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If a guy said "I've never been to a brothel, because I have a girlfriend". BS He's been there or he has done a similar activity like a happy ending. I'm only breaking this bro code because I genuinely do not like this guy. He's been there, done that.
I proud to be a poor and it's not a shame to be poor , I perfer to die poor and not to be rich full of sins. remember my words it's not a shame to be poor remember my words .
Seeing a lot of negative comments in here so I'm just gonna say that these kinds of videos are my favorite type of Joey content. He's giving us insight into topics foreigners like us would never even get the chance to know about bc of the language barrier, so I'm really grateful for the interesting interviews about a bit more "problematic" topics about Japan. I honestly feel like I could watch hours of videos like this, so keep up the good work, Joey!
I love these interviews from Joey alot more since hes fluent in Japanese and can get more questions and conversations done with the guest without wasting time in translating. Love these kind of videos. Lots of love
It suddenly makes more sense how she leaned into this work. When you are so confined and force-sheltered from the world, you will grow up to be even more curious about the aspects of human life you were deprived from. I thought it was just pure interest on her part, but now we see how something else played a huge influencing factor.
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
Same. My parents, for instance, never gave me the “talk” because in our culture it is widely taboo. I found out about some things when I was ten. Over the years, I learned more and experimented, and I don’t treat it like “Ayo, that is wild. 💀🤨”anymore. Dirty jokes was so middle school! Haha! It does feel powerful to be able to give advice on these aspects when people need it and opening up about experiences in a mature light instead of being deceitful or secretive about it.
@@mintandfruits Yeah, but we also have to understand why it's so difficult to engage. The birds and bees talk doesn't always result in taking the best path forward. A child may learn, but also unfortunately go too far with their curiosity - and that outcome can result in vulnerability and exploitation by peers. As with human nature, we sometimes don't learn until the consequences sink in, children or otherwise.
Her backstory really shows how restriction from a really young age could lead to a complete 180. Parents and parental figures in general have so much responsabilty we don't see, it's actually incredible. As she said in the interview, people are complicated : complete restriciton from life stages every human goes through in their childhood will never be beneficial to a person, no matter how many benefits the parental figures think they bring into their child's life.
Yes, our personality is a cloud of little events that made a long standing impresion on us. When i was a kid and asked for the time, for some reason no one told me the exact time, the number. Like if it was 3:55 they wuold say 4:00. That made me mad as a kid. Now every time someone ask to me for the time i just said the exact hour and minute. Is a little detail but it is part of me and it will be for the rest of my life.
for sure! All that pent up restraint made her much more curious which led to her being more perverse in her formative years. It her her so hard in college she slutted out like crazy. No other way to get it out of her system by then. Moral of the story is just let your kids figure shit out as they grow. Yes guide them and teach them right from wrong. But dont do what her parents did to her, hell no
A lot of questions I wish Joey had asked her, such as 1) any fears about her safety when visiting a customer, or any problems of possessive and jealous customers that might become obsessive over her or other girls 2) how her relationship with her parents is now, how they reacted etc 3) if she had any regrets at any points (for example if and when her family found out) 4) if she’s ever encountered anyone she knew 5) does she have any plans to settle down or have kids, does she have a partner and how do they feel about her work? 6) what was her first delivery health job like and was she terrified or embarrassed? Aside from this, wouldn’t she have been very naive and afraid when she first started messing around with guys since she had such a strict religious background? Didn’t she fear being judged, the consequences etc? Wasn’t she afraid her university would find out and expel her when she was already so close to graduation? 7) what would she be doing as a job if she didn’t get into sex work? 8) what do they do at delivery health since there’s allegedly no penetration? Also I completely don’t believe that there’s no penetration for delivery health lol
Yeah would have especially loved the answers to the parents question or the people she knew. Like as an Indian, where most people spend all their lives living with parents, the way people in the rest of the countries can do stuff without having parents freak out and actively chase their own kids is something I just can't comprehend.
I love Joey's personality about how he doesn't judge at all, and speaks casually but respectfully so that the person doesn't feel uncomfortable- W man!!!
Thank you Joey and Mariten for the great video! ♥ It was really interesting hearing what she has to say, and she's a pleasant person to listen to. Learning more about these more hidden sides to Japan is great, I really enjoy the videos you've been putting out Joey!
The one thing you didn't ask, which is what always intrigued me most about the industry is, what kind of protection or procedures they have to protect the workers (and the customers) from STDs.
I love how relaxed and easy going she is. Specially since most people in Japan tend to be very secretive regarding sex, but this was a really cool conversation in between you too.
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
@Lowkey003 yeah, dude said he was burnt out by it after years, he'll probably return to it at some point but folks act surprise abt these interviews which a quick scroll through his channel shows he's done these videos before when he did do anime videos
24:20 I can definitely say this with utmost certainty that this is definitely true. Currently in Europe and have gone to some places where they've offered these services and nothing drives the mood down to rock bottom than if the customer and the person offering the service can't even communicate with each other.
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
I find one of the recurring statements in interviews with people in the adult industry, no matter what culture, is the closeness the customers get to the workers. It sounds like, for some of the customers, adult industry workers are a form of therapy, which I think says a lot about how the work-life balance around the world has really affected all of us.
It's absolutely a form of therapy. I'm not a sex worker myself, but I've done research on human sexuality and its facets for a while now. There's a big business of professional Dominatrixes close to the government area and big business zones; because guys who are the big movers and shakers in their daily lives sometimes need that therapy - to give up all that control and responsibility to someone else, even if only for an hour at a time.
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
It is it is, I'm a client who knows other clients and it's often a disappointment if the working lady has a bad personality or is deliberately distant. Most people out of the industry probably wouldn't think we care about that but we do.
When I was younger I worked in a bar that had a lot of working girls waiting for clients, resting a bit etc. It was a safe indoors public space where they could start their interactions and land after them. There are a couple stories I still remember quite well. There was one "older" lady (in her late 50's) that had a young customer that never asked for sex. He just wanted to have a nap with his head on her chest. She shared another client with a younger girl. An older gentleman that took the older lady on date-like outings once a week (restaurant, cinema...). As for the younger one, he just took her on meals and asked her how she was doing in Uni (she was a student). Turns out he was a widower that lost his daughter in a car crash when she was in school. And one that really stuck is a lady bound to a wheel chair that used to come with her husband. She'd "select" a girl to help her out with what she couldn't manage. I had a chat with her once seeing her alone as she was waiting for her husband to come from work. Really confident in her relationship and what they did. At the end of the day, sex workers tend to respond to a deeply intimate human need that very rarely boils down to "sex", and can even be separate from it. They offer people the chance to be vulnerable where they otherwise could not.
4:17 she has been in the industry for about 6-7 years which is considered long because most girls are just about 2-3 years or 1-2 years only. 4:45 "lots of girls only stay for about 3 months." 5:00 " a lot of the girls in the industry (sex worker not as adult video) are university girls that just want a little bit of extra pocket money. they come to earn a few 10,000 yen. but the work isn't that easy and a lot of girls leave." 5:27 "there are job recruitment websites specifically for sex work." there are ads as well on trucks like "vanilla truck" for example. 5:34 "sometimes you see those flashy trucks driving around Shinjuku or Shibuya,playing that 'high paying jobs' song." 8:17 "I grew up in a really strict household. But it wasn't just strict it was a really religious household. my parents didn't allow dating, didn't allow me to read battle manga,and weren't allowed to participate in sports days in school as well because they're "battles" between different teams. " this is one of the reasons she works as a prostitute so as parents you should not be strict with anything. 11:09 to start with I (she) works in a deriheru, which is short for "delivery health " so with deriheru, you don't go to a shop. you call and order over the phone, and the girls go to you. it's a "delivery" service. 11:32 " the word " health " refers to sexual services without actual sex , meaning no penetration." "there's no actual sex, and you'll be reported to the police if you try to do that." 11:51 " deriheru is probably the most common type of sex work now." 12:41 "you can't get permits to set up new brothels." 13:05 "hotel health has a front desk. You go to the shop, and there's a lot of pictures of the girls for you to pick from. after that,you go to a nearby hotel and wait for the girl to come." 13:37 "then there's "hakoheru" which stands for "hako health" (box health)" . "Box" means that everything is self-contained in the shop. You don't have to go anywhere else." 13:43 "what's the difference between hakoheru and soaplands? the difference is how far you can go. it's whether you can have actual sex or not." health means you cannot do actual sex, so only in soaplands you can have actual sex. 13:59 "so if you try to have sex at a "health" , you will get in trouble." 14:30 "onakura which is short for "onani club" (masturbation club), but they're not shops where you masturbate. They give you handjobs." "and in places like that, it can cost you extra if you want the girls to take their clothes off." "There's a lot of paid extras so it can get expensive if you try to do the same things you'd do at health or the girls might even refuse." 15:33 "Soaplands and other hako-style shops hide their girls faces." "deriheru no physical shop, so they have to put uncensored pictures on the internet so people can decide." "while lot's of places do show uncensored pictures , some girls still hide their faces even at deriheru. " "it is the girls choice to show or not their faces." I think the shops don't care because if no one hires them because they hide their faces then they get no money . 16:40 "it's probably more difficult for men who do this work. women are probably pickier than men so it's probably hard for working men." this is proof that women are more difficult to please . 17:44 these girls usually get an average take home of 30,000 - 40,000 yen a day, but some girls can get 3-4 million yen a month. 18:14 "the shop set up the price and decide how much the girl get as well." "there are cheap shop and expensive shop. the girls decide which one they want to work for . the girl can negotiate like if they have so many customer then they want to get better pay. so usually the girl uses social media like twitter and instagram to share their contact info with customer and build up a customer base. once they have done that (build costumer base) , they move to a more expensive shop. 19:40 she has about 1000 customers. 21:09 there is no actual sex with deriheru. so the girl is the one who determines what kind of service she offers. for example is an*l s*x they call it an*l f*ck because it doesn't count as actual sex. 21:37 "an*l s*x doesn't count as sex." so that means you can do that in deriheru shops . 21:44 "there are actually a lot of specialized an*l f*ck shops,where all the girls are all right with it." 21:56 " it is a bit strange, but "actual" sex is prohibited by Japanese law. and in shops where you can have sex, there's an unspoken rule. it's implied that the people there, are two private individuals having sex. it's a change meeting that lead to sex. 22:27 "so at health the girl can decide what optional services they want to offer." 23:18 "lots of shops have information in english now" (means foreigners can do "it" too now) . it was only for those who can speak japanese but now you can. 23:21 but some girls refuse customers that cannot speak Japanese (non-Japanese). because there are a lot of rules and the foreign customers might accidentally break the rules. 26:00 she likes as a sex worker because she can communicate with customers while as an adult video worker you must follow script only. 26:49 "lots of people do that, and people actually go both ways" ( work as sex worker and then go to adult video and work as an adult video and then also work as a sex worker). 26:52 "lots of girls move to sex workers after doing adult videos to build up their brand." 29:25 filming when you're doing it with sex worker is illegal. 29:45 I think your map about where sex is legal is not accurate. 30:01 " there is actually a form that shops have to submit to the police, and they'll be offcially recognized once they've submitted that." 31:45 "they cum without getting hard. that seems to happen with men over 70." 33:33 so in the industry, there's an option called "free" . which means the customer agrees to have any girl that is free (do not have a customer) at the moment . the price is also slightly cheaper. 33:55 her name is Mariten. but this may just be an alias not a real name. 35:03 deriheru's service time is minimum 60 minutes and maximum is overnight (over 1,000 minutes). by booking overnight you might (can) go on a trip with the sex worker (if the girl is ok with it). but it will be about 500,000 - 600,000 yen. 36:20 but even Mariten who accepts overnight trips might not go on trips if the customer is difficult and or someone that she doesn't really know yet. 37:35 for her the job is more about communication than selling her body. she said because when you have a personal, naked experience with someone in bed then you usually have pillow talk and that is when you got to see the real, raw person. ( this is great observation and I think this is true). for example there are powerful important people that act really sweet and spoiled at that moment or school teacher who complains about his students or someone who is like model father complains about their wives. 39:03 she called that moment is very dirty and human and that dirtiness is proved that everyone has that and that makes her feel relieved. 39:32 she feels that lots of people can only open up about things in that environment. 40:00 Mariten doesn't have a public facade and she is like this 24/7. maybe that is why she has a lot of consumer. 40:16 she has about 6-7 years experience and is called a veteran in the industry so she gave seminars to other girls in the industry. 40:59 "sometimes you lie and tell customers it felt good" . so you should never trust when a prostitute says that you do great. 42:25 Mariten doesn't want to work at soapland (where they offer actual sex / vagin*l s*x) because unlike deriheru, soapland makes her needs to go to the shop (deriheru does not need her to go from her house) and also soapland needs the worker to do mat play which is an important thing that the girl must be able to do and that requires training and more effort. 43:20 well if in my opinion is that soon (like maybe give or take 5 years from now) robots when they have been perfected will be replacing some of them. 44:51 Mariten says that soft service ia more popular in the industry nowadays. Young people don't use sex service as much anymore. the fact that young people are more passive about sex nowadays is actually a problem for the industry. 45:25 Mariten says that apparently young people nowadays don't go to brothels. 45:42 but massage places with happy endings are more popular these days . this is the place where guys just lie there and get serviced. 45:58 Mariten thinks that people nowadays do not want to form bonds with others because they are afraid to be hurt now. 48:27 now everyone uses social media like Twitter and the girl as an individual has more power now, before, only the shops promote certain girls on the website but now the girls that have the ability to self marketing earn much more customer (because the girls find their own customer on Twitter) but the shop still charge and give the same cut for the girls so managing social media is actually give more work to the girls. because 50:05 legally the girl needs to be with the shop. 50:40 because even if the girls get higher take home pay if she doesn't work with the shop (this is illegal today), this is dangerous because at least with the shop someone knows at which hotel you are in . 51:30 Mariten thinks she will only be able to do at top level and in the industry for just another 2 years because in 2026 she will be 35 years old and she worried about her physicality is still good enough (still beautiful) and will her stamina and energy still be good. 52:40 "are you a dom or a sub?" Mariten is a sub(Mariten is usually more passive) . what does a sub do when there is no actual sex? she answers that she is starting as passive then aggressive later. 53:54 Mariten youtube channel is "Honkure ch" which is short for "Honshi ni natte Kuremasuka?" which means "will you become my regular customer" or "will you come back to see me again".
just shows you that the more you starve someone of something the more insatiable they become, reminds me of my older sister my parents was super strict with her when she was in her teens to college, the second she graduated and realized she can do anything she wants, since she can take care of herself, she immediately accepted a job faraway from our hometown just so she can breakaway from our parents control.
I have also seen the opposite, where people from super liberal households end up becoming super conservative. Same thing with home schooled kids ending up having social issues as they grow older... it is pretty crazy on the harder someone tries to push a person in a direction the more likely they are to resist and go against the grain.
if you restrict someone from something COMPLETELY, they are going to be insanely drawn to it. and if you give them something too much, they aren't going to be into it. my father smoked. he was okay if i wanted to as well. i have NEVER smoked. not even the funny mango guava vapes. my family hates(atleast i feel like it) romance and intercourse. I am TOO into making a person feel good around me, not necessarily while i'm in them.
This was an incredibly informative video and I'm really glad that Joey made it. I honestly didn't know even a quarter of the things discussed here and this knowledge really helps to contextualize things that I see in JP culture but don't fully understand.
Thank you for doing these interviews！It really brings forward the humanity of the girls who goes into this industry and what goes behind the scenes as well as the benefit of legalization for the workers.
I am amazed people are saying Aki wouldn't be happy with this video? Honestly, I am 100% sure Joey tells her about everything in regards to his business, what videos he is doing etc etc. just keep ya beaks out. This video was respectful and honestly really interesting. Good work!
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
God is with You Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid. In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations. In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things: Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9) In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added) Jesus tells His disciples two main things: - Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them. - God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us. Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
Its so obvious the guys in here who have never touched a woman or dated haha saying things like "Aki is probably scared now lol" "Aki is going to be mad when she sees this" as if they dont live together. She probably has known about this interview for weeks now or months now probably even helped Joey set it up. Also its really funny to see how supportive everyone is when its a Japanese sex worker but when its American girls its "be gone thot" energy... interesting. 😗
They're called sexists or incels, probably one or the other. Too many kids listening to people like Andrew Tate and then coming out knowing nothing but toxicity.
Didn't really know the difference between "Deriheru" and Soapland until now, but it would really be interesting to see the perspective from someone that works in the Soapland service, after this Video now, which essentially is on the "other" or rather more "extreme" end of the spectrum in this kind of Industry
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Dang these people focused videos are compelling. Well done covering a topic that was probably pretty difficult to make.
I know this is old news but Joey makes Japanese people so relaxed in interviews cuz his Japanese is on point and he is sensitive in his questions content
I like how Joey goes into topics thay aren't that well-known or understood in the West and gets guests who are/were a part of them. Always enjoy watching his interviews!
This is the " frankest " no holds barred interview of the sex industry that I have ever seen. The woman is really at ease and at home with explaining her participation in the oldest profession in the world. Kudos also to the eloquent interviewer.
Parasocial weirdos and backseaters upset that Joseph the japanese dude diversified his content instead of staying pigeon holed into anime only content.
Personally I'd love to see some stuff about shrines given how prevalent they are in certain series, especially Torii gates. Really just get a neat little deep dive into Japanese myth & mysticism. Emphasis on myths Regardless we know Joey is our greatest man of culture on this platform
Hi Joey! Thank you for providing us with new insights when it comes to the "cultured" side of Japan. Thank you for shedding some light and removing some of the misinformation which can tarnish that kind of business or work. Prolly for the next culture video, it would be nice to spend a day with a Sushi Master and try to prepare some sushi. Stay safe and more power :)
I want joey to interview a sumo wrestler in japan. And ask questions like is sumo a martial arts or a perfoming arts like wwe? What skills need to be taught? What if they got occupational injuries, what happens next? What veteran sumo wrestler do? And etc.
Great content, Joey. Love how you're choosing to defy convention more and more with your videos. You are to the J-Vlog community what Vice was to the legacy news media 10 years ago, for reals.
Yeah, for real. My parents aren’t really religious but are traditional in the sense that they’re Asian parents. I definitely don’t have a conservative mindset. :P My friend on the other hand was raised in a strict Christian family, but she’s secretly queer, sneaky as heck, and very liberal. Of course, she was very polite since she was raised that way.
it's not good for ethical state of nation, you want dirty things to be visibly dirty, there is a bigger story about this industry being go to place for traumatised people living their trauma whole life being exploited and making their trauma their way of living not so cool when you understand it
A very good, non-judgmental interview. Educational, too. And she seems very mature and thoughtful when it comes to her chosen profession. I hope she can maintain her upbeat spirit as she gets older.
Very interesting views to hear about Japan and its culture. And the Lady you interviewed was very charming intelligent and with a beautiful smile. Her insights of communication and the interest of the inner mind of people was fascinating. Very good interview 😊 Its good to see not everything is all bad in this industry albeit I think much is. Japan seem to have a better social acceptans and treatment of people in this tho.
I would be interested to see you interview one of the men who do the same sort of work as Mariten. I am also curious - Is the LGBTQ+ community welcome on this side of the adult industry? Is it Illegal to have same gendered customers? Are multiple customers allowed at the same time?
I agree, after doing this work myself I'd say the communication with the customer is the most interesting part of the job that makes it fun! You get to hear all kinds of stories & fun facts from all kinds of people.
One question I'm curious about that wasn't asked (the entire interview was very insightful and classy) is if Japanese culture sees it as cheating to have these services done or is it subjective person to person? I know in 'most' Western cultures it would be seen as such if you have a partner. Another would be if it would be hard not to form attachments or possibly fall in love with certain clients since part of the work is intimacy in more way than one. (Love your stuff, Joey. I've been watching you for years. Keep on, keep on! 🎉)
I would love Joey to touch on more of the music side of Japan. Like rental music studio and all that. Would be dope, especially Joey himself plays music
Thank you both for this informative video. I was a bit apprehensive about the tone this interview would have. My concerns were needless. Joey was polite and tactful. Mariten was forthright and thoughtful.
Between this and the times Kaho appeared on Trash Taste, I'm learning a lot about something I didn't think was all that interesting at first but has a lot of depth.
In my humble opinion your sex industry videos are your best content hands down. Your respectful curiosity is always excellent to watch and hearing about this stuff from Japanese industry professionals is fascinating. Keep it up!
she is only interested in managing her trauma, seeing dirt in others to feel less dirty what parents put in her head, it's like a cheating puritan going overboard into sin as he lost belief in God and tests if he will go to hell because deep down he still has hope god exists lol
Right? If their families were more supportive and wanted them to achieve their dreams, maybe they wouldn’t turn to things like prostitution as a coping mechanism or form of rebellion.
Sometimes you have some takes, say some things...and I just wonder where your head was at the time. Other times like this, you fucking nail it. This was a really entertaining and informative interview, and you did a really good job!
I myself had a very pleasant experience at a soapland back in 2019. I was lucky that the lady I got looked straight up like my favorite AV star, Ai Uehara. And yes, communication is very important in the exchange, so learn your Japanese, kids.
we had the same issue in australia years ago and we heard the same blaming the sex industry from the same group of people. But in the end it turns out people didn't want children because it was to expensive to have a family and the government had to step in to provide financial support to help reduce the cost of living to start a family, which has helped alot.
Not sure about Japan, but in the UK a lot of the escorts know each other or at least communicate with each other and so if someone acts inappropriately, they'll essentially get blacklisted, now bear in mind I only know the one person, but she says most people are respectable and that they're more likely to be shy than aggressive, but that some can be too aggressive, and they won't see them again. So for escorts at least the don't seem to have too bad of a time which is why a lot of them do it relatively long term. The issues tend to be around brothels and non-independent escorts. But like I said, I know one and she's fine and doesn't have as many interesting stories as you'd think, but that may not be the same for others.
Went to Korean soaps while I was there for a few years. Same thing if you couldn't speak Korean. There were also clubs where you couldn't go in if you weren't Korean. There was always the concern you were military and would cause trouble, and to a lesser extent an english "teacher" and would cause trouble. From what I saw, both possibilities were real and probable. Glad to see such a respectful interview here and hopefully we'll get around as a people to respect all workers no matter the field.
Everything up to intercourse is legal. Intercourse is itself is out of bounds. That said, they have workarounds. There is nothing stopping them from "falling for each other" right then and there and act upon it. However, the financial transactions itself cannot be for intercourse. Which is why there are so many types. Because intercourse not allowed. You can do all the none intercourse stuff legally. Obviously without penalties under the law.
The first time I visited Japan it was with my partner. And she said for once in her life she wanted to spend a night in a love hotel. That was my first night ever in Japan. We did it and it was fascinating. I'm fairly sure that the one we stayed in also appears in the outdoor shots at the beginning of this video.
I went to a brothel once, they are the nicest people you will ever met. I know its part of the job, but their friendliness, hospitality and kindness are so genuine. It was my first time so I was scared and nervous to the roof, like almost panic attack nervous. But she calmed me down and made small talk, made sure i was comfortable and if I didn't want to continue I can just tell her. It was my most nervous day of my life and also one of my most memorable life experience.
1000 regulars?! I don't think I've even met that many people in my entire life. And I'm talking truly "met"; more than just a handshake and a hello. That's insane!
this is a really enlightening episode, a genja time moment if you will, you can tell that most of the industry is well linked in history culturally as well as how parenting affects the mindset of your child to go on some aspects that you will not expect
I wished you'd asked her what degree she studied for, a four year course suggests she's got a damn good set of brains on her. And, at 33, did she have her own intimate relationships and how did she [and he!] square that with her work life? Great interview though, Joey.
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it's kind of ironic that Japan still has a declining birthrate, and this video is of the opposite subject.
If a guy said "I've never been to a brothel, because I have a girlfriend". BS He's been there or he has done a similar activity like a happy ending. I'm only breaking this bro code because I genuinely do not like this guy. He's been there, done that.
I proud to be a poor and it's not a shame to be poor ,
I perfer to die poor and not to be rich full of sins.
remember my words it's not a shame to be poor remember my words .
*What are the chances that when looking for a sex worker to interview, you guys got one that's, as they say, boy crazy?*
Don't tell me what to do "AnimeMan"
To everyone saying Aki might misunderstand the title: Knowing her she probably recommened it in the first place
I wonder if Joey would be okay if the role was reversed and Aki was the one that did this with a guy instead
The people saying that still in 2024 have no idea how youtube works.
@@Labyrinth6000did what exactly? Interview a prostitute?
She has onlyfans. Nuff said@@Labyrinth6000
@@Labyrinth6000 I mean it's basically just an interview so why would be?
This was actually one of the coolest interviews so far. She was really cool and I feel the questions/answers were very genuine.
Seeing a lot of negative comments in here so I'm just gonna say that these kinds of videos are my favorite type of Joey content. He's giving us insight into topics foreigners like us would never even get the chance to know about bc of the language barrier, so I'm really grateful for the interesting interviews about a bit more "problematic" topics about Japan. I honestly feel like I could watch hours of videos like this, so keep up the good work, Joey!
i dont think there were many negative comments here.most seem to be accepting
@@hannaathirahfr people see just one bad comment and think is the majority
Not a single negative comment btw
I mean Joey already mentioned that this channel gonna be more focused on this kind of content. so yeah it is what it is
they are my faves, too!
I love these interviews from Joey alot more since hes fluent in Japanese and can get more questions and conversations done with the guest without wasting time in translating. Love these kind of videos. Lots of love
This channel has become not about anime its about the Japanese underground world
Which is great! Just glad to see he's not going stagnant
Well Joey certainly has connections
his fluency probably helps the most
I'm glad you noticed lol welcome to the channel mate.
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We supporting Shimiken with this one🗣️‼️🗣️
It suddenly makes more sense how she leaned into this work. When you are so confined and force-sheltered from the world, you will grow up to be even more curious about the aspects of human life you were deprived from.
I thought it was just pure interest on her part, but now we see how something else played a huge influencing factor.
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
Same. My parents, for instance, never gave me the “talk” because in our culture it is widely taboo. I found out about some things when I was ten. Over the years, I learned more and experimented, and I don’t treat it like “Ayo, that is wild. 💀🤨”anymore. Dirty jokes was so middle school! Haha! It does feel powerful to be able to give advice on these aspects when people need it and opening up about experiences in a mature light instead of being deceitful or secretive about it.
@@mintandfruits Yeah, but we also have to understand why it's so difficult to engage. The birds and bees talk doesn't always result in taking the best path forward.
A child may learn, but also unfortunately go too far with their curiosity - and that outcome can result in vulnerability and exploitation by peers. As with human nature, we sometimes don't learn until the consequences sink in, children or otherwise.
Yeah like the boatloads of money she makes.
@@mintandfruitsI never got "the talk" either. Still doesn't turn me into a wh4re..
Her backstory really shows how restriction from a really young age could lead to a complete 180.
Parents and parental figures in general have so much responsabilty we don't see, it's actually incredible.
As she said in the interview, people are complicated : complete restriciton from life stages every human goes through in their childhood will never be beneficial to a person, no matter how many benefits the parental figures think they bring into their child's life.
Yes, our personality is a cloud of little events that made a long standing impresion on us.
When i was a kid and asked for the time, for some reason no one told me the exact time, the number. Like if it was 3:55 they wuold say 4:00. That made me mad as a kid. Now every time someone ask to me for the time i just said the exact hour and minute.
Is a little detail but it is part of me and it will be for the rest of my life.
@@duoquendoYo, are you me? The exact same thing happened to me, and I do the exact same thing as a result! What are the chances?!
for sure! All that pent up restraint made her much more curious which led to her being more perverse in her formative years. It her her so hard in college she slutted out like crazy. No other way to get it out of her system by then.
Moral of the story is just let your kids figure shit out as they grow. Yes guide them and teach them right from wrong. But dont do what her parents did to her, hell no
@@duoquendo You're right, it was 3:55.
I think I might have found my people. Hello.
@@Vlad_Tepes_III So what do we call ourselves, now that we found each other?
A lot of questions I wish Joey had asked her, such as
1) any fears about her safety when visiting a customer, or any problems of possessive and jealous customers that might become obsessive over her or other girls
2) how her relationship with her parents is now, how they reacted etc
3) if she had any regrets at any points (for example if and when her family found out)
4) if she’s ever encountered anyone she knew
5) does she have any plans to settle down or have kids, does she have a partner and how do they feel about her work?
6) what was her first delivery health job like and was she terrified or embarrassed? Aside from this, wouldn’t she have been very naive and afraid when she first started messing around with guys since she had such a strict religious background? Didn’t she fear being judged, the consequences etc? Wasn’t she afraid her university would find out and expel her when she was already so close to graduation?
7) what would she be doing as a job if she didn’t get into sex work?
8) what do they do at delivery health since there’s allegedly no penetration?
Also I completely don’t believe that there’s no penetration for delivery health lol
Yeah would have especially loved the answers to the parents question or the people she knew. Like as an Indian, where most people spend all their lives living with parents, the way people in the rest of the countries can do stuff without having parents freak out and actively chase their own kids is something I just can't comprehend.
I love Joey's personality about how he doesn't judge at all, and speaks casually but respectfully so that the person doesn't feel uncomfortable- W man!!!
It's almost like he's an adult. That's crazy, huh?
@@MrShagification HAHAHA REALLY CRAZY FR
Right. Hes deffinetly good at interviewing.
Fosho~~ @@SwitchMaxFX
@@sneaky1202shut up...
Thank you Joey and Mariten for the great video! ♥ It was really interesting hearing what she has to say, and she's a pleasant person to listen to. Learning more about these more hidden sides to Japan is great, I really enjoy the videos you've been putting out Joey!
The one thing you didn't ask, which is what always intrigued me most about the industry is, what kind of protection or procedures they have to protect the workers (and the customers) from STDs.
Zero penetration.
I was wondering that too. Especially when she mentioned the safety of working with an office. I thought part of it included health.
I was also wondering about that. But I'm pretty sure they have a measure on how to deal with that, just don't know what they are.
If its anything like AV, bi monthly check ups most likely
I wonder if deliheru has less checkups because actual sex isnt involved.
I love how relaxed and easy going she is. Specially since most people in Japan tend to be very secretive regarding sex, but this was a really cool conversation in between you too.
It's an act
"I had a customer that would see me twice a day, every day I worked"
*inserts a hidden shadow of Kazuma Sato* 💀
💀
Activating holy sword excalibur
if kazuma knew about this service, he will be their top customer for sure
@@anirudhnarla4711 💀💀💀
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
Honestly such an amazing conversation, really calm and informative. Definitely an insight in an industry one wouldn't usually get, it was really cool!
Are people still surprised abt these interviews? Hes been doing them for so long dawg 😭
He not anime man anymore 😂
@@Lowkey003and thats fine really
@@Lowkey003it's called "character development".
@Lowkey003 yeah, dude said he was burnt out by it after years, he'll probably return to it at some point but folks act surprise abt these interviews which a quick scroll through his channel shows he's done these videos before when he did do anime videos
After his interviews with Kaho, Shimiken, and Roland, I'm surprised people are still shocked by his current content 😅
24:20 I can definitely say this with utmost certainty that this is definitely true. Currently in Europe and have gone to some places where they've offered these services and nothing drives the mood down to rock bottom than if the customer and the person offering the service can't even communicate with each other.
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
yes, that's why we don't need migrants here, we already have troubles talking in the same language these days
I find one of the recurring statements in interviews with people in the adult industry, no matter what culture, is the closeness the customers get to the workers. It sounds like, for some of the customers, adult industry workers are a form of therapy, which I think says a lot about how the work-life balance around the world has really affected all of us.
It's absolutely a form of therapy. I'm not a sex worker myself, but I've done research on human sexuality and its facets for a while now. There's a big business of professional Dominatrixes close to the government area and big business zones; because guys who are the big movers and shakers in their daily lives sometimes need that therapy - to give up all that control and responsibility to someone else, even if only for an hour at a time.
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
It is it is, I'm a client who knows other clients and it's often a disappointment if the working lady has a bad personality or is deliberately distant. Most people out of the industry probably wouldn't think we care about that but we do.
When I was younger I worked in a bar that had a lot of working girls waiting for clients, resting a bit etc. It was a safe indoors public space where they could start their interactions and land after them. There are a couple stories I still remember quite well.
There was one "older" lady (in her late 50's) that had a young customer that never asked for sex. He just wanted to have a nap with his head on her chest. She shared another client with a younger girl. An older gentleman that took the older lady on date-like outings once a week (restaurant, cinema...). As for the younger one, he just took her on meals and asked her how she was doing in Uni (she was a student). Turns out he was a widower that lost his daughter in a car crash when she was in school.
And one that really stuck is a lady bound to a wheel chair that used to come with her husband. She'd "select" a girl to help her out with what she couldn't manage. I had a chat with her once seeing her alone as she was waiting for her husband to come from work. Really confident in her relationship and what they did.
At the end of the day, sex workers tend to respond to a deeply intimate human need that very rarely boils down to "sex", and can even be separate from it. They offer people the chance to be vulnerable where they otherwise could not.
you mean sick culture of achieving for somebody's interest living not for own interests loosing half life doing what doesn't matter to you
4:17 she has been in the industry for about 6-7 years which is considered long because most girls are just about 2-3 years or 1-2 years only.
4:45 "lots of girls only stay for about 3 months."
5:00 " a lot of the girls in the industry (sex worker not as adult video) are university girls that just want a little bit of extra pocket money. they come to earn a few 10,000 yen. but the work isn't that easy and a lot of girls leave."
5:27 "there are job recruitment websites specifically for sex work." there are ads as well on trucks like "vanilla truck" for example.
5:34 "sometimes you see those flashy trucks driving around Shinjuku or Shibuya,playing that 'high paying jobs' song."
8:17 "I grew up in a really strict household. But it wasn't just strict it was a really religious household. my parents didn't allow dating, didn't allow me to read battle manga,and weren't allowed to participate in sports days in school as well because they're "battles" between different teams. " this is one of the reasons she works as a prostitute so as parents you should not be strict with anything.
11:09 to start with I (she) works in a deriheru, which is short for "delivery health " so with deriheru, you don't go to a shop. you call and order over the phone, and the girls go to you. it's a "delivery" service.
11:32 " the word " health " refers to sexual services without actual sex , meaning no penetration." "there's no actual sex, and you'll be reported to the police if you try to do that."
11:51 " deriheru is probably the most common type of sex work now."
12:41 "you can't get permits to set up new brothels."
13:05 "hotel health has a front desk. You go to the shop, and there's a lot of pictures of the girls for you to pick from. after that,you go to a nearby hotel and wait for the girl to come."
13:37 "then there's "hakoheru" which stands for "hako health" (box health)" . "Box" means that everything is self-contained in the shop. You don't have to go anywhere else."
13:43 "what's the difference between hakoheru and soaplands? the difference is how far you can go. it's whether you can have actual sex or not." health means you cannot do actual sex, so only in soaplands you can have actual sex.
13:59 "so if you try to have sex at a "health" , you will get in trouble."
14:30 "onakura which is short for "onani club" (masturbation club), but they're not shops where you masturbate. They give you handjobs." "and in places like that, it can cost you extra if you want the girls to take their clothes off." "There's a lot of paid extras so it can get expensive if you try to do the same things you'd do at health or the girls might even refuse."
15:33 "Soaplands and other hako-style shops hide their girls faces." "deriheru no physical shop, so they have to put uncensored pictures on the internet so people can decide." "while lot's of places do show uncensored pictures , some girls still hide their faces even at deriheru. " "it is the girls choice to show or not their faces." I think the shops don't care because if no one hires them because they hide their faces then they get no money .
16:40 "it's probably more difficult for men who do this work. women are probably pickier than men so it's probably hard for working men." this is proof that women are more difficult to please .
17:44 these girls usually get an average take home of 30,000 - 40,000 yen a day, but some girls can get 3-4 million yen a month.
18:14 "the shop set up the price and decide how much the girl get as well." "there are cheap shop and expensive shop. the girls decide which one they want to work for . the girl can negotiate like if they have so many customer then they want to get better pay. so usually the girl uses social media like twitter and instagram to share their contact info with customer and build up a customer base. once they have done that (build costumer base) , they move to a more expensive shop.
19:40 she has about 1000 customers.
21:09 there is no actual sex with deriheru. so the girl is the one who determines what kind of service she offers. for example is an*l s*x they call it an*l f*ck because it doesn't count as actual sex.
21:37 "an*l s*x doesn't count as sex." so that means you can do that in deriheru shops .
21:44 "there are actually a lot of specialized an*l f*ck shops,where all the girls are all right with it."
21:56 " it is a bit strange, but "actual" sex is prohibited by Japanese law. and in shops where you can have sex, there's an unspoken rule. it's implied that the people there, are two private individuals having sex. it's a change meeting that lead to sex.
22:27 "so at health the girl can decide what optional services they want to offer."
23:18 "lots of shops have information in english now" (means foreigners can do "it" too now) . it was only for those who can speak japanese but now you can.
23:21 but some girls refuse customers that cannot speak Japanese (non-Japanese). because there are a lot of rules and the foreign customers might accidentally break the rules.
26:00 she likes as a sex worker because she can communicate with customers while as an adult video worker you must follow script only.
26:49 "lots of people do that, and people actually go both ways" ( work as sex worker and then go to adult video and work as an adult video and then also work as a sex worker).
26:52 "lots of girls move to sex workers after doing adult videos to build up their brand."
29:25 filming when you're doing it with sex worker is illegal.
29:45 I think your map about where sex is legal is not accurate.
30:01 " there is actually a form that shops have to submit to the police, and they'll be offcially recognized once they've submitted that."
31:45 "they cum without getting hard. that seems to happen with men over 70."
33:33 so in the industry, there's an option called "free" . which means the customer agrees to have any girl that is free (do not have a customer) at the moment . the price is also slightly cheaper.
33:55 her name is Mariten. but this may just be an alias not a real name.
35:03 deriheru's service time is minimum 60 minutes and maximum is overnight (over 1,000 minutes). by booking overnight you might (can) go on a trip with the sex worker (if the girl is ok with it). but it will be about 500,000 - 600,000 yen.
36:20 but even Mariten who accepts overnight trips might not go on trips if the customer is difficult and or someone that she doesn't really know yet.
37:35 for her the job is more about communication than selling her body. she said because when you have a personal, naked experience with someone in bed then you usually have pillow talk and that is when you got to see the real, raw person. ( this is great observation and I think this is true). for example there are powerful important people that act really sweet and spoiled at that moment or school teacher who complains about his students or someone who is like model father complains about their wives. 39:03 she called that moment is very dirty and human and that dirtiness is proved that everyone has that and that makes her feel relieved.
39:32 she feels that lots of people can only open up about things in that environment.
40:00 Mariten doesn't have a public facade and she is like this 24/7. maybe that is why she has a lot of consumer.
40:16 she has about 6-7 years experience and is called a veteran in the industry so she gave seminars to other girls in the industry.
40:59 "sometimes you lie and tell customers it felt good" . so you should never trust when a prostitute says that you do great.
42:25 Mariten doesn't want to work at soapland (where they offer actual sex / vagin*l s*x) because unlike deriheru, soapland makes her needs to go to the shop (deriheru does not need her to go from her house) and also soapland needs the worker to do mat play which is an important thing that the girl must be able to do and that requires training and more effort.
43:20 well if in my opinion is that soon (like maybe give or take 5 years from now) robots when they have been perfected will be replacing some of them.
44:51 Mariten says that soft service ia more popular in the industry nowadays. Young people don't use sex service as much anymore. the fact that young people are more passive about sex nowadays is actually a problem for the industry.
45:25 Mariten says that apparently young people nowadays don't go to brothels.
45:42 but massage places with happy endings are more popular these days . this is the place where guys just lie there and get serviced.
45:58 Mariten thinks that people nowadays do not want to form bonds with others because they are afraid to be hurt now.
48:27 now everyone uses social media like Twitter and the girl as an individual has more power now, before, only the shops promote certain girls on the website but now the girls that have the ability to self marketing earn much more customer (because the girls find their own customer on Twitter) but the shop still charge and give the same cut for the girls so managing social media is actually give more work to the girls. because 50:05 legally the girl needs to be with the shop.
50:40 because even if the girls get higher take home pay if she doesn't work with the shop (this is illegal today), this is dangerous because at least with the shop someone knows at which hotel you are in .
51:30 Mariten thinks she will only be able to do at top level and in the industry for just another 2 years because in 2026 she will be 35 years old and she worried about her physicality is still good enough (still beautiful) and will her stamina and energy still be good.
52:40 "are you a dom or a sub?" Mariten is a sub(Mariten is usually more passive) . what does a sub do when there is no actual sex? she answers that she is starting as passive then aggressive later.
53:54 Mariten youtube channel is "Honkure ch" which is short for "Honshi ni natte Kuremasuka?" which means "will you become my regular customer" or "will you come back to see me again".
That's some dedication right here. Nice sum up!
Thank you.
The number of people that grew up in conservative households and ended up becoming the complete opposite is too dam high. Food for thought.
@@shazam2323 whats that?
@@PatrickLimJr Brothers first time on the internet💀I think its better to google fr
just shows you that the more you starve someone of something the more insatiable they become, reminds me of my older sister my parents was super strict with her when she was in her teens to college, the second she graduated and realized she can do anything she wants, since she can take care of herself, she immediately accepted a job faraway from our hometown just so she can breakaway from our parents control.
I have also seen the opposite, where people from super liberal households end up becoming super conservative. Same thing with home schooled kids ending up having social issues as they grow older... it is pretty crazy on the harder someone tries to push a person in a direction the more likely they are to resist and go against the grain.
if you restrict someone from something COMPLETELY, they are going to be insanely drawn to it. and if you give them something too much, they aren't going to be into it.
my father smoked. he was okay if i wanted to as well. i have NEVER smoked. not even the funny mango guava vapes.
my family hates(atleast i feel like it) romance and intercourse. I am TOO into making a person feel good around me, not necessarily while i'm in them.
This was an incredibly informative video and I'm really glad that Joey made it. I honestly didn't know even a quarter of the things discussed here and this knowledge really helps to contextualize things that I see in JP culture but don't fully understand.
Thank you for doing these interviews！It really brings forward the humanity of the girls who goes into this industry and what goes behind the scenes as well as the benefit of legalization for the workers.
it shows it brings people with trauma
I am amazed people are saying Aki wouldn't be happy with this video? Honestly, I am 100% sure Joey tells her about everything in regards to his business, what videos he is doing etc etc. just keep ya beaks out. This video was respectful and honestly really interesting. Good work!
27:40 Connor's photo when he said that.. wow~
the editing is great ^ ^
I cracked up.
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
actually devious
He's based, the other two are kinda sus with the Loli stuff
They did my man dirty.
I'm sure many people have said this before but Joey is a great interviewer perfect mix of professionalism and being casual at the same time.
I am glad that the title said "Spending a Day" instead of "Spending a Night" 😂
Well anything could happen even in day without anyone knowing 👀
God is with You
Throughout the Bible, there are various moments where God tells someone to not be afraid. Each one comes at a time when the hearer has every reason to be very afraid.
In one instance, Joshua, the leader of Israel after the death of Moses, was taking the Israelites to their promised land (see: Exodus 3). He was leading over one million people to a place God had promised, and it meant going through some overwhelming and terrifying situations.
In the midst of this, God commanded Joshua to do two things:
Obey the Word of God and, be strong and courageous because the Lord was with them. (See: Joshua 1:7-9)
In Matthew 28, Jesus says something similar just after His resurrection. He is with His eleven disciples and He tells them:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18-20 ESV (Emphasis added)
Jesus tells His disciples two main things:
- Obey His word (“go into all nations and make disciples”) and, He would be with them.
- God is always the same. He was the same God when He gave Joshua His word and the assurance of His presence, and He is the same God who gives us His Word and assures us of His presence. We are known, loved, and cared for by the faithful, consistent God-and He will never leave or abandon us.
Today, reflect on the ways you can teach others about Jesus and His words. How does His Word and His presence make you strong and courageous? Before leaving this time, thank God for His promise to always be with you.
We know what happened _after_ the interview
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@@szymonbaranowski8184 I hope that I can summon a succubus rn 😂
Mariten is so lovely and eloquent. Great interview !
Its so obvious the guys in here who have never touched a woman or dated haha saying things like "Aki is probably scared now lol" "Aki is going to be mad when she sees this" as if they dont live together. She probably has known about this interview for weeks now or months now probably even helped Joey set it up. Also its really funny to see how supportive everyone is when its a Japanese sex worker but when its American girls its "be gone thot" energy... interesting. 😗
You know there's a difference between a sex worker and a thot right? Right?
I mean, look at how she handles herself compared to her average instagram/twitter/OF thot…
I wouldn’t be surprised if Aki was there and asking questions herself off camera 😂😂
They're called sexists or incels, probably one or the other. Too many kids listening to people like Andrew Tate and then coming out knowing nothing but toxicity.
Bro is fighting ghost all the top comments are just using the meme of Joey not watching anime anymore or being grateful about the video
Loved this interview! I love looking deeper in the industry, its truly fascinating. And the Japanese twist on it makes it even more interesting!
Didn't really know the difference between "Deriheru" and Soapland until now, but it would really be interesting to see the perspective from someone that works in the Soapland service, after this Video now, which essentially is on the "other" or rather more "extreme" end of the spectrum in this kind of Industry
Dang these people focused videos are compelling. Well done covering a topic that was probably pretty difficult to make.
i love her glitter eyeshadow, so cute
Fr!! She's so pretty
@@kqwyyi It's her work to be pretty (among other things), so it's not that surprising.
@@Vollmond720 it was just a declarative statement, literally no one is surprised
yes omg i was staring at her makeup the entire time like the glitter shining everytime she moves shes so prettyy :3
Me too @@foggg7
I know this is old news but Joey makes Japanese people so relaxed in interviews cuz his Japanese is on point and he is sensitive in his questions content
The editor is doing an incredible job here
this is not the new pokemon game what are you doing here ? :D
enjoying the content like the rest of of lmao@@lordsaviorswarmthatwalks3385
Speedwagon is forever!!
You mean @Mudan
Was the Connor pic wasn't it
I thought Joey was losing the edge, but im happy to see he is still showing us this stuff , ready to show us the real wolrd in japan and i love it.
Thank you Joseph for the quality henti content; keep delivering king 👑
This was such a great interview. Great and deep questions, and such candid and in-depth answers in response as well.
I like how Joey goes into topics thay aren't that well-known or understood in the West and gets guests who are/were a part of them.
Always enjoy watching his interviews!
This is the " frankest " no holds barred interview of the sex industry that I have ever seen. The woman is really at ease and at home with explaining her participation in the oldest profession in the world. Kudos also to the eloquent interviewer.
Im so confused . What is up with the comments. These kinds of interviews are interesting.
Parasocial weirdos and backseaters upset that Joseph the japanese dude diversified his content instead of staying pigeon holed into anime only content.
theyre mad bc they dont get sex themselves so being reminded of it they start baby raging
Unfortunately, the sight of a real 3D woman triggers an allergic reaction in some of these people.
All the top comments appreciate the video why so fixated on the loud minority
people don't like to see ugly truth about life especially how people are full of trauma these days making imperfect world more imperfect
If possible do a interview with a Buddhist monk and a Shinto monk to show the distinctions and how the japanese people treat it in their daily lives?
Personally I'd love to see some stuff about shrines given how prevalent they are in certain series, especially Torii gates. Really just get a neat little deep dive into Japanese myth & mysticism. Emphasis on myths
Regardless we know Joey is our greatest man of culture on this platform
Absolutely love the candidness with this. Informative and interesting as hell! ty!!
I love these interviews, definitly my favourite youtube videos to watch.
Hi Joey! Thank you for providing us with new insights when it comes to the "cultured" side of Japan. Thank you for shedding some light and removing some of the misinformation which can tarnish that kind of business or work. Prolly for the next culture video, it would be nice to spend a day with a Sushi Master and try to prepare some sushi. Stay safe and more power :)
27:41 mudan did him dirty with this one
I want joey to interview a sumo wrestler in japan. And ask questions like is sumo a martial arts or a perfoming arts like wwe? What skills need to be taught? What if they got occupational injuries, what happens next? What veteran sumo wrestler do? And etc.
It's cool seeing all the different kinds of people out there.
Great content, Joey. Love how you're choosing to defy convention more and more with your videos. You are to the J-Vlog community what Vice was to the legacy news media 10 years ago, for reals.
Being raised in a really religious house and going off in seemingly opposite direction also happens in the states.
Yeah, for real. My parents aren’t really religious but are traditional in the sense that they’re Asian parents. I definitely don’t have a conservative mindset. :P My friend on the other hand was raised in a strict Christian family, but she’s secretly queer, sneaky as heck, and very liberal. Of course, she was very polite since she was raised that way.
These vids are done so well. Gotta love the Joey touch and his selection of guests have been damn good.
It's amazing that the "omotenashi" or "service oriented spirit" lives in this industry also. I love Japan!
it's not good for ethical state of nation, you want dirty things to be visibly dirty,
there is a bigger story about this industry being go to place for traumatised people living their trauma whole life being exploited and making their trauma their way of living
not so cool when you understand it
A very good, non-judgmental interview. Educational, too. And she seems very mature and thoughtful when it comes to her chosen profession. I hope she can maintain her upbeat spirit as she gets older.
Love love LOVE the interviews! Can't wait for this!
That was very interesting. Thank you and also to Maritan being so open and answer all questions. Thank you very much!
We appreciate your dedication and hard work. Keep working hard.
I don’t know if it’s intended, but I like the double entendre of that last phrase xD
@@lillyrichter3383
Hard work equals goal accomplished.
Really good interview, i love seeing the perspective on work and life from a range of life paths keep it up
Great interview yet again Joey. You've really gotten excellent at it over the years. Awesome stuff.
Very interesting views to hear about Japan and its culture.
And the Lady you interviewed was very charming intelligent and with a beautiful smile.
Her insights of communication and the interest of the inner mind of people was fascinating.
Very good interview 😊
Its good to see not everything is all bad in this industry albeit I think much is. Japan seem to have a better social acceptans and treatment of people in this tho.
I would be interested to see you interview one of the men who do the same sort of work as Mariten. I am also curious - Is the LGBTQ+ community welcome on this side of the adult industry? Is it Illegal to have same gendered customers? Are multiple customers allowed at the same time?
I agree, after doing this work myself I'd say the communication with the customer is the most interesting part of the job that makes it fun! You get to hear all kinds of stories & fun facts from all kinds of people.
One question I'm curious about that wasn't asked (the entire interview was very insightful and classy) is if Japanese culture sees it as cheating to have these services done or is it subjective person to person? I know in 'most' Western cultures it would be seen as such if you have a partner.
Another would be if it would be hard not to form attachments or possibly fall in love with certain clients since part of the work is intimacy in more way than one.
(Love your stuff, Joey. I've been watching you for years. Keep on, keep on! 🎉)
From what ive seen on other youtube videos asking people in japan in the streets, they dont see it as cheating.
I think Joey once mentioned in a video that since it's a service industry, culturally it isn't considered cheating.
@@lolmao500 those videos give you a curated vision though, so not sure, but i would assume its more tolerated even if it is seen as cheating
Think i heard someone say that the Japanese don't see it as cheating since it's purely physical, without any emotional attachment.
My Japanese friend said no it is only cheating if you actually love the other person..
thank you for the subtitles joey
Not the type of content I'd expect myself watch 2 days before my exams
As long as you don't overdo it, some relaxation is good for your studies. Should come after your studies and not before or during though.
Good luck buddy, study hard. And i also expect you to come back after exam and not during or before
as long as you're studying i don't see anything wrong with it, goodluck with your exams fellow stranger
Watching on exam day🙃I am finished
This comment made me realize I also have exams coming up😞
27:47 with Connor KILLED ME. Hilarious. That aside, this was incredibly informative. Brilliant interview Joey!
Really throwing CBaldVA under the bus like that 😔😂
I would love Joey to touch on more of the music side of Japan. Like rental music studio and all that. Would be dope, especially Joey himself plays music
Sometimes when I watch his interviews I look away from the screen but then have to rewind because I don’t know Japanese lol
Thank you both for this informative video. I was a bit apprehensive about the tone this interview would have. My concerns were needless. Joey was polite and tactful. Mariten was forthright and thoughtful.
Between this and the times Kaho appeared on Trash Taste, I'm learning a lot about something I didn't think was all that interesting at first but has a lot of depth.
Two HUGE reasons i love the channel
In my humble opinion your sex industry videos are your best content hands down. Your respectful curiosity is always excellent to watch and hearing about this stuff from Japanese industry professionals is fascinating. Keep it up!
I like her perspective and her interest in human nature. It feels so bizarre yet interesting af
she is only interested in managing her trauma, seeing dirt in others to feel less dirty what parents put in her head, it's like a cheating puritan going overboard into sin as he lost belief in God and tests if he will go to hell because deep down he still has hope god exists lol
lad is such a great series. nice to hear if you have also enjoyed the games in the lad/yakuza series as well.
interesting stuff, I feel like the industry is getting more competitive than ever. Individuals have more power than ever before, which is good imo
It just reinforces the fact that many, if not most, people in prostitution had rough childhoods and weird/messed up families.
Right? If their families were more supportive and wanted them to achieve their dreams, maybe they wouldn’t turn to things like prostitution as a coping mechanism or form of rebellion.
@@mintandfruits Exactly.
Sometimes you have some takes, say some things...and I just wonder where your head was at the time. Other times like this, you fucking nail it. This was a really entertaining and informative interview, and you did a really good job!
At the pace Joey's going he's going to probably interview the president of japan in about a year
I myself had a very pleasant experience at a soapland back in 2019. I was lucky that the lady I got looked straight up like my favorite AV star, Ai Uehara. And yes, communication is very important in the exchange, so learn your Japanese, kids.
we had the same issue in australia years ago and we heard the same blaming the sex industry from the same group of people. But in the end it turns out people didn't want children because it was to expensive to have a family and the government had to step in to provide financial support to help reduce the cost of living to start a family, which has helped alot.
She’s super lovely and cute. And it’s awesome that she takes her profession seriously and is building a brand. Good for her!
I only watched part, but she makes all seem so positive… NO way, there has to be so many disturbing and maybe frightening cruel times
Not sure about Japan, but in the UK a lot of the escorts know each other or at least communicate with each other and so if someone acts inappropriately, they'll essentially get blacklisted, now bear in mind I only know the one person, but she says most people are respectable and that they're more likely to be shy than aggressive, but that some can be too aggressive, and they won't see them again. So for escorts at least the don't seem to have too bad of a time which is why a lot of them do it relatively long term.
The issues tend to be around brothels and non-independent escorts.
But like I said, I know one and she's fine and doesn't have as many interesting stories as you'd think, but that may not be the same for others.
Went to Korean soaps while I was there for a few years. Same thing if you couldn't speak Korean. There were also clubs where you couldn't go in if you weren't Korean. There was always the concern you were military and would cause trouble, and to a lesser extent an english "teacher" and would cause trouble. From what I saw, both possibilities were real and probable. Glad to see such a respectful interview here and hopefully we'll get around as a people to respect all workers no matter the field.
Joey's next cameo might just be in a JAV
I mean he already watched one live
No. He won't cameo.
Dr Jelly will.
@@iskisenna 💀
Let me write all this down 😁
Great interview Joey 👏🏾
I learned new information than I thought. I never knew the industry is legal in Japan and there are diverse shops for each job.
Everything up to intercourse is legal. Intercourse is itself is out of bounds.
That said, they have workarounds.
There is nothing stopping them from "falling for each other" right then and there and act upon it.
However, the financial transactions itself cannot be for intercourse.
Which is why there are so many types. Because intercourse not allowed. You can do all the none intercourse stuff legally. Obviously without penalties under the law.
The first time I visited Japan it was with my partner. And she said for once in her life she wanted to spend a night in a love hotel.
That was my first night ever in Japan.
We did it and it was fascinating. I'm fairly sure that the one we stayed in also appears in the outdoor shots at the beginning of this video.
I went to a brothel once, they are the nicest people you will ever met. I know its part of the job, but their friendliness, hospitality and kindness are so genuine. It was my first time so I was scared and nervous to the roof, like almost panic attack nervous. But she calmed me down and made small talk, made sure i was comfortable and if I didn't want to continue I can just tell her. It was my most nervous day of my life and also one of my most memorable life experience.
Same. I visited a soapland back in 2019, and my lady was so sweet and comforting. I still think about her sometimes haha.
Great interview. Yr guest was articulate and delightful
1000 regulars?! I don't think I've even met that many people in my entire life. And I'm talking truly "met"; more than just a handshake and a hello. That's insane!
Thanks for the interview. Now I know how much budget I should add to when I visit Japan
Now I’m curious to see an interview with a Japanese ex-cult member.
Aki: nope, bad idea!
😂@@tatsuyahiiragi416
Interesting to learn about this, especially from someone in the industry.
great interview from joseph [some roman numeral] the manga lad on this amazing channel 'The japan boy'
keep up the good work
I enjoy this content a lot. It shows the side of Japan no one truly sees. I can't wait for the next adventure into the unknown of Japan.
That was very informative, thank you Joey, give my thanks to the young woman as well.
Aki is an absolute delight. Her superpower is making men comfortable--probably all people in real life. I wish the best for her.
Mariten. It would have been nice to give information about your guest.
That was very informational, you're a great interviewer Joey
this is a really enlightening episode, a genja time moment if you will, you can tell that most of the industry is well linked in history culturally as well as how parenting affects the mindset of your child to go on some aspects that you will not expect
I wished you'd asked her what degree she studied for, a four year course suggests she's got a damn good set of brains on her. And, at 33, did she have her own intimate relationships and how did she [and he!] square that with her work life? Great interview though, Joey.
This was one of the most insightful interview I have seen lately, pretty informative too. Good job there!