EARLY BONDING & ATTACHMENT | Tools for attachment in the early days | UK Adoption | mollymamaadopt

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 17

  • @jolilley3783
    @jolilley3783 3 года назад +1

    Hi Molly. My husband and I are at stage 1 and your videos are really helping us prepare & understand the adoption process. We also have a 3yr old daughter so really learning lots from your experience. Thank you.

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад

      Hi Jo. Thanks for your lovely comments! Good luck with the process for your family 💗

  • @veeholmes633
    @veeholmes633 2 года назад

    Brilliant Molly 👏 👏

  • @nishapatel5671
    @nishapatel5671 3 года назад +1

    Hi Molly, Thank You for sharing your videos these have helped us so much. My husband and I have just been given out adoption panel date, which we are massively excited about. Thank You again all the best x

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад +1

      Hi Nisha. Congratulations on your panel date! Sending you all the positive vibes 😍

  • @eadrysdale6873
    @eadrysdale6873 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for your amazing videos! How can you tell there are days he is not securely attached? Thanks again you are a star! X

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much! There are still days when he shows some attachment behaviour such as pushing me away, avoiding eye contact or being excessively clingy and unsettled which we put down to him feeling unsafe/not being securely attached. We know it takes a long time for an attachment to form so we’re pushing through with it ☺️

  • @maysak8147
    @maysak8147 3 года назад +3

    Hi Molly ! Love your videos! We are currently post approval and pre matching/ placement, so are still in the early days of all of this. The waiting is hard but your videos definitely help and your passion really comes across ! Xx

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад

      Hi Maysa. Thank you for the lovely comment! Really glad you’re finding my videos useful. Congrats on becoming approved adopters! Such a crazy intense journey with a lot of hard work to get there. Hang in there in this family finding stage. It’ll be worth every moment! X

  • @suzidavis6170
    @suzidavis6170 3 года назад

    Your videos are so easy to watch and informative, thank you 😊

  • @AdventureAllTheWay
    @AdventureAllTheWay 3 года назад

    Did you use his existing routine or make your own around your own life?
    Also can you recommend any reading material about attachment behaviours and loss in young children? Thank you Molly. I'm inhaling all your content at a lightning speed as we are completing some diy and then its full steam ahead for us. X

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад

      We ensured we used his routine as that’s what made him feel safe. We were really careful not to change that as he was already moving home with new people which is huge change for any child. This is what is generally advised 👍🏻
      There’s so many good reading materials! Check out ‘Attachment and Attachment Disorder’ book, ‘Big Steps for Little People’ book and ‘Why can’t my child behave?’ book - my faves! Thanks for the lovely feedback x

  • @NorfolkgirlinYorkshireplusone
    @NorfolkgirlinYorkshireplusone 3 года назад

    Where can I find those cards please?

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад

      Hi Emily. They are from Beacon Family Services and I’ve linked their website in the description box of this video 👍🏻

    • @NorfolkgirlinYorkshireplusone
      @NorfolkgirlinYorkshireplusone 3 года назад

      @@MollyMamaAdopt Brilliant - thank you! I’ve got a linking meeting for a 9 month old tomorrow & these look perfect.

    • @MollyMamaAdopt
      @MollyMamaAdopt  3 года назад

      @@NorfolkgirlinYorkshireplusone that’s such wonderful news! I remember our linking meeting so vividly. Good luck 💗