Combination of freely provided privilege, feminism, workforce equality programs, and mobile phone social media has destroyed the entire west. People just don't see it yet
They can have good looks, they can make good money, but deep down inside lots of them are empty souls wearing a mask. Completely broken and can't hold a conversation.
I got married in 1997. When I was dating my future wife, the internet was barely a thing. Cell phones were too expensive for regular use. Texting wasn't invented yet. And there was no such thing as social media. It was a simpler time and dating was much simpler too.
Women have always been the same, they've always had an agenda for being in a relationship with a man, their personality or attitude would adjust according to the social interaction with certain people, and they always had a back up guy when things didn't work out with their boyfriend or husband. Guys in love are oblivious to emotional manipulation and most women know this quite well.
@@WayToManyAssassins~ even neighbors don't talk anymore ~ just wave & walk on by . & when you do strike up a convo with someone , you can see it in their eyes they are about to snap at any given day or minute. These past 5 yrs have literally pushed people over the edge to the 9th degree.. All by design
You’re absolutely right. Social media has completely ruined women, society as a whole, even sports. I don’t have any social media at all. I have no Facebook, no Twitter (X), no IG, no Snapchat. When I use to have social media it was really bad for my mental health. Social media is nothing but a popularity contest and that’s not going to benefit me at all. I learn to be happy & alone. I’m a loner for life.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
most men constantlly look at their phones too in public. dont do it. be present and aware of your surroundings. youll be happier and people will notice.
I think its mostly instagram and tiktok that screwed up women. Before that, myspace, facebook, RUclips and Twitter had a more limited effect on women. Also dating apps really accelerated the toxicity towards men.
The rot started with Facebook, especially when they lifted the limitation on only college students being allowed on there. It is what normalised putting photographs online.
It was the iphone and facebook in fact. Before that men had a very steady 8% rate of "incels" and guys who couldnt get a date for years. Now that rate is approaching upwards of 25-30 %. I don't think people realize how alarming and dramatic that increase is and it only took less than 20 years. It is probably one of the greatest crimes against humanity ever that women are doing this collectively to the people that gave them everything, that run the country and the world, and to family life. But now we see their true nature and you know what? they clearly don't deserve equal rights and this would be the only reasonable path forward
@@christosdelos3318 you are exactly right. There is no denying the root of the feminism 'dont need no man' bs is public education. And its not a recent thing, its been going on in one way or another since the 1960s. But it's ramped up in the last 20 years.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
I try to avoid my phone as much as possible. The only thing it's really good for is buying stuff online to have it delivered or to use maps to find where you are going. Or research.
It has. Social media is more addictive than hard drugs. And once you get hooked, it's nearly impossible to get off unless you find the discipline to stay off of it.
I don’t have any social media no IG, Facebook, X, or Snapchat. It’s nothing but a popularity contest and it can destroy your mental health that’s what happened to me. All I have is RUclips.
I can't find the discipline to be on it. Everyone shoots you down when you post anything worthwhile. It was a logical path as a man to get off of it when you see the unwarranted hate.
It's refreshing when you walk around in society and you see someone else that doesn't have their head in their phone. Gym, the mall, work, stores. It's a small percentage nowadays. People need to start waking up and pay attention
Been YEARS since anyone has had no care for their phone and social media. We recorded with VHS cameras on blank tapes. Nothing like the woke selfies and cringe dancing we see today.
@@ThePinkPantha21 We can see your other comments. You're here to make it seem like women have it just as hard. As if YOU have it just as hard. You don't. There are plenty of good men out there, and you probably shrug at least one off a day without even speaking to them. You're idea of what a good man is revolves around being provided for and being perpetually entertained. Our idea of what a good woman is revolves around loyalty, respect, and feeling desired intimately. The good men women are after don't want the sex they're withholding, they want intimacy and respect. That's too needy though huh? Keep having your grape fantasies and pretending you deserve a good man.
Befriend a 304. Don’t give her any reason to believe you want to sleep with her. And she’ll start opening up and showing you all the devious things she’s up to with other guys. It’s truly disgusting. Terry Joel is correct. Until you really see it for yourself it’s hard to believe.
As a woman who doesn’t have many female friends, I can believe this! I started working at a new place last year and some of the girls invited me on a night out so I could socialise with them. I went and it was eye opening to say the least. These women, ranging in age from 25 - 36 years old, informed me how they go out every weekend in bars to try to pick up guys. They said that they all have “rosters” of men who they can call upon at any time. How they use some men for sex and some men for money. Oh and they were absolutely ADDICTED to social media! Constantly posting selfies all night and having to record their every move. It was truly sad to see. I never went out with them again because I don’t want to be around people like that.
Amen, brother. My last girlfriend can't get her face out of her phone. A lot of time, I go to talk to her, and at least half the time, she's not listening. And she seems to have a short attention span.
Women were bad since biblical times. Its no accident that in the bible Eve is seduced by the devil. This is a metaphor for the fact that we can't live in peace and harmony as long as women have free reign in dating
They rely on Men being clueless about female nature in order to extract money, resources, and utility from Men. Guile, cunning, deceit, strategic omission, and allowing Men to continue believing the Disney blue pill BS about women are their stock in trade.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
I remember vividly when I was in high school (graduated in 2006) smartphones were not available. And things were much much different. Social media existed and it was dominated by MySpace. Facebook was just starting to be open to the public when I graduated. But the point is we all still had to go to a computer pool or wait until IT class to access social media. These smartphones, the hyperconnectivity is what's killed everything.
Young woman 50 years spent time: gardening, canning vegetables, cleaning house, having kids and actually taking care of kids. Modern woman: Spends her time on FB, tik-tok, instagram, Only-Fools and watching Netflix, iTunes, Hulu, Pluto, Peacock.
Hi Terry, your absolutely right what you say, I'm a 51 year old bachelor never married I chased after someone last year I tried hard but failed, that's me done chasing women,unless they meet me half way and treat me with respect and dignity.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
2:34 That is indeed true. I have observed women declining the advances of handsome, strong-willed men due to perceived shortcomings in their appearance or style. It is puzzling to hear comments like 'I don't like the way he dresses.' 😒
Women being picky is a good thing. From an evolutionary standpoint the vast, VAST majority of men -unattractive or poor- were never meant to reproduce and this is how it's always been, social media or not.
What other people do doesn’t matter. You heard a women say she doesn’t like the way someone dresses. You perceived the man as a catch, great then by this women turning that guy down maybe you’ll have better chances.
Every woman has got at least a few dozen requests on Instagram from men to please sell them our dirty underwear/socks. Women aren't looking for anything, it's the men who are begging.
I'm glad I don't get on social media like that to be honest. Honestly, I can go months without using it and just be fine. It is all about discipline, especially emotionally and mentally.
Real women isn’t on TikTok and Instagram. The best single women I know don’t even accounts. They are busy working on their career, their mental health. They are just waiting for the right man.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
You Are The 100% Truth my man!! Keep Speaking what People out here need to Here...Society is in a Sick Place and we need somthing to change...this is going to destroy future generations!
I'm in the rare 5%... Thank you for your mug applause Terry, appreciate it..... 🎉🎉😂 But for real, social media is just another dating site and ego booster in my eyes... Only fake toxic people are on it and that's not what I want or need in my life... I'dd rather meet real people in real life.....
I gave up last year. Havent been out since. What sucks is, i consider myself a SOLID 7. 37, M, 5'9, great job with bennifits. Got a brand new tacoma, a built BMW and a '92 R32GTR. Got my own place and money in the bank. I stay in the gym and my body reflects that. These women dont realize a dude under 6ft is actually a great dude.
If you have to say you are a great short dude you aren't 😂😂😂😂😂 good women don't care how tall you are so maybe you should work on your impression of yourself. I am a tall woman and dated men that were shorter than me, I did not care. It's all about confidence that's the most attractive trait a man can have. Everyone has "preferences" but none of us are perfect and ideally we find someone who treats us well and we grow to love one another.
My good friend is 5'6 and married a beautiful and successful woman who is several inches taller than him. I once heard her loudly and proudly defend his lack of height in the face of other women's criticism. It's certainly not out of the realm of possibility for you to find someone equally compatible. There's still lots of decent people out there. Meeting people in real life is usually more successful than dating apps that are designed to keep us single and on the stupid apps!
Guys listen to this message and don't be manipulated.The man woman relationship has been totally destroyed and there's no going back.The issue is can men face the reality of being without women or face this grim reality.
Like most advancements, it didn't improve mens lives only womens. Mobile phones and social media are essentially just pitfalls for all but top 10% of men, and ultra convenient shopping stores and cheating devices for women. What happened as a result of social media is we created just another status hierarchy for which men have to succeed in especially being a hierarchy from which women primarily "shop". So yes in general we didn't improve life with this technology but created a way for women to abuse their power and destroy families and relationships throughout the West. Of course they are 100% ignorant of this and will continue blindly abusing their privilege and power as long as men don't put their foot down
20 or 30 years ago, the goal for most people was still marriage and a family. Now the goal seems to be excitement and pleasure. Our society has become Sodom and Gomorrah.
Yep, most men can't get a girlfriend because women can choose now. And it is not going well for men. Not being chosen by any womam speaks volumes about you.
@@tinycatfromhellit's true that many men have a lot of work to do in order to become attractive prospects. I say this all the time to men who need to hear it. Women can choose now, from vast online catalogs of potential mates. However, many women are also left unhappy, often being unable to secure a committed relationship with the men they really want. Before social media we were limited to mates within our own towns or cities, and many people dated and stayed with people of similar value and status. This is not the case anymore and has made things far more complicated for almost everyone, men and women alike.
“They try to play games with you to put your value down to bring their value up. It’s fake.” Yep “projecting” and one of their games - trying to project their slur lies onto you in the hope you and others will be fooled into falsely believing it is you.
“They’re disqualifying themselves from you” can’t be said loud enough to the back of the room. I was a simp. Women disqualifying themselves to me, now that I can see, is the strongest feeling we can embody as a man. 99% of these women disqualify themselves when they have no idea before they’ve even opened their mouths that they’re out.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN? The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along. The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
The sense of entitlement everywhere among women is insane. Even the 'used goods' like 40+, 50+ with kids act as if they are a great prize. But yet they go to the clubs desperately looking for a man. Aweful material. Not for marriage.
@Jets228 I thought she was going to flake cause woman do that. So I started talking to someone else on social media and then the 1st girl came on the date late but I think the other girl feeling me too. So I was distracted lol it's all good tho. Js social media is kinda crazy for both we got more options too
My ex girlfriend cared more about what other people on social media thought about her than I did. It’s all about being told you’re good looking and getting instant affirmation from creeps on these platforms that you’ll never meet - and if you do, it’s hook up bullsh*t or rebound relationships.
Love you bro, keep shining. My wife left me with 2 kids after 20 years, she was wonderful before smartphones came. I was too nice last 4 years, because our son had cancer, and I lost my value, truth is I was never enough. I explained to her everything you said, but noooo, I'm toxic, narcisstic and manipulative. Those are not social networks, that's social engineering for mind control. And it's everywhere. And that's how society loses. She's not sure if she want's a divorce. God will show her that she lost love of her life. I walk with God only from now on. ❤
Sorry you had to go through this, especially with children. But I agree, everything in the relationship was always better without smart phones. Men should not feel like the love is one sided after we dedicate so much of us to them. Just do not let yourself forget who you were, when she met you. Keep being you, and find your happiness.
This is very true and I see it it's harsh thank God I am attractive because women do give me looks a lot but I still turn them down because I see their intentions and materialistic value and their personas may not connect but it is a hard for an average man and if you're ugly you have to pay them it's crazy
Junior, My Name Sake. The Universe Recommended Your Channel To Me; Thank You For The Phenomenal Content💌, I recently just became Awakened too, this topic has always been on my mind. Fellow Gen Z here. We Live In Dystopia Literally.
@ This is between men, I'm 50, I know what I'm talking about. I don't talk to women anymore there's no reason. Truth is authority, men are the enforcers, women want to live a lie.
Humans on this planet have never seen anything like this. Unfortunately Millennial and Gen Z men are paying the price big time. But Terry nailed it here.
They also try on TV and many shows to portrait men as people who can't get rid of their phones by putting scenes where you see a woman yelling at a man because he can't put down his phone while on camping, while in reality, its the women doing it for far more than men. I.e. in an episode of Supernatural. Many others. The system and society is gone. 100% ...
Just be yourself, earn your capital as a content creator for you. Dont hate on anyone or their content. I might have got played by everyone in my family/ the world but its okay.. we thrive polygon!!
Been single for years, deleted facebook 6 years ago, will never ever have that again, i was on fb when it wasnt labled a dating site, then it became considered a dating site, but i remember facebook when it very first came out, and the exact use of it, which was used on college campuses for interaction between students , then it exploded into craziness, at that time myspace was still a thing which was on dial up internet , simpler times for sure, thats a absolute fact,but yea i wonder where the women are who arent this way .... and are not social media freaks and who dont have thier phone stuck in their face.
Social media and dating apps have made men and women, that were never supposed to be accesible to you become available. Then the delusion kicks in. I've seen it happen to people i know. Now they have a long distance relationship bla bla bla. It's nuts.
I always felt like I was being snaked and lied to but I didn’t know if I should believe it but then I had to ask tell myself I wouldn’t feel that way of have them thoughts if it won’t that
I hate to judge peoppe but given the audience of this dudes channel i thought id share a funny story. This girl who is not attractive was uploading really crazy photos thinking she was attractive, super cringe, and my friend put a comment up saying something like why does she have that mike wazalski build😂😂 she then deleted all of her pictures based on that one comment. Moral of the story is, that one event is representative of the social media problem. I dont condone what he done although it was funnt asf, but it shows you the insecurity. All od these good looking dudes were liking the picture putting up comments etc and that inflated her ego so much that she thought she was on the level of beyonce, and gets all of her validation from social emdia, and all it took was for one comment to shatter her entire perception of herself. Crazy the arrogance of a lot of these women today, and social media is the 1% peoblem. Dating apps too. It bothers me when really unattractive women walk and act like theyre superstars, it bothers me when attractive girls do because its just arrogance, but i cannot tolerate it when theyre fat and disgusting😂😂i think women have always been guilty of this, but the scale of the arrogance has certainly been intensified. Realistically though, we're all affected by the changing world, but the women i know are much more fucked in the head than the dudes i know. What im realising is that men are struggling with either their self worth or lonliness, but women today have no mental stability at all. But maybe I'm biased it would be interesting to see the female equivalent of Terry's channel.
The fact that it bothers you says more about you than them. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t be bothered or bringing these type of women up because you already expressed you’re not attracted to them so they’re not for you. If they’re not for you there’s no need to waste time/energy being bothered. Instead of just reading a comment and moving on you created all these stories around what/how/why these women think the way they do and it’s crazy. You really don’t know what/how/why they think the way they do because you don’t know them personally but again it doesn’t matter. The facts are that you’re filtering things through a lens that “justifies” your current situation based on something external so you can feel better about yourself by spending time putting others down even though you’re “not interested”.
You have to hold them accountable for their actions and discipline them. I had this experience where i set up a date and when i contacted her on the day of the date, she had other plans. Later on she called me by a wrong name. I told her "I think your behaviour is highly disrespectful. I demand an honest apology and goodmaking for this" Now this is, where you can see what type of women she is. She could have easily blocked me or say "Whatever random dude", but usually, if you stand your ground, you can dominate them and even attract them. its like pulling them out of the online bubble. In my example, i told her to write an apology letter by hand and buy me some of my favourite food, before we even talk dating" She agreed. Date is on friday, wish me luck :D
I told her "I think your behaviour is highly disrespectful. I demand an honest apology and goodmaking for this. You should have left it at that and make a joke of it now
i told her that im serious about it and that i leave , when she doesnt have the required goodmakings with her on date night. I told her: "I have a 3 strike rule for every date, since we are complete strangers to each other, but you already have 2 strikes BEFORE we even dated, so be careful from now on, if you wanna go on"
@ i will report my bros. i cant guarantee succsess since im usually the vibekiller no1, but i will give my best:) my goal is to show interest with push pull tactic and some teasing.
These are important conversations. Labels can be meaningless shame tactics to keep people from having important conversations. Idgaf what people think or say if I know I'm on the right path
Terry, your videos are so truthful. And the truth hurts. Even good people suffer because we have to deal with the meanest.if you game, ok. You might have to go a medical facility, or worse.
Social media has messed up men too let's not hide this fact a lot of men's heads are messed up to the fact that toxicity women playing games and also themselves men like to hold themselves at a certain level and it has definitely affected my head social media and everything so we cannot and we are not perfect either
100% right. Social Media has destroyed women.
More for me , y’all b good tho 😂
*everybody, but especially modern women
Combination of freely provided privilege, feminism, workforce equality programs, and mobile phone social media has destroyed the entire west. People just don't see it yet
Women were always like this. It is just a combination of a weak society and unchecked power.
They’ve destroyed themselves. Social media just gives them an outlet to broadcast their destruction for everyone to see.
They can have good looks, they can make good money, but deep down inside lots of them are empty souls wearing a mask. Completely broken and can't hold a conversation.
🎭😈🫦💅🏻
Yep, some are like that, men and women.
Like trying to get blood out of a stone for conversation.
Yes, definitely.
if you want me to cry, I'm sorry to tell you I absolutely don't give a f about them all.
I got married in 1997. When I was dating my future wife, the internet was barely a thing. Cell phones were too expensive for regular use. Texting wasn't invented yet. And there was no such thing as social media. It was a simpler time and dating was much simpler too.
I agree, wish we could go back in time
Everything was more social back then, people actually talked. Now idk what people do it's just bizarre
Women have always been the same, they've always had an agenda for being in a relationship with a man, their personality or attitude would adjust according to the social interaction with certain people, and they always had a back up guy when things didn't work out with their boyfriend or husband. Guys in love are oblivious to emotional manipulation and most women know this quite well.
@@WayToManyAssassins~ even neighbors don't talk anymore ~ just wave & walk on by . & when you do strike up a convo with someone , you can see it in their eyes they are about to snap at any given day or minute. These past 5 yrs have literally pushed people over the edge to the 9th degree..
All by design
Late 90s was peak.
You’re absolutely right. Social media has completely ruined women, society as a whole, even sports. I don’t have any social media at all. I have no Facebook, no Twitter (X), no IG, no Snapchat. When I use to have social media it was really bad for my mental health. Social media is nothing but a popularity contest and that’s not going to benefit me at all. I learn to be happy & alone. I’m a loner for life.
Yep its not good, unfortunately though women buy into this popularity contest entirely and will reject guys for not being part of this rat race
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
Yes bro I really appreciate this encouragement. These people are not nice . I got hurt so badly
Agreed.....
I appreciate social media allowing women to tell us exactly who they truly are. Wish we had it when I was younger.
In the 80s and 90s we had Boobymags instead. LOL. It was better. :-D
Yep exactly. They were trash 20 years ago, social media just exposes them
Social media is the worst thing to happen to society!
This is why we just ignore them at this point.
Top tier self care honestly
I like this guy. I like his delivery, solid and grounded.
I like him too because he convinced me that I made a good choice 20+ years ago to 'only rent'
most men constantlly look at their phones too in public. dont do it. be present and aware of your surroundings. youll be happier and people will notice.
I think its mostly instagram and tiktok that screwed up women. Before that, myspace, facebook, RUclips and Twitter had a more limited effect on women. Also dating apps really accelerated the toxicity towards men.
The rot started with Facebook, especially when they lifted the limitation on only college students being allowed on there. It is what normalised putting photographs online.
youtube is mostly education, music and news. tiktok and IG is for nasty womyn
I dont disagree, but Instagram really had the biggest effect. @MrEdrftgyuji
It was the iphone and facebook in fact. Before that men had a very steady 8% rate of "incels" and guys who couldnt get a date for years. Now that rate is approaching upwards of 25-30 %. I don't think people realize how alarming and dramatic that increase is and it only took less than 20 years. It is probably one of the greatest crimes against humanity ever that women are doing this collectively to the people that gave them everything, that run the country and the world, and to family life. But now we see their true nature and you know what? they clearly don't deserve equal rights and this would be the only reasonable path forward
I left Facebook in 2020. The place was a mess then.
Even if not involved with social media, they “don’t need a man” sold to them by their mother.
Sold to them by the government/state.
@@christosdelos3318 you are exactly right. There is no denying the root of the feminism 'dont need no man' bs is public education. And its not a recent thing, its been going on in one way or another since the 1960s. But it's ramped up in the last 20 years.
Sold to them by modern society.
@@StoicNature444 Sold to them by FEMINISM, which has its roots in MARXISM.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
I try to avoid my phone as much as possible. The only thing it's really good for is buying stuff online to have it delivered or to use maps to find where you are going. Or research.
The best mentality to have!
It has. Social media is more addictive than hard drugs. And once you get hooked, it's nearly impossible to get off unless you find the discipline to stay off of it.
I don’t have any social media no IG, Facebook, X, or Snapchat. It’s nothing but a popularity contest and it can destroy your mental health that’s what happened to me. All I have is RUclips.
@kineticlonewolf, you're not missing anything. It's nothing but adults playing high school games and women showing off their bodies
I can't find the discipline to be on it. Everyone shoots you down when you post anything worthwhile. It was a logical path as a man to get off of it when you see the unwarranted hate.
bruh im like 3rd week without them and the withdrawls are severe... its harder to quit than pornography.
@tafedits , it is.
Real men don’t have open Instagram or Tik tok accounts
I agree. But too many people think they're celebrities because they have Instaslut.
Best comment of the Year.
I only have X and Google chat and RUclips.
@@slappysahil123 appreciate the support. I’m old. If I could I’d ban that BS Tik tok and “Insta” real quick.
Instagram is for women, agreed.
It's refreshing when you walk around in society and you see someone else that doesn't have their head in their phone. Gym, the mall, work, stores. It's a small percentage nowadays. People need to start waking up and pay attention
Been YEARS since anyone has had no care for their phone and social media. We recorded with VHS cameras on blank tapes. Nothing like the woke selfies and cringe dancing we see today.
We just need to call simps out.
And watch them flip out behind grandmas PC 😂
@@JordanJJereb we need to educate and empower men, lead these poor souls to the light
Call the 304s and simps out
@@Nsimpsonsociety needs 304s, they’re the ones who keep a lot of mens balls empty.
@@WAKEUPONTARIO you be making some dumb takes like real men don't use tiktok or instagram.
I’m 46. I don’t know how you guys do it. I couldn’t imagine being young and trying to date in this world
Just went through some shit, just glad to be here.
Eyes on the road, keep on trucking brother
Glad you here homie. Next step, hit the weights and get a new fit.
Yo MD Psi-Run! Surprised to see you here! Sick songs btw, Queen B is my fave
@@Jojifroideru Appreciate that thanks
You are correct. Most are lost and confused
WHAT SOCIAL MEDIA is doing to the public is messin ppls heads all up! Period.
Those getting messed up by soial media, would be messed up with something else anyway. It's about basic personal traits,
Ngl , we should lobby to get it restricted or permanently banned! It’s hurting society
How? How’s it messing ppl heads up?
We're all gonna make it braz 👍
As long as the bras stay on lol
Braziers!
I do not understand the struggle to be a genuine person nowadays.
I'm a woman and I don't either. Everyone is insufferable, men and women to be fair.
It’s your porn addiction
Yeah it’s definitely hard to actually find a true person, most people today are very dry
@@ThePinkPantha21
We can see your other comments. You're here to make it seem like women have it just as hard. As if YOU have it just as hard. You don't. There are plenty of good men out there, and you probably shrug at least one off a day without even speaking to them. You're idea of what a good man is revolves around being provided for and being perpetually entertained. Our idea of what a good woman is revolves around loyalty, respect, and feeling desired intimately. The good men women are after don't want the sex they're withholding, they want intimacy and respect. That's too needy though huh? Keep having your grape fantasies and pretending you deserve a good man.
@@ThePinkPantha21All we're good for is talking sh*t.
If she is has social media,she is not relationship material.
Good luck
The amish community might be your ideal dating pool.
I had a one that had few posts on her instagram not even that revealing and she was still the school 304
Everyone has social media. Everyone's grandmother is on social media ffs
@@philanders3705 and? Its still cancer. There are some people that dont have it.
Social media is the worst thing to happen to humanity in the last 50 years. Dreadful.
What makes you say that?
Befriend a 304. Don’t give her any reason to believe you want to sleep with her. And she’ll start opening up and showing you all the devious things she’s up to with other guys. It’s truly disgusting. Terry Joel is correct. Until you really see it for yourself it’s hard to believe.
As a woman who doesn’t have many female friends, I can believe this! I started working at a new place last year and some of the girls invited me on a night out so I could socialise with them. I went and it was eye opening to say the least.
These women, ranging in age from 25 - 36 years old, informed me how they go out every weekend in bars to try to pick up guys. They said that they all have “rosters” of men who they can call upon at any time. How they use some men for sex and some men for money. Oh and they were absolutely ADDICTED to social media! Constantly posting selfies all night and having to record their every move. It was truly sad to see. I never went out with them again because I don’t want to be around people like that.
Very true, all of it.
@@lauren27891 we’re u raised with both parents in the household if i may ask
Amen, brother. My last girlfriend can't get her face out of her phone. A lot of time, I go to talk to her, and at least half the time, she's not listening. And she seems to have a short attention span.
dump her
See but me, personally, I loooove slutz
That is a hideous trait. I wouldn't get past a first date with someone staring at their phone
Social Media /Phone showed who these women are. Women made a choice to show themselves. It was always the women, not the phone.
Women were bad since biblical times. Its no accident that in the bible Eve is seduced by the devil. This is a metaphor for the fact that we can't live in peace and harmony as long as women have free reign in dating
They rely on Men being clueless about female nature in order to extract money, resources, and utility from Men. Guile, cunning, deceit, strategic omission, and allowing Men to continue believing the Disney blue pill BS about women are their stock in trade.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
I remember vividly when I was in high school (graduated in 2006) smartphones were not available. And things were much much different. Social media existed and it was dominated by MySpace. Facebook was just starting to be open to the public when I graduated. But the point is we all still had to go to a computer pool or wait until IT class to access social media. These smartphones, the hyperconnectivity is what's killed everything.
What social media has done to relationships. Job sites are now doing to employment.
The illusion of too much choice when really there isnt.
Most women have unlimited options for a ding dong but few options for a husband
There is choice for them thats why they're both completely abusing their power of options and the losers as always are low status or average males.
Young woman 50 years spent time: gardening, canning vegetables, cleaning house, having kids and actually taking care of kids.
Modern woman: Spends her time on FB, tik-tok, instagram, Only-Fools and watching Netflix, iTunes, Hulu, Pluto, Peacock.
graduated high school when the I phone came out. In 2007. I noticed a change all around. Women became less loving. Men became reclusive.
1989 bro ❔
Fellow class of 07! My brother in arms.
Oh snap this is my new favorite channel. This guy gets it.
That statement about them using that cell phone for full advantage.... it hits a bell to the soul lol
Hi Terry, your absolutely right what you say, I'm a 51 year old bachelor never married I chased after someone last year I tried hard but failed, that's me done chasing women,unless they meet me half way and treat me with respect and dignity.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
Thank God I quit social media 8 years ago! Shit was so toxic! 😂
you realize youtube is still social media right
@anothersong1448 No it's not. Not in the way of Facebook, IG, TikTok etc. Stop spouting that lame narrative.
It’s even more ridiculous now good thing you left then but technically we still are on RUclips lol.
@@Grandmaster_Sub-Zero if anything RUclips is trying to be more like the other social media you mentioned like with youtube shorts..
@@anothersong1448 AND it’s a choice…
2:34 That is indeed true. I have observed women declining the advances of handsome, strong-willed men due to perceived shortcomings in their appearance or style. It is puzzling to hear comments like 'I don't like the way he dresses.' 😒
It's all ego
@@jhamilton1007 they all think they are pretty princesses on instagram
Women being picky is a good thing. From an evolutionary standpoint the vast, VAST majority of men -unattractive or poor- were never meant to reproduce and this is how it's always been, social media or not.
I don't like tats drawn by idiots the nails the fake eye lashes the attitude.It goes both ways .
What other people do doesn’t matter. You heard a women say she doesn’t like the way someone dresses. You perceived the man as a catch, great then by this women turning that guy down maybe you’ll have better chances.
The women be looking for simps on those phones to give send them money 😆
Foreal they're looking for trick daddy on their lol😂😂
100% correct. Send them nothing zero dollars.
Every woman has got at least a few dozen requests on Instagram from men to please sell them our dirty underwear/socks. Women aren't looking for anything, it's the men who are begging.
I see that so much these days. Dudes really do it too
So many people are looking for transactional arrangements now instead of real love. It’s sad.
I'm glad I don't get on social media like that to be honest. Honestly, I can go months without using it and just be fine. It is all about discipline, especially emotionally and mentally.
Real women isn’t on TikTok and Instagram. The best single women I know don’t even accounts. They are busy working on their career, their mental health. They are just waiting for the right man.
“But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
1 Timothy 5:6 KJV
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
Thanks for putting the truth out there brother keep preaching that verbal gold! Love and peace from the UK 🙏❤.
Brother you are so damn right. For me one of the most enlightening videos so far, but actually confirming what I already knew. Thx and Blessings
It's demonic
Doomer mentality try to fight it but when you see these women out there these days how do you not suspect we're entering the apocalypse?
It’s a pure form of idolatry
Lol
Social media invented by pure evil demonic men. Will never date men again
Absolutely. A cell phone is a scrying mirror
You Are The 100% Truth my man!! Keep Speaking what People out here need to Here...Society is in a Sick Place and we need somthing to change...this is going to destroy future generations!
I'm in the rare 5%... Thank you for your mug applause Terry, appreciate it..... 🎉🎉😂 But for real, social media is just another dating site and ego booster in my eyes... Only fake toxic people are on it and that's not what I want or need in my life... I'dd rather meet real people in real life.....
I gave up last year. Havent been out since. What sucks is, i consider myself a SOLID 7.
37, M, 5'9, great job with bennifits. Got a brand new tacoma, a built BMW and a '92 R32GTR. Got my own place and money in the bank. I stay in the gym and my body reflects that.
These women dont realize a dude under 6ft is actually a great dude.
If you have to say you are a great short dude you aren't 😂😂😂😂😂 good women don't care how tall you are so maybe you should work on your impression of yourself. I am a tall woman and dated men that were shorter than me, I did not care. It's all about confidence that's the most attractive trait a man can have. Everyone has "preferences" but none of us are perfect and ideally we find someone who treats us well and we grow to love one another.
My good friend is 5'6 and married a beautiful and successful woman who is several inches taller than him. I once heard her loudly and proudly defend his lack of height in the face of other women's criticism. It's certainly not out of the realm of possibility for you to find someone equally compatible. There's still lots of decent people out there. Meeting people in real life is usually more successful than dating apps that are designed to keep us single and on the stupid apps!
@@ThePinkPantha215'9" isnt short wtf lol
@@megaspankudotgov none of that means anything to a woman that she's not actually attracted to your like you
bro’s got a Beamer and a GTR . 11
This is the truest video I've seen in a loooong time
Guys listen to this message and don't be manipulated.The man woman relationship has been totally destroyed and there's no going back.The issue is can men face the reality of being without women or face this grim reality.
@@FrankMauriellp This is a frightening prospect. It means the end of the family which is the bedrock of society.
You can have a man man relationship.
@@jskyler7tea
@@jskyler7 We're not like that in here bro 💀
Absolutely spot on. It is destroyed. Men in western society are stuck in bargaining phase but the reality is: it’s over.
You are 100% correct. It's truly sad.
Social media connects all of humanity and simultaneously has ruined women and society in general leading to nothing but heartache and destruction.
I had way more interaction with women before social media, and even more with people in general before the internet.
The irony is astonishing))
The problem isn’t social media and women. The problem is you guys and porn.
Like most advancements, it didn't improve mens lives only womens. Mobile phones and social media are essentially just pitfalls for all but top 10% of men, and ultra convenient shopping stores and cheating devices for women. What happened as a result of social media is we created just another status hierarchy for which men have to succeed in especially being a hierarchy from which women primarily "shop". So yes in general we didn't improve life with this technology but created a way for women to abuse their power and destroy families and relationships throughout the West. Of course they are 100% ignorant of this and will continue blindly abusing their privilege and power as long as men don't put their foot down
"the value that we have a human beings is created through the work we do"
Gotta be careful with that one.
It has all gone down like a real life episode of black mirror.
You are right, Terry. 20 years ago, the average man had a fighting chance to earn a girlfriend. Good luck in getting that in 2025.
Feminism and Narcissism are the problem, also men getting bitter and using Women for money now 🤦
20 or 30 years ago, the goal for most people was still marriage and a family. Now the goal seems to be excitement and pleasure. Our society has become Sodom and Gomorrah.
At this rate, in another 15-20 years over half of men will be incels or dateless for 5 year spans
Yep, most men can't get a girlfriend because women can choose now. And it is not going well for men. Not being chosen by any womam speaks volumes about you.
@@tinycatfromhellit's true that many men have a lot of work to do in order to become attractive prospects. I say this all the time to men who need to hear it. Women can choose now, from vast online catalogs of potential mates. However, many women are also left unhappy, often being unable to secure a committed relationship with the men they really want. Before social media we were limited to mates within our own towns or cities, and many people dated and stayed with people of similar value and status. This is not the case anymore and has made things far more complicated for almost everyone, men and women alike.
"They are wild waves of the sea, foaming up their shame; wandering stars, for whom blackest darkness has been reserved forever".
facts Terry.... speaking nothing but the truth bro. 💯 Proverbs 31:3
“They try to play games with you to put your value down to bring their value up. It’s fake.” Yep “projecting” and one of their games - trying to project their slur lies onto you in the hope you and others will be fooled into falsely believing it is you.
Became a subscriber when you said core values. Glad i did bro
“They’re disqualifying themselves from you” can’t be said loud enough to the back of the room. I was a simp. Women disqualifying themselves to me, now that I can see, is the strongest feeling we can embody as a man. 99% of these women disqualify themselves when they have no idea before they’ve even opened their mouths that they’re out.
THE BOYS KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN. WHY DONT YALL DATE OTHER MEN?
The ONLY woman that love yall for free is your mama. Most men SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCESS TO WOMEN. Its natures way of ensure #DEFECTIVE males do not get to past their defective genes along.
The planet need Beszo, Gates, Musk, etc, etc. Not Terry who live paycheck to paycheck and have to save 5yrs to go on a vacation.
Yall know damn well when you're OLD IN DIAPERS SITTING IN YOUR 💩 FOR DAYS, your bro won't come over to shower your stinky ass. 😅😅😅
The sense of entitlement everywhere among women is insane.
Even the 'used goods' like 40+, 50+ with kids act as if they are a great prize. But yet they go to the clubs desperately looking for a man.
Aweful material. Not for marriage.
Social media affects men too. I be on dates and be getting messages from other girls and it throws me off the moment a lil bit but
@Jets228 I thought she was going to flake cause woman do that. So I started talking to someone else on social media and then the 1st girl came on the date late but I think the other girl feeling me too. So I was distracted lol it's all good tho. Js social media is kinda crazy for both we got more options too
Why are you here, you're behaviour is trashy just like the ŵomen you're dating.
Social media has destroyed men the women are having a blast
It was so great growing up in the 80's & 90's boys & men held the cards back then just have fun & take no chic seriously
My ex girlfriend cared more about what other people on social media thought about her than I did. It’s all about being told you’re good looking and getting instant affirmation from creeps on these platforms that you’ll never meet - and if you do, it’s hook up bullsh*t or rebound relationships.
Love you bro, keep shining.
My wife left me with 2 kids after 20 years, she was wonderful before smartphones came. I was too nice last 4 years, because our son had cancer, and I lost my value, truth is I was never enough.
I explained to her everything you said, but noooo, I'm toxic, narcisstic and manipulative.
Those are not social networks, that's social engineering for mind control. And it's everywhere.
And that's how society loses.
She's not sure if she want's a divorce.
God will show her that she lost love of her life.
I walk with God only from now on. ❤
Sorry you had to go through this, especially with children. But I agree, everything in the relationship was always better without smart phones. Men should not feel like the love is one sided after we dedicate so much of us to them. Just do not let yourself forget who you were, when she met you. Keep being you, and find your happiness.
Sometimes I wonder why most men cannot see through this! Great video!
It’s truth spoken here.
Its all about looks. If you dont have the looks then women wont even look at you. Just a harsh truth.
So true
Looks are important to a degree but women will change their standards for the one they like. Fitness and personality are big with them in the end.
This is very true and I see it it's harsh thank God I am attractive because women do give me looks a lot but I still turn them down because I see their intentions and materialistic value and their personas may not connect but it is a hard for an average man and if you're ugly you have to pay them it's crazy
Hence why I don't suffer it. Things to do, money to make, places to be.
A very thoughtful and observative monologue.
Good work on this. So true.
Junior, My Name Sake. The Universe Recommended Your Channel To Me; Thank You For The Phenomenal Content💌, I recently just became Awakened too, this topic has always been on my mind. Fellow Gen Z here. We Live In Dystopia Literally.
All it takes is just one other guy giving them attention, not necessarily multiple.
If it's like that must have not liked you because women will choose what they want
Funny... just before I seen this... I was just thinking, Social Media is ruining lives!!
I'm a man that has evolved to where I want to find a woman that will take care of me.. American dream has been gone since the 50s
Now, you're free to take care of yourself, do not buy community property for full price.
Use and abuse them or they'll use and abuse you.
I wish I was a hs and college student in the 50s and alive back then as a silent g
@@simemsayss4395 why would anyone want to be with people who are used and abused? You make no sense.
@@simemsayss4395Who hurt you bro?
@ This is between men, I'm 50, I know what I'm talking about. I don't talk to women anymore there's no reason.
Truth is authority, men are the enforcers, women want to live a lie.
Humans on this planet have never seen anything like this. Unfortunately Millennial and Gen Z men are paying the price big time. But Terry nailed it here.
In the west, especially.
They also try on TV and many shows to portrait men as people who can't get rid of their phones by putting scenes where you see a woman yelling at a man because he can't put down his phone while on camping, while in reality, its the women doing it for far more than men. I.e. in an episode of Supernatural. Many others. The system and society is gone. 100% ...
Thank God the world and predominantly western men are waking up to this. I understood how bad this was going to be 20 years ago.
Social media has absolutely ruined women, there's a bunch of older women on Tiktok throwing away their marriages and crying about it later.
U said nothing wrong in this video 💪🏿 i love your videos brodie
Just be yourself, earn your capital as a content creator for you. Dont hate on anyone or their content. I might have got played by everyone in my family/ the world but its okay.. we thrive polygon!!
Been single for years, deleted facebook 6 years ago, will never ever have that again, i was on fb when it wasnt labled a dating site, then it became considered a dating site, but i remember facebook when it very first came out, and the exact use of it, which was used on college campuses for interaction between students , then it exploded into craziness, at that time myspace was still a thing which was on dial up internet , simpler times for sure, thats a absolute fact,but yea i wonder where the women are who arent this way .... and are not social media freaks and who dont have thier phone stuck in their face.
Social media and dating apps have made men and women, that were never supposed to be accesible to you become available. Then the delusion kicks in. I've seen it happen to people i know. Now they have a long distance relationship bla bla bla. It's nuts.
Social media didnt do anything, they were always this way. Now you just see it for what it is.
Yes, but it facilitated the behaviors, making it easy and acceptable to act as such.
Very good commentary, you earned a subscriber
I always felt like I was being snaked and lied to but I didn’t know if I should believe it but then I had to ask tell myself I wouldn’t feel that way of have them thoughts if it won’t that
Yup and to the fathers out there be mindful of what your kids do online !
Gen Xer here. It was bad for me back in the 90s, but I can see it's even worse for young men with social media today. Good luck
Right on brother!!
im definitely gonna get back just not now im taking it easy!
I hate to judge peoppe but given the audience of this dudes channel i thought id share a funny story. This girl who is not attractive was uploading really crazy photos thinking she was attractive, super cringe, and my friend put a comment up saying something like why does she have that mike wazalski build😂😂 she then deleted all of her pictures based on that one comment. Moral of the story is, that one event is representative of the social media problem. I dont condone what he done although it was funnt asf, but it shows you the insecurity. All od these good looking dudes were liking the picture putting up comments etc and that inflated her ego so much that she thought she was on the level of beyonce, and gets all of her validation from social emdia, and all it took was for one comment to shatter her entire perception of herself. Crazy the arrogance of a lot of these women today, and social media is the 1% peoblem. Dating apps too. It bothers me when really unattractive women walk and act like theyre superstars, it bothers me when attractive girls do because its just arrogance, but i cannot tolerate it when theyre fat and disgusting😂😂i think women have always been guilty of this, but the scale of the arrogance has certainly been intensified. Realistically though, we're all affected by the changing world, but the women i know are much more fucked in the head than the dudes i know. What im realising is that men are struggling with either their self worth or lonliness, but women today have no mental stability at all. But maybe I'm biased it would be interesting to see the female equivalent of Terry's channel.
They are all 10/10 🤣😂
@@zaq1337 on social media they all look like 10s but in real life 3/10
I had to look up Mike W haha that's cruel
The fact that it bothers you says more about you than them. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t be bothered or bringing these type of women up because you already expressed you’re not attracted to them so they’re not for you. If they’re not for you there’s no need to waste time/energy being bothered. Instead of just reading a comment and moving on you created all these stories around what/how/why these women think the way they do and it’s crazy. You really don’t know what/how/why they think the way they do because you don’t know them personally but again it doesn’t matter. The facts are that you’re filtering things through a lens that “justifies” your current situation based on something external so you can feel better about yourself by spending time putting others down even though you’re “not interested”.
Well done young lad.
You have to hold them accountable for their actions and discipline them.
I had this experience where i set up a date and when i contacted her on the day of the date, she had other plans. Later on she called me by a wrong name.
I told her "I think your behaviour is highly disrespectful. I demand an honest apology and goodmaking for this"
Now this is, where you can see what type of women she is. She could have easily blocked me or say "Whatever random dude", but usually, if you stand your ground, you can dominate them and even attract them. its like pulling them out of the online bubble.
In my example, i told her to write an apology letter by hand and buy me some of my favourite food, before we even talk dating" She agreed. Date is on friday, wish me luck :D
I told her "I think your behaviour is highly disrespectful. I demand an honest apology and goodmaking for this. You should have left it at that and make a joke of it now
i told her that im serious about it and that i leave , when she doesnt have the required goodmakings with her on date night.
I told her: "I have a 3 strike rule for every date, since we are complete strangers to each other, but you already have 2 strikes BEFORE we even dated, so be careful from now on, if you wanna go on"
this friday i may also report back how the date went, my bros.
@@gerdgrubel902I wanna see what she does lol
@ i will report my bros. i cant guarantee succsess since im usually the vibekiller no1, but i will give my best:) my goal is to show interest with push pull tactic and some teasing.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯Agree with a lot ,time for some self reflection as a man ….great topic…
Use social media for business purposes rather than to give out free attention to attention-seeking people
Great video, great channel.
Young men take notes, i feel for yall. Dating world is cold af.
We all need Jesus. Follow his teachings, we’re not perfect but we can try our best to be.
I would be labeled as an "Incel" if I were to ever raise these concerns when talking to peers
Those are the NPCs, the feeble minded cucks that don’t matter whatsoever. Keep your head up high.
These are important conversations. Labels can be meaningless shame tactics to keep people from having important conversations. Idgaf what people think or say if I know I'm on the right path
That's cause we live in a gynocentric society where women can do no wrong
@@philanders3705 Fact. 💯
Terry, your videos are so truthful. And the truth hurts. Even good people suffer because we have to deal with the meanest.if you game, ok. You might have to go a medical facility, or worse.
Social media has messed up men too let's not hide this fact a lot of men's heads are messed up to the fact that toxicity women playing games and also themselves men like to hold themselves at a certain level and it has definitely affected my head social media and everything so we cannot and we are not perfect either