How to Avoid Sexual Sins with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @tamathadowdy1590
    @tamathadowdy1590 Год назад +51

    If you've been living in sexual sin for a while, I will tell you, it's not easy. The first year was the hardest. I did a lot of crying and praying, but in the end the peace you're going to experience is like none other.

  • @joysonbalisamore
    @joysonbalisamore Год назад +64

    It brought a tear to my eye repeating the prayer of submission at the end, "Thank you for forgiving me." I've been same-sex attracted and addicted to pornography for as long as I can remember, and grew up often feeling like in order to be redeemed and freed I needed to overcome both struggles before coming to Jesus. In reality, I needed to come to the savior to have the power to overcome and accept salvation!
    I was brought to this channel after watching a brief clip on TikTok and I greatly appreciate the vulnerability and scripture-based views presented in this podcast, without judgment but with truth and love which is the embodiment of Christ. I certainly will be watching past and future episodes and request an episode on the very timely and pervasive topic of pornography and masturbation. Thank you for this!

    • @KayQhosa
      @KayQhosa Год назад +5

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Said a prayer for you

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Год назад +10

      Thank you for sharing with us! We believe God is going to do a mighty work in your life! Head over to our church youtube @myalivechurch to hear our current series on Sex God's Way.

    • @Tami3-ks7td
      @Tami3-ks7td Год назад +3

      You’re gonna make it 💕

    • @joysonbalisamore
      @joysonbalisamore Год назад +1

      @@KayQhosa Thank you so much I appreciate it!

    • @joysonbalisamore
      @joysonbalisamore Год назад

      @@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha I recieve that, thank you!

  • @Tairab
    @Tairab Год назад +48

    I’m sharing this. This is really good wholesome teaching that’s filled with grace and truth. Just like the woman at the well who was caught. Jesus shed light not condemnation. Love it. God bless you two.

  • @ib4sports
    @ib4sports 4 месяца назад +16

    I have failed once more to masturbation, I will not quit father GOD. I have an addiction, I have realized this is hard to stop, I will pray and conquer father GOD, please allow me another chance to prove myself , AMEN

    • @danielkempton9659
      @danielkempton9659 2 месяца назад +2

      Tell God you can't do it
      Tell him your weak.
      Tell him your sick of failing
      And you give him permission to stop it for you.

    • @faithteesdale2055
      @faithteesdale2055 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen, if He can do it for others He can most certainly do it for you. He did it for me. The real challenge was and still is continuing to stay free from masturbation and fleeing from it instead of running towards it.

    • @joshuapeters9184
      @joshuapeters9184 Месяц назад +1

      You gots this: Jesus loves you.

  • @toyinoladiran
    @toyinoladiran 9 месяцев назад +5

    I can’t tell you how much I loved the banter between you both when you discussed times when you’ve been tempted to be tempted … I love the realness … and the fact that you all are discussing stuff that’s vulnerable in our presence … I really appreciate this

  • @Roya1018
    @Roya1018 Год назад +11

    Praise GOD I came upon this podcast by chance and I shared it with friends and family. It is so sad how the devil is trying to trick and manipulate our daughter into lesbian relationships. 12-.14 yrs old. I bind and rebuke satan in Jesus name and all ancestors curse are BROKEN WITH JESUS IN JESUS NAME.
    Bless you all 100 fold for the realness and put scripture on all Immorality

    • @trinii2
      @trinii2 Год назад

      Yesss and the thing with children today, I’m 17 but I remember that spirit trying to come on me and i went to the bathroom at my school and told it to flee in the name of Jesus! And it fled. But that’s because i understood what it was. Children today don’t understand what homosexuality is what it’s assignment is, and how evil it is. But glory to God I have parents that built me up in the Lord from birth and I do not identify as a Homosexual. Hope this testimony helps you.

  • @kelei6062
    @kelei6062 4 месяца назад +6

    😂😂 y’all chemistry is so wholesome thank you for this God bless yall

  • @user-7377
    @user-7377 Год назад +10

    Talk about the adulterous relationships from the standpoint of the couple being separated, but still married please

  • @Wilfried-b3h
    @Wilfried-b3h 11 месяцев назад +3

    I love the fact that God leads me across your contents. I've been looking for teachings, contents to learn more about marriage, sexual purity, and to connect with a christian couple to learn more and prepare myself. I'm glad that i came across you guys. May Father bless you and make you more fruitful

  • @bojanmilito2380
    @bojanmilito2380 19 дней назад

    thank you so much guys, I am a man married to a beautiful wife and we have a wonderful baby, but I struggle with sexual sin very hard. I just don‘t find a way to overcome it but one day with the help of god I hopefully will.

  • @Zambsss
    @Zambsss Год назад +8

    This podcast was enjoyable and distinctive from others I've listened to. I made numerous notes. I was especially fond the way Tabatha gazes at him, listens to him speak, then uses her own voice. It clearly displayed feminine vitality and her self-assurance. It also made me think about how I feel like I have to say so much when I really don’t. Less is more. it also made me think about how I feel like I have to say so much when I really don’t. And it's clear that Ken is self-assured as well.

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly 2 месяца назад +1

    This is good! They are gently truthful with each other. She called him out, after he pointed out her s•xual activity. She immediately said, yeah we had s*x….. etc.

  • @Oxreen
    @Oxreen 4 месяца назад +2

    This resonated with me immediately. I just landed on your channel while I was searching for a way out of sexual sin, and subscribed immediately. Thank you for dropping this. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 May God keep using yall as a vessel.

  • @LaiYunLuk
    @LaiYunLuk Год назад +2

    Im not new to biblical teaching on sexual. Sins. But I'm new to you both. I'm so grateful for such honesty sharing of your marriage journey. You are a blessed couple in Chris. You are filled with love and peace. Please keep sharing and pouring out to people. We are all sinners saved by grace. Amen❤

  • @nelsonlopez4695
    @nelsonlopez4695 Год назад +4

    Amen listening from Puerto Rico. Believing for a ministry wife, widowed 10 years. Great stuff 🙏🏻🤗

    • @user-7377
      @user-7377 Год назад

      🙏🏼😇

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Год назад

      Just pick a born again girl you like and ask her to marry you. Don't overthink it. Dating after marriage is the only right way to build a relationship

  • @mardec2128
    @mardec2128 8 месяцев назад +10

    We went to the court house and got married…. $50.00.
    It’s better to marry than to burn.

  • @jessica.h85
    @jessica.h85 Год назад +5

    This is the realest and most helpful conversation I've heard on this topic on RUclips ever! Thank you!

  • @christellen3077
    @christellen3077 Год назад +4

    I love how you are more leaning towards one another in your conversation. And contributing to the discussion . Also PASTOR THANK YOU FOR OWNINGBUP TO YOUR PAST MISTAKES. Glory to God for your ministry!!!!

  • @aurorajd31
    @aurorajd31 4 месяца назад

    This message was/is powerful and highly impactful! I needed this message dearly. Married for 20+ years and it has truly been a battle to put all my trust in the Lord and live holy for God. Learning to keep my flesh under control and not allow my flesh to control me by avoiding sleeping around with different women. God Bless you guys and I'll continue to listen 🙏

  • @Tywonbailey
    @Tywonbailey Год назад +22

    We need more episodes like this! When I first got married I thought all of the lust, thoughts and temptations will go away but not true!!!
    I love what you said in this episode about the same discipline we need when we are single is the same discipline we need when we are married and over the years I’ve realized how true that is.
    Thank you all for opening up and sharing this with us!

  • @curvybutfit8484
    @curvybutfit8484 10 месяцев назад +1

    I would love to hear Tabitha’s story . A show with her telling about her triumph battle ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @pamelaclark2188
    @pamelaclark2188 Год назад +2

    So helpful as a woman you got it wrong before BUT God! I am learning to wait well and trust God for my future spouse. 🙏🏽

  • @jlowetv
    @jlowetv 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love this conversation…it’s so real. Thanks for being real.

  • @uguruchiamakaeunice3821
    @uguruchiamakaeunice3821 11 месяцев назад +1

    This podcast was soooo helpful, Thank you so much sir, thank you so much ma'am ❤❤...God please help me to obey your commands always🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 and i rebuke the
    spirit of falling into sins 💔😭 because others are doing it

  • @sthompson8873
    @sthompson8873 Год назад +7

    Sooo good! Thank you both for your honesty and being so open to sharing your stories!

  • @chaliciamisick5621
    @chaliciamisick5621 3 месяца назад +1

    The Christian couple friends (in my mind) that I need !

  • @tonig6892
    @tonig6892 8 месяцев назад

    I love how real this conversation is. Thank you!

  • @lilyjohnson1411
    @lilyjohnson1411 4 месяца назад

    The Holy Spirit Led me back to this Podcast & God I thank you much much needed word I had missed the mark big time I messed up but I thank God for his Grace & Mercy & that he is the forgiver of our sins but Forgiveness does not mean that I take his Grace for granted. Thank You Both Man & Woman of God for your spiritual gems & giving us word to back up what you said 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @elizabethkomi9150
    @elizabethkomi9150 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you this was beautiful!!! I will continue to walk in faith🥰

  • @ObedientWon.
    @ObedientWon. Год назад +1

    Love this podcast! Keep going ! Hod bless you and everyone who comes in contact with this message ❤

    • @ObedientWon.
      @ObedientWon. Год назад

      God*** the devil is a lie 🗣️🙏🏾

  • @georgeblackwell4670
    @georgeblackwell4670 7 месяцев назад

    I’m going through a rough patch I. My marriage and this is golden information!what a blessing to to world you guys are!!!!

  • @itzlee6593
    @itzlee6593 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this Ken and Tabitha!!! Me and my girl got off to a rocky start as well but we will continue growing. I thank God for you, for her for sending this video, and for the grace of God that freed me from the bondage of sin. Thank you once again, ALL GLORY AND HONOR TO THE ONE TRUE GOD, the KING of kings… hallelujah!!!

  • @saimakafita8609
    @saimakafita8609 Год назад +2

    Thank you for the enlightening message....God bless y'all,sending love from Namibia 🇳🇦 😊

    • @upuisaupi340
      @upuisaupi340 Год назад +1

      NAMIBIAN team 💪🏾💪🏾❤️

  • @amoybrown4052
    @amoybrown4052 3 месяца назад

    This message was delivered with so much love and grace ❤

  • @LaKymana
    @LaKymana 11 месяцев назад

    God got with me about purity. I love this message and wish I had heard it in my youth ❤

  • @sibodee
    @sibodee Год назад +2

    I love you so so much, you're such an asset in the Kingdom. Let it shine 💪

  • @angelicalawino8817
    @angelicalawino8817 Год назад +1

    Amazing talk today!! Love from Iceland 🇮🇸🇮🇸🇮🇸🇮🇸

  • @DigsWigs2022
    @DigsWigs2022 8 месяцев назад

    This almost went south pretty fast. God save you guys.

  • @MrsSpurgeon222
    @MrsSpurgeon222 2 месяца назад

    ❤ The way Tab looks at Ken 🥰🫠

  • @ClarisaMann09
    @ClarisaMann09 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this powerful message. Not my will bit your will God!

  • @kimberlyjohnson1303
    @kimberlyjohnson1303 Год назад +1

    Thank you’ll for sharing the truth and love of Christ

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785 7 месяцев назад

    Really good conversation for marriages and how to make it stronger. Thank you. God bless🙏🏾

  • @DanielMunoz-sq6bh
    @DanielMunoz-sq6bh 6 месяцев назад +2

    I just went through a break up 3 months ago. We rushed into sex. And pretty much had sex almost every time we saw each other. Our conversations were about sex a lot. I’ve prayed soul tie prayer but still feel anxiety over relationship. It’s hard not missing her. But I’m trying to see that God saving me from that relationship but it’s hard to see it that way.

  • @40AndBecoming
    @40AndBecoming 11 месяцев назад +1

    I had to pause the broadcast at 31:52 into it because I felt were Tabitha was going or how she was feeling at that moment of hearing something “new” to her but “old” to ken. However, I totally agree with Ken that I’m that wife/woman that I don’t need to hear from my husband about any attractions towards another because I’m overcoming insecurity in myself and all that would do is give the devil grounds to play in my mind. Now would I want him to tell me yes lol but do I need to know absolutely NOT! Real talk. God working in me! Keep it 💯

  • @agnesr.4664
    @agnesr.4664 Год назад +1

    Beautiful teeth, Miss Tabatha! You're shining!!

  • @MY-hz5yw
    @MY-hz5yw Год назад

    Great information.... From a women's perspective (wife), great point Ken on being aware of the tricks of the enemy... Scripture Reminder, 2 Corinthians 10:5 and Scripture Take away, 1 Thessalonians 4:3... Thanks for taking this back to God's word....

  • @vadri20av
    @vadri20av Год назад

    Love this video, I pray to have a transparency and this great humor and honesty with my future spouse when the right one comes. Very great teaching and makes me feel like I am as well a human being. Not many churches or leaders teach any of this or even speak about this. God bless you two and to continue speaking and teaching with the word. ❤

  • @jumbojimbo3601
    @jumbojimbo3601 11 месяцев назад

    This is so needed! Your Podcast is such a blessing ❤ God continues to bless you 🙏

  • @bohdanasolovchuk9332
    @bohdanasolovchuk9332 Год назад +1

    Hi guys ❤ watching you from Ukraine and simply love what you are sharing 😊 thank you, God bless you. I believe you help me to be ready for Godly marriage 🙏

  • @marlinmelendez-laboymrs.pr9573
    @marlinmelendez-laboymrs.pr9573 10 месяцев назад +2

    There is no “my truth is!” I found truth is by reading the Word of Jesus. And yes the truth makes us free. By choice.

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo8910 5 месяцев назад

    12:17 ❤ powerful point

  • @jawandaboyd7505
    @jawandaboyd7505 11 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoy you guys podcast very informative and it speaks value to me❤

  • @MatrixRC
    @MatrixRC Год назад +6

    The holy scriptures says “Be not wise in your own eyes.” Just because you feel that what you are doing isn’t sin. Base it on what God say and not you.

  • @andreacobb973
    @andreacobb973 Год назад

    Thank you God for this message 😢I've been really struggling with this topic.

  • @kimberlytate2623
    @kimberlytate2623 Год назад +1

    I LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU BOTH🙏✝️❤😇👸

  • @godchild474
    @godchild474 Год назад +2

    Good morning Ken and Tabitha. First-time listener to your live podcast.

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 Год назад

    Knowing the truth is not about what's right or wrong it's about knowing the heart of God as our parent.
    Many of us know the law and what not to do but we don't have grace (understanding) and truth (why/how does God care?)

  • @CherryJ2911
    @CherryJ2911 5 месяцев назад

    Wow I really love your honesty

  • @Jozini_AOG
    @Jozini_AOG Год назад +1

    I love this channel.

  • @JesusSaves77799
    @JesusSaves77799 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video so much and am so grateful to both of you for making it! I just have a biblical question for you if you don’t mind? I am not trying to be argumentative, but I see on your Church website that you are both Pastors at your Church? Didn’t the Apostle Paul say that women are not supposed to be over men in the Church or to preach to them? Can you please advise on this concept? I just genuinely would like to know your thoughts? Again, both of your commentaries in this video were equally amazing. It’s just a question of confusion that I have regarding the Scripture’s teachings? Thank you very much! 🙏

  • @sibusisiweblessedngwenya7437
    @sibusisiweblessedngwenya7437 Год назад +1

    Great conversation, thanks for sharing.
    It would be great if you could link up the scriptures as you go along or write them in the description box ❤️

  • @exquisitejewelrikkei2957
    @exquisitejewelrikkei2957 Год назад +1

    ORU in the house!!! Whoop whoop!

  • @ashleysessoms4967
    @ashleysessoms4967 Год назад

    It’s like it’s easier said than done single vs married.

  • @absolutetreasures6877
    @absolutetreasures6877 Год назад

    I ❤you guys! Thank you so much for this teaching and message. I’ll be honest and say I’m a young widow and it’s so hard to remain to myself pending whenever I get married again not knowing if that will happen again, I’m hopeful, but it’s concerning.

  • @daciagrant5824
    @daciagrant5824 Год назад

    Thank you for keeping it real. 💯

  • @alljenniferis6394
    @alljenniferis6394 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this message ❤

  • @jennyakakwnwnwnww
    @jennyakakwnwnwnww Год назад +1

    So greatful for this podcast. Thank u❤

  • @ashleysessoms4967
    @ashleysessoms4967 Год назад +1

    Even a person who knows the word struggles BIG TIME

  • @dionnekidd7921
    @dionnekidd7921 10 месяцев назад

    Great job😊

  • @elleciarobinson8926
    @elleciarobinson8926 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @kamimaduka7339
    @kamimaduka7339 Год назад

    Thank you for this!!!

  • @sandrashavers1516
    @sandrashavers1516 7 месяцев назад

    Good Good!!

  • @ashleysessoms4967
    @ashleysessoms4967 Год назад +1

    I said this to a friend and man that was the end of us smh

  • @brunettecoleman8617
    @brunettecoleman8617 8 месяцев назад

    Flip the table Tabitha 😂😂😂😂😂. This is so good.

  • @dwaynesimonecowan4378
    @dwaynesimonecowan4378 7 месяцев назад

    I love listening to unfiltered truth, flaws and all. I just want to know something at the end of this podcast Pastor Ken ask to repeat a prayer then stated born again. Do you teach Acts 2:38. Just a question I love you both.

  • @4techologysolutions639
    @4techologysolutions639 Год назад

    Love you all’s conversation very very good info

  • @ihembasamapimbi178
    @ihembasamapimbi178 7 месяцев назад

    Great insights

  • @winnieglashious519
    @winnieglashious519 Год назад

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @hardythomas21
    @hardythomas21 7 месяцев назад +1

    Honestly i be lying to myself saying God will understand me satisfying myself since he knows my wife doesn't like sex and choose to only want it every blue moon since we got married. Now I'm tryna withhold from masterbation but it's very hard knowing i could be unsatisfied for weeks and sometimes months.

  • @lisasykes624
    @lisasykes624 3 месяца назад

    I had fun with you guys 😁

  • @kendrawilliams5703
    @kendrawilliams5703 Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @nurse_shellz
    @nurse_shellz 6 месяцев назад

    My mouth won’t even close after that statement 😂 I can hear pastor saying, “COME ON SOMEBODY” 😩

  • @ib4sports
    @ib4sports 6 месяцев назад +1

    I came here to confess my guilt to falling back into sexual lust and sin and masturbation. I am so exhausted on going in and out . doing well and feeling good about myself then I find myself drifting back looking at women in lingerie on the internet. I sometimes cant stop the urge. I am sick of this, I have let God down once more and I want to conquer this, I enjoy intimacy with my wife but when she is not in the mood I go back to pleasuring myself and feel guilt after. Lord I pray and ask for forgiveness I will not quit and will continue to pray to be delivered from this sin. Please forgive me father GOD , I will do better and fight this temptation. In your name I pray AMEN

  • @vivianngoato8669
    @vivianngoato8669 Год назад

    Powerful wish I could be part of the conversation 👌

  • @deshanaemcknight5903
    @deshanaemcknight5903 7 месяцев назад

    Hello, this have been a blessing already but what to do when you are separated and still married? What if the other partner is not doing anything about the separation?
    .😊

  • @Naylove_
    @Naylove_ Год назад

    Wise good podcast ❤🎉

  • @Simone-fi6mb
    @Simone-fi6mb Год назад

    I do enjoy this podcast and there are some things that are confirmation for me. I also felt it a little awkward when Ken asked Tabatha questions like if she was attracted to someone else or same sex,
    and it seemed to catch her off guard? I think couples doing a podcast together should already know what they’re going to ask each other and what’s going to be discussed beforehand so that the other isn’t caught off guard, just my thoughts.

  • @CharCharJars
    @CharCharJars Год назад

    New Subscriber here
    Not sure when I will email you all, nevertheless, I’m truly blessed & this brought me to a few tears, only for the conviction of the LORD. Yes standing in prayer to fight the good fight of faith 💪🏾 Thank you both for more than you know ❤🙏🏽

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo8910 5 месяцев назад

    16:08 wow 🤯

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 Год назад

    So good

  • @kansimepeninah3670
    @kansimepeninah3670 2 месяца назад

    Am trying to fight sexual lust sin but pipo it's the hardest l think. I try and fail try again fail this time l want it to end

  • @just_don94
    @just_don94 Год назад

    Love the convo! But what are some actual steps someone can take to avoid it?

    • @EmmanuelAhmadu-bq2us
      @EmmanuelAhmadu-bq2us Год назад +1

      1. Go on a retreat immediately; at least 1 day to listen to teachings like this, pray for God's mercy and grace etc.
      2. Pursue knowledge. Watch videos and listen to teachings on sexual immorality.
      3. In partnership with the Holy Spirit, identify your triggers to sexual sin and set clear boundaries.
      4. Join a community of believers; a church or something.
      I hope this helps. ♥️

  • @86Kera
    @86Kera 8 месяцев назад +1

    lol yall are so cute “ who was it ?!” 😂

  • @rickyobein012340
    @rickyobein012340 11 дней назад

    1 John 3:4 sin is transgression of the law

  • @GODSEYES22
    @GODSEYES22 Год назад +3

    I did not watch this one and although I have been abstinent for almost 5 years. I find it a bit annoying that people especially people like Ken that put such a sexual burden on their spouse to be available everytime they are horny which from his own accounts appear to be often and then tell others NOT to focus, worry or have sex themselves. Plus they all sinned prior and NOW want to counsel others for sake of a topic to do what they have never done. Stay close to GOD and listen for his instructions.

  • @gonzalynnet6101
    @gonzalynnet6101 Год назад

    😂😂😂this conversation gave me a good laugh...but am happy I learned something

  • @garyjones6114
    @garyjones6114 Месяц назад +1

    You guys are missing a lot I feel. I’m not done with the video but you are speaking from a place that’s above your viewers. Not having your needs met can be painstaking. Temptation doesn’t just show up to be easily turned away from. You can blow over adultery like “you just shouldn’t do it because it bad and your soul is being destroyed”. Dive into the painfulness of it and how to preserve! Some dudes are legit practicing absence in their marriages. What then? I’m happy for you and your wife but not everyone has it that good.

  • @James_follows_Christ
    @James_follows_Christ 11 месяцев назад +1

    When Brother Ken’s wife told him about the dream about her cheating on him and he says “who was it”🤣🤣

  • @milankemp1883
    @milankemp1883 10 месяцев назад +1

    Just my opinion, but the temptation of sexual sin for a single person is more difficult because if you are practicing abstinence there’s this desire to give yourself permission to “slip up”. In marriage, you at least have someone to legally have sex with. A single person has no one at all to legally have sex with. One is the desire of excess and the other is complete absence, nada, zero.
    Nonetheless, the peace, grace, and mercy of God are worth the abstinence.

    • @milankemp1883
      @milankemp1883 10 месяцев назад +1

      @shannendaniels6175 absolutely of course

  • @nurse_shellz
    @nurse_shellz 6 месяцев назад

    “If we died in a car accident, I didn’t even know how to minister to bring you over to salvation”……WHAT….🔥🔥🔥
    Uh YEAH…Let me go have a sidebar with my GOD lol cause baby, this is thee only way🙌🏾😩