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Asking questions that relate to his life, past or present, or even future, lets him feel my interest. I have won his trust, now he shares his emotional processes that he wouldn't share with others :) Ladies, remember trust is earned!
I love to dress up. Especially when I go out. It has nothing to do with trying to impress a man. I do it for myself. Because it makes me feel good. If I am going on a date, I try to dress according to where he is taking me.
Great advice! Being a good listener is so magnetic both for men and women. And also any behavior that shows any sense of desperation is not attractive. Givers are magnetic and takers are not.
Everyone has something special about them..even the ones we are not attracted to,or want to be involved with.Its nice to give compliments according to the level of interest and passion you have for someone.Compliments for others compliment your own heart,Smart men can tell a womans heart by the way she speaks to him.We need to be wise and sensitive with our words...Our words have power in relationships,Be soft, be kind, be loving in conversations..let the light shine on him.Its not about us all the time ,,,,men need compliments and dotting over ,they deserve it.Why are people so hard on men....
First time viewer here and loved your suggestions and reasoning behind them. It made me reflect on how I'm relating to men as opposed to changing myself. thank you!
Look into "The Empowering Wife" books. Their theology is that the woman can change the relationship to what she wants. That guys are generally reactors. There have been hundreds of women testify they were in an abusive relationship and applied those principles and got the love they always wanted with that same guy. Many comments are "if I would have known this with my first husband, I would have never divorced" basically it makes a success out of any man, through the women's efforts. Personally I do agree though, in not someone who can "fake it till you make it"
@SaveTheMessenger Would you please provide the link of that great poetry ? It's so beautiful! I'd love to hear her read that poem over and over and soak the words up as fuel to love myself 😊❤
So question my friend I had not seen in 50 plus years, when we met again he hughed me wonderfully twice...he's loosing his hair BUT I love that look as my.dads side of family had that beautiful trait...so my question can I say " I wanted to kiss your forward gently when we talk on the phone, only about 2 times a month at this point, as he loves to make people laugh thank you Ismeal for your insight and educational videos ❤
Thank you for another great video! What i love best about you, is that you're a guy trying to help us ladies know what you're thinking. And you're smart enough to know how to do it 😂😂. I think most men are emotionally illiterate and don't even know what they want themselves, kinda pointless to even ask. Love to watch your feed whenever I'm wanting to amp my relationship. Also to gauged where I'm at... Today, not so good. Don't know how to fix it when i did something (like brake the car) and he isn't ready to look past that. So every time he walks in, his conversations are along the lines of " your stupid, and I'm awesome". Silly thing is he either won't acknowledge or didn't realize that's basically the summary of his conversations right now. I've learned i cannot tell him he's being ridiculous because it makes things worse. Would be interested in a vid on how to navigate a disagreement without making things worse.
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1. Don’t react
2. Expand your vocabulary
3. Thoughtful compliments
4. Passionate and mystery
5. Asking great questions
6. Go with the flow
Indeed 💯
Asking questions that relate to his life, past or present, or even future, lets him feel my interest. I have won his trust, now he shares his emotional processes that he wouldn't share with others :) Ladies, remember trust is earned!
Trust is earned indeed.
I love how this video has an element of communication. You’re right, if a man can’t hold an intellectual conversation than he’s not the man for me
Love these insights. Thanks 💯
I love to dress up. Especially when I go out. It has nothing to do with trying to impress a man. I do it for myself. Because it makes me feel good. If I am going on a date, I try to dress according to where he is taking me.
Great advice! Being a good listener is so magnetic both for men and women. And also any behavior that shows any sense of desperation is not attractive. Givers are magnetic and takers are not.
Givers are magnetic 💯
Great vid and solid advice. 👏 I'm also focused on learning to listen better. Not waiting to respond or show off. Actually hear the man! 😊
I catch myself doing it every now and then as well. I'm glad you're conscious about making that change in your life.
Your vocabulary and passion will make you exceptional.❤
Yes it will. Thanks for your insights 🙌
Everyone has something special about them..even the ones we are not attracted to,or want to be involved with.Its nice to give compliments according to the level of interest and passion you have for someone.Compliments for others compliment your own heart,Smart men can tell a womans heart by the way she speaks to him.We need to be wise and sensitive with our words...Our words have power in relationships,Be soft, be kind, be loving in conversations..let the light shine on him.Its not about us all the time ,,,,men need compliments and dotting over ,they deserve it.Why are people so hard on men....
First time viewer here and loved your suggestions and reasoning behind them. It made me reflect on how I'm relating to men as opposed to changing myself. thank you!
I just find your videos extremely helpful and very inspiring! Thank you especially that poem by Celia and how Jerry Seinfeld aced his breakup 😂
Wow. That was an awesome video. Thank you. I can't wait to watch your next one😊
Much appreciated 🙌
Thanks for this video Ismael! You really spit some game in the beginning about mastering the art of non-reactivity. Appreciate your videos 😊
That's very sweet of you. Thanks.
@@SaveTheMessenger you’re welcome
It works both ways!!
Right. But this is a channel for women, not men.
Look into "The Empowering Wife" books. Their theology is that the woman can change the relationship to what she wants. That guys are generally reactors. There have been hundreds of women testify they were in an abusive relationship and applied those principles and got the love they always wanted with that same guy. Many comments are "if I would have known this with my first husband, I would have never divorced" basically it makes a success out of any man, through the women's efforts.
Personally I do agree though, in not someone who can "fake it till you make it"
@SaveTheMessenger Would you please provide the link of that great poetry ? It's so beautiful! I'd love to hear her read that poem over and over and soak the words up as fuel to love myself 😊❤
For such a young man - you give very good & wise advice.
I appreciate how to the point your videos are ❤
Thank you for leaving such a lovely comment 😁
I can't take on relationship advice I work hard to keep my man happy
❤ I been watching a lot of love coaches in YOU Tube . But I really like you the most cause I feel you are direct and your advices are direct .
That made my day. Thank you.
And men need to turn up not looking as if they've just got up from the couch. And in a car that's less than 20 years old.
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I like to turn up on a bike.
Wow this is what I need, thank you so much!
Glad it was helpful! 🙏
Thank you Ismael ❤
Glad you found my video. Thanks🙏
But what if he doesn't ask anything about my life?
I never tire of listening to you Ismael
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
Jerry Seinfeld at 2:01 and Celia Martinez poem starts at 3:21😂
Ismael, thank you! ❤
Much appreciated 🙌
incredible as usual
Thank you Sir
Most welcome. Thanks 🙏
Awesome
So question my friend I had not seen in 50 plus years, when we met again he hughed me wonderfully twice...he's loosing his hair BUT I love that look as my.dads side of family had that beautiful trait...so my question can I say " I wanted to kiss your forward gently when we talk on the phone, only about 2 times a month at this point, as he loves to make people laugh thank you Ismeal for your insight and educational videos ❤
Thank you for another great video! What i love best about you, is that you're a guy trying to help us ladies know what you're thinking. And you're smart enough to know how to do it 😂😂. I think most men are emotionally illiterate and don't even know what they want themselves, kinda pointless to even ask.
Love to watch your feed whenever I'm wanting to amp my relationship. Also to gauged where I'm at... Today, not so good.
Don't know how to fix it when i did something (like brake the car) and he isn't ready to look past that. So every time he walks in, his conversations are along the lines of " your stupid, and I'm awesome". Silly thing is he either won't acknowledge or didn't realize that's basically the summary of his conversations right now. I've learned i cannot tell him he's being ridiculous because it makes things worse.
Would be interested in a vid on how to navigate a disagreement without making things worse.
Be non-reactive. 🎉
Your selection of words and ideas to get us persuaded by the truth that we need to know is just poooof 💣
I kept smiling as I read your comment 😁🙏
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"Go easy on them" 😂😂
Love that videi!
This just made my day 🙌
I feel ugly any way to be honest wish i didst but sadly i do
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Huh
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