Personally, that's the reason why I love being upfront, straightforward and honest with women. You save time, money and avoid getting manipulated. It's either she is in with your intentions/agenda or she's not. Shoutout to the King of (Direct) Verbal Seduction ARC and also, to Unc Rom
If a women sexually desires a man, he can be straight up with her about not wanting anything serious and she will still deal with him. Honesty is only a problem when she’s dealing with the man she’s not attracted to. The whole point of her dealing with you is to get free dates and attention so when you tell her you don’t want to do those things, she ain’t goin for it.
It still works though whether she's feeling you or not. Because it cuts to the chase and skips all the goofy nonsense. And she he either with it or she's not simple as that. So either way it works all the time regardless of the outcome
A lot of people are really soft af and can't handle rejection and that's why they keep beating around the bushes. Maturity is realising that you either lack sex appeal or simply not her type. Improve your sex appeal and find your tribe!
Honesty has always been the best policy and you don't need to be a "high value man" to keep it real with women. I had women from the past who I thought were very attractive and sexy, and when they asked me if I would date them I would say "Yeah but you're too immature." They had never had a guy tell them that and I saw them try to change their behavior just to be more mature, but that's what keeping it real with women can get you. Despite what some of these dating coaches say, women can handle the truth.
I remember Pam Grier saying this in her autobiography. She asked a man she was seeing if they were an item or was it casual. She said she was cool either way, she just wanted to know where she stood. He said he wanted a relationship. Needless to say he started cheating and things went downhill.
Facts, I remember I didn't keep it 100 with a woman and she found out. She said to me and I quote, "all you had to do was tell me and we could've figured it out". Being honest definitely goes a long way.
Had a man argue me down about this concept, it was embarrassing. Honesty is real player shit, anytime I’ve ever lied to a woman it’s always ended terrible.
Yep. Had this one problem with one female she kept on say " you changed" and "tell me the truth want happened". So I said "nothing happened" Then she said "you not tell the truth and we are finished". So guys tell the truth even if the female won't like you afterwards.
Honestly playing it safe not being straight up with women has a lotta issues on the backend. Many men believing not being straight up with a woman at the beginning makes it easier, but it takes too much effort to keep up a lie. It would be better to be real and find out if she gets down with what you are on. Abundance mentality is the way to go in the long run.
This comes with maturity and the willingness to be shot down .. sure enough I’ve pulled more baddies being straight up with them , telling them I wasn’t pursuing a relationship and I was talking to numerous women already ! If they dig you the will respect it and let it be
When my car was keyed she wrote "LIAR" as big as she could on my driver side door of my Gold BMW. I learned my lesson and got off with my life I guess. I never thought it could be worse than a good car keying Rom. 😔
("1" ) I have both "Nice Guys & Players" and "Mode One", and I want to thank both of you for teaching me that it's okay to be honest with women. Back in my 20s and even very early 30s I would sell dreams and weave seamless blends of fact and fiction to manipulate desired outcomes, because I thought that was the best way to keep girls from being mad at me and not looking bad in society. It all ended horribly and I paid a heavy karmic price for it. I found "the red pill" around 32 and it led me to brothas like you and ARC. In the last 8 years of my life, the honesty approach has not only improved my dating life, but I get the added pleasure of not having to play the game, their (women) way. Thank you both for your contributions to my education.
Being direct,honest,and straightforward with women brings a man a peace of mind,saves him time and money 💰. S/O to The Big Three of The Selectmanosphere:(1) Rom Wills,(2) Author Alan Roger Currie, and (3) Cousin T,TAW {The Alpha Wingman} aka Scorpio The Entertainer-Author of the book 📕,The Seduction Scriptures.
Great video Rom! I agree being honest and straightforward with women is the best way to filter out the women who want you, from the women who don’t. It saves you time, money and heartbreak.
One thing I learned is always give a woman options with being up front with them. "Hey I don't want a relationship" or whatever. Give her the choice to decide and leave the ball in her court. Chances are a good percentage of them will come around and compromise their "rules" to be with you in some capacity. Many of men, me included in my younger years, ruin their game by being dishonest. So months even years down the line she can only blame herself for "wanting more" or "wanting you to change"
honesty is trust. good bad and the ugly. i think alot of ppl teach to be dishonest , be "mysterious", aka bush beater. some mystery is good. but balance. and in the end i think it leaves both parties feeling off. honesty cuts through it. no grey areas. take or leave it.
You tell the truth you have nothing to remember an women luv it when you're honest its shows vulnerability gets her in those emotions where she respects feels comfortable with you. To her it shows your congruent and a stand up guy makes her feel safe n secure an that's what they want Works for me everytime im straight down the line direct with my intentions
Being straight up with women cuts out a lot of the potential bs and can potentially save u more time n energy that u would’ve wasted on her… being straight up with a female works if you already her type or if she already likes you…but if you not her type or if she dnt like u like dat bein Straight up might not get u the results u were expecting
Facts be honest about your intentions with these women because you have get to the point if she's down to corporate or not because it could be dangerous out here fail fast so you can move on to the next
Women can pick up the vibrations of a man's voice and the harmony of his body---congruent with his words and actions. So whether a man is a dog or a man who honors a woman, she's looking for the harmony in his overall essence. When a man's is honest about who he is, wicked or wise, he's going to be comfortable entirely throughout his body. Kinda of similar to a man knowing his car is in tune---when he can barely hear the engine, or if the oil is dirty and/or below the threshold; the car has too much vibration...and the lifters is ticking. She trains herself to look for your hiccups and inconsistencies.
This topic describes the scenes from Martin Lawrence's A Thin Line Between Love & Hate and looking at those scenes say that it's best to keep it 💯 with chicks period.
women love honesty. they are starved for it. when iam my true honest self. women love it. some don't but the ones who feel me like me or just respect me. dig it. i also don't hide my true desire for her. they can tell. if she attractive she fershure can tell when u like her. let that energy flow. she may not like u back. ok. but at least ur being ur true self. on to the one who does like you back.
I'm brutally honest to a fault.I know most men won't agree.I tell EVERYONE the truth ESPECIALLY any woman I have ever dealt with.You would be surprised of the outcome.I have made numerous intimate videos simply by asking them straight up.Honesty is the best policy.I personally feel liberated knowing that I have no filter or mask.Me and Angie had a nice date at central park west and 109th street.She had vodka and I had clear rum.We both had lemonade as the chaser.So good to see her in person.Its been a long time yet after the liquor flowed,we had the same energy towards each other.
I know for myself that I can be the relationship man or the friends with benefits man depending on the woman I'm talking to. Especially when I say shit like: "I don't want nothing serious" or "I don't want no kids" or "I don't wanna be friends", they might not like what I say but they eventually respect it. But at the same time, it'll always be women that don't know how to take a hint tho...
Grits? How about hot water in the case of Rev. Al Green? As for being straight up with a woman, timing is also important. I can recall this one particular woman that was really into me, but I had to tell her it wasn't possible since my situation at the time was rather precarious and uncertain. So, yeah. Being straight up with a woman is good.
True true and so true ones again my brother. You make me laugh so much with your stories and how true they are 🤣 Be true to your self and honest. So you will be backed with peace ❤👊
“Hello there!” just a lil joke Uncle Rom the OG how you be starting ya videos lol. But nah your right Unc recently I literally told this one chick who hit me out the blue on Snapchat.(Keep in mind I have a whole girlfriend.) And literally I texted her “ I have a gf” she gone say” I respect you telling me, but dang that mean I can’t talk to you or see you.”
The best UNC is when you out somewhere and think you smooth and soon as you get home she calls your bluff woman see and read a lot especially how other woman respond and check for you the best game really comes from women
Sir, I wanted to ask you for advice. After High School my dating life pretty much disappeared, so lately I've been trying to get back out, and I'm using dating apps. I actually met this attractive chick last Friday, she even had a car and everything. The thing is, I knew I had to be direct, but I was afraid of her reaction and spoiling the whole mood. How do I get rid of that fear?
I respect you, brother! These guys out here with “game” all these tactics. Just come out with it! Making it too complicated. Honesty is always the best policy. How can we lower our values to a lower level? Mic drop like Barack, Unc! Bless up✊
Damn I recently got out a relationship that ended badly because I lied. Crazy thing I know better. Lesson learned for sure - I got off lucky but she did some sneaky shit and try to ruin my rep. Don’t lie - even the sweetest of sweethearts will turn into a devil real quick
Never lie to a woman.. If she's really interested, she'll lie to herself to be w you
Facts.
This is a good one😂😂😂❤.As a woman,I like honesty
All facts.
Personally, that's the reason why I love being upfront, straightforward and honest with women. You save time, money and avoid getting manipulated. It's either she is in with your intentions/agenda or she's not. Shoutout to the King of (Direct) Verbal Seduction ARC and also, to Unc Rom
Fact.
If a women sexually desires a man, he can be straight up with her about not wanting anything serious and she will still deal with him. Honesty is only a problem when she’s dealing with the man she’s not attracted to. The whole point of her dealing with you is to get free dates and attention so when you tell her you don’t want to do those things, she ain’t goin for it.
It still works though whether she's feeling you or not. Because it cuts to the chase and skips all the goofy nonsense. And she he either with it or she's not simple as that. So either way it works all the time regardless of the outcome
That's DELUSIONAL thinking. BEING straight up works whether she DESIRES you are not.
Big facts
A lot of people are really soft af and can't handle rejection and that's why they keep beating around the bushes. Maturity is realising that you either lack sex appeal or simply not her type. Improve your sex appeal and find your tribe!
There is no such thing as rejection for a real man. Its simply her declining the opportunity you offered to her
@@007ColdFire That's a bar right there
@@kevinayers6322 He sounds corny. Rejection is rejection. Calling it something else isn't going to change it.
Honesty has always been the best policy and you don't need to be a "high value man" to keep it real with women. I had women from the past who I thought were very attractive and sexy, and when they asked me if I would date them I would say "Yeah but you're too immature." They had never had a guy tell them that and I saw them try to change their behavior just to be more mature, but that's what keeping it real with women can get you. Despite what some of these dating coaches say, women can handle the truth.
I remember Pam Grier saying this in her autobiography. She asked a man she was seeing if they were an item or was it casual. She said she was cool either way, she just wanted to know where she stood. He said he wanted a relationship. Needless to say he started cheating and things went downhill.
Facts, I remember I didn't keep it 100 with a woman and she found out. She said to me and I quote, "all you had to do was tell me and we could've figured it out". Being honest definitely goes a long way.
Had a man argue me down about this concept, it was embarrassing. Honesty is real player shit, anytime I’ve ever lied to a woman it’s always ended terrible.
Yep. Had this one problem with one female she kept on say " you changed" and "tell me the truth want happened". So I said "nothing happened" Then she said "you not tell the truth and we are finished".
So guys tell the truth even if the female won't like you afterwards.
Being honest with women prevents men from getting finessed and burned
Being straight up is the quickest way to see where you stand with a woman and not waste your time .
Honestly playing it safe not being straight up with women has a lotta issues on the backend. Many men believing not being straight up with a woman at the beginning makes it easier, but it takes too much effort to keep up a lie. It would be better to be real and find out if she gets down with what you are on. Abundance mentality is the way to go in the long run.
The universe must be mental coz everytime I'm going through some issue woman wise an accurate Rom video addressing it pops up on my TL wow!
This comes with maturity and the willingness to be shot down .. sure enough I’ve pulled more baddies being straight up with them , telling them I wasn’t pursuing a relationship and I was talking to numerous women already ! If they dig you the will respect it and let it be
As a Man a basic principle to live by doing "right" or "wrong" is to be righteous in your acts. No need to lie, stand strong in your actions...
I love being straight up because it saves time.
When my car was keyed she wrote "LIAR" as big as she could on my driver side door of my Gold BMW. I learned my lesson and got off with my life I guess. I never thought it could be worse than a good car keying Rom. 😔
Nigga what the fuck...what the hell did you do🤣🤣😅
@@christopherjameswright9614 Fr man what happened?
@@frankjrock he said he learned his lesson sooo😂😂 not gonna lie I got my tires slashed last year bro I had to change my apartment address
("1" ) I have both "Nice Guys & Players" and "Mode One", and I want to thank both of you for teaching me that it's okay to be honest with women. Back in my 20s and even very early 30s I would sell dreams and weave seamless blends of fact and fiction to manipulate desired outcomes, because I thought that was the best way to keep girls from being mad at me and not looking bad in society. It all ended horribly and I paid a heavy karmic price for it. I found "the red pill" around 32 and it led me to brothas like you and ARC. In the last 8 years of my life, the honesty approach has not only improved my dating life, but I get the added pleasure of not having to play the game, their (women) way. Thank you both for your contributions to my education.
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This is the most important rule. It makes everything else so much easier.
Keeping it Real up front is 🔑 No relationships we just having Fun...Salut R.W O.G
Being upfront & honest will get you in situations money can’t buy. 💎 good drop Rom
Being direct,honest,and straightforward with women brings a man a peace of mind,saves him time and money 💰. S/O to The Big Three of The Selectmanosphere:(1) Rom Wills,(2) Author Alan Roger Currie, and (3) Cousin T,TAW {The Alpha Wingman} aka Scorpio The Entertainer-Author of the book 📕,The Seduction Scriptures.
Maaaan, good look on Cousin T-TAW. I got Nice Guys & Players by Rom, and Mode One by ARC. But I need to get the stuff from Cousin T-TAW. Thanks.
Great video Rom! I agree being honest and straightforward with women is the best way to filter out the women who want you, from the women who don’t. It saves you time, money and heartbreak.
One thing I learned is always give a woman options with being up front with them. "Hey I don't want a relationship" or whatever. Give her the choice to decide and leave the ball in her court. Chances are a good percentage of them will come around and compromise their "rules" to be with you in some capacity. Many of men, me included in my younger years, ruin their game by being dishonest. So months even years down the line she can only blame herself for "wanting more" or "wanting you to change"
"I want you to change" is much better than "you said you were going to change"
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Me too!
Honesty is the best policy. State your intentions from the beginning. It saves you time and headaches.
1. 🤦🏾♂️ you don’t want them grits fellas
honesty is trust. good bad and the ugly. i think alot of ppl teach to be dishonest , be "mysterious", aka bush beater. some mystery is good. but balance. and in the end i think it leaves both parties feeling off. honesty cuts through it. no grey areas. take or leave it.
You tell the truth you have nothing to remember an women luv it when you're honest its shows vulnerability gets her in those emotions where she respects feels comfortable with you. To her it shows your congruent and a stand up guy makes her feel safe n secure an that's what they want Works for me everytime im straight down the line direct with my intentions
Mode 1 🦍
Being straight up with women cuts out a lot of the potential bs and can potentially save u more time n energy that u would’ve wasted on her… being straight up with a female works if you already her type or if she already likes you…but if you not her type or if she dnt like u like dat bein Straight up might not get u the results u were expecting
Don't matter being straightforward comes with wins and lessons but they can't say your not honest!
Facts be honest about your intentions with these women because you have get to the point if she's down to corporate or not because it could be dangerous out here fail fast so you can move on to the next
That is the balls up truth !
Women can pick up the vibrations of a man's voice and the harmony of his body---congruent with his words and actions. So whether a man is a dog or a man who honors a woman, she's looking for the harmony in his overall essence. When a man's is honest about who he is, wicked or wise, he's going to be comfortable entirely throughout his body. Kinda of similar to a man knowing his car is in tune---when he can barely hear the engine, or if the oil is dirty and/or below the threshold; the car has too much vibration...and the lifters is ticking. She trains herself to look for your hiccups and inconsistencies.
This topic describes the scenes from Martin Lawrence's A Thin Line Between Love & Hate and looking at those scenes say that it's best to keep it 💯 with chicks period.
That saxo start is smooth sir.
Thanks 😊
Mr. ROM WILLS
FOR : The videos. 🌄
women love honesty. they are starved for it. when iam my true honest self. women love it. some don't but the ones who feel me like me or just respect me. dig it. i also don't hide my true desire for her. they can tell. if she attractive she fershure can tell when u like her. let that energy flow. she may not like u back. ok. but at least ur being ur true self. on to the one who does like you back.
I'm brutally honest to a fault.I know most men won't agree.I tell EVERYONE the truth ESPECIALLY any woman I have ever dealt with.You would be surprised of the outcome.I have made numerous intimate videos simply by asking them straight up.Honesty is the best policy.I personally feel liberated knowing that I have no filter or mask.Me and Angie had a nice date at central park west and 109th street.She had vodka and I had clear rum.We both had lemonade as the chaser.So good to see her in person.Its been a long time yet after the liquor flowed,we had the same energy towards each other.
The best Game is the Truth!
I know for myself that I can be the relationship man or the friends with benefits man depending on the woman I'm talking to. Especially when I say shit like: "I don't want nothing serious" or "I don't want no kids" or "I don't wanna be friends", they might not like what I say but they eventually respect it. But at the same time, it'll always be women that don't know how to take a hint tho...
Grits? How about hot water in the case of Rev. Al Green?
As for being straight up with a woman, timing is also important. I can recall this one particular woman that was really into me, but I had to tell her it wasn't possible since my situation at the time was rather precarious and uncertain. So, yeah. Being straight up with a woman is good.
I had to learn this lesson over time.
True true and so true ones again my brother. You make me laugh so much with your stories and how true they are 🤣 Be true to your self and honest. So you will be backed with peace ❤👊
I told you.. That's powerful
Yes Sir 💯
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A lot of wisdom in the video and comments 💯
I get asked a lot if all I am looking for is to smash. The truth is yes, however i question if I can be that forward and still get them.
1=AL Green
“Hello there!” just a lil joke Uncle Rom the OG how you be starting ya videos lol. But nah your right Unc recently I literally told this one chick who hit me out the blue on Snapchat.(Keep in mind I have a whole girlfriend.) And literally I texted her “ I have a gf” she gone say” I respect you telling me, but dang that mean I can’t talk to you or see you.”
AMEN!!! 💯💯💯
You know it’s a rom vid when he say “and that’s the thang” all the greatest players I know that’s smooth know the lingo 😎
7:54 Ayo 😅😂
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The best UNC is when you out somewhere and think you smooth and soon as you get home she calls your bluff woman see and read a lot especially how other woman respond and check for you the best game really comes from women
Sir, I wanted to ask you for advice. After High School my dating life pretty much disappeared, so lately I've been trying to get back out, and I'm using dating apps. I actually met this attractive chick last Friday, she even had a car and everything. The thing is, I knew I had to be direct, but I was afraid of her reaction and spoiling the whole mood. How do I get rid of that fear?
What is the name of your intro’s song ? It’s smooth
"It's All About Love" by Stanley "Mellif" Lewis.
I respect you, brother! These guys out here with “game” all these tactics. Just come out with it! Making it too complicated.
Honesty is always the best policy. How can we lower our values to a lower level?
Mic drop like Barack, Unc! Bless up✊
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Hey Rom can you tell a girl you just started talking to you want to hookup with her? I don't want rela and don't want to lead her on...
My problem is I’m too truthful and talk myself out the 🐱
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Damn I recently got out a relationship that ended badly because I lied. Crazy thing I know better. Lesson learned for sure - I got off lucky but she did some sneaky shit and try to ruin my rep. Don’t lie - even the sweetest of sweethearts will turn into a devil real quick
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