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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • ​‪@DABRATTV‬ was absolutely right when she said that what Kirk Franklin's son Kerrion did was disgusting. And whoever said, "Blood is thicker than water" lied. The people who show you love and support are your family.
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Комментарии • 12 тыс.

  • @LoveLife-ou5xh
    @LoveLife-ou5xh 3 года назад +9695

    I'm 53 years old and my mama can still give me the look and I know when to shut up. Give me a thumbs up if y'all out there know what I'm talkin about

    • @boydsrsb
      @boydsrsb 3 года назад +101

      And tell you to go home!!

    • @nene.portier4034
      @nene.portier4034 3 года назад +132

      I know the look Joe. That look is cold and deadly.

    • @puddintame5742
      @puddintame5742 3 года назад +84

      Joe I'll give you 20 thumbs up on that one!😉

    • @michaelanderson1449
      @michaelanderson1449 3 года назад +57

      U preaching

    • @dollfacekillaSJ
      @dollfacekillaSJ 3 года назад +142

      I have a healthy respect...and fear of my mom and I'm 46. I love that woman with my entire life!

  • @keithmiddleton6907
    @keithmiddleton6907 3 года назад +552

    I am 50yrs young and I WOULD NEVER talk to my parents like this No Matter What!!!
    I’m always the son, they are always my parents. Respect is innate!

    • @ashleywatkins1380
      @ashleywatkins1380 3 года назад +3

      50? You look great!

    • @keithmiddleton6907
      @keithmiddleton6907 3 года назад +3

      @@ashleywatkins1380 heehee what is 50 supposed to look like... hahah
      I thank you Queen. Please follow my band @levelsband xo

    • @lovelysosweet8386
      @lovelysosweet8386 3 года назад +6

      Amen im 57! I have grown children! I understand I respect my mom!

    • @URNexk
      @URNexk 3 года назад +1

      Respect is earned.

    • @kaybey8936
      @kaybey8936 3 года назад +4

      Respect goes both ways

  • @sisdrkl
    @sisdrkl 3 года назад +289

    You said it, "stop trying to give your kids more of what you didn't have. Instead, give them more of what we did have!" I can't tell you how timely this message is. Bless you.

    • @Velociblacktor00
      @Velociblacktor00 3 года назад +3

      As a father that didn't have much growing up, I needed to hear that part.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 2 года назад +1

      Amen!

    • @shawnamartin9242
      @shawnamartin9242 2 года назад

      @@karenmcgee1869 God love you in so do i.have a blessed day 🙏

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 2 года назад

      @@shawnamartin9242 thank you. Blessings to you too!

    • @elizabethflores7118
      @elizabethflores7118 2 года назад +3

      Thank You Mr. Smiley for Giving this
      ENORMOUS message of Reality and Love. Everyday I have an example or just a comparison for my kids about Back then ( growing up the 80's) and today. I try to show, tell, and be the example my parents were for me.
      Believe me that sometimes I'll tear up or actually cry when I think of how Desensitized the youth is nowadays. No empathy, No respect, No consideration, No Shame, etc.
      The simple act of helping one another is almost extinct.
      Let's Stop Co-signing other people's BS and Hold those guilty of BS Accountable.
      Much Love to Everyone
      God bless you All.

  • @MoonLightOnWater1
    @MoonLightOnWater1 3 года назад +242

    My wonderful daddy told me at the age of 14: “I have only ONE wife. You (the child) get what you need; you will get a job for the things you want. Your mom (the wife) gets what she needs AND what she wants. When you get grown, make sure you either provide both for yourself or marry a man who will do both for you.” This was the BEST lesson my dad could have ever lovingly taught me.

    • @dreamchaser5758
      @dreamchaser5758 3 года назад +4

      Beautifully stated. Did you find that in your own life?

    • @MoonLightOnWater1
      @MoonLightOnWater1 3 года назад +23

      @@dreamchaser5758 I did....I understood that:
      #1: no one owed me anything
      #2 anything given to me was out of the kindness of folks hearts, and not their duty.
      #3 to work hard to earn the life I want...... and I have definitely done that and live what I consider a “charmed” life.

    • @dreamchaser5758
      @dreamchaser5758 3 года назад +13

      @@MoonLightOnWater1 Then your father's efforts were not in vain. Continued blessings

    • @TeeMartinDay
      @TeeMartinDay 3 года назад +4

      I love this!

    • @robertsmith20022
      @robertsmith20022 3 года назад +5

      Damn, 4 months later I felt that

  • @BeautyMeetsBusiness
    @BeautyMeetsBusiness 3 года назад +3767

    I'm a mother of 6 adult children and Kirk doesn't owe us anything!!!!! Kirk is a man, husband, and father, HE's not GOD! Stop upholding to standards you can't hold yourself. Nothing but love for you Kirk.

    • @Onyxmoon89
      @Onyxmoon89 3 года назад +39

      Well you look damn good with 6 adult children. You go gurl.

    • @lafonsopresley6024
      @lafonsopresley6024 3 года назад +16

      Amen

    • @ChrisB231
      @ChrisB231 3 года назад +3

      💯

    • @latonuga.lonbergermua6254
      @latonuga.lonbergermua6254 3 года назад +63

      He’s not God, but he’s a public figure and he should hold some kind of standard. He’s mad mad because everyone has a Skelton in the closet. Kirk been dealing with demons this is just another one! Do not anger your children, honor your parents, but give them something to honor!

    • @CallmeMrTibbs-kx7bx
      @CallmeMrTibbs-kx7bx 3 года назад +4

      Preach.

  • @Shawney517
    @Shawney517 3 года назад +6066

    So, Kirk Franklin cursed and now he’s not a Christian? If y’all don’t sit down somewhere before God plays your tape! 🤫

    • @midnightflower7820
      @midnightflower7820 3 года назад +185

      You better say that 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @kindraburns2622
      @kindraburns2622 3 года назад +77

      Please 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tracyskins7854
      @tracyskins7854 3 года назад +72

      Alright now!!!

    • @tracyskins7854
      @tracyskins7854 3 года назад +6

      @imhereforit huntie holla!!!

    • @tracyskins7854
      @tracyskins7854 3 года назад +67

      @K T excuse you!!! Case opened!!! Did you not read what that boys "own " sister said her brother was
      Saying.

  • @misschululups
    @misschululups 3 года назад +141

    'family is the people you surround yourself with, those that show you love and affection...' I FELT THAT.

    • @sherrelshepard4590
      @sherrelshepard4590 3 года назад +1

      Family is still my bad disrespectful kids if that's the case and God created the family and we all need to repent and turn away from sin and pray if we really want God to fix it. No pride

  • @jacquelinebell6467
    @jacquelinebell6467 3 года назад +178

    A gentleman once told me something that blessed my life. He said “When you know you’ve done your best, da hell with the rest” to include those self entitled ungrateful kids! What an epiphany!! 🙌🏾

    • @1KylesMusik
      @1KylesMusik 3 года назад +2

      This is one of the greatest messages I have ever heard. Job Well Done

    • @debraalexander5356
      @debraalexander5356 2 года назад

      I've read all the comments this is why I don't believe in Christianity. U can say whatever do whatever. As long as you go to your god and repent. Everything is okay. No accountability for your actions. As your religion teaches only your god can judge. So u treat people badly u hurt them. And now that u have found white Jesus it's all under his blood. U will pay for it later. If he decide so. Does anybody knows how this man was treated as a child. No! So he might have a reason to expose his farther. But your religion teaches no matter what your parents do u must honor them. Bullshit! Respect is

    • @debraalexander5356
      @debraalexander5356 2 года назад

      Respect is earn not given. Do you think our ancestors prayed to a white god. There was no Christianity. In black peoples life until we can here. Now it's gospel. It was given to us by slave masters. And u dumbies believe.

    • @drbeautician
      @drbeautician 2 года назад

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @tiffanybrown368
      @tiffanybrown368 2 года назад

      Kirk touched a boy and that’s what y’all fail to realize

  • @pharaoh2537
    @pharaoh2537 3 года назад +1869

    My mother used to say blood makes a relative.... Their actions make them your family....

    • @purplebuttafly8
      @purplebuttafly8 3 года назад +61

      Your mom hit the nail on the head. Wise woman. Thanks for sharing. I'm going to remember her words. How so very true 👍.

    • @HAPPYCHICMERRIAMCHAS
      @HAPPYCHICMERRIAMCHAS 3 года назад +16

      Amen!

    • @lahopkins9746
      @lahopkins9746 3 года назад +71

      When people ask me if I have a big family I say nope but I got a lot of relatives though. 😉 And I don't feel bad about it at all! 😊

    • @queenofweaves916
      @queenofweaves916 3 года назад +14

      Oooooh now that’s a word!

    • @ericjones6651
      @ericjones6651 3 года назад +15

      Your mom is a smart woman

  • @melanatedgod5337
    @melanatedgod5337 3 года назад +767

    I'm 30, and I would NEVER, NEVER talk to my parents like that.

    • @Tigerex966
      @Tigerex966 3 года назад +28

      What about talking to your child like that?

    • @muhammid23
      @muhammid23 3 года назад +3

      facts.

    • @montgomerycamjr
      @montgomerycamjr 3 года назад +19

      Would your parents ever talk to YOU like Kirk talked to his son?

    • @forestpark73
      @forestpark73 3 года назад +11

      @@Tigerex966 he’s not a child tho. That’s boy is a man responsible for his own actions.

    • @lovejoy3441
      @lovejoy3441 3 года назад +10

      He son spoke to him in the way his father showed him to...🤔...

  • @tbrightideas42
    @tbrightideas42 2 года назад +18

    "The only people that won't speak to you are the people you done helped." -Rickey Smiley
    Truer words have never been spoken.

    • @omargibson3138
      @omargibson3138 5 месяцев назад

      Kirk Franklin Soul is Sold To The Devil Satan Just like Other Gospel Artists like Sister Duo Group Mary Mary and Yolanda Adams To Name a Few, i Don't Know if He Did It Willingly or Not Willingly, But it Was a Done Deal, And They are All a Member of The Illuminati, Freemason and Occult.
      These Celebrities Does Have To Engage Secretly in So Many Satanic Demonic Rituals like Sacrificial Rituals, Blood Baths Rituals and Homosexuality Gay Rituals, and Other Satanic Demonic Rituals is The De-masculine Rituals and Feminine Rituals Where These Male Celebrities Does Have To Wear Certain Feminine Type Clothing, Wear Certain Feminine Like Colours, Paint Their Finger Nails in Certain Colours and Act Feminine Like in Certain Way, and Try To Normalized It By Order of Those Same Brotherhoods, CIA, Secret Society and Elites of Making It a Norm, and Getting Their Fans That Idolized Them To See It as That, That is Why So Many of Today Youths are So Mess Up.

  • @SmokeTherapy420
    @SmokeTherapy420 2 года назад +27

    I'm an adoptive father of 3 kids from a different race and time to time I have to watch this video for encouragement. My dad wasn't apart of my life and to do a job that NO ONE taught me how to do is sometimes hard and discouraging. Rickey thank you for your words. From the bottom of my heart thank you.

  • @lesliegivens6585
    @lesliegivens6585 3 года назад +445

    I lost my mother when I was 12yrs old and I still have a hard time with that loss but I was blessed to be raised by the BEST DAD on the planet and lost him almost 5yrs ago 🙏🏾🙏🏾😢😢. Anyone who still have both their parents living, you’re truly blessed 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @ladybugradio1988
      @ladybugradio1988 3 года назад +9

      @Leslie Givens I send you my condolences.

    • @kristinccha
      @kristinccha 3 года назад +2

      Leslie I'm so sorry

    • @brownsbeach18
      @brownsbeach18 3 года назад +6

      I lost my mom 7 yrs ago and I miss her everyday . I still have my dad and love him a lot .

    • @taraspeaks6293
      @taraspeaks6293 3 года назад +2

      You right.

    • @lakeishagreen6064
      @lakeishagreen6064 3 года назад +2

      I lost my dad in 2017 and I lost my mom this year in January. When I tell you I’m lost! I miss them so much!

  • @t.shandrielblogs
    @t.shandrielblogs 3 года назад +427

    My brother's are 6'5 and and 6'8 and our 5'4 mama would be standing looking at them like a tree unafraid. And they would be crying or had tears in they eye's. Neither myself or brothers never step to her or talked back. RIP Mama we miss you every day! 💖

    • @kcorn12kc
      @kcorn12kc 3 года назад +11

      Lol...😆😅🤣yeah! Mom's let them no...I'm not playing....sounds like my little 5"5 mom's👍

    • @SnitchesNews
      @SnitchesNews 3 года назад +5

      God bless your mom. I wish my girls had a mom like that.

    • @naiomisweets8942
      @naiomisweets8942 3 года назад +3

      Lmao @ a tree unafraid. I know that's right. Oh boy. Lol. May your mama RIP.

    • @SnitchesNews
      @SnitchesNews 3 года назад +3

      Yes may God continue to rest her beloved soul

    • @Ken-hr8qq
      @Ken-hr8qq 3 года назад

      Tell them heyyy

  • @kelisared72
    @kelisared72 3 года назад +20

    I had my son by a no good joker. I decided when I raised him I was not going to allow him to be like his father. Lord knows I was not perfect as a mother and he hated me for it. Now he is a excellent husband, father and provider. He is a go-getter and he gives me much love and respect now! It is possible for them to get it. May just take some time. People need to look in the mirror before they start judging Kirk Franklin. He doesn't have to apologize for anything.

  • @tymonicavincent230
    @tymonicavincent230 3 года назад +48

    I didn't appreciate my mom's sacrifice until I had to sacrifice. Tough love is true love at times.

  • @LADE7
    @LADE7 3 года назад +597

    Now you spoke when you said "give these kids what we had and stop trying to give them what we didn't have!! Now that sums it up right there!!

    • @christinaleal3008
      @christinaleal3008 3 года назад +18

      Gotta quit trying to be their friend..parent's today are afraid of their own kid's..& like you said Smiley they kill their parents for money .Like the Mendez brother's..parent's also buy the kids gifts & money because they're ar work all the time. This era is a sad affair.. parents cant discipline their kids or they'll go to jail..shoot these kids need a good old fashioned whip that behind..we made it...just saying...

    • @sheridat-moore6510
      @sheridat-moore6510 3 года назад +9

      Yes, I knew that Rickey was going to bring the Truth! I'm 42, seeing and knowing how hard my mother worked and sacrifices for me, I will never! These youngsters now days are ruined. Mine jump and flinch when I walk pass.And then I grab and hug and kiss them. But they don't have fear anymore.

    • @kathymccormick7525
      @kathymccormick7525 3 года назад +2

      Amen 🙏

    • @fredamontgomery9482
      @fredamontgomery9482 3 года назад +4

      Grown folks have no idea what parents have gone through

    • @StunningShay
      @StunningShay 3 года назад

      Yessss

  • @lesliebarber5164
    @lesliebarber5164 3 года назад +594

    My dad died i was 11 years old a year later at12 years old my mom passed,it breaks my heart to see kids being disrespectful and ungrateful to their parents these days!

    • @wecountingmoneyoverhere2517
      @wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 3 года назад +8

      Sorry for your lose Leslie. I know that could not have been easy.

    • @lesliebarber5164
      @lesliebarber5164 3 года назад +5

      @@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 i was shocked and at61 years today sometimes,I'm still shocked to have lost them but i still remember lessons they taught us!

    • @biatsoho1332
      @biatsoho1332 3 года назад +4

      Oh my God that's tough in a kid. Bless u.

    • @desireehayward5391
      @desireehayward5391 3 года назад +1

      Praying for you love

    • @aliwilson7238
      @aliwilson7238 3 года назад +3

      Sorry for your loss

  • @nicolegreen9054
    @nicolegreen9054 3 года назад +64

    I love how Rickey Smiley will at any moment stop the show and speak from his heart ❤ The world can always count on that from the RSMS. I love it!

  • @quaycarter5090
    @quaycarter5090 2 года назад +15

    Because your own kids know the real you. People don't want to accept the abuse they put their child through. Instead they wanna talk about respect. you gotta repair the hearts you broke at some time. this only happens in our community. These men become successful and forget about the hell their oldest children endured.

  • @denisehicks-mial1540
    @denisehicks-mial1540 3 года назад +499

    Let the church say Amen. Cut the cord and keep it moving. Rickey, you said a mouth full.

  • @sunkissedmother1781
    @sunkissedmother1781 3 года назад +528

    He's a singer, entertainer and in ministry. However first he's a man, husband and father. Raising grown children is still a challenge. No apology needed for me Mr. Franklin.

    • @mannybruce8950
      @mannybruce8950 3 года назад +11

      " Raising grown children " ? The very statement is an oxymoron . Unless these " grown children " haves some type of debilitating handicap then the act of raising should have ceased .

    • @jericaleigh
      @jericaleigh 3 года назад

      Raising?? Lol

    • @Tigerex966
      @Tigerex966 3 года назад +6

      as a christian when a sin is made public by us, and witnesses prove it is true, you should publicly apologize, so Kirk did right there, if it was not made public, then he only needed to apologize to God and his son privately ,and his son to him and God, and try at least to work out their differences, if possible.
      If a christian publicly sins and refuses to repent, that sends a message to the world, why should they accept Jesus and repent, when christians are out their cussing their sons and fathers out, and then refusing to acknowledge it is wrong, or. apologize.
      Jesus started his ministry with repent for the kingdom of God is at hand, and in these last days, we need to repent, forgive those that wrong us, get rid of grudges, and follow the teachings of Jesus and the apostles, as time is running out, and judgement starts at the house of the Lord first, before the world.
      So I applaud Kirk for manning up, and being responsible for his actions, that could have been us, and we need to do the same, and then move on.
      I pray dearly, for both father and son.

    • @cephas5053
      @cephas5053 3 года назад +2

      @@Tigerex966 accept he didn’t REPENT to God....🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @michelleruffin6903
      @michelleruffin6903 3 года назад +1

      THE SAD THING IS HE ISN’T GRIEVED FOR SINNING AGAINST GOD🥲

  • @sweetetta
    @sweetetta 3 года назад +21

    I started a job in the social services field and learned a lot of things about child development. I was about 42 and my two children were 22 and 20. I cried because I realized the mistakes I had made raising them. I called each of them and apologized for spanking them over minor things and frankly going overboard. My son told me when he was 25 how he never felt he could come to me because I never believed him. He was crying and my first instinct was to be defensive because he was raised by me and his stepfather who did a great job. His bio-dad wasn’t as present as he could’ve been. But the Holy Spirit told me to be quiet and let him get it out. After he finished I was crying and again apologized and expressed how I Always loved him and did my very best with what I Albee at the time. I had to forgive myself and be okay with mistakes. I refuse to apologize all my life! Both of our kids are successful and are great parents. Thankfully they’ve learned from our mistakes! I’m praying for the Franklin family!❤️🙏🏽

    • @minniemouse1332
      @minniemouse1332 3 года назад +3

      This! 🙏

    • @luvwynter
      @luvwynter 3 года назад +4

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you. Some parents don’t realize that they can be good providers but sometimes the mental damage sticks around for a long time. An apology is a good way to help the kids heal instead of gaslighting them and making them think they are crazy.

    • @3634ful
      @3634ful 3 года назад +4

      This the thread right here!!! Yes and Amen!! ❤️

  • @kashondagraham2115
    @kashondagraham2115 3 года назад +44

    This is so true!! I did that with my kids and they are grown and so damn disrespectful!! My heart is broken , but he'll with them cause I can not afford to disturb my peace!!!

    • @kissmyjays23
      @kissmyjays23 3 года назад +2

      And you’ll forever be alone because of that. You’re listening to Ricky smiley, but Ricky smiley has no business telling y’all to cut your kids off. You parents need to take a look at WHAT YOU DID TO CAUSE THE SITUATION AT HAND because that’s the only way to fix the issue at hand. Nobody is born with disrespect toward their parents ! And just because you’re the parent that doesn’t make you right in every situation... there’s such thing as toxic parenting

    • @kashondagraham2115
      @kashondagraham2115 3 года назад

      @@kissmyjays23 baby my kids are grown and I'm married🤔🤔🤔

    • @kissmyjays23
      @kissmyjays23 3 года назад

      @@kashondagraham2115 that changes nothing I said .... you cut your kids off now what happens if something where to ever happen your spouse

  • @Mack-bc9mh
    @Mack-bc9mh 3 года назад +962

    People usually only record the part they want you to see or hear.....

    • @garywallace4440
      @garywallace4440 3 года назад +9

      Whole lot of wiggle room using the word usually

    • @shadymccoy7
      @shadymccoy7 3 года назад +31

      Good point. We don't know what happened before or after that piece of recording.

    • @ranma36
      @ranma36 3 года назад +29

      say that again for the ppl in the back!

    • @lovebrittt
      @lovebrittt 3 года назад +5

      That part!

    • @Chocomuneca19
      @Chocomuneca19 3 года назад +9

      What happened before or after, middle whatever does not matter. A parent shouldn’t speak to their child this way. Doesn’t matter how old they are. They clearly don’t have a good relationship otherwise he wouldn’t feel the need to record it. I can’t imagine my parents speaking to me like this, even when I do get a little frustrated with them.

  • @terrimcintyre113
    @terrimcintyre113 3 года назад +2526

    33 year old should be asking Dad What can I do for you Today.

    • @mujahidali4344
      @mujahidali4344 3 года назад +30

      Exactly

    • @andrewstaples8677
      @andrewstaples8677 3 года назад +44

      Or " my son wants to see his grandpa "

    • @motorcity313
      @motorcity313 3 года назад +59

      This! How are you in your 30’s not helping your parents out now?

    • @brownsbeach18
      @brownsbeach18 3 года назад +8

      Very true 👍.

    • @theonly1258
      @theonly1258 3 года назад +47

      True... but instead all bout him and his selfishness, Kirk probably tired and just lost it on this ungrateful grown man

  • @jayhouston1614
    @jayhouston1614 2 года назад +13

    man, this one hit home real hard. letting go sucks but i have a peace in my mind now and peace in my heart. what Mr. Smiley said was true because i have sacrificed so much trying to keep a connection that no longer exists. there are complete strangers who treated me way better than ANYBODY that is related to me. different races and all. you want a piece of mind you gotta let go!🙏🏽✊🏽💪🏽🤗😢💖

  • @barneywiggins479
    @barneywiggins479 3 года назад +36

    Focus on giving these kids what we had instead of trying to give them everything we didn't have....I agree with that!

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........................

  • @j-rockwells3807
    @j-rockwells3807 3 года назад +1027

    Ricky spoke straight facts I give anything to hear my dad voice one more time

    • @victoriae9837
      @victoriae9837 3 года назад +7

      You were blessed to have a dad and then he loved you.

    • @erichughes8723
      @erichughes8723 3 года назад +15

      Didn't know my father he was not there from day one! But my father in-law. He was the father I never had and I miss him everyday 😔 I am 55yrs old and he as been gone for over 10 yrs. For you young people out here that have a good mother and father love them while you can! Because there will come a day that they will not be here and there is no going back.

    • @nikkiwashington8542
      @nikkiwashington8542 3 года назад +1

      It's my mom that Imiss

    • @dorisjimerson8649
      @dorisjimerson8649 3 года назад +3

      Omg. You just made me tear up. I have the same wish.

    • @whitesongs73
      @whitesongs73 3 года назад +4

      Miss my dad too and my mama

  • @MsDaffDaff
    @MsDaffDaff 3 года назад +446

    I literally just cried when he said, "sitting in the front row watching your parent sit in casket, bury your mother or father before you hit middle school". Took me back to age 10. I always appreciate and admire folks with two parents, even at age 39, it never leaves you. No money will ever replace your parents.

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад +1

      Ever!!!!

    • @garywilliams8799
      @garywilliams8799 3 года назад +3

      Who are you telling. I never met my mom and appreciated just being alive. That hit so close to home it's ridiculous. I'm 37 and these kids now need reality checks it's not all about them. It's about loving each other and spreading the love and life lessons learned.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад +1

      Just because folk have two parents doesn’t mean anything. Kirk failed that boy . Kirk is not a Christian

    • @nicklh186
      @nicklh186 3 года назад +1

      @@melmel3703 maybe to you but it means a lot to someone who has one (or zero) parents.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад

      @@nicklh186 I have a former one. Jesus said let the dead bury the dead. So I refuse to put up with her foolishness. Kerrion needs to do the same, let his fraud pappy go.

  • @tjtheadvocate8856
    @tjtheadvocate8856 3 года назад +33

    This thread let's me know I'm NOT alone. Whew. Needed this support

    • @elsastuckman6052
      @elsastuckman6052 3 года назад +1

      Me too ! Blessings to you. One day hopefully they will get it before it’s too late.

  • @chaunasumpter3077
    @chaunasumpter3077 3 года назад +12

    NO apology needed. Any parent who is investing in their kids with home training, love, finances, lights, food, shelter and extras, no judgment hunni. Kirk you good! Look at David and Absalom God knows sir!

  • @cherylcotton3675
    @cherylcotton3675 3 года назад +140

    In 1988 when I was 14, I lost my mother. I wish she was still here. To me, that pain, never leaves

    • @tianawashington8869
      @tianawashington8869 3 года назад +5

      Grace and Peace to you and your family.❤🌹

    • @stevenporras5309
      @stevenporras5309 3 года назад +1

      I know that’s right!

    • @trixiewashington224
      @trixiewashington224 3 года назад

      😔💝🌹💝

    • @toshatalks8544
      @toshatalks8544 3 года назад +1

      Lost mine at 17, some of these adults dnt know how good they have it to b able to talk and touch theirs...

    • @mamat1213
      @mamat1213 3 года назад

      LORD 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I don't know how you did it... Sending so much LOVE AND SUPPORT to you even now! I lost my mama last year and barely survived it!!! I'm almost 40 and I have days... Where I can't imagine walking with this hurt for the rest of life 💔

  • @dwthomas38
    @dwthomas38 3 года назад +606

    A family friend who is a doctor told his son "whatever wealth i have is for me and my wife, I've given you all the tools you need to start your own".

    • @richardspain8973
      @richardspain8973 3 года назад +28

      My parents told me the same when I was 14 years old. You must make your way in this life.....👍🏽🍻🙏🏽⚓️

    • @ladycash384
      @ladycash384 3 года назад +6

      Absolutely

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад +6

      I love THIS??

    • @oliwoodnorth2371
      @oliwoodnorth2371 3 года назад +22

      @Feed My Lambs Tell them again but LOUDER! Generational wealth is a concept unknown to blacks across the world. Generational wealth is the only way for blacks to have power in the world.

    • @taylrmarie5023
      @taylrmarie5023 3 года назад +9

      @Feed My Lambs big facts.

  • @nikkiwilliams7318
    @nikkiwilliams7318 3 года назад +6

    I lost my mother a month ago and the pain is so great its feels like I am Dying Because there's a lot of things that I regret.... when my mother only told me what was right And I had to learn the hard way.. and those things I am still paying for right now. so anyone that's older wiser than me.. I take every single advice to make the right decisions and the right choices in my life Because when your mother is gone or your father is gone You're gonna wish like hell you listened whether you liked it or not... RIP mommy You're watching over me..🙏💕 thank you Rickey Smiley for these words of Incouragement...

  • @firstladyshelly6002
    @firstladyshelly6002 3 года назад +26

    We love you Kirk. There are NO perfect parents. We all have missed it. But God!!! Keep up the good work.

  • @Msboddie1
    @Msboddie1 3 года назад +293

    My dad died when I was 6 and my mom at 14. Then my grandparents before the end of my teenage years. No matter who in your family steps up to raise you there is nothing like your parents. I appreciate my aunt but it just wasn't the same. I would've given anything to have my mom and grandmother back. I feel so hurt when I see people disrespect their parents and grandparents.

    • @soloyolo904
      @soloyolo904 3 года назад +15

      I hope that God blesses you with all of the support and love that you need!

    • @amina9935
      @amina9935 3 года назад +7

      My condolences to you honey 💛💛

    • @MARCHAUX
      @MARCHAUX 3 года назад +5

      My condolences

    • @spirituallysoaringhigh6089
      @spirituallysoaringhigh6089 3 года назад +5

      Omg god bless u sweetheart

    • @kingcorwin25
      @kingcorwin25 3 года назад +2

      So you dont want your dad back also?

  • @epsavoy
    @epsavoy 3 года назад +379

    I have 3 young adults and I agreed to buy each a car and pay their first 2 years of college. My youngest got cut off after acting entitled and disrespectful. I still am available for time and advice. I just save my money for my future and others who need help. Privilege isnt automatic. Its earned.

    • @adefay7813
      @adefay7813 3 года назад +9

      Preach it.

    • @willamaynard
      @willamaynard 3 года назад +11

      They are blessed to have a parent like you!

    • @bugtahoe
      @bugtahoe 3 года назад +13

      Say it AGAIN...same here I only have one and VERY slick at the mouth...try to give him a car I even set up account for him as his graduation present GONE...I BE DAMN...8 weeks of school left and his out of my house!!! When he graduates I'll watch him walk across the stage and I'm out no pic taking NONE!!! His dad brainwashed him so bad but I MOSTLY blame my son cause he 18 and he know BETTER I promise 8 weeks his out my HOME

    • @teewatts9337
      @teewatts9337 3 года назад +6

      Let the church say Amen

    • @tomicapalmer8269
      @tomicapalmer8269 3 года назад +3

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @regina8045
    @regina8045 3 года назад +172

    Kirk Franklin doesn’t owe any apology to his son or us. We all living in a glass house. Better stop throwing stones and go somewhere and sit down.

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........................

    • @esotericbae
      @esotericbae 3 года назад

      He really allegedly m0lested his son and you say that 😂

    • @chaun72ie
      @chaun72ie 3 года назад +1

      @@esotericbae really and allegedly are opposites. If a grown ass man has a beef with his father, the internet wont help that relationship. I heard what junior had to say which wasnt the "abuse" but what happens when a privileged man-child doesnt get his way.

    • @esotericbae
      @esotericbae 3 года назад

      @@chaun72ie lmao that man admitted to being m0lested without him knowing he was being recorded & you really just said that.
      Lmaooo not surprised black folks love to ignore m0lestation ESPECIALLY in Duhh Chuuuuch

    • @jarricah7920
      @jarricah7920 3 года назад +1

      Regina you don't know Kirk personally to say he don't owe his son apology you don't know their relationship so stop speaking on things you don't know if you feel like there's issues then pray for them but don't sit here until people about a relationship you know nothing about

  • @TheSeah61
    @TheSeah61 3 года назад +7

    Thank u Ricky right on the head. We cannot put our lives on hold. Let people talk, misinterpreted, judge, we must live. Let the kids roll on their journey

  • @renatadarden5048
    @renatadarden5048 3 года назад +285

    I'm 51, and I would NEVA disrespect my mother, let alone in PUBLIC!!!! Not out of fear, out of love, honor and reverence!!!!

    • @terancespellmon70
      @terancespellmon70 3 года назад +5

      ✊💯✊💯✊

    • @djcatsuitsonaboat
      @djcatsuitsonaboat 3 года назад +1

      a, a, amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @lonif4985
      @lonif4985 3 года назад

      WHAT YOU SAID!!!! 52 and I'm not thinking about it.

    • @Broadkill54
      @Broadkill54 3 года назад +4

      @@halloweenlover2830 shocking news... they’re human like you and me

    • @Broadkill54
      @Broadkill54 3 года назад +1

      @@halloweenlover2830 correct, none of us should regardless of our professions

  • @jasonjwright23
    @jasonjwright23 3 года назад +626

    Those were some gems being dropped right there

    • @michellec.4994
      @michellec.4994 3 года назад +7

      Shandolabosha!! He preaching today!!

    • @ladyting05
      @ladyting05 3 года назад +3

      Absolutely

    • @realmom9288
      @realmom9288 3 года назад +2

      @@michellec.4994 lol yeah!! What you said!!!!!

  • @KingNettii4422
    @KingNettii4422 2 года назад +5

    Love ❤️when you speak on this. Helps me get through my own struggles in this area. A lot of parents are going through this

  • @korogirl
    @korogirl 3 года назад +3

    Dad passed when I was 3 , Mom when I was 13. Mom was tough when required, following in her footsteps. Knowing my place, showing respect kept me alive.
    Thank God !

  • @sadejuanasealey7981
    @sadejuanasealey7981 3 года назад +207

    "Focus on giving kids more of what you had in life and less of what you didn't have..."

  • @jasmines72
    @jasmines72 3 года назад +500

    I don't have the best relationship with my mother but NEVER YA HEAR ME NEVER have I EVER disrespected my mother and called my mama out her name or even cursed. I couldn't even say the word lie!

    • @kennydawson265
      @kennydawson265 3 года назад +1

      Impressionnant..

    • @lifecoachthirl
      @lifecoachthirl 3 года назад +20

      Shows the respect you have for your mom. ❣ Even when we don't agree, we still respect them. Kudos ro you sis 😊

    • @ladydignity
      @ladydignity 3 года назад +23

      Girl,I don't say lie around my mama either! Lol I am in my 40's at that! We had to say, telling a story growing up.lol

    • @angelataylor7758
      @angelataylor7758 3 года назад +5

      Same here,but something in me would ever allow me to disrespect her.

    • @brownsbeach18
      @brownsbeach18 3 года назад +8

      I don't have my mom anymore 😕, as u said I've never disrespected neither my mom or dad ,better yet I don't disrespect older ppl . Glad you respect your mom even though u don't have the best relationship .

  • @Nacho-Mamma
    @Nacho-Mamma 3 года назад +8

    You got me crying!
    This Sunday, March 28th, will mark the 10th year I've been without my mom! I lost my dad in 1981, so that's be 40 years now!
    These people will NEVER understand! And, the pain and loss is indescribable. These same ingrates will be throwing themselves on the coffin, screaming and crying, and making a complete JACKASS out of themselves at the funeral!
    And, my friend, it doesn't matter what their race is! Because, the only thing that's truly colorblind is "JACKASSERY"!
    Thank you for speaking TRUTH!
    I've pretty much walked away from the rest of my family since losing my mom, because of how they treated me afterwards.

  • @tigerloft81
    @tigerloft81 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for being who you are. We need and appreciate you so much

  • @needahug82
    @needahug82 3 года назад +270

    That was the ULTIMATE bitch move! Me and my parents didn't always see eye to eye, but I'll be damned if I put family business out for CLOUT!

    • @linnette6493
      @linnette6493 3 года назад

      💯

    • @bettinasmithedmondson4243
      @bettinasmithedmondson4243 3 года назад +6

      @Bishop J. Drew Sheard fake account

    • @sharonburden5393
      @sharonburden5393 3 года назад

      You better say it again🥰

    • @esotericbae
      @esotericbae 3 года назад

      You’re judging an abused man and calling him a bitch lmaooo
      DUH CHUUUUUUCH 😂😂😂💯

    • @sharpaycutie2
      @sharpaycutie2 3 года назад

      Sho enough. If you truly done woth your dad, then be done PROVATELY. He thought he did something by posting that🤣🤣

  • @delana2842
    @delana2842 Год назад +2

    My Grandmother, Rosie, had a saying, "When you know you've done all you can for your children, you'll be able to lay your head down on your pillow at night and rest." These same words would then be passed on to me by my Mother when I became a parent.
    In others words, when you have done all you can to the best of your ability then leave the rest to God.
    I pray my Grandmother's words will be of encouragement to anyone out there experiencing something with their children, relatives, co-workers, whomever. Be still and know that he is God.
    Blessings to you! ❤

  • @definitionofbeauty6861
    @definitionofbeauty6861 3 года назад +8

    Going through this with my adult kids now I NEEDED THIS!!

  • @anthonykilburn9302
    @anthonykilburn9302 3 года назад +221

    I'm 60 years old and I still get the look from my mother if I mess up!! Never will disrespect my mother!!!

    • @childofgod6788
      @childofgod6788 3 года назад +5

      The Bible said parents are not to provoke their children to angry. If this is the way Kirk Franklin treated his child, God have mercy on them both.

    • @jacquelinebattle7876
      @jacquelinebattle7876 3 года назад +1

      Wish I had her now in my life loss her when she was 86 and I was 66 miss her too much would never disrepect her.

    • @childofgod6788
      @childofgod6788 3 года назад

      Great. I never disrespected my mom or dad either, but neither talked to me the way KF talked to his son. My dad said some harsh things to my brothers, but nothing closed to what KF said to his, that I can recall. My dad didn't curse at him like that.

    • @nicholasgakuu5223
      @nicholasgakuu5223 3 года назад +1

      @@childofgod6788 that dont apply in this case..this kid is spoiled and provoked his father....that saying goes both ways....it only applies if your dad is abusive and beats ur mom..

    • @YaboiTL
      @YaboiTL 3 года назад

      What u messing up at 60

  • @dianedunbar1805
    @dianedunbar1805 3 года назад +334

    Rickey is telling The whole truth. When he said the only people that don’t speak to you are the ones you’ve helped I thought the people that turned their backs on me after they got my help.

    • @victoriae9837
      @victoriae9837 3 года назад +3

      Right and now I need help and no one is around in my siblings and son.

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 3 года назад +9

      For some people it’s NEVER enough! I’ve learned to keep it moving, I have nothing to prove.

    • @victoriae9837
      @victoriae9837 3 года назад +3

      We can create a family of choice if our siblings and my satanic son that care nothing for me. But my Heavenly Father sees their deeds.

    • @sassygreen5024
      @sassygreen5024 3 года назад +1

      Right thats so true.

    • @taraspeaks6293
      @taraspeaks6293 3 года назад +3

      My God. That comment spoke to me!!!! "The ones you've helped can't stand you". Now that's a word.

  • @thefablifeoftab9428
    @thefablifeoftab9428 3 года назад +6

    You said something there Rickey! “Stop giving em so much. Focus on giving kids more of what we had as opposed to what we did not have! That’s how we creating these lil monsters” Let the church say “amen!”

  • @MommeeMadre1
    @MommeeMadre1 3 года назад +6

    You are speaking SUCH truth!
    My daddy passed when i was 7 and he was my hero.
    When in high school I remember listening to friends talking so BADLY about their parents and i thought, "I am glad my father is dead. I would rather him be in the grave as my hero than for me to EVER disrespect him like that."
    For real.
    Then as a mom, I had to be that tough mom to my teen and grown children. I always ask myself, "if i keep giving in to their foolishness, how will they be able to function when I am gone? "
    You have to love them enough to let them fall.

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................................

    • @MommeeMadre1
      @MommeeMadre1 3 года назад

      You are one country off. We are (were) missionaries in Uganda prayerfully waiting for the opportunity to return.

    • @RuthHemingway
      @RuthHemingway 10 месяцев назад

      I have never in my life said one curse word in front of my parents, both are gone now, and my mother cursed like a sailor. I could never curse before either of them.

  • @mspisces7976
    @mspisces7976 3 года назад +371

    I'm 42 and would not dare talk back or crazy to my mother. She still puts the fear of God in me.

    • @corneliadavis2990
      @corneliadavis2990 3 года назад +3

      Amen to that

    • @jademobley9769
      @jademobley9769 3 года назад +5

      Exactly I dont understand how people talk to their mom crazy in her face. I still won't.

    • @oliverclytus7559
      @oliverclytus7559 3 года назад +4

      Three grown ass men and not one of us would dare talk to our momma like that.

    • @ricflairWoooo
      @ricflairWoooo 3 года назад +1

      That’s right it’s the same way for me and I wish I would talk to my mama like that all her brothers and sisters would checked me with no questions asked

    • @troyf6734
      @troyf6734 3 года назад +1

      That's a fact. I love my Queen.

  • @mancavemotorsports
    @mancavemotorsports 3 года назад +195

    Facts, I was traumatized at 35 in 2020 watching my Father in a casket. I don't understand these disrespectful kids and grown kids. Ima call my mama right now

  • @tinasuarez117
    @tinasuarez117 3 года назад +2

    🎯 💯% TRUTH! 👏👏👏
    You dont have to tolerate Disrespect from your Grown kids. Either they Respect You, Or you Cut them Off!
    They dont deserve Your Great Presence!

  • @dawn-reneelanier4551
    @dawn-reneelanier4551 3 года назад +12

    Amen to that, Frat. We're enabling a generation of over protected, catered, and unappreciative adult children. They've been spoiled reared, coddled, and sadly, fooled. Pardon the colloquial: the world don't owe you a thang! #guilty

  • @villamagee9180
    @villamagee9180 3 года назад +199

    When you said people that are NOT related to you treat you better than biological family!!! Ooooo yes Lawd!!! Thank you Rickey!!!

    • @shayla3467
      @shayla3467 3 года назад +8

      Yes Lawd i felt that family will do you worse then anyone

    • @ms.pud2152
      @ms.pud2152 3 года назад +3

      Amen!!! Say it for the people in the back that can't see you but can hear you.... Thank you🙂

    • @GLesbihonest
      @GLesbihonest 3 года назад +1

      100% Facts!

    • @michellewhitlockshells119
      @michellewhitlockshells119 3 года назад +1

      Bloop!!‼👍🏾🙏🏽 that part!! Stop sacrificing for ungrateful folks.. GOD bless them and keep it moving✌🏾🙌🏾☝🏾

    • @richk320
      @richk320 3 года назад

      There's a friend that sticks closer than a brother-Bible.

  • @sweetbeloved623
    @sweetbeloved623 3 года назад +311

    AMEM ,RICKY THANKS THIS. Is A BLESS TEACHABLE MOMENT FOR EVERYONE PRAYING FOR KIRK FRANKLIN HE IS NOT ALONE GOING THROUGH THIS.

    • @BlueDiamondsTea
      @BlueDiamondsTea 3 года назад +11

      Ricky is one of the best dad that I know every time he's talking about his family it's all away positive and he's always trying to encourage young people i don't know who you are talking about but it's not Ricky

    • @chillwill8373
      @chillwill8373 3 года назад +4

      Thanks Ricky I needed this my self

    • @noellegilchrist3744
      @noellegilchrist3744 3 года назад +2

      @mystique yinyang thank you and I can’t believe people praying for Kirk wth pray for the damaged son he’s clearly hurt by his dad and this has been going on for years he just exposed it this time

    • @joangouldbourne628
      @joangouldbourne628 3 года назад +3

      Thank you Ricky!Speak it louder!That rude ass punk!To my brother Kirk God understand.God isnot mad at you.Your son is the one that will not be under God's covernant for God to bless him abundantly and to have long life.STOP dishonoring your PARENTS!!!!!😬😬😬😡😡😡

    • @BlueDiamondsTea
      @BlueDiamondsTea 3 года назад +6

      @mystique yinyang Ricky is old school and you wouldn't understand he's not being disrespectful are abusive as long as you are giving a kid what they want you are the the best parent in the world and when you don't they want to say every nasty thing about you I don't know if you have any kids but like my mom said you keep living you will see what I'm talking about God is of love peace not hate God

  • @chelleglsude9524
    @chelleglsude9524 2 года назад +1

    Ohhh we !!! This is all facts! Going thru this now with my daughter! She has physically assaulted me and disrespected me for the last time ! I’m done ! Thank you for you words of wisdom Ricky

  • @juliebrown6651
    @juliebrown6651 Год назад +3

    I totally agree. You spoke nothing but facts!! I Left my kids go a long time ago.I still love them and pray for them.

  • @victorp647
    @victorp647 3 года назад +200

    "Focus on giving kids what we had as opposed to giving them what we did not have!" Morals over materials...thats powerful

    • @Jslowbro
      @Jslowbro 3 года назад +3

      🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @milaniwilson4807
      @milaniwilson4807 3 года назад +1

      Also a line from The Fresh Prince Of Bel Air

    • @whitney352010
      @whitney352010 3 года назад +7

      And if all you had was misery and lies??? Should I continue the cycle. Or should I give them the love and support I needed when I was their age? Some folks cannot give their kids what they had, cuz what they had was shit.

    • @milaniwilson4807
      @milaniwilson4807 3 года назад +1

      @@whitney352010 SPOT ON! You use the tools that you have! Everyone is not equipped with the same tools!

    • @tashboog
      @tashboog 3 года назад

      Yea not his original words. RS is a simpleton, don’t let that go over your head.

  • @looknbakatu
    @looknbakatu 3 года назад +210

    Judge Karen said "sometimes You have to love family from afar", SO TRUE!

    • @angellafraser638
      @angellafraser638 3 года назад +4

      Yes,from real far away,they have to take 3buses and two trains and three airplanes to come see you
      And then asked them for some money to guarantee they won't visit again

    • @jknumber5138
      @jknumber5138 3 года назад +1

      Love? That's not love. That's what Christian black people call love😂

    • @KarmaX10
      @KarmaX10 3 года назад +2

      Fact!! I sure do and we never speak... you have to protect your peace and energy.

    • @crissyalice4825
      @crissyalice4825 3 года назад +2

      Yup

    • @ellenbrunson1454
      @ellenbrunson1454 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely

  • @fannie2529
    @fannie2529 3 года назад +5

    Smiley, you are so right, some children don’t appreciate anything. They don’t realize how bless they are if they have parents that give to them and sacrifice for them. Sometimes you just have to let the ungrateful ones go and let the Lord deal with them.

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................................

  • @kennynightingale6280
    @kennynightingale6280 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for the words of wisdom and encouragement. Totally appreciate it 🙏🎷

  • @drrosettasimon1252
    @drrosettasimon1252 3 года назад +174

    I'm 58 years old and my Mother sometimes just Hurt my heart and I'm the child that has always done all I can to help her. But she can say what she wants I'll Never Ever disrespect My Mother Never.

    • @jarricah7920
      @jarricah7920 3 года назад +5

      That's toxic as hell

    • @WWETHROWBACKWILSON
      @WWETHROWBACKWILSON 3 года назад +1

      Yep! Despite my moms being in and out of my life, my family knows I love my mother despite the past!

    • @shayla3467
      @shayla3467 3 года назад +1

      This is exactly how my parents get treated by my grandparents do everything for them more then anyone and still gets the short end of the stick

    • @dijaworldworld3895
      @dijaworldworld3895 3 года назад +4

      Not healthy for your mental health. You can check her, respectfully, and still love her with all your heart. We pass these unhealthy traits down to our children when we allow should demonstrate.

    • @breadbutter4221
      @breadbutter4221 3 года назад +9

      That's not healthy. We need to start having the conversation about toxic parents. These parents raise hurt children who become hurt adults. Some parents are way too disrespectful. They talk down to you, belittle you and the moment you respond, the black community jumps on your ass because we believe that because they are parents regardless of their evil ways, they deserve respect. Nope. My mom is so toxic but I don't put up with it. I visit her every other week, male an occasional phone call. Unfortunately, she sold her house and moved in my sister's house without a discussion...visited and never left. Now the toxicity that my sister moved out of her house from after university is plopped right in her home. My sister's voice is now stifled. I don't join that.

  • @melodywalker3637
    @melodywalker3637 3 года назад +81

    I am in tears right now, He spoke everything I have been feeling. Lord Y'ALL DON'T KNOW MY STORY. I feel everything he said

    • @eliasyonuskeykey7146
      @eliasyonuskeykey7146 2 года назад +4

      Remain strong

    • @yvonnedelories4780
      @yvonnedelories4780 2 года назад +2

      Don't let NOBODY treat you like a discount. Know that you are worthy! Let them go! It hurts I know but in time things will get better! You teach people how to treat you! Start a whole new chapter and say there's a new sheriff in town. I'm the head B in this piece! I don't owe you nothing! Bye!! Pooof!

  • @Krystal_Leigh
    @Krystal_Leigh 3 года назад +14

    See... I can only speak for myself & my experience with my own parents. My mom consistently exudes the Webster definition of disrespect but then in turn wants to be respected. She hides her disrespect behind “You’re a child and you need to stay in a child’s place.” THEN will turn right around and talk about “You’re a grown woman.” Ok Ma, make your mind up!!! I will always be your child, I’ll never out age you for as long as I live but either you treat me as an adult and we equally respect each other or you treat me like a child and I immaturely disrespect you. My mom will say make a statement and I might reply, I disagree. That’s viewed as disrespectful. That’s considered “talking back.” I’m 31 years old Ma, LOL. We can both express our opinions & views and not be disrespectful to each other. It seems like every disagreement is viewed as disrespect to her. I can recall a situation or event from my childhood and she will fight me tooth and nail on how my recollection is inaccurate or I’m making it up. You cannot explain MY recollection from your vantage point. & my dad sits back and agrees with everything she says because if he takes up for me, I’m accused of “driving a wedge between them.” In turn, I just stay away. I miss them from time to time but every time the lines of communication are opened up again, I apologize for something I don’t fee bad about but my mom always requires an apology because it’s my fault, we’ll be good for 3 months then it’s another fallout and a 1-3 year time span of not talking. It’s exhausting.

    • @carltoncoleman454
      @carltoncoleman454 3 года назад +2

      That sounds exhausting. Now that I have lived on my own for a few years and I am going on 38 years old. I only talk to my mom about 4 to 5 times a week and see here maybe 3 to 4 times a month. When they have different ideologies that conflict with yours, it is good to put some healthy distance between you and them and not talk or see them everyday. My dad and I don't talk. I'm gay and atheist. He is a Christian minister so it is hard to engage with him because he is not open minded.

  • @terronhatter5847
    @terronhatter5847 2 года назад +1

    I loss my grandmother when I was little baby she loves me so much she told me she said respect your parents and odey your parents honor a mother and our father had days have belong upon Land gave god ty 🙏🙏

  • @carlosgant8826
    @carlosgant8826 3 года назад +118

    Called my 17yr old 3 times to check on him and see how he's doing in the course of a week...instead of calling me back, he text my parents out the blue and asked them to buy him a $62,000 car for graduation, don't even text his grandparents to say hello....My parents don't even have a $62,000 car for themselves!!!! I lost it, so I feel you Rickey and Kirk! Their sense of entitlement is ridiculous!

    • @violetsni
      @violetsni 3 года назад +8

      I’ll be your new kid lol

    • @lynnellison7587
      @lynnellison7587 3 года назад +4

      I would have cussed him out from amazing grace to an open opportunity . He got the nerves to asked the grandparents for anything . Forgive me Lord for what I’m about to do.

    • @sherylallen5598
      @sherylallen5598 3 года назад +9

      I hope your parents ignored that ridiculous request! And if your son doesn't want to talk or text you give him the same energy. Focus on the child that wants to talk to you or mentor a young person that will appreciate your kindness. When he's ready to be a respectful son, then you can have a good, healthy relationship.Let God whoop him. He'll get the message loud and clear.

    • @andrewgoosdy3814
      @andrewgoosdy3814 3 года назад

      Subscribe to channel

    • @yellowsubmarine3725
      @yellowsubmarine3725 3 года назад +1

      damn , lol

  • @santrassmith6194
    @santrassmith6194 3 года назад +259

    "SPEAK RICKEY SPEAK TELL THE TRUTH" DISRESPECTFUL KIDS!!!!!

  • @m.jaquarius8365
    @m.jaquarius8365 3 года назад +6

    Both my parents passed when I was super young. There isn't anything I wouldn't give to have them both back.

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................................

  • @derwinhampton7724
    @derwinhampton7724 3 года назад +2

    Ricky, you are 100% correct! You are truly a blessing to all of us!!! Thanks my Brother!!

  • @JVLIVSPhoto
    @JVLIVSPhoto 3 года назад +230

    “If a servant is pampered from his youth, He will become thankless later on.”
    - Proverbs 29:21

    • @JenJaneway
      @JenJaneway 3 года назад +11

      A servant...
      Disgusting
      Children aren't your servants or beneath you

    • @JVLIVSPhoto
      @JVLIVSPhoto 3 года назад +12

      @@JenJaneway true. But it can be applied to ANYONE regardless. I get what you’re saying tho.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад +3

      This is what it says. You might want to stop messing with the new version

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад +7

      Proverbs 29:21
      King James Version
      21 He that delicately bringeth up his servant from a child shall have him become his son at the length.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад

      @@JenJaneway right

  • @PhenomenalMary45
    @PhenomenalMary45 3 года назад +31

    I had to block my 24 yr old daughter for over a months for being disrespectful to me. Kirk Franklin is a parent and he's a parent with emotions. He don't owe anyone a apology.

  • @msrachaele
    @msrachaele 3 года назад +56

    I keep reading posts everywhere saying things about “Christians” looking down on Mr Franklin bc he cussed at his son. I’m still tryna figure out why.... As a part of the Saved community, I have yet to actually see a post from a Christian/Saved person that is downing or degrading him. Who is? His son is a whole.... Anyone with children knows that they will take you there sometimes. I’ve never had mine to take me that deep off in there, but we took a trip by there. I’m just not understanding. If you don’t have anything encouraging to say, be quiet. It’s hurtful and it looks to me like he’s already dealing with a lot. Everyone is.

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........................

  • @AngelettaANance
    @AngelettaANance 3 года назад +1

    Amen! What a WORD FOR THE WORLD TODAY. Thank you Jesus. God bless you brother Rickey Smiley. I love you brother. I feel the same way you feel and say these same words all of the time, Glory to the Lamb of God. SEE Ephesians Chapter 6. Much love to you my brother.

  • @shanitacampbell9732
    @shanitacampbell9732 3 года назад +117

    Blood ain't thicker than PEACE!

  • @FunTimeWithBoogieAndDebo
    @FunTimeWithBoogieAndDebo 3 года назад +189

    I’m 36 and I needed to hear this in regards to my own mama. Dear God, I’m just lucky to still have her and my daddy. They’re 61 and 67. They still work and they can have what ever they need from me. We are just lucky to have them. Thank god. Tell it Rickey.

    • @josephnelson3287
      @josephnelson3287 3 года назад +4

      Preach!!!! I just called my momma after this.

    • @itstheberrys6181
      @itstheberrys6181 3 года назад +4

      That's good! Praise them & give them their roses while they're here.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад +3

      That’s not everyone situation. Some people have idiots for parents. Looks like kerrion is one of them

    • @josephnelson3287
      @josephnelson3287 3 года назад +7

      Some people "think" they have idiots for parents.... UNTILL they became parents....then a 💡 comes on. That was me and mom scenario....Ive grown to appreciate, as an ADULT, what I thought was an idiot, as a KID!!!!

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 года назад

      @@josephnelson3287 I’m almost 47 and mine is still an idiot. Nobody likes jezebel. They are hanging around for her for her money. I’m not!!! I don’t do drama , and I’m not going to hell with her. For supplies my needs and the blessing of the Lord it maketh rich and he addeth no sorrow to it . God never said to let toxic parents ruin your life,

  • @Topdog715
    @Topdog715 3 года назад +1

    I've never listened to the Rickey Smiley Radio show before. But after this I'm looking for it in the day time with a flashlight. Great and and true words.

  • @lc-bb6bd
    @lc-bb6bd 3 года назад +1

    Damn right Rickey. I have 4 grown kids and 2 grown step kids. I raised the step kids too. You are up lifting me today with the message because I have been disrespected.

  • @MsNandi001
    @MsNandi001 3 года назад +187

    "The only people that don't speak to you are the people you have helped" I felt that, that's so true.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 3 года назад +6

      That one hit me hard also. I vividly remember people I've helped and they would pass me straight in the street. It shook my core.

    • @dianneturner7026
      @dianneturner7026 3 года назад +1

      Fact!!!

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 3 года назад +3

      While I never married and have no children of my own, I've allowed those whom I helped to disrespect me and now they don't speak to me but I don't lose sleep. I'll never allow anyone else to disrespect me.

    • @dawnramsey7164
      @dawnramsey7164 3 года назад +2

      Yes lawd

    • @tinajoiner7294
      @tinajoiner7294 3 года назад +1

      DEEP DOWN IN MY SOUL I FELT IT TOO

  • @ChaddMichael
    @ChaddMichael 3 года назад +271

    Man. I’m calling my dad today and apologizing to him. That man did everything for me... he wasn’t perfect but no one is. Especially not me. So. Yeah. Thanks for this. Hopefully he forgives me.

    • @womeninministrytvbroadcast5516
      @womeninministrytvbroadcast5516 3 года назад +6

      So sweet of you. I pray it worked out for you. If you need prayer, call 1-888-507-7293 - WIMTV prayer line!

    • @ChaddMichael
      @ChaddMichael 3 года назад +4

      @@womeninministrytvbroadcast5516 God bless you Thank u. I’ll let you know the Good News soon

    • @KCStorm
      @KCStorm 3 года назад +4

      Very mature of you. I haven't heard from my son in months.

    • @bdjonx
      @bdjonx 3 года назад

      ❤️

    • @derexgriffin7775
      @derexgriffin7775 3 года назад +4

      Good for you! It's NOT too late!
      God Bless

  • @yvonnedrayton4454
    @yvonnedrayton4454 3 года назад +4

    Hat's off to Ricky Smiley!! Your response to the Kirk Franklin "situation" a week ago gave me chills! Wow!! It was powerful and so filled with truth, concerning these disrespectful grown*** children, who think they are growner then the parents b it father, mother grandma, granddad,etc,etc. , And what's so sad is, they don't have respect for SELF. Anyway, RS continue to uplift KirkF , because I am and I know millions of others r too. GOD bless you!!

  • @arabionknights3410
    @arabionknights3410 3 года назад +1

    Mr. Smiley, you are speaking truth.
    You never know how your kids, will turn out.
    Some people just ain't shit.

  • @rwhite3119
    @rwhite3119 3 года назад +297

    He owes his grown son only but love... And for the ones throwing stones; don’t forget you live in a glass house yourself!

    • @thethruthis3196
      @thethruthis3196 3 года назад +6

      Thats what i say when y’all judging gays

    • @terrymiller111
      @terrymiller111 3 года назад +6

      Mines is more like a small cabin/tiny home, but I get your point.

    • @atlsupremeg7462
      @atlsupremeg7462 3 года назад +8

      I see 0 people throwing stones

    • @miccheck1checka741
      @miccheck1checka741 3 года назад +11

      He don't owe his son nothing because if with out your parents you would never have been thought of these youngins need to understand that y'all keep being friends instead of a parent??????? Get it together!!!

    • @atlsupremeg7462
      @atlsupremeg7462 3 года назад +5

      @@miccheck1checka741 what the hell are you talking about, everybody agrees with him angry mam

  • @TheeKingRayzor
    @TheeKingRayzor 3 года назад +333

    The example Ricky Smiley gave about kids who lose their parents while their in middle school is heart wrenching.

    • @deecee7157
      @deecee7157 3 года назад +16

      So very true. My childhood friend lost both parents when she was 9. A drunk driver killed them in a head on crash. My friend was never the same. She's struggled with depression before we even had a name for what her problem was.

    • @t.thompson8985
      @t.thompson8985 3 года назад +9

      I lost my mother at 9. If only.

    • @bearstalkandmore4245
      @bearstalkandmore4245 3 года назад +7

      Facts Lost My Daddy And I Was Elementary

    • @nawattabrown6708
      @nawattabrown6708 3 года назад +5

      I did at 11..my Mom

    • @tequilashots875
      @tequilashots875 3 года назад +8

      That was me. I lost my father in middle school. I envy those adults that have their parents in their lives.

  • @jamesware8708
    @jamesware8708 3 года назад +1

    I've looked at this video several times and that chose not to comment earlier, but this time is it home as a parent we go to jail for the actions of our children, but it's unappreciated. But your love never stop, Ricky's comments and testimony as well as the other commentators are so true. As a single father it cuts even deeper because we're not expected to succeed at parenting

  • @timothylwoods
    @timothylwoods 3 года назад +8

    Some of us wish we had our dad around to cuss us out, at almost 40 mine wasn’t around none of my childhood and hardly seen him in my adult life. He passed last year may he rest, but sadly to say I had absolutely no feelings although I think about him often I couldn’t bring myself to grieve like that for a person I hardly knew. He will thank Kirk in the long run and at 33 if he ain’t got it by now then he ain’t gone get it lost cause. Thankfully my mom played both roles and did a dam good job. I got cussed on many occasions and I’m doing just fine ,a good cursing out from time to time is good for the soul 😂

  • @dsa3696
    @dsa3696 3 года назад +373

    My mom passed away and I still won't disrespect her, period.

    • @DiamondBlocks-yx4yb
      @DiamondBlocks-yx4yb 3 года назад +4

      My condolences 🙏🏽

    • @Tigerex966
      @Tigerex966 3 года назад +1

      And neither will she disrespect you.
      My condolences also.

    • @anaistana5631
      @anaistana5631 3 года назад +2

      My condolences

    • @saun_7
      @saun_7 3 года назад +1

      Same here because our mothers would rise from the grave and slap us silly, lol. I miss her so much!

    • @Tigerex966
      @Tigerex966 3 года назад +1

      @@saun_7 No because we were raised right and no better, and are Mom's would not hit a grown man or woman, but pray the blood of Jesus on them instead.
      To get rid of that rebellious demon.

  • @tsyd691
    @tsyd691 3 года назад +83

    They show more love to social media than the parents! You blessed a lot of people with that word.

  • @micheleseven
    @micheleseven 3 года назад +4

    Raise up a child in the way they should go; and when they are OLD, they will not depart from it. Lord Jesus help until then. God is good and I trust Him with my children.

  • @tanyathomas6938
    @tanyathomas6938 3 года назад +1

    Lord this touched so close to home Rickey and Crew. Lord knows I needed to hear this from dealing with a similar situation

  • @lashaundablake1625
    @lashaundablake1625 3 года назад +196

    My mother passed away when I was 13 years old...every life event I experienced she was not there. Cherish your parents if they are doing the best that they can!

    • @SoleahWright
      @SoleahWright 3 года назад +6

      My Stepmom Died When My Sisters Were 7 And 10. Their 14 And 20 Now. The Youngest Does Not Remember Much About Her Mom And I Get LIVID WHEN MY BROTHER Disrespects Our Mom ARE YOU CRAZY????

    • @latonyajennings867
      @latonyajennings867 3 года назад +2

      My father was murdered when I was 6. My mom was all i knew.

  • @kycogicboi
    @kycogicboi 3 года назад +82

    I lost my dad when I was 34 and trust me it was the upmost respect for him! 6 years later the sting of his death is still 💯 percent painful

    • @pastormarkmoorejr.6687
      @pastormarkmoorejr.6687 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2day with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for q and in the it of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2347012338752)tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................................

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 2 года назад +2

      My biological mother passed away it was the greatest moment of my life. A nasty, liar, manipulator, b**ch less in the world. Such a relief from a whole nasty childhood led by her.

  • @latoyahopwood
    @latoyahopwood 3 года назад +1

    Preach! ❤️❤️❤️ GOD will give you what you need! I agree...stop gracing disrespectful people, including relatives, with your presence! ❤️

  • @tempiemiller6349
    @tempiemiller6349 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for bringing it home to us all today.

  • @BillionaireMusk
    @BillionaireMusk 3 года назад +73

    I never knew my father and my mother died 20 years ago. Some people don’t know how lucky they have just have the ability to pick up the phone and talk to a parent.

    • @yellowsubmarine3725
      @yellowsubmarine3725 3 года назад +1

      Facts.

    • @tyy5557
      @tyy5557 3 года назад +1

      Well said. My dad passed ten years ago and I still cry because I miss him.