I know why u said all this 😂 . U such a great level of player . Yes me too support your statement . Go girls live alone and make this world better place .
because most women are leftover, these women knows most men are becoming passport bros and they will marry foriegner woman and indian women will die alone rest of thier life .
😂I think soon we all reach to 70cr from 140 cr.... Regular fights , tensions is not good for health. Now girls are free ...very good....male dominated a lot... Although still there are good boys say 5% but unko bhi galat samjhjayega .....
@@amoghrajput4338 hi, amogh....actually reality is male will be male and female will be female....biologically girls cant become physically strong as men and man cant give birth to kids. the thing is girls want equality in everything which is wrong.... When a soldier is caught by pak army what torture he has to bear Can a women bear that....?? Imagine the torture beared by major saurabh kalia kargil war Bipin rawat understands this and said women shouldn't join army ....fighting is not recommended for their body biologically......nature has made diff work and rules for man& women. But idiot feminists are comparing unnecessarily. Girls can give back support to men ....and there are other fields where women can work Why bring women in army Para commando forces cannot involve females.... Out of 10000 male soldiers only 1 can become para or marine commando....forget about girls... So girls should also understand what boys are doing .... And boys also shud understand it was their mother who fed them and made them powerful like a bull So respect both
In name of women empowerment, women is suffering physically and mentally and also gets drained financially. We really need to start becoming wise and take care of our own responsibilities.
You are very lucky. I have seen many men among my friends and distant relatives who are running behind courts and police stations to fight dowry and DV false cases. Women get interim maintenance and also child custody and happily live with someone else
30 ka ho chuki hya, abhi eye mat bol ki shaadi karna nehi chahta, shadhi tere se koi karega nehi 😂, Below 30 is okkk But you are saying 30, that's mean you are 30+😂
@@SagarPramanik1 esme hasni wali kia baat h? Tumhe pta h kia mere saath kia huwa h? Mere life m kia kia huwa h agar kisi ke bare m kuch nhi jante toh mt bola karo
@drarunmaurya3127 Men can choose to remain unmarried and lot of them are doing so. I believe both men and women try their best to protect their families.
@@shivanimadanbose4056how long u will lie , women dont marry unemployed men or low earning man depsite many ready to work at home Working at home for a man is very easy . God is watching and knows truth
If u have money and are independent, u can even plan ur funeral these days. U don't need relatives to make u happy. I like my own company and catering to myself only.
I have heard a start up by an Indian In US arranging for ones last rites in Future at Varanasi. Thiusands have Booked for his services in advance. They will collect your body when you Die and send the coffi to India. Pandits At varanasi and the companys representative in india will perform last Rites. What a wonderful system.
She don't want to marry that's not mean she is celebating. So many of them are enjoying without marrying. She just marry when she need children , emotional support, support for growing children. Many of them appeal for divorce when their child grown up to 10 -15 years.
@@Jhon_wick03 Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's true that some people may choose to fulfill their needs in various ways without getting married. However, many individuals also seek deeper emotional connections, companionship, and long-term partnerships that go beyond basic needs. Everyone's path to happiness and fulfillment is unique, and it's important to respect diverse choices. Appreciate your input!
@@shivanimadanbose4056but female face problem after 30 years for marriage if she want to , and some girls expect after becoming women after crossing age of 31 or 32 that I will get charming price milega kyonki mein self-dependent hai .
There is one more point .. Now women don't want to share the same roof with mil and fil and get tortured in her everyday life . Maa maa hoti hai and saas saas .
People like u are actually saving lives of mil and fil.. Ur speaking as if you are taking care of and respecting your mil and fil ...and loving them as much as ur parents.... like earlier generation women and traditional women lol Ur actually saving mil and fil from trash treatment by so called "modern" woman like you... Everyone knows who is getting tortured and having to stay in fear nowadays...the woman who married or her mil and fil... Gone are the days of traditional women who were actually respected than women of today because they actually loved respected and took care of their mil and fil in every way possible..... Talk only if you were of such type of traditional women of older days ,and if mil and fil were of nature of older generations.... Ur last statement itself proved ur biasedness, favouritism and differentiation nature between a girl's parents and her mil fil even though many of mil and fil might be of good nature and character
A successful woman wants only a very successful man. A very successful man wants a very beautiful woman. A very beautiful woman wants a very successful man. Poor successful woman😢😢
@@lafonziou9584 Thank you for your comment. The dynamics of relationships and personal preferences can indeed be complex. It's important to remember that success and beauty can mean different things to different people. True compatibility often goes beyond these factors, involving shared values, mutual respect, and emotional connection. Your perspective highlights the diverse factors at play in modern relationships. Appreciate your insight!
can women sustain to work past her 50's and accept the men taking care of house only. oh yes the buying of fancy toys or travel abroad & local (all that jazz) for the men taking care of the house ... (ohh wonder how this comment be treated )
@@jacobjp5799 Thank you for continuing the discussion. The idea of gender roles and expectations in relationships is evolving, and it’s important to recognize that each partnership is unique. Many women do continue to work past their 50s and can support their families, just as some men take on the role of managing the household. True partnership is about mutual support, respect, and understanding each other's strengths and preferences. It's crucial to find a balance that works for both individuals in the relationship. Appreciate your thought-provoking question!
This household chores are mainly referred to the women work by women, they completely forgot the men's contribution to run the house by saying it's his duty, it's a man's job. Then yes husbands are not Bound to do wives work.
Men is still the major expense bearer of the family.Most of them reach home late.Even though many girls are employed they do not share expense equally.
Women nt interested in marriage but no woman deny of hookup culture, multiple sex partners, extra marital affairs, alcohol or other addictions, consumerism, western culture, playing victim cards etc etc Now we men are happy to see harsh realities of today's women and thanks to God who save ourselves from witches
@gsclasses3608 Let the real face of women come forth. It's the men who are highlighted in bad light always. And men are blamed for everything that happens to women. But by the women empowerment and women centric law...women's dark side will come down also.. Therefore, let more prone women centric law come. Let more extra marital affairs and family breakdown cases happen that are initiated by women single handling at first. So that dark faces of women could come in front of society, law maker.
Thats so true. Even I being an unmarried man am in a relationship with a woman who is into extramarital with me. Its become a norm nowadays. So ya..koi sati savitri nahi hai idhar..iss hamam me sab nange hain!😂
@@pavnibhiryani6216 why would i be hurt, I am married living a good job and life in europe. Unlike these middle aged, single and bitter and deeply sad feminist women. :)
Great news and trend. Ladkiya hi shaadi ke liye 100% oppose karna shuru kar de to apne aap ye band ho jayega. Laws bhi gender neutral hone chahiye, false cases ko strict aur quick punishment hona chahiye.
Jo sex life shadi ke baad shuru hoti h wo sex life ab shadi se pehle available h isliye ladkia ek ke sath rehna nhi chahti kyunki unko alag alag ladke pasand ate rehte h . Or baat rhi zimmedari ki to un sabko uthane ke liye ladkio ko zimmedar or sahassi hona padega or esi ladkiya aaj kl bhot kam dekhne ko milti h .
@@Suhanyy8 ♨Brutal Truth Of Arrange Marriage For Men♨ Girls aged 14 to 25 frequently seek the companionship of a "bad boy" or a muscular and confident boy, also known as "boyfriend material." And they look for a financially stable partner for marriage and financial stability, sometimes characterized as a "good nice boy." Interestingly, these "nice guys" are typically neglected by girls aged 14 to 25. After 2 to 3 years of marriage with a good "nice guy," many women get bored with him. They often stay in the marriage due to their children's security and societal pressure. Subsequently, many seek extramarital affairs with a "bad," masculine, dominant man to recreate and enjoy the thrills and excitement experienced between the ages of 14 and 25. According to reports, 7 out of every 10 married women in India are reportedly having affairs today (1). Another survey states that rural Indian women have more sexual partners than men(2). Recent surveys also show that many girls have a backup man if the relationship fails.(3) This is estimated to represent 95% of women's psyche. It's called in evolutionary psychology the term "women's hypergamy" & Briffault's law. (4) In dating websites like Ok Cupid, Bumble, and Tinder, the top 5% of male profiles garner 76% of women’s likes, while the remaining 95% of guys compete for the remaining 24% of girls' profiles. This is why many boys who join these sites don't receive likes. (5) Many men who haven't experienced relationships before marriage often notice a prevalent trend in high school or college: around 90% of girls have boyfriends, while only about 20% to 25% of boys have girlfriends. Notably, boys with a dominant, masculine, confident, or bad-boy image tend to be among those with girlfriends, although exceptions are minimal, generally not surpassing 1%. Many men often hear girls saying that "everyone has a past." The reason behind this is that in many girls' groups, most of their friends have boyfriends, leading them to think it's normal for everyone to have a past relationship. However, in boys' groups, this scenario is different. Typically, only 3 or 4 out of 10 boys have girlfriends, so the perception of having a past relationship is less common among them. The problem stems from the fact that 80% of boys are "nice, good guys," indicating that they lack the qualities of more masculinity and confidence. This results in women finding 80% of males unattractive, as per recent surveys.(6) These "nice good guys" remain virgins until marriage, and these nice good guys expect their future wives to be virgins. Furthermore, 80% of women lose their virginity to the top 20% of attractive, confident "bad boys," especially during their peak age between 14 and 26. Most women who lose their virginity to bad, muscular, attractive boys are not able to secure that bad boy for marriage because this bad boy has more options. Women who do not secure a bad-boy marriage look for nice guys for marriage. Because they are going to heat the wall, they do not love these nice guys. Nor do they find these nice guys attractive; they just marry nice guys for financial and social security. Note: Virgin boys, please do not accept non-virgin girls as your wives. Guys, don't be that nice guy in arranged marriages to girls who, after experiencing heartbreak from bad boys, are now looking to settle down with a nice guy. (Single virgin men who do not have any past relationships and are opting for an arranged marriage. And remember these facts.) 1) Only 0.03% of girls born without hyman 2) The probability of breaking Hyman while playing sports is like breaking teeth during football practice. Don't fall for feminist propaganda. "The past does not matter" 3) If 80% of women don't love the other 80% of men, how can India have a stable family structure? In pre-modern India, society was based on cultural values. These values prevented women from being promiscuous. These values also prevented top alpha men from dating most of women. The above scenario is for modern society where cultural values have no place. Call it cultural values or conservative values context remains the same. 4) Can she love her husband purely from her heart in an arranged marriage? Unfortunate Brutal Truth - NO. Because first love is something that gives that girl a new life. A girl who never thought about anyone before except her parents, this love gave her dreams, her life her new thoughts gave her new strength, and gave her heart a reason she could live with even if no one stayed or will stay… It gave her a new friend with whom she had danced, and dreamed of enjoying the rain… The thought of him leaving her left her shattered...the mere thought of him being upset killed her before she died. the mere thought of him being with someone else left her heart to cry...the footsteps of whom increased her heartbeat. the only slight view of him gave her a reason to smile .hats off to those girls. A woman with a past NEVER loves her husband with full conviction and gives him sexual pleasure with full passion. A woman never forgets her ex. inner subconscious mind, there is always very sharp pain for her ex. No matter how good a person you are, capable, loving- caring, resource provider, even good in bed. Her HERO is always her ex. Even at the time of physical intimacy with you, she remembers his name, and utter the name of her ex/s. She already lived a life full of passion and excitement, and with her husband it is suitable for her. Marriage, after all, is for the financial and social security of girls, not for having amazing sex, fun, or love. Those days are gone. She will never forget her beautiful colorful memories with him, and his pamper, his adoration, her exciting moments with him in a Park / Pub / Restaurant / Lake / Cinema Hall / Resort. On the other hand, marriage life is completely boring, with a lot of responsibilities, an emotionless boring life, and disagreement, and within a couple of years, the spark fades. She will never be satisfied with your adore, you’re pampered, and IC. After five-six years of marriage, she'll try to find a younger boy or boyfriend who is like her ex/es for sexual pleasure and short-term casual relationship. A girl with a colorful past bores faster in married life. Whatever you do for her SHE WILL NEVER EVER FORGET HER PAST AND NEVER SATISFY WITH YOU. In an arranged marriage, YOU ARE A BIG LOSER. She may be physically attached to you but not mentally. 5)"Does she compare her ex with me? Yes, she does, all the time, even in bed. Her hero is her ex, not you. Moreover, she'll value her ex more than you in all your actions, no matter how good you are compared to him. Even in bed, she will never be satisfied with you, no matter if you are a skilled player. She's only loyal to you if you fall within that 20 to 30 percent of men in terms of masculinity, height, and confidence. The proof for this is that in India, 10 out of 7 married women cheat on their husbands. In the Western world, 80% of divorces are initiated by women."
Are behenji hum ladko ke kaha utne options. 80% ladke toh below average dikhte hai jinko ladkiya notice tak nhi karti. Lagta hai aap top 20% men ki baat kar rhi ho jabki yeh ladka 80% ladkiyo ki baat kar rha hai jinke pass all the time options available hai wo bhi atleast 20 se zyada.@@Suhanyy8
Summary: Women is sacred of responsibility and don't take leap of faith as they themselves are not having strong character. Empowered women doesn't mean who just earn(that is basic life skills and thier fathers have invested in school n college),an empowered woman can feed and protect her family.A women not nurturing babies means they dint enjoy Womenhod. Defending on husband for every small thing is a sign of weakness.
@@Ninanani-4085 u can find a ghar jamai....but let me tell you that man will be useless and his ghar jamai status will reap more bitterness inside you because you will never be enjoy the company of real man
Why to take responsibilities of their in laws where in return they get multiple taunts, constant complaints and judgements, husband is not taking sides, constant bitching ( my mother has gone through a lot, she cries secretly without telling and the reason is her in laws, even though she never gave back answers , never said a word but she is traumatized)
Shameless Men got triggered in comment section. Kuch besharam aadmiyo ko smgh nhi aa rha kya bole toh bas "har aurat ke multiple s*x partner hai isliye shadi ki kya need" yeh bol dooo. What a downgraded and road side mentality. 😓😓😓😓
@@fire6915 the same men marry a unemployed girl who is dependent on them and take so much dowry and insult her abuse her because they think their mother is useto be a slave of his father then how can a women choose to be a free life they be like if they reach their 60 70 they regret I don't understand what else left for regret at 70 life will probably end you have to die some day why their a compulsion of marriage on women they think they are protector's of women the truth is women need protect herself from them so called men I literally started to hating them without any reason why the hell they get interfere in every womans issues does someone ask them to do so they talk like as if they own the body of those womens
@@sonireddy6696 They are part of women's body......Because they come out of their stomach.... Dont hate them...consider them as part of you....They are your own...treat them like your own body..
Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, passion, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. Stop Simping and Completely stop trying to please women. Life is too short to waste time and energy on women's emotional drama.
You are absolutely wrong bro. Marriage institute is actually a boon for man and disaster for women. Think about it twice then comment. And analyze reports or data about it. Report always say if man don't marry he got very depressive life. In opposite if woman don't marry she leads happiest life.
@fire6915 a. don't need your advice ..and don't preach me who can comment or who can't b. This is an open platform and everyone is free to share their thoughts as far as it is respectful
Jb Maine mom se Kha mom mujhe married life mein koi interest nhi h, mujhe kise bhe ldke se shadi nhi krna , mom also agree with me, and i am happy in my single life, my parents also support me ❤💫💃💃💃💃💃
@@sssaaa4177 kush ascha krna chatee hun parents and society ke liye , bohat se log depression se jhoojh rhe h suicide conduct krr rhe h iss problem kaise solve krin mujhe iss prr kaam krna , ye ilaj mein free of cost krruge 🙏🙏
Good for men if women reject marriage🤣.However it is observed that quality men and women are denying marriage.In the long run it would seriously impact percentage of quality population in the long run.
Shivani ji can you also enlighten the Indian society on what will happen when this same career oriented woman who decides never to get married turns 60 ,at that time she may have pots and pots of money career achievements to boast of but who will she share it with ???,since she will have no husband no children,no daughter in law or son in law or grandchildren ,with whom she could share her joys ,her sorrows ,her excitement etc ???Post 60 every working woman will be forced to become a housewife . Nobody works till they drop dead or go to the grave ???Then what ???This unmarried lady 's parents are also going to die some day or the other ,her siblings also may not be always available for her ,so kindly advise what should she do then when she is at this juncture of her life ,how should she manage alone ,isn't being married to the right man a better option ,before the marriage is finalized, she can share these concerns with her to be husband and to be inlaws and make them agree to her viewpoint convince them some how ,if there is a problem, there is always a solution.
Family is important but what if the same family starts ignoring you. When you are post 60 , everyone around you would be busy. Your sons and daughters will be busy in their own life. It's hard to accept but only if you are lucky your spouse will be beside you. Most of the time husband don't give respect to their wife throughout their life and taken then for granted. How can you rely on that person ? Those who don't want to get married are actually looking for a true partnership but that is just a Mirage . The answer to your question is there are many old age homes of 3 star or 5 star standard. You will find friends to share your story with them . Why compromise so many yrs of your life with the wrong person on the presumption of the fact that , that person will take care of you
@@kaberipramanik6300 yaah but not all husbands and children are inhuman and bad some are caring ,but yes one would never be assured of that before marriage. Because of some inhuman life partners or a handful of husbands or wives the institution of marriage can't be deemed as ugly ,something to avoid.
What about old age? Who will take care? Parents will leave this world; sibling/s will have their own lives; and nephews, neices would care two hoots. What support system will the woman have? Most unmarried women become lonely and go into depression after a certain age. No amount of earned money will remove loneliness and depression.
Private care - old aged facility (Charge = monthly basis depending upon facilities provided) including onsite doctor, nurse, food menu services, etc,,,,,,If you have money, you are well taken care of in old age (either by your own family members or aged care facility). If you are poor - no one wants you.
Suicide rate of married men in India is 24.3% (while that of women is 8.4%) and for men who never married is 12.1 % , the real victims of marriage are men , its both financially and mentally exhausting for men , it's not women opting out of marriage its actually men who don't want to marry now.
even unmarried men are more susceptible to suicide by your above stats. so what's your point? STAY SINGLE, BROKE, EXHAUSTED AND VICTIMS. no sweat off womens' backs.
Women are empowered and can pursue their career and do whatever they want. That's great. It's good to know the perspectives of women. As a DEI consultant and POSH expert i appreciate that you have brought forward the modern women's point of view succinctly. Well, the thing is if someone (women in this video) is having this perspective on life, then it's better to remain unmarried. This is because identities of a couple merge after marriage. The entire ceremony and it's rituals symbolises this merging of identities. The key purpose is to create progeny and create conditions that help the offspring to thrive. While fulfilling these duties the couple are able to enjoy a physical and emotional union. The important thing is to understand what marriage means rather than jump into it. After marriage, a man gets to become a father. Now, as per societal norms and judiciary, the father has no value in the life of a child. He is supposed to only provide money as child support. His child can be taken away at any time. His access to the child is entirely dependent on his wife. From the perspective of man, especially in current circumstances, let me tell you that before marriage a man earns and manages his home (like preparing food, cleaning his room/house, doing his laundry, etc.). If this lifestyle remains same (equally hectic as before marriage) and he gets additional responsibilities after marriage, where is the incentive for him to get married? Besides, his wife's education, money, etc., adds no value to his life. From the practical point of view, women seldom provide for men in marriages. A man gets married only to receive love, affection, care, and physical intimacy. So, marriage will work only if his needs for love, care, intimacy are met by the wife. So, women should not take pressure, understand what marriage is, and realize the expectations of their would-be husband. If she thinks she can give meaning to marriage and her relationship with husband, she should go forward with marriage. Otherwise, it's not a good idea. It will bring suffering to her and the man she would marry.
@@sourav2051 Thank you for your comment. Each video explores different perspectives and factors influencing marriage decisions in contemporary society. By addressing various viewpoints, we aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of the evolving attitudes towards marriage among both men and women. Your feedback is valuable in highlighting the need for diverse discussions on this topic.
Sabse zyaada ladkiyon ke parents hi unhe shaadi keiye force karte hai. Kyunki ladkiyaan aaj bhi anpne parents pe bojh hai. Wo isliye kyunki ladkiyaan job nahi karti. Government ke data 2202-23 ke mutabik 37 % ladkiyaan hi job karti hai. Shaadi keliye ladkiyaan isliye bhi ready nahi hai kyunki aaj kal ladkiyon ko zimmedaari nahi leni. Aise bahot se ladke hai jinki salary kam hai, lekin aise ladke ladkiyon ko help karte hai. Par aise ladkon se ladkiyaan shaadi nahi karti as unhe high package waala ladka hi chaahiye. So bahot complicated hai.
@@sonireddy6696 to tum half aamount dena ghar ka apne future husband ko bolna ki wo bhi half ammount de house ka. aese mein dono hi new home mein reh lenge. lekin ye sab itna easy nhi hain minimum 1 cr chahiye city mein ghar hone ke liye. or jaha tak baat hain ladka ladki ke ghar aye rehne to wo tumhare khud ke parents nhi rehne denge
♨Brutal Truth Of Arrange Marriage For Men♨ Girls aged 14 to 25 frequently seek the companionship of a "bad boy" or a muscular and confident boy, also known as "boyfriend material." And they look for a financially stable partner for marriage and financial stability, sometimes characterized as a "good nice boy." Interestingly, these "nice guys" are typically neglected by girls aged 14 to 25. After 2 to 3 years of marriage with a good "nice guy," many women get bored with him. They often stay in the marriage due to their children's security and societal pressure. Subsequently, many seek extramarital affairs with a "bad," masculine, dominant man to recreate and enjoy the thrills and excitement experienced between the ages of 14 and 25. According to reports, 7 out of every 10 married women in India are reportedly having affairs today (1). Another survey states that rural Indian women have more sexual partners than men(2). Recent surveys also show that many girls have a backup man if the relationship fails.(3) This is estimated to represent 95% of women's psyche. It's called in evolutionary psychology the term "women's hypergamy" & Briffault's law. (4) In dating websites like Ok Cupid, Bumble, and Tinder, the top 5% of male profiles garner 76% of women’s likes, while the remaining 95% of guys compete for the remaining 24% of girls' profiles. This is why many boys who join these sites don't receive likes. (5) Many men who haven't experienced relationships before marriage often notice a prevalent trend in high school or college: around 90% of girls have boyfriends, while only about 20% to 25% of boys have girlfriends. Notably, boys with a dominant, masculine, confident, or bad-boy image tend to be among those with girlfriends, although exceptions are minimal, generally not surpassing 1%. Many men often hear girls saying that "everyone has a past." The reason behind this is that in many girls' groups, most of their friends have boyfriends, leading them to think it's normal for everyone to have a past relationship. However, in boys' groups, this scenario is different. Typically, only 3 or 4 out of 10 boys have girlfriends, so the perception of having a past relationship is less common among them. The problem stems from the fact that 80% of boys are "nice, good guys," indicating that they lack the qualities of more masculinity and confidence. This results in women finding 80% of males unattractive, as per recent surveys.(6) These "nice good guys" remain virgins until marriage, and these nice good guys expect their future wives to be virgins. Furthermore, 80% of women lose their virginity to the top 20% of attractive, confident "bad boys," especially during their peak age between 14 and 26. Most women who lose their virginity to bad, muscular, attractive boys are not able to secure that bad boy for marriage because this bad boy has more options. Women who do not secure a bad-boy marriage look for nice guys for marriage. Because they are going to heat the wall, they do not love these nice guys. Nor do they find these nice guys attractive; they just marry nice guys for financial and social security. Note: Virgin boys, please do not accept non-virgin girls as your wives. Guys, don't be that nice guy in arranged marriages to girls who, after experiencing heartbreak from bad boys, are now looking to settle down with a nice guy. (Single virgin men who do not have any past relationships and are opting for an arranged marriage. And remember these facts.) 1) Only 0.03% of girls born without hyman 2) The probability of breaking Hyman while playing sports is like breaking teeth during football practice. Don't fall for feminist propaganda. "The past does not matter" 3) If 80% of women don't love the other 80% of men, how can India have a stable family structure? In pre-modern India, society was based on cultural values. These values prevented women from being promiscuous. These values also prevented top alpha men from dating most of women. The above scenario is for modern society where cultural values have no place. Call it cultural values or conservative values context remains the same. 4) Can she love her husband purely from her heart in an arranged marriage? Unfortunate Brutal Truth - NO. Because first love is something that gives that girl a new life. A girl who never thought about anyone before except her parents, this love gave her dreams, her life her new thoughts gave her new strength, and gave her heart a reason she could live with even if no one stayed or will stay… It gave her a new friend with whom she had danced, and dreamed of enjoying the rain… The thought of him leaving her left her shattered...the mere thought of him being upset killed her before she died. the mere thought of him being with someone else left her heart to cry...the footsteps of whom increased her heartbeat. the only slight view of him gave her a reason to smile .hats off to those girls. A woman with a past NEVER loves her husband with full conviction and gives him sexual pleasure with full passion. A woman never forgets her ex. inner subconscious mind, there is always very sharp pain for her ex. No matter how good a person you are, capable, loving- caring, resource provider, even good in bed. Her HERO is always her ex. Even at the time of physical intimacy with you, she remembers his name, and utter the name of her ex/s. She already lived a life full of passion and excitement, and with her husband it is suitable for her. Marriage, after all, is for the financial and social security of girls, not for having amazing sex, fun, or love. Those days are gone. She will never forget her beautiful colorful memories with him, and his pamper, his adoration, her exciting moments with him in a Park / Pub / Restaurant / Lake / Cinema Hall / Resort. On the other hand, marriage life is completely boring, with a lot of responsibilities, an emotionless boring life, and disagreement, and within a couple of years, the spark fades. She will never be satisfied with your adore, you’re pampered, and IC. After five-six years of marriage, she'll try to find a younger boy or boyfriend who is like her ex/es for sexual pleasure and short-term casual relationship. A girl with a colorful past bores faster in married life. Whatever you do for her SHE WILL NEVER EVER FORGET HER PAST AND NEVER SATISFY WITH YOU. In an arranged marriage, YOU ARE A BIG LOSER. She may be physically attached to you but not mentally. 5)"Does she compare her ex with me? Yes, she does, all the time, even in bed. Her hero is her ex, not you. Moreover, she'll value her ex more than you in all your actions, no matter how good you are compared to him. Even in bed, she will never be satisfied with you, no matter if you are a skilled player. She's only loyal to you if you fall within that 20 to 30 percent of men in terms of masculinity, height, and confidence. The proof for this is that in India, 10 out of 7 married women cheat on their husbands. In the Western world, 80% of divorces are initiated by women."
I don't understand why does men feel need to mock and comment disrespectful comparison thing on every women related post.. Not even a single time she said sth bad about men but here in comment section there fragile male ego is hurt so much that they still couldn't help shame and blame women for her normal life choices.
Isn't it true that you women file so many false criminal cases on men when your fragile female ego is hurt? Female ego is so fragile that you cannot tolerate even for a sec. You have to file false accusations and men are forced to undergo the torture
I would like to say. I had a mother in those times who didnt had much while she was growing and use to milk cows. The reality is that the people who think distroying family unit is freedkm then congratulations India is going to end. The western world is pushing towards collapse thats why they are opening immigration now. The answer is feeedom and room to breathe freely but also maintaining the family unit in modern times. Their must be the values or else its going to turn bad. This comment was to wake up pople that without new births their is no society to sustain. No people no future. Also its not anyone to decide whome should do what. IN GUJARATI house hold women are encouraged to be a part of bussiness or start their own. Thanks
hota kuch nhi hai bs ego problems..wife kisi aur k office me bai ka kaam krna chahti hai ..aur fir ghar sambhalne k liye bahar se dusri bai aati hai.its simply flow of money nothing else...ab paisa hi sbkuch ho chuka hai..modern mothers bacche b zabardsati kr rhi hai ...creche me palte hai ya dada dadi ya nana nani se..pr bacche ko jiski zarurat hai wo kisi aur ka office smbhalti hai....paise zarurat puri krne k liye kmaya jata hai lekin aajkl paisa ek status symbol of independence ..freedom ka symbol bnta ja rha hai jiski wajah se ghar tut rhe hai shadiya nhi ho rhi...indian culture nasht ho gya...jo glti west krk ab regret kr rha hai indians us taraf badh rhe hai
Wo tumhare bachche, tumhare maa baap nahi hote kya? Tum kyun nahi sambhalte. Dusre ke office mein maid ban kar khud biwi par ghamand dikhate go. Kis baat ka
@@Ninanani-4085 after a long time i see you. And again you are right nina 👍👍👍 Ek cheez bhut hi simple hai jaisa yeh aadmi bol rha hai, ki yeh khud dara hua hai independent women se. Aurato ki aankhein khul chuki hai ur ldko ko ldki milni hai nhi shadi ke liye that's why they are in fear. Aap comment section dekho in logo ne unmarried ko shamelessly character less bolna start kr diya hai. Hum kya hi umeed kr skte hai in logo se they are seriously disaster.
Delaying marriage increases your chance of not getting married at all; that means facing old age, disease and death all alone. None of their mothers, grandmothers etc had to face those all alone. Please don’t start quoting exceptions. Best of luck to all these single women in their 30s and so forth.
Because of the attention they get from men in their teens and twenties they started to overrate themselves, and tend to become leftover women in their 30s and desperate.
If freedom is your choice then marriage should not be your choice. Applies to both genders. Compromise is a necessity of marriage and if are not ready for that then better don't marry and destroy your to be partners life. Your to be partner at least do not know who you are but you know it very well. You talk to the person you are about to marry very very clearly what you want and what you expect. If that is good with him/ her then only proceed else withdraw.
Yaar literally talking about the women 😢 Thank you so much ❤... Ye society sarre sacrifice bas humse chahti hai..mardo ko saarr par betati hai.. Hum hi apna ghar chode..hum hi pregnancy mai sab dard sehan karre..kudh ka naam tak change hota hai....hum hi ghar sambhale hum hi bacche buddhe sambhale..aur sab mehnat karke bhi tanne bhi hum hi sunne😢.. I literally want to change indian societies 3 things 1- Be financially independent 2- Take the Army training so rapist will not be alive if they are doing anything wrong about you 3- Make the revolution in society hum hi kyu apna ghar chodde vo bhi to hamare ghar aa sakte hai 😢... Akhir hum aurto ko bhi jinne ka haqq ....but the sad part is not men but women opposing other women 😢 that feels very bad... 🙏Hope so next generation women will not tolerate all this bullshit..
Jeene ka haqq le lo. But fulfill the following duties for that. First, change the legal system whereby groom gets legal right to the property of your father when the man becomes house husband. Second, provide for your husband and children till retirement. Take your husband to vacations, restaurants, buy clothes and utilities for him, gift him bikes, video games, xbox, etc. Third, change the family law system whereby a man becomes financially independent after marriage. Currently, not only his finances, his life is dependent on his wife after marriage. Fourth, hire a maid/help and buy all the necessary utilities (like mixer grinder, vegetable cutter, washing machine, vacuum cleaner, etc.) so that he can either manage the helper or himself perform all housework using the utilities. Simply by fulfilling the above four duties you can get your jeene ka haqq. However, I cannot give solution on how to make the husband pregnant and make him suffer labor pain so that you become satisfied. You have to blame nature for that. I think you assume that men enjoy seeing their wives in labor pain. Anyways all the best.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489 Thank you for sharing your detailed perspective. It's evident that you have strong feelings about the roles and responsibilities within marriage. The points you raise about legal rights, financial independence, and household duties reflect significant societal and legal considerations. These are complex issues that merit further discussion and thoughtful examination to ensure fairness and balance in relationships. Constructive dialogue is essential in addressing these topics and finding solutions that work for everyone involved. Appreciate your input and the depth of your concerns.
@@shivanimadanbose4056 to be honest I don't think the issues are complex to that level. Corporations are always propagating about breaking gender-based stereotypes. You also mentioned the same. So, just some laws must be legislated so that true equality is established. I believe the intention should be there. The corporations and people in your positions hardly discuss the points I raised above (how gender-based stereotypes disadvantage men). If these are also brought to the mainstream there is a lot of hope. I would say, to the contrary, that the solutions you have proposed are challenging to implement. For example, men are attracted to young women because of the fondness of beauty and chances of successful procreation. Certainly, women have every right to decide when they should marry. But no one is informing them about the consequences of their decisions. The issue is how to convince men to ignore their natural drives and marry older women? Secondly, men don't have separate goals, desires, and dreams (career or life). Their goals and dreams always include their wife and children, if any. So, how are you going to convince men that empowered women can have individual goals and dreams? This is also considering that family is the biggest motivator for most men. They are alien to such thought since they were always empowered (because of their ability to earn money).
@@servantoflordkrishna4489but with that you will get title of gold digger and you have to listen the taunts of inlaws and their relatives be ready for that..
Yes you are 100% right! One of the primary reasons for women avoiding marriage is because of the deeply patriarchal societal norms and the misogynistic mentality of most men.
See.. Eventually women who don't marry won't reproduce so their genes won't propagate. What will reproduce successfully is patriarchy. In another 70 years. We will only have women who support patriarchy. Evolution is not foolish to have supported patriarchy. All these unnatural urges, nature eliminates them gradually.
Agar aap marriage nahi kar rahi hai... To kuch best kariye... Ya to kuch pese kamaye ua fir kuch bhi value with personality develop kare... Lekin agar ladkiya kuch bhi nahi kar rahi to best yehi hai ki marriage kar le.
चाहे जितना भी सोच लो की शादी करनी है नही करनी है पर पहले समय की तरह कोई खुस नही रह सकता जो शादी कर रहे है वो तो दुखी है ही जो नही कर रहे वो आगे जाके दुखी होंगे क्योंकि अंत में बैंक बैलेंस के अलावाकुछ भी नही होगा
They have already being into multiple relationships so that's why they don't want to get married. Weekend wedding night and Honeymoon phase is a routine for them.
Its wrong, woman want to get marry with a rich man like ambani and a charater like god, so woman not getting man of their desire so they are not married, they want to marry rich but india is middle income country all woman wont get rich so they are not marrying😂
When all such people, men and women, have to be prepared when they get old, there may not be enough people around to look after them despite the money as the ones around will also have same aspirations.
behad satik dhang se bataya apne. log chahe kuch b kahe ki age aurto ka kya hoga,single marengi, age desh society kaise chalegi.magar ye sab ka jawab mil bhi jae to bhi marriege ke nam par couples jo toxicity bardasht kar rahe hai uska dard to us couple ko hi pata hai.
आगे का ट्रेंड ये होने वाला है कि prostitution बढ़ेगा, लड़कों का moral boundaries नए तरीकों से set होगी । 35+ में बच्चे तो हो जाते हैं पर पालने की हिम्मत काम होने लगती है। 80s में भ्रूण हत्या की वजह से जो सेक्स ratio बिगड़ा है उसका नखरा है, पर अगले 10 साल में ये बदल जाएगा, तब 35 में लड़का हो या लड़की 35 के aas pas ही मिलेगा, अब उसका 35 तक हो जाने का reason जो भी हो
This all things is ok, i also think this like but most of our life happiness depends on our relationship,at the age of 31 I am going to marry because I have almost everything what i wanted at age of 24 but some thing is missing that is relationship so in my opinion every one should marry,there many people in this world you can find person suitable to you so not doing marriage is not a good option
Ego is the wrost thing, if both men & women loss there ego then they can live together. In the world nobody independent, only dead doesn't need anyone. If you are alive then definitely need each other. If everyone think like that this world will stop. Don't go debate on men vs women instead of that how both gender work together and lead society. At last when i met few of girls they much elder than me and now in 40's, they said live independent and alone is hard. If we go back we choose someone instead in the ego of strong & independent. They told me that like Carreer, marriage is also achievement for girls. Note, these all girls those unmarried, independent and strong. They told that. I am just sharing those girls experience. Girls whatever you thinking in 20's will change in 30s and whatever you think 30s will change in 40s.
Sorry to say, mam, but its all bakwas reasons u gave, i m also an independent, working, married, 2 kids also. But, its my 30 yrs experience that working women is the greatest sufferer/victim. Me too, if u want i will tell you several working women living hell, even they try to suicide, taking depression pills etc etc etc. In laws wale use karte h earning lady ko, torture karte h, i know some highly senior govt lady officers in pain. But aapko male female ki problems se kya lena dena, aapko to bas views, likes or subscribers chahiye, thts all. Namaste 🙏
Maine bhi dekha hai nd news mai lieutenant females ki suicide news suni hai. Jaha in laws plus husband ne bhyankar mental torture kiya tha. But ma'am i have a question related to it. Jab working women accha kama leti hai ur woh own se rah bhi skti hai toh woh itna torture kuu jhelti hai. Woh divorce kuu nhi deti hai ???
I heard a news of Rajasthan jaha ek MBBS armh doctor ki shadi baad uske husband ne usko khoob peeta ki uske kaan ke parde fat gaye ur daant toot gaye still she was tolerating after some months she did suicide. I mean woh chahti toh nikal skti thi divorce dekar she was earning well but she did suicide. Esa kuu ho rha hai working women ke saath ??
@@fire6915 hello mam, i hv filed divorce, as a result, my husband took my son with him, beti mere pas h, he said several times ki ab tujhe bachche dekhne ke liye tarsa dunga, or whi kiya bhi, unke parents, sisters sab mile huye h, or divorce bhi nhi de rhe, ab btao, itna aasan nhi h is purush pradhan samaj me avaz uthana, jo ladies case file karti h unhe victim card khel rhi h ye bolte h, kuch esi hoti h manti hu, but gehu ke sath ghun bhi pista h, u might have heard.
@@fire6915 divorce bhi nhi milta aasani se, i hv filed the same 6 yrs ago, he refuses to give divorce, and our law and order u know, victim banker reh jati h bus. Mutual jaldi ho jata h but in other cases, a long hell to bear.
This was my wish.. God accepted thank you lord.. I want all women to be single .. because male births are decreased and female births are increased.. not only women want to be single but mens too this is the only reason for a woman but for a man there are many many reasons including Indian laws 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Going 50-50 means sharing house work and also contributing half of their salary, but women are still in a my money is money your money is our money mind set and men are still in women should do major part of house work
Marriage ritual has lost its defination, purpose and meaning. Now better options are living relationship/open relationship/short contractual marriages.
Happy to hear that, coz no one wants to marry these days men dont want to lose everything in false court case in fact I have lost a lot in a false court case, so now I am extreme mgtow
" Without faith it is impossible to please God " Hebrews chapter 11 verse 6 Majority of people lean on their own understandings. Jesus Christ rightly said, when I return to this earth, will I find faith ? Gospel of Luke chapter 18 verses 1 oneards.
Jab saare ladkiyan shaadi se pehle ladko ke saath khub enjoy karleti hai toh woh shaadi kyun karegi. Ladkiyon ko bus kuch nahi ladka chaiye enjoyment ke liye.
When you use the words like "wants to" or " my choice" or other similar words be careful with it😮 own decision and accountability of consequences of your own decision are included. Wants to aur my choice jese words app tab use kar sakte he jab aap k pass various options already available ho. Younger ( not a minor of course) have more options and opportunities when it comes to dating or marriage but upto certain age then ladke uske samne as a marriage material dekhenge bhi nahi.aur jaha tak stereotypes ki baat he agar ladki ki certain age ho jati he tab wo Sadi k layak Maan li jati he aur ladke jab tak nahi kamata tab tak use gharwale bhi ijjat nahi dete na ladki ke papa ladki. It is compulsory for man to make money ( also more than her ) to be a marriage material 😢
It is good not just women . Men also want unmarried.
Thats true. Should i prepare a video on it?
@@shivanimadanbose4056 yes
Yes please@@shivanimadanbose4056
@@shivanimadanbose4056 yes
Done will prepare a video on it
I support as a man , women should boycott marriage. Full support 💪👑
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👍 Stay single stay happy. Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
That's good to hear about that
@@shivanimadanbose4056 🙏 No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
Hi can you join me in the group please
Thats true
@@shivanimadanbose4056 🙏
It's good to see Indian Women getting intelligent and wise, You go girls live freely... 👍🏼
I know why u
said all this 😂 . U such a great level of player . Yes me too support your statement . Go girls live alone and make this world better place .
because most women are leftover, these women knows most men are becoming passport bros and they will marry foriegner woman and indian women will die alone rest of thier life .
😂I think soon we all reach to 70cr from 140 cr....
Regular fights , tensions is not good for health.
Now girls are free ...very good....male dominated a lot...
Although still there are good boys say 5% but unko bhi galat samjhjayega .....
@@robinieor I know why u smiling 😁😁
@@amoghrajput4338 hi, amogh....actually reality is male will be male and female will be female....biologically girls cant become physically strong as men and man cant give birth to kids. the thing is girls want equality in everything which is wrong....
When a soldier is caught by pak army what torture he has to bear
Can a women bear that....??
Imagine the torture beared by major saurabh kalia kargil war
Bipin rawat understands this and said women shouldn't join army ....fighting is not recommended for their body biologically......nature has made diff work and rules for man& women.
But idiot feminists are comparing unnecessarily.
Girls can give back support to men ....and there are other fields where women can work
Why bring women in army
Para commando forces cannot involve females....
Out of 10000 male soldiers only 1 can become para or marine commando....forget about girls...
So girls should also understand what boys are doing ....
And boys also shud understand it was their mother who fed them and made them powerful like a bull
So respect both
In name of women empowerment, women is suffering physically and mentally and also gets drained financially. We really need to start becoming wise and take care of our own responsibilities.
@@arafeenaisha1886 Well said
Sharia law
i am male and didnt fall into society pressure I didn't married till now at age of 33.
Then you should watch my next video on Why men dont want to get married?
You are very lucky. I have seen many men among my friends and distant relatives who are running behind courts and police stations to fight dowry and DV false cases. Women get interim maintenance and also child custody and happily live with someone else
Beta male never gets a girl
@@shivanimadanbose4056yeah bcoz too much false cases
great.
I'm 30 unmarried woman and I don't want to get married.
best decision
Same here
30 ka ho chuki hya, abhi eye mat bol ki shaadi karna nehi chahta, shadhi tere se koi karega nehi 😂,
Below 30 is okkk
But you are saying 30, that's mean you are 30+😂
@@SagarPramanik1 esme hasni wali kia baat h? Tumhe pta h kia mere saath kia huwa h? Mere life m kia kia huwa h agar kisi ke bare m kuch nhi jante toh mt bola karo
@@SagarPramanik1 I hope tumhe kabhi enn sabse guzarna na padhe
They should not marry, men will live in peace.
Do your own household chores and take care of your elderly parents and also work day and night. Good luck
@@anitaramchandani7838 why men can't do that? Also they can protect their family better than women!
@drarunmaurya3127 Men can choose to remain unmarried and lot of them are doing so. I believe both men and women try their best to protect their families.
@@shivanimadanbose4056 Best effort does not mean equal results ! Men can do their best but still can not give birth .
@@shivanimadanbose4056how long u will lie , women dont marry unemployed men or low earning man depsite many ready to work at home
Working at home for a man is very easy .
God is watching and knows truth
If u have money and are independent, u can even plan ur funeral these days. U don't need relatives to make u happy. I like my own company and catering to myself only.
Praise 🙌
Rightly said
You have lost the purpose of your life. You will die a lonely person. You are wasting your life
@@lovehealth-je6conope
I have heard a start up by an Indian
In US arranging for ones last rites in
Future at Varanasi. Thiusands have
Booked for his services in advance.
They will collect your body when you
Die and send the coffi to India. Pandits
At varanasi and the companys representative in india will perform last
Rites. What a wonderful system.
Why women don't want to marry is simpler than why men don't want to marry. Atlast we have understood "main thari pao ki juti na..."
Thanks for sharing your viewpoint
In a system created by men they are seeking independence
She don't want to marry that's not mean she is celebating. So many of them are enjoying without marrying. She just marry when she need children , emotional support, support for growing children. Many of them appeal for divorce when their child grown up to 10 -15 years.
Couldnt agree more on this
@@shivanimadanbose4056you would not have to agree...bcoz u r also of same type...bengali double standard typical feminist ..
Also a LGBTQ supporter, tabhi samajh gya tha mai 🤣🤣@@rahuldey386
All india woman are same, I am also suffering, just don't marry
What’s the point to divorce after kid grows up ? That means she failed as a mother
I'm 35 single & I'm peaceful i saw men cheating on women & it's serious turnoff so not focusing on marriage
Not ever seeing women cheating the men?. Perhaps paternity fraud does not happen in India, just in the West. 🎉🎉🎉
The only time a man cheats on wife is if wife is sexless and is imposing celibacy on her husband. Then what a husband to do?
@larcm3 divorce her
Women cheats always not men's ,
@anupamsaha6488 hello whoever u r did u cheat on a guy
mai ladka hoon aur mai single isliye hoon kyonki mera aukat nahi hai gf banane ki....weddings toh door ki baat hai....😂
Jinki gf nahi hoti unko hi wife milti h, in real😊or vo bi achi vali😊😊
In heaven there are beautiful girls waiting for you only do good deeds in this life
72 hoor ka khel shuru krdiya
Thanks for motivating even I don't have a gf I am 23
But meko shadi karni hai bina bacho ke aur wife ke life boring si hojayegi @@Shalini7448
@@Shalini7448 humein to aap hi chahiye 😊
well as a man who is rich has no need to get married he can hire househelp and use tinder to fulfill basic needs
@@Jhon_wick03
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's true that some people may choose to fulfill their needs in various ways without getting married. However, many individuals also seek deeper emotional connections, companionship, and long-term partnerships that go beyond basic needs. Everyone's path to happiness and fulfillment is unique, and it's important to respect diverse choices. Appreciate your input!
@@shivanimadanbose4056 true,I agree with your point
@@shivanimadanbose4056but female face problem after 30 years for marriage if she want to , and some girls expect after becoming women after crossing age of 31 or 32 that I will get charming price milega kyonki mein self-dependent hai .
There is one more point .. Now women don't want to share the same roof with mil and fil and get tortured in her everyday life .
Maa maa hoti hai and saas saas .
Women ke body barren land ke tarah hote hai...aur boys ke paani wape badal ke tarah...jab tak dono ek nhi ho jaayenge....kabhi phool nhi khilenge..
True 100 👍👍 percent
People like u are actually saving lives of mil and fil..
Ur speaking as if you are taking care of and respecting your mil and fil ...and loving them as much as ur parents.... like earlier generation women and traditional women lol
Ur actually saving mil and fil from trash treatment by so called "modern" woman like you...
Everyone knows who is getting tortured and having to stay in fear nowadays...the woman who married or her mil and fil...
Gone are the days of traditional women who were actually respected than women of today because they actually loved respected and took care of their mil and fil in every way possible.....
Talk only if you were of such type of traditional women of older days ,and if mil and fil were of nature of older generations....
Ur last statement itself proved ur biasedness, favouritism and differentiation nature between a girl's parents and her mil fil even though many of mil and fil might be of good nature and character
😂😂😂 accha
Bilkul sahi
A successful woman wants only a very successful man.
A very successful man wants a very beautiful woman.
A very beautiful woman wants a very successful man.
Poor successful woman😢😢
@@lafonziou9584
Thank you for your comment. The dynamics of relationships and personal preferences can indeed be complex. It's important to remember that success and beauty can mean different things to different people. True compatibility often goes beyond these factors, involving shared values, mutual respect, and emotional connection. Your perspective highlights the diverse factors at play in modern relationships. Appreciate your insight!
can women sustain to work past her 50's and accept the men taking care of house only. oh yes the buying of fancy toys or travel abroad & local (all that jazz) for the men taking care of the house ...
(ohh wonder how this comment be treated )
@@jacobjp5799
Thank you for continuing the discussion. The idea of gender roles and expectations in relationships is evolving, and it’s important to recognize that each partnership is unique. Many women do continue to work past their 50s and can support their families, just as some men take on the role of managing the household. True partnership is about mutual support, respect, and understanding each other's strengths and preferences. It's crucial to find a balance that works for both individuals in the relationship. Appreciate your thought-provoking question!
@@shivanimadanbose4056 over 1 crore women are not married in China and its became a problem.
@@shivanimadanbose4056don't give idealistic knowledge that are shit
Yess I agree.when you come from job you have to do household chores but husband is not bound to any thing so that's true for me atleast
Lot of women feel the same way
Tu ne shadi kyun ki?
This household chores are mainly referred to the women work by women, they completely forgot the men's contribution to run the house by saying it's his duty, it's a man's job.
Then yes husbands are not Bound to do wives work.
😮😮
Men is still the major expense bearer of the family.Most of them reach home late.Even though many girls are employed they do not share expense equally.
I am a 50 year old unmarried man.
Even we men don't want to marry .
It's better to remain single than tolerating the tantrums of today's women
Women nt interested in marriage but no woman deny of hookup culture, multiple sex partners, extra marital affairs, alcohol or other addictions, consumerism, western culture, playing victim cards etc etc
Now we men are happy to see harsh realities of today's women and thanks to God who save ourselves from witches
@gsclasses3608 Let the real face of women come forth. It's the men who are highlighted in bad light always. And men are blamed for everything that happens to women.
But by the women empowerment and women centric law...women's dark side will come down also..
Therefore, let more prone women centric law come.
Let more extra marital affairs and family breakdown cases happen that are initiated by women single handling at first.
So that dark faces of women could come in front of society, law maker.
@@ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro true
High five 🫸🏽
@smugwise 🙌🙌💯
Thats so true. Even I being an unmarried man am in a relationship with a woman who is into extramarital with me. Its become a norm nowadays. So ya..koi sati savitri nahi hai idhar..iss hamam me sab nange hain!😂
I am getting this feeling that shivani is left unmarried.
Same thought came to my mind just at the starting of the vdo 😂
I m getting this feeling that you are butthurt by hearing the truth
@@pavnibhiryani6216 why would i be hurt, I am married living a good job and life in europe. Unlike these middle aged, single and bitter and deeply sad feminist women. :)
"career ke chakkar me Insan insan banna hi bhul jaega" - so true statement for kaliyuga❕
Career gives you money , freedom , good life to your own parents! And many more ! And career wala insaan bhi insaan hi hota hai gadhe
Great news and trend. Ladkiya hi shaadi ke liye 100% oppose karna shuru kar de to apne aap ye band ho jayega. Laws bhi gender neutral hone chahiye, false cases ko strict aur quick punishment hona chahiye.
Tum ladka he Karna band kr do tum log ka Liya Jada better hoga
Because sex is available easily. So marriage is not compulsory.
Further singles can change sexual partners as and when required.
marrige is much bigger than sex
@@anadumuakr4054 no sex no Marriage
Jo sex life shadi ke baad shuru hoti h wo sex life ab shadi se pehle available h isliye ladkia ek ke sath rehna nhi chahti kyunki unko alag alag ladke pasand ate rehte h . Or baat rhi zimmedari ki to un sabko uthane ke liye ladkio ko zimmedar or sahassi hona padega or esi ladkiya aaj kl bhot kam dekhne ko milti h .
What about men they are also dating multiple women even though they are married I have seen multiple cases in neighborhoods and society.
@@Suhanyy8 jo bhi extra marital affair rakhta h chahe ladka ho ya ladki dono hi galat h . Dono ko maryada m rehna chahiye.
@Anisole23 self centred aur detail ma btao aesi ladki kesi hoti hai
@@Suhanyy8 ♨Brutal Truth Of Arrange Marriage For Men♨
Girls aged 14 to 25 frequently seek the companionship of a "bad boy" or a muscular and confident boy, also known as "boyfriend material." And they look for a financially stable partner for marriage and financial stability, sometimes characterized as a "good nice boy." Interestingly, these "nice guys" are typically neglected by girls aged 14 to 25.
After 2 to 3 years of marriage with a good "nice guy," many women get bored with him. They often stay in the marriage due to their children's security and societal pressure. Subsequently, many seek extramarital affairs with a "bad," masculine, dominant man to recreate and enjoy the thrills and excitement experienced between the ages of 14 and 25. According to reports, 7 out of every 10 married women in India are reportedly having affairs today (1). Another survey states that rural Indian women have more sexual partners than men(2). Recent surveys also show that many girls have a backup man if the relationship fails.(3) This is estimated to represent 95% of women's psyche. It's called in evolutionary psychology the term "women's hypergamy" & Briffault's law. (4)
In dating websites like Ok Cupid, Bumble, and Tinder, the top 5% of male profiles garner 76% of women’s likes, while the remaining 95% of guys compete for the remaining 24% of girls' profiles. This is why many boys who join these sites don't receive likes. (5)
Many men who haven't experienced relationships before marriage often notice a prevalent trend in high school or college: around 90% of girls have boyfriends, while only about 20% to 25% of boys have girlfriends. Notably, boys with a dominant, masculine, confident, or bad-boy image tend to be among those with girlfriends, although exceptions are minimal, generally not surpassing 1%.
Many men often hear girls saying that "everyone has a past." The reason behind this is that in many girls' groups, most of their friends have boyfriends, leading them to think it's normal for everyone to have a past relationship. However, in boys' groups, this scenario is different. Typically, only 3 or 4 out of 10 boys have girlfriends, so the perception of having a past relationship is less common among them.
The problem stems from the fact that 80% of boys are "nice, good guys," indicating that they lack the qualities of more masculinity and confidence. This results in women finding 80% of males unattractive, as per recent surveys.(6)
These "nice good guys" remain virgins until marriage, and these nice good guys expect their future wives to be virgins. Furthermore, 80% of women lose their virginity to the top 20% of attractive, confident "bad boys," especially during their peak age between 14 and 26. Most women who lose their virginity to bad, muscular, attractive boys are not able to secure that bad boy for marriage because this bad boy has more options. Women who do not secure a bad-boy marriage look for nice guys for marriage. Because they are going to heat the wall, they do not love these nice guys. Nor do they find these nice guys attractive; they just marry nice guys for financial and social security.
Note: Virgin boys, please do not accept non-virgin girls as your wives. Guys, don't be that nice guy in arranged marriages to girls who, after experiencing heartbreak from bad boys, are now looking to settle down with a nice guy.
(Single virgin men who do not have any past relationships and are opting for an arranged marriage. And remember these facts.)
1) Only 0.03% of girls born without hyman
2) The probability of breaking Hyman while playing sports is like breaking teeth during football practice. Don't fall for feminist propaganda. "The past does not matter"
3) If 80% of women don't love the other 80% of men, how can India have a stable family structure?
In pre-modern India, society was based on cultural values. These values prevented women from being promiscuous. These values also prevented top alpha men from dating most of women. The above scenario is for modern society where cultural values have no place. Call it cultural values or conservative values context remains the same.
4) Can she love her husband purely from her heart in an arranged marriage?
Unfortunate Brutal Truth - NO.
Because first love is something that gives that girl a new life. A girl who never thought about anyone before except her parents, this love gave her dreams, her life her new thoughts gave her new strength, and gave her heart a reason she could live with even if no one stayed or will stay… It gave her a new friend with whom she had danced, and dreamed of enjoying the rain… The thought of him leaving her left her shattered...the mere thought of him being upset killed her before she died. the mere thought of him being with someone else left her heart to cry...the footsteps of whom increased her heartbeat. the only slight view of him gave her a reason to smile .hats off to those girls.
A woman with a past NEVER loves her husband with full conviction and gives him sexual pleasure with full passion.
A woman never forgets her ex. inner subconscious mind, there is always very sharp pain for her ex. No matter how good a person you are, capable, loving- caring, resource provider, even good in bed. Her HERO is always her ex. Even at the time of physical intimacy with you, she remembers his name, and utter the name of her ex/s.
She already lived a life full of passion and excitement, and with her husband it is suitable for her.
Marriage, after all, is for the financial and social security of girls, not for having amazing sex, fun, or love. Those days are gone.
She will never forget her beautiful colorful memories with him, and his pamper, his adoration, her exciting moments with him in a Park / Pub / Restaurant / Lake / Cinema Hall / Resort.
On the other hand, marriage life is completely boring, with a lot of responsibilities, an emotionless boring life, and disagreement, and within a couple of years, the spark fades.
She will never be satisfied with your adore, you’re pampered, and IC. After five-six years of marriage, she'll try to find a younger boy or boyfriend who is like her ex/es for sexual pleasure and short-term casual relationship. A girl with a colorful past bores faster in married life.
Whatever you do for her SHE WILL NEVER EVER FORGET HER PAST AND NEVER SATISFY WITH YOU. In an arranged marriage, YOU ARE A BIG LOSER. She may be physically attached to you but not mentally.
5)"Does she compare her ex with me? Yes, she does, all the time, even in bed. Her hero is her ex, not you. Moreover, she'll value her ex more than you in all your actions, no matter how good you are compared to him. Even in bed, she will never be satisfied with you, no matter if you are a skilled player. She's only loyal to you if you fall within that 20 to 30 percent of men in terms of masculinity, height, and confidence. The proof for this is that in India, 10 out of 7 married women cheat on their husbands. In the Western world, 80% of divorces are initiated by women."
Are behenji hum ladko ke kaha utne options. 80% ladke toh below average dikhte hai jinko ladkiya notice tak nhi karti. Lagta hai aap top 20% men ki baat kar rhi ho jabki yeh ladka 80% ladkiyo ki baat kar rha hai jinke pass all the time options available hai wo bhi atleast 20 se zyada.@@Suhanyy8
Summary: Women is sacred of responsibility and don't take leap of faith as they themselves are not having strong character.
Empowered women doesn't mean who just earn(that is basic life skills and thier fathers have invested in school n college),an empowered woman can feed and protect her family.A women not nurturing babies means they dint enjoy Womenhod.
Defending on husband for every small thing is a sign of weakness.
If men ate not weak and are responsible then they should be ghar jamais. Daughters will take care of parents.
Women are losing their femininity in the influence of western trends and they will regret for sure.
@@Ninanani-4085 u can find a ghar jamai....but let me tell you that man will be useless and his ghar jamai status will reap more bitterness inside you because you will never be enjoy the company of real man
Why to take responsibilities of their in laws where in return they get multiple taunts, constant complaints and judgements, husband is not taking sides, constant bitching ( my mother has gone through a lot, she cries secretly without telling and the reason is her in laws, even though she never gave back answers , never said a word but she is traumatized)
@@Suhanyy8 Correct.
0.0001% k alawa kisi ki aukaat nhi hai ki wo sari life single rahe 😂
Itna bhi saach nahi bolna tha bhai😂
Kuchh jyada hi sach bol diya 😂😂
@SnehaAdhikary-y4y Good luck.
Are bhai ekdum sahi bola yaar 😂😂😂
Don't marry is the real solution.
Shameless Men got triggered in comment section.
Kuch besharam aadmiyo ko smgh nhi aa rha kya bole toh bas "har aurat ke multiple s*x partner hai isliye shadi ki kya need" yeh bol dooo.
What a downgraded and road side mentality. 😓😓😓😓
@@fire6915 the same men marry a unemployed girl who is dependent on them and take so much dowry and insult her abuse her because they think their mother is useto be a slave of his father then how can a women choose to be a free life they be like if they reach their 60 70 they regret I don't understand what else left for regret at 70 life will probably end you have to die some day why their a compulsion of marriage on women they think they are protector's of women the truth is women need protect herself from them so called men I literally started to hating them without any reason why the hell they get interfere in every womans issues does someone ask them to do so they talk like as if they own the body of those womens
@@sonireddy6696 They are part of women's body......Because they come out of their stomach....
Dont hate them...consider them as part of you....They are your own...treat them like your own body..
😅😅😅
right i am a guy and i support you too much male ego
True that
Thanks ladies, plz dnt marry and spoil any guys life.
Ok 👌
loosing on dowry poor middle classboy😄
Don't marry ! One women will be saved
All these are not practically practiced on the ground, except in internet
Stop this Bengali type idea through the internet
Well said 👏
bengali type LOL
Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, passion, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun.
Stop Simping and Completely stop trying to please women.
Life is too short to waste time and energy on women's emotional drama.
But women become evil when she does the same wow
Don't worry women also adapt this system in their life
@@anikanikanikanikanikanikan1672 Correct, most men are simp and do not know to look after them.
@@sonireddy6696 Women are highly psychopathic and Machiavellian when it comes to leeching off a man's income.
So true goes same for women too ! No men no drama !
Ladkiyo k iss decision se ladko ki zindagi kafi aaram de cutegi ... thanku for this decision girls❤❤❤
If more women decide to stay unmarried. More men will also be in peaceful situation
Thanks for this insightful video. I am so happy to hear this that women dont want to marry 😂
Marriage was never meant for Men .. it kills them.
You are absolutely wrong bro.
Marriage institute is actually a boon for man and disaster for women.
Think about it twice then comment.
And analyze reports or data about it.
Report always say if man don't marry he got very depressive life. In opposite if woman don't marry she leads happiest life.
@fire6915
a. don't need your advice ..and don't preach me who can comment or who can't
b. This is an open platform and everyone is free to share their thoughts as far as it is respectful
And what about the women who died because of dowry and there are women who are dying everyday
@Suhanyy8 Thats the unfortunate truth
Jb Maine mom se Kha mom mujhe married life mein koi interest nhi h, mujhe kise bhe ldke se shadi nhi krna , mom also agree with me, and i am happy in my single life, my parents also support me ❤💫💃💃💃💃💃
Having these type of parents are such a blessing
@@shivanimadanbose4056 thank you ma'am 🙏
@@Realityoflife499 parents Happy honge hi na. Shadi, jahez ka expense bach jo gaya.
@@sssaaa4177 kush ascha krna chatee hun parents and society ke liye , bohat se log depression se jhoojh rhe h suicide conduct krr rhe h iss problem kaise solve krin mujhe iss prr kaam krna , ye ilaj mein free of cost krruge 🙏🙏
@@Realityoflife499Relationship zaruri hai..warna loneliness ho jaate hai...life partner sabko milna chaiye..
I think it is good thing, if women don't want to get married.
Boy cott marriage guys. 🙏
IN COMMENT SECTION. SARE MARD APNI PITH BACHANE MEY LAGE HUA HEY😅😂
Even men don’t want to marry and waste their time after wrong women thank you
Don't marry ! One women will be saved !
Good for men if women reject marriage🤣.However it is observed that quality men and women are denying marriage.In the long run it would seriously impact percentage of quality population in the long run.
Shivani ji can you also enlighten the Indian society on what will happen when this same career oriented woman who decides never to get married turns 60 ,at that time she may have pots and pots of money career achievements to boast of but who will she share it with ???,since she will have no husband no children,no daughter in law or son in law or grandchildren ,with whom she could share her joys ,her sorrows ,her excitement etc ???Post 60 every working woman will be forced to become a housewife . Nobody works till they drop dead or go to the grave ???Then what ???This unmarried lady 's parents are also going to die some day or the other ,her siblings also may not be always available for her ,so kindly advise what should she do then when she is at this juncture of her life ,how should she manage alone ,isn't being married to the right man a better option ,before the marriage is finalized, she can share these concerns with her to be husband and to be inlaws and make them agree to her viewpoint convince them some how ,if there is a problem, there is always a solution.
Family is important but what if the same family starts ignoring you. When you are post 60 , everyone around you would be busy. Your sons and daughters will be busy in their own life. It's hard to accept but only if you are lucky your spouse will be beside you. Most of the time husband don't give respect to their wife throughout their life and taken then for granted. How can you rely on that person ? Those who don't want to get married are actually looking for a true partnership but that is just a Mirage . The answer to your question is there are many old age homes of 3 star or 5 star standard. You will find friends to share your story with them . Why compromise so many yrs of your life with the wrong person on the presumption of the fact that , that person will take care of you
@@kaberipramanik6300 yaah but not all husbands and children are inhuman and bad some are caring ,but yes one would never be assured of that before marriage. Because of some inhuman life partners or a handful of husbands or wives the institution of marriage can't be deemed as ugly ,something to avoid.
Nothing will happen
What about before 60 for married women
Service of Humanity
What about old age? Who will take care? Parents will leave this world; sibling/s will have their own lives; and nephews, neices would care two hoots. What support system will the woman have?
Most unmarried women become lonely and go into depression after a certain age. No amount of earned money will remove loneliness and depression.
Fir to maje hi maje honge unmarried women ke liye.
Private care - old aged facility (Charge = monthly basis depending upon facilities provided) including onsite doctor, nurse, food menu services, etc,,,,,,If you have money, you are well taken care of in old age (either by your own family members or aged care facility). If you are poor - no one wants you.
Boyfriend se kam chalta hai. Koi responsibility sar per nahi.
Azad panchi😅
You didn't understand a single thing 🤡
Suicide rate of married men in India is 24.3% (while that of women is 8.4%) and for men who never married is 12.1 % , the real victims of marriage are men , its both financially and mentally exhausting for men , it's not women opting out of marriage its actually men who don't want to marry now.
even unmarried men are more susceptible to suicide by your above stats. so what's your point?
STAY SINGLE, BROKE, EXHAUSTED AND VICTIMS. no sweat off womens' backs.
Women are empowered and can pursue their career and do whatever they want. That's great. It's good to know the perspectives of women. As a DEI consultant and POSH expert i appreciate that you have brought forward the modern women's point of view succinctly. Well, the thing is if someone (women in this video) is having this perspective on life, then it's better to remain unmarried. This is because identities of a couple merge after marriage. The entire ceremony and it's rituals symbolises this merging of identities. The key purpose is to create progeny and create conditions that help the offspring to thrive. While fulfilling these duties the couple are able to enjoy a physical and emotional union.
The important thing is to understand what marriage means rather than jump into it. After marriage, a man gets to become a father. Now, as per societal norms and judiciary, the father has no value in the life of a child. He is supposed to only provide money as child support. His child can be taken away at any time. His access to the child is entirely dependent on his wife.
From the perspective of man, especially in current circumstances, let me tell you that before marriage a man earns and manages his home (like preparing food, cleaning his room/house, doing his laundry, etc.). If this lifestyle remains same (equally hectic as before marriage) and he gets additional responsibilities after marriage, where is the incentive for him to get married?
Besides, his wife's education, money, etc., adds no value to his life. From the practical point of view, women seldom provide for men in marriages. A man gets married only to receive love, affection, care, and physical intimacy. So, marriage will work only if his needs for love, care, intimacy are met by the wife. So, women should not take pressure, understand what marriage is, and realize the expectations of their would-be husband. If she thinks she can give meaning to marriage and her relationship with husband, she should go forward with marriage. Otherwise, it's not a good idea. It will bring suffering to her and the man she would marry.
In another video I saw men don't want to marry and in this video women don't want to marry
Think for future generations 😢😢
@@sourav2051
Thank you for your comment. Each video explores different perspectives and factors influencing marriage decisions in contemporary society. By addressing various viewpoints, we aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of the evolving attitudes towards marriage among both men and women. Your feedback is valuable in highlighting the need for diverse discussions on this topic.
Society is fully responsible for India to be overpopulated. Society is to be blamed.
Today's harsh reality👍🏻
True
True
What is harsh in it ?
@@abhijeetpanda2765 That all reason which make to feel women no need to marry that is harsh.
Indian women say something else in surveys but do the opposite. Women want to get married just don’t want in-laws baggage, leave career etc.
Sabse zyaada ladkiyon ke parents hi unhe shaadi keiye force karte hai. Kyunki ladkiyaan aaj bhi anpne parents pe bojh hai. Wo isliye kyunki ladkiyaan job nahi karti. Government ke data 2202-23 ke mutabik 37 % ladkiyaan hi job karti hai. Shaadi keliye ladkiyaan isliye bhi ready nahi hai kyunki aaj kal ladkiyon ko zimmedaari nahi leni. Aise bahot se ladke hai jinki salary kam hai, lekin aise ladke ladkiyon ko help karte hai. Par aise ladkon se ladkiyaan shaadi nahi karti as unhe high package waala ladka hi chaahiye. So bahot complicated hai.
Indeed,. yeh kafi complicated hai
It's not like that kon apna ghar chod ke jayega ladke kyun nehi apna ghar chodke ladki ke ghar rehne ate hain
@@sonireddy6696 to tum half aamount dena ghar ka apne future husband ko bolna ki wo bhi half ammount de house ka. aese mein dono hi new home mein reh lenge. lekin ye sab itna easy nhi hain minimum 1 cr chahiye city mein ghar hone ke liye. or jaha tak baat hain ladka ladki ke ghar aye rehne to wo tumhare khud ke parents nhi rehne denge
Bhot badiya video h ❤❤❤ Sun kar man kush ho gaya. Sala sari tension hi khatam.. injoye freedom ✨️
Dowry still exists only name changed gift mila kya 😅 diamond
Gr8 step by women . It will save men's life being ruined .
It will also save women's life from being ruined
And women won’t have to go through torture and taunts and abuses. Period
Man want a wife jiski atma p uska control ho😂😂😂body p bi or atma p bi😂
i dont think that way no control only genuine love
♨Brutal Truth Of Arrange Marriage For Men♨
Girls aged 14 to 25 frequently seek the companionship of a "bad boy" or a muscular and confident boy, also known as "boyfriend material." And they look for a financially stable partner for marriage and financial stability, sometimes characterized as a "good nice boy." Interestingly, these "nice guys" are typically neglected by girls aged 14 to 25.
After 2 to 3 years of marriage with a good "nice guy," many women get bored with him. They often stay in the marriage due to their children's security and societal pressure. Subsequently, many seek extramarital affairs with a "bad," masculine, dominant man to recreate and enjoy the thrills and excitement experienced between the ages of 14 and 25. According to reports, 7 out of every 10 married women in India are reportedly having affairs today (1). Another survey states that rural Indian women have more sexual partners than men(2). Recent surveys also show that many girls have a backup man if the relationship fails.(3) This is estimated to represent 95% of women's psyche. It's called in evolutionary psychology the term "women's hypergamy" & Briffault's law. (4)
In dating websites like Ok Cupid, Bumble, and Tinder, the top 5% of male profiles garner 76% of women’s likes, while the remaining 95% of guys compete for the remaining 24% of girls' profiles. This is why many boys who join these sites don't receive likes. (5)
Many men who haven't experienced relationships before marriage often notice a prevalent trend in high school or college: around 90% of girls have boyfriends, while only about 20% to 25% of boys have girlfriends. Notably, boys with a dominant, masculine, confident, or bad-boy image tend to be among those with girlfriends, although exceptions are minimal, generally not surpassing 1%.
Many men often hear girls saying that "everyone has a past." The reason behind this is that in many girls' groups, most of their friends have boyfriends, leading them to think it's normal for everyone to have a past relationship. However, in boys' groups, this scenario is different. Typically, only 3 or 4 out of 10 boys have girlfriends, so the perception of having a past relationship is less common among them.
The problem stems from the fact that 80% of boys are "nice, good guys," indicating that they lack the qualities of more masculinity and confidence. This results in women finding 80% of males unattractive, as per recent surveys.(6)
These "nice good guys" remain virgins until marriage, and these nice good guys expect their future wives to be virgins. Furthermore, 80% of women lose their virginity to the top 20% of attractive, confident "bad boys," especially during their peak age between 14 and 26. Most women who lose their virginity to bad, muscular, attractive boys are not able to secure that bad boy for marriage because this bad boy has more options. Women who do not secure a bad-boy marriage look for nice guys for marriage. Because they are going to heat the wall, they do not love these nice guys. Nor do they find these nice guys attractive; they just marry nice guys for financial and social security.
Note: Virgin boys, please do not accept non-virgin girls as your wives. Guys, don't be that nice guy in arranged marriages to girls who, after experiencing heartbreak from bad boys, are now looking to settle down with a nice guy.
(Single virgin men who do not have any past relationships and are opting for an arranged marriage. And remember these facts.)
1) Only 0.03% of girls born without hyman
2) The probability of breaking Hyman while playing sports is like breaking teeth during football practice. Don't fall for feminist propaganda. "The past does not matter"
3) If 80% of women don't love the other 80% of men, how can India have a stable family structure?
In pre-modern India, society was based on cultural values. These values prevented women from being promiscuous. These values also prevented top alpha men from dating most of women. The above scenario is for modern society where cultural values have no place. Call it cultural values or conservative values context remains the same.
4) Can she love her husband purely from her heart in an arranged marriage?
Unfortunate Brutal Truth - NO.
Because first love is something that gives that girl a new life. A girl who never thought about anyone before except her parents, this love gave her dreams, her life her new thoughts gave her new strength, and gave her heart a reason she could live with even if no one stayed or will stay… It gave her a new friend with whom she had danced, and dreamed of enjoying the rain… The thought of him leaving her left her shattered...the mere thought of him being upset killed her before she died. the mere thought of him being with someone else left her heart to cry...the footsteps of whom increased her heartbeat. the only slight view of him gave her a reason to smile .hats off to those girls.
A woman with a past NEVER loves her husband with full conviction and gives him sexual pleasure with full passion.
A woman never forgets her ex. inner subconscious mind, there is always very sharp pain for her ex. No matter how good a person you are, capable, loving- caring, resource provider, even good in bed. Her HERO is always her ex. Even at the time of physical intimacy with you, she remembers his name, and utter the name of her ex/s.
She already lived a life full of passion and excitement, and with her husband it is suitable for her.
Marriage, after all, is for the financial and social security of girls, not for having amazing sex, fun, or love. Those days are gone.
She will never forget her beautiful colorful memories with him, and his pamper, his adoration, her exciting moments with him in a Park / Pub / Restaurant / Lake / Cinema Hall / Resort.
On the other hand, marriage life is completely boring, with a lot of responsibilities, an emotionless boring life, and disagreement, and within a couple of years, the spark fades.
She will never be satisfied with your adore, you’re pampered, and IC. After five-six years of marriage, she'll try to find a younger boy or boyfriend who is like her ex/es for sexual pleasure and short-term casual relationship. A girl with a colorful past bores faster in married life.
Whatever you do for her SHE WILL NEVER EVER FORGET HER PAST AND NEVER SATISFY WITH YOU. In an arranged marriage, YOU ARE A BIG LOSER. She may be physically attached to you but not mentally.
5)"Does she compare her ex with me? Yes, she does, all the time, even in bed. Her hero is her ex, not you. Moreover, she'll value her ex more than you in all your actions, no matter how good you are compared to him. Even in bed, she will never be satisfied with you, no matter if you are a skilled player. She's only loyal to you if you fall within that 20 to 30 percent of men in terms of masculinity, height, and confidence. The proof for this is that in India, 10 out of 7 married women cheat on their husbands. In the Western world, 80% of divorces are initiated by women."
I don't understand why does men feel need to mock and comment disrespectful comparison thing on every women related post..
Not even a single time she said sth bad about men but here in comment section there fragile male ego is hurt so much that they still couldn't help shame and blame women for her normal life choices.
Now thats something i am not used to
Isn't it true that you women file so many false criminal cases on men when your fragile female ego is hurt? Female ego is so fragile that you cannot tolerate even for a sec. You have to file false accusations and men are forced to undergo the torture
right fragile male egoand i am a guy
If your marriage is successful you win in life
No marriage. Less tension ☺️
I cannot understand people, society, relatives need to understand life is more important than marriage
Mostly marriages are on social,rich status, class , and financial status....rich class
Soo true ! Only facts are spoken ; so damn true lady !
I would like to say. I had a mother in those times who didnt had much while she was growing and use to milk cows. The reality is that the people who think distroying family unit is freedkm then congratulations India is going to end. The western world is pushing towards collapse thats why they are opening immigration now.
The answer is feeedom and room to breathe freely but also maintaining the family unit in modern times. Their must be the values or else its going to turn bad.
This comment was to wake up pople that without new births their is no society to sustain. No people no future. Also its not anyone to decide whome should do what. IN GUJARATI house hold women are encouraged to be a part of bussiness or start their own.
Thanks
hota kuch nhi hai bs ego problems..wife kisi aur k office me bai ka kaam krna chahti hai ..aur fir ghar sambhalne k liye bahar se dusri bai aati hai.its simply flow of money nothing else...ab paisa hi sbkuch ho chuka hai..modern mothers bacche b zabardsati kr rhi hai ...creche me palte hai ya dada dadi ya nana nani se..pr bacche ko jiski zarurat hai wo kisi aur ka office smbhalti hai....paise zarurat puri krne k liye kmaya jata hai lekin aajkl paisa ek status symbol of independence ..freedom ka symbol bnta ja rha hai jiski wajah se ghar tut rhe hai shadiya nhi ho rhi...indian culture nasht ho gya...jo glti west krk ab regret kr rha hai indians us taraf badh rhe hai
Wo tumhare bachche, tumhare maa baap nahi hote kya? Tum kyun nahi sambhalte. Dusre ke office mein maid ban kar khud biwi par ghamand dikhate go. Kis baat ka
@@Ninanani-4085 after a long time i see you.
And again you are right nina 👍👍👍
Ek cheez bhut hi simple hai jaisa yeh aadmi bol rha hai, ki yeh khud dara hua hai independent women se.
Aurato ki aankhein khul chuki hai ur ldko ko ldki milni hai nhi shadi ke liye that's why they are in fear.
Aap comment section dekho in logo ne unmarried ko shamelessly character less bolna start kr diya hai.
Hum kya hi umeed kr skte hai in logo se they are seriously disaster.
@@fire6915 true
@@fire6915 😂
Audio is very clear now. Thank you !
Delaying marriage increases your chance of not getting married at all; that means facing old age, disease and death all alone. None of their mothers, grandmothers etc had to face those all alone. Please don’t start quoting exceptions.
Best of luck to all these single women in their 30s and so forth.
Lets make it simple, ghar ke kaam krke aajtk koi khush hua hai bhla.
Both should go for job and employ maid for household chores
God forbid 100 percent girls don't get married, maybe the lives of boys will be saved 🙏🏽
Now I like you you actually show gratification rest of the boys just getting pissed
Because of the attention they get from men in their teens and twenties they started to overrate themselves, and tend to become leftover women in their 30s and desperate.
In our society marriage is designed for men comfort not for women
Marriage is for women
All laws designed for women ,
Ab bol
Kalyug women r anyway not true women
@@arnavsamaddar6638kalyug men are not true men
Only - in one community and the poor class
If freedom is your choice then marriage should not be your choice. Applies to both genders. Compromise is a necessity of marriage and if are not ready for that then better don't marry and destroy your to be partners life. Your to be partner at least do not know who you are but you know it very well. You talk to the person you are about to marry very very clearly what you want and what you expect. If that is good with him/ her then only proceed else withdraw.
Yaar literally talking about the women 😢 Thank you so much ❤...
Ye society sarre sacrifice bas humse chahti hai..mardo ko saarr par betati hai..
Hum hi apna ghar chode..hum hi pregnancy mai sab dard sehan karre..kudh ka naam tak change hota hai....hum hi ghar sambhale hum hi bacche buddhe sambhale..aur sab mehnat karke bhi tanne bhi hum hi sunne😢..
I literally want to change indian societies 3 things
1- Be financially independent
2- Take the Army training so rapist will not be alive if they are doing anything wrong about you
3- Make the revolution in society hum hi kyu apna ghar chodde vo bhi to hamare ghar aa sakte hai 😢...
Akhir hum aurto ko bhi jinne ka haqq ....but the sad part is not men but women opposing other women 😢 that feels very bad...
🙏Hope so next generation women will not tolerate all this bullshit..
Love your thought process. We are the ones who make the change
Jeene ka haqq le lo. But fulfill the following duties for that.
First, change the legal system whereby groom gets legal right to the property of your father when the man becomes house husband.
Second, provide for your husband and children till retirement. Take your husband to vacations, restaurants, buy clothes and utilities for him, gift him bikes, video games, xbox, etc.
Third, change the family law system whereby a man becomes financially independent after marriage. Currently, not only his finances, his life is dependent on his wife after marriage.
Fourth, hire a maid/help and buy all the necessary utilities (like mixer grinder, vegetable cutter, washing machine, vacuum cleaner, etc.) so that he can either manage the helper or himself perform all housework using the utilities.
Simply by fulfilling the above four duties you can get your jeene ka haqq.
However, I cannot give solution on how to make the husband pregnant and make him suffer labor pain so that you become satisfied. You have to blame nature for that. I think you assume that men enjoy seeing their wives in labor pain.
Anyways all the best.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489
Thank you for sharing your detailed perspective. It's evident that you have strong feelings about the roles and responsibilities within marriage. The points you raise about legal rights, financial independence, and household duties reflect significant societal and legal considerations. These are complex issues that merit further discussion and thoughtful examination to ensure fairness and balance in relationships. Constructive dialogue is essential in addressing these topics and finding solutions that work for everyone involved. Appreciate your input and the depth of your concerns.
@@shivanimadanbose4056 to be honest I don't think the issues are complex to that level. Corporations are always propagating about breaking gender-based stereotypes. You also mentioned the same. So, just some laws must be legislated so that true equality is established. I believe the intention should be there. The corporations and people in your positions hardly discuss the points I raised above (how gender-based stereotypes disadvantage men). If these are also brought to the mainstream there is a lot of hope.
I would say, to the contrary, that the solutions you have proposed are challenging to implement.
For example, men are attracted to young women because of the fondness of beauty and chances of successful procreation. Certainly, women have every right to decide when they should marry. But no one is informing them about the consequences of their decisions. The issue is how to convince men to ignore their natural drives and marry older women?
Secondly, men don't have separate goals, desires, and dreams (career or life). Their goals and dreams always include their wife and children, if any. So, how are you going to convince men that empowered women can have individual goals and dreams? This is also considering that family is the biggest motivator for most men. They are alien to such thought since they were always empowered (because of their ability to earn money).
@@servantoflordkrishna4489but with that you will get title of gold digger and you have to listen the taunts of inlaws and their relatives be ready for that..
In Many cases women do not get desired matches or get rejected and to cover up they say that they don't want to get married.
Lol it's actually the opposite. Men don't want to marry nowadays.
@@vighig1903 yes we have that video also please check on our RUclips channel.
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Yes you are 100% right! One of the primary reasons for women avoiding marriage is because of the deeply patriarchal societal norms and the misogynistic mentality of most men.
What nonsense😂
See.. Eventually women who don't marry won't reproduce so their genes won't propagate. What will reproduce successfully is patriarchy. In another 70 years. We will only have women who support patriarchy. Evolution is not foolish to have supported patriarchy. All these unnatural urges, nature eliminates them gradually.
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Agar aap marriage nahi kar rahi hai... To kuch best kariye... Ya to kuch pese kamaye ua fir kuch bhi value with personality develop kare... Lekin agar ladkiya kuch bhi nahi kar rahi to best yehi hai ki marriage kar le.
Getting married is not the option
Kuch salo baad muslim majority hogi yaha par ...lage raho😅
How can I make sure I don't see this channel in my feed. Pata nahin kahan se aane lag Gaye ye videos
Men and women are two different species. Its not easy to cohabitate. Single male 38
Maids and cooks are available for household work if both are working 👉😎
चाहे जितना भी सोच लो की शादी करनी है नही करनी है पर पहले समय की तरह कोई खुस नही रह सकता जो शादी कर रहे है वो तो दुखी है ही जो नही कर रहे वो आगे जाके दुखी होंगे क्योंकि अंत में बैंक बैलेंस के अलावाकुछ भी नही होगा
NOT MARRIED BUT HAVE BOYFRIEND❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊😊😂😊😂😊😂😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊
They have already being into multiple relationships so that's why they don't want to get married. Weekend wedding night and Honeymoon phase is a routine for them.
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Its wrong, woman want to get marry with a rich man like ambani and a charater like god, so woman not getting man of their desire so they are not married, they want to marry rich but india is middle income country all woman wont get rich so they are not marrying😂
Waah bhai 😂😂
GOOD JII YOU HAVE VERY DEEP AND SECRETS KNOWLEDGE AND YOU ARE RIGHT
To taflif kuyk ho rahi hai tumhe tumhra paas paise thori tumse thori shaadi karengi
I have made a decision not marry an Indian guy... Didn't take a decision not to marry at all.. ..
When all such people, men and women, have to be prepared when they get old, there may not be enough people around to look after them despite the money as the ones around will also have same aspirations.
behad satik dhang se bataya apne. log chahe kuch b kahe ki age aurto ka kya hoga,single marengi, age desh society kaise chalegi.magar ye sab ka jawab mil bhi jae to bhi marriege ke nam par couples jo toxicity bardasht kar rahe hai uska dard to us couple ko hi pata hai.
Sahee hai
After 30 year india muslim country hoga wo to char kar rahehai
Are you married 😁😁🫡🫡 just want to know 😁😁
आगे का ट्रेंड ये होने वाला है कि prostitution बढ़ेगा, लड़कों का moral boundaries नए तरीकों से set होगी ।
35+ में बच्चे तो हो जाते हैं पर पालने की हिम्मत काम होने लगती है।
80s में भ्रूण हत्या की वजह से जो सेक्स ratio बिगड़ा है उसका नखरा है, पर अगले 10 साल में ये बदल जाएगा, तब 35 में लड़का हो या लड़की 35 के aas pas ही मिलेगा, अब उसका 35 तक हो जाने का reason जो भी हो
Sahi baat hai
This all things is ok, i also think this like but most of our life happiness depends on our relationship,at the age of 31 I am going to marry because I have almost everything what i wanted at age of 24 but some thing is missing that is relationship so in my opinion every one should marry,there many people in this world you can find person suitable to you so not doing marriage is not a good option
I small so many insecure men 😂😂😂
do not marry we are secure
Small?
Nowadays women are earning and working
Ego is the wrost thing, if both men & women loss there ego then they can live together.
In the world nobody independent, only dead doesn't need anyone. If you are alive then definitely need each other.
If everyone think like that this world will stop. Don't go debate on men vs women instead of that how both gender work together and lead society.
At last when i met few of girls they much elder than me and now in 40's, they said live independent and alone is hard. If we go back we choose someone instead in the ego of strong & independent.
They told me that like Carreer, marriage is also achievement for girls. Note, these all girls those unmarried, independent and strong. They told that. I am just sharing those girls experience.
Girls whatever you thinking in 20's will change in 30s and whatever you think 30s will change in 40s.
People need to understand and society that marriage is only a part of life and not a life goal
Sorry to say, mam, but its all bakwas reasons u gave, i m also an independent, working, married, 2 kids also. But, its my 30 yrs experience that working women is the greatest sufferer/victim. Me too, if u want i will tell you several working women living hell, even they try to suicide, taking depression pills etc etc etc. In laws wale use karte h earning lady ko, torture karte h, i know some highly senior govt lady officers in pain. But aapko male female ki problems se kya lena dena, aapko to bas views, likes or subscribers chahiye, thts all. Namaste 🙏
Maine bhi dekha hai nd news mai lieutenant females ki suicide news suni hai.
Jaha in laws plus husband ne bhyankar mental torture kiya tha.
But ma'am i have a question related to it.
Jab working women accha kama leti hai ur woh own se rah bhi skti hai toh woh itna torture kuu jhelti hai.
Woh divorce kuu nhi deti hai ???
I heard a news of Rajasthan jaha ek MBBS armh doctor ki shadi baad uske husband ne usko khoob peeta ki uske kaan ke parde fat gaye ur daant toot gaye still she was tolerating after some months she did suicide.
I mean woh chahti toh nikal skti thi divorce dekar she was earning well but she did suicide.
Esa kuu ho rha hai working women ke saath ??
@@fire6915 hello mam, i hv filed divorce, as a result, my husband took my son with him, beti mere pas h, he said several times ki ab tujhe bachche dekhne ke liye tarsa dunga, or whi kiya bhi, unke parents, sisters sab mile huye h, or divorce bhi nhi de rhe, ab btao, itna aasan nhi h is purush pradhan samaj me avaz uthana, jo ladies case file karti h unhe victim card khel rhi h ye bolte h, kuch esi hoti h manti hu, but gehu ke sath ghun bhi pista h, u might have heard.
@@fire6915 divorce bhi nhi milta aasani se, i hv filed the same 6 yrs ago, he refuses to give divorce, and our law and order u know, victim banker reh jati h bus. Mutual jaldi ho jata h but in other cases, a long hell to bear.
@@manjusandal6666 accha toh usne mna kr diya koi naa aap alg rho usko rhne dooooo jaise rhe.
Leking working ko itna issue yehi smgh nhi ata like unke pass toh advantage hai.
This was my wish.. God accepted thank you lord.. I want all women to be single .. because male births are decreased and female births are increased.. not only women want to be single but mens too this is the only reason for a woman but for a man there are many many reasons including Indian laws 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Going 50-50 means sharing house work and also contributing half of their salary, but women are still in a my money is money your money is our money mind set and men are still in women should do major part of house work
Thats true
Marriage ritual has lost its defination, purpose and meaning.
Now better options are living relationship/open relationship/short contractual marriages.
Happy to hear that, coz no one wants to marry these days men dont want to lose everything in false court case in fact I have lost a lot in a false court case, so now I am extreme mgtow
Today's harsh reality
Yes it is
" Without faith it is impossible to please God " Hebrews chapter 11 verse 6
Majority of people lean on their own understandings.
Jesus Christ rightly said, when I return to this earth, will I find faith ? Gospel of Luke chapter 18 verses 1 oneards.
The fact of the matter for this generation on the mother factor that it won't change so wait for the next generation😊
4.33 video time
Jab saare ladkiyan shaadi se pehle ladko ke saath khub enjoy karleti hai toh woh shaadi kyun karegi. Ladkiyon ko bus kuch nahi ladka chaiye enjoyment ke liye.
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Same for boys 🤡
When you use the words like "wants to" or " my choice" or other similar words be careful with it😮 own decision and accountability of consequences of your own decision are included. Wants to aur my choice jese words app tab use kar sakte he jab aap k pass various options already available ho. Younger ( not a minor of course) have more options and opportunities when it comes to dating or marriage but upto certain age then ladke uske samne as a marriage material dekhenge bhi nahi.aur jaha tak stereotypes ki baat he agar ladki ki certain age ho jati he tab wo Sadi k layak Maan li jati he aur ladke jab tak nahi kamata tab tak use gharwale bhi ijjat nahi dete na ladki ke papa ladki. It is compulsory for man to make money ( also more than her ) to be a marriage material 😢