I got my hair did! Lunch date with myself, going to the gym Gender Dysphoria, LGBTQ+ chit chat

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
  • I'm feeling like a daily vlogger! I got my hair permed again and decided to keep it growing but I didn't expect it to bring up so much emotions about my gender. This is a LGBTQ+ chit chat
    Hi my name is Stephanie and I LOVE to travel and do all of the things I've every wanted to do but was too afraid to because of my weight. I'm done waiting around for the perfect body and I am living my life NOW! Follow along while I learn to love my body the way it is, strive to be the healthiest possible, and explore across the country.
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Комментарии • 50

  • @StevieGriffinVlog
    @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +5

    We are going to have a Live Cookout together tomorrow at 5pm!! Hope to see you there!! What is your favorite form of exercise?

    • @breakinginsanityscycle
      @breakinginsanityscycle Месяц назад +1

      Hitting my punching bag.

    • @kimberlyblackwell3807
      @kimberlyblackwell3807 Месяц назад +1

      My fiancé got me an elliptical because I've always liked using them. I love mine because it is non electric ...I can move it anywhere ( except it is heavy and well built kind of like me 🤣🤣)

    • @williamsge
      @williamsge Месяц назад +1

      My favorite type of movement is definitely walking. It’s so good for both my mental and physical health! 😊

    • @cecemomnana6533
      @cecemomnana6533 Месяц назад

      Arms and cardio

  • @sophiayoung137
    @sophiayoung137 Месяц назад +3

    Growing up with a sibling who was struggling with the same gender issues that you describe who then ended up transitioning and seeing how this world has treated him, thank you for putting this out there. You are more than your gender, more than your sexuality, more than what people see you as. Thank you for being a kind soul, thank you for being that person that young people can go to, thank you for being everything that you are. I’ve been loving your content, but this video and its raw authenticity has made me an even bigger fan. Sending good vibes 😊

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад

      Sophia, I replied a few days ago but I guess I didn't hit send or something. Your brother is such a brave soul. I felt that as and "elder" gay 😂I needed to put that out there incase someone in crisis stumbles upon it and for one moment they don't feel so alone.

  • @angelatoher9337
    @angelatoher9337 Месяц назад +2

    Big hugs, Stevie ❤. We all love you for exactly who you are. So many of us look up to you for being who you are.
    Glad your day got better. Have fun camping!

  • @laurelitavera
    @laurelitavera Месяц назад +1

    You are a queen and I love you. As a Mom, the most important thing to me is i want my kids to be happy, long after they're grown, i want nothing more than their happiness. I know we're not going to be happy all the time but overall life happiness, i want that for you. You deserve it. Growing up i always bucked against the different rules. My brother never had a curfew and i did. I was older than him but it always felt like he could get away with so many things. I still love him dearly. The expectations put on me by my own mother seem insane sometimes. I also understand the hate for clothes shopping. As you lose weight, you need more clothes but sometimes you just can't find that perfect fit. I always tell myself if i don't love it, don't buy it. I want to love the clothes i wear and how i feel in them. Looking forward to live action tomorrow! ❤❤❤

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      thanks so much for sharing. You sound like a great mom. We’re you older than your brother? I agree, i’d I don’t love it, i’m not buying it.❤️ see you tomorrow

  • @Sherimichelle711
    @Sherimichelle711 Месяц назад +1

    I love you!! You are amazing , smart, beautiful!! I love how passionate you are about your students and your music. And your marriage is beautiful. Don’t ever change or be embarrassed of who you are. Because that is how God made you.

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      thank you so much for the kind words friend. I was really on edge about posting this video but then I said eff it, it might help someone.

  • @Lifeinthewyldewest
    @Lifeinthewyldewest Месяц назад

    How beautiful to read these comments and feel the love and support. Opening up like this is absolutely what so many people needed to hear right now. As a mama I just want to reach through the screen and hug you❤ I’m the mom who has opened her home to EVERYONE. There are some crappy parents and I didn’t realize that until other kids started pouring their hearts out to me. I want to be their safe place and it’s sad we have to have safe places. Keep being YOU because you kick ass. When you came up on my homepage a couple weeks ago and I watched one video I was hooked because you are so REAL. I feel like I have to add all this music and sound affects and not talk in full thoughts (lots of editing out to maybe keep people interested in me) I want to just be me and have people be interested. I’ve always felt invisible most my life because I’m so quiet. Like walking round in a world I’m watching rather than being in, that probably sounds weird but it’s the truth. Thank you for this video Stevie❤

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      Your people will find you, just keep posting my friend

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest Месяц назад

      @@StevieGriffinVlog I appreciate your encouragement and once again thank you for being so open and vulnerable on this video. It touched my heart and heck made me even dig you more!

  • @mrboyd720
    @mrboyd720 Месяц назад +2

    Loving all the vlogs. They are motivating me to move more. 💪🏼

  • @ReginaEzzougay
    @ReginaEzzougay Месяц назад +1

    Hi Stevie! I can imagine how hard it must be coming out . I have watched maybe 4 of your videos and I can see what an extraordinary amazing human being! You are beautiful with the curly hair or the super short hair. Your amazing and never forget that! Hugs 🤗 my friend ❤

  • @michellemama2520
    @michellemama2520 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing how you feel and vulnerability.. it’s why I watch you - because you’re not fake! Putting this out there will help others who feel the same way, to not feel alone. I work in a high school too and try to be who I needed as a teenager for my students. ❤️🙏
    You’re going through changes with your weight loss.. maybe your brain/intuition is allowing you to open your mind and face other things you’ve shoved down subconsciously to survive all these years. I’ve noticed since turning 35 I’m questioning myself and my thought processes not because I doubt myself but because I am searching for my most authentic self. I’ve been letting myself open the lid on thought and feelings I’ve suppressed during survival mode all these years.. and now I’m in a safe place to feel and begin processing them.
    Sorry to be deep and I hope it isn’t rude because my intention is to be supportive and tell you, you’re not alone! .. and maybe it’s a 30’s thing !? lol

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      don’t apologize!!! I love hearing from you!!!! I think you’re right. It’s a 30s thing, it’s like we’re old enough to veer off from social norms and just be our weird authentic selves

  • @kimberlyblackwell3807
    @kimberlyblackwell3807 Месяц назад +1

    Love your hair... its super cute!!! Didn't notice the sides but I love it ( how you can make 2 different styles out of it) You can rock any style though....💕

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      Yes I can 💅 😂 I’m liking my hair more today than yesterday so it’s all good 😊

  • @janstrom3954
    @janstrom3954 Месяц назад

    Your hair looks great! You're a beautiful soul with a fun personality! You make everyone happy...make yourself happy too!!!❤

  • @stacydavid6135
    @stacydavid6135 Месяц назад +1

    It makes me so sad when you are sad! Screw the haters! Love you!

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      I’m not sad anymore so you don’t have to be sad! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @fulltimervtravels
    @fulltimervtravels Месяц назад

    I can not relate to feeling like I am in the wrong body. And I am so so sorry that you do. But, I can relate on being overweight & not knowing what your style is or what to wear as you're losing weight. It is SO hard!!
    I love your content & you are such an inspiration. I know daily vlogging would be hard once you start back to work but you may can do small check ins each evening or morning or something with less edits. ❤❤❤

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      I am actually really surprised at how much people like the daily vlogs. It definitely has me thinking of ways to get more of them in.

  • @snerkyone8469
    @snerkyone8469 Месяц назад +2

    Short comment because i need to get back to work... 😀
    Love the hair!
    Glad going to the gym made you feel better after a crappy day!
    If telling us all the feels - good or bad - makes you feel better, then i say go for it! If people get offended by seeing real, less- than- perfect things, then do you really care if they hang around? There are LOTS of fake 'perfect life' youtubers out there if that's what they want!
    (Okay, so not so short a comment after all, oops! 😂)

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад

      you’re so right, if people don’t like this side of me then they can hit the unsubscribe button. I’m better off honestly. I was so afraid i’d lose subscribers if I posted this but the community that stays is truly my people and that’s priceless❤️

  • @AnnaUKSheepstar
    @AnnaUKSheepstar Месяц назад

    I love your hair! But the most important thing is what *you* think xx
    And in answer to your question at the end, I try and fit my exercise into everyday life, to save time. For example, biking or walking to the supermarket if I don't need tons of stuff, rather than driving. I also ride my bike to my GF's house, as it's quicker than sitting in traffic in my car. It means I only go to the gym twice a week, but still get exercise. (Of course, I'm not saying anyone else has to do this, as I absolutely understand this won't work for everyone, as it'll depend on how safe the roads are where you live, it's just what works for me.) 😊

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      that’s such a good ideas to get more exercise in, also thanks so much for the kind words or encouragement❤️

  • @angiebshouse
    @angiebshouse Месяц назад +1

    What is normal? When I was working for PARC, someone said something to one of the residents about him not being “normal” and that was his response.

  • @benjajajajamin
    @benjajajajamin Месяц назад

    Random but have you tried tostadas or enchiladas? They're pretty easy to make, and the salsa taste so good with lots of veggies. It's a good pick-me-up, you should celebrate this school year!! Also I feel what you feel, at this point I just wear what I want to wear as long as it's sustainable - I got this rainbow plastic Vans that make me look like a literal clown and walk like a duck but they're comfyyy. Also getting off social media (instagram, pinterest, tiktok) has helped me so much because i know for me anything can be triggering, take a break if you need!! We'll be here!

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад

      Yes to both! I bet those vans are fire looking. I use to wear vans before I got old lol

  • @jenniferballswitchhouse37
    @jenniferballswitchhouse37 Месяц назад

    I don’t understand it, but I don’t have to, to be there and let you know you’re not alone. You’ll find your way and I’ll be walking beside you the entire time. ❤❤❤

    • @StevieGriffinVlog
      @StevieGriffinVlog  Месяц назад +1

      You are the sweetest my friend. Thank you so much for all of the support through the last few months❤

  • @pegasus2516
    @pegasus2516 Месяц назад

    Huge hugs to you. We see you and appreciate you for exactly who you are ❤

  • @danielesjourney
    @danielesjourney Месяц назад +1

    Got me crying!!!! Love you Queen

  • @maryd2305
    @maryd2305 Месяц назад

    ❤ 🤗

  • @hmm4442
    @hmm4442 Месяц назад

    Yayyyyyy love the hair!!

  • @elizabethr2303
    @elizabethr2303 Месяц назад

    I love your hair ❤❤❤

  • @elizabethr2303
    @elizabethr2303 Месяц назад

    😢