Well I wouldn't say controlling but I was sure he would not be for it. On the other side there is my mother who had supported me since my divorce and always wanted me to be financially independent. I also was very deliberate on being independent so that I don't find myself again in the same shit that I had before. Probably I would have sat back and became a housewife because why work so hard when married to a millionaire, that's something I'm not and will never agree to. Thanks so much for encouragement 🥰🥰🥰
Mama one this I have learnt in this very life is to shut up about good things in my life and also the bad. If someone is asking I normalized lying! 😅 I saw kanyoni of ng'ethe when I shared my personal issues not everything belongs to social media
Heey that's the truth. Not many people are happy for you. They wonder why not them. Anywhos kanyoni wa ng'ethe is not our portion again. We have learnt the hard way. Thanks swee 💞🥰🥰
This relationship would only have worked if you became a housewife.I don't think your dream's would have aligned. God brought him into your life for that season.Mr king bae the right is coming your way ❤❤❤❤❤
Woiii housewife and Mama Bear cannot be in 1 sentence. I learnt the hard way and I'm very vocal about women empowerment. No woman should sit down and wait for the husband to provide 100%. Anything can happen anytime 😊🥰
but to be honest u were wrong too, always if u love someone just involve them in your plans fully, he felt betrayed.but God is faithful relax He will do things Hes own way
love is painful when it just fizzles out without warning or even when you see its coming to an end. Maybe he has trust issues from his past so your making travelling plans without letting him know and the time difference not being able to talk to him. He might have assumed you are with someone in Turkey. If it was meant to be you will be together. I hope the cubs are happy that mama bear is home.
That's the truth. He might have thought so of which it's sad, he thought wrong. If there's something I don't do and hope to never do you s double dealing. And yes the cubs were over the moon and still are. I can't get enough of them💞💞💞. Seems like I was away forever
A good partner will want you to achieve your goals.kutaka kutravel sijaona ikiwa reason enough ya kubreak up.maybe that you didnt tell him though if he wanted to have a conversation about it, he would have. Dont blame yourself But everything that happens happens for the good for those who love God.maybe this situation was a sign. You will bounce back emotionally.you will💯
That's it. I think you hit the nail on it's head. This is someone who has travelled the whole world. So he is used to it. On the other hand I had not left Kenya my whole life. It's like telling someone who has never left the village that city life is basic yet they really want to experience it 😊🥰🥰
Having traveled to a few countries.. I feel you. You had every right to travel and with the fact that he was coming in December you gave him even the option of meeting you there but he refused for me that was sooooo mean if him. Travel is an opener it's great he should have supported you. And especially now that you you were coming back. Gurllllll he lacks maturity and for me it's a red flag. But if he can be a man he owes you a meet up. Lynn ngungi tafadhali do something or metha ya kagoni 💯
I agree with you, immaturity of highest order and i believe he was love bombing her & children as well (unfortunately even children are not spared in some kind of games) because who on earth spends huge money like that? Grand gestures like that? Benjamin Zulu has a good explanation on this. To go from grand gestures to nothing is abnormal and a big red flag. Genuine people never behave like so.
Indeed I feel the same. He was mean to me because I explained how much I had always wanted to travel. I even suggested we meet up after 4 months, tour Turkey together or even just come together immediately to Kenya. Alternatively he flies straight to Kenya and I do the same, but that was not to happen. It's rather unfortunate but it is what it is. We keep moving 💪🏾🙏🏾💕. Thanks so much for your kind words. Blessings
I feel like the man angekupeleka anywhere you ever wished to travel to...but still haingekuwa poa kuangusha your mum....yani ni kiundu weeee utangimenya uria giikaire😂
I dated a man for five years we were talking every day ,love was in the air we connected so well ,he was a friend ,confidant, and one day everything stopped. I know how it feels i should have known it was going nowhere , sorry for that. Take a day at atime.
Indeed this life no balance. 5 years is quite long but it is what it is.That was a real joker. Never allow someone waste your time for over 1 year without plans of meeting. Let's keep striving. Mbele iko sawa na Mungu.
Thanks so much for the compliment. Keep loving, liking and always commenting. I really appreciate your feedbacks here on the comments section. Probably it's the truth. We both deserve better. Him included, probably I was not the best for him💓💓
That man was really genuine with you from the word go, i feel like he felt some kind of lack of loyalty from you when you never mentioned your plan for a whole year. Im not blaming you sweetheart but sometimes its good to tell the truth even when it feels soo hard. Maybe ungemshow from kitambo mngefind a very good solution. Im soo sorry though. I wish you guys can have some time to talk and solve things,,🥺🥺
My dear, thanks so much for your comment and I appreciate your opinion. Unfortunately whatever happened happened. You don't share things when you are not sure atleast that's me. I shared only when my visa had been granted, visa issues are usually very tricky. The more you tell people the less likely you will get it. Remember he didn't want me to go that means he would be praying against my will. Anyways dear, it is well with my soul. My man will find me while I least expect. Love and hugs 🤗🥰🥰
Just be upfront from the get go,simply put,your future goals dont align.Sorry to say he has probably moved on coz am sure he was exploring more options since his intention was to come back and settle.
I know right 😭. Most likely he has and I'm happy for him. He deserves it. He was and I believe still is a great man. Whoever has him is surely blessed 🙏🏾
Your only mistake was not being 100% transparent, I can imagine how bad he felt , maybe he thought there are so many other things that you were not telling him about. All in all, it was good while it lasted. Embark on a healing journey, it shall be well.
Indeed it shall be well. Well, I still believe that, there were so many great things that he could have considered and overlook just this 1 thing of not opening up upfront, which I eventually did. Let's just say, when it's not meant to be, there's nothing you can do to make it happen. Thanks so much for your kind words💓
1. You didn't owe anyone an explanation. That was and still is your personal life. 2. It didn't work. Mistakes were made what lessons can you take? 3. Next one utajiwekea alafu share when its done. Not everyone out here is wishing you well! All the best on the next.
True I didn't owe anyone any explanation. I put out info willingly to teach others as well or to entertain kama ni kitu entertaining. Kabsaaa next time mpaka pingu zifungwe hakuna kuleta mūcene. Thanks so much for well wishes💞
Wueeh, He was there for that particular season in your life. Human is to err, forgiveness is divine. Forgive yourself too... Your craving to leave the country and explore was not a bad idea at all. It was wise to get a life of your own like income hivi basing on your previous story. A rebound was possible. What if we also say you did your part at least, in your heart how do feel ? If you did your best rest mama ... Finding a good woman is also not easy, he will look back some day ... Every relationship is tested, If it didn't stand the test... Then rest , the worst would still have happened. At least he raised standards for you. We keep learning. Also be careful of love bombing. True love is sacrificial . Yani it also looks at the needs of others. Surely wewe kupanda ndege kwenda Turkey na yeye hata ako America iko shida? Maybe its a red flag. Surely kwani mngeishi conflict free? Love is forgivimg
Thanks so much darling. I feel you understand me very well. Yes every relationship is tested and if it didn't stand the test something else would still have broken it. My heart is at peace. God knows best. Cheers really appreciate your kind words 🥰🥰🥰
Eeei yawa. You dated a whole year na hukumwambia ata unapanga kwenda mahali actively si ati its just a wish. Anyway. You are an amazing person. The one who's meant for you atakuja.🥰 You did well to travel. You have a right to yiur own desires... your only mistake was not sharing with him.
Wueh it's hard to explain because at some point I had given up on ever travelling. Moving to a new country sometimes can be tricky but wueh it is what it is. Thanks for well wishes. I believe mine will find me some day 💕
You did the right thing to prioritize your happiness! Thank yourself for loving you.❤❤ Am So sorry for the loss😢 dear I would also recommend you to see a therapist (atakusaidia kuona vitu wewe huoni.) Your heart need some rest. Our pain is never a waste for those who are in Christ❤ don't forget that. God is up to something great❤. Trust me! You're coming back with a testimony 🙏
I think he was hurt when you failed to mention the fact that you are preparing to travel as you use to talk to you about anything. This could be a red flag to some people. Forgive yourself and move on. It was not meant to be and I hope you learned going forward.
New subscriber coming all the way from Tuko❤. You're strong woman
Aawww welcome aboard. Feel at home🥰
Don't blame yourself girl, work towards healing and the best is yet to come your way.
Ooh yes I tap on the best is yet to come . Thanks swee 🥰🥰
Love can really hurt...i fear falling in love....thanks rose for being positive....
You can give it a shot. It doesn't mean juu yangu imefail yako itafail also 💓💓
Just continue to be positive. You are a great person. Keep your love and faith in God. You will be fine. 😊
Thanks so much dearie for the positive feedback. Blessings 🙏🏾💞
Hi Rosy. Please update us about King Bae.
It's overrrrrr. I said he dumped me and life moved on 😜🤣🤣
Mama bear, i have loved this episode. It's like a movie.
Kama vindeo kama ndrama 🤣🤣🤣. Thanks so much. Much love 😘😘
Rose l feel you.l think you did well.If he loved you he could have listened to you.One of the red flags despite his positive things
Ooh yeah come to think of it, it's such a huge red flag. If he did the same to me, I definitely wouldn't have broken up with him because I loved him for real. Thanks boo🥰🥰
That's sincere and painful,i wish he can give you another chance.Please if it doesn't happen ,move on with that gratitude , and God will give you the desires of your heart.
As it is I'm not waiting for any second chance so let's just believe that God will send someone who will perfectly align with my dreams and I with theirs. Thanks so much for your feedback 🥰🥰
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 Amen 🙏,may God give the desires of your heart.
Yes Rose and that's where its said .do not let the right hand knows what the left hand is doing.
King Bae wa mama bear please meet her. A one on one closure would be great
Yassss I would really appreciate. Infact that would make me so happy. It is his choice though 😊💖
I love your hair, it’s so beautiful i admired it throughout the video. That’s not to say i wasn’t paying attention to the story because for one you’re an amazing storyteller! I did, i believe you were on the right and you shouldn’t be blaming yourself whatsoever.
Why you blaming yourself? Ati you couldn’t have gone? Haiya! Haiya, women we still need to learn (speaking for us women folk all) learn to stop doubting ourselves and learn to put ourselves first no matter what. Surely what you did was so logical and yet he didn’t want you to do it😂😂😂😂😂 as who if i may ask? Like seriously? Aiii being understanding/mature/grown up is a major component of a relationship! Being that this person knew your story, this was money (your mothers) you’re an adult with children, your desire to travel! Ngai when we love someone we like to see them happy doing something they love or have always liked to do. He should have understood. Mimi i believe you dodged a bullet.
True love is not selfish in any way. We support our lovers, without feeling the need to control them. Love can’t also be bought, it’s so expensive that one can’t afford it with money.
Aawww thanks so much dear for compliments. I am honoured. I still feel I did the right thing. Unfortunately it wasn't so for him and so I had very little I could have done to salvage the situation. Yes I agree with you. I tried to remind him of when he got his visa to US, how happy and excited he was. I was in that situation as well and I had truly worked hard for it. To even imagine I was willing to be back after a few months just for his sake🤦. This life indeed no balance. My heart is content. God knows best. Thanks so much for encouragement. God bless you abundantly 🙏🏾💓💓
Watched your story on tuko talks. You are a strong woman.
Thanks so much
I don't know why am laughing....you are just a gem....nakupenda tu bure
❤❤ I love you right back sis. Laughing you are allowed. Here it's a home of happiness
Mine is very simple am very happy that you choose yourself and your dream....king bae I know you here give this beautiful soul another chance....love is a beautiful thing when loved right.
Aaawww I see you wish us well but it is what it is, thanks so much and God bless you immensely 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾
It is well my dear 🌞, the Word of the Lord says,"all things worketh for good for those who love the Lord". Amen
Amen and Amen. I'm a firm believer of that. Thanks so much 🙏🏾🥰
It’s not just boarding a plane. The day you get a visa to travel majuu, hulali. I think you did the right thing. He should have come through Turkey at least to get to meet and chat and figure out where you stood. By the way, I don’t know if you’ll remember I had congratulated you for landing king bae, and even asked you to hook me up with a good person. I told you I was in my 50s going 40s. You laughed and told me to find that person myself. I landed a Queen in Kenya in May 2022 and she’s about to join me USA. Wako ako kwa njia. You’re an open soul and you’ll land a soulmate.
This is beautiful, and congratulations on finding love. I'm looking forward to finding my king Bae
Woow congratulations. I don't recall that but all I can say is that I am really happy for you. I don't do hook ups and probably that was the reason I said what I said. Furthermore even now if someone told me to hook them up I have no idea because I don't have friends and the few I know are all married. Congratulations and wish you both a beautiful union. Yes I believe I will have in God's time. King Bae hakuwa wangu. Angelikuwa wangu hangeniacha. Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 once again
@@wawanjohi You will surely have. No one shall lack a mate
Ata sisi tumefikisha 40yrs tutapata a mate yaani partner?😊
@@njerimartha5240 Imagine mtapata it's never too late. Hata sisi we are not too far from 4th floor and still hopeful. Our God is faithful 🙏🏾😊
Haki rose 🌹 sijui nikwambie nn but God will visit you soon dear sis 😘 hugs 🫂
Thanks so much darling. You really encourage me on your channel. Keep giving us them videos 💓💓
Wooooi mapenzi aki inaweza fanya mtu achizi...but it is well ..he was a good man and you loved him.. and he loved your kids and May God bless him... I pray that you guys get back maybe someday
Mapenzi wewe 🤣🤣🤣 this life no balance at all. Ooh yes may God bless him abundantly. He deserves it. Indeed I can say I was privileged to have a real man in my life. I pray and wish him well. Thanks so much for well wishes 🥰🥰🥰
😭😭😭😭😭😭Vile mapenzi hua inanumiza I always get heartbroken juu ya kupenda Sana... mpaka Nika give up na kupenda haki
Don't give up on love, just train your heart not to be so fragile. If it doesn't happen move, your person is somewhere and will not break your heart. Be strong, we move 💪🏾🥰🥰
I gave up on love coz my weakness is to love too much...
Instead of that nikaanza kujipenda, give myself more time n concentrate with my life✌️✌️🤓
Rose I like /love you and follow your stories.let me tell you ...king bae was God sent to your so that you may forget your past.God is opening a new phase in your life and children and be happy there after.peace.
Thanks so much my dearie and blessings for the support. Indeed I believe God has great plans for the girls and I. I pray for King Bae too to get his heart desires🥰
This is a true definition...of.......when the deal is too GOOD, THINK TWICE...
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AM SORRY THINGS TURNED OUT THIS WAY .. UNFORTUNATELY
STILL HAPPY FOR YOU...
ALL THE BEST..
Thanks so much. God bless 🙏🏾
I feel for you, I remember that vedeo vividly and how you were very happy, take heart
I know right, I was over the moon kule cloud 🌨️☁️ 9. Wueh this life no balance at all. I'm good though thanks so much 😊
Yes there are online witches it depends what your depth of knowing God is if you are just religious but not knowing God for real or living a righteous and holy life because God requires holiness
True God is Holy and requires us to be righteous. I know that and I have not mixed myself with worldly pleasures. I'm assured of meeting him when my time comes to leave this world🙏🏾
It is well, my dear. If it was meant to be that love will come back to you. It is good that you experienced love and learned how to be loved correctly. Some of us here only get to know such love through videos or movies. 😂
Ooh yes I experienced it first hand. King Bae was a real lover. I kept imagining how it will be when we finally met in person. For that I will forever be grateful. My dear, your time will surely come. I pray you also experience it better than the movies and it will last forever. All the best boo 🥰🥰
Weee Rose here i am can't believe what you are telling us , n the way i congratulated you for him, i even thought he was the one invited you there, and staying in his house you remember where you were cooking turkey tea🙆 waah do not blame your self if he was meant for you he will indeed come back, if not God will bring the right one at the right time
Thanks so much darling. God bless you big time 🙏🏾❤️❤️
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 aki just squeeze your time and come back to vlogging bona ulituacha hanging dear
@@joyjoy140 it's a promise. I definitely will soon 🙏🏾
Hiding information in any relationship leads to doom. You must admit you did wrong. Place yourself objectively in his shoes. Do unto others what you will want done to you. Sincerity and transparency are paramount.....
Probably I would have felt bad even if he did that to me. Not a reason to break up though with someone I claimed to love
@@rosewilliamskenya2478the guy was probably concerned about how many other secrets you will be keeping from him going in to the future. He probably has been heartbroken before for him to run at first sign of red flag
There is nothing wrong with being single but the key to this is being single and whole emotionally 8n every area of your life look at what you did wrong in thar relationship and learn from it pray and ask God to heal you from inside out
Yass there's definitely nothing wrong with being single. It's better than being in a toxic relationship. This however was not toxic and so being in a good relationship is also better than being single. God knows best and whoever He has destined for me will surely find me🙏🏾
@rosewilliamskenya2478 Amen so shall it be in Jesus Name
So sorry mama bear venye i was excited for you anyway it reminded me of a guy that we used to talk in 2020 and he disappeared my goodness the conversation aah he was so amazing in as much as he never spent on me he changed my life in so many ways he lived in UK and i wish i can meet him and just say hi aah i miss him and i tried looking for him in so many men but woii i blundered i was too kisirani akachoka namimi 😢,.he disappeared yani karibu niende UK nimtafute i can give anything tu kumuona anywhu we move,,the only mistake you did nikukosa kumwambia your future plans but the rest you were okay following your dreams,,you will find love sooner than you think sending you hugs..
Woiiii atleast you have an idea where I am coming from. Anyways I believe whatever is meant to be must be, so if you find you broke up without any solid reason it wasn't meant to be and we moved. I believe our men are still out there and in God's appointed time, He will make everything beautiful. Thanks so much for your comment. Blessings 🙏🏾💞
I think you made the best decision. If he was meant for you, he will still come back.
Indeed whoever, whatever belongs to me shall not go away 🙏🏾☺️
Haki nimelia😭😭 it's so painful haki I pray that God make he's heart easy to forgive and to be forgiven and come back to you
Don't cry swity it is well with my soul. God knows why and His will shall prevail 🙏🏾. Thanks so much 🥰
You are not alone, I met this guy and the day I landed in kenya to meet him and he never waited for me at the airport as arranged. When I called he was still sleeping somewhere in kiambu and that is how I took taxify to my village and the tea was still on the fire.
Woiiii that's really sad. Don't mind him. He was not what he pretended to be and was scared you would find out after meeting him. Good riddance. I pray you find someone who deserves you 💕💕
Pole. Wanaume ni wengi . Mwingine atakuja tu.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wanaume wueh. This life no balance
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 hukuweka number . Sisi tuko Sweden 🇸🇪 hapa pia tunatafuta wake. How can I reach you?
all along i thought you where having a good time with him in Turkey thats what i assumed. It will be well Rose you cannot keep crying forever. Sometimes some people come into your life for a purpose and maybe his purpose was to rekindle your heart to love again. To take away the pain you had gone through.
Wueh, noo he never stepped his feet there. I was alone and hustling. Yeah we are not crying forever, we dust ourselves and keep walking like Johny walker. Thanks so much. I appreciate your thoughts 🥰🥰🥰
Be patient. Why rush!
Not rushing into anything. Just sharing my story
Healing should be your the main priority. To do this, you have to accept what once was is no longer present and work through those emotions.
Closure is not an option, sometimes, things are better off left unsaid-you might find that ignorance is bliss.
It can become a crutch that keeps you from working on your healing.
Ask yourself, If the " dumper" suddenly passed away, for instance, does this mean you will you never get closure?
It makes a lot of sense dear. You know what, I didn't get closure with my ex husband. That didn't stop me from moving on. Life has to move on. I told him so because that would make me really happy. That doesn't mean if he doesn't that I will stick at the same place waiting for him, no way, life goes on. As for passing away may God forbid. He must live long to testify of God's goodness. Thanks so much for your concerns. I really appreciate your time and effort. God bless you abundantly 🙏🏾💓
Mama Bear 😢😂😢😂 ,I had congratulated Yu for meeting king bae,,usilie saaana,, just kidogo, it's ok,, Sasa here is my biggest hug for choosing to go to turkey,, mwaaaa Yu obeyed your Mom ❤,, no matter what happens jitume Kwanza...a real love 💕 is not only understanding but true love waits, King bae could have jeopardized your feelings in due course,angekuudhi vizurii sana huyo some years ahead.hadi your mom angelia vizurii kabisa,Yu guys had gist, time was on your side but somehow the tides hit differently,, Yes Kuna a Man who can spend on you vizurii kabisa na no strings attached,na anakuinua to another level of life,, it's a gift for ladies,,😊 but it wasn't going to end up in marriage because the past somehow made it difficult for him,, dating in our 40s n 50s is very delicate coz career Wise tuko climax,,huwezi ignore,,I myself am heading in my mid 40s soon and I'm hustling too well to let go and find love,, Mama Bear jipee time for the tides to calm down,,soko tutatoka tu one fine day,,,,na sparks shall last forever,and Yu did well to travel to another country, keep being the real you,, kisses 😘💕 to Yu Rose
Heey Evelyn woow I appreciate the thought and time taken to write such a lengthy comment. It's really an honour to take your time. I really appreciate you. The fact also that you understood me very well makes me love you all the more❤❤. Indeed our time is coming. Age doesn't matter, what matters is finding the right person who understands you and aligns perfectly with your goals. I'm in my mid 30's and so I believe I still have time, you are in your mid 40's and so life just began. Let's keep pushing. Whatever God has in store for us shall not go to someone else. Blessings darling 💞💞💓
I wish you were open and tell him about travel plans ,anyway we move on regardless,
I dated like you hiyo online and we are happily married now ,i have zero regrets hao watu wanajua kupenda.
Aawww congratulations. May your marriage last forever. You deserve it 💖
I believe Kuna watu jealousy ya nikama uchawi. I don't tell people what am planning..I just surprise them.
Swthrt especially to me your very strong ,I know you know y
Thanks so much dearie 🥰🥰❤️
@Rose
Having gone through a heartache; l decided to take each day at a time.
I date yes, if it doesn't work I just move on.
Yaaani I'm at that stage
I know. Liwalo na liwe. Whatever will be will be. Mungu mbele tunasonga kwa Imani 💖
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 exactly.
Oh noo king bear na vile nilifurahia... Mimi hata nafikilia mko na king Jesus will come
No problem dear. It is well🥰🥰🥰
You should have informed him earlier when you guys started dating.You got him by surprise.Lesson learnt,
Lovely love to see you back😂😂😂
Thanks so much swity. You are most welcome 🤗🥰🥰💞
@rosewilliamskenya2478 how did I miss beginning of live
All of us we have made silly mistakes in our lives. We keep learning and maturing
Indeed man is to error nobody is perfect. We move 💪🏾
Weh.....when you hold that kind of information.....the other significant person one would wonder what else are you withholding.... hopefully he comes around....I feel for him honestly
Fortunately I was not withholding anything else. Unfortunately it's hard to convince someone that. Anyways whatever happened happened and life must continue 😊
Weeeh mama bea you have gone through alot but anyway just Thank the lord for everything maybe he wasn't meant for you for God knows the end of every matter from the beginning. The bible says everything works together for good to those who loves the lord.Pole Rossy
U make me laugh out in the beginning the way you said am singleeeeee 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 because I am 🤣🤣. I don't think want to sugar coat it my dear niko singleeeeee
Biū biū my dear. Kīroto gī thīna. Only the carrier of the dream can understand it❤❤❤
All the best my dear❤
Thanks so much 😊💞
How do u do that nwei😅😅..that was not logical
😨😨 it was very logical to me. Thanks for your opinion though 👍🏾
I thank God my online bae accepted to meet me, and later married me. There are amazing people in this world. He healed a broken heart and stood by my side. I hope King bae will hear your plea n meet you mama
Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. That's amazing. I wish you all the love in this world 💓💓
How do you get this online partners?? Please enlighten us
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 Thanks dear for the best wishes. I appreciate ❤️
Huyo alinyakuliwa na mwingine ambaye hakuwa na mipango mob either that ama alikuwa na familia pahali na alitaka mwk who knows 🤷♀️ Just follow your dreams your real king bae atakupata tu kwenye hustle. At least you ticked bucket list ya kutoka 254 😂
Familia ingine issa no 😂😂😂. There's no way vile tulikuwa tunashinda kwa Simu, kwani wengine aliongea nao lini 😅. That's a no. Tuseme kunyakuliwa alternatively he gave up on women and categorised us as liars which is really sad 😢
I missed rose,u were my inspiration,i followed u for to get strength but all of a sudden i couldn't see any of your videos
My dear I have been uploading though not so often. Sometimes when you stay long without uploading, RUclips stops recommending your videos and that's what happened. You can watch them on the channel. I have done several videos. Welcome back to the channel. Feel at home
If it was meant to be it'll be ......at least you experienced being loved genuinely what I so desire....love wins
Ooh yes I did and I don't take it for granted. I will forever be grateful to God. I pray you also experience it as well and may it be permanent in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏾🥰
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 ....thankyou ,when the time is right God will do it for me,I'm patiently waiting for God to connect me to my Boaz
From my bank this man was in contact with other women and from my chama pain of falling out of love is like mourning a death and you have to go through all the mourning stages and for now you are in denial, you still have to go through other stages in no particular order....denial.
anger.
bargaining.
depression.
acceptance.
Well I don't want to say whether what you said about him speaking to other women is true or not. Only God knows. As for mourning, I mourned 1 man in my life. I will not allow me to keep mourning. If it doesn't happen we move 💪🏾
pole mama bear, we were so hopeful for you, but dont worry, God will see you through.
Thanks so much swee. Thanks for wishing me well. Unfortunately haikuwork. God knows best🙏🏾💕
Wewe ulimkosea and he felt insecure ,,kwenda turkey,,alikuwa na pesa kukupeleka nje ya nchi..
If he's yours Mungu atamrudisha .
I still stand that sikukosa. If he felt offended it's unfortunate. The blessings of God are not followed by sorrows. Angelikuwa wangu hangeondoka. I have released him in good faith 🙏🏾💕
Hi Rose, this is my honest opinion about the whole situation:
1. Long distance relationships are not a walk in the park. I’m speaking from experience
2.If this man loved you so much as you suppose, why didn’t he invite you to visit him even for one week or a month? Is there a possibility that he was involved with another woman/women?
3. You said that you talked about everything and he literally took you and your children as his responsibility; why was it difficult to be honest about traveling to Turkey? As a man who was committed to you, why would he not think that you were double dealing him with another man and that was the reason you didn’t want him to know about the travel and you were alone; you left your children in Kenya 🤔
4. This man relatives are in Kenya and as much as he wanted to meet you, he also had a plan to spend time with his people so asking him to come through Turkey at his expense was selfish on your part
5. Rose, when he told you he was still coming to Kenya in December, the least you could have done is making yourself available by being in Kenya. This is a man who has made immense financial sacrifices for you and your children; you should have made this sacrifice for him
6. It was very insensitive also to say that maybe this man was supporting you because he had a lot of money...how do you think that made him feel? And declare yourself as single even before the man declared your relationship dead; in my view he just needed sometime off to think what happened through
Having said that, it would be advisable to go back to the crossroads. Surrendering your life to Jesus will give divine direction to your life. Shalom Rose and all the best
Woow what a lengthy comment. I really appreciate the time and concern put in it. Now there's somewhere I think you didn't understand. I didn't say the man sent us money because he had so much. I said what do you think my mom would have said, probably he did it out of a clean heart because he had it. For me I knew he did it out of love. Hope you get it. My dear I didn't declare myself single. I'm not stupid to keep waiting for someone who has not spoken for the last 3 months. Kwani how will you not speak to someone you once professed love to. Mwenye macho haambiwi tazama. Anyways no one will repair my relationship here. Was just sharing my story and as you can see some people have also gone through same shit and others are learning. I appreciate your concerns though. God bless
Again I'm very sure he didn't suspect me 1 bit of double dealing just as I didn't to him. That one I can take to the bank
I surrendered my life to Christ a long time ago. God is the only reason I live otherwise I would have given up along the way. He will guide me where I need to be in His own time. I leave everything in His able hands 🙏🏾
Get you Rose and wishing you nothing but the best.
That was my mere opinion and thanks for the clarification
Rose you did the right thing to follow your dreams, don't feel guilty for spending his money since he gave willingly. It wasn't meant to be and thank God for protection ❤
People here are judging Rosy as if they're angels. I cane to realise that long distance relationships are very hard especially when started as strangers. Plus long calls are always sweet nothings heading nowhere. Theres more to life than relationships. The best thing is to move on n be the best version of oneself. God will bless us with spouses tgat will support our dreams.😊
Finally a breath of fresh air. Thanks so much swee. Amen to men who will support our dreams 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Blessings darling
my opinion on this is that don't blame yourself i feel you made the decision of moving without involving him because there must be something you saw in him, he might have been controlling.
Well I wouldn't say controlling but I was sure he would not be for it. On the other side there is my mother who had supported me since my divorce and always wanted me to be financially independent. I also was very deliberate on being independent so that I don't find myself again in the same shit that I had before. Probably I would have sat back and became a housewife because why work so hard when married to a millionaire, that's something I'm not and will never agree to. Thanks so much for encouragement 🥰🥰🥰
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 you will rise again move on! If his meant for you he will definitely find his way back.
Rose this is bad luck, you need prayers!
Well I don't believe in that, I'm still in God's plan
He was a great man 👨 God bless Him,l remember you at His rural home. Shalom
Ooh yes he was and yes may God continue blessing him immensely 🙏🏾
The problem arised when you did not involve him in your travel arrangements otherwise hangekukataza uende turkey then mrudi na yy dec.
I know 😭😭. Anyways I put the story out here so others can learn. Involve your partner in everything else Kitakuramba vile kiliniramba
Mama one this I have learnt in this very life is to shut up about good things in my life and also the bad. If someone is asking I normalized lying! 😅 I saw kanyoni of ng'ethe when I shared my personal issues not everything belongs to social media
Heey that's the truth. Not many people are happy for you. They wonder why not them. Anywhos kanyoni wa ng'ethe is not our portion again. We have learnt the hard way. Thanks swee 💞🥰🥰
Weka number ya king bae apa tumwabie unampenda🤣🤦🤦
😂😂😂😂😂 wololo yayeee. He views my videos. Ashaona hii 😂😂
Sorry dear everything happens with a reason switiee❤
Thanks boo. Indeed everything happens for a reason. My hope is in the lord who will make everything beautiful in His own time 💖
This relationship would only have worked if you became a housewife.I don't think your dream's would have aligned. God brought him into your life for that season.Mr king bae the right is coming your way ❤❤❤❤❤
Woiii housewife and Mama Bear cannot be in 1 sentence. I learnt the hard way and I'm very vocal about women empowerment. No woman should sit down and wait for the husband to provide 100%. Anything can happen anytime 😊🥰
I still think you were catfishished!! Very sad though!!
but to be honest u were wrong too, always if u love someone just involve them in your plans fully, he felt betrayed.but God is faithful relax He will do things Hes own way
Indeed God is faithful. I keep waiting upon him. Thanks so much for your contribution 🙏🏾
love is painful when it just fizzles out without warning or even when you see its coming to an end. Maybe he has trust issues from his past so your making travelling plans without letting him know and the time difference not being able to talk to him. He might have assumed you are with someone in Turkey. If it was meant to be you will be together. I hope the cubs are happy that mama bear is home.
That's the truth. He might have thought so of which it's sad, he thought wrong. If there's something I don't do and hope to never do you s double dealing. And yes the cubs were over the moon and still are. I can't get enough of them💞💞💞. Seems like I was away forever
A good partner will want you to achieve your goals.kutaka kutravel sijaona ikiwa reason enough ya kubreak up.maybe that you didnt tell him though if he wanted to have a conversation about it, he would have. Dont blame yourself
But everything that happens happens for the good for those who love God.maybe this situation was a sign.
You will bounce back emotionally.you will💯
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your dreams were not aligned with his ,i think he needs to settle down and have a family weee unataka travel yet you have a whole life ahead of you .
That's it. I think you hit the nail on it's head. This is someone who has travelled the whole world. So he is used to it. On the other hand I had not left Kenya my whole life. It's like telling someone who has never left the village that city life is basic yet they really want to experience it 😊🥰🥰
Having traveled to a few countries.. I feel you. You had every right to travel and with the fact that he was coming in December you gave him even the option of meeting you there but he refused for me that was sooooo mean if him. Travel is an opener it's great he should have supported you. And especially now that you you were coming back. Gurllllll he lacks maturity and for me it's a red flag. But if he can be a man he owes you a meet up. Lynn ngungi tafadhali do something or metha ya kagoni 💯
I agree with you, immaturity of highest order and i believe he was love bombing her & children as well (unfortunately even children are not spared in some kind of games) because who on earth spends huge money like that? Grand gestures like that? Benjamin Zulu has a good explanation on this.
To go from grand gestures to nothing is abnormal and a big red flag. Genuine people never behave like so.
Indeed I feel the same. He was mean to me because I explained how much I had always wanted to travel. I even suggested we meet up after 4 months, tour Turkey together or even just come together immediately to Kenya. Alternatively he flies straight to Kenya and I do the same, but that was not to happen. It's rather unfortunate but it is what it is. We keep moving 💪🏾🙏🏾💕. Thanks so much for your kind words. Blessings
Love you mama bear❤
Love you right back 🥰🥰🥰💞
Wewe aki acha..Ebu twende kwa Lynn ngugi tena😅😅😅😅... we're fixing the nation
Kwa Lynn tutaenda tukitangaza success ya the next which must end in marriage. Hii ishaaenda dear 🤣🤣
@@rosewilliamskenya2478nie Reke ngwire kairetu 😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂ati fixing the nation
@@noiczakma58 hahaha 🤣😂🤣😂....sindio
😂😂😂 people like you are great! You find humor and don’t take things seriously! Hii kitu ya mama Bear has teachings but it’s also funny
I guess he felt some kinda dishonesty and disrespect ,, from not telling him your plans
Probably but he misunderstood me unfortunately
I feel like the man angekupeleka anywhere you ever wished to travel to...but still haingekuwa poa kuangusha your mum....yani ni kiundu weeee utangimenya uria giikaire😂
Kīūndū mathogothanio oo ūguo. You just can't explain it 🤣🤣🤣. It is well though with me. God ahead kila kitu itakuwa Sawa
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 😀😀😅
I dated a man for five years we were talking every day ,love was in the air we connected so well ,he was a friend ,confidant, and one day everything stopped. I know how it feels i should have known it was going nowhere , sorry for that. Take a day at atime.
Indeed this life no balance. 5 years is quite long but it is what it is.That was a real joker. Never allow someone waste your time for over 1 year without plans of meeting. Let's keep striving. Mbele iko sawa na Mungu.
"No man can succeed where another man has failed" Turkish proverb
We are not Turkish my friend and so that haituhusu ndewe wala sikio. A man will, only that this one wasn't the one. Keep it locked
One thing i learned never praise a man only GOD is to be praised
Hie there i love ur content maybe king bae didn't deserve you our African duchess u deserved better 😅
Thanks so much for the compliment. Keep loving, liking and always commenting. I really appreciate your feedbacks here on the comments section. Probably it's the truth. We both deserve better. Him included, probably I was not the best for him💓💓
Please mrs Rose u will want to met and work with you
I’m in Nigerian
Hi dear, nice to meet you. Have you been to Kenya before
God plans eveything, and he knows what is best for you, if his yours God will make it happen
Amen and Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰🥰
Believe everything happens for a reason. Seems you had your fears, which is okey 🤷
To me,simply u should have just waited for him.
Afike that Dec...then mupange or discuss about that.
Just my kind opinion.
Thank you
I wasn't ready to let my chance go. The visa is valid 3 months. It was 5 months until his coming
Kulikua na King Bae kweli Rose? 🤣🤣🤣🤣👀
Africangirl 🤣🤣🤣 wah ulifikiri ni story za jaba. He was there imagine
Hapo kwa WXJ...Umeniweza 😂
Sad that things turned out that way for you guys ☹️
WXJ 🤔wueh uzee haiwezi nikubalia nielewe hizi abbreviations
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 You were implying zile MPESA messages you used to get.
To be single sio ugonjwa jameni.
Kabsaaaa 😊
That man was really genuine with you from the word go, i feel like he felt some kind of lack of loyalty from you when you never mentioned your plan for a whole year. Im not blaming you sweetheart but sometimes its good to tell the truth even when it feels soo hard. Maybe ungemshow from kitambo mngefind a very good solution. Im soo sorry though. I wish you guys can have some time to talk and solve things,,🥺🥺
My dear, thanks so much for your comment and I appreciate your opinion. Unfortunately whatever happened happened. You don't share things when you are not sure atleast that's me. I shared only when my visa had been granted, visa issues are usually very tricky. The more you tell people the less likely you will get it. Remember he didn't want me to go that means he would be praying against my will. Anyways dear, it is well with my soul. My man will find me while I least expect. Love and hugs 🤗🥰🥰
Just be upfront from the get go,simply put,your future goals dont align.Sorry to say he has probably moved on coz am sure he was exploring more options since his intention was to come back and settle.
I know right 😭. Most likely he has and I'm happy for him. He deserves it. He was and I believe still is a great man. Whoever has him is surely blessed 🙏🏾
Your only mistake was not being 100% transparent, I can imagine how bad he felt , maybe he thought there are so many other things that you were not telling him about. All in all, it was good while it lasted. Embark on a healing journey, it shall be well.
Indeed it shall be well. Well, I still believe that, there were so many great things that he could have considered and overlook just this 1 thing of not opening up upfront, which I eventually did. Let's just say, when it's not meant to be, there's nothing you can do to make it happen. Thanks so much for your kind words💓
1. You didn't owe anyone an explanation. That was and still is your personal life.
2. It didn't work. Mistakes were made what lessons can you take?
3. Next one utajiwekea alafu share when its done. Not everyone out here is wishing you well!
All the best on the next.
True I didn't owe anyone any explanation. I put out info willingly to teach others as well or to entertain kama ni kitu entertaining. Kabsaaa next time mpaka pingu zifungwe hakuna kuleta mūcene. Thanks so much for well wishes💞
Wueeh, He was there for that particular season in your life. Human is to err, forgiveness is divine. Forgive yourself too... Your craving to leave the country and explore was not a bad idea at all. It was wise to get a life of your own like income hivi basing on your previous story. A rebound was possible. What if we also say you did your part at least, in your heart how do feel ? If you did your best rest mama ... Finding a good woman is also not easy, he will look back some day ... Every relationship is tested, If it didn't stand the test... Then rest , the worst would still have happened. At least he raised standards for you. We keep learning. Also be careful of love bombing. True love is sacrificial . Yani it also looks at the needs of others. Surely wewe kupanda ndege kwenda Turkey na yeye hata ako America iko shida? Maybe its a red flag. Surely kwani mngeishi conflict free? Love is forgivimg
Thanks so much darling. I feel you understand me very well. Yes every relationship is tested and if it didn't stand the test something else would still have broken it. My heart is at peace. God knows best. Cheers really appreciate your kind words 🥰🥰🥰
Don't worry my sister
It is well with my soul. Thanks so much ❤
wachana na goodbye kama hutaki 3rd born
Sijakupata vizuri my dear
😂😂😂😂 you're funny though, Sasa mbona utuwache kwa mataa
😂😂😂😂😂 this life haitaki pressure
Eeei yawa. You dated a whole year na hukumwambia ata unapanga kwenda mahali actively si ati its just a wish. Anyway. You are an amazing person. The one who's meant for you atakuja.🥰 You did well to travel. You have a right to yiur own desires... your only mistake was not sharing with him.
Wueh it's hard to explain because at some point I had given up on ever travelling. Moving to a new country sometimes can be tricky but wueh it is what it is. Thanks for well wishes. I believe mine will find me some day 💕
How did you ended up in Turkey tupee michiro@@rosewilliamskenya2478
Its well. Hugs mama
Thanks so much swee. 🫂
You did the right thing to prioritize your happiness!
Thank yourself for loving you.❤❤
Am So sorry for the loss😢 dear
I would also recommend you to see a therapist (atakusaidia kuona vitu wewe huoni.)
Your heart need some rest.
Our pain is never a waste for those who are in Christ❤ don't forget that.
God is up to something great❤.
Trust me!
You're coming back with a testimony 🙏
Therapist 🤔 I doubt I need any. Indeed if God is for us who can be against us. My testimony is big and on its way. This I believe 🙏🏾🥰🥰❤️
@@rosewilliamskenya2478 Yes you do. you are bleeding
@@juliamulongo7350 thanks for your opinion. That remains yours anyways
I think he was hurt when you failed to mention the fact that you are preparing to travel as you use to talk to you about anything. This could be a red flag to some people. Forgive yourself and move on. It was not meant to be and I hope you learned going forward.
Probably. Anyways nothing to forgive myself for because I didn't do anything wrong according to me. Thanks though for your contribution ☺️