This just blessed me in many ways! Changed my viewpoint about sex, intimacy and the beauty of sex that God intended. This makes me want to wait for my husband even more👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I appreciate your transparency here, especially as Pastors. Good sex talk is a taboo in the Church because some leaders believe if they speak on it then those listening will have an image in their heads but that’s baloney! We are adults and married. As you’ve shared, Christian sex should be better than Carnal sex. Also, Women’s bodies do change due to birthing children and health challenges, myself included. I do commend Pastor Tabitha being comfortable with Pastor Ken speaking about her phases. Love this episode & podcast so much. 💗💗💗
I enjoyed this conversation so much, I just had a smile on my face the whole time, I am a single woman, so most of the times, I try not to think about sex, because I had to overcome the spirit of lust and I try not to think about it because of that, but this video just opened up some things for me, that sex could be satisfying and pure in the right context and that is marriage, thank you so much.
i’m a birth doula & i recommend that women should see a pelvic floor therapist if they’re having trouble enjoying the process from a pain standpoint especially if you abstained before marriage.
I come across you all pod cast yesterday and I have been glued to you both!! Thank you for being so transparent and speaking on topics The Church shy away from even sex with married couples. I honestly feel like if these talks are had in The Church, a lot of marriages would be saved.
You are my best couple ever, I love how transparent you are to each other & to your listeners. Your love & respect for each other is evident & tangible. Your communication skills, your wisdom my goodness it is out of this world.. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. I love you love you love you lots. 😘😘😘 . I am sold.
This topic need to be taught in church everyday, love your vibes, sex should not be boring to married couple because you are legal , I desire a husband but waiting on God, continue to teach love you both
I never knew I needed to listen to your talk until today. Churches will only scratch the surface by bringing up the "our bodies belong to each other" topic but not really bringing up concrete applicable examples, so it leaves me wondering, well what does that look like in day to day life? And in different seasons of life? You paint the picture so clearly and me as a fairly new wife going on year 3 having sexual struggles, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I love this! You guys should look into “theology of the body” book in which breaks down marital sex and biblical teachings! Helped me heal from the way I grew up feeling shameful on the topic of sex
Thank you so much for your transparency. It is such a breath of fresh air to hear this conversation on sex being spoke of without it feeling inappropriate or “taboo”.
I thank you for the scriptures that you gave Proverbs and Songs of Solomon, you know as I grew up I never heard about any of these scriptures, this topic is really appreciate
Yes, freedom! I keep coming for more podcasts 😂 Actually what bought me here first was the "Breaking Soul Ties" sermon, and since then, I've been hooked 😊😊
I understand and know my own body very well but it hardly happens every time for me. Even if my man does his best it seems like my body needs a certain amount of time in between sessions to "recharge" its sexual energy and this is not as frequent as multiple times a week. When I do feel "charged" it takes just a few minutes, when I don't, it is impossible. Am I the only one?
These are powerful and needed discussion. We are watching in Africa. Can you also talk about the importance of attraction because i think people just go along with a relationship even when there is no sexual attraction...enjoy the idea of marriage only to suffer when they realize they cannot play along anymore.
Thank you for sharing this information. I'm a Single woman who prays that when my FUTURE HUSBAND comes into my life. We have Satisfied Sex Life. And not get anger or become upset to go outside of Marriage
Just found this series this week and have learned so much. I appreciate you giving detailed tips/examples and highlighting a woman’s experience. This talk is none other I’ve found. Thanks much
I just want to tell you both, that you have been a blessing to me and ready to put a lot of this in my marriage. Grateful your video popped up on my RUclips
This is and was extremely helpful. Blessed with a man that has a lot of this knowledge and I am learning. Through this podcast I’m learning that I really do need to sit down with my husband and discuss this.
Thank you! I loved hearing your experiences. What I love most is that I can relate and feel better equipped to have the conversation with my husband about satisfying sex.
That was good to even talk about soul ties with friends. My best friend and I are so connected sometimes we even crave the same foods on the same day! Needed this!
Thank you so much for being so transparent! It’s so inspiring to see a healthy Christian marriage.. question “How would you approach your spouse with the topic of fasting from sex during a fast? “
Just communicate that me and my wife whenever I fast have that conversation. Your spouse should always be understanding of your feelings and how you wish to strength yourself for God
I love this !!! I will definitely be watching and keeping up with you all !! Can we talk about how you stay intimate before marriage and have a healthy relationship without sex ?
Pastor Ken, You and Co-pastor Tabatha are doing an excellent job with the podcasts and I have gained so much spiritually. This podcast was for married couples, do you have a podcast that speaks to singles and dating?
Thank you for this ! I found you guys not to long ago and after searching and searching for the right people to teach me about this stuff im glad The lord put you guys in my patch!
Hi guys love you and your content lots. Can you pls increase your volume. it's kinda low and I'm home alone, I guess I'm gonna struggle hearing you when out around people
Thank you ❤thank you ❤for being transparent. I’m single and learning!! I’m 45 years but I still pray for husband. I would love to hear how should a single person deal with wanting to have sex but don’t have a spouse or mate to fulfill their needs ❤
Hi Ken and Tabatha ❤ Love your honesty and sharing your experiences… Pastors should be more open about this topic that the young generation can see the beautifulness of sex under the covenant of marriage between husband and wife. I have a question 🙋🏽♀️ Can you have a soul time with someone you were only talking,texting and catching up with them a few times in 1.5yrs.. Or Is soul ties only a physical thing? As we never did anything like that… Thankyou Much Luv from Downunder Anà 😊
Very authentic beautiful couple There is an instinct in me that taps into her brain & brand being capsulated on screen is all I mean I love his lead without 'anyways' and abrumpt prompts & would prefer more expansion from both parties bc hes not a bad man and shes an exceptional woman Very blessed couple
There is so many stereotypes and phenomenons or phobia about sex talk and transparency and honest in God and where is as humanity originated everything about us comes from God the feminine and masculine spirits that God created.
I love I found this channel It have really open my eyes on how to enjoy my husband sexually the godly way I was on my way home from work an I was scrolling through RUclips an your channel was on an I listen to an love ❤️ what I was hearing thanks it’s really give you something to think about blessings to you both ❤
37:13 it takes a long time and sometimes the man runs out of patience and i just conclude there's something wrong with me. It was an older woman who taught me that the sex only becomes better as your bodies become attuned and you have sex more often. It made sense.
More Please!!!!!! Never had such an open conversation between husband and wife it's always a host and guest! This was just amazing from start to finish and thank you for the coconut oil tip😊 already sent this to my Fiancé. We are waiting but,after this,the rest of our lives gon be liit😊 Wow Thank you so much please share more on this and conflict management and finances
Such a great series! If possible could y'all do a series on sex and try to replicate what was taught to you guys from the older couple from the church.... Or arrive version of it.
People i remeber i looked up p at age 13 because i wanted to " learn " how and what to do. I felt everyone else around me knew what i was so innocent to. From there that started the actual daily addiction. 11 years later .. back sliding and fighting the good fight. THATS all people know. Thats why i looked it up to learn. But as for Christans NO ONE talks about it or HOW to do it righteously , satisfyingly and lovingly. Truthfully I believe that God Almighty has to be the center of your heart your eyes your ears and your tongue. Jesus must reside there. The way that I believe scripture says it is it is something that Derives from loyalty it is something that is driven by love. For people who are not attracted to people unless they are in love with that person and when they have a partner they're not attracted to others It's very easy for these people to find even the weirdest or quirkiest things about their partner or their spouse So attractive that it makes them feel love acting love and therefore they get fulfillment and satisfaction from pleasing their partner or even just looking at their partner it is something that comes from exclusiveness and individuality because if another person have the same feature as that person's partner it would not Fulfill them it would not satisfy them it would not turn them on it would not attract them in any way shape or form it would probably discuss them because true love and satisfaction especially in the bedroom comes and stems from faithfulness and loyalty these are the ways that I personally believe are righteous and will glorify the Lord Because it is selfless. Here is an example. Someone may " like " curly hair but their partner has scruffy hair and they start to love srcuffy hair because its on THEM and THEIR person and simply no longer find curly hair sttractive because it is outside the walls and means of THEIR person which they love and will or have become one with in bibical Holy Marriage. Communcation Strengthens this in all aspects. Rebuke And denounce comparison out of your heart out of your eyes out of your mind and away from your ears rebuke comparison away because comparison of yourself is extremely detrimental the same way that it could be if you have a partner or if you have a house or if you have a car and you silently judge or compare it to other peoples On a constant basis or every once in a while you must pluck that out and rewrote that because that's the only way that you're going to be content and satisfied with who you are and what you have and what God has for you because it is personal just the same way that your relationship with the Lord is personal and you will have to take accountability for your actions and your sins and everything that you've ever said and done in your entire life to the Lord nobody else is going to stand there with you.
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These conversations need to be had because the enemy can get a foothold in Christian marriages because of lack of sexual knowledge.
Amen 🙏🏾
This was mind-blowing. I never had oral sex explained from a biblical perspective..
This just blessed me in many ways! Changed my viewpoint about sex, intimacy and the beauty of sex that God intended. This makes me want to wait for my husband even more👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Stay tuned for a new episode today :)
I appreciate your transparency here, especially as Pastors. Good sex talk is a taboo in the Church because some leaders believe if they speak on it then those listening will have an image in their heads but that’s baloney! We are adults and married. As you’ve shared, Christian sex should be better than Carnal sex. Also, Women’s bodies do change due to birthing children and health challenges, myself included. I do commend Pastor Tabitha being comfortable with Pastor Ken speaking about her phases. Love this episode & podcast so much. 💗💗💗
Yes, there's a difference from having lustful sex and making God given intimate love.
I enjoyed this conversation so much, I just had a smile on my face the whole time, I am a single woman, so most of the times, I try not to think about sex, because I had to overcome the spirit of lust and I try not to think about it because of that, but this video just opened up some things for me, that sex could be satisfying and pure in the right context and that is marriage, thank you so much.
i’m a birth doula & i recommend that women should see a pelvic floor therapist if they’re having trouble enjoying the process from a pain standpoint especially if you abstained before marriage.
Such great advice!
I come across you all pod cast yesterday and I have been glued to you both!! Thank you for being so transparent and speaking on topics The Church shy away from even sex with married couples. I honestly feel like if these talks are had in The Church, a lot of marriages would be saved.
WE NEED TO SEE MORE CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE THAT IS CONTENDING GOD WAY
You are my best couple ever, I love how transparent you are to each other & to your listeners. Your love & respect for each other is evident & tangible. Your communication skills, your wisdom my goodness it is out of this world.. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. I love you love you love you lots. 😘😘😘 . I am sold.
This topic need to be taught in church everyday, love your vibes, sex should not be boring to married couple because you are legal , I desire a husband but waiting on God, continue to teach love you both
Yes the world shouldn't have better sex than covenant marriages
I’m ready for the husband God has for me!!!!
I love the girlfriend boyfriend comment ❤ I’ve been married to my husband for 32 years and I totally agree sex is better between us. ❤
I never knew I needed to listen to your talk until today. Churches will only scratch the surface by bringing up the "our bodies belong to each other" topic but not really bringing up concrete applicable examples, so it leaves me wondering, well what does that look like in day to day life? And in different seasons of life? You paint the picture so clearly and me as a fairly new wife going on year 3 having sexual struggles, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
When she says boyfruend girlfriend. I relate it to a feeling of newness, and closeness.
Tabatha you’re glowing 😍
I LOVE the transparency and open dialogue 😂
Macy’s…couple massage…lol
I love this! You guys should look into “theology of the body” book in which breaks down marital sex and biblical teachings! Helped me heal from the way I grew up feeling shameful on the topic of sex
Thank you!! We’ll look into it
Good lookin! ❤
Thank you so much for your transparency. It is such a breath of fresh air to hear this conversation on sex being spoke of without it feeling inappropriate or “taboo”.
“That’s exactly what we should do take a break and let me blow on your garden” 😂😂
😂
I thank you for the scriptures that you gave Proverbs and Songs of Solomon, you know as I grew up I never heard about any of these scriptures, this topic is really appreciate
🗣️Free God’s people y’all
Thanks so much for this teaching ♥️❤️
So glad it was helpful!
Yes, freedom! I keep coming for more podcasts 😂 Actually what bought me here first was the "Breaking Soul Ties" sermon, and since then, I've been hooked 😊😊
23years ❤❤❤❤❤❤ amazing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
All I have to say is that you guys are a breath of fresh air.
This so real that sometimes it’s uncomfortable but that is what’s needed!!!
I understand and know my own body very well but it hardly happens every time for me. Even if my man does his best it seems like my body needs a certain amount of time in between sessions to "recharge" its sexual energy and this is not as frequent as multiple times a week. When I do feel "charged" it takes just a few minutes, when I don't, it is impossible. Am I the only one?
These are powerful and needed discussion. We are watching in Africa. Can you also talk about the importance of attraction because i think people just go along with a relationship even when there is no sexual attraction...enjoy the idea of marriage only to suffer when they realize they cannot play along anymore.
Loved the transparency of this conversation
Awesome! I’m sharing to my Marriage Rocks! Let’s Stay Together group.
Thank you for sharing this information. I'm a Single woman who prays that when my FUTURE HUSBAND comes into my life. We have Satisfied Sex Life. And not get anger or become upset to go outside of Marriage
Love you guys, appreciate your honesty, Tabitha thank you so much for talking about your cancer experience x
Thank you! You guys are (as they say in the Bronx), “Da Bomb” thank you again!
Just found this series this week and have learned so much. I appreciate you giving detailed tips/examples and highlighting a woman’s experience. This talk is none other I’ve found. Thanks much
So glad you are enjoying our channel! 🙏🏾
I smile while watching you guys ❤❤❤i thank to God i found you guys
This was great content. Just Dope! Thank you both for being so transparent.
Absolutely love you guys and this episode!!!! I learned so much. Thank you Pastors Tabatha and Ken 💕
Thank you for your transparency on this topic for Christian marriage. Love you guys. ♥️🙏🏾
I just want to tell you both, that you have been a blessing to me and ready to put a lot of this in my marriage. Grateful your video popped up on my RUclips
8:36 I had a double mastectomy this is really helping
This is and was extremely helpful. Blessed with a man that has a lot of this knowledge and I am learning. Through this podcast I’m learning that I really do need to sit down with my husband and discuss this.
Glad to hear this is helping! praying for you and your marriage
This is good ! Thank you! I was a virgin when I got married and I don’t know certain things that I “ do like “
Thank you for being so transparent. We really need this conversation.
This was very real and thank you for interjecting your personal feelings as well as keeping the focus on GOD
Thank you! I loved hearing your experiences. What I love most is that I can relate and feel better equipped to have the conversation with my husband about satisfying sex.
Amen! Glad this was helpful to you
Thank you...This will help so many marriages gain a true understanding
This topic is needed in the church ❤for our married family….you guys are very transparent great teaching 🙏
Tabatha is talking about sustaining romance when she says boyfriend/girlfriend as I hear her.
Thank you for sharing your life with us and teaching us God's ways . God bless you both
I really love this couple😍😍..This is one very important topic that is not really talked about in church..
That was good to even talk about soul ties with friends. My best friend and I are so connected sometimes we even crave the same foods on the same day! Needed this!
Thank you so much for being so transparent! It’s so inspiring to see a healthy Christian marriage.. question “How would you approach your spouse with the topic of fasting from sex during a fast? “
Just communicate that me and my wife whenever I fast have that conversation. Your spouse should always be understanding of your feelings and how you wish to strength yourself for God
7:16 omg I almost spit out my coffee laughing when tab said there tOtAlLy different 😂 - oh how I can relate after having my baby lol ❤
Wooow... These guys are so amazing.
I love this !!! I will definitely be watching and keeping up with you all !!
Can we talk about how you stay intimate before marriage and have a healthy relationship without sex ?
Soooo informative! 🤓
Thank you, thank you, thank youuuu!!! 😊
Thank you for this great information I am doing this process, immediately after I am married am greatful ❤
Pastor Ken, You and Co-pastor Tabatha are doing an excellent job with the podcasts and I have gained so much spiritually. This podcast was for married couples, do you have a podcast that speaks to singles and dating?
Thank you for this ! I found you guys not to long ago and after searching and searching for the right people to teach me about this stuff im
glad The lord put you guys in my patch!
Q & A please !
“Let Jesus be at the center of your sex life”
Hi guys love you and your content lots. Can you pls increase your volume. it's kinda low and I'm home alone, I guess I'm gonna struggle hearing you when out around people
I love it when they get into these lovely Godly arguments 😍 😂😂😂 like the "boyfriend/girlfriend argument"
Thanks for keeping it real and 💯!
CAN WE PLEASE HAVE PART 3 😂😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing.
Yes if you cant find it in the word that will never pass away dont do it but if you have a covenant marriage nothing is taboo
This was helpful, thanks for sharing. God bless you
Thank you ❤thank you ❤for being transparent. I’m single and learning!! I’m 45 years but I still pray for husband. I would love to hear how should a single person deal with wanting to have sex but don’t have a spouse or mate to fulfill their needs ❤
The very fact that his condition has not killed his spirit………ok that’s the definition of ENDURANCE.
Once again, another awesome job, I appreciate you both
As usual great content,this was a blessing to me. Thank you
Great insights
Hi Ken and Tabatha ❤
Love your honesty and sharing your experiences…
Pastors should be more open about this topic that the young generation can see the beautifulness of sex under the covenant of marriage between husband and wife.
I have a question 🙋🏽♀️
Can you have a soul time with someone you were only talking,texting and catching up with them a few times in 1.5yrs..
Or
Is soul ties only a physical thing?
As we never did anything like that…
Thankyou
Much Luv from Downunder
Anà 😊
Husband and wife must be on one Accord well balance Healed from the inside out and God first.
🎉awesome testimony
Excellent content
Very authentic beautiful couple
There is an instinct in me that taps into her brain & brand being capsulated on screen is all I mean
I love his lead without 'anyways' and abrumpt prompts & would prefer more expansion from both parties bc hes not a bad man and shes an exceptional woman
Very blessed couple
Amen very true what you both say everything contributes to what sex is mostly God bless marriage
There is so many stereotypes and phenomenons or phobia about sex talk and transparency and honest in God and where is as humanity originated everything about us comes from God the feminine and masculine spirits that God created.
Woman looking as beautiful as ever again ❤
I love I found this channel It have really open my eyes on how to enjoy my husband sexually the godly way I was on my way home from work an I was scrolling through RUclips an your channel was on an I listen to an love ❤️ what I was hearing thanks it’s really give you something to think about blessings to you both ❤
37:13 it takes a long time and sometimes the man runs out of patience and i just conclude there's something wrong with me.
It was an older woman who taught me that the sex only becomes better as your bodies become attuned and you have sex more often.
It made sense.
More Please!!!!!! Never had such an open conversation between husband and wife it's always a host and guest! This was just amazing from start to finish and thank you for the coconut oil tip😊 already sent this to my Fiancé. We are waiting but,after this,the rest of our lives gon be liit😊 Wow Thank you so much please share more on this and conflict management and finances
Thank you so much, God bless you
So true do it God's way.
ENJOY YOUR CONTENT YOUR HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL MOST OF ALL I LIKE YOU ARE A WOMEN OF GOD !! REFRESHING PODCAST
A quickie is da bomb
Very interesting.
So! I love it!
❤️
Where in the Bible does it speak about oral sex? I was to interested that i didn’t write it down lol these are good things to know
As a married couple is it ok to use toys during sex? Is there biblical reference saying no or yes?
This was good
Such a great series!
If possible could y'all do a series on sex and try to replicate what was taught to you guys from the older couple from the church.... Or arrive version of it.
I love this 💚
People i remeber i looked up p at age 13 because i wanted to " learn " how and what to do. I felt everyone else around me knew what i was so innocent to.
From there that started the actual daily addiction. 11 years later .. back sliding and fighting the good fight.
THATS all people know. Thats why i looked it up to learn. But as for Christans NO ONE talks about it or HOW to do it righteously , satisfyingly and lovingly.
Truthfully I believe that God Almighty has to be the center of your heart your eyes your ears and your tongue. Jesus must reside there.
The way that I believe scripture says it is it is something that Derives from loyalty it is something that is driven by love. For people who are not attracted to people unless they are in love with that person and when they have a partner they're not attracted to others It's very easy for these people to find even the weirdest or quirkiest things about their partner or their spouse So attractive that it makes them feel love acting love and therefore they get fulfillment and satisfaction from pleasing their partner or even just looking at their partner it is something that comes from exclusiveness and individuality because if another person have the same feature as that person's partner it would not Fulfill them it would not satisfy them it would not turn them on it would not attract them in any way shape or form it would probably discuss them because true love and satisfaction especially in the bedroom comes and stems from faithfulness and loyalty these are the ways that I personally believe are righteous and will glorify the Lord Because it is selfless.
Here is an example.
Someone may " like " curly hair but their partner has scruffy hair and they start to love srcuffy hair because its on THEM and THEIR person and simply no longer find curly hair sttractive because it is outside the walls and means of THEIR person which they love and will or have become one with in bibical Holy Marriage.
Communcation Strengthens this in all aspects.
Rebuke And denounce comparison out of your heart out of your eyes out of your mind and away from your ears rebuke comparison away because comparison of yourself is extremely detrimental the same way that it could be if you have a partner or if you have a house or if you have a car and you silently judge or compare it to other peoples On a constant basis or every once in a while you must pluck that out and rewrote that because that's the only way that you're going to be content and satisfied with who you are and what you have and what God has for you because it is personal just the same way that your relationship with the Lord is personal and you will have to take accountability for your actions and your sins and everything that you've ever said and done in your entire life to the Lord nobody else is going to stand there with you.
Y’all are so amazing! I’m on the part of the breasts lol so candid-so open and genuine! Smh! Thank y’all!
I struggle with the concepts of "dity talk". We would like to encourage each other during sex but now sure what to say. Is that something that's ok?
Are yall living in orlando?
😂 this episode... God bless you always 😂
AMEN‼️