Major Red Flags In Women - BE CAREFUL | Explained By Deepika Bhardwaj | Raj Shamani Clips

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Комментарии • 819

  • @aayushibirla2590
    @aayushibirla2590 Месяц назад +263

    watching this to check If I am a red flag 🥲🥲

  • @ChintanCG
    @ChintanCG 6 месяцев назад +682

    hope the scammers dont watch this and improve their techniques 🤣

  • @mememan6111
    @mememan6111 5 месяцев назад +636

    As a single guy who never dated women, can relate and confirm that every flag is red 🗿👍

  • @RangyEditzz
    @RangyEditzz 6 месяцев назад +387

    red flags: 1. Not respecting parents 2.dominating 3. Expecting costly gifts 4.Even though she is working always expecting men to spend 5.going to any range to satisfy her temper 6.threatning that she will commit suicide...big red flag 7.expecting a very luxurious life ...see this before marrying. Marry who is simple and good at heart...

    • @bhagyashree28d
      @bhagyashree28d 6 месяцев назад +24

      what if the parent or parents are abusive? What if they don't have a healthy childhood?

    • @UltraKey7
      @UltraKey7 5 месяцев назад +45

      ​@@bhagyashree28dWhen we have bad parents or parenting, we should pledge to never become like them and never let anyone feel the pain they gave us... If someone doesn't feels that way, then it's completely wrong...
      Just because we have a bad past or childhood, it doesn't gives us excuse to hurt others...

    • @SVK1405
      @SVK1405 5 месяцев назад +20

      Dominating is a part of personality irrespective of gender 😂 are you still in stone age

    • @lolong5976
      @lolong5976 5 месяцев назад +9

      ​​@@SVK1405 all these are kids bruh. Probably them sigma bois. The top comment in the comment section is literally some kid praising Andrew tate 😂😂. The one thing I've noticed about Deepika is she herself sounds very western so she can appeal to insecured men. And apparently it's working lol

    • @bharath2508
      @bharath2508 5 месяцев назад

      You summarized it it in simple points.

  • @aries4751
    @aries4751 5 месяцев назад +251

    One thing i disagree ..." koi kitna bhi introvert ho friends toh hote hi hai"... i think only an introvert understand how untrue that is ... i live alone in my apartment paying double rent ... but still dont want to have roommate just for having a peace at home ... why cant we normalise not having friends .. not everybody like to enjoy company of others .. I never had any romantic relationship in my life and i am 27 years old with zero friends ... at my workplace also i dont talk much and just do my everyday tasks and come back home where i live alone ... i dont complain about not having friends because i am not putting any efforts in making one ... with more people in your life you attract more drama too .. if any guy think that is a red flag .. i am better off alone than involving myself with a mindset which is simply not aware of the peace you can have by being alone ..

    • @exploringmyselfmore8910
      @exploringmyselfmore8910 5 месяцев назад +35

      Same, when she said ki introvert logo le bhi dost hote h i disagree, kyunki main bhi intro hun or mera koi dost ni hai, hm yr nhi ho pate comfortable, iska mtlb hm red flag hue wow😀, mtlb jo bakwas krte hai fake bnke ghte h, ya logo ki jaan ke tarif krte h wo real, or jo real h unko dba do or hslo unpe, hm red flag hi ache h

    • @aries4751
      @aries4751 5 месяцев назад +38

      @@exploringmyselfmore8910 exactly .. anybody who thinks that having less friends is a red flag .. they themselves are big red flag for me ..

    • @Innocentabhi12
      @Innocentabhi12 5 месяцев назад

      She is right. You must be a psycho

    • @subhampal8477
      @subhampal8477 5 месяцев назад +7

      I think you should atleast have 1-2 real people with whom you can connect. It makes you a better person.

    • @Manobalan7
      @Manobalan7 5 месяцев назад +20

      @@subhampal8477 not everyone gets that so called REAL people...

  • @KrishnaKhandelwal15
    @KrishnaKhandelwal15 6 месяцев назад +367

    Raj is noting down all the points , and He is like "ye to mere sath bhi ho raha ".. 😂

    • @danCK1990
      @danCK1990 6 месяцев назад +17

      Dude I wish I could super like this comment 😂😂😂😂

    • @sizzlingschumi9005
      @sizzlingschumi9005 5 месяцев назад +2

      Ya ho chuka hai

    • @Vighnesh92
      @Vighnesh92 4 месяца назад +1

      You are funny 😂

  • @Dr.SwarnimaSrivastava
    @Dr.SwarnimaSrivastava 4 месяца назад +217

    Green flags in women- 1) she feels sad that you didn't call or text. 2) she talks about future too, not just waiting for proposal. She keeps you in her future. 3) listens to you, not just hears. 4) she remembers details about your likes and dislikes. 5) asks about your family, shows involvement in your family problems. 6) spends money at times, stops you from spending if you are overdoing for her. 7) she talks about having children, about having a home with you, not just house. 8) she is career oriented girl, takes intellectual decision and not an emotional fool because in long run, her decision making power will impact your life a lot, so think wisely. 9) she gets uncomfortable if you get cosy with some girl and maintains physical distance with her colleagues and male friends. 10) she let's you take the lead but also guides you if you are going wrong 11) doesn't belittle you if you are earning less than her. 12) talks about her family, about the details. 13) is able to cry and be vulnerable infront of you 14) takes active participation in your problems and tries to solve them. 15) last but not the least, your intuition will tell you if she is the right one. Trust your intuition, same applies for girls. Ek feeling toh aati hai yaar andar se if she really loves you or not. Pata chalta hai yaar bus hum uss feeling ko ignore karte hein.

    • @utsavgupta5781
      @utsavgupta5781 4 месяца назад +2

      Nice

    • @gauravsharma-eh7sz
      @gauravsharma-eh7sz 4 месяца назад +12

      hume dono hi nahi chahiye na red na green . Its better to be alone for good . Itna dimaag lagane ki zarurat hi padegi

    • @GTH4121
      @GTH4121 4 месяца назад +24

      Such women exist in Utopia, not in reality.

    • @Heredocumentingmylife
      @Heredocumentingmylife 4 месяца назад +6

      Great points will remember ✌

    • @tiyasabhattacharjee9279
      @tiyasabhattacharjee9279 4 месяца назад +30

      ​@@GTH4121 they do exist. But now a days most men want party going girls. They will tag a loyal girl as "bahenji". Aur baad mei jab wo 10 laundo k saath ghumne wali ladki emotional blackmail karna start karein then men say that all girls r like this. Aise kaise chalega?

  • @nashwararai8110
    @nashwararai8110 6 месяцев назад +180

    Men or Women : Not respecting each other is a big red flag, Not accepting a mistakes,,.. There are so many signs you will feel it's not right but still we think it's a small thing let's ignore but Never ignore red flags it will become biggest thing in future

  • @rohanroy3602
    @rohanroy3602 5 месяцев назад +126

    i want to include one thing that if a girl is fake means her character is not real , she change her personality at every moment that means it's a red flag .

    • @gautamanant380
      @gautamanant380 4 месяца назад +1

      If you want to date Give her time for change.if you fell changes in her that fine if you fell same as previous then she is lier

    • @rajatchakraborty6381
      @rajatchakraborty6381 2 месяца назад

      U have got this bro

    • @Potato-me4wu
      @Potato-me4wu Месяц назад +1

      Character is different thing personality is different first tell what u wanna say 💀

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 6 месяцев назад +120

    Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy.

    • @fishnchips9541
      @fishnchips9541 5 месяцев назад +3

      It was always like this . Saree gehne ki demand lalchi Chachi mami,Tai log humesha bhi karti thi. Bas ab cheezein badh gayi hai. Aj kal sabko chahiye foreign vacations ,mehenga phone ,gold and diamond ,fancy dates ,anniversary ,birthday ,dhanteras Mai mehenge gifts

    • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
      @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 5 месяцев назад

      @@fishnchips9541 True. 💯✅ Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+ all never married and we all are very happy. 🙏

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 4 месяца назад +2

      @@fishnchips9541 lekin pehle agar hum woh Pura na kar paye Kisi Karan ki wajah se, toh chalta tha.
      Aaj agar hum woh Pura na kar paye, toh hamare against case ho sakte hai...that's the main concern.

  • @MessiahManiac
    @MessiahManiac 6 месяцев назад +89

    This lady is doing god's work 💪🙏

  • @prakastha1111
    @prakastha1111 5 месяцев назад +43

    Dont get married dont enter in any kind of relationships
    Live for your parents and fulfill your own and their dreams
    Thats it you will be happy 😄

    • @mayur5860
      @mayur5860 3 месяца назад +5

      But at certain point will be alone and that will kill you..... everyone gets busy in their job and work

  • @niveditapathak6513
    @niveditapathak6513 3 месяца назад +62

    This is not true for the golden child of narcissistic parents. Most men have raja beta syndrome and they dont see the red flags in their own parents and siblings. Basic needs of the bahu are projected as demands. It gets really messy. What they want is a codependent female who has really put up with anything for the sake of being accepted as achi bahu. Atleast by Indian standards an achi bahu is someone who lets you walk on her with a smile. Dont let that happen. If you see signs of abuse its ok to leave. Be the red flag there. Its fine.

    • @blue_568
      @blue_568 2 месяца назад +6

      Agreed sis 👍🏻

    • @Devra380
      @Devra380 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@blue_568 itna bhi nhi ki walk on.. Bas video me jitna hai utna hi.. Usse jyada expected nhi.

    • @smolkitti8147
      @smolkitti8147 Месяц назад

      So true

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +10

      100% true. I'm particularly impressed by the last line. 'Be the red flag'.
      These men who expect 'perfection' from women must first be ready to show what they're bringing to the table.

    • @GalaxyImpact200
      @GalaxyImpact200 Месяц назад +1

      Ye toh Alag hi topic hai ....and where do you get this thing that men have raja beta syndrome ....may be you have some anecdotal evidence but that may not be the objective reality

  • @Ishhha_4_
    @Ishhha_4_ 18 дней назад +7

    Introverts with no friends are not red flags 🙂
    I usually don't comment but mujhe point kafi ajib laga...kuyki main personally intro huu...aur koi friends mere hain nahi....pehle 3,4 the ...but because of them life me bohut sare drama and all start ho gaya...and mujhe kahina kahi feel huya...mai unke sath baat to kar rahi hu lekin koi mujhe bariki se sun nahi raha samjh nahi raha.....
    I am a geek now with no social media... no friends...nothing... kabhi kabhi desires hote hain...hangout karna bahar jake...but then i remembered k those toxic friends who used to treat me like a shit....😔
    Main ne sath diye unka but unhone mereko blame karke block kar diye k ...mai time to time unka halat nahi puchthi...

    • @gsk523
      @gsk523 7 дней назад

      agreed

  • @Itachi-no5xf
    @Itachi-no5xf 5 месяцев назад +28

    "You have become what you are fighting against."

  • @user-rb4lv4if9q
    @user-rb4lv4if9q 5 месяцев назад +34

    Got very frustrated when my in laws and husband tried to make me cut ties with my parents being the single child

    • @humansgonnadiesooner
      @humansgonnadiesooner 5 месяцев назад +17

      You know what to cut if they don't understand that parents sabke hote hai. Wish you strength 🙏

    • @mohana555p3s
      @mohana555p3s Месяц назад +8

      Just move on!! it's not too late so divorce him and find a true partner with supportive in laws 😊 don't forget to take share of property and demand huge alimony just enjoy and live for yourself and not to please others

    • @nancysingh1928
      @nancysingh1928 11 дней назад

      Being single child you obviously cannot cut ties with your parents.... that's so wrong! But these things should be addressed at the time of marriage only....not after that...

  • @devdhingra390
    @devdhingra390 6 месяцев назад +41

    She is Rockstar and doing good work. 🎉

  • @thuptenene9606
    @thuptenene9606 5 месяцев назад +38

    It important to know how ur GF/Fiancee/Wife treats her own father ..Not from perspective of Love but from perspective of Respect.

    • @drnaishadhpatel4399
      @drnaishadhpatel4399 4 месяца назад

      Yes .valid point how she behaves with her own parents tells so much about her

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +6

      Nope it isn't. What if the woman's father has mistreated her/abused her? You expect a woman like that to show respect to her father? Do you even realize what you're saying? There are MANY fathers out there who sexually objectify/ abuse their daughters!
      You know, just because you cannot relate to something, does not mean it does not happen. I'd strongly suggest getting out of that 'frog in the well' mentality.

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +5

      @@drnaishadhpatel4399 No it does not. Sure there could be entitled /badly behaved ones out there who ill-treat their parents, but it does not ALWAYS have to be that way. How she treats her parents could in a lot of cases, tell more about how she has been treated by her parents than about her as a person.
      Stop being so judgemental.

    • @GalaxyImpact200
      @GalaxyImpact200 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@1986nityano mam that's not a general case ...there have been a lot of cases where narcissistic or abusive women treat their parents very badly ...yes I am not denying that many fathers abuse their daughters ..that's true ..but here we are talking in a general sense ...deepika mam has dealt with a lot of cases and she is telling all of this from her experience and has seen things like this ....and also just because you got abused by someone ..that does not give you the license to abuse another person ..for both boys and girls

  • @Hyunx999
    @Hyunx999 5 месяцев назад +57

    Kudos to her for standing up for men.

  • @learnwithmonika4923
    @learnwithmonika4923 Месяц назад

    such a well spoken woman. so thoughtful and calm.

  • @BiprajitBose-qg3qm
    @BiprajitBose-qg3qm 3 месяца назад +51

    Maine 3 girls ko date kia hain or mein itna tou batahi saktahu ki ACHI LADKI MILNA BOHOT MUSHKIL HAIN..💔

    • @vlogtypea3201
      @vlogtypea3201 Месяц назад

      Dating 3 Girls really proves nothing about all girls

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +10

      Agar aapne 3 girls ko date kiya aur kisi ko bhi aap pasand nahi aaye toh shayad aap achche ladke nahi hain :D Angoor khatte hain waali story suni hi hogi na? Aapka wahi case lag raha hai.
      Ladkiyon ke baare me kisi nishkarsh par pohochne ke pehle ek baar ye zaroor jaach le ki aapka kya contribution tha us dynamic me.

    • @kalintripathi4769
      @kalintripathi4769 Месяц назад +7

      ​​@@1986nityaaunty ji aapko kaise pta ki problem usme hai ladki me nhi kuch me irrationally defend na kro....how could you conclude it...

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +8

      @@kalintripathi4769 Uncle ji aapko kaise pata ki problem ladki me hi hai, ladke me nahi? Aapne kaise assume kiya ki ladka masoom hi hoga?

    • @kalintripathi4769
      @kalintripathi4769 Месяц назад +4

      @@1986nitya ladke ne bataya. Aur aapke paas koi bhi valid reason nhi ladke ki baat ko jhoot manne ka.. Agr prejudice ho tb baat alg hai...

  • @badrinathsahu9771
    @badrinathsahu9771 5 месяцев назад +25

    Saying from my personal experience I have seem all the red flags in one person and thanks to my luck she left me 😂
    Jaan chuti .....Bala tali 😅

  • @kunalbanerjee5562
    @kunalbanerjee5562 6 месяцев назад +37

    If someone wants to follow these red flags, he will remain single forever. But yes, Madam said every point correct.

    • @big0561
      @big0561 6 месяцев назад +2

      *সহমত 😂*

    • @RudraStorm34
      @RudraStorm34 5 месяцев назад +15

      its better to be single then going for such partner

    • @rayrwyr
      @rayrwyr 5 месяцев назад +5

      When a woman (with some red flags) gets married to a strong dominating (but fair, competent, and kind) husband who puts boundaries for her and he does not tolerate any of her BS, then the same woman falls in line. She starts to respect the husband and starts to obey him. Marriage becomes happy for both. Keyword is strength. He must be strong. She must know and believe that if she does not obey him, he will divorce her without delay, no matter the cost.

    • @mohana555p3s
      @mohana555p3s Месяц назад

      ​@@rayrwyrbro such girls will be waiting for divorce man they are gonna get half property and will demand huge alimony and even can file domestic violence(498a) fake rape cases on you guys and demand more money 😢

  • @MARBLETIMESMAGZINE2024
    @MARBLETIMESMAGZINE2024 6 месяцев назад +8

    Solid Content

  • @pratikbhaumik2748
    @pratikbhaumik2748 6 месяцев назад +66

    shaddi ke baad red flag dhundke kya faida.

    • @ollyvidic8912
      @ollyvidic8912 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @corporate.hitman
      @corporate.hitman 2 месяца назад +7

      Zindagi hi red zone me chala gaya fir toh

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 2 месяца назад +2

      bachke raho bhai, Tigers ke bad married men are the most endangered species on Earth.

    • @himanshuutube
      @himanshuutube Месяц назад

      Exactly. Ye sari cheezo pe research shadi se pehle honi chahiye

    • @pavanjoshi6732
      @pavanjoshi6732 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ainaaraghuvanshi9386
    @ainaaraghuvanshi9386 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks a lot for your information.
    Definitely it will help us.

  • @utkarshkamthankar
    @utkarshkamthankar 6 месяцев назад +5

    Great Video 🙂🙂🙂

  • @preetikumar8111
    @preetikumar8111 5 дней назад

    It is common for individuals to have varying perspectives on their in-laws, as not everyone shares the same mindset. It is important to consider that those who have not experienced successful relationships themselves may not be the best sources of relationship advice. Overcoming personal challenges and resolving the issues of others are different endeavours altogether.

  • @GabbarKooner
    @GabbarKooner 4 месяца назад +6

    Video to dekhli maine🤗 ab to leader bn jaunga na pakka 👍

  • @SultanKhan-zz3zc
    @SultanKhan-zz3zc 6 месяцев назад +2

    All..... So true

  • @1M_videos_only
    @1M_videos_only 6 месяцев назад +18

    Appreciated podcast ever

  • @maitreyeechakimoi8501
    @maitreyeechakimoi8501 5 месяцев назад +6

    Agree with all points.... that's a very transparent video about Red flags

    • @Devra380
      @Devra380 2 месяца назад

      Apka casual relationships par kya opinion hai?.. No insult intended just want to know the opinion of girls

  • @bikashnayak9311
    @bikashnayak9311 6 месяцев назад +31

    Yaha log Red flag , Green flag kar rahe hai - meri zindagi black flag pe hai 😂

  • @aastham8782
    @aastham8782 2 месяца назад +6

    Agreed with her for like 98%. Just in the beginning when she said ki 'When a girl asks you to meet, or is forthcoming then it's a red flag'. I don't find this thing to be a red flag. Why can't a girl take a first move and ask to meet if she is interested in him? Also if she is asking you to meet in a specific place, can't that specific place be a peaceful cafe or restaurant?

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 2 месяца назад

      When a woman approaches a man, the first thing a man does is check for the cameras. Because lets be honest, women do NOT approach men due to their preconceived notions that "men don't like easy women", "men like to chase", or due to losing the power in the relaitonship by initiating.

    • @a.r.2006
      @a.r.2006 Месяц назад +1

      I think what she meant is like you know each for like a week or less,you want to have a meeting.

  • @rohanmatts3076
    @rohanmatts3076 4 месяца назад +7

    It is like main hoon na moment
    Madam- friends sbke hote
    Me (extreme introvert & don't like fake person)- sabke ni hote😅😅😅😅😅

  • @_amii.io_
    @_amii.io_ 2 месяца назад +2

    Never have i ever seen a woman this balanced with her opinions!! Queen talks only, no bullshit whatsoever.

  • @MindsetWithAmit
    @MindsetWithAmit Месяц назад

    Very informative, something which is not being talked generally. Men should also be careful 😊👍🏻

  • @apurbaghosh5046
    @apurbaghosh5046 5 месяцев назад +8

    Only solution, just focus on your own life boys, you get this chance to live a human life once, don't waste it

  • @kama10073
    @kama10073 3 месяца назад +1

    She is an admirable women.

  • @devverma_
    @devverma_ Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much ma'am and thank you so much sir...🙏🙏❤️

  • @shahp84
    @shahp84 Месяц назад +1

    2:59 totally agree 💯

  • @HiDibakar
    @HiDibakar 5 месяцев назад +8

    What's Suprising is Now We Need to Listen to These Basic Instincts as an Expert Advice Because Men Have Lowered Their Standards So Much

  • @subhajitdas7595
    @subhajitdas7595 Месяц назад +1

    Appreciate 👍

  • @pallavisaini4121
    @pallavisaini4121 2 месяца назад +1

    Being a girl i completely relate and agree with each and everything she said ❤

  • @--__--.
    @--__--. 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you ma'am 🙏

  • @vishaldoijode219
    @vishaldoijode219 5 месяцев назад +2

    Good to see #DeepikaBhardwaj in public space spreading awareness .

  • @annie97464
    @annie97464 8 дней назад

    I stayed put to see if 'I am red flag or not'! This type of discussion is quite interesting. But I have a problem with 2 points that she mentioned_ 1) introvert having no friend [I never wanted to be introvert but situation and society made me so. a) Situation= My parents are separated so when my friends (guys and girls) heard about it, they stopped talking to me. b) Society= still considers this condition (not having a father-like figure) a social stigma. I don't have any contact with my paternal side cousins and as I live in my grandpa's house my maternal side cousins feel insecure about it; again I am lonely because I am choosy. I can't just spend around with friends who don't match my personality. I do not want to convince boys that just because I pretend to have so many friends (comes at the expense of my dignity) means I am a very friendly girl. It was indeed a judgmental statement]. In due course of time, I isolated myself from both family and friends. Now, whenever I am approached by guys, they want to know about my friends, and I remain blank and boys have the opportunity to judge me all the time. 2) If I want to date an unknown individual, I always want to meet him in a place I've been to several times before so that I can feel comfortable and protected.

  • @prakastha1111
    @prakastha1111 5 месяцев назад +10

    The biggest red flag is that any person doesn't want to meet your friends siblings or loved one
    They are afraid of introducing themselves as your person

    • @desiboi2559
      @desiboi2559 13 дней назад

      or just because they could be introverted like me !! Aunty ji har ek vishay ko red flag me mat guso !!

  • @explorer5621
    @explorer5621 4 месяца назад

    You are right

  • @TillNight
    @TillNight 5 месяцев назад +1

    Agree❤

  • @gentech21
    @gentech21 2 месяца назад

    I completely agree what she said precisely at the end balanced gender neutral law should be made & strictly enforced.....

  • @Omnamahshivay8079
    @Omnamahshivay8079 6 месяцев назад +11

    Great work Raj Shamani.
    I think you've a new fan with this profound video.
    It's very rare to see such nuanced podcasts on this platform these days .
    As far as Deepika ji , goes , she's truly a beacon of equality in today's society.
    Not for men or women, specifically, but for all genders.
    It's sad , hearing the cruelty men have been subjected to by women today.
    A crippled judiciary, failing to come to terms with what's happening in society today.
    And women and their families who know how to game the system .
    Sad

  • @siddarth2599
    @siddarth2599 4 месяца назад

    She is really smart, have to say

  • @anurag123B
    @anurag123B 5 месяцев назад +31

    As a Retired Boyfriend and a Current Husband, I totally disagree with these red flags. 😂😂😂😂

    • @raghavnamasivayam8706
      @raghavnamasivayam8706 4 месяца назад +1

      Wanting sex relationships without knowing isn't a red flag

    • @heisenberg9595
      @heisenberg9595 Месяц назад

      Maybe for you but these are the red flags in most men's eyes

  • @poonam2352
    @poonam2352 Месяц назад +1

    1. She doesn’t wanna bond with parents - no woman is mad to not want to bond with his parents for no reason. There must be some disrespect and crossing of boundaries. She has all the right to chose to keep her mental health intact
    2. Not pitching in equally with finances - we expect women to uphold such high standards, while men are not taught to deal with women with such high standards. When will you talk about men having to pitch in equally with household chores?
    When you discuss a topic, have a 360 degree view on the same. Don’t make generic statements like a moron

  • @rahulbansal3811
    @rahulbansal3811 5 месяцев назад +2

    Please make this video as trending

  • @Logical_Indian.
    @Logical_Indian. 2 месяца назад +1

    Nice content 😃

  • @moinakmazumdar6464
    @moinakmazumdar6464 2 месяца назад

    Mad respect for this lady....So much sensible.

  • @upshikagatlewar9807
    @upshikagatlewar9807 Месяц назад +3

    Completely wrong. Lot of people from both the genders don't have friends nor they have ideal parents. Lot of Indians are depressed coz of no real connection with anyone. You will ruminate and remain single forever, not all points are correct.
    Now before you look for love -
    1. Keep your aura and energies clean and protected. Raise your instinct and awareness. Be highly conscious and self aware. Don't engage in causal s*x and protect your core. (All this will help when your relationship has started)
    2. Don't look for love. When your karma is clear, you are ready and destined, you may meet the person unexpectedly. (The instincts that you raised will help you in understanding if the person is destined for you or not)
    3. Keep yourself first to retain self-love but have love, respect, kindness and the heart to choose each other everyday over all your friends, family and kids. That's the only way love will last long till old age. (Small sacrifices everyday but you don't feel regret in your heart, probably you aren't doing anything wrong and that's the right person)
    Lastly give it enough time to test the equation, dynamics of two personalities coming together, values, vibe around the person before saying 'Yes'. I gave it 1 year. (Remember, the slower it starts, the longer it lasts) ❤

  • @ashishgurjar8681
    @ashishgurjar8681 6 месяцев назад +14

    Shamani bhai note kr rhe hai khud ke liye 😂😂😂

  • @thuptenene9606
    @thuptenene9606 5 месяцев назад +10

    My wife of 5 years left me…Now I m scared to start a relationship with opposite sex.

    • @rayrwyr
      @rayrwyr 5 месяцев назад +1

      You should be scared of marrying. Have relationship but always watch for all red flags.

    • @raghavnamasivayam8706
      @raghavnamasivayam8706 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@@rayrwyr relationsip is for marriage stop justifying casual relationships

    • @daviddexter25
      @daviddexter25 Месяц назад

      toh kya same sex ke sath sex karga lol🤣🤣🤣

  • @Starwar99421
    @Starwar99421 6 месяцев назад +12

    The biggest red flag is having male or female best friends ho skta ha wo apko uske bare me bhai ya behen bolke btaye

    • @khushboobhardwaj-sp8wp
      @khushboobhardwaj-sp8wp 2 месяца назад

      some do have male friends who she actually considers as brothers and the other side as sister as well so that a boundary is created.

    • @mayank64723
      @mayank64723 Месяц назад

      Plot-twist of *HUM TUMHARE HAIN SANAM*
      Srk-madhuri-salman trio.
      Sallu, madhuri's best friend will give srk testimony, that how their friendship is so pure. And being srk, the husband has to believe sallu's words. Otherwise, he may lose his wife madhuri.

  • @rohansaini6867
    @rohansaini6867 4 месяца назад +4

    First and foremost it is utterly a very Personal Choice that a Person introduce his/her family to their Girlfriend or Boyfriend. May be their family is very conservative or may be their is a huge gap between living standard of both of them.

  • @daisylakra5141
    @daisylakra5141 Месяц назад +2

    For the family part I feel m red flag.. But I tried to maintain but.. I failed😅

  • @rinidmoron
    @rinidmoron 4 месяца назад +5

    Some women are way too smart though. She said and did everything she said in the 1st half of the video before getting married and then after marriage did and said everything she said in the 2nd half of the video. This is how a lot of men used to scam women back in the day but now a lot of women have started doing this too. So choosing the right person is totally up to you. Women with red flags usually get all the attention by men themselves, while they are ignoring the a women with green flags and when things fall apart they have nowhere left to go.

  • @rashisahu0311
    @rashisahu0311 2 месяца назад +1

    By the way feminism was never about women against men. It was about a battle against patriarchy and stereotypes. Feminism advocate rights of so-called weaker sex that patriarchy tried to suppress.

  • @ambujkansal7994
    @ambujkansal7994 4 месяца назад

    Thanks

  • @souravbhandari6963
    @souravbhandari6963 Месяц назад +6

    She is wrong here " if someone is introvert ,koi na koi friend to hoga hi" lol. I have no friend but i can say " Girls would leave you, when they would find better one" i have seen 100+ cases ( even after marriage ) i dont what kind of environment these idiots are setting for their future generation 😂
    Good boys and girls are also there but they are either too much reserved or insecure) and some are just too much judgemental. All i would say : be the kind of person first, you want to meet.

  • @rya.
    @rya. Месяц назад

    Uff the world ... Just be friends nah be hurt when ur person is hurt and be happy when your person is happy. Do what you want your person to do for you. That's it.

  • @anirbanroy8601
    @anirbanroy8601 Месяц назад

    Forget scammers the one sided laws in Indian Judicial system needs to change. It needs to be balanced not one sided. Asking for equality while keeping the law imbalanced cannot work, which is the basis of judiciary, one of the prime pillars of Indian democratic societal system.

  • @Thenoviceinvestors
    @Thenoviceinvestors Месяц назад +3

    If girl is forthcoming thats red flag? What nonsense... Janne ke liye milna hi padta hai na... Aunty shut up

  • @syedaSF
    @syedaSF 5 месяцев назад +11

    Its like saying why lower caste have privileges while enjoying all privileges of being an upper caste yourself. the only way we can truly achieve equality, is to end the caste system.
    I say, Modify the Laws which are gender biased and don't base your judgement on any biased notion against any specific gender.

  • @mihirprajapatiofficial
    @mihirprajapatiofficial 5 месяцев назад

    Hey, kindly mention the brief about the guest on the podcast and especially who is not more popular...

  • @venktesh6600
    @venktesh6600 6 месяцев назад +15

    Many red flags mentioned are subjective, they may not be so all the time.

  • @anditwasgod
    @anditwasgod 5 месяцев назад +1

    Mens bhi Aise hain I met a guy 'red flag '

  • @Spiderr9
    @Spiderr9 28 дней назад

    1:30 same reason happens with me.....

  • @punkradio5384
    @punkradio5384 4 месяца назад

    Needed the English version

  • @sidhantrout7911
    @sidhantrout7911 6 месяцев назад +8

    Also tell us the green flags 😁♥️

  • @ashapriya7240
    @ashapriya7240 3 месяца назад +5

    Now i understood that i am a complete green flag😂

    • @bhai8006
      @bhai8006 3 месяца назад +2

      👏👌

  • @HarshitaPattnayak
    @HarshitaPattnayak 4 дня назад

    And for marriage expectations are from men
    How much they are earning?
    I feel this is wrong too.
    Some time parents also see overall financial background of groom's family.

  • @Viral757_
    @Viral757_ 4 месяца назад +2

    omg.. she's so beautiful ☘☘

  • @anuragkumartiwary3825
    @anuragkumartiwary3825 5 месяцев назад +4

    This whole conversation i felt they were talking about China😂( Red Flag)

  • @Asskicker14
    @Asskicker14 5 месяцев назад

    Deepika Maam is a legend

  • @Jyoti-Shah4
    @Jyoti-Shah4 2 месяца назад +2

    My father is also a red flag actually a red carpet 😂...but my mother have to cope up with him every single day 😢

  • @mayanksagar633
    @mayanksagar633 6 месяцев назад +3

    👏🏻👏🏻👍

  • @mandarp9472
    @mandarp9472 4 месяца назад +6

    In Pune wife killed husband for not taking her to Dubai on trip.

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад +1

      That's unfortunate and sad, and the woman should be punished. However, I do hope you're also talking about the countless women who are killed by their husbands and in-laws for dowry.

    • @terroristrepublicofpakista902
      @terroristrepublicofpakista902 10 дней назад

      ​@@1986nityaand there is countless men who are killed by womens

  • @kunalloveful
    @kunalloveful 5 месяцев назад +10

    Pehle kyun nhi release kiya ye video. Already with a Red flag nhi but red carpet hai

    • @rayrwyr
      @rayrwyr 5 месяцев назад +3

      Sorry to know. Be strong. Women respect strength and they punish weakness. She must respect you. Otherwise both of you will be unhappy.

    • @1986nitya
      @1986nitya Месяц назад

      Koi baat nahi...agar shaadi nahi hui hai toh samjha bujha ke pind chudwa lo. There are plenty of good women out there too. Focus on living you best life and improving yourself, and the right one will come along.

  • @cyberdevils5685
    @cyberdevils5685 5 месяцев назад +2

    Big Life Lesson For Me,
    Who is Bachelor..
    😳😳😳🙆🙆🙆

  • @abhaysingh7876
    @abhaysingh7876 3 месяца назад

    Background music name???

  • @sonalim9589
    @sonalim9589 2 месяца назад +2

    I am actually dominating and don't listen but I'm a very loving, affectionate and caring girlfriend.

  • @krishnadityabiswas9301
    @krishnadityabiswas9301 4 месяца назад

    background music?

  • @DD21934
    @DD21934 Месяц назад +6

    People call woman like me a red flag and toxic feminist who don't want to live with guys parents.....why?

    • @blue_568
      @blue_568 28 дней назад +1

      Yes, this is torture. Why should I live with the stranger in-laws, who will blame me for pitty little things and torture me.

    • @Resterinpeace
      @Resterinpeace 24 дня назад +1

      That's not a red flag if you make it clear to the guy before he marries you and let him decide whether to marry you or not based on that.

    • @nancysingh1928
      @nancysingh1928 11 дней назад +1

      If you don't want to live with your in - law parents, then who would take care of them in the time of need, who will cater to their needs.....do you also want your son to leave you alone and live a separate life after his marriage with his wife..... Think about all the efforts you will have to put into your son while growing him up and then a woman comes and take your son away for life and you are just left alone in your old age....how will you feel ??
      Are you even comfortable with your bhai and bhabhi leaving your mother & father alone?? Who will take care of your mom & dad if your brother and sister-in-law leave them alone..... I don't think children should leave parents alone in their old age at any cost because they are the one who have given their time & energy for growing us and now, it is our time to take care of them and give them love, support and care... because old age is itself a curse.....we as youngsters can't even think how things change with our parents when they turn old ....their health....their thinking abilities.... everything changes....we should definitely not leave them alone at such a vulnerable time....❤

    • @blue_568
      @blue_568 11 дней назад +2

      @@nancysingh1928 Where are these dialogues when it comes to woman ? Parents also spend their time and efforts to raise their daughter.
      And husband's parents is his responsibility, not the wife' s.

  • @kirtim6725
    @kirtim6725 3 месяца назад +1

    After listening this video and after reading the comments
    I m definitely a Green flag🎉😂
    But not yet settle for less😊

  • @SBclasses710
    @SBclasses710 Месяц назад

    Biggest one is having male best friend...

  • @preetsandhu9105
    @preetsandhu9105 2 месяца назад +1

    Why i feel like society measure of green flag and red flag are making us to live alone... Thats so stupid

  • @Pako0370
    @Pako0370 5 месяцев назад +1

    Arre aise to i got no red flag still he ignores me 🥺

  • @arakshp
    @arakshp 5 месяцев назад +27

    To add to those points, many women today has 2 lives, one real & other online life where she posts dancing on item songs or vulgar pictures or complaining videos of her ex. This is also a redflag as it remains forever online & anybody can use it in anyway. Also social media mostly favours women as she gets more attention, support, sympathy unlike men. This kind of women don't hesitate to spill their personal life online if some silly fight happens in their relationship.

    • @dreamsdesires
      @dreamsdesires 5 месяцев назад

      Don't marry these kind of women, simple.
      You just need one sane women to marry.

  • @naveenswarnkar4180
    @naveenswarnkar4180 3 месяца назад

    Good Afternoon Raj, I want to make a request to you that "NO ONE CREAT SOMETHING AMAZING IN SHORT TIME. FAST AND SHORT DOING IS THE SIGN OF DEVIL". Hope you can understand it.

  • @rpradhan500
    @rpradhan500 Месяц назад +1

    Arrange marriage mai clear rehte hai demands 😂

  • @saketpanigrahi
    @saketpanigrahi 3 месяца назад +4

    I am not an expert in this regard but i can say one thing that if you proceed with auch learned rules its not going to work. Life teaches you so much its not an easy journey and those lessons are important yo have. This rules are like making you lazy to think. We are human and Social beings we have the required skills to identify people. All we need is some bad experience.
    So get immunity from your personal experience and not through vaccination. 😂