Pour Minds - Episode 150 - Hold It Down for What? Ft. LightSkin Keisha
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- Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
- Hey y’all! This episode features LightSkin Keisha and we discuss Holding somebody down and fighting for your relationship vs leaving , Are men better friends than women, masturbating in a relationship and more!
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When she said “you’re already planning to bring a child in the world with a deficit in their life” i knew this was going to be good!
YESSSSS LOL
Period
True
Lmfaooo.. Y’all crazy, it was a healthy debate.. We respect our girl opinions even though it’s different ❤️
EXACTLY..AND THIS PERSPECTIVE WAS NECESSARY TO GIVE. I LOVED IT :)
Man Keisha went in, promoted accountability, and presented logic. 😩🏆🏅🐐👏🏽😩🙌🏽
No shade but it’s nice to see someone with a different mindset on here for once loveeeee Keisha
this !!!!!
I always said they focus on one coward once they focus on all audience that’s when the views will go up
Same thing I said! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yesss I agree lol…. Both of them two lady’s changing they mindset when Keisha walked in. Go check the other interviews with other people. They talking reckless
I agree!!
The Keisha girl is a breath of fresh air hearing that from a young woman like her. These comments make me extremely happy to be my age and have found my wife before social media exploded. The way most of you view life is so depressing and I'm shocked to read 80 percent of these comments from the females, only a few grown women spoke here.
Happy for you and I am so ready to find my wife because how most view life is crazy.
I expected it from the rapper . She was actually the sensible one . The other two woman will just be single baby mothers if that . She said” dudes aren’t built like her married father . Is she built like her married mom ?
@@FireAngelChris good luck family. You will
@@therealsyxx Appreciate that’s big time and I have a good feeling I will.
@@PhilBlack718 Exactly 💯 Facts!
As a Pour Minds regular, I'm only 19 minutes into this episode and I'm glad that this conversation is taking place for your audience. Ladies its okay not to go along with today's culture of dating.
@@IAMWATER7 It's actually not "you're" as you typed. I'm not sure if "you're" trying to correct her but she used it right.
Your = one's possession
You're= you are
Example @Iamwater you're wrong.
@@IAMWATER7 Kevin Samuels said Black men read & write at a 4th grade & you proved it.
@@RVANae I don’t think he was correcting her grammar , I think he was saying “your audience = black women” , which is probably mostly true , and that’s crazy how you brought Kevin Samuels into it and he had nothing to do with it 😂
@@gladyswilliams6058 Do you not understand how you are (you’re) audience doesn’t make sense? Are you serious 🧐
@@gladyswilliams6058 Please don’t try to interpret what someone says when they clearly meant what they said. You’re defending someone that’s wrong and that doesn’t make sense.
Very impressed by Keisha. She respects marriage and men in general.
Keisha is soooo real! I love how real she was being with Drea. In a way that was loving but was like “girl there IS better out there!”
Amen not hating or nothing just girls having a good real ass conversation and all staying real and true to they self even if they don't agree
YESSSSS I second that!!
ruclips.net/video/CPU-t3UvBqI/видео.html #mustseetv !
U can read Keisha whole vibe and what she thinking by her facial expressions
Facts... She was most definitely ready to go... She kept it cute though
@@imsoy2k Because she puts babymommas like you in the spot with your little Treyvon shooting up the block
@@imsoy2k you had that response ready huh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She aint feeling drea but like lex
As a Virgo we don’t like to always be talking sometimes we be thinking of other shit. Not in a rude way we just be thinking hard like she said. Plus, she’s kinda chill and all this loudness is kinda not her all the time. Plus, we listen and think.
The awkward moment when you realize that Keisha is talking about gimme gimme gimme girls on a podcast hosted by gimme gimme gimme girls 😭
Best place to have the conversation
Facts!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
in they defense they saying gimme cause they already got
exactly like they talk about getting things a lot so its kind of no vibing
Light. Skin. Keisha.
THANK YOU for being a beam of light, I love her perspective, her mindset, her holding all women, including her peoples here, accountable. THIS is very promising and healthy, necessary dialogue that will bring forth progression if more women are on her level mentally and emotionally. Loved every bit of what she brought to the table, no pun intended.
Kiesha asked what needed to be asked Lmaoo so funny straight out the gate!
That chic comes across as authentic...I like her music and vibe
Cooking and cleaning are survival skills. We should ALL know how to do them. It shouldn’t determine if you bring anything to the table🥴🥴
facts , that why I hate when girls say that;s what they bring to the table.
Yes it’s giving pick me, it’s so cringe I hate it
Omg for real. I hate when Men ask this question. Like can you cook? Both genders should know how to cook & clean. That’s basic af & shouldn’t even be mentioned. Embarrassing
You'd be surprised how many of these new age thots can't cook.
@@NBA1529 LMAO
It’s so funny seeing some of the comments calling Keisha a pick me because she never once tried to make men seem better than women. She said BOTH parties need to be held accountable in relationships and how they contribute to the demise. I can see why she doesn’t have much female friends, especially in ATL because women ain’t tryna hear the real
I live in Atlanta and you right unless you are promoting fuckery most women and MEN in Atlanta not trying to hear it half the people in Atlanta can’t even read to be honest
Better to be a pick me than a pass me.... Lonely old and drunk with nice furniture that cats pee all on
It’s also why she even have a man. Those people attacking her are the types of ladies she was referring to. They didn’t have a problem with the other harmful rhetoric. It’s the selfishness that caught them. “Like how dare you ask me to give the same energy to a man that he gives me”
@@exceptionallife4768 telling people they gonna be by themselves is not an insult LMAOOOO
@@WrestlinginColorPodcast 👍🏿
I had to hit like after Keisha put Drea on game "women have to hold themselves accountable for who they give their attention too..." yes!
We definitely need more ladies like Keisha to sit down with other women in challenging a lot of the things they say. Like 80% of the ladies in the comments are upset at her for speaking truth on behalf of the man but any other time these guest have the same opinions they cool with it. 🔥🔥
We don’t want a headache either😂😂😂😂…… you can’t tell single women anything today. The all are going look up and be 80 and wonder why they are in assisted living alone. They assume when we say be flexible and feminine means be a doormat. When we are actually saying no man is perfect give them the space to grow and understand your boundaries then do what you need to do to be healthy and no man wants to date a n!gga with a vagina…..Their fantasy of what love should look like is more powerful than any reality we can offer. They don’t want to hear about the real way relationships work. That it can be beautiful and ugly sometimes too….and they want men to think like women but be alpha at the same time….. I literally had a gf who broke up with a man because she called him at 8 pm and he didn’t call her back until 11 am the next morning. He said he went to sleep. She has no proof of cheating. She ended because “just in case” ….it’s weird and I want no parts 😂😂😂🤷🏽♀️
@@kckrox6911 lol they are insane for real. They don’t want the real reality of the relationships. They want fantasy of what things should be. They better wake up.
🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@t_chopper It’s crazy
Man y’all the reason why I elevated my life I move into my apartment next month love my girls 🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and got my own car with a good job! It’s the glow for me 😘
Congrats sis!!🎉🎊
Keisha has a real perspective, very mature. Talented, funny, and understands her value, period.
More so she understands the value in a man.
Keisha is 1000% correct Idc idc she’s RIGHT
I have so much respect for Keisha. I already loved her as an artist, she’s an amazing woman. The whole package, super respectful, smart, and beautiful.
Keisha is a TRUE VIRGO. Come through w the LOGIC & probing questions. No tolerance for BS
Forreal.
As a Virgo I can be honest and say she came with the judgment and boring uncreating backward perspective
@@kdennis2461 I don't know what was so backwards. Perspective is subjective... and while I do agree Keisha may have been a little judgy, I don't think she felt anything different than someone joining the show for the first time
ruclips.net/video/CPU-t3UvBqI/видео.html #mustseetv !
@@dontdomeboo81 😂😂😂😂ouuu
LOVED this episode!!
To the last letter: He live with you and you caught him cheating. Girl say goodbye to that man peacefully and quietly like Keisha said. He doesn’t deserve your body an he doesn’t deserve to share a space with you and your child. Y’all deserve happiness 🤍
Lightskin Keisha was a phenomenal guest, matched the vibe perfectly.
Got me thinking about when Love Dorsey comes on the show🤔
Love Dorsey fine asf
That a be a good episode
I’m not gonna lie when my ex listen to keisha on the radio and I heard her rap. I honestly thought she was like another city girl or some ish but listening to the mini clips before I’m about to listen to the full podcast took me off guard with what she was saying so ill give her her props and credit is due
We need more women like keisha!!! women like her are the one's you marry
Nah niggas just don’t want that
Big facts, have my back baby
she got engaged too!
Facts
I really enjoyed listening to this. Especially about women taking accountability. If you want to be married, women should check themselves. Not all men cheat, plus the same women complaining about the cheating, are low key cheating as well and often times more. Also, it’s the type of men we choose. My channel is all about prepping women to become wives. I want the marriage rate to go back up especially in the black community. Keisha was on point on this ‼️
Agree
Didn’t know Keisha was so intelligent👏🏾 way to teach these city girls. This is the exact type of women to avoid fellas !
Out The Gate Ms Keish hitting it out the park. Yes Ma'am!!
I love Keisha and her perspective on things. I swear I’ve been trying to figure out for so long who she looks like and it’s Gladys Night & Rah Digga.
Yes!!!
Aye Keisha kept it 1000! Lex sound like she gone be passing that box like communion for life! I LOVE how Keisha said “You gone bring a child in the world with a deficit” in response to Drea saying she want a baby without a man. 🤦🏽♂️
I say the same thing Keisha says about friends “I’ll pray for you and wish you the best with your goals but you can’t sit at my table anymore”
Keisha just got even more attractive. Dumping logic on their feelings. Wish her all the best in her relationship.
They will not invite her back
@@GETBIG4WARD 🤣🤣
After that interview, I have so much respect for LightSkin Keisha.
She is such a Virgo her energy so nonchalant and chill😂
It's wild that she plans on being a single parent. Also, its more to raising a kid then just the financial aspect.
Then said they don’t make these niggas like my daddy but are u like yo momma is the question
Can’t tell these modern women the truth, they’re allergic to it
It's still a major issue in the black community. Our people need the most work on the development of relationships and communication. It could be a lot more black relationships but the huge disconnection in that area is growing. Especially in America
I knew this episode would be a back and forth. They twooooooo different types of women. Neither is better than the next but they def attract two different type of dudes
One is BETTER
@@therevolutionsolution7560 which one
Which one do you think?
Her man ain't nothin special 🤣 y'all swear
Great episode, but also could tell lex and drea held back some of their real opinions on dating. Having a BDB literally only came up once 😂😂
Keisha is madd cool! 💯 Diggin the perspective she brought to the show.
Love her!
Love her mindset Lightskin Keisha really brought out some real questions we all need to ask ourselves. When she said bring a child into the world with a deficit in your life.
5 minutes in & Kiesha being the girl that I love. Im glad she dropping gems, I Love her & Coca relationship
Lexp a comedian fr fr 🤣. She need to really think about doing it officially.
This video made me like/support Keisha even more. I do feel like modern women will ask for a traditional man but aren’t traditional wives themselves. You want him to take care of you and pay all the bills…but he will come home to a dirty house and unseasoned food😬😬
👏👏👏 Exactly
The house being dirty is bad enough but...MY FOOD NOT SEASONED!!? YOU GOTS TA GO
THANK YOU!!!!
FACTS!!!
Tried that once, just once. Some women don't realize it's about peace. At the end of a long day of grinding no man wants to come home to dysfunction and war. The problem is most of these modern women are too lazy for the work required for the men they truly want. Well have fun with the F-boys and deadbeat babydaddies.
@@Wanderer25 I can’t lie. I lot of women are like that and it’s sad
I absolutely lovedddd this episode. I love Keisha and listening to her talk made me like her even more. Keep shining ladies!
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS my faves giving free game on “how a woman thinks is how she lives”🥰
First time I watched a whole episode straight through….Light skinned Keisha has a new fan!
I can't take Lex serious, she's just tooooo funny 😂 🤣 😆
How ironic that’s she’s engaged now 😍 love to see it
Lex is a damn fool .. she said “OOP, not you slugging me” 😂😂😂😂😂
Them: “Y’all know we never have guest”
Them: Having mad guests lol
Well we can tell you a new listener 😂❤️
@@DreaAndLex Lmao I am 🙈 heyyyy
She a true Virgo fr! Loved this one girls ❤
I love the different perspectives!
Yesss ladies!!! By far my favorite episode! My views are pretty much the same as Keisha’s on most of these topics! True Virgo Mindset!! I love to see the different perspectives!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
ruclips.net/video/CPU-t3UvBqI/видео.html #mustseetv !
BY FAR 🥰🙏🏽‼️
Guess who just stepped in the room Virgo💯
I did not know she was a Virgo!!! I felt this i’m a Virgo too
Big Virgo energy
This is awesome,seeing beautiful women talk about these things without negativity was great to watch! Love Pour Minds you guys keep up the great work, also light skin Keisha was great I hope this won’t be the last time she visits. ❤️
This was an interesting episode, I'll just say that.
Whew Chile 🤣 it was definitely that
Very 👀
🤣🤣
Hey LSK!!! I luv the way she thinks. You have the right to desire whatever you please in a partner. And letting go is true freedom for real!
Really refreshing to hear a well grounded woman like Keisha talk in this madness…I wonder if it’s from how she was raised or she had to learn it at some point
It's amazing how they stated what they want or like then walked it back as soon as Keisha told them the opposite.
Yeah that was annoying. Just goes to show what they really want is what Keisha is talking about
Yo Keisha bringing out the "Power" canonical studies lectures. 😂 Smart af and a great person to talk to. You all are.
I'm crying Lex only letting Ryan take his dates for donuts, coffee & conversation 🤣🤣🤣🤣Momma Lex got all the rules 😭📝🍩☕💘
Loved Keisha on here she’s very opinionated, I wouldn’t say judgmental! She just brought a different prespective love it!!! ♥️ Hey Drea & Lex
You could tell Andrea felt a way. Low key cringe.
@@RosteeveBellier I don’t think she did lol
Lex: I’m forever getting my lick back
Keisha: no no no no 😅🤣
Karma is me 💎
It is refreshing to see there’s women in the world out here
Facts 💪🏽💜
🥴What???
Keisha was so honest i loved her here and on everything else please have her more.
When Keisha said I’m a Virgo, I was like I knew it 🥰 cuz we think things so deeply and internally when it comes to friendship, relationship, etc. we analyze and observe EVERYTHING but immediately show loyalty once we see for who the person really is and being honest with the person.
So fair at 16:31 what I hear is Have Self Worth ladies and with that you’ll be good . Have a reason to sit at the table don’t just come empty handed. I love this conversation ladies
" forever get my lick back" 19:00 🤣i felt that lex lmaoo
Lmfaooooo
Yes!! Thanks for putting me onto Ari Lennox ladies! Down here in Aussie we get music so slow 😭 she’s amazing 🤩
Keisha is so true! Accountability! Views 100% matched
All Women are not catty and jealous, it’s the kind of women you befriend 🥴🥴🥴
Most modern women are catty, jealous and selfish. Unable to properly function in a relationship 🤷🏾♂️
@@terrancearch8722 once again, maybe that’s the kind of people you are around because I don’t know any women like that.
@@liveentertainment4841 of course not. I'm sure every woman you know is perfect. Foh your as delusional as you wanna be. Smh 🤦🏾
@@terrancearch8722 I didn’t insult you so don’t insult me. You don’t know where I’m from or what I have been through so DO NOT insult me. This is the internet, I hope you have a life outside it.
@nanci cooper ok, you mean arguing? Because men are in these comments too. We are all arguing tbh
Keisha music don’t match her opinions Lmaoo
Interesting
Sounds like most rappers(male and female)
That's most rappers and R&B artists today
Cause she knows ignorance sells
@@slick1hit literally… fucking literally
Keisha is legit af, loved her perspective...... Sooooo they forgot Keisha was the guest? Towards the end it was alot of head shakes🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This was an interesting episode! I don’t necessarily agree with all of what Keisha said but definitely good to have a different perspective. Y’all are looking delicious this episode 🤩🤩
Care to share with us what you disagreed with Keisha on?
Great jobs ladies. I know this was a difficult episode for y’all. LSK cool and all, but she has a very strong energy. She really criticized and downed some of the ladies’ opinions in a way that could have easily resulted in arguments but Lex did a great job of keeping things light and funny when the energy got a little thick.
This is an example of what podcasters and radio personalities face when they bring celebrities and influencers on the mic. The goal is to have a great show & gain new followers but with that, you never really know what kinda energy they are going to bring to the mic (e.g. City Girls on Whoreible Decisions). The great hosts, gonna keep the energy right no matter what. Keep going ladies.
I agree
I totally agree. I heard this episode first on spotify then came here to check the comments to see if it was just me lol. LSK has male identified energy and it made sense when she said she only has male friends to me.
I feel like she had strong opinions just like Lex and Drea and I think she just didn’t hold back. She has a very direct approach and that’s just her but I can see how she has a lot of male friends too. I think it was good overall but u can tell she was holding back a bit with the personal questions bc of her celebrity and media training but I can understand that
She was definitely tense and too serious in this, could’ve loosen up a bit.
Yeah it was giving Hotep PickMe.. Im a married woman and still felt some things she said were cringe . She was very judgmental and condescending at times but still a good episode
Never say never. When you eventually meet the right person, your life and perceptions will change. Period.
that awkward moment when they asked how to stay snatched and they all had surgery.. OOP 🥴😂 DIET SIS 😂😂
Now see😭
Surgery & Diet and Maintenance 🙂
Honestly, i can understand from each woman’s perspective in this discussion.
I have to say keisha is a breath of fresh air. She is speaking truth about accountability. Women are not acting like their mothers so how can they expect men to act like their dads did.
Keisha s a REAL one❤️❤️❤️
The ending song was everything! Ya'll killed it.
I got big respect to lightskinkeisha!!!! She’s very down to earth and respect men in general. Very refreshing to hear a black woman actually respect a man and understand the value a man brings.
Keisha spoke some real positive advice, I was glad just to hear some of that knowledge.
I love that Keisha music is actually the complete opposite of her mentality in real life! Loved her pov on this episode❤️
Why portray the opposite though?
@@majone1231 it’s what’s selling right now
Keisha is the blessing and logic. It shows mind set between single and the taken. She has her mind straight still a beautiful string women but with out being too much or too strong. She comes off so well logical and thought out. I as a man don't cheat still building my finance. I ain't tall. Over all im great. But she is right most (people) don't know the right steps the accountability. To do your part. You can choose. But where is the benefit of the man, everyone brings up what the women get. Hell I'll work but I need someone who still their while I'm down. I won't let my self be their for long. But show you on my side. Can you cook clean need to know you can pass on good things to our kids. Why pay for it if I can do it my self but I'm here working to make sure you good. You working or got a Hobbie I understand. How you gonna not put your self in it all. Pay half or just under the bills. That's commitment ill pay the dates pay other things and trips. Why add the stress. I mean get up to at least 40. Show you can do some good habits. You don't go for a relationship saying I could do this my self. If you can but stay single if that's the case. But for relationship put your self in their. That's That's extra 40 percent or even a around that I got you. But anchor both of your self their to work it out. She is right. You'll get booted. Even seen men like that. Look food good but ain't the same if it ain't done by someone you supposed to love. But put your self in as much as I do you. I do t expect to keep up with a man. But pull up. You get together as a team. We have to have each other be the peace. Like out in the effort. Stop trying to play these games. Say you put in 100 percent all day, and you with someone that still takes work. But you still got the same 100 like you single. What does the other one get. But be sweet lift my ego a but I got you while you stunt. But at the same time to get the right guy. Just know like most belive in personification. How you gonna put attention videos or seeming what sexual videos. What you put out is what you get. Show me you skill your mind shows like this. They seem still a but left or right. But dam these still good women that if you can work it out a bit I'm down. Guys really want to be that guy mowing the lawn for you while you looking like you hungry. Give good men a chance. But men like me different don't cheat check most boxes but height and financial still building. Find that one that will return what you give. And you know what what find that good one that does and then have a kid. Want better for your and for your own even if future. Be prideful but humble. I don't know this Point I'm rambling. But we do got good people. Be powerful prideful humble and just try don't add to all the toxic people out their. I want a good women with that strong mentality. Tell me when I fuck up but admit when you do too. But state your boundaries. And she lost me at the virgo I am 2 but no that don't mean nun. And I do t do no cheating no high number past. I don't go for religion. But where is your pride self respect. Yeah well ima sleep it's late. But ain't everyone bad. And fix some your issue before trying again take time for that. Can be that other half if yours has a shaky foundation. Just remember that.
I wish more women today thought like Keisha does...act the fool, attract fools.
Ayyeeee I just know this episode is gunna be lit 🔥
Shoutout to my Virgo sister. This is probably the best episode yet.
I did not completely agree with anything stated in this video and I like that 😂. The stark differences in opinions between you three encouraged me to think critically and openly. Keisha is definitely a beautiful soul and I appreciate her mind, even though I didn’t align with most of her views. Same for Drea and Lex. Y’all are all radiant!!!
Then you are probably single and miserable. She is successful and a millionaire for a reason. She was the smartest person in this video. Feels good to hear this coming from a female of status.
@@409gmoney you a weirdo
@@bellafaith3978 Don't be mad. If you were thinking like her then you'd be successful too.
@lightskin Keisha our community would be in a different place if 70%-80% of our women would think like you when it comes to relationships and creating family over just having kids. I appreciate you✊🏽
Love the different perspectives & the collaboration of different mindsets....Lex is hilarious!!
Thank you!
Loveeee this episode perfect guest for different perspectives love y’all as always Big Mama this hair the one!!!!
Absolutely loved this episode! love me some Keisha, her mindset is everything .
1 if you think the table is yours you will never find a man that will take care of you you gon take care of him 2 accountability is everything and the idea its spreading is giving me hope
The hosts literally have poor minds when it comes to having a realistic relationship
Keisha is the truth. She showed that it's levels to this shit.
Light skin Keisha stated some facts 💎
This was a really good conversation. I’ve always loved me some Keisha and after hearing what she said, makes me love her even more. Tuh y’all better take notes cause sis is engaged now 🥰🥰🥰
This podcast was everything. Regardless, I love not honest everyone was with their honest opinions, being completely transparent, and everyone has a vibrant personality.
Omg y’all just gagged me with these crimps!!! Def giving H town baddie realness & I’m here for it Hun 🖤 Keep it coming with the guest, we appreciate it! Heyyy Lightskin Keishaaaa 😍
If that man not treating you right, have you feeling miserable, leave. Idc what he brings to the table. Some men think bc they're men, they get a pass on doing bs. Not all men are the same. Your own sanity matters. You matter. Take care of self first.
And the fact she got dad issues and still keeping it a 100 not using it as a reason to keep her back, respect to kesha all the way
Drea’s Michelle impression was spot on! 🤣