To Love Is To Grieve - Mueni Wambua
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- Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024
- How long should you grieve? How do you live with the inconclusions caused by death, the conversations that were not had; the could have, should have? Does grief negate faith? Pastor Mueni answers these questions as she shares her experience with losing loved ones. In this story she reminds us that we are living on limited bundles and we should live fully and intentionally.
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I have had my most painful time with grief and I totally relate to this November 4th 2022 I lost my dear dad and on January 17th 2023 I lost my dear only sister. It's been difficult for me and this losses have put me down . I have so many questions. I believe one day I will come through this. God's Grace has been there for me.
Passie, walked me down memory lane. Grief is great in its own way. Abuna, never met such a beautiful soul.
A.authentic acceptance of grief
I. Inconclusive acceptance of the unanswered questions
R.invent your life how your loved one would have loved you to live.
Oh to always remember these
Grace has brought me this far and Grace will lead me home.
I didn't want her to end her talk. Grief is inconclusive. This was so wholesome. Thank you Mueni. ❤
Thank you Everlyn
Thanks for sharing and more grace to you as you soldier on🙏🏼
Takeaways:
AIR
A- Come up for air as you remain authentic.
I- Live with the in conclusion.
R- Reimagine your life afresh.
We are all on borrowed time (bundles)
May we never forget
How do we live with the inconclusion? How long should one grief? How long does the effect of grief impact our lifeline? I have had my most painful points with grief and I totally relate to this...I agree our lives are in the hands of a loving God. He provides us the unconditional love and grace we need to navigate everything!
There is no time line to grieve because how long will your loved one be dead ... you will miss them as long as you are alive. Grief impacts us and shapes us in many ways and the effects are lifelong. We live with the inconclusion in making peace with knowing that we will never quite get the answers that will "make sense" .....
Today is mum's 6th anniversary and what's pops up? My chaama mate Pasi Mueni talking about grief. Ooh, I grieved my mum. Those hot tears at times unceremoniously but they become less with time and sweet memories dominate.❤
We are on the same boat. 2018 feels like yesterday but when you say 6 years then it hits how long it has been.
@@billiangee6815 and may the memories carry you forward. 🫂
Oh my chama mate Ruth .... hugs my sister 🫂🫂🫂
It is fortunate when you have grief not complicated by other terrible circumstances.. Someone died and you are heartbroken. Others like us faced hostility and rejection from our mates families and friends and crippling financial burdens, not to mention having to deal with young children. That still persist to date. But the promises of the Bible are true in that All things work for good for they that love the Lord and whom He has called according to His purpose. It shall be well with all of us who are grieving.
Grief can be a very difficult journey as everything changes and nothing is spared ... may God continue to be your anchor in the recovery journey.
I have lost my brother, who means the world to me and a cousin one month apart, and it hurts. You have spoken to me because grief is a topic, not even pastors preach. Grief is excruciatingly difficult, especially if your loved ones were killed.You are an amazing storyteller.
Thank you Mercy and may God's comfort and peace be your strength in your healing journey
Thanks for this overcoming grieve has been the hardest thing in me.i know one day I will...I lost my bro on 4jan 2021...but little have I know how to handle this...but to everyone am that strong girl that people can envy
Thanks Passy for this. Truth be told, i am still trying to re invent myself after Alices' transition... It hasn't been easy even after all these months/ years.
Oh, Alice , it's never the same again, mtaasis. You are celebrated in death. Just as in life .💜. Beautiful one Pasi 🙏
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You know you are a big part of my healing journey.
I celebrate you always.
2020 - 2023 were such a tumultuous years 😔.
Grief has changed how i relate...
I feel the emotions.
I live with the incoclusion.
But I am cognizant that grace has brought me this far, and grace will carry me home.
And I continually marvel watching you blossom my dear ♥♥
Me and grief are sworn enemies. I chose to ignore it completely, and refused to pay attention to it even when it was standing in front of me screaming in my face. Grief on the other hand completely refused to ignore me or release me till I have allowed it to sit me down and face it squarely. I still hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hear you on hating grief but still sitting down with it .... the complexity of it all
Mueni....thanks for this piece on how to handle grief....came very timely after loss of two colleagues.
Great talk, very inspiring and encouraging. May your Dad, Alice and Middi rest at the feet of the Lord Jesus
Thank you my friend and Pastor
Thank you for sharing your grief story Mueni. It will three years this July since I lost my mum. That is the most difficult thing that I have ever gone through in my life. I lost it! I became numb... I cried loads, I shut people out... the 'I' part of Air was the hardest! Guilt creeped in, the things I had planned to do for mum but never did. The wasted time... I am glad that God helped me through it! I am reinventing everyday and it is bearable now. I am glad that I didn't get stuck in there. We mourn because we love.
Yes, where there was great love, there will be great grief. May peace and comfort be yours in this journey
Huweeh, Passy Mueni Wambua, your compassionate and insightful reflections during the talk illuminated the depth of your connection with our sister Alice and underscored the invaluable role you played as her friend and therapist during her journey. Your words eloquently captured the essence of those meaningful conversations, offering comfort, solace, and wisdom to those who are currently grappling with similar experiences. It is truly an honor for our family to have Alice's memory and legacy celebrated in such a meaningful way. Your willingness to share her story with grace, humor, empathy, and authenticity reflects the profound impact she had on those fortunate enough to have known her. Thank you for journeying with the our family on this one. Continue resting Easy Alice!
The one thing that has comforted me in the journey of grieving Alice is knowing the Mbayes .... the more I know you, the more I grasp who Alice was because you are all such a loving and lovable people ...thank you.
We have so much in common, from the name to the dad's favorite human to being a last born and grief .. You've just earned yourself a fan.
Oh wow ... may you go on and find the superpower of being a lastborn 😉
Poleni sana. Thank you for sharing your story of grief. It has encouraged me and i've shared it with others.
Asante
My grief and my story told so well by Pastor Mueni. Thaaaaaaankyou so much. No one really understands me one year later; but working on me slowly to still stay afloat.
And it is ok for them not to understand because it is not their journey ... I pray you can find spaces that you feel understood and can be authentic in your journey. Hugs
Touching, bundles
This reminded me of my daddy...4months ago...THE A.I.R.Part is very helpful.....I almost dream with him daily...I was his lil girl♥️🙏🙏🙏😭
And you will always be his lil' gal even in his absence....the love he had for you remains and I hope it comforts you and the memory will always be a treasure
❤❤ grace has brought me this far and grace will lead me home 💕💕
And His grace still amazes me
My dear sister Alice,it has never been the same since you left 😢,,still struggling with grief,each passing day without you around aches my heart,your demise really broke me💔,,continue resting easy my love,i miss you so much my bestie,till the resurrection morning,i will always love you Abuna❤❤💜💜💜💜
Abuna was one of kind .... we are blessed to have been loved by her. Hugs Maureen
@@mueniwambua2354 Thank you,Indeed she was the the best ever🫂🤍🙏
Wow! Thank you Pasi Mueni. You're so graceful and God's love shows on your face.
Thank you dear ...His grace amazes me
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Thank you Pasi. Thank you for sharing ❤❤
Wooow! Well said, this is soooo good am blessed to have come across it. am still grieving my son 2 n a half years later and this has changed the tone of everything in my heart mind and spirit
And Carole the death of a child does change us just as loving a child does. May the change be one that aligns with the love you carry for your son
Beauty 😍 eloquence and the wisdom.
So much to be grasped from you passie Mueni.
Thank you dear 💞
Always Come Out For AIR...
Always
This is such an encouraging piece. You are beautiful and eloquent
Thank you namesake
Master piece in real life ,,, Great
Authentic
In conclusion
Reimagine
evaluate
einvest
This is an awesome piece. You made me reflect over many things. Very touching. God bless you Passy.
Thank you my friend
Im still grieving but I'll remember to come up for air. Thanks for this.
Hugs dear
More blessings to you Pastor Mueni
Asante Joy 🙌
Very well delivered, very authentic and creative 👏👏👏
Thank you ma .... you remain very precious because you connected me with the Grief Recovery Institute and of course our trainer Rev Kioko
Jirani looking gorgeous... Very sorry about middi really sad I'll pass by one day
The worst loss is an abrupt one...But maybe it was a spiritual warfare.
However, God will wipe away our tears and pain,he will make all things new...
👏👏👏 I have been waiting for this since we 'met' @ LBWC. Message well delivered. I love your bright smile.
Oh thank you Coach
May the Lord continue to comfort you
Amen
❤❤❤ No words!!
May God bless Midi
Oh yes, she left an indelible mark in our lives ...,and her legacy lives on
She's beautiful
Thank you
This is another one again I lost my Champion my son who was battling cancer at a young age of 5 the dark day I mark it as 14th July 2023 just what name do you give to a mother who has lost her child pain it is
Oh Ann, losing a child is such a painful tragedy. What name do you give a mother who has lost her child ... she is still a mother. Child may not be in hands but child remains in her heart and from there your son will never depart🫂🫂🫂
Haki am relating kabisaa...
Thank you
Wow! ❤ Do you have a Midi in your life?
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Sometimes when it rains it pours.
Oh yes it does .... and grace amazes us
Death is cruel. Grief is more overwhelming.
I miss my big sis every day. 😢
And that is the part of grief that is hard, the learning to live without your loved one .... may the journey get gentle as the days go by
Which church does pasi minister in because I feel like this is it? I have finally found a home
Baptist
grief l did😢 2008 through to 12.2012
I need her contacts, someone please. I'm breaking down.
In Greek we say, wendo nī ùnyamarania.
Autocorrect definitely spoilt it... Greek😅
@@nyawiramaina6418I'm telling yoh 😂😂
Almost 8 months ago my Dad died. I have not grieved him yet🥹
Grief is a journey and some journeys are hard to start ... but also grief doesn't go away on its own. May you find the courage to start the journey
Pasii😅