I honestly believe she told him she wanted to end the relationship,she wanted to leave he didn't let her take the baby,she ran for 3 days because he was abusive! He a mess!
Nah. Any mom that’s gonna lie on a dude abusing kids is a piece of shit. If she really wanted her kids, she’d have them, especially with how the courts work in Michigan. He legit has documents and paperwork where others, not just him, deem she is unfit
But sure he’s the mess, let’s defend the mom who has been found coaching her kids and abusing them and putting them through trauma that way. She’s the only one proven to be abusive
He doesn't love the daughter either, he's using her to torture this young lady. I hope his 2 domestic violence cases is a warning to any other woman he gets involved with.
“Her father ran out of the house, jumped on my back”. If nothing else stuck out , this 1 statement told the whole story. You know what has to be happening for a older man to do something crazy like this? Despite her age , she will always be her dads baby girl. As parents we don’t just stop protecting our babies when they get grown, we will always protect them at any cost. That man seen his daughter was in serious trouble, and that moment is when he became all the way fed up.
This man is a cold blooded abuser.. many abusive people disguise themselves as calm, rational people when they are violent sociopaths. I hope this poor young lady never looks back.
This case is sad smh. At first I believed him but the defendant never interrupted him and let him tell his side of the story. Which to me shows she’s used to him lying and putting on a show. Also she had proof towards the end and his demeanor once he lost showed me what I needed to see. Hopefully the kids are okay but that’s most important.🙏🏼
Something tells me she just wanted to get away from him but he keeps beating her to the punch with matters of the court. Look how angry he got at the end. Showed his true self real quick.
He's using his daughter to hurt, and control her. Someone someday will kill him, or he's going to hurt someone else. He's lucky the daddy didn't take him out. She needs to take all the proof, and get a statement from the other lady he abused before. He's dangerous.
I felt he was guilty when he first opened his mouth and said, “how are you doing today, your honor?” He was already trying to set the stage to come across as a nice, caring, upstanding individual. He almost had me for a while.
I think there was so much going on he might’ve missed it. Also, he doesn’t spend much time on such an egregious accusation like that when the person doesn’t have a police report about the incident
So, he tied her up in the closet and later released her & took her to her parent's house. Then she got a police escort back to the house so she could get her stuff but NOT BOTH OF HER CHILDREN?!? Why weren't the police brought to the house to arrest him? I believe that both of them did a bunch of lying.
@@neededtobesaid4275 she said she couldn't get her child and the police said they couldn't do anything about the father not wanting to give her the child.
You know what I was going along with this guy at first until I figured out that he is a woman beater and he was fighting on this woman because she went and got with another man but he didn't put none of that energy into going and fight her new man.....He's a punk that beats on women.
U a clown,this women is a drug abuser and abandoned her child that even the judge denied her custody,you and the defendant must be much alike in everyway keep defending that horrible person that assaulted a man over a phone.
It seem like she lied about him molesting her son so she can get her daughter back smh just sad! It should be serious charges against people who make false allegations especially like that
This dude is dangerous. He had all his ducks (or so he thought) in a row. You can tell he is used to being in court,fast talking to get his way. And then he lied and lost. Look at the reaction.
Bravo Young Miss. Get yourself to safety first and then take recourse as you did. I knew he was a snake when he opened his mouth. He manipulated several abusive incidents to claim 'victim' status but the Judge saw right through that. I loved it when we heard the other side from Mom. She needed to tell her side. It completed the picture and showed who actually was the abusive one and who denied whom.
I never condone hitting a woman, but it was clear from her own testimony that she hit him first. Why is it ok for her to hit him, why is this never talked about? She assaulted him, she coached her son to lie about sexual abuse, and I believe she lied about being tied up in a closet. She could have reported that to the police but instead she convinced him to drop her off somewhere else. That doesn't make sense to me. Let's also not forget that she left her kids with him, even her son that was not his so she could go live with another man. This is who you are applauding?
And Cps also revealed who was unfit and who coached a kid into saying he molested him. The truth is THEYRE BOTH TOXIC AND ABUSIVE. They’re both wrong .
@@nickynick_ Nope, she isn't wrong. She is the victim. He is a large violent fellow who likes to intimidate women by tying them up and putting them in a closet and violently attacking and intimidating her. The judge called it correctly. He is foul and I hope he pays for his other abusive actions because we can tell this isn't his first run with a partner. We can also tell this isn't his first abuse case. Heck, he attacked her grandfather and has a prior felony on his record.
You should be worried about the mother who would just leave thier kids somewhere so she can enjoy herself. You should be worried about a mother who uses her own child as a tool to get back at someone she is mad at. Why doesn't these things worry you?
Easy.. she ran from her abuser he took advantage wouldn't give the child back told the powers that be that she abandoned the child and then refuse to let her see the child all because he was trying to make her submit and he is a manipulator
@@jplaya2023 until he can prove that I don't believe so...a man that beats on his child mother then downplays his actions seems like the one that is unfit to me
@@jplaya2023 OR he presented a story that sounded good to the judge. Just like here, he was SOUNDING good at first before evidence was presented to contradict his LIES.
He shows signs of a classic abuser. Always blame the other person in the relationship and not recognize their short comings. The most dangerous time in a relationship for a victim is when they try leave the man. The woman leaving the children, it's not uncommon. A restraining order does nothing, it just shows a paper trail. The abuser can still attack them, depending that person level of crazy.
@Nina Very true and many states vary regarding the language of the TPO or TRO. I previously worked with victims of domestic violence, and it very disappointing to see how the law does not support victims of DV.
U a clown,this women is a drug abuser and abandoned her child that even the judge denied her custody,you and the defendant must be much alike in everyway keep defending that horrible person that assaulted a man over a phone.
@@nbl5516 very true. I've had many domestic abuse clients. Most were too scared to leave because when they did before things got worse. Law enforcement did not help them and sometimes they helped the abuser more.
@@SimplyNina1 exactly. The first and only time the police were callrd on my ex husband, my mom had heard what he was saying to me while she was on the phone. He was up in my face screaming at me. He’s gotten physical on multiple occasions before so she was worried how things might escalate. During that argument, he got mad and threw his glasses on the couch and my son being a toddler jumped on the couch and accidentally landed on the glasses so he broke them. When he started screaming at my son, i picked him up and took him out to the car with me. When things calmed down a bit, I took my son back in bc I had to go to work, but I had a bad feeling so I waited out front. This dude really put my son out of the apartment and locked him out, didn’t check to see if I was still there and we lived right next to a very busy street. So I grabbed him again and got him in the car, the police called me and told me to meet them at a safe location, so I did. I told them everything that had happened and they had me drive back to the apartment w them. When we got there they asked me to write down the report while they spoke to him. They were with him for not even 5 minutes before they came out, told me to get out of the car, and automatically said “I need you to tell me the truth. He’s saying you broke his glasses because you were mad at him” I told them that wasn’t true and so they threatened to arrest me for DV in the presence of children x2 and criminal mischief but decided to just cite me instead. The next day I recorded my convo w my ex husband and caught him admitting to lying to the cops bc “that was my karma for calling them”. A couple weeks later I was finally able to get out of the house with both of my kids. Took a couple months and a few thousand dollars for an attorney to clear the charges. It’s ridiculous the power cops have over victims. Especially since over 40% of cops are domestic abusers themselves. Like the charges that these cops cited me for could’ve risked me losing custody of both of my kids. That was the most terrifying thing.
@@aliyahdiel391 I'm sorry to hear that. Some states are just now adopting programs where law enforcement have to look out for the victim. Even still law enforcement is still not trained properly. I pray things are going well for you and your children. The first thing people see that this man made this woman in the show look crazy. Like the crazy fool who commented on my post earlier. It's not uncommon for a judge to order the children with the abuser temporarily until they are the truth come out because crazy can only hide for so long. Some states like Florida have it where any case of domestic violence that had take place in front of the children of any age are sent to child services. I can't count how many cases I got with DV where law enforcement did nothing to the abuser and we find so much history with the family regarding DV.
Her body language says it all. She's down right horrified of him. It's like being in a scary movie every single day when she's dealing with him. She should of had him locked up. And yes you can tell he uses that child as a crutch.
She didn’t interrupt him at anytime, she’s used to his BS and gaslighting. I have known women who erroneously left their kids with their abuser thinking that he would never hurt them. One friend in particular, her husband shot and killed her and then himself in front of their children and her mom Mother’s Day weekend 2012 😢
@@questioneverything8572 She called her mom up to get the kids because she knew he was getting started, he waited til she got there and did it in the front yard. I think he wanted her mom to see. He was a monster.
Narcissist ALWAYS use their children as pawns against the other parent. I pray for her protection and that she gets her daughter back from that monster.
How does he have custody of that baby after all that violence? He's using that baby against her. He must be charming to the court. I am familiar with his kind. Since she doesn't want him anymore he thinks he can keep her baby from her. I hope he knows that his daughter will grow up, and resent him. Kids always find out the real when they get older.
The amount of cheering I did when she won! I ain’t never wanted to knock somebody head off they shoulders so bad. This man needs to be in jail and counseled.
She looks so defeated and battered. He is an abuser and he is withholding the kids from her. I'm sure she's a beautiful soul. I'm sending blessings 🙌 and prayers 🙏 her way. SMH
🙍🏾♂️"She asked me if she could see My Daughter" Even if He has full custody that's still Their daughter🤦🏽♀️I pray their daughter lives in safer, loving environment🙌🏿
Yep exactly 💯 I will wait and take my time. I ain't gonna let any dude lock me down with a baby. He has to prove to me! Actions speak louder then words. This generation only cares about lust 🙄so it's hard but the key is patience and guidance
Exactly. Hubby and I dated 2 yrs, engaged 1 yr and waited 5 yrs before trying for a baby. We just celebrated 25yrs of marriage. People should stop having babies with ppl they don't know. Period.
He was definitely abusive & actually looked like he wanted to hit her when his claim was denied! He wants to hold the daughter over her head & control her. She explained her case well & had her receipts! I hope she’s been able to see her daughter. Very brave woman!
Literally got chills down my spine. Lived through someone just as calm and well spoken. It's like Jekyll and Hyde. Leave the first time ladies. Don't fight, don't get toxic. Just leave
I hope this woman felt the love and belief from the people watching in court when they applauded the judges decision.. im glad they did that.. i wish her and her children love and strength 💖
Those of you standing up for him are apart of the problem this man beat his girlfriend and you’re on the internet saying it’s a good thing he has her daughter 😂😂 there was literally a witness aswell
But she left her kids, one that wasn't even his, in the abuser's care. Ummm... which makes her raggedy. Also, understand they were together for 4 years. She's apart of her problem.
It's the way he keeps say "my daughter " as if the child is a possession and that's not her whole entire mother. He reeks of big, dusty, musty abuser. I'm glad she got away, and my God Bless and Protect the Children, Her and Her Family. Ashe
The fact that he didn't even contest to her story about being tied up is very telling. No person who didn't do that, would just allow someone to say that and not deny it. I also wish JM would have asked him what his prior record was, something tells me it was regarding violence. Probably other domestic abuse charges and assault and battery towards other people. I know exactly what type of abuser this guy is.
Sorry, her kids had to witness this it sounds like she flee and left her daughter while trying to get away from him and he used it against her along with her drinking but jokes on him in the end👏🏿👍🤭
Oh, honey... I can just tell from listening she did what she had to do to leave him and I can tell her intent was to NEVER abandon her baby girl!!! She was probably too scared to take her on for fear of his retaliation. I hope she gets full custody and runs FAR away!
DV ain’t no joke y’all want to call her a deadbeat b/c of her child situation… you can tell he’s a big manipulator and a abuser the whole time she was telling her story on what he did he didn’t say nothing..
Sis plz, baby girl hang in there, and stay strong for your little girl. Both your babies need you, but baby girl needs you now more than ever. I fear she is in danger with that man.
She’s got me messed up! Flat out I wouldn’t have went ANYPLACE, without my daughter! I don’t believe her on that, because why does the other father have his child? What type of father does she have, that allowed that? Why would she stay with a man for FOUR years, that threatened her parents??! Naw, she’s not an angel! Clearly something is amiss, because them people gave him custody! I’d love to hear from the other father! Why would she leave both children with him, and the son has his own dad? Messy Bessy! Poor kids
Plaintiff is definitely a wolf in sheep's clothing. The way he came in and tried it to build a rapport right away with the judge that everything I needed to know. He's a scumbag and my prayer is that this little girl goes back to her mom and is safe
He tried to look at her personal phone and is keeping the daughter to have the mother coming over fpr her! Be very careful my dear he's the type to do harm and sit in jail with no regrets! Never once he apologized for his behavior towards her. He is one of the worst characters based on his case and body language. Screams abusive! You right hun runnnnnn!
@@shannonbrice8012 what credibility u tool?the defendant already proved she damaged his vechile,judge mathis can lose his liecence for that being petty and malice just because tje plantiff denied so.ething that has nothing to do the case is unprofessional.
He is out of line for putting his hands on that elderly man. WTF you think is going to try and do when you are attacking his daughter???? FOH!!! He tried to sound all calm and innocent!🙄
He really believed the lies he told himself…she was hiding out at her parents from his abuse=she was laid up with some new dude…she was clearing her mind for 5 days= she no longer wants to be a mom….he claims she said that but later on reiterated that by her staying away for 5 days meant that😅he’s a nut case 💯👌🏾
Who suffers the most, THE CHILDREN, seeing, hearing and witnessing ALL these abuses at all levels: mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, devotionally, financially Pray for tbe children and pray for the heart of the parents to get their act together
I won’t post social media accounts but she seems to be well, looks good, kids seem happy and like she has them. the only thing i could find on him was a mugshot 😬
I was on her side the whole time I was praying judge Mathis saw that that man was on bs ! I believed everything she said too ! I’m glad she won this case and I pray she gets her baby back too
@@dreadxplayzs7849 He asked for HER phone even though they were not in a relationship (so why did he need to see it unless he is controlling) and he THREW the phone that didn't belong to him. I am sure if someone threw your phone, you could be fine with it?
@@shannonbrice8012 so you resort to violence because somebody throws your floor on the ground?only uncivilized savages do that and that gives him the right to defend himself,not e eryone is a mindless savage that doesnt think before he does.
That man is using the daughter as collateral to torture the mum. He is bad news and my gut tells me he is abusive and manipulative and i hope she gets her daughter back full time.
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I honestly believe she told him she wanted to end the relationship,she wanted to leave he didn't let her take the baby,she ran for 3 days because he was abusive! He a mess!
I agree
He’s that abusive that she left her child with him. She gets mom of year. And she left her son too right
Nah. Any mom that’s gonna lie on a dude abusing kids is a piece of shit. If she really wanted her kids, she’d have them, especially with how the courts work in Michigan. He legit has documents and paperwork where others, not just him, deem she is unfit
And honestly, she sounds kind of vindictive the fact she’d change the locks at a place she ain’t even staying at
But sure he’s the mess, let’s defend the mom who has been found coaching her kids and abusing them and putting them through trauma that way. She’s the only one proven to be abusive
The look on his face when he lost she better be careful
That’s what I said. His look said it all.
Yes she most definitely needs to be careful!!!
He look so pissed
He’s definitely denying visitation as a way to control her
Does that sound familiar? 🤔
@@ShabazzStone no it does not !! Choose better!!
@@ellaveldje7125 LIES!!!😂😂😂
@@ShabazzStone women do it but still don't make it right either way.
He doesn't love the daughter either, he's using her to torture this young lady. I hope his 2 domestic violence cases is a warning to any other woman he gets involved with.
“Her father ran out of the house, jumped on my back”. If nothing else stuck out , this 1 statement told the whole story. You know what has to be happening for a older man to do something crazy like this? Despite her age , she will always be her dads baby girl. As parents we don’t just stop protecting our babies when they get grown, we will always protect them at any cost. That man seen his daughter was in serious trouble, and that moment is when he became all the way fed up.
I totally agree
AGREED!!!!!
Thank goodness for the witness who corroborated her statement of events.
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This man is a cold blooded abuser.. many abusive people disguise themselves as calm, rational people when they are violent sociopaths. I hope this poor young lady never looks back.
Yes, they do. Then speak as if they are the victim.
That’s exactly what I accessed about his perceived calmness. It was all a front.
YEAH he's so abusive she stayed for years and had a child to.
@@jakeblank311 don't gas light. If you have never been in the situation, you have no idea.
@@jakeblank311 Yes, he is. Many of them do it. How old are you? You must be very young.
This young lady was very brave in the courtroom. She talked well, and presented her case incredibly well. Also, she looked fabulous
She held it together
Yes she did....the plaintiff tried to make her look bad. I'm glad jm saw through it. She ALL RECEIPTS
Ewww lol she coached a child to lie and say they were molested whats wrong with you guys
@@arimocha Ewwww. That's what was decided. It has to be accepted legally, but doesn't necessarily mean that it's true.
Her eyes are so lost & dark! The lights are gone inside her soul
I see that sadly low self esteem will do it…
You’re so right, I know those eyes! I hope she’s doing well.
Yes I too saw that! We must be empaths because I could just feel her energy!!!
This case is sad smh. At first I believed him but the defendant never interrupted him and let him tell his side of the story. Which to me shows she’s used to him lying and putting on a show. Also she had proof towards the end and his demeanor once he lost showed me what I needed to see. Hopefully the kids are okay but that’s most important.🙏🏼
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I feel bad for the kids too. I can only imagine what all they’ve witnessed
Exactly!
Something tells me she just wanted to get away from him but he keeps beating her to the punch with matters of the court. Look how angry he got at the end. Showed his true self real quick.
He's using his daughter to hurt, and control her. Someone someday will kill him, or he's going to hurt someone else. He's lucky the daddy didn't take him out. She needs to take all the proof, and get a statement from the other lady he abused before. He's dangerous.
Sammie Patton sometimes that don't help. If they been going back and forth for a while.
@@sammypatton5377 some women will just never admit when another woman is a deadbeat mother. SMH.
@@Brookepower574 And it's really sad
I agree. She needs better representation to help her fight him
I felt he was guilty when he first opened his mouth and said, “how are you doing today, your honor?” He was already trying to set the stage to come across as a nice, caring, upstanding individual. He almost had me for a while.
Body language 101
Of course you are a lady and on her side. Judge granted custody means she is a lie
100%
Good observation!...
@@Fannyyyyy_ behavioral psychology. Good catch 👍🏾
I wonder why he wasn’t asked if he tied her up and left her in the closet. I would have liked to see his response. What a terrible person.
I think there was so much going on he might’ve missed it. Also, he doesn’t spend much time on such an egregious accusation like that when the person doesn’t have a police report about the incident
So, he tied her up in the closet and later released her & took her to her parent's house. Then she got a police escort back to the house so she could get her stuff but NOT BOTH OF HER CHILDREN?!? Why weren't the police brought to the house to arrest him? I believe that both of them did a bunch of lying.
@@neededtobesaid4275 she said she couldn't get her child and the police said they couldn't do anything about the father not wanting to give her the child.
Because it’s irrelevant to the case and neither side can prove anything
He would just lie about tying her up. No man abusive or not wants to admit such a thing.
I believe her. Judge saw right through this cowards controlling behavior. I pray she gets granted full custody🙏
Female do it all the time tho..
@@Orlandoloc83I don’t believe her totally. Why does the other father have the son? She’s messy
I’m invested on an update from this young lady. My prayers are with her ❤️
I want them too
Me too
If they are not together why is he asking for the phone? This man is abusive…he’s using their daughter as collateral to torture the mom.
Facts
Sounds familiar.... 🤷🏾♂️
@@cornelliusjefferson7106don't ask for my phone if we're together 🤣
You know what I was going along with this guy at first until I figured out that he is a woman beater and he was fighting on this woman because she went and got with another man but he didn't put none of that energy into going and fight her new man.....He's a punk that beats on women.
Is that what you women do? 🤣🤣 crazy how the tables have turned and you have a problem
He screams Narcissist
definitely
Definitely my ex is just like this
I agree
Please God protect those children. Amen 🙏🏾
Amen…
And protect her...abusers have come back and killed the ones that left them.
Ladies...if you get wind before getting involved with a guy that he's abusive. Run. Of course it hasn't happened to you YET....but it will.
U a clown,this women is a drug abuser and abandoned her child that even the judge denied her custody,you and the defendant must be much alike in everyway keep defending that horrible person that assaulted a man over a phone.
Facts!!
Facts!
It seem like she lied about him molesting her son so she can get her daughter back smh just sad! It should be serious charges against people who make false allegations especially like that
I am a domestic violence survivor. Trust me pay attention ladies and gentlemen it happen’s to both of us!
This dude is dangerous. He had all his ducks (or so he thought) in a row. You can tell he is used to being in court,fast talking to get his way. And then he lied and lost. Look at the reaction.
And use to being manipulative
so sad
Yes he has a domestic violence case in Detroit.
@@evelynwilliams6212 Damn, this is crazy!
Bravo Young Miss. Get yourself to safety first and then take recourse as you did. I knew he was a snake when he opened his mouth. He manipulated several abusive incidents to claim 'victim' status but the Judge saw right through that. I loved it when we heard the other side from Mom. She needed to tell her side. It completed the picture and showed who actually was the abusive one and who denied whom.
I never condone hitting a woman, but it was clear from her own testimony that she hit him first. Why is it ok for her to hit him, why is this never talked about? She assaulted him, she coached her son to lie about sexual abuse, and I believe she lied about being tied up in a closet. She could have reported that to the police but instead she convinced him to drop her off somewhere else. That doesn't make sense to me. Let's also not forget that she left her kids with him, even her son that was not his so she could go live with another man. This is who you are applauding?
And Cps also revealed who was unfit and who coached a kid into saying he molested him. The truth is THEYRE BOTH TOXIC AND ABUSIVE. They’re both wrong .
@@nickynick_ Nope, she isn't wrong. She is the victim. He is a large violent fellow who likes to intimidate women by tying them up and putting them in a closet and violently attacking and intimidating her. The judge called it correctly. He is foul and I hope he pays for his other abusive actions because we can tell this isn't his first run with a partner. We can also tell this isn't his first abuse case. Heck, he attacked her grandfather and has a prior felony on his record.
@@filmtressmu8552 I wonder why Mathis didn’t talk about that? And why was that all you heard?
@@briancole900 The first rule of survival is 'self-preservation. You get away so you can go get help. You don't know that? Geez.
He definitely is not innocent and tried to keep his hands clean but he couldn’t land the deal.
He blatantly lied about denying visitation while the defendant had boat load of evidence to back her claims
I'm scared for that daughter in his custody. i hope she's safe. I know these videos are old but I hope she grew up safe and protected.
Obviously she wasn't that scared that she left not only thier daughter but also her son with him so she could go stay with another man.
You should be worried about the mother who would just leave thier kids somewhere so she can enjoy herself. You should be worried about a mother who uses her own child as a tool to get back at someone she is mad at. Why doesn't these things worry you?
@@briancole900 Be quiet please.
@@Mom.3 well thought-out reply lol. I now see your point of view lol
@@briancole900 you never heard of a parent putting their needs before the kids? You over here talking about "obviously"😂
Easy.. she ran from her abuser he took advantage wouldn't give the child back told the powers that be that she abandoned the child and then refuse to let her see the child all because he was trying to make her submit and he is a manipulator
💯 I could’ve said it better.
Yu said it just right💯
I have to agree...he manipulated the situation
Yep. My ex did the exact thing.
Exactly! He's disgusting.
I am glad she won...girl go fight for your daughter.
For him to even be rewarded custody "temp" or not she mustve been unfit as a parent
@@jplaya2023 until he can prove that I don't believe so...a man that beats on his child mother then downplays his actions seems like the one that is unfit to me
@@crishelimani80 agreed we 100% agree. The child should have been placed in protective or foster care yet the father was awarded custody. Thats rare
@@jplaya2023 both need to get their shit together and get shared custody
@@jplaya2023 OR he presented a story that sounded good to the judge. Just like here, he was SOUNDING good at first before evidence was presented to contradict his LIES.
He talking calm and slow so he won’t slip up he is a monster I can tell just by looking at him his demeanor and suit he wearing ain’t fooling me
He shows signs of a classic abuser. Always blame the other person in the relationship and not recognize their short comings. The most dangerous time in a relationship for a victim is when they try leave the man. The woman leaving the children, it's not uncommon. A restraining order does nothing, it just shows a paper trail. The abuser can still attack them, depending that person level of crazy.
@Nina Very true and many states vary regarding the language of the TPO or TRO. I previously worked with victims of domestic violence, and it very disappointing to see how the law does not support victims of DV.
U a clown,this women is a drug abuser and abandoned her child that even the judge denied her custody,you and the defendant must be much alike in everyway keep defending that horrible person that assaulted a man over a phone.
@@nbl5516 very true. I've had many domestic abuse clients. Most were too scared to leave because when they did before things got worse. Law enforcement did not help them and sometimes they helped the abuser more.
@@SimplyNina1 exactly. The first and only time the police were callrd on my ex husband, my mom had heard what he was saying to me while she was on the phone. He was up in my face screaming at me. He’s gotten physical on multiple occasions before so she was worried how things might escalate. During that argument, he got mad and threw his glasses on the couch and my son being a toddler jumped on the couch and accidentally landed on the glasses so he broke them. When he started screaming at my son, i picked him up and took him out to the car with me. When things calmed down a bit, I took my son back in bc I had to go to work, but I had a bad feeling so I waited out front. This dude really put my son out of the apartment and locked him out, didn’t check to see if I was still there and we lived right next to a very busy street. So I grabbed him again and got him in the car, the police called me and told me to meet them at a safe location, so I did. I told them everything that had happened and they had me drive back to the apartment w them. When we got there they asked me to write down the report while they spoke to him. They were with him for not even 5 minutes before they came out, told me to get out of the car, and automatically said “I need you to tell me the truth. He’s saying you broke his glasses because you were mad at him” I told them that wasn’t true and so they threatened to arrest me for DV in the presence of children x2 and criminal mischief but decided to just cite me instead. The next day I recorded my convo w my ex husband and caught him admitting to lying to the cops bc “that was my karma for calling them”. A couple weeks later I was finally able to get out of the house with both of my kids. Took a couple months and a few thousand dollars for an attorney to clear the charges. It’s ridiculous the power cops have over victims. Especially since over 40% of cops are domestic abusers themselves. Like the charges that these cops cited me for could’ve risked me losing custody of both of my kids. That was the most terrifying thing.
@@aliyahdiel391 I'm sorry to hear that. Some states are just now adopting programs where law enforcement have to look out for the victim. Even still law enforcement is still not trained properly. I pray things are going well for you and your children. The first thing people see that this man made this woman in the show look crazy. Like the crazy fool who commented on my post earlier. It's not uncommon for a judge to order the children with the abuser temporarily until they are the truth come out because crazy can only hide for so long. Some states like Florida have it where any case of domestic violence that had take place in front of the children of any age are sent to child services. I can't count how many cases I got with DV where law enforcement did nothing to the abuser and we find so much history with the family regarding DV.
Her body language says it all. She's down right horrified of him. It's like being in a scary movie every single day when she's dealing with him. She should of had him locked up. And yes you can tell he uses that child as a crutch.
This guy is extremely dangerous. I fear for the child.
she’s just as dangerous, more psychological yet dangerous
She didn’t interrupt him at anytime, she’s used to his BS and gaslighting. I have known women who erroneously left their kids with their abuser thinking that he would never hurt them. One friend in particular, her husband shot and killed her and then himself in front of their children and her mom Mother’s Day weekend 2012 😢
That’s crazy
Too bad he didn't start with himself. What a coward.
@@Sunshine134chick It still hurts. The last time I spoke with her she was telling me and my mom how much he had “changed” but we KNEW better smh.
@@questioneverything8572 She called her mom up to get the kids because she knew he was getting started, he waited til she got there and did it in the front yard. I think he wanted her mom to see. He was a monster.
@@KPbouj Exactly.
Narcissist ALWAYS use their children as pawns against the other parent. I pray for her protection and that she gets her daughter back from that monster.
Yup, he's abuser..... body language tells all. I pray for the children safety.🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
How does he have custody of that baby after all that violence? He's using that baby against her. He must be charming to the court. I am familiar with his kind. Since she doesn't want him anymore he thinks he can keep her baby from her. I hope he knows that his daughter will grow up, and resent him. Kids always find out the real when they get older.
He has custody because she has done alot worse that was not discussed in this case and likely cannot provide for her 2 children.
Glad Mathis was able to see through the BS
@@jplaya2023 You know them personally?
@@sereneamani1713 no just following the case info shown
This man is. Abusive
The amount of cheering I did when she won! I ain’t never wanted to knock somebody head off they shoulders so bad. This man needs to be in jail and counseled.
She looks so defeated and battered. He is an abuser and he is withholding the kids from her. I'm sure she's a beautiful soul. I'm sending blessings 🙌 and prayers 🙏 her way. SMH
🙍🏾♂️"She asked me if she could see My Daughter"
Even if He has full custody that's still Their daughter🤦🏽♀️I pray their daughter lives in safer, loving environment🙌🏿
Women say that same shit all the time stfu 🤣
It really tripped me out because both of them kept saying mine instead of our
No fun when the rabbit got the gun 🤣
Women do it all the time
@@420boxingnetwork7Right, these people be killing me..
He’s a VERY scary guy….. I hope she and the kids are ok.
Heavenly Father please keep your loving arms wrap around them precious little children I feel so sorry for them babies 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💔
This is why you have to make sure you pick the right person before you lay down with them and have sex and make a baby
Selective breeding!
Yep exactly 💯 I will wait and take my time. I ain't gonna let any dude lock me down with a baby. He has to prove to me! Actions speak louder then words. This generation only cares about lust 🙄so it's hard but the key is patience and guidance
Exactly. Hubby and I dated 2 yrs, engaged 1 yr and waited 5 yrs before trying for a baby. We just celebrated 25yrs of marriage. People should stop having babies with ppl they don't know. Period.
Thank you. And marry before you carry
He was definitely abusive & actually looked like he wanted to hit her when his claim was denied! He wants to hold the daughter over her head & control her. She explained her case well & had her receipts! I hope she’s been able to see her daughter. Very brave woman!
Literally got chills down my spine. Lived through someone just as calm and well spoken. It's like Jekyll and Hyde. Leave the first time ladies. Don't fight, don't get toxic. Just leave
You don’t know what you’ll do until you’re in the situation. I didn’t leave the first time it happened to me either. It’s easier said than done.
The fact that his name is Ernest is a red flag itself. I believe he did everything she said. While he standing in there looking all innocent
Lol I was thinking his last name said it all 🤣
I believe her too
That sounds crazy...🚩
😂🤣😂🤣😂
He
2:18 MATHIS JUST CANT HELP BUT TO INTERRUPT PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE TRYING TO GIVE HIM THE WHOLE STORY 🤣
For real they never get to tell the whole story it’s frustrating 🤦🏾♀️
Have you watched judge Judy? He’s ALLOWING them to tell their side he dosent have to he can just ask questions if needed don’t be dumb
@@NikaNeek It's often more frustrating to hear people tell their WHOLE STORY". WHOLE STORIES can often take hours to tell.
He doesn't need the whole story.. You want to tell stories go to a therapist.. This is Court.
@@sereneamani1713 well whole story was the wrong wording, it’s when he interrupts them after asking them to explain something which happens often
We Gotta Stop Ignoring Red flags 🚩🚩🚩Their shown to us for a reason❗️💯
Facts one red flag and I'm out. I pray I am not in too deep cause love can be blind. But people will show you who they are please believe them!
@@melissalitus8879 Exactly 💯 👏🏽
I hope this woman felt the love and belief from the people watching in court when they applauded the judges decision.. im glad they did that.. i wish her and her children love and strength 💖
Those of you standing up for him are apart of the problem this man beat his girlfriend and you’re on the internet saying it’s a good thing he has her daughter 😂😂 there was literally a witness aswell
Facts
But she left her kids, one that wasn't even his, in the abuser's care. Ummm... which makes her raggedy. Also, understand they were together for 4 years. She's apart of her problem.
Women lie
He asked to see her phone. Classic case of abuse and controlling behavior. JM saw through his BS.
He really thought she did not smell the rat in his request. Trifling!
It's the way he keeps say "my daughter " as if the child is a possession and that's not her whole entire mother. He reeks of big, dusty, musty abuser. I'm glad she got away, and my God Bless and Protect the Children, Her and Her Family. Ashe
I believe he did something to her son just to get back at her. This dude is scary.
I say this all the time “some people just don’t need children “ …
If you can’t offord em,
You don’t need em.
People that can't get along definitely don't need children.
The fact that he didn't even contest to her story about being tied up is very telling. No person who didn't do that, would just allow someone to say that and not deny it. I also wish JM would have asked him what his prior record was, something tells me it was regarding violence. Probably other domestic abuse charges and assault and battery towards other people. I know exactly what type of abuser this guy is.
Sorry, her kids had to witness this it sounds like she flee and left her daughter while trying to get away from him and he used it against her along with her drinking but jokes on him in the end👏🏿👍🤭
Yup and I don't condone heavy drinking especially when kids are involved but you will need a drink or two to deal with a guy like him sad.
"The truth always comes out no matter what." YES it DOES
Oh, honey... I can just tell from listening she did what she had to do to leave him and I can tell her intent was to NEVER abandon her baby girl!!! She was probably too scared to take her on for fear of his retaliation. I hope she gets full custody and runs FAR away!
He's so abusive and don't know it
Plaintiff is violent🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️👨👧
Damn, that’s a sad situation. I hope her children never see this episode.
DV ain’t no joke y’all want to call her a deadbeat b/c of her child situation… you can tell he’s a big manipulator and a abuser the whole time she was telling her story on what he did he didn’t say nothing..
Sis plz, baby girl hang in there, and stay strong for your little girl. Both your babies need you, but baby girl needs you now more than ever. I fear she is in danger with that man.
She’s got me messed up! Flat out I wouldn’t have went ANYPLACE, without my daughter! I don’t believe her on that, because why does the other father have his child? What type of father does she have, that allowed that? Why would she stay with a man for FOUR years, that threatened her parents??! Naw, she’s not an angel! Clearly something is amiss, because them people gave him custody! I’d love to hear from the other father! Why would she leave both children with him, and the son has his own dad? Messy Bessy! Poor kids
This guy is a creep for sure,Obviously the violent one using the court system as another means of abuse.
Plaintiff is definitely a wolf in sheep's clothing. The way he came in and tried it to build a rapport right away with the judge that everything I needed to know. He's a scumbag and my prayer is that this little girl goes back to her mom and is safe
Wow 🥺 My prayers goes out to that little girl . 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Judge Mathis wanted some smoke with this man so bad. 🤦🏿♀️😂
This guy is an abuser. I pray for this lady 🙏
Sending prayers & healing to the children. Growing up in dysfunction causes severe trauma 😢.
When women start exercising their 2nd amendment rights. I bet you DV cases would end.
That part 👏🏽
He tried to look at her personal phone and is keeping the daughter to have the mother coming over fpr her! Be very careful my dear he's the type to do harm and sit in jail with no regrets! Never once he apologized for his behavior towards her. He is one of the worst characters based on his case and body language. Screams abusive! You right hun runnnnnn!
WE have got to stop collecting red flags! 🚩
Facts let's collect green flags instead and people that will take accountability
The way he kept saying, "my daughter" instead of our daughter told the tale, and if a child tells you someone molested them, BELIEVE IT!
He’s hella skillful! I hope he is not mistreating their daughter!
Came in there trying to win over Judge Mathis with his sick manipulative self 🤦🏾♀️
God bless their children! Both parents need supervising sounds like!!!
Damn, let me gone and watch this toxic episode👀🥂
So glad JM saw through him
He shouldn't have denied her visitation of her child some folks are so inconsiderate.
Hateful!
Still shouldnt denie his case because of a lie,judge mathis can be a goofball sometimes.
@@dreadxplayzs7849 if a person lies in court once, all the credibility is shot.
@@shannonbrice8012 what credibility u tool?the defendant already proved she damaged his vechile,judge mathis can lose his liecence for that being petty and malice just because tje plantiff denied so.ething that has nothing to do the case is unprofessional.
@@dreadxplayzs7849 when a person starts to name call, that means they have nothing of substance to say.
He is out of line for putting his hands on that elderly man. WTF you think is going to try and do when you are attacking his daughter???? FOH!!! He tried to sound all calm and innocent!🙄
He really believed the lies he told himself…she was hiding out at her parents from his abuse=she was laid up with some new dude…she was clearing her mind for 5 days= she no longer wants to be a mom….he claims she said that but later on reiterated that by her staying away for 5 days meant that😅he’s a nut case 💯👌🏾
He tried to act like he was a hell of a father 🤣 a whole woman beater
Who suffers the most, THE CHILDREN, seeing, hearing and witnessing ALL these abuses at all levels: mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, devotionally, financially
Pray for tbe children and pray for the heart of the parents to get their act together
I got so many questions about this case…where are these people at now??
I won’t post social media accounts but she seems to be well, looks good, kids seem happy and like she has them. the only thing i could find on him was a mugshot 😬
Keep fighting babygirl 🙏🏽
She looks so drained emotionally. I pray you're healed and in a better place beautiful. ❤
Since when are the police allowed to bust out windows for you to get belongings??
She’s lying, and a hot mess! How come cps isn’t giving court ordered visitation? She coached the son to lie! Messy as hell
How he gone get mad cause she brought him the house phone because she didn’t want him using her phone?
They both ridiculous. Neither of them need children
I was on her side the whole time I was praying judge Mathis saw that that man was on bs ! I believed everything she said too ! I’m glad she won this case and I pray she gets her baby back too
Str8 Dysfunctional 🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿
He thought he was going to win the judge over.... Let that lady see her daughter.
The way her body language was, you can tell something was going on
I don't like this guy! He is abusive as hell
I 🙏 for the children for having to be in the middle of all that abusive BS! Damn shame! 🙄
Tied her up and kept her in the closet for hours. Why is he taking her to court as he should be in jail?
That's a true narcissist for you. They'll tell stories that sound so believable to make them look good.
Y'all be careful who have kids with.
He keeps saying My daughter.....yes he's not a good person
This is just sad. Domestic Violence is not on regardless of this situation. Keep your hands to your damn self
She attack him over a phone
Facts.
@@dreadxplayzs7849 He asked for HER phone even though they were not in a relationship (so why did he need to see it unless he is controlling) and he THREW the phone that didn't belong to him. I am sure if someone threw your phone, you could be fine with it?
@@shannonbrice8012 so you resort to violence because somebody throws your floor on the ground?only uncivilized savages do that and that gives him the right to defend himself,not e eryone is a mindless savage that doesnt think before he does.
@@shannonbrice8012 Well Put…
He’s a typical narcissist.
Both of them are seriously sad neither 1 of them sound like they need custody
Both of them are toxic for one another.
That man is using the daughter as collateral to torture the mum. He is bad news and my gut tells me he is abusive and manipulative and i hope she gets her daughter back full time.