Choosing an Ordinary Life: Finding Joy in Simplicity
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- All too often life can feel like a competition to see who is the busiest. Our lives are filled with rushing, stress, anxiety and exhaustion. Being overworked has become a marker of success, and it’s difficult to resist getting caught up in the wave. We're less in tune with our bodies and minds and there's little time left over to simply 'be'.
We don’t need to live life at breakneck speed. There is so much joy and wonder surrounding us in our daily lives - we just need to stop and take time to notice it. And it’s then that we realise that beauty truly is everywhere.
Filmed in Swellendam, South Africa.
Featuring Beneke de Wet.
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Editing - by Jackie Viviers
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
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Homely - by Mattia Vlad Morleo
Nighthawk - by Jon Gegelman
Tremors - by Spearfisher
Victorious - by Simon Wester
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I Found Peace When You Found Me - by Sean Williams
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Several years ago I resigned from my position as a tenured university professor. My colleagues thought I was crazy. I just couldn't do it anymore. I loved my students but was exhausted by the politics of higher education. I moved from a large US city to a small southern town. I now live on 1/4 of what I used to live on. I work part-time and have time to hike, bake, and read. It's amazing how little I really need. Thank you for such wonderful videos.
Thank you Barb for sharing your personal story with us. Thank you for reminding us about how little we really need to be happy.
Thank you for watching our little films and for taking the time to write to us.
Best wishes Michael and Justine
Cheers to The Crazy One.. How's now 😇
Thank You Barb for sharing your story! It’s inspiring ❤️
Beautiful
Congratulations! Proud of you to make the move
The fact that so many people are now looking to live a simpler life says a lot about the world we now live in.
Thank you for watching and sharing this thought. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Trouble is we are working to pay massive taxes to feed out of control governments and entitled societies who think government money just pops out of some secret hole in the wall ..They want us enslaved ,very few escape ,trapped and made to believe it is the rignt thing .
Wonderful comment. And I fully agree 🙂
indeed
We are ok.
My favorite line from this chapter: "...everything is beautiful, you just have to notice it...". Beautiful.
Such a simple reminder 💚
I have found my tribe, then I found my real self. Thanks to the channels like yours.
Wonderful to hear - so glad you found your tribe..
How did you find it? How did you know you weren't in your tube before? How did you recognize?
amen, to that, have focused on this lately and realize how important it is. and to nurture this experience for all in my tribe. i've let them know that they are members, has been joyful and intimate.
@@Jennifer-sn3qw Go inside darling..ask..listen. Be so kind with yourself and with divine timing
Me too...... I never knew so many others felt the same way I've always felt....just let life be. No rush... no running... for no real reason/ purpose.
Life happens in it's own track.. We can't force to grow hair faster, grow our nails faster... all happens in it's time... English is like my 4th language, so hard to explain more in words 🙊
I just need to find a rural space like this.
I would love to hang out with this guy, even if just for an hour... he’s so grounded and just radiates calm. I’m 36 and have yet to find my tribe... but my journey continues. Much love to you all.
Much love to you to.
Beneke is so grounded so happy to just be - he is very inspiring.
You will find your tribe when it is the right time. We wishing you a beautiful journey ahead. Thanks for watching.
I had the exact thought. 🙂
me too...so I deleted my comment 🙂 Where on earth do you meet this man?
I am your tribe 🤗
+1 here ❤
“I want to stay in that frequency”. An honest assessment of one’s soul. How many of us have wished this but never heard the way to do it? This video gives us this.
Thanks Beth, each little film we make changes us and for that we feel blessed. I want to be able to be more like Beneke - to just be, to stay in that frequency..
@@ReflectionsofLife Learning to stay and be is a practice. Intending to do so is enough to move us in the direction of finding it more easily and staying longer. This is enough to change everything.
Thanks for the well filmed and edited work. Very tender.
"Find your tribe"
Where's my tribe😢
Change your limit and your world change.
- this thought is life changing sir. Never have I felt more grounded to my being after watching this amazing film. And I'm so glad to hear those encouraging and eye-opening thoughts.
I've been in a divine isolation season for almost 2 years now. Whenever I go out "in the world," I can see how I've grown as a person. I'm 55, but I was raised by a overt & a covert narcissist, and after they died, my "Golden Child" sister thought she was gonna treat me like my Mother did. My dad died in 2004, and after I helped put my mother's casket in the back of that hearse on October 29, 2016; my healing started. I haven't talked to my sister in years. I forgave her for "me." But life has taught me that Not Every Act Of Forgiveness Comes With A Reconciliation Clause. This Peace I have today is precious, and I protect it by any means. Keep pushin' yall! 💪🏾
Thank you for sharing your story. We are glad you are doing so much better now after all the experiences. All the best further. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I can so relate to what you have said
I was raised by a Narcissist
When I was in my early 30’s my eyes were slowly opened to what that means and how it affected who I was and the decisions I made
I still unfortunately continued to make decisions that were based on how I was raised
And married 2 Narcissists over the years
I am 61 and finally free of them but have had to pick up the broken pieces of my life and heart to start over
Freedom and Peace are everything
I’m doing much better but it’s a “one day at a time “ life which how we are supposed to live
I’m grateful and thankful for all of the small things and each day is a blessing
My heart goes out to everyone who has either been raised and/or married to a Narcissist
Please get free so you can finally enjoy your life and every day that you are blessed with
Love to all of you
It is a journey ❤
Not every act of forgiveness comes with a reconciliation clause. - So true. So liberating. It is nice to meet you, Bobby. I wish we could take a walk together some time. :)
Good for you. You discovered who you are, what you want and need. Sometimes....
that Golden Child becomes Scapegoat, too. Neither had an 'escape' or way to effectively be less likely subject to hidden or overt neglects, the mercies of perfectionism, people pleasing and/or being a part of what was to not be individuated, seen, heard - to belong. Can be so painful to see how the effect ricochets as role models gain/lose attention and ultimately individuals being seen as 'less than' or 'not enough'. May your quietude embrace you and you be free to be...as you truly are meant to be. BlesSings on the journey 💜
I'm actually a student. How I wish this were the kind of things they taught in school not the "you have to be busy working and be successful and rich in the future"
You are so right, being busy is so overrated .. I find Beneke so inspiring.
Look to the classics, the humanities. You can pick up a full set of Thr Great Books pretty inexpensively on eBay, maybe even Amazon,
or your local thrift store.
So true. Success is such a subjective thing but most people dont realise that and ignore u when u are not busy enough or making lots of money or fall into the accepted pattern of life the world expects you to lead. They are punishing for just being you. So glad to know there are those who think that life is not all about running and being busy all the time. Thank you.
Go ahead and teach yourself what is really important and good. 😊
What about teaching students : just to find your true selves and learn to be rich inside instead of chasing the material things .. that’s why I never understood the purpose of school .. it should be more real , more like home for your soul . Thanks to the Universe , I found this Awesome, authentic Chanel where you can meet your Tribe and listen to the Real people ! 🙏🙏
Justine and Michael, I love your channel. I’ve been chronically ill for the past 4 years and have been very isolated from others. The way you film and edit your videos makes me feel like I’m with the other person, in their world, and listening to their insights. Your channel is a beacon of light.
Your words touch us deeply. We are sorry that you are not well for such an extended period already. Glad our videos are a help and create a connection with that person/with the world. Wishing you strength, positivity and hope for every new day and sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚
Another beautiful human being reminding us how to be at peace, how to be happy, and what is truly important. All because of you Green Renaissance. Thank you.
Thank you, every person we meet changes us, teaches us, we feel so blessed to be able to make these little films. Thanks for watching.
Being caring and vulnerable is very honorable. It’s easy to put up a wall and feel nothing but to feeling with your whole heart is challenging and rewarding. This goes for both sexes.
Lovely video💗
Thank you. We agree, Fell with all of your heart.
I think he's actually young to have found the patient contentment that he has. In a way, he seems like an 80 year old in a much younger body. Beautiful.
A very wise soul we agree..
ThankGod for like minded people!❤️
That's what I was thinking, too. He's an "old soul," as they say. There is lots of wisdom and love being shared in these videos.
He seems living alone but he is one of people I've ever seen who seem deeply connected to everyone in this world.
He is a popular guy with lots of friends. Check his Facebook page. 👍
...may be thats the different between lonely living and lonesome feeling...
"I'm trying to be part but not stand out." Lovely comment, thank you.
'you live in the limits you set for yourself' ... couldn't be more true than this, wise words. My dream is to live like these people on this channel live, to have such quiet home surrounded by nature, with animals, quietness and Peace. Peace is the most important thing in my life. Beautiful video
@sleepy head - Day by day, we create our own reality. May you find the peace that your heart seeks. x
@@ReflectionsofLife that is true, your words were so needed :) thank you
A man who shows his emotions has won a battle, so he is very strong.
The purpose is to be and feel, to be here in the present moment, simple as this nice guy said ... this is being alive, not being weak.
Another inspiring video.
Thank you all 💚
Thank you so much - we so agree, beautiful to see a real man not shy of showing his emotions, he is very inspiring.
Thanks for your message.
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You have a super special name
I've always felt this about a man willing to share his emotions versus a man that hides his and acts tough. You want to be a strong tough man? Share your emotions with others. See how brave and courageous you really are.
What a beautiful place to live and thrive. OMGoodness, so beautiful. A strong man is a caring, loving, understanding man who is not afraid to feel his feelings and be compasionate towards others. That's true strength.
We so agree - a real man. Love how he shows his emotions.
It’s probably one of the most beautiful places on earth. One little part of the town is actually called Gods window. We would have summer camp there every year I was a child.
@@Joeblogs999 Get real!
Grown men build things. Little boys tears things apart. Read that last month. Resonates so much today
@@Joeblogs999 everyone has their own path to follow. Live and let live.
EACH WORD from this man resonates like the most beautiful truth, in my eyes he perfectly understood the meaning of life.
It is perfection. Thank you.
Wow, thank you, we really appreciate your very kind words.
I am amazed of how you are able to find such wise human beings. You must be in such high vibration in order to mingle with the likes of these beautiful people. Excellent interviews. Thank you. 😇
We have learnt, over the last 4-5 years of working on this project, that beautiful people surround us ALL every single day. When stop, and listen, and truly connect, the real magic starts to unfold. Give it a try :)
love to you! Justine and Michael 💚
I agree..they attract these beautiful souls because THEY are beautiful souls..
Beneke's words had a profound effect on me. I bet he's been knocked around by life, but decided to grab his contentment and enjoy his life 💙
I think you are on point ... to have this personal knowledge and insight he would have to have had some disappointments and hard knocks.
Yes, he seems to have become himself as he says. That takes courage, and really listening to yourself. 🍂🍃🍁🌿🌼🌷⚘
Each time I watch your videos, I think about something: when we human beings live with nature, we're alive, we're connected, we're spiritual, we understand life, we're at peace, but when we are in cities without trees, surrounded by concrete, we are lost, scared and sad...
It is easier to find connection in Nature you are so right.
But I think we need to learn as Beneke says to find beauty and connection no matter where we are, just looking at the beautiful afternoon light ...
Thanks for watching we hope to bring you many more films.
@@ReflectionsofLife you're right, thank you❤
@@ReflectionsofLife So true. For me, it begins with turning off all the noise and tuning in to something peaceful inside me.
Agree..makes me reflect if what I m doing is purposeful
@@ReflectionsofLife thanks for the refreshing perspectives
I am a South African living in China. Such an amazing channel, many videos have bought tears to my eyes. Such deep and yet simple teachings through the sharing of a story. Your videography and story telling skills are so on point. Thank you
Thanks so much for the words of encouragement.
And we send you much love from back home - on a cold and rainy day here in Cape Town :)
Justine and Michael 💚
🙏🙏🙏
You live within your limits, you change your limits & your world change.,.. Powerful line
@Rajdeep Dey - And so true too!
Yeah.. that line hits me hard, i went speechless..
Makes perfect sense.
Not easy , hope is a great motivator. 🧡🍂🍃🍁
So.....I just fell in love.... ☺️ Seriously, my heart expanded. What a lovely human being. And that setting is spectacular. Thanks for finding beautiful people such as this and making these types of videos, Green Renaissance, and thank you to this lovely man for sharing himself so fully. ❤️🙏🏼
Thank you so much 😀 We really appreciate getting beautiful messages like yours. Thank you.
Last January I suffered a nervous breakdown as a result of stress from confinement and stress from work. I felt totally destroyed, suddenly I couldn't function in the everyday world. Fortunately I found a doctor who did not prescribe medication to anesthetize me. He prescribed me sleep, walk in the mountains and respect my biological rhythm.
I have come back to life thanks to disconnecting from the life that society tells you to live. It is sad that the dominant vital system among human beings is the destruction of their soul.
Thank you for sharing your personal story with us.
We so happy you have reconnected with the mountains with Nature and that you back in rhythm. What a wise doctor you have.
Have a beautiful weekend.
Best wishes,
Michael and Justine
This exact thing is happening to me now so thank you for sharing so I wouldn't feel alone in this. I need an alternative to the go go go modern life. My body and soul is tapped from stress, pressure, and expectation. This is the life I want but don't know how to get there.
@@meganwright842 I am also on that phase. I'm overly stressed and pressured with the society,dictating me on what I need to accomplish. But, I'm beginning now to understand myself. I am trying by taking small simple steps at first, realizing whats important,and what is not. I resigned on my stressful work, kind of a stupid idea since I need money because this pandemic is killing the economy, but I need myself compared to money, and so now a part of me is myself,gonna continue to find myself more. Good luck to you.
@@godofredo0409 Wow thank you for replying. I liked how you said you need yourself more than money. So do I. I quit my job three months ago. The time off has been great but everyday I feel so guilty for taking time off for myself and not working. That's what society has taught us I guess. I'm just so happy to hear I'm not alone in this. You take care too.
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Life can be found in the peaceful stillness. Beautiful story
We so agree that there is beauty in the stillness.
Thanks for the comment.
True
Life comes from stillness, you are Life and stillness.
So peaceful and calming....with a beautiful message. Thank you.
You are so welcome
I am retiring from a warden position in a prison in June of this year. I am burned out and need to make changes in my life. Too much sadness and heart ache for one lifetime. Finding my tribe is my first priority. Thank you for the video. I may have a start.
Oh David, what adventures lie in store for you. May the second half of 2022 be a period of great discovery, of vibrant connections, of healing. Keep us updated. We send you love. Justine and Michael 💚
6:09 my tribe may be small in the physical world, but if I were to include everyone on channels like these my tribe would be in the millions 😊💚🙏💚 There are so many beautiful souls living on this incredible Earth 💗🌍 I have so much love and faith in you all. 💚🙏💚🌍💗
Beautifully written, thank you. We are glad that we could share his story with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
I feel so fortunate to have known this feeling, having spent time in Africa. I felt a kind of bliss at the age of 22 (I am now 58) that if my life had been extinguished at that moment, in that place, in nature, I felt I needed nothing more. It was enough. My soul sang.
@neckdaisy - And we hope that your soul continues to sing in the many years that lie ahead x
you have got a place in yourself to return each time, that is wonderful
I just found this channel & it immediately hugged my soul. There is So much noise in this world. I feel so misplaced & often like I don’t even belong in these times. I watch everyone around me glued to their phones indulging in their fantasies & illusions on social media & being controlled by algorithms. I wish people would snap out of it. This page is a breath of fresh air & gives me hope. I will definitely be contributing. Thank you!
What a fabulous message that has really made us smile Waylon. That's exactly why we started to make these films - to serve as a reminder for all the real beauty in this world - as a ray of light amongst the doom and gloom. Thank you for seeing the value. It's great to have you here with us. Sending much love. Justine and Michael 💚
You couldn’t have said it better…I feel the exact same way!
I love your term, "hugged my soul."
I am going to be like him very soon. Initiated the process a long back. Take it slow, be more content, have some time for yourself....make the world a better place... Give more, take less...
@WillUHoldMyHand4va...?? - Beautiful, we wish you well on your journey x
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How profoundly I relate to this man. I work with tech companies and I need to change to this. I'm tired of the market and how the system treats people.
Like him, I just want to be, and what is better than being one with nature?
I feel happy for this man, tomorrow it will be my reality too.
How beautiful, this is one of my tribes. Thank you all 🦋✨💖
To be a part, but not stand apart. Be, but one. Joy ✨🦋✨
How are you doing 😊😊👋
Your shot of the hills between his swinging feet
His oh so thoughtful way of herding the ducks
My favourite grass, Melinus I think
'When you plant trees, you are building something so much bigger'
Thank you 🙂🙏
Thank you Hilary for noticing all the little things it means a lot that you appreciate them.
The duck herding scene gets me every time!
Beautiful. But living in a place like this is like a lottery jackpot, how would you afford that, looks like a national park. Absolutely my dream.
yes....It's not accessible to everyone to live in such wonderful places. And elsewhere sometimes it's harder to marvel at things, it might not be so facilitating. I envy him as well.
Far from noise, clutter and the ire of modern life. So very beautiful, natural and serene. What I wouldn’t give to live in such as place as this ~ Heaven to the senses.
@@thatcanadiangrandma Sometime we need someone such as Beneke to be where he is just as a signpost so that we can raise our heart's vibration and begin to choose such a simple life goal within our own heart. And though this may seem like envy, I believe that it's the simple stirring of our own heart's desire for Oneness.
It depends what you want. You can buy places like this for more or less 5000$ sometimes. Especially if it’s out in the nowhere far from the cities
@@JobbaMoscha $5,000. 🙇♀️ You cannot buy a rundown trailer in a crowded trailer park for that price here. Here, IF you could find something it would be a million plus, probably more like $2.5 million.
A quiet and modest life will bring way more joy than the pursuit of success, bound with constant unrest.
Thanks Jacomin, you are so right a quiet modest life really resonates with us. Thanks for watching.
I envy this man...he found his tribe and lives a life of such beauty and simplicity. It gives hope to the rest of us.
What we need is everyone in our country to have this kind of access to space and time and healing.
He is kind man.He loves life,animals and all around him.That video gives me hope that everything will be ok.Thanks a lot for this video.
Thank you, we really like hope that everything will be ok. We live in a beautiful world..
So peaceful and equally uplifting, giving hope. Thank you for sharing your story, Beneke.
You are so welcome!
Loved this
There is a common theme in these videos.. single man with country property finds peace. But what about the average person, born in the city, stuck in the city with family, forced to work there with all that entails...usually lucky to afford a short break. Doing your everyday routine or work in a mindful state gets you sacked for being slow and too sure of yourself and friends can find it annoying and boring. So you think about moving out the city, then any countryside thats around is unaffordable, even local kids in the country towns end up moving to the city as they cant find work or afford to own property there. On top of that the family responsibilities and employment situation keeps you locked back to the city anyway
Yea. I think it's about timing. Like maybe finding some sort of solace where we are, but plan for the future? I don't have the answers but I remember finding a bit of nature in the fast paced city I love in, making boundaries with family members than always been at their beck and call, etc. So yea I don't know but I think that's the best we do for now
I spent most of the day and night on the banks of my pond with "my tribe." My ducks and chickens, frogs etc. I Thank God for this channel.... Brother James
Love the image of you nestled on the grass, spending time with your pond friends 💚
Change your limits and your world changes 🦋
Such wise words.
Simply Paradise 💚🌱🐝💚...the mountains, the trees and the Light!
It was wonderful listening to Beneke de Wet..He speaks the same language as William Henry Davies:
His poem " Leisure"
What is this life, if full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
No time to stand beneath the boughs,
And stare as long as sheep and cows.
No time to see when woods we pass,
Where the squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
No time to see in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars like skies at night.
No time to turn at Beauty's glance
And watch her feet, how they can dance.
No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.
A poor life, that is full of care
We have no time to stand and stare.
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Thank you Green Renaissance for this wonderful video.
I was about to quote that poem myself, it matches the video perfectly! :)
Fall in love with this channel! Got a lot of lesson about life in this complicated situation🙂 Thank you so much🙏
You're so welcome!
Where from you found those people,,, sooo much grounded, seems like am meeting another me in every voice... So calm to listen their reason to be live happy... Really appreciated... Thanks a lot for making this channel.. Love you all team.. Kepp going around the world 👍🤞👌🙏🌍
Wow, thank you. We really hope we can bring you many many more films. We so blessed to spend time with the wonderful people in our films. Thanks for watching.
Oh, I LOVE that "another me in every voice" - believe it to be so my friend :)
Wonderful. We have to overcome the fear of leaving the herd. Only once we master this we will be truly happy just by ourselves.
Very true. Thanks for you message. Hope to bring you many more films like this one.
Such a blessing to be surrounded with nature and animals.
Realising what you have with time as you get older is liberating. Live the rest of your life seeing and feeling the beauty of it. I can get quiet emotional at times over how beautiful the world really is. Thank you for a lovely video ☺️
Such a pleasure thank you for your message, the world really is so very beautiful..
I live in a great inner peace when I watch all this stories, Much love Green Renaissance 💚
Thank you, you are so kind - much love back at you.
A perfect offering for Beltane! Thank you!
Wise beyond his years...an old soul in a new skin. Beautiful!
so true
I love these films, these beautiful people...they help me to believe there is still humanity in the human kind...they give me hope and I learn so much! Thank you!
You are so kind. Thank you.
oh there is so, we, you, I, us, we are human kind and there is soooo much to go round :)))
Ahhh this resonates so deeply thank you 💜 And it reminds me of this quote that I keep in my heart ; “ The world is full of magical things just waiting for our senses to grow sharper” 🥰🌲🌇 💐
So true!
Very true!✨
Thanks for sharing this quote💖 I'm not sûre i ever Heard it before. Do you know who wrote it?
@@manuc1697 W.B. Yeats. Not sure if you know EFT Tapping, but here’s a great video on this theme 🥰🪄 I Adore Tapping! 🥰 enjoy!
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Live simple and happier ( ◜‿◝ )♡
"We are human first"
Beautiful words, stunning cinematography, nature sounds & music in harmony & need I mention the editing.
Genius of nature combined with GR's love of delivering their passion with great detail 💚
Thank you so much - we really appreciate all the support.
What a really nice man. Someone i'd love to be friends with. Just a regular man, who is living his dream. All the best to you brother!
@Mr. S - And such a gentle soul.
Beautiful. His world, his place of being, his life. Covid took away from some, and it gave to others. At least from what Ive seen...
so true
This was absolutely stunning to watch. Greate work, great edit...
Thank you so much 😀
Living beyond concepts is wonderful
We are all human beings, long before we become human doings. As he says, find your tribe and let go, with compassion, those who are not your heart family. Appreciate what you have, for it is enough.Another gem of a video, they are all jewels to me.With thanks from Australia.💜
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Love back at you from South Africa
Some people think I'm a loser because I have this attitude towards life. At one point I told my mom to leave me alone. She wanted me to aggressively climb that corporate ladder. I've had to give up certain things to not disappoint people. I'm single because I've not found a female who's comfortable with my pace
What's yours will find you
Thanks Martin for sharing your personal story. We really hope you find the right partner who will love you as you are.
It is so important to stay true to yourself and not to try live other peoples lives. Sending strength and love.
I love him. What a beautiful, kind, wise soul. He has figured out the meaning of life......very enlightening. Thank you💗
You are so welcome
I left my corporate job when I turned 50. 7 years later, I am living a quieter, simpler life. Making art, meditating, gardening, cooking good food, practicing generosity of time with others. It was an uncomfortable transition. The rewards, now are so wonderful, well-being, better physical and mental health, time for naps and simple joys. Letting go of the ego pursuits of beings someone "successful" has been so liberating. I am enjoying being an invisible part of the web also. It's such a relief!
So beautiful - thank you for sharing your journey with us. And we're so glad to hear that you found the courage to step forward and make a change. So inspiring.
Hugs. Justine and Michael 💚
It was a dream, a beautiful dream I long to be in. God's country full of love and beauty. 🐕
What a visual treat this was! My heart definitely longs for a quiet life that Beneke mentions and is living. Thank you so much for sharing!
I currently live in a suburb of a large city in the States, distant traffic a constant hum; sirens, helicopters, car stereos booming as they drive by in the neighborhood. As I type this my two granddaughters whom I care for part time are napping. The house is closed up for a springtime chill in the air. But I hear a bird's song. There are so many small things we can do when life hasn't given us the opportunity to get away from the 'concrete jungle.' I have recently added a birds song channel to my Pandora and I listen to it often, even in the shower. It's like I'm a million miles away with the sounds of a rain forest or a thunderstorm or the swallow's song near the water. Learning to quiet one's inner life even as the outward is so noisy is something I am now considering to be a gift!
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So many great insights in this film. Find your Tribe, perhaps the one that stands out the most to me. Followed by his encouraging words for men to be okay with their emotions. Well done! Never do I look forward to charges on my credit card... except when it’s my Patreon one. 😉
Scott - thank you so much we really appreciate all your messages of support and Patreon support. It means a lot to Justine and I.
Thank you,
Best wishes,
Michael
Wow, love this place and this man's message is spot on. I think he's part of my tribe. I want what he has of my own. Doesn,'t seem to much to ask. ❤️✌️
You already have it Candy, welcome home :) We all do really. Peace to you.
Beautiful reminds me of someone I'm learning more about everyday. Thank You
You are so welcome. Thank you.
The peace and stillness is felt when watching!🙏✨
Wow this was utterly beautiful. spoke directly to my soul and my personal experience. I have found it a lonely journey to be ...it doesn’t seem many people are brave like this man to brace the expansiveness of silence and I hope that we find each other, so we can just all smile and appreciate it all together. I’m just 30 and this. Is what I haven’t been feeling.❤️✨💕
Thank you, we so glad this film resonates with you and speaks to your soul. We hope your journey is not so lonely going forward.
Thank you for writing to us.
I think that more and more we find each other, I hope so, there is time :)
Real being is not living in self isolation..I think it's living with people yet undisturbed...aligned to your inner silence...if you live long alone you become numb and dull to human emotions and thinking
Or.... Maybe you become more attuned and insightful towards fellow humans by being predominantly alone.
@@donnakinsey2053 how is it possible unless you face people and situations..?
I don't think there is a right or wrong way to live. As long as each person is living their truth, living in a way that makes them happy, finding connection, that is what matters.
Thanks for watching this little film.
I feel so calm, grounded and ‘wholehearted’ after watching this.
Thank you for this beautiful experience.
Our pleasure!
I find it absolutely magical how you're able to find people with the most beautiful of hearts and minds and get to have a 'heart-to-heart' with them. These videos seem to burst with the most incredible quotes from all the people who take part in them and i can't help but feel a sense of calm knowing there are still people like Beneke who exist in a world that seemingly only gives stress and anxiety. Thank you for putting in so much effort, these videos are true masterpieces!
@Ayesha Piracha - What a deeply moving message. THANK YOU for seeing the value in the sharing of these stories, and for choosing to come along on this adventure of 'life' with us. Big hugs from South Africa. Justine. x
Beautiful‼️ My kinda guy…my kinda place! I wish there were more places like this on earth. It’s gotten way overcrowded and noisy 😢 I live for Peace/Quiet/Stillness…and just plain BEING❣️ It’s so cleansing and healing 💚
Once you found beauty in yourself, there is beauty everywhere, otherwise you will always search.
Betsy McCullen ~ how I fully agree.
May you find Peace :)
@@rolffuchs2737 you're my man! Peace to you my friend :)
Sam Gamgee personified 💖
He leads a really peaceful life! Wish I could live like this one day. Sincerely Thanking you for these efforts you make to spread peace and love and to show what it really means to live. Thank you 💚
Great pleasure - hope to bring you many more films like this one. We really also hope that you can live your dream to live peacefully like this someday soon..
The wisdom and beauty in this young man is so inspiring. Peace and Joy to him and to the awesome Green Team from a grateful heart. His words reminded me of a poem from early school days:
Leisure by William Henry Davis
What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.
No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night
A poor life this is if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare."
Beautiful ...... brings us good thoughts ..... hope, courage, love, calm, strength to move forward ......
Thank you! This is the most important part of our humanity and the celebration of being alive. Embrace the glorious delights of being present in our lives, just be. Living with love and kindness and the sweet responses to our world. That's what it's all about. This is an extremely powerful lesson for us all. Peace and understanding through our heart's knowledge. Absolutely wonderful to see and hear from him on this topic of being human and being conscious. He has such wisdom and grace.
He really as you say is a wonderful wise man..
Thank you for your comment..
Beautiful film, well done. Sometimes I judge a person by one standard, "Would I want to live next door to this person?"
I would probably enjoy living next door to this man. He is capable of self-reflection, capable of determining his place on this planet in relation to the rest of society, content not to get caught up in a frantic world.
Thank you Brian, he is such a wonderful man. I am sure he would be a great neighbour.
Thanks for watching this film.
What a delightful gentleman. That was such a soothing video. Since my husband died 16 months ago I live alone quite isolated in the country. We bought here 40 years ago. We were married 58 years. It is taking me a while to getting used to being on my own as due to medical misadventure I can no longer walk alone. At the same time I like peace and quiet and reading and watching my iPad. I wish though I friend like that sweet man. I send him good wishes from way down under.
We send you warm hugs and much love Carol. Thank you for being such a special part of our community - we truly value you. Justine and Michael 💚
I could watch this 100 times, so peaceful and beautiful and and so many wise words and advice.
Wow - thank you for your beautiful message.
So much wisdom: grounded in realness. Enlightening and beautiful.
Thank you.
He is INFP to the core. I like that.
I’ve watched and rewatched these videos, but I never tire of doing that. It feels like I’ve come home. Finally , what I feel feels valid.
@Chandini Regidi - Thanks for allowing these stories to resonate so deeply with you. x
I would love to have a friend like this man and sit next to him enjoying a cup of tea saying nothing at all. This is what we are robbed of - community. We are either focused on money, or on work or on dating but not simply the act of enjoying the company of another human simply for being.
Touching and deep words - much, much to think about. Thank you for sharing. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Growing up we were not allowed to show emotions, when my mother died in my teens my father told my siblings and I he didn't want to see one tear from any of us at the funeral. I live with BPD so I feel very strong emotions so I switch off and my emotions are directed inward towards myself. I would love to live like this man. I would love to meet this man.
Thank you for sharing your experiences Cathy, so sorry to read it. We hope we can create some positivity for you with this video, and maybe also with some of our other videos. We send you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a wonderful wise and kind man. He truly understand the meaning of life.
@Saskia Gösser - He definately does!
Cada vídeo es un gran regalo.
You have accepted your blessings........with yourself and your dog. Lovely message in this and I thank you.
You are so kind, thank you.
Change the limits the world changes for you.
This is a wise man,a wise human being❤
When one lets go of personality one sees ultimate truth
Every frame of this movie could be a painting but its where he leaves . How perfect. I could wait too in a place like that.
He really does live in paradise. Thanks for watching.
He is such a beautiful soul 💜 thank you...
You are so welcome
It was always your limits. You set the course of time now. Everyone is built differently, I glad you found your happy place.
Thank you for your thoughts. Nice that you can share Beneke's happiness. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
In the flow of life so gently yet so profound.
" I plant trees " Says he...
Thank you for choosing life !