5 Things Every Woman NEEDS to Know About a Man // Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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1) He is not a woman
2) He is under a lot of pressure. More than you will know.
3) He doesn’t want to “deal”with the woman when he gets home. He needs to decompress.
4) He doesn’t need another mother. He needs a helper.
5) He needs to be honored and respected. Acknowledged.
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Amen I don't want to be contentious with my husband because he has to go out in the world and navigate especially a black man to provide for me so it's important that we do just this
What happens if it’s the woman who has to go out “conquer the world” to provide for her family? Too many disturbing presumptions in this message
@yemi6184 if that woman agreed with the man before she married or even after his leader which is God will show him how to lighten her role that keeps her covered and supported in every way some men stay home and take care of the children because her skills set makes the most money but that man is not to be devalued in that setup he is still the head
😂I think you put up the 5 bullet point summary on the women's side of this. Thanks. I move quickly and before I had time to sit and dive deeper, this helps.
**edit, no it was someone else, but thanks still applies.**
Some gems were dropped. My advice is to Ask God to make u a better wife and He will. If ur husband is getting on ur nerves, ask God to work on u. Not him. Through all my years of marriage one revelations I’ve gotten is if I do right in my marriage, God will honor me. Even if u have a husband who is not doing right. U continue to be the wife God called u to be and watch Him bless u.
I’m divorced for 7 years this year… I feel like I owe my ex an apology after listening to this wisdom😮, thank you guys. I love you two❤
I apologized after 6 years of being divorced to my ex . It was a relief and lifted a burden. The marriage did not end because of one person. Pride and ego and not forgiving can burden us … ❤
That would be very wise. Please do! May God heal your hearts and restore your home
@@lucyr1822glad you did. It takes courage and humility to do that and I pray God heals your hearts and home
Yes, I'm in the same position. My ex hunsband and I both realised how much we did not understand each other. I have learned so much, I'm now in Christ, I know now my role as a women for his kingdom. In jesus name. Amen ❤
Amen I'm with you once I learned from a damaged man that nothing I did he couldn't trust me so I prayed to God and seeing you say this I agree I damaged my ex-husband
A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down. Women will not submit to her husband if he does not work and provides for her family. Thanks for sharing.
She is definitely a traditional wife…. Working on myself to become like this
Awareness is so good, I’m happy for you Beautiful Ashley🌹, you’re well on your way!
This was so refreshing. I felt the Holy Spirit tell me you are closer to marriage because now I have a revelation on how to be a good wife
Praise God, I'm hoping and praying for you, I hope that your life has become wonderful as you have grown in your walk with the Lord. God bless your marriage ❤️
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I love how Tabatha looks at her husband...you can tell how much she adores him. I hope she gets the same, she looks like a sweet soul🌼🌼🌼
I agree I noticed that too I pray and hope soon woman needs so much love and affection God committed it is in the word of God pray that it’s genuine, and we supplicate🙏🏼🥰
I noticed that too 😊
It's just hit me that God intended for me to come across your channel. When you said you pray and ask God to let the right persons watch your videos, I see this as a sign to an answered prayer. I'm watching and learning what I need to work on in my life. Thank you Pastors 🙏
We love to hear it!
Watching you both pour into me such good
advice is so nice,and I thank God for pushing those buttons in my life. Keep up the good work.
I have just announced that we are starting Gloria night is back at our home Thanks for the idea!
Yes the world says the algorithm I see God's divine intervention
Pre-marital counselling is so important.
21 years married - hubby and I have had NO pre counselling cause our foundation is the same. God is the head of our marriage- and because of that I e going strong. It ain’t perfect but I can’t imagine being with anyone else and he always let me know how much he loves and appreciate me. Counselling is a good thing, but not everyone needs it 😊
This was so good. I realize I was helping the enemy break down my husband. We're not going out like that!! Thank you!
I wish I had this wisdom earlier in my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 40 years but am seeing so many mistakes that I have made. Keep bringing these messages and pray for me that I will make the changes that I need to see my marriage flourish. In the name of Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽
I want value back in my marriage
Before now, Iv'e never been into podcasts, BUT, I've been addicted to you guys since Wednesday 10/12/23 of this week. Thank you lovely people. I'm a Single woman using my single season to prepare for my Boaz.
Wow this was an amazing conversation, I really didn’t want it to end. As a 23 yr old engaged woman this gave me a lot to think about in terms of how to ensure that my man feels valued, respected , and honored and being able to set the tone of the atmosphere of the home. Thank you for this wisdom🙌🏾✨
A man doesn’t need another mother. Some men need to hear that because that’s what he is expecting from his wife. Would love to hear this from the dynamic of today where most woman are working and some cases the bread winner
Some men expect this but some women impose it without their man wanting that. Regardless it’s never good
I percieve rhat the Holy spirit is preparing me now for marriage...i had fear and anxiety about marriage before i came across this channel and was praying to get a marriage coach and here i found one.. Thank you Lord. .
Girl I had to stop this video to respond on your comment I am in the same season as you and I must say it is not what I had imagined being an way what I am struggling with now is that I feel like I am not ready and I feel like I am still to broken to have someone close to me like that and also I don't want to break any one else around me I did take those fear or these struggles to the the lord just letting him know how I really feel so I get you sis honestly I do 🇿🇦
2 days ago I made a statement and the Holyghost rebuked me immediately. I have never been one to watch or listen to marriage anything but ooohh the Holyghost sent my behind to RUclips and I have learnt a lot in the last 24 hours and the devil has fled away because I now have the knowledge on how to be that helper to my husband and how he can support me. ❤❤❤❤
I am learning so much. The Lord is really preparing me for marriage. This was so good 🎉🎉🎉
Swear 😌 I called my engagement off the other day and I’m here realizing I just didn’t understand my man.
❤ God is LITTERLY speaking to me. He always been there.. He loves me soo much. God sees my heart, God knows my prayers, God opens my eyes! God is indescribable AMAZING!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Purposely passing gas and not picking up after ourselves in front of anyone is inappropriate regardless of our gender.
It’s more about living more like CHRIST by being more considerate of each other as CHRIST is considerate of us even though He created us.
As a man I agree. I think farting around others is gross and inconsiderate and leaving things everywhere is inconsiderate as well. However I do think there is room for understanding from both men and women. My wife understands that messiness does not give me anxiety the same way it gives her anxiety. So I try to help keep our home clean to absolve her anxieties and she doesn’t get mad at me if I happen to leave a few things out.
I watched one episode and now I cannot stop but binge watching. I am fasting in social media, worldly songs even worldy books. And I am listening to podcast and watching this is life chaging.❤❤
You need to tell on sin before sin tells on you woooo! That’s a word!!
What a blessing to hear this, we have been married 37 years. But, you have spoken life into our lives.
Thank you
I am no longer with my sons dad but I will always respect and love him for being an incredible father. Our son is so blessed
This next level communication. I’ve been married for 8 years and I can honestly say ive have a long way to go with understanding. Thank y’all for the vulnerability and transparency 🙏.
I just love you both so much! I’m a single mom of 2 girls and trying to become the wife God has called me to be to the husband I know he has created me for. Tabitha, talk about a Proverbs 31 woman! You remind me so much of my mom and how submissive and supportive she is to my dad. I pray I carry that same anointing and that God will use me as a strategic helpmate for my future husband and for His kingdom. God bless your beautiful marriage and family. Love y’all 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
Single mommy of 1 girl here! I am praying for us! I’ve followed this couple recently in hopes of learning to do better! Candice God is going to lead us to our kingdom marriages on His perfect timing
I had the opportunity to meet Pastor Tabatha this past weekend. She’s such a sweet soul! Prayerfully, marriage isn’t that far down the road for me, and this episode helped me so much! Thank you Pastor Ken & Pastor Tabatha!🤍
Your channel is underrated I’m on my fourth consecutive video and I’m so happy for it! Such a blessing to the body!!!
I want this for my daughter 😔. Her dad and I need so much healing.
praying for healing in your relationship!
Some boat😢
Amazing! I loveeeeee the example of honor this wife gives her husband. Us young daughters need more of her counsel. Teach us woman of God!
@ 10:56 I took a pause to get myself together. I did not know what is was like to have a dad growing up, mine was in prison. We were introduced at the age of 13. My dad was released when I was 18. It was the best day and year of my life!!! Then, what happened broke my heart into a million pieces….the cops killed my daddy. They shattered my dreams. I am 56 , 10:59 10:59 and I miss him so much. I am grateful that God is my Heavenly Father. Thank you for giving me the language of how to express what I was missing. ❤❤😢❤❤
if my husband say i am attracted to this woman! sorry i dont want to know that! i dont come to my husband and tell how many men shot there shot! ow no! abraham never told his wife that he was going to crucify his only child to his wife. you saying my husband cant shut his mouth about his temptation lol but i love the conversation! she is level headed and great wife!
I wouldn't want to know either. He needs to take that burden and leave it at the cross. Im a woman not Jesus.
My point exactly....keep it between you and God.
This is my first time listening to you guys, but can I tell you I enjoyed your wisdom. As a divorced woman of many years I desire to marry again and be the best wife I can the second time around!! Thank you so much for sharing and doing it in such a beautiful way❤️🙌🏾🙏🏽.... Many more Blessings to you both!!!
Wisdom here. I am really learning to better me waiting. This is going to be God way
I love the content in your videos. One thing that I'd like to add is that "It takes 2 to make a thing go right." Either partner can give their ALL in making a relationship/marriage successful, HOWEVER, if only one is doing the work, it's doomed to fail. That's reality. Or, you stay... just because, and there's no peace, joy, or success in that. KEEP IT COMING....WE'RE LEARNING AND GROWING ❤
You are in my mind. It takes two to tango. It becomes a burden when you are giving without receiving.
WoW ❤
My first time here, praying GOD prepares me like this as I also prepare for the godly man HE has for me.
This was very transparent, transformative & beautiful
Yesterday the holy spirit told me that I need to unlearn and relearn what love is about. And he told me to spend days learning what God says about love and true companion. And I got this video.
This was after I complained about my failed relationship😅
Wow God will always come through 🙏🏾
The value of this practical, down-to-earth conversation is immeasurable! 💪🏼💪🏼
Thank you for a tool that can be used by couples who sincerely desire to do marriage well. I believe that the couple who listens to this open and honest dialogue together can use it to jumpstart their own conversation customized for their marriage where they can be “naked and not ashamed” (Genesis 2:25).
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So true! Well said!🙌🏾♥️
Yes, telling me he was attracted to another woman has happened. I created a safe space for him to speak. We discussed things about her and we were able to find the root, we were able to pray about it and break a soul tie. He felt free to talk to me about a lot of things until drugs got involved. When drug use began there was no saving the marriage after all the deceit, shame, dangers that came with the drug use. We are no longer married, but before drugs, the marriage was a safe place for us to communicate. We did discuss the beginning of drug use as well but he succumbed fully to it. I chose to let him go for my own safety.
So very refreshing to see a Godly couple that can give inspiration of insight in a Godly covenant relationship/marriage(s). Blessings 💕💖💖💖💖💖
So much relevance spoken.
So glad I found this channel. I first watched 10 ways to prepare yourself for marriage. Thank you for this channel in general🙏🏾 and letting God use you two
Glad to have you here!
Wow!!! The empowerment of women is not the undermining of men!! Exactly!!!
I love them....just started listening to them yesterday.....thank you....now until my husband finds me❤
Having a well-rounded present father is important not just a father. I grew up with my dad from the age of 10. He was a single parent. At the age of 32, I had to unlearn certain behaviors and thought patterns I learned from him. I was told I can be harsh and lack emotion. I didn't know how to connect emotionally to people or even receive physical affection. I didn't know how to express my emotions. I didn't receive those from him. I am still learning.
God was in the garden and he said Adam where are you. God holds men accountable. satan wants to destroy men, couples, family which leads to messed up young’s and everybody is jacked up. Thanking God mom and dad raise 4 boys in Brooklyn in an AG church. Thanks to the church community and parents bring up productive save and sanctified work in progress. Good work guys 👍🏻
"You have to sow there, before you go there" that's a Whole Word.. Totally agree....Amen ❤
Thanks for watching!
got married 2 weeks ago and this video is such a blessing! I learned a lot! ❤
Congratulations on your marriage! Go with God for His protection and guidance.
Not married but I love your videos. I'm working on myself to be a good wife to my husband someday.
Me too, we have to prepare ourselves earlier
Just subscribed. I have watched a few videos of yours and they have been amazing!
This convo was so great thank you!
I really enjoyed this!!!! Many of us didn’t grow up with healthy relationship examples or guidance. You don’t have to replicate everything this couple is doing but it’s great insight on how to cover, honor and nurture your man. Good men deserve to be treated well
Been praying for my husband for many many years… getting so many rejections and no… I want marriage and my own family. Im in my late 30’s now .
I appreciate this video. As I listened, I recognized that there are some things that I didn't do during my first marriage. However, as God continues to work on me and prepare me for my kingdom spouse , I will take these points along with the Word of God to be a better wife in the future. Thank you Ken and Tab for sharing, and allowing God to use you.
LOVE THIS!! AND you TWO!!
First time watching
Yes this is helpful. Thank you for all you do!
I like the transparency of these two; they end up asking questions live about their own marriage and how to keep improving their relationship
This is great. Thank you for being so transparent!
So glad I found your channel!✨Wow! Love it! Love the delivery and transparency! God bless you both! Keep sharing!✨♥️
This was sooo good !!! Motivating, happy, made me smile and I learned a lot.
This is so so good!!! Love y’all’s content!
Stumbled across you..enjoying it so far..teamwork make the dream work
I’m only 25 and came across your podcast and you both are doings Gods work!!! I’m so happy to have found you even though I’m in a single season these gems are amazing and will be useful for my future King 🥰
Thank you so much for this! My soul need to hear this !♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I see some areas I can grow in.
This was great! Thank you so much family 🙏🏾
Oh my goodness you’ve given me so new ideas and couple goals! Thank you for sharing❤️ Blessings to you both🙏🏽
Wow! I’m honored to be here. Thank you for this segment. ❤
You guys are a blessing to me
I’m new to your RUclips videos (watched two so far); and I have to say they are great!! Keep up the good work!😊
You guys are blessing so many people!❤
Ahh man I love you guys!🔥🔥 I’m a new fan! Very soothing and wise
This was such an amazing conversation. I'm working on being the best version of a help meet possible for my man.
Thank you for having this conversation. Very impactful, transparent and real.
This was so helpful! Thank you 🤍
We need male men, we need masculinity in our lives. We need men to be men…… 👏🏽 Tabatha is telling the truth, because it’s a shortage in the home. Society is definitely doing a number on our men….. both of these sessions were good. Ken just also gave me something good, but men don’t open up like that and I don’t know what it will take for them to open up like that. Thank you for the insight. God bless you both ❤🙏🏽
Thank you for the Gems 💎
I appreciate the balanced perspective you all have shared. Thank you, very grateful for this!
My Apostle has literally said these nuggets multiple times! Thank you both for sharing with such transparency, practicality and wisdom!
Thank you for your podcast love this and your a great pastor
This is so good I just came across y'all channel and will share it with my future wifey 💜
These are great tips on understanding how men deal with their emotions.
Thank you for tuning in!
I really enjoyed this.
I literally almost burst into tears when you were talking about having the children respect the father, his face and just his presence. It brought up what was happening in my home with my husband, as my children were coming up. And I am calling my husband to apologize for the way that I handled him and those situations.I dealt with everything through hurt and not through the word.
Love these topics! Thank you so much.
Single for now 🙏🏾
Wow! The both of you are awesome! A whole year later and I ran across this clip by the both of you. Ken and Tabatha Claytor. Keep being obedient to what God has called you to do. I will take and prepare to be a great help mate when it’s time. Thank you Pastor Claytor and First Lady Tabatha.😊🤎💜
Loved. Loved. LOVED the discourse. I really didn't want it to end. Praying for continued grace & anointing in every area of your lives.
This gave me allot of Godly insight and opened my eyes with me being a Pastor and my husband not being in ministry. Understanding from a man of God what is needed and required to help to have a successful marriage and household. I thank God for this I almost wanted to walk out on my marriage today Jesus!
Appreciating Tabatha ❤
Amazing episode! Thank you
Thank you for being my internet parents. God bless you all the way from SA
This podcast was soo good! I really enjoyed it.
Thank you guys, I’m a new subscriber and I love your podcasts.
So glad you’re loving them!! Welcome to our community 🙌🏾
This was so refreshing to watch
Thank you Ken and Tabatha for always sharing greats nuggets of wisdom. Don't stop at it. You're mending marriages out here. ❤❤
So many takeaways! Thank and may the Lord continue to bless you! 🙏🏾❤️
Amen! This is such a Blessing to hear you guys talking about marriage. I really want to get married because we really do need each other. Its Gods plan for us..
Thank you for your wisdom.
You guys are providing so much wonderful gems for the community. I appreciate you. Keep up the awesome work for your family and the Kingdom of God.
You guys are doing a great job and you are speaking to my heart. I enjoy your videos and the topics very much. Very inspiring ❤
brilliant...i appreciate the transparency you both share!
Our pleasure! Thanks for watching!
I love the way tabitha speaks so eloquent and clear such a sweet voice
Thank you so much you all have helped me so much.