Whoever advised him to retrieve support letters from the childs school and doctors office was really looking out for him. Because this guy isn’t a public speaker, he was nervous etc. but he had evidence that spoke for him!
I still don't believe him. Although he wasn't convicted, she had medical proof and probably he wasn't convicted because she may not have shown up to court several times to see it through. Especially since she kept going back. Then he took the baby and moved to a different state. He's definitely abusive. And manipulative. Manipulative people come off as well put together
Not necessarily. Facts can be proven, hence the arrests and medical bills for the broken fingers and such. She already stated that she kept going back so why would she show up to have him convicted? Him bringing photos of her also says a lot about his temperament as well as unlawfully taking the child to another state. He's using the child as leverage, as do women. And is very manipulative. The devil is in the detail.
That was not the ending I was expecting. She wanted the money back after he was taking care of the kid by himself all that time. She should be ashamed of herself.
It’s sad really, I’ve seen instances where (similar to this case) the man has full/primary custody of the child and the mother still seeks child support. Like the audacity is beyond me honestly and such a shame
Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
@@josl1345 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
That brotha stood there quietly while she made all those stories up. Respect to the Judge for having enough patience with him so he could explain himself.
EXACTLY! And some people say he was using the child as a crutch basically. And how was he doing that if he was going to college and got two job offerings that he loss trying to make a life for his daughter and proof that he was taking care of his child all along. Letters from doctors and school etc. Comes to show the absence from her and not him. I believed he was going to win his case the whole time. Did you hear her having proof in this video of any medical records of him breaking her two fingers? Cause I didn’t hear that as someone stated in another comment. I’ll have to go back and replay this video cause the only proof I heard of was the one when she had a copy of her child support she had paid. That’s it!!
First off. I been through this two years ago with a child I raised solely by myself for 13 years. He acted respectful in court too and lied and stole my baby . So no respect to him. He’s weird. And lying like my bd great liar
And I don’t like where it’s going with the new husband… if the child is a priority, respecting her father is expected. I’d be sideeyeing anyone ready to bring violence to my child’s other parent. Harm done to a caring parent is a threat to the child’s well-being.
She sounded legit until we find he is in college n she out there clubbin...he got the kid n she don't kno what school? Then married within 2 weeks? She didn't deny it ...that's crazy
@@jasonr.9863 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
@@graeson8 I think you may have a problem listening because he kept saying that was on paper and while “on paper” they had joint custody, she was not involved with the child until she got with the husband.
Girl if u don't have the child then u absolutely should pay child support. She came in there playing a game and turns out she the deadbeat not him. She trifling
She look like a fool suing for child support like her child didn't need it and she lied about the convictions....girl get your life together the defendant obviously wants to parent his daughter.
Yep!! dead Giveaway!! and as soon as he started talking... she shaking her head, she interrupting and trying to contradict. The truth is in the body language.
She done tricked this new husband into thinking that man was abusive. That’s dangerous, especially when he finds out she’s the problem… she really gon be getting knocked around.
This case had me thrown off so bad, I had to double back and watch it as soon as I finished it the first time lol 😂 I’m like “Hold up, I missed something”.. - he won his case when he had then receipt’s from Doctors and teachers saying they’ve only been dealing with him..! ❤ good for him!
Same here … this hold time I was trying to figure out why she’s suing him for something that the judge ordered her to pay. I’m still trying to figure out why she’s suing to get back the child support that the judge ordered her to pay lol ..
When they have nothing else to prove in court, they always play the old " He Abused Me' game in hopes of getting the Judge to side with them. Glad the Judge saw through her lies and awarded the Defendant the case.
Abuse often times works both ways and it’s shown here a lot on the JM show - the audience laughs when men detail how their partner hurt them, I remember one case specifically where the woman immediately gave off vibes of “I’ll throw hands on ya” and she was at least double the dude’s size and she hit him with a CHAIR while he was sleeping and the audience got a good chuckle out of that but can you imagine how jarring that would be and how much it would hurt? I admittedly used to have violent or vindictive tendencies, I’ve hit BFs, broken laptops and as soon as they’d retaliate in any kind of way I definitely played that dang “but I’m a GIRL!” card. It’s been many years since I’ve been that way. It took being with someone truly violent and crazy that calmed me down because you honestly are always in fear because the slightest thing can set them off and they’re destroying your stuff and hurting you, either hurling heavy things your way or straight up hurtling towards you and choking you out. I left as soon as I felt safe and the crazy thing was, I was never violent towards him. But it made me look back and realize how shitty and crazy I used to be, I once cut up my boyfriend’s clothes, not all of them but still and I don’t even remember why now! I don’t have contact with any of those anymore (probably for obvious reasons lol, I was really very crazy and unstable) but I do my best to be patient and quiet in relationships and talk rather than yell. I understand a lot of abused women stick around longer than they should for a lot of different reasons but you’re right on this particular case and a lot of others I’ve seen - they just always resort to that like it’s their get out of jail free card. I’ll say this much - when I was in a truly terrifying relationship where I legitimately feared my partner I called the cops any time he started acting up and breaking shit if he hadn’t already broken my phone by then (I think he broke like 5 of them in the course of a year). He called the cops my “babysitters” but thank god they showed up, even if they couldn’t always cuff him. They at least got him to leave for a while so I could compose myself and leave of my own accord. Sorry for the novel. I just feel strongly about domestic violence, I had to stay in a battered women’s shelter for two months before I could get on my feet and I was so thankful for that and some stories were truly horrifying and then you’d have people using us state resources and beds saying stuff like “he called me a bitch and I just couldn’t take it”
She went and got her a Fabio and now she wants to be a Mother. This is what holding a woman accountable looks like. She was shocked 😳. What mother doesn't even take their kid to the Dr.
What got me was the fact that she didn't even refute NOT even knowing the school where her child attended. It wasn't a problem until she got married and her new husband probably told her to make him bring the child back so that the Defendant could start paying child support!!! SMH
@@angelicrealtor1 I found that creepy. You don't want to have your Daughter around until you found a man. She was clubbing and living it up now she wants to play house.
I love how the defendant kept his composure through all the stuff the plaintiff was saying about him. What a way to win! Because he had his evidence lined up and articulated his points clearly and precisely. She’s a low down woman and outta be ashamed of herself! Dead beat mothers definitely do exist 🤦🏽♀️
How was he belligerent and drunk but got through college (then got two jobs) while taking care of a child? I can't say whether or not he hit her but something's not right about her claims.
Well that doesn’t always prove anything. I know people who are functional alcoholics and you would never know they had a problem while they were at work.
@lifeof.jariya Yea you can tell the judge was definitely fooled at first by how he had an attitude toward the defendant until he peeped the lies the plaintiff was telling
I could already tell that the Plaintiff is a Trifling Trick. She's just pissed off because he was smart enough to get a lawyer who sued her for child support and won. She should have been made to pay for child support from the beginning with her lazy behind. We need more men that will stand up and take their responsibilities with their children and I'm happy that he is one of them. Her husband will probably end of leaving her but he'd better run before she tries to trap him by having children. SMH
Yes! she could have known him for longer than two weeks, but he if watch this case and look at her body language, and facial expression he should be gone within two weeks. She only married him if you ask my to make herself look good.
I got to admit, I was not expecting such a crazy turn of events after the defendant of pleaded his case. I knew she pretty much lost for good as soon as she started talking over Judge Mathis.
I think she lied about the abuse.She tried to mislead him about the child support refund with no documentation for that. Then the "assault " charges were dropped. She wasn't too forthcoming with evidence of the assaults. That would've been the first thing I'd handed to JM. He's right about the child support. My sister had to pay child support cause she wasn't raising her kids my parents adopted them. Then later she tried to take my parents to court to get back the child support she paid...for her kids... that she wasn't raising. Let's just say she left the court having pay them some💵.
Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
This woman is a liar I don’t believe a damn thing she said! She abandoned her baby, was ordered to pay child support, then tried to sue him to get it back
@@904baybeecakes I agree with you. Too many times I see females use the abuse card and rape card against their partners. It not right to lie to gain sympathy. She as no character, who sues for the money that is spent on their own child?
I hope he got full custody of his child. And new guy take notes...you might be next if she doesn't get what she wants. As for the abuse she should have had pictures your word means nothing. People lie everyday out of vindictiveness. I know it first hand.
From the looks of it, it seems like this plaintiff is trying so desperately hard to play victim & paint the defendant as the worse person on the planet. Glad JM saw right through her bs & awarded the defendant his counterclaim
She got to blinking so hard I thought she was about to fly away.. Lol Stunned isn't even the word to use.. She straight up lost her mind.. Absolutely satisfying to have the father stand up for himself and win..
The plantiff decided to repeatedly go back to this defendant even after all of the alleged physical abuse. But why would a man want anything to do with her and involve himself in a situation like this as her husband next to her has. Troublesome part of it all is a child is involved in this.
The husband better listen cause in a couple of years he could be in the same situation, difference is he may not be interested in raising the child as a single father.
I knew she was lying and Mathis saw right through her. He definitely proved his case. Brought a baby in this world and want to give her a greater life, he is The Man relocate to be great.
Yea because that's dumb that's like your friend shooting u and u get back cool with them now u telling everybody he shot u like who cares shit don't mean nun atp especially if they never went to jail for it
Good to see a brother stepping up and taking care of his responsibilities. On the flip side when a father has custody of a child and the mother is paying child support, it paints a bad picture of the type of person she is.
"You in love and you confused, bro." I've known this lady for all of, what, 14 minutes? I'd be giving advice to her new husband, too! Lol poor dude is blinded by love and he can't see what's in front of him yet.
HE BEAT HER WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT.. SHE WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL.. SHE SHOULD'VE SHOWED JM THAT PAPER WORK AT THE BEGINNING.. HE SHOULDN'T HAVE WON.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes he should have won. She was suing for a child support refund, not “beatings”. If this was a man coming to court with this claim you would call him “dusty” and “deadbeat father”
If he beat her like she says then why did the court give him custody and order her to pay child support? Why didn’t she press charges if he beat her? She is a big liar and it’s very sad because there are women and men who really are abusive relationships and need help
Lies only get you so far, and truth be told all what she did in the dark came to light 💡. This is a rare case because rarely does JM award $5,000.00 dollars 💸 to a male defendant for being a reasonable father, but I’m glad this young man saw the light 💡 at the end of the tunnel and still supported & protected his daughter from this wayward behavior so-called lying mother and her new two week husband better watch his back with her or he’ll be the next victim husband standing in-front of JM.#OBP Bluesman
Nobody believed her. She could barely keep the lies up. She wanted to have hot girl summers and now wants to come back and a fake ass mother of the year and take all the credit because if the kid was bad, she wouldn't want anything to do with that child. You want to start taking parenting seriously... cool. You don't have to tear down the other parent to do so. Much love to that fellow father.
The custody battle cases can get very pricey and messy! I've seen it before! Whenever there's a child or children involved, the justice system claims to be fair but it's not fair. They say they do what's in the best interest for the child but really it's about what they believe is in the best interest for the child. Could u imagine a stranger Tell u what and where your child should be, should do or be with!?
Her new man sounds like a real punk. Calling him a “woman beater” when the judge and the rest of the audience didn’t believe her. He will be her next victim.
Feel bad he lost the stability in Florida. Unfortunately you just can’t skip town like that, other parent has rights. Wish him and the baby as he says best of luck
When things of abuse or SA are brought up I usually always try and side with the “victim” for me and my history of being abused it’s hard for me to understand someone lying about something so drastic. I still have my trauma and it’s been 8 years But something in this woman’s shifty eyes makes me wonder about her story I hate when people lie about abuse it makes it harder for people like me to be believed 🙏
How do you know he hit her when he was never convicted and why would a judge grant them joint custody if he hit her? Please explain that? Why did the daughter live with him? When he moved Why didn't she go back to court? Because he had the child all along I don't advocate a Man or Women putting hands on each other
I believe SHE hit him first and he MAY have hit her back but clearly she’s a liar so who knows what really happened. I’m glad she lost and his was granted 😂
@@marvinsmith1652 I did not say that I knew anything. I just told you what I believe. People are always able to manipulate situations. I know abusive men who have still been able to get custody of their children.
💪🏽✊🏾I’m glad dude had emotional intelligence and let her put on her Best Oscar award performance! Mr. Steven seagal has no idea what he’s gotten himself into. 😂
I think the turning point in the case was the letters that' the judge received ( shows that he is the child primary giver thus that the reason why she was to pay $100 per week) Plus the fact that she try to sue for child support refund is really funny.
I was so confused at first because she was saying how bad everything was but kept going right back…I know its hard to walk away but damn and then she said she had full custody but paying him child support?? Girl what ? 😂😂 She definitely thought she was about to get over
When a man takes charge of his household paying the bills taking care of the children handling Dr appointments and schooling it's controlling. If the woman came off like this she would be called "strong and independent"
@@ayana188 what mother doesn’t know where their child goes to school or who the doctor is? She didn’t even speak against that but smiled and shook her head. She didn’t try hard to be in her daughters life. She just wants to be a mother now because she’s married and ready to settle but she shouldn’t uproot the child because she’s finished partying. Family court almost always rules in favor of the mother and for their judge to grant joint custody… says a lot if all that abuse was a real issue
Smh here is an obvious good father and she tryna show out for her new man like she a good mom. She just embarrassed tf outta herself! The notes from the doctors and school was perfect and so smart!!!
@@relaxitsme_alex9104 the truth is I agree if a woman is claiming a man is beating and abusing her why is she still with him that's her fault but that doesn't mean she's lying about the abuse she could just be a dumb B all humans are supposed to accept responsibility for they own actions so if he did beat her he still shares some of the burden I'm not sexist against women no matter what a man isn't supposed to put they hand on a woman not even sometimes in self defense I see it like this if a woman forces you to put your hands on them just leave and find another woman
@@danawilliams9778 Exactly. I do not believe that she is lying about the abuse that she endured. She even had hospital records that the judge refused to acknowledge.
@Yung Not trying to help it because I just know how to leave situations that aren't beneficial to me...very easy to do. Not only that I will whoop ass to defend myself if needed but if you establish rules at the start you usually don't have to worry about anyone f**king with you.
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Whoever advised him to retrieve support letters from the childs school and doctors office was really looking out for him. Because this guy isn’t a public speaker, he was nervous etc. but he had evidence that spoke for him!
Right I almost thought he was lyin just from how he was speaking
@@DGrant86 same!!
I still don't believe him. Although he wasn't convicted, she had medical proof and probably he wasn't convicted because she may not have shown up to court several times to see it through. Especially since she kept going back. Then he took the baby and moved to a different state. He's definitely abusive. And manipulative. Manipulative people come off as well put together
@@dikajohnson2220 that's because you're biased.
Not necessarily. Facts can be proven, hence the arrests and medical bills for the broken fingers and such. She already stated that she kept going back so why would she show up to have him convicted? Him bringing photos of her also says a lot about his temperament as well as unlawfully taking the child to another state. He's using the child as leverage, as do women. And is very manipulative. The devil is in the detail.
That was not the ending I was expecting. She wanted the money back after he was taking care of the kid by himself all that time. She should be ashamed of herself.
Yeah I don't know why she felt ok coming to court for $1000 when he's been taking care of her primarily.
Bc she sorry asf these females be delusional and feel entitled (I am a female btw)
It’s sad really, I’ve seen instances where (similar to this case) the man has full/primary custody of the child and the mother still seeks child support. Like the audacity is beyond me honestly and such a shame
Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
@@josl1345 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
That brotha stood there quietly while she made all those stories up. Respect to the Judge for having enough patience with him so he could explain himself.
Oh please he's BITTER...... .
@@americalove9495 About what?
@@americalove9495 bitter about taking care of his child and she being vindictive? You sound delusional.
Yessss, Im so glad he won🙏🏼
@@fuller8705 💯 how you not able to know what school(s) your own child goes to?
He sat there quiet the entire time she talked and proved his case. Respect to him
EXACTLY! And some people say he was using the child as a crutch basically. And how was he doing that if he was going to college and got two job offerings that he loss trying to make a life for his daughter and proof that he was taking care of his child all along. Letters from doctors and school etc. Comes to show the absence from her and not him. I believed he was going to win his case the whole time. Did you hear her having proof in this video of any medical records of him breaking her two fingers? Cause I didn’t hear that as someone stated in another comment. I’ll have to go back and replay this video cause the only proof I heard of was the one when she had a copy of her child support she had paid. That’s it!!
I wouldn't side with people like this man 😡
@@dorisjohns9861 What do you know about him to say that?
@Pretty girl Tee 🤔
First off. I been through this two years ago with a child I raised solely by myself for 13 years. He acted respectful in court too and lied and stole my baby . So no respect to him. He’s weird. And lying like my bd great liar
She played mighty innocent at the start
Facts
Yup talking about some damn Disney world...the picts say it all
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Looks like
Don't all of them? 🤣
That husband is gonna figure her out real quick!!!!
Give it 5 yrs before his simping self learn what he got himself into
Proud of him. He put his case together so properly. Sucks he got caught up in that mess
cuz he didn't use a condom.
Agree
And I don’t like where it’s going with the new husband… if the child is a priority, respecting her father is expected. I’d be sideeyeing anyone ready to bring violence to my child’s other parent. Harm done to a caring parent is a threat to the child’s well-being.
She sounded legit until we find he is in college n she out there clubbin...he got the kid n she don't kno what school? Then married within 2 weeks? She didn't deny it
...that's crazy
Bet the new guy is abusing her now!
She sincerely didn't deny anything.
So a mother can’t go to a club? And a man going to college makes him legit? What a backwards and misogynistic way to think.
She sounded legit to me as well but that's why hearing both sides of a story is CRUCIAL!
EXACTLY!! Thank you!!
After the Defendent called her a wanna be "Mom of the Year"
Her REAL sassiness came out 👀👀
Because it was true. Hit dog holler and I see a lot of bitter Betty’s in the comments with the cape on for her
@@jasonr.9863 hit dog will holler lol
lol
@@jasonr.9863 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
@@graeson8 I think you may have a problem listening because he kept saying that was on paper and while “on paper” they had joint custody, she was not involved with the child until she got with the husband.
Girl if u don't have the child then u absolutely should pay child support. She came in there playing a game and turns out she the deadbeat not him. She trifling
She look like a fool suing for child support like her child didn't need it and she lied about the convictions....girl get your life together the defendant obviously wants to parent his daughter.
Exactly! Even if it is a so called over payment The money went to care for YOUR CHILD!!! Something definitely wrong with her
I knew this man was going to come with the truth backed by receipts because he never interrupted her once while talking.
But she was trying to talk over him. Could never say anything about her child but she doesn't spend time with the child,smh
Yep!! dead Giveaway!! and as soon as he started talking... she shaking her head, she interrupting and trying to contradict. The truth is in the body language.
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Exactly
She done tricked this new husband into thinking that man was abusive. That’s dangerous, especially when he finds out she’s the problem… she really gon be getting knocked around.
Simping husband wanna fight because they lost the case and gotta pay that money
Judge Mathis hit another homerun with this case.
Yes he did!! He saw right through her lies!!
Judge Mathis 👀 HE DOESN'T PLAY! And HE CAN read people like a BOOK.
I am not going to lie. I thought he was guilty and it turn it around real quick. Good Job on Mathis for not being bias and hearing the facts.
This case had me thrown off so bad, I had to double back and watch it as soon as I finished it the first time lol 😂 I’m like “Hold up, I missed something”..
- he won his case when he had then receipt’s from Doctors and teachers saying they’ve only been dealing with him..! ❤ good for him!
Me too
Same here … this hold time I was trying to figure out why she’s suing him for something that the judge ordered her to pay. I’m still trying to figure out why she’s suing to get back the child support that the judge ordered her to pay lol ..
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Im watching it now again...feel like I miss something too..
I'm about to watch it again to figure out how she lost
When they have nothing else to prove in court, they always play the old " He Abused Me' game in hopes of getting the Judge to side with them.
Glad the Judge saw through her lies and awarded the Defendant the case.
Agreed. She is a liar.
Another Amber Turd shananigans smh😂
Everytime
Abuse often times works both ways and it’s shown here a lot on the JM show - the audience laughs when men detail how their partner hurt them, I remember one case specifically where the woman immediately gave off vibes of “I’ll throw hands on ya” and she was at least double the dude’s size and she hit him with a CHAIR while he was sleeping and the audience got a good chuckle out of that but can you imagine how jarring that would be and how much it would hurt? I admittedly used to have violent or vindictive tendencies, I’ve hit BFs, broken laptops and as soon as they’d retaliate in any kind of way I definitely played that dang “but I’m a GIRL!” card. It’s been many years since I’ve been that way. It took being with someone truly violent and crazy that calmed me down because you honestly are always in fear because the slightest thing can set them off and they’re destroying your stuff and hurting you, either hurling heavy things your way or straight up hurtling towards you and choking you out. I left as soon as I felt safe and the crazy thing was, I was never violent towards him. But it made me look back and realize how shitty and crazy I used to be, I once cut up my boyfriend’s clothes, not all of them but still and I don’t even remember why now! I don’t have contact with any of those anymore (probably for obvious reasons lol, I was really very crazy and unstable) but I do my best to be patient and quiet in relationships and talk rather than yell. I understand a lot of abused women stick around longer than they should for a lot of different reasons but you’re right on this particular case and a lot of others I’ve seen - they just always resort to that like it’s their get out of jail free card. I’ll say this much - when I was in a truly terrifying relationship where I legitimately feared my partner I called the cops any time he started acting up and breaking shit if he hadn’t already broken my phone by then (I think he broke like 5 of them in the course of a year). He called the cops my “babysitters” but thank god they showed up, even if they couldn’t always cuff him. They at least got him to leave for a while so I could compose myself and leave of my own accord.
Sorry for the novel. I just feel strongly about domestic violence, I had to stay in a battered women’s shelter for two months before I could get on my feet and I was so thankful for that and some stories were truly horrifying and then you’d have people using us state resources and beds saying stuff like “he called me a bitch and I just couldn’t take it”
@@K7NGB lol men have their lines too don’t get too excited
She went and got her a Fabio and now she wants to be a Mother. This is what holding a woman accountable looks like. She was shocked 😳. What mother doesn't even take their kid to the Dr.
What got me was the fact that she didn't even refute NOT even knowing the school where her child attended. It wasn't a problem until she got married and her new husband probably told her to make him bring the child back so that the Defendant could start paying child support!!! SMH
A Fabio 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@angelicrealtor1 I found that creepy. You don't want to have your Daughter around until you found a man. She was clubbing and living it up now she wants to play house.
@@isitmeeTV Right. Gave off abusive vibes.
@@isitmeeTV 🤣🤣🤣
Im glad this case turned out the way it did, she's very manipulative and a liar
soon as JM kept asking about the police i already knew how this was gonna go
Right
Truth!😂
"What if everybody that was ordered to pay child support came to your court trying to get it BACK JUDGE ?!" CASE CLOSED !!!!!
I love how the defendant kept his composure through all the stuff the plaintiff was saying about him. What a way to win! Because he had his evidence lined up and articulated his points clearly and precisely. She’s a low down woman and outta be ashamed of herself! Dead beat mothers definitely do exist 🤦🏽♀️
Yes she’s a mess that money went towards your child 👦🏽 you can’t get it back 😂😂😂😂
How was he belligerent and drunk but got through college (then got two jobs) while taking care of a child? I can't say whether or not he hit her but something's not right about her claims.
Rightttttttttt...like
Well that doesn’t always prove anything. I know people who are functional alcoholics and you would never know they had a problem while they were at work.
U have a 👉
College classes aren’t 7 days A week
He was arrested for it…..and she did have hospital proof. So its possible 😒
You cannot pull the wool over Judge Mathis' eyes... The plaintiff, she got what she had coming.
I'm so proud of him being unbiased in this proceeding.
Nah he was low key fooled till she showed who she really was..
@lifeof.jariya Yea you can tell the judge was definitely fooled at first by how he had an attitude toward the defendant until he peeped the lies the plaintiff was telling
@@pooneyheat facts
Defendant was reeeeaaadeeeee! I had to spell it with an (e) for emphasis lol
I could already tell that the Plaintiff is a Trifling Trick. She's just pissed off because he was smart enough to get a lawyer who sued her for child support and won. She should have been made to pay for child support from the beginning with her lazy behind. We need more men that will stand up and take their responsibilities with their children and I'm happy that he is one of them. Her husband will probably end of leaving her but he'd better run before she tries to trap him by having children. SMH
Nope he's all in. Beta male written all over him.
That part!
Ikr
Ladies pleeeeeez stop telling us stories about how bad they were when you took them back. Tell us about the stories after the break up🥶
For real tho
Exactly
Facts
👌🏾
Right!
She knew that guy for longer than 2 weeks........believe that playa
Exactly she was smirking too much
True but that's why he said she's a cheater
Right!!!!
Yes! she could have known him for longer than two weeks, but he if watch this case and look at her body language, and facial expression he should be gone within two weeks. She only married him if you ask my to make herself look good.
I be Glad too see us fellas win in court not gone lie
WOW!!! Thank You Judge Mathis for seeing right through the schemes that are played. It's Hard For UPRIGHT MEN in these situations.
0p
MAKES ME SO DAMN HEATED
Wow what mother don’t have custody of their own Child let alone ,fighting for money ,back that she gave to such child!! Wow!! Just wow
I got to admit, I was not expecting such a crazy turn of events after the defendant of pleaded his case. I knew she pretty much lost for good as soon as she started talking over Judge Mathis.
Her husband will realize sooner or later that that man was right and that his wife make him look like a fool.
I'm pulling for the young man and his daughter, I'm glad Mathis saw right through her case full of lies trying to make him look bad but it backfire..
I think she lied about the abuse.She tried to mislead him about the child support refund with no documentation for that. Then the "assault " charges were dropped. She wasn't too forthcoming with evidence of the assaults. That would've been the first thing I'd handed to JM. He's right about the child support. My sister had to pay child support cause she wasn't raising her kids my parents adopted them. Then later she tried to take my parents to court to get back the child support she paid...for her kids... that she wasn't raising. Let's just say she left the court having pay them some💵.
Her husband probably abuses her
Wow that’s crazy and sad
Lied my ass, with 2 cast on her hands??
Did you see the casts? Lol
Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.
I pray I never have to go through this drama when I have a child 😫
Jus don't get pregnant lmao
Too late I been with hubby since 17 and I'm 34 lol....and Ik I won't go through that! One of the fortunate few❤
@@kimberly6200awww
I’m not even mad at him. More men should get the courts involved when it comes to paying or receiving child support.
I'm glad he won the case
Was not expecting it to go that way at the end 😳
JM already knew she was full of it from the beginning. His face expressions tell it all. So much I can say but ima leave it alone. I'm glad he won😎
Right
That poor baby caught up in this mess.
That backfired 😂
Ladies leave the first time because when you keep going back this is how you will be treated… just leave
This woman is a liar I don’t believe a damn thing she said! She abandoned her baby, was ordered to pay child support, then tried to sue him to get it back
@@904baybeecakes I agree with you. Too many times I see females use the abuse card and rape card against their partners. It not right to lie to gain sympathy. She as no character, who sues for the money that is spent on their own child?
She was shaking her head like "damn he spilling all my tea"🤣😅
I hope he got full custody of his child. And new guy take notes...you might be next if she doesn't get what she wants.
As for the abuse she should have had pictures your word means nothing. People lie everyday out of vindictiveness. I know it first hand.
Because the alleged battery charges were dismissed, JM couldn't consider her allegations of abuse, even if she had pictures.
Poor baby. She is the only one for whom I have sympathy.
ALL THAT AND SHE CLAIM THERE WAS NO REASON. SHE ALL INNOCENT, KNOWING SHE LYING
We seen the real security at the end 😂 Doyle looked very uncomfortable 😂
Him: Swings a bottle at her head
Her: He’s my soulmate 🥰
From the looks of it, it seems like this plaintiff is trying so desperately hard to play victim & paint the defendant as the worse person on the planet. Glad JM saw right through her bs & awarded the defendant his counterclaim
“Show me, Show me, Show me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂
Man this was so satisfying to watch!!! I also enjoyed the audience supporting the father!!!
Wow...this case has took a turn!!!!🤯
She got to blinking so hard I thought she was about to fly away.. Lol Stunned isn't even the word to use.. She straight up lost her mind.. Absolutely satisfying to have the father stand up for himself and win..
I’m so happy the judge seen right through her..
DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN THAT BACKFIRED ON HER LIKE A MOFO!!!!!!! SUED FOR $2,500 & WALKED OUT OWING $5,000!!!!!
Why she introduced that man like that 😂😂
The plantiff decided to repeatedly go back to this defendant even after all of the alleged physical abuse. But why would a man want anything to do with her and involve himself in a situation like this as her husband next to her has. Troublesome part of it all is a child is involved in this.
Why would he keep beating her??
"Alleged" abuse
Word. Youth will make you look past obvious problematic issues just to be with someone.
I try to tell them Curtis.
The husband better listen cause in a couple of years he could be in the same situation, difference is he may not be interested in raising the child as a single father.
You ain’t lying. 💯
I knew she was lying and Mathis saw right through her. He definitely proved his case. Brought a baby in this world and want to give her a greater life, he is The Man relocate to be great.
JM can’t stand when they claim abuse and then say that they went back or dropped charges.
Yea because that's dumb that's like your friend shooting u and u get back cool with them now u telling everybody he shot u like who cares shit don't mean nun atp especially if they never went to jail for it
Good to see a brother stepping up and taking care of his responsibilities. On the flip side when a father has custody of a child and the mother is paying child support, it paints a bad picture of the type of person she is.
Damn, the judge turned on her 😂
Good to see 👀 a father not getting played by the lies of his child's momma. Hopefully, for the baby's sake they work things out!!!! 🙏
"You in love and you confused, bro."
I've known this lady for all of, what, 14 minutes? I'd be giving advice to her new husband, too! Lol poor dude is blinded by love and he can't see what's in front of him yet.
The fact that the mother was even on child support says alot and that she allowed her child to move to another state. As a mother it's a no for me lol
It’s a no for real mothers but an IDC for mothers who would rather party than raise their children.
Women lie alot about abuse and she is one of them, sad because there are real victims out there that need help
Exactly!
HE BEAT HER WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT.. SHE WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL.. SHE SHOULD'VE SHOWED JM THAT PAPER WORK AT THE BEGINNING..
HE SHOULDN'T HAVE WON.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yea judge Mathis was wrong, but I knew he didn’t like her for opening cases and not following through
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes he should have won. She was suing for a child support refund, not “beatings”. If this was a man coming to court with this claim you would call him “dusty” and “deadbeat father”
If he beat her like she says then why did the court give him custody and order her to pay child support? Why didn’t she press charges if he beat her? She is a big liar and it’s very sad because there are women and men who really are abusive relationships and need help
look at her face when the defendant was talking abt her not knowing where the babies went to school. Hes telling NO lies
I hope he was granted sole custody of that child and was able to move back to their life in Florida
Lies only get you so far, and truth be told all what she did in the dark came to light 💡. This is a rare case because rarely does JM award $5,000.00 dollars 💸 to a male defendant for being a reasonable father, but I’m glad this young man saw the light 💡 at the end of the tunnel and still supported & protected his daughter from this wayward behavior so-called lying mother and her new two week husband better watch his back with her or he’ll be the next victim husband standing in-front of JM.#OBP Bluesman
Nobody believed her. She could barely keep the lies up. She wanted to have hot girl summers and now wants to come back and a fake ass mother of the year and take all the credit because if the kid was bad, she wouldn't want anything to do with that child. You want to start taking parenting seriously... cool. You don't have to tear down the other parent to do so. Much love to that fellow father.
The custody battle cases can get very pricey and messy! I've seen it before! Whenever there's a child or children involved, the justice system claims to be fair but it's not fair. They say they do what's in the best interest for the child but really it's about what they believe is in the best interest for the child. Could u imagine a stranger Tell u what and where your child should be, should do or be with!?
So if the parents cant come to a decision who the child should go with who other the the court should determine that?
I real man doesnt marry a woman knowing her only two weeks. You can tell this custody battle is gonna be nasty
Finally a victory for the men!!!!!
One of the best judge Mathis episode on history. I love it. The outcome speaks volume
If you're not going to try to get the person convicted for the abuse and you forgive them why bring it up in court??? That has always irked me.
This is exactly why I love judge Mathis he read through the cries and looked at the facts for what it was.
Her new man sounds like a real punk. Calling him a “woman beater” when the judge and the rest of the audience didn’t believe her. He will be her next victim.
He was PRE 👏🏽 PARED 👏🏽….. don’t come for him legally. She probably thought he was dumb 😂
Feel bad he lost the stability in Florida. Unfortunately you just can’t skip town like that, other parent has rights. Wish him and the baby as he says best of luck
The judge was on point on this one..
I was wondering why she was talking so fast 😅
Justice has been served!!
When things of abuse or SA are brought up I usually always try and side with the “victim” for me and my history of being abused it’s hard for me to understand someone lying about something so drastic. I still have my trauma and it’s been 8 years
But something in this woman’s shifty eyes makes me wonder about her story
I hate when people lie about abuse it makes it harder for people like me to be believed 🙏
She thought she was slick he had his shxt together
I believe he did hit her. I also believe he has primary custody of her. It's the child that needs child support.
I believe that he hit her also.
How do you know he hit her when he was never convicted and why would a judge grant them joint custody if he hit her? Please explain that? Why did the daughter live with him? When he moved Why didn't she go back to court? Because he had the child all along I don't advocate a Man or Women putting hands on each other
I believe SHE hit him first and he MAY have hit her back but clearly she’s a liar so who knows what really happened. I’m glad she lost and his was granted 😂
@@marvinsmith1652 I did not say that I knew anything. I just told you what I believe. People are always able to manipulate situations. I know abusive men who have still been able to get custody of their children.
@@marvinsmith1652 Besides, the judge refused to acknowledge her hospital records.
💪🏽✊🏾I’m glad dude had emotional intelligence and let her put on her Best Oscar award performance!
Mr. Steven seagal has no idea what he’s gotten himself into. 😂
She keeps going back to a man who physically and mentally abused her. Ladies and Gents what you tolerate will continue.
She wasn't being physically and mentally abused as he stated the mother was trying to get sole custody.
@@TimeisNeutral she was and still is.
I knew she wasn't gonna be truthful by how she described him in her introduction
I think the turning point in the case was the letters that' the judge received ( shows that he is the child primary giver thus that the reason why she was to pay $100 per week) Plus the fact that she try to sue for child support refund is really funny.
This woman had the nerve to make this man lose 2 good jobs? He went to college and graduated while she was the "partying mom"... SMH
I was so confused at first because she was saying how bad everything was but kept going right back…I know its hard to walk away but damn and then she said she had full custody but paying him child support?? Girl what ? 😂😂 She definitely thought she was about to get over
When someone accuses the other person of beating them for no reason, just know they are lying
He is controlling but she should pay child support
Yes he is, and I don’t think he should’ve got 5,000
When a man takes charge of his household paying the bills taking care of the children handling Dr appointments and schooling it's controlling. If the woman came off like this she would be called "strong and independent"
@@isitmeeTV he tried to keep the kid from her.. but he’s a commendable father!!!!!
@@ayana188 what mother doesn’t know where their child goes to school or who the doctor is? She didn’t even speak against that but smiled and shook her head. She didn’t try hard to be in her daughters life. She just wants to be a mother now because she’s married and ready to settle but she shouldn’t uproot the child because she’s finished partying. Family court almost always rules in favor of the mother and for their judge to grant joint custody… says a lot if all that abuse was a real issue
Smh here is an obvious good father and she tryna show out for her new man like she a good mom. She just embarrassed tf outta herself! The notes from the doctors and school was perfect and so smart!!!
He deserved to win.
He ABUSED HER.. SMFH.
I SEE RIGHT THRU HIS MANIPULATIVE, NARCISSISTIC AHH..
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 😒
@@relaxitsme_alex9104 the truth is I agree if a woman is claiming a man is beating and abusing her why is she still with him that's her fault but that doesn't mean she's lying about the abuse she could just be a dumb B all humans are supposed to accept responsibility for they own actions so if he did beat her he still shares some of the burden I'm not sexist against women no matter what a man isn't supposed to put they hand on a woman not even sometimes in self defense I see it like this if a woman forces you to put your hands on them just leave and find another woman
@@danawilliams9778 Exactly. I do not believe that she is lying about the abuse that she endured. She even had hospital records that the judge refused to acknowledge.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 that’s my dad he never abused her🤦🏽♀️
This was a good one! Judge Mathis saw right through the plaintiff!! Glad the defendant won!!
I am so happy for him
I’m she wasn’t wrapped too tight because none of them stories was adding up. Her body language says it all.
Glutton for punishment? 🤔 I can't feel sorry for women like this because she continued to go back.
That’s not how abuse works and comments like this don’t help against the stigma
I agree. She was halfway there, considering she filed police reports etc., but she still went back to him anyway.
Exactly
@Yung Not trying to help it because I just know how to leave situations that aren't beneficial to me...very easy to do.
Not only that I will whoop ass to defend myself if needed but if you establish rules at the start you usually don't have to worry about anyone f**king with you.
This went all the way left. Wasn't expecting these circumstances. She's a mother dearest.