For me indian laws are scariest reason. Jisne wife as a responsibility as burden bana diya. Husband's ko divorce ke bad kuch bhi karke mantainence deneko bolte hai. Bhale hi Husband nai much kiya na ho. Par Husband or uska Pura family isme piste hai. Aaj ke time me koi ladka agar saadi karta hai to usko dar lagta hai ki future me uski wife koi ulta sidha case na karde aajkal ki aurate to Itta niche gir gai hai ki family ke Har male member ke upar pe sexual misconduct or rape ke case laga deti hai. Husband ke pass koi legal option hi nai hota bus dar dar ke Jane ke alawa. Or illegal option koi sarif aadmi use nai karna chahta fir ladkiya hi Randi rona karti hai crime against women kyu badh ra hai Badega hi ladko ke pass option hi nai rakha hai.
👍 Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy. No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
You are biased, you didn't speak about misusing of law by women, man has no right to protect himself from women against false eligation. If you are man and someone falsley accused and you ar not rich enough or don't have good political connections you and yours family life will ruined completely. It doesn't matter if you are girl/boy your life matters most than marriage, money, sex, family.
She will never speak about it obviously. Also will try to put blame on men. Read the recent verdict of SC where a guy heard such things and married an already divorced woman....1 year later she divorced him and kept flighting case for more money. SC ordered husband to give her 2 crores(she alread earns 1.5 lacs then also). Also friends in my circle chose husband based on divorce money they will get ..i heard them talking. Men need to be ultra safe cos everyone is out there to exploit them and then blame them only.
@@NoOne-kx7zsWhat is worse in that case is that the child is of the first husband of the woman from whom the woman " extorted" 40 lacs and this second husband had to pay Rs.55k every month as " interim maintenance" for child support that is also not his. Thanks to corrupt and subverted Indian Judiciary - this woman used the child to do good business - first 40 lacs ( the one-time settlement must hv been done considering the expenses of the child) and now 2 crores apart from the interim maintenance... And that woman is HR Head of a Company !!
In this video, you forget to speak about our country's laws that are totally in women's favour and because of these laws marriage becomes a business for women they marry a man who is well-settled and financially stable and after that, they take a divorce and at the time of divorce they take a big amount of alimony and to get that big amount they do misuse of laws and after getting that big amount of alimony they enjoy their rest of life
Priorities can differ, but both seek companionship, love, and a supportive partnership.It's important to remember these are generalizations. Individual motivations for marriage can vary greatly.
Many things are depends on person to person But today 90% girls demands are hefty salary,luxury life,money stability from boy without any compromise Then what can a boy do
Men who think with their mind and ofcourse aware of laws and ground realities will not even think about marriage..All those sacrifice, indiviualism are bullshit reasons ....Anyone who knows about 52 sections of gender biased laws abused left , right and centre by women with devastating effect for revenge/ extortion and even more biased Indian Judiciary leading to complete destruction of life, dreams, career and ofcourse death of aged ,ailing parents under extreme mental ignominy or the man himself - suicide rate of Married men is more than a lakh and almost 3 times than that of a woman. Never get into a game where the opposite party has WMD at her disposal and can fire at will while you are defenceless and at the mercy of opposite party....
can anyone explain what will a man get out of a marriage, at least in arranged marriage you get nice kids , because of selective breeding , based on gentics and financial status ,, regardless of love or arranged ,"men if you are ugly and short , you own kid will not respect you properly , thats how nature is ", take ramayan and mahabharat as example ,every protagonist/antagonist is handsome as hell ,every one took care of themselves , and are selective bred . if you are ugly men you are gone gone bro. regardless of arranged or love marriage , for those who want love marriage , "imagine you are bald at 22 , because your father loved your mother whose family had a pretty bad genetic pool ". not every love marriage is good , not every arranged marriage is bad , these chiks are killing husbands in arranged marriages mostly its also dangerous out these man , "can some one explain what should we do in this day and age ".
Lol. Most arriange marriage happens on money and property lol😂. And women don't consider short men. Women consider ugly or black men. Short men don't find girls. Women don't see uglyness 99.999% times. They see ur height
Just stay single, which is releave ,we men have benefits being as male so use it we can do nothing about that ita just nature of indian family things 😂
At least females should not think of having a child after marriage beyond the age of 30. Rather, they should remain unmarried and focus on their career and parents.
I believe, as a society, we failed to teach both man and women - important, how it works, adv & disadv, and so on. As a 21 year old, I personally don't have any knowledge or course in it (our education doesn't teach us nor does our parents), We are learning about marriage though observation of negatives of society and forming a conclusion that marriage is- bad, caged, no happiness. and i feel like this thing is like consuming content of car accident and saying driving is a bad thing.
Marriage is absolutely required and is the most important instution created by mankind. It is scary that so many people don't want to get married but the fact is the numbers are only going to increase which is terryfying.Think about it if people don't get married there will be no kids. If there are no kids there will be no country as there will be no furture generation to take the country forward and also to pay taxes. A lot of changes are required at the governemnt, judiciary, work, educational and social levels to encourage young people to get married and have kids. 1. Education- Children should be educated at school and colleges about the challenges they may face after they get married and how to adjust and overcome the challenges. A lot of marriages breakdown within a year or two as couples find it difficult to adjust and compromise. We are having sexual literacy curriculum nowadays in schools so marriage literacy programmes are also required 2. Work- As mothers are the primary care givers organizations should be encouraged to give more flexibility such as flexible working hours or reduced working hours to new mothers. While this may not solve all problems but this will certainly prevent a lot of women from giving up careers and dropping out of the workforce. Organizations should also be encouraged to have nurseries/creches at or close to their establishments. They may charge employees for mintaining such facilities. 3. Social Changes - Couples should be encouraged to live with or somewhere close to their familes (parents/inlaws) rather than living separately. This will ensure they get the required support when they have and raise kids. Also the parents/inlaws will be able to reach out if they ever need any assitsance. Marriage counselling is still unheard of in India. This should be promoted. Not just the couple but inlaws and parents should be made to undergo such counselling so that they can adjust to the new person in the family. 4. Changes Laws - We have strong laws protecting women but can't say so for men. Laws should be made gender neutral and not just skewed in favour of one gender. Pre nupital contracts should also be made legal and be recognized for couples wanting to have such agreements. Also any misuse of law such as domestic violence, dowry etc should have severe punishment. Also divorce laws and the process should be made much simpler and faster. 5. Government - Government should run ads or programmes to encourage people to get married. Changes should be made in tax laws and couples who are married and have children should be given cuts/breaks. To compensate for the loss in revenue they could charge more tax to people who don't have children. Unmarried people should be put on the highest tax slab. This will incentivize people to get married and have children. Also this will ensure that people who are not contributing to the future growth of the country by not having children and by depriving the country of future tax paying citizens are made to do their bit by paying more taxes.
Compulsorily following traditions is like tyranny of the dead, our ancestors lived their life as per their best understanding new generations should have right to live as per their understanding and they may regret their choices later on too possibly but freedom is not true freedom unless you have freedom to make mistakes.
सब कुछ 50-50 होना चाहीऐ. ताकी कल divorce भी हो जाए तो ना लडका गरीब होगा ना लडकी. और prenab sign (contract agreement if divorce) होना चाहीऐ शादी से पहले और रजिस्टर करना चाहीऐ notory office मे. अगर लडका 10 लाख कमाता है तो लडकी ने भी 10 लाख कमाना चाहीऐ. घर लडकी लडके ने लेना चाहीऐ. शादी का खर्च आधा आधा. घरका काम आधा आधा, बच्चो का काम आधा आधा, No alimony after divorce. बच्चे को child care या month by month share करो.
शादी विवाह पाणिग्रहण -ये देश काल परिस्थिति के अनुसार बदलते रहते है भारतीय समाज जातिवाद वंशवाद परिवारवाद से निकलकर भोगवाद बाजारवाद सुविधावाद व्यक्तिवाद मेराजीवन मेरी मर्जी मेरीखुदगर्जी मे फंस गया है राजनैतिक आर्थिक आजादी के बाद युवा विवाह परंपरा परिवार परंपरा दो बच्चे पत्नी की फरमाइशे ईगो टकराव सास बहू से भी आजादी मांग रहे है वे चाहते है कि मां बाप हो पति-पत्नी हो प्रेमी प्रेमिका हो संगीत साथी हो कही कोई पारिवारिक कानूनी नैतिक बंधन ना हो " मन मिले तो साथ चले ना तो चलो अकेला" ये बीवी दहेज सांसारिक बंधन मिल भी जाए तो क्या है .... !!!
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For me indian laws are scariest reason. Jisne wife as a responsibility as burden bana diya. Husband's ko divorce ke bad kuch bhi karke mantainence deneko bolte hai. Bhale hi Husband nai much kiya na ho. Par Husband or uska Pura family isme piste hai.
Aaj ke time me koi ladka agar saadi karta hai to usko dar lagta hai ki future me uski wife koi ulta sidha case na karde aajkal ki aurate to Itta niche gir gai hai ki family ke Har male member ke upar pe sexual misconduct or rape ke case laga deti hai.
Husband ke pass koi legal option hi nai hota bus dar dar ke Jane ke alawa. Or illegal option koi sarif aadmi use nai karna chahta fir ladkiya hi Randi rona karti hai crime against women kyu badh ra hai Badega hi ladko ke pass option hi nai rakha hai.
I agree 👍💯
there is no need finding the right person is like finding a needle in a junkyard and living with a toxic person for entire life is not worth it.
I agree
Smart men don't get married
🙌🏻
but smart women mostly exploit marriage institution.....
100 percent...
Ejaculate evacuate 😂😂😂😂
@@48038 if she is not smart don't worry, her mother will give her full instructions to ruin her husbands life.
👍 Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy. No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
I think for women merrage is life business but for man it's death trap if not works....due Indian femanist laws
Now marriage has become a big business
You are biased, you didn't speak about misusing of law by women, man has no right to protect himself from women against false eligation. If you are man and someone falsley accused and you ar not rich enough or don't have good political connections you and yours family life will ruined completely. It doesn't matter if you are girl/boy your life matters most than marriage, money, sex, family.
She will never speak about it obviously.
Also will try to put blame on men.
Read the recent verdict of SC where a guy heard such things and married an already divorced woman....1 year later she divorced him and kept flighting case for more money.
SC ordered husband to give her 2 crores(she alread earns 1.5 lacs then also).
Also friends in my circle chose husband based on divorce money they will get ..i heard them talking.
Men need to be ultra safe cos everyone is out there to exploit them and then blame them only.
@@NoOne-kx7zsWhat is worse in that case is that the child is of the first husband of the woman from whom the woman " extorted" 40 lacs and this second husband had to pay Rs.55k every month as " interim maintenance" for child support that is also not his.
Thanks to corrupt and subverted Indian Judiciary - this woman used the child to do good business - first 40 lacs ( the one-time settlement must hv been done considering the expenses of the child) and now 2 crores apart from the interim maintenance... And that woman is HR Head of a Company !!
@@NoOne-kx7zs This all is happening bcs of men in the first place. Aborting female fetus & symbolising women as object caused this.
Surrogacy is cheaper than divorce BTW
In this video, you forget to speak about our country's laws that are totally in women's favour and because of these laws marriage becomes a business for women they marry a man who is well-settled and financially stable and after that, they take a divorce and at the time of divorce they take a big amount of alimony and to get that big amount they do misuse of laws and after getting that big amount of alimony they enjoy their rest of life
I have prepared a detailed video on this
The Dark Side of Indian Laws: Misuse and Its Consequences
ruclips.net/video/0TxThhQuW5c/видео.html
Marriage is a totally logicless concept for 21st Century
Priorities can differ, but both seek companionship, love, and a supportive partnership.It's important to remember these are generalizations. Individual motivations for marriage can vary greatly.
@@VaidehiGohil-x8b thank you for sharing
Many things are depends on person to person
But today 90% girls demands are hefty salary,luxury life,money stability from boy without any compromise
Then what can a boy do
Already divorced... I don't like wife controlling me, my money and my parents and not supporting me in household chores, no financial help, no
Thats unfortunate
Men who think with their mind and ofcourse aware of laws and ground realities will not even think about marriage..All those sacrifice, indiviualism are bullshit reasons ....Anyone who knows about 52 sections of gender biased laws abused left , right and centre by women with devastating effect for revenge/ extortion and even more biased Indian Judiciary leading to complete destruction of life, dreams, career and ofcourse death of aged ,ailing parents under extreme mental ignominy or the man himself - suicide rate of Married men is more than a lakh and almost 3 times than that of a woman.
Never get into a game where the opposite party has WMD at her disposal and can fire at will while you are defenceless and at the mercy of opposite party....
can anyone explain what will a man get out of a marriage, at least in arranged marriage you get nice kids , because of selective breeding , based on gentics and financial status ,,
regardless of love or arranged ,"men if you are ugly and short , you own kid will not respect you properly , thats how nature is ",
take ramayan and mahabharat as example ,every protagonist/antagonist is handsome as hell ,every one took care of themselves , and are selective bred .
if you are ugly men you are gone gone bro. regardless of arranged or love marriage ,
for those who want love marriage , "imagine you are bald at 22 , because your father loved your mother whose family had a pretty bad genetic pool ".
not every love marriage is good , not every arranged marriage is bad , these chiks are killing husbands in arranged marriages mostly its also dangerous out these man , "can some one explain what should we do in this day and age ".
Lol. Most arriange marriage happens on money and property lol😂. And women don't consider short men. Women consider ugly or black men. Short men don't find girls. Women don't see uglyness 99.999% times. They see ur height
Just stay single, which is releave ,we men have benefits being as male so use it we can do nothing about that ita just nature of indian family things 😂
At least females should not think of having a child after marriage beyond the age of 30. Rather, they should remain unmarried and focus on their career and parents.
Why women avoid marriage, marriage is the best deal for women, no liabilities, nothing to give n only to take.
There is no right life partner
Nowadays no one is loyal
No thanks I will not be married😂
Everyone should have a deep knowledge about it 💯
@@harshabulchandani6247 indeed 👍
Tell me what man got from marriage then i will tell u what women got.
Bill Gates
@FirstLast-lq4xf LOL
Bekar hai marriage karna, only single ❤
audio quality is not good. Feela like there is no mic at all and there is also echo
Explained with clarity (going point by point) ~ Shivani Madan 👍
Im glad you liked it
I believe, as a society, we failed to teach both man and women - important, how it works, adv & disadv, and so on. As a 21 year old, I personally don't have any knowledge or course in it (our education doesn't teach us nor does our parents), We are learning about marriage though observation of negatives of society and forming a conclusion that marriage is- bad, caged, no happiness. and i feel like this thing is like consuming content of car accident and saying driving is a bad thing.
Because of negative mindset
Thats so aptly described, Our current education system doesn't equip us to decide about some of the most important life matters
Marriage is absolutely required and is the most important instution created by mankind. It is scary that so many people don't want to get married but the fact is the numbers are only going to increase which is terryfying.Think about it if people don't get married there will be no kids. If there are no kids there will be no country as there will be no furture generation to take the country forward and also to pay taxes. A lot of changes are required at the governemnt, judiciary, work, educational and social levels to encourage young people to get married and have kids.
1. Education- Children should be educated at school and colleges about the challenges they may face after they get married and how to adjust and overcome the challenges. A lot of marriages breakdown within a year or two as couples find it difficult to adjust and compromise. We are having sexual literacy curriculum nowadays in schools so marriage literacy programmes are also required
2. Work- As mothers are the primary care givers organizations should be encouraged to give more flexibility such as flexible working hours or reduced working hours to new mothers. While this may not solve all problems but this will certainly prevent a lot of women from giving up careers and dropping out of the workforce. Organizations should also be encouraged to have nurseries/creches at or close to their establishments. They may charge employees for mintaining such facilities.
3. Social Changes - Couples should be encouraged to live with or somewhere close to their familes (parents/inlaws) rather than living separately. This will ensure they get the required support when they have and raise kids. Also the parents/inlaws will be able to reach out if they ever need any assitsance. Marriage counselling is still unheard of in India. This should be promoted. Not just the couple but inlaws and parents should be made to undergo such counselling so that they can adjust to the new person in the family.
4. Changes Laws - We have strong laws protecting women but can't say so for men. Laws should be made gender neutral and not just skewed in favour of one gender. Pre nupital contracts should also be made legal and be recognized for couples wanting to have such agreements. Also any misuse of law such as domestic violence, dowry etc should have severe punishment. Also divorce laws and the process should be made much simpler and faster.
5. Government - Government should run ads or programmes to encourage people to get married. Changes should be made in tax laws and couples who are married and have children should be given cuts/breaks. To compensate for the loss in revenue they could charge more tax to people who don't have children. Unmarried people should be put on the highest tax slab. This will incentivize people to get married and have children. Also this will ensure that people who are not contributing to the future growth of the country by not having children and by depriving the country of future tax paying citizens are made to do their bit by paying more taxes.
Expectations of Youngsters and parents are not realistic. Even due to arrogant and angry attitude the marriage fails.
Marriage & Home/Family Management could be a Subject in High Schools.
Proper Guide & Counseling can work wonders ✅
Greatly explained 👏
@@komalbihani2992 thank you 😊
Compulsorily following traditions is like tyranny of the dead, our ancestors lived their life as per their best understanding new generations should have right to live as per their understanding and they may regret their choices later on too possibly but freedom is not true freedom unless you have freedom to make mistakes.
Great Content Great Going 🎉
Ma'am thier is sound of AN 32 in background 😂.
Nowadays men are not getting married
Lets make it Simple, you marry no big thing, you don't marry it's too not big thing, marriage is just small thing.
@@anupamkashyap1791 yes,for wokes like you its small thing,who doesnot value any relation 🥱
Marriage 😅😅 no need
सब कुछ 50-50 होना चाहीऐ. ताकी कल divorce भी हो जाए तो ना लडका गरीब होगा ना लडकी. और prenab sign (contract agreement if divorce) होना चाहीऐ शादी से पहले और रजिस्टर करना चाहीऐ notory office मे. अगर लडका 10 लाख कमाता है तो लडकी ने भी 10 लाख कमाना चाहीऐ. घर लडकी लडके ने लेना चाहीऐ. शादी का खर्च आधा आधा. घरका काम आधा आधा, बच्चो का काम आधा आधा, No alimony after divorce. बच्चे को child care या month by month share करो.
शादी विवाह पाणिग्रहण -ये देश काल परिस्थिति के अनुसार बदलते रहते है भारतीय समाज जातिवाद वंशवाद परिवारवाद से निकलकर भोगवाद बाजारवाद सुविधावाद व्यक्तिवाद मेराजीवन मेरी मर्जी मेरीखुदगर्जी
मे फंस गया है राजनैतिक आर्थिक आजादी के बाद युवा विवाह परंपरा परिवार परंपरा दो बच्चे पत्नी की फरमाइशे ईगो टकराव सास बहू से भी आजादी मांग रहे है वे चाहते है कि मां बाप हो पति-पत्नी हो प्रेमी प्रेमिका हो संगीत साथी हो कही कोई पारिवारिक कानूनी नैतिक बंधन ना हो " मन मिले तो साथ चले ना तो चलो अकेला" ये बीवी दहेज सांसारिक बंधन मिल भी जाए तो क्या है .... !!!
Arey kuch to achha ho raha he usme bhi problem he kia.
Kaam wali bai milna bohot mushkil hogaya
Ladko nain theka nhi liya hua ladkyoin ka puri zindagi khilane ka or Han tum ladkiyan hamesha ladko ke pas main ayogi ... Jisam farshi ka Paisa kaun dega