Handling Self-Righteous Attitudes of Divorce Seeking Spouses
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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In this episode of the Purposed Marriage podcast, we discuss the self-righteous spouse who invokes God and spirituality to justify their pursuit of divorce.
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My pastor husband left me 8 months ago and filed for divorce 2 months ago. He knows the word better than anyone I know. I have been told the phrase that he knows God hates divorce, but that this is God’s permissive will for him and that he is already justified and forgiven by God. He stated it’s another sin on his record and God has forgiven him for it. The deception is so real.
"Permissive will" is another lie from the enemy. My the veil of deception be lifted from all blind eyes. May the Lord bless and sustain you Jes.
My sympathies Jes. Sadly I've also heard a divorcing spouse say - I'm a Christian so I know God will forgive me.
My spouse says that he made an adult decision that affected our marriage. I'm appalled everytime it comes up. But this man is an unbeliever so so the unequal yolk gives him a freepass to be a heathen. I guess I should've chosen better.
I would suggest you stand on The Word of GOD and pray for your spouses salvation and restoration of your marriage if the LORD puts that on your heart also.💖@@annagrace1159
Everything Amy said is exactly what my wife is saying. I was the prodigal turned stander and my wife stander turned prodigal.
You guys are such an inspiration. I have cried, laughed and cried again. God’s waiting room can be so lonely. Feel like I’m hold number 23,557 yet they just now calling #57. Lol
Great analogy 😂
Wow.. truth. Thanks for being transparent and helping to understand the lies of the enemy
Thanks for listening Darren! We always desire to proclaim God's truth!
@@PurposedMarriage thank you for all you share
Inspirational. Thank you.
Do you share your full marriage restoration testimony somewhere?
Hi Chris. You can hear our story by clicking the link: purposedmarriage.org/2019/10/02/testimony-of-a-restored-marriage/
Yeppp this my husband he says he is justified in this divorce because even though it’s wrong God is a forgiving God he paid for this sin on the cross thus there is no consequence for this sense he repented of it.
Ps I love y’all podcast I look forward to y’all every week I wished y’all would do more. O an can yall do a video on the other person or adulatory on marriage I’d love to hear from the Amy on that did she ever date. Would u Tom feel like she was justified in that seeing as y’all were divorced
I guess that helps him sleep at night smh ..
@@TheAverageServant u know he says he sleeps well but he confessed a few weeks back we regrets the divorce and wish he could take it back that he never stopped loving me and he misses me. I’m like u know we can be remarried right he says he doesnt want to deal w the backlash of what he did to me how I would be a different person. Like he would have to do more the reassure me and to help me to build our trust he not ready.
@@ashleytysonmccullah1229 just continue to conquer his worldly thoughts with prayer. Pray for God to go into his heart and correct him, help him see the way back to God, Jesus really so he can see the truth. Don't forget abt spiritual warfare as well..pray to remove the strange woman pray to remove those negative thoughts and fully submit to God so that you're prayers may be answered. I'm telling you I was so shocked when my ex came back and the Lord convicted me for not accepting his forgiveness. So be prepared sis and pray for him cuz u don't want him back the same way anyway, you want him better.
@@TheAverageServant ya u right he is being convicted big time I tell u but I do fell restoration is coming. Him and the other women not working out she something else from what he tells me but u reap what u sow
@@ashleytysonmccullah1229 I feel u sis..I'm in the same boat cuz I hear the same things as well next thing you know that pride gon slip and they'll be ready for a beautiful restoration. I said a prayer for you guys.
So helpful. Especially Amy's honesty. Thank you!!
This podcast speaks literal life!
What about a spouse who claims his new girlfriend is the best thing that ever happened to him, and he’s completely abandoned his wife & child.
Have you seen marriages like this restored or salvaged
Spouses running from the Lord will claim lots of things. We must pray the deception that comes from the enemy is removed from our prodigal spouses hearts.
We've heard of the Lord performing absolute miracles in troubled marriages. On this Easter Sunday, rejoice that the God who conquered death can indeed restore dead marriages!
It's worth visiting the Rejoice Marriage Ministries RUclips channel. They have many testimonies of restored marriages. It will be a blessing to you!
ruclips.net/user/rejoiceministries
@@PurposedMarriage Thank you 🙏
My ex husband did that to me and I was pregnant .. he tried to come back more than once. I mean he embarrassed me in front our family and mutual friends. Even had a fake wedding with no license. My heart was cold so I didn’t take him back now I’m praying for restoration 10 years later . So I can attest that the new gf sometimes get old quick .. the Lord kept saying don’t breathe life into it and it’ll die. Once he realized I didn’t care it took all the fun out of their relationship.
I don't want to divorce. But I feel like if I don't, my husband will drive me insane. He has been physically abusive, verbally, psychologically and financially. I don't want my son to ever see that kind of toxic family home ever again. He has never apologized, is still as proud as can be and is moving on doing all he loves. He has never contacted me or his son. They told me of I get divorced, I will stay married before God.. How horrible, is this really so? Because it's easy to work on marriage or just call it quits but don't let people's daughters suffer
So sorry to hear of your situation. Obviously, what unfolded was not a mirror of the picture God paints of marriage. Consider emailing us and sharing your prayer request with our listening audience as we firmly believe in the power of prayer and God's ability to work in ways we can't comprehend.
Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us. - Ephesians 3:20
If he is physically abusive, you must set firm boundaries. Your husband can be a good person from inside but he is a very broken man. He is doing this out of his own unresolved childhood growing up past traumas. People bring past unresolved traumas and issues into their marriage. It is important to understand his brokenness. It seems like you need to be in a recovery group. You need healing. You need to focus on your healing and your son. Cling to God and seek support from recovery group or support group. Prayers for you and your family. May God give you comfort, strength and wisdom. Amen.
Great testimony,,, living the exact,,, how long was the whole ordeal until your heart softened?,,,
Where u partying and drinking, sometimes with your friends?,,, and knew that wasn’t the answer?