I was the affair partner, I came through in the end and told him vaguely because in details it would have devastated him. Felt shitty for all of it and recovering from guilt of hurting everyone involved had me on edge. I rationalized that this was the only way because at the time I knew I’d always step the line of that door was still open with her
My sisters husband, said he’s not in love with her, but that he’s in love with the the other woman. She still wants to work it out. She doesn’t know what to do, she feels that she’s going to be fighting alone. Should she give up?
There's only so much someone can do if they're the only one doing the work. They need expert intervention like EMS Weekend. www.affairrecovery.com/product/ems-weekend. If there are kids involved, perhaps she can explain to him they need to do some work on their relationship for the benefit of getting along amicably at future events together such as graduations, weddings, grand children, etc. Lots of couples attend the EMS Weekend where one spouse is done and often times they may already be divorced. With expert guidance, that can change. A third party will need to be involved to get him to agree to a period of no contact - the longer the better. Once they have a period of no contact, their perspective can shift to see reality again. This article can explain the limerance he's experiencing: www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/an-affair-is-it-love-or-infatuation
I went from being the girlfriend to the affair partner I’m nobodies affair partner he’s got a girlfriend he’s off the market it’s time for me to find somebody for myself not with this man not after 35 years am I going to go from being a girlfriend to an affair partner not gonna happen he’s away for me I am away from him I’m gonna get another phone I’m gonna get another number and I’m gonna block him from my life forever and I’m never going back
Just following up. Were you able to break away? I've been in the same boat and it is hard but after Cutting things off for only several weeks...I have a lot of clarity. The emotional pain has definitely been excruciating though😔
I was the affair partner, I came through in the end and told him vaguely because in details it would have devastated him. Felt shitty for all of it and recovering from guilt of hurting everyone involved had me on edge. I rationalized that this was the only way because at the time I knew I’d always step the line of that door was still open with her
Refreshing to hear from someone who has lived it
Should have ended it a long time ago I was weak and gullible.
My sisters husband, said he’s not in love with her, but that he’s in love with the the other woman. She still wants to work it out. She doesn’t know what to do, she feels that she’s going to be fighting alone. Should she give up?
There's only so much someone can do if they're the only one doing the work. They need expert intervention like EMS Weekend. www.affairrecovery.com/product/ems-weekend. If there are kids involved, perhaps she can explain to him they need to do some work on their relationship for the benefit of getting along amicably at future events together such as graduations, weddings, grand children, etc. Lots of couples attend the EMS Weekend where one spouse is done and often times they may already be divorced. With expert guidance, that can change. A third party will need to be involved to get him to agree to a period of no contact - the longer the better. Once they have a period of no contact, their perspective can shift to see reality again. This article can explain the limerance he's experiencing: www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/an-affair-is-it-love-or-infatuation
I went from being the girlfriend to the affair partner I’m nobodies affair partner he’s got a girlfriend he’s off the market it’s time for me to find somebody for myself not with this man not after 35 years am I going to go from being a girlfriend to an affair partner not gonna happen he’s away for me I am away from him I’m gonna get another phone I’m gonna get another number and I’m gonna block him from my life forever and I’m never going back
Just following up. Were you able to break away? I've been in the same boat and it is hard but after Cutting things off for only several weeks...I have a lot of clarity. The emotional pain has definitely been excruciating though😔
Excellent video!
Thanks for watching and for the encouragement. Glad you liked it.