How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You (Animated Story)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Today we look at how to stop caring what people think of you. Caring too much about other people’s opinions is something that can cause a lot of unhappiness in your life. It can often make you feel trapped, or unable to truly express yourself to the world. There are many different aspects to not caring about other people, but this one might be the most important.
The first video that I ever made on this channel was called, how to ignore people. So this whole topic is one that is very important to me because if you care too much about what other people think of you, you won’t go after the career that you want, the girl/guy you want to date or be able to live the type of life you want. And then one day, you will wake up old, and realize that you have lived the wrong life.
If you are still reading this, you are a rock star. Check out my last video called This One Habit Will Make You Successful And Happy - • This One Habit Will Ma...
Was laughing hard just thinking about that time we filmed that vid. Anyway, dope vid!!
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In a world in where everybody is worrying about what other people think of them, nobody cares really
ThomasTurner69 dude I love your profile pic bro
Unless you get targeted by the Twitter Outrage Mob. Then it Matters.
Why the hell is this sooo true!!!
Thank you for my Instagram caption
@@gamingwithkoalas105koala6 is that Mr Bean with wig
"The less you care what others think about you,the more people will actually like you" thanks for it!!!
Yeah ty so much!
I strongly disagree. You can't make everyone happy no matter what. What's important is making yourself happy.
@@roodlyfbuts8006 But he never mentioned making everyone happy in his comment
If you really don't care, you won't bother yourself Knowing if they like you or not
Never trust anyone is number one thing that life taught me
Yes
Yup, even your girlfriend, if you trust them then you’re just opening yourself out waiting for them to shoot you with a lie. You can trust a person 99% but never trust them 100%, always be aware.
That is so true, but unfortunately like a lot of people, I learnt the hard way! 😂 🙃
Coffwee I have some people that I feel so close to that I can jump off a cliff with them promising to catch me
Gio Mandwee Yeah it’s your choice anyway like i can come and slap the crap out of you for what you do. Say that I’m unlucky or whatever but i used to trust this person fully like whatever they say I trust it. They’ve made me promises to ensure me through time and it melted my heart seeing them promising all of that. Until one day i caught them in a lie, a heart breaking lie. I said to myself “it’s fine it’s fine they have a reason for that” .But no, she couldn’t explain herself. And just in ONE mere second, all of the promises she’s made just burnt to dust. Hell that was an experience. But live the way you want, trust the people you trust cuz maybe they’ll catch you but if not hmmmmmm... you’ve seen my comment.
"You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches" This quote reminds me to be myself and not fake my personality no matter what.💫
One lesson life has taught me.
The smaller your circle is. The better your life will be. There's less risk and more love and loyalty. Choose wisely who will be in your small circle. I personally only have 2 people outside of my family who i call my friends. Others are just acquaintances. Harsh but reality is reality.
Simple fact. 7.5 billion people on this planet. Why do you get worried about what a group of 3-5 people think?
Yeah, even so it is only a few people, it is not everyone.
Same me.i have many hi n bye freind but for one good freind
I’m the same as you. I’m very careful with who I choose to call a “friend” and refer to maybe only 2 as friends and the rest as acquaintances. Reality is reality. There are too many snakes in this world.
@@peter9111 true
Same I only really have 3 good friends outside my family I don’t really care what other people think of me I’m dorky and a nerd and sensitive but that’s who I am
"Be like the bird and keep singing your song". - Amazing
I tried to fly like a bird but......;(
Which song
Yeah but everyone fucking hates those birds
It's a 12th century quote from rumi this guy is trying to pass as his own... Rumi - 'I want to sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think.'
Reminds me of Pete the Cat books 😂
One of my favorite quotes is this:
"When you're 20, you care what people think of you.
When you're 40, you decide, 'I don't care what people think!'
And when you're 60, you realize no one was even thinking about you in the first place."
I collect human bodyparts. Your video helped me overcome my anxiety of being rejected for my hobby.
Wait what
Do you mean eyes, fingers and stuff
@@jennarotmans9017 no no, don't worry. On an unrelated topic, do you happen to have nice feet or ears ?
Thesavagesouls Idk if your being serious or not but nice hobby, I do the same. I’m looking for left hands at the moment.
@@frescokai160 i have plenty of left hands, which color do you need ?
Life is short, do what you want to do, love who you want to love, and see what you want to see.
The last video I made on this channel, is probably one of the most important videos that I’ve ever made, and most of you didn’t see it. It’s called “This One Habit Will Make You Successful And Happy”
3 mins video that is the reason I'm seeing this,keep it up bro ,good job !!!
Mitch Manly love u man....
God Bless....
From 🇮🇳
Beautiful video to show your love to Taylor Swift, this Easter egg was perfect but I spotted you as a swiftie ☺️
as a chess player i always get peeves when someone sets the board wrong but you did it correctly you have my respect and sub
This is a great habit but is too simple to work tho lol.
"I could stand in front of twenty strangers and speak on any topic. Some of them will hate what I’m wearing, some will love it. Some will think I’m a fool, and others will love what I have to say. Some will forget me as soon as they leave, others will remember me for years."
-SandyWoznicki
So Just be yourself!😊
Personally i started meditation everyday , It helped me overcome such fears . It has given me other benefits , you should definitely try :)
It helped me a lot too, I will make a video on it in the future. I played Wind Waker by the way :)
Bro can you tell me how to meditate ? And can it be done on any setting at any time?
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_Thank you for making my day 😇. I was unnecessarily getting worried for people think about me!_
Glad I could help mate
Thanks, I get judged by my “friends” a lot and it really affects my self esteem, thanks for helping me not care what those idiots think with this video dude!
Stay away from people who judge you. A friend will accept you as you are
@@xloltimex38 right
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So you get muscles by doing that? Wow thats cool!
JIN LOL right?
I was looking for this comment
@@deadrat2003 same
@WolfGANG also interessting how gaining muscles to look pumped shows how few you care about what other people think
@@ferninandvonfimmel9767 hahaha true
'less you care, more happy you will be', this is what i keep remind to myself. we cant stop other people from what they wanna say or think about ourself. but, we can stop thinking about what other people think or say about ourself. so just live your life and be yourself
Agreed, it's not easy though. I will do another video in the future going into more practical ways when it comes to actually not caring.
Man, your videos have changed my life, thank you for this amazing content, a big hug from a brazilian fan 🤘
Appreciate it, I'm truly glad I could help
Something just happened that was embarrassing for me this week at school. Students laughed at me for trying to be myself. Honestly, this video is a reminder that their opinions don't matter and I should just continue my path. Thanks Mitch, I'm a huge fan!!
Glad I can help mate
Be yourself always. The unique unfortunately will be criticized for being theirs elves
This really was one of my greatest problems. I couldnt even have fun at dancing parties because i was too embarrased. But about one year ago i started working out and this gave me some confidence. Now i actually dont care anymore, except if the person caring is a girl i like :)
Nice video with a deep, important message!
Sometimes I worry about what other people think about me... then I remember how much thought I actually give others when they do something different, not much at all. Great video btw.
Me: *Follows this videos advice*
Later that day.
Mom: I love you!
Me: I DON'T CARE
Me all the time
You should be nicer to your mom
Cause you think she has to love you right? But what if she wouldn't love you?
Mom only one person who cares about us
I know this is supposed to be a joke, but it's not funny because you probably really did this. Be nice to your mom. You never know how long you still have her. Show her some love back you spoiled brat.
“Be the bird and keep singing your song” this really hit!! Thank you 😊
Hey Mitch,
Could you please make a video about how to find a mentor in real life?
I realized that it's really important to surround yourself with the right people, because they have a great impact on you. And a mentor is definitely a person, that everyone should have in their life, but I don't exactly know how a mentor should be and how to find one.
I've seen many videos about finding a mentor already, but for some reason, they're all talking about mentors, who help you become successful in business and I'm not talking about such kind of mentors. I mean mentors, who help you become who you want to be and support you in general.
You would help me a lot with that!
Love your videos btw🙈
Mitch, I watch all your videos with pleasure, they are amazing and powerful. Thank you so much! I hope you won't stop making them :)
Glad I could help mate
@Matt Ludwig Cheers mate
Meh:Bird sings nice
Dude:It sings terrible
Bird:Idfc.
The universe brought me here. I have my exam tomorrow and i always tell my friends how much i have completed studying. Turns out, they are jealous and they started talking in a specific way with me. For an hour or so, i was so depressed. Then i danced to sucker and I am fine now. I don't get how can they still act like kids. I am 24 and in a medical college for crying out loud. Uggh. Thanks man
A smart legend name 2pac shakur once said
"trust nobody"
Tupac Shakur*
Dumbass
Damn, this video was more accurate than i expected..i thought i was the only one having a different „social“ persona other than my true self..
I don't trust my mom
I don't trust my dad
I don't trust my dog
I don't trust myself
Oh wait.. I trust myself but other people NO!
You should trust your doggy tho
Hey Mitch!
Thank you so much for this video.
I am going through trauma relief ever snice 2 years ago and it has been rough, up until this point. My family didn't get what I am doing, my girlfriend still thinks it is weird, but she is getting used to it as I am developing my compassion and communication skills and my friends, old ones, aren't really interested in talking about this. I am feeling better and better everyday now thanks to my perseverance and the kindness of many people I connected with over the internet.
Your analogy about the bird really sticks with me. The bird has no care in the world just does what he is good at, what he is made to do. I like this. It is crystal clear. And I am glad there are people out there that think like I do. I am getting better and better at doing what I was made to do in this world.
Thank you so much!
Keep making videos and have a wonderful afternoon! :D
I can't even talk on our class messenger group chat. That's how insecure I am.
i've never wrote anything in there too. But just because i gave a f*** about these people... If you don't even talk in your class messenger group chat, is it because *they* made you insecure? If you really want to do something with them, you probably would write with these guys. But doens't seem like... Just make sure you don't need their help. Look for people that are like you and you can be yourself...
Same
DocZero add me to the group bro
THIS IS 100% ME 100% ACCURATE! THANKS FOR THE ADVICE AND I START TO SUBSCRIBE THIS CHANNEL!
Thanks for this video I need it
:)
I have watched almost every video on your channel :) Keep up the great work!!!!!!!!
Just remember, nobody is thinking of that one thing you did many years ago.
They are too busy thinking about the thing that they did all those years ago
Not caring with people's words lessen my stress. I have a senior in an organization at my Uni who always loved talk shit about me since I hated wasting my time doing groupcall in which we only do 10% work and 90% chatting and because of that i prefer working without group calling. The dude is that extrovert type and keep trying to influence my colleague in the organization how i am a bad person or shouldn't be like me. While he wasted all that time, I'm just enjoying my life.
I have one question for you...
Is being a skinny guy a sign of lack of confidence or success? Like why would you always put a skinny guy in the thumbnail as a sign of failure/insecurity/misery ?
No, being skinny has nothing to do with core confidence
@@MasculineMan Thanks for adressing that. As a skinny guy , sometimes we feel pressured by society into muscle building because being muscular is seen as the standard for all guys. which it's not an easy task to achieve for hard gainers like me.
@@POPDATA I know how it feels, I am very much a hard gainer too
I think because most of human males have a normal "skinny" Body type so Nothing to be worries about, gaining muscles isnt easy
I call it Politically Correctness.
Wow this actually helped me. Not that I never knew this but you just explained everything from a different perspective from the one that I know, and that makes me also see it in a different way, in a more understandable way
“I'm as free as a bird now..“
Omg thank you very much you have helped me to be me not whom others have made me.
Really appreciateing, change my thinking
Very good video! I’ve recently stopped caring/ bring so self conscious out of no where. I got so fed up with being stressed about what other people thought all the time. So I stopped caring and just did me, it’s such a relief and I instantly felt so much more confident
cheers mate
Everyone: Nobody really cares😒
Me: you won’t gain muscles if you stop caring about things🤦♂️🙄😠
Hahahas right brug
It's definitely a struggle but I can't bring myself to take that leap of faith and ignore what everyone says. I think I fear being rejected/hated and I want everyone to like me. Dope video tho we'll get there someday!
What if u have something others don't understand? I come across confident and loud sometimes but I have problems with overthinking and anxiety but I get carried away when the endorphins kick in. I also have Asperger's meaning I often blurt out awkward things, no filter and have weird hobbies as u mention. I often go through life feeling misunderstood and have been unfairly criticised by friends and family in past. I am wary of being taken advantage of and I sometimes need reassurances that people will be OK with me but it's quite hard to know. I find its easy for me not to care bout random people, but massively when people know me, so I often shut people out my life from getting too close. It's hard to explain to be honest! Anyone else feel the same?
Mark W I Unterstand you. Actually I have the same problem. Like I do not care what strangers might or might not think of me, but I constantly worry what people that I am close with could think about me. It's pretty tiring actually
@@anynomous6911 yea and because of it I have developed a lot of anxiety issues. It's hard to explain this to ppl
Mark W Don't worry. I've come to a point in my life, where I decided that the most important thing is what I think about myself. You have to know that you're the one who has to live with your decisions. You are the one who decides which path is the right one, even if everyone else thinks otherwise. In the end it's your life, so don't waste it living someone else's life
@@anynomous6911 I appreciate what u are saying. However this is hard to apply because even though we say otherwise people's opinions are important and we all have a need to be liked by others.
Mark W Yea, you're right, it's undeniable that we have the need to be liked by others, but our life and our self-esteem shouldn't be defined by it
Good stuff. Going to show this to my son because you say it better than I ever could.
Yes... stop caring and suddenly you ripped af like in the thumbnail...
For sure - that's how it works 😂😂😂
HatinKiwi omg so funny😂😂😂 stfu annoying ass bitch, local.
@@ladysquids don't be mean
@@ladysquids xd
Your all videos are so much meaningful and amazing thank you making this 🙂
Very good
Cheers Ray
Thank you so much. I needed this right now. You don’t know how much this will help me in the coming years.
So the thumbnail pic, you got a skinny guy on the left saying before and a guy in shape on the right saying after. You're implying we men need to get in shape to be less worried. ._. You're not wrong though.
*I think we all know where this is going*
@@simon6372 You're the chaddiest chad i've seen in a while and i'm not joking
thanks, my Maths teacher ruined my day. he insulted me for getting poor marks . i understood my mistake and was working on it. But he insulted me in front of whole class. i left the meeting immediately and started to watch YT shorts and other random stuff to forget it. but nothing happened, it kept haunting me what would others think of me. it was not about marks, it was about a self image. my confidence was touching ground and i wasnt interested in studies anymore. finally i thought to watch this and got relaxed. i would try my best to get better grades in the next exam. Thanks
This makes me more depressed than I'm already am
It'll come better as you more belive in it, trust me
Thank you for this video, Mitch. It really helped me to understand how I should focus more on what I think than what other people, and if there is someone with a similar passion as me who likes what I am doing, then I have found a new friend. Thank you!
Me:I stop being a shyass since moment.
Also me:Damn, what if she hate me?
By far the most helpful video I've seen.
Thank you, really.❤️
The lesson that will keep my head up all the road is:
“Life is full of ups and downs but I will Rebuild those streets and make them highways”
-Me myself and only I
Have a nice day
You too mate
Nice video, my anxiety drops down to 95%. Now I have self confidence to be extra and still lowkey wants people not to hate me. I just basically want to have a good reputation.
I'm glad I could help Karylle
I am so thin.I am 17.So my body is not as good as other friends of mine.I always shy about that.
U can change ur body don't compare ur body with others
How convenient, I wake up with a bad dream that lead me with a realization that I’m to anxious because I care too much about what people think of me, and I hop on RUclips and this vid is on the top of my recommendations
And at the end that friend is going to pick a stone and throws at that bird.😁😁😁😅
Yah, there was a time where I was worried about how my hair was combed, how the people looked at me. What made me change the way of thinking was when I started to notice that I didn't care about other people lives. That doesn't mean I'm not special or anything else, it means that although I'm a super special guy, I don't need to waste my time proving it to someone else.
Sometimes I pretend to do not give important to put the others say about me nd their judgment but that hurts inside blv me 😟
Stay strong Lucinda
it should not hurt, stay true to yourself
When I started going to dances with my friends, I was scared to dance, I was kind of in the dark corner, and it wasn’t fun. But when I started to just dance and be myself, and even learn from other people what was normal, I turned it into my own personality, and I became the life of the party, going on the stage dancing in front of everyone. And I did it by just being in the moment and not caring what people think of me. I just need to be me, and that’s made me happy in life.
“I never care of what people think about me,I only care of what my family and my friends think about me”
This whole statement is wrong by wrong in many ways..
I might be young but I’ve learnt what a 30 year old didn’t learn.Never care about ANYONE
There are only 2people in my whole life that I Love and care about,My Mom and my Brother.
Dad❌
Cousins❌
Friends❌
Relatives❌
My advice is if you wanna open up or trust someone then make sure you do that with strangers on the internet.
In general I’m IN LOVE with my Mother’s side ,my cousins.
But all the people and cousins from my dad’s side are all useless and judgy.trust someone that makes you feel at home where you can fall on your back but they will catch you back up.
My friends judge me alot because I don’t put on manicure or becuz I don’t want a boyfriend.I HAVE TRUST ISSUES ! I don’t want a useless boyfriend just to show off and be like LOOK HE LOVESS ME.This shit annoys me,nowadays you have to follow what society does just like a bunch of sheep.
Unfortunately both families of mine are seperated by my parents’ divorce which makes me forced to live far away from my TRUE loved ones
This is how you have a comfortable life.I’ve learnt this the hard way.
Do what you love to do.I love football/soccer and I get judged for that becuz “I’m A GiRl”,bitch idgaf about what you think,I do whatever I fucking want and I ain’t gonna give two fucks about you.Always do these days where you go in public where no one knows you and do a weird thing,like dancing or singing with your terrible voice.something like ‘Qpark’ maybe,give yourself some memories you don’t need no one else,learn to survive by yourself.When I grow up I’m gonna become a football player and make my “Mom and only my mom” proud of me.I’m gonna give her all I have for the exchange of what she did for me.I will give her both love and luxury.I’ll live with her.And then when I’m famous I will go back to my “so called dad” and my dad’s side cousins and I will laugh at their faces while they’re busy cleaning the house like maids.I WILL ACHIEVE MY DREAM.I WILL PROVE EVERYBODY WRONG.I WILL LAUGH AT THE END AND THEY WILL BEG TO GET BACK IN MY LIFE.but guess what I learnt this the hard way,I learnt that I ain’t gonna be soft hearted no more and be sympathetic.Being like this broke my heart.Instead I ain’t forgiving those bunch of idiots that call themselves family.They’re gonna tell me “BuT He’S yOu’Re DaD” well I don’t give a FUCK,you don’t become a dad or a family just by having a bunch of kids.You become one when you really are one.
Later I will marry the one that loves me for who I am and the one that will be proud of me instead being a prick.There will be ups and downs but I will rebuild those streets and make it a highway.
Ungreatfull fuck
So good, thank you Mitch!
The connection with people that love your quirks will be more rewarding.🔥⚡️😎
Remember:
1. People stop caring
2. The avg person is incredible self absorbed.
3. The less you care what people think the more people will see you as authentic.
4. We are attracted to people whom are comfortable in who they are!
But if the people who judge you are from your family and you have to see them frequently ?
Thanks for the video it's help a lot 🙏❤️❤️
I'm glad it helped :)
@imé Cifer They have to accept you, like you are, but don't change yourself. People often like you better if you are yourself.
If you are unique, people will remember you!
Thank you so much for the visual presentation
How to stop caring what people think of you?
Step 1: look better
Cool thanks
Tf does looks have to do with this?
@@tonectic8234 have you seen the thumbnail of this video?
@@Pevvo yeh the right one looks worse.
Exactly. It’s like he wants us to act vain and superficial so people will flock to us. The whole reason you workout for most people is to attract people so at some point, you still care.
I disagree, I workout because I want to be healthy and I think it looks better.
Thank you for this man, I really feel like this helped me be more comfortable being me
how to stop carrying?...drink at least 3 beers and done,you can thank me later
Great video my friend✨✨
1:21 This is actually kinda a sad thing.
this was incredible and honestly help me so much I’m blown away by your graphics even more by the message!!!
Nice! Now i can talk openly about my furry sonic asexual south park lego fetish roleplay!
Young 5
@Young5Moe dont yall know im joking
loving yourself and expressing who you really are is what freedom actually means in today’s day and age
1 view and 18 likes... youtube, good job!
haha yep!
"When you find difficult to laugh at yourself everyone will find easy to laugh at yourself"
*anxiety wants to know your location*
If anyone dislikes this video any more I will burst with anger...this person is a really inspiring motivational speaker, I like what he's doing and I would support it for as long as possible
I can finally talk now with others about my love for poo
man you are so helpfull for making these videos. lots of peopleel will think twice now💪🏽
I like to sniff on my best friends underwear, now he dont want to talk anymore to me... i guess he wasnt a friend all along
Pablo Clavo that’s to far 😂
Hope this is a joke 😂😯
Pablo Clavo 💀💀😂😂
This is great stuff.
Why is The Profesor in the thumbnail?
I really needed this!
Thanks,man!
I'm glad it helped Padakumar!
This would never happen in italy! You make noises you get shot
'nzomma....non mi pare proprio
@@loscioccoinblu2840 dai qualcosa ti dicono però! 😂
Keep up the good work man!
Thanks Samet!
So... be a bird and keep singing. Thanks
"Be like the bird and keep singing your song". Be yourself and love who you are. Audit your friend list and spend more time with those who empower you
Great advice Scott
Why does the guy on the thumbnail look like el professor?
Alexis Grande hahahahah oh my god yesss !!
I can't thank you enough. I really needed that at the moment very much.
You look like the professor from House of Paper search it up
I swear like this is my mentality I just don’t care about what people think about me it’s so good
1 joker gave a dislike but doesn't matter :)
I really thank you you helped me a lot in the development of listening to English words I love your voice too
Can u also tell how to... start caring wt other says..peepz always tell me thik of what other think 😆🤷
Super bro. It really helped me.. the most needed video for me today. ✌️
Cheers mate