Exactly. This thing is saying you wearing these shoes makes you cheap. I'm going for comfort now, stuff what people think after all you won't see them people again
I agree with Miss Vivian. Just because it is made in your size doesn't mean you have to buy it or wear it. If you look cheap and dress cheap that is how you should expect to be treated. Women of color has had to deal with stereotyping long enough. I beieve Miss Vivian is only saying "be the change that we as women would like bring about." Don't shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message or if the message steps on your toes.
Too late! I bought my plastic shoes and I love them. I don’t wear them often but I’ve gotten many compliments. I wear them in a very classy way. 😂 Though I agree with you on all the other points.
Totally agree...don't ve plastics but love the good quality one's I ve seen. I agree with some of her point but I also think she added some of her personal bias on some shoes
I believe this is opinion based, as there are many styles of platforms that look very elegant especially with a long trouser, as this gives it a more pulled together...professional and savvy look. But I do agree with everything else you stated.
My style is classy, some elegance, sophistication, preppy look but all modesty. Like you said individuality. But I love love love dressing classy & elegant. I love modesty.
I discovered your channel a few days ago and I absolutely can not stop watching. I just subscribed😃. I WISH I had this sort of instructional guidance in my teens, 20s, and/or 30s. Thank you Vivien for all you do to help girls and women understand how to become Women Of Elegance.
Platform is good with long wide leg trousers when the length of your trousers cover the shoes. Also if you have very long dress that you do not wish to cut the length, platform will be great. I wear it that way and no one sees my shoes. You just have to know how to dress up.
Brilliant video. I love how honest you are. Very true that regardless of the price tag they are still cheap materials ie plastic. More content on the correct elegant shoes would be lovely to watch. X
I admire you so much ma'am,I appreciate your tips so much. I'd like to be more elegant but I don't know where to start, may you please share your journey of how you went about it.
Lol ! Still have a pair of stunning vintage platform* heels from my “disco dancing” days - my daughter wore them to a 70’s party and EVERYONE wanted to know where she got them. * Can’t believe I didn’t break an ankle wearing them !!!
😮 4:06 Wait I'm chewing gum no! You mean I'm chewing latex! …… omg I have to result this A.S.A.P! Thank you for the video of elegance! I am transitioning to a more elegant, classy look and you have helped me out tremendously ❤❤
@@thekingsdaughter4233I use them sometimes, however, not all soil is soft enough to cause the heels to sink. Now don't get me wrong...I always have an extra pair of either strappy sandal or canvas shoe. But for the most part...I'm a heels lady.
Thanks 🙏🏾 for this video. I’ve stopped wearing high heels 👠 for years. I have bunions and pain from wearing uncomfortable shoes. I now wear shoes that are comfortable for my feet
Loved this! Not that I’m guilty of wearing any of these. I would love help on casual shoes like tennis shoes and flats and how to wear them. Thank you!
@@ujunwaaniere9798 I haven't forgotten about the plastic shoes. I still might buy them. What can I say? They are cute and I have my own ideas on class and elegance.
I am not 100% sure about some of your comments about elegance shoes like that what to wear what not to wear. I know you’re talking about from the British elegance fashion point of view. But other countries might not agree with you.
Exactly. Elegance to me is a personal style you carve out for yourself and the way you put your outfits together. As long as it’s kept simple and neat, you achieve elegance with your carriage
I agree with Miss Vivian. Just because it is made in your size doesn't mean you have to buy it or wear it. If you look cheap and dress cheap that is how you should expect to be treated. Women of color has had to deal with stereotyping long enough. I beieve Miss Vivian is only saying "be the change that we as women would like bring about." Don't shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message or if the message steps on your toes.
When it comes to your back and health. It's mainly how you carry yourself that will portray elegance. As you get older, the platform works best, in my opinion, for all the right reasons.
They really are. I have the x-rays and medical bills to prove how dangerous they are. If only this video had come out in January so I didn't try to look "cute'
@@syn67501 I used to dress for looks and now I dress for comfort. Nothing is worth losing your health and well-being just so you can look "good". Your health is your wealth. Your body won't take care of you if you don't take care of it. Anyway, I'm glad you quit wearing those horrible things 🤗
If you have to work this hard to look elegant, you probably aren't elegant. There is jothing worse than fake elegance. Just go with what feels narural to you. Natural elegance should just ooze out of u, not dragged out of u😂
Good advice to the ladies. Thank you for sharing😂 that lady was walking funny with them hills! Ladies read Ur Bibles Ruth was looking after her mother in law Very caring Had so much love for the elderly and she worked hard all day The Good Lord rewarded her You are all beautiful It's your attitude that makes you attractive 😃 ❤as for your outfits, if you are comfortable it shows This video has made me think about many things Why will you wear shoes made from plastic? Good point Wear clothes and shoes made from natural products Wear clothes made from good fabrics n materials.. In my opinion Summer or winter it's good to wear clothes made from cotton and silk.. ( fair trade)jewellery too For men or women look to it. bless u🌍 💗💙
Elegant kor elegant ni.I begg people should wear what they are comfortable in.All these social media know it all fashionisters putting pressure on people to live and dress a certain way if not you are not it.plss!
I don't know what it is but when I look at members of the public (because I watch videos such as this) when they're walking in a store I start going through my head at their shoes that that's not classy, that's not refined, that and that doesn't either but this woman's shoes aren't too bad.
As for plastic shoes I think those who came up with the idea of making them did a great job coz they are recycling and helping to reduce global warming in a fashionable way , I think people should just wear what makes them feel comfortable coz not all of us can afford the elegant life style .
The shoes you said are not classy, are so Gorgeous. I thought u were going to mention Crocs, flip flops etc...i think the shoes you mentioned are shoes u won't wear
Elegant where??? Let b People breath. Do YOU and let people do theirs. I feel so ashamed when women because of content creation prescribe a certain type of dress (do get me wrong I am not talking about clothes that shows your nakedness) or shoes for people. You don’t know peoples pockets. People are not fools. Who would wear cheap shoes if there is money. In all things give thanks. Some people don’t even have legs. Be happy for yourself.
Beautiful hair ❤I love looking at ur natural hair African people and give glory to God! Created in HIS image for HIS glory for His pleasure -Revelation 4 -Gen 1 - ps 139 He made each person in the planet unique and beautiful Love it ❤ Meditate in what's lovely 😊 Philip 4 Pray 4 all nations 🗺️🌍❤️ love peace joy Unity wisdom.. Pray always Live a minimalistic life King 👑 Jesus Christ is coming soon Your real palace is with Him We are ambassadors for Christ Keep ministering you are Royals priests Occupy untill He comes The sheep and the goats Will be sorted in the end.... Each person's deeds will follow them Matthew 5 Let your light shine..use Ur gifts talents share do HIS will To whom HE loves God speaks Hear what the Spirit is saying❤❤❤💐
I think people should be comfortable in wearing what fits them
True
Exactly. This thing is saying you wearing these shoes makes you cheap. I'm going for comfort now, stuff what people think after all you won't see them people again
Exactly so
True
To each there own.
Wear what make u feel confident and comfortable💕
Now we need a video on classy casual tennis shoes and heels we should wear
Yesss, definitely need this.
Class cannot be achieved, no matter what you do or buy, if you don't have it in and on you.
Please and thanks
I agree with Miss Vivian. Just because it is made in your size doesn't mean you have to buy it or wear it. If you look cheap and dress cheap that is how you should expect to be treated. Women of color has had to deal with stereotyping long enough. I beieve Miss Vivian is only saying "be the change that we as women would like bring about." Don't shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message or if the message steps on your toes.
@MsBest-ty4hj IKR...I wear a 6 but an 8 is comfortable 😂
Too late! I bought my plastic shoes and I love them. I don’t wear them often but I’ve gotten many compliments. I wear them in a very classy way. 😂 Though I agree with you on all the other points.
lol. Same scenario. 😂. Too late and I love it!😂
Totally agree...don't ve plastics but love the good quality one's I ve seen. I agree with some of her point but I also think she added some of her personal bias on some shoes
Most of all, make sure your shoes are neat and tidy😊
This is the essential
It is always a shock to me when i see pretty ladies, nice outfit only to wear dirty footwears 🙄... It is like a rule not to clean or wash them here😂
I believe this is opinion based, as there are many styles of platforms that look very elegant especially with a long trouser, as this gives it a more pulled together...professional and savvy look. But I do agree with everything else you stated.
Class is either you have it or not. Cannot be bought. A naturally classy lady can wear even 'filthy' clothes and still look classy.
I agree on the last part but also think it can be learned
Yes, for some of us it does not come naturally. I really appreciate this channel
I disagree, yes it may come naturally but wearing some fashion items can downplay a woman's elegance.
NEGATIVE, birkenstocks make ANY WOMAN LOOK GROSS FACTUALLY! Plus when a woman is dressed trashy and proceeds to act the same she will be TRASHY!
Yes! What a timely topic for the summer season!
My style is classy, some elegance, sophistication, preppy look but all modesty. Like you said individuality. But I love love love dressing classy & elegant. I love modesty.
I discovered your channel a few days ago and I absolutely can not stop watching. I just subscribed😃. I WISH I had this sort of instructional guidance in my teens, 20s, and/or 30s. Thank you Vivien for all you do to help girls and women understand how to become Women Of Elegance.
Black don't crack indeed. You are beautiful Vivian.
Platform is good with long wide leg trousers when the length of your trousers cover the shoes. Also if you have very long dress that you do not wish to cut the length, platform will be great. I wear it that way and no one sees my shoes. You just have to know how to dress up.
My thoughts exactly. 💖
Bingo💕
Anything you hide, is not worth even paying a penny for it especially for something that is part of your look.
@@ihemehelen1454 I disagree. By this logic, we shouldn't buy undergarments, slips or shape wear.
Platform is always good. Men don’t notice shoes until you are crying in pain from wearing “elegant “ shoes
Brilliant video. I love how honest you are. Very true that regardless of the price tag they are still cheap materials ie plastic. More content on the correct elegant shoes would be lovely to watch. X
You're really a woman of substance, I admire you a lot! You're a blessing to womanhood.
I admire you so much ma'am,I appreciate your tips so much. I'd like to be more elegant but I don't know where to start, may you please share your journey of how you went about it.
Lol ! Still have a pair of stunning vintage platform* heels from my “disco dancing” days - my daughter wore them to a 70’s party and EVERYONE wanted to know where she got them.
* Can’t believe I didn’t break an ankle wearing them !!!
Depends on the dress and depends on the occasion.
No, it depends if you are elegant and classy. If not, it doesn't matter what you wear, anything is acceptable.
I wear lower platforms occasionally. They're the most comfortable. I'm very tall already, so it's not about the height.
Same here
Me too.
I love my half inch platforms, as worn by Princess Catherine.
I always thought the same about this kind of shoes glad you mentioned them hahaha 😂🤣😂🤣
I love platform shoes.i look great in them.what you think is elegant may only be elegant to you not to others.
😮 4:06 Wait I'm chewing gum no! You mean I'm chewing latex! …… omg I have to result this A.S.A.P!
Thank you for the video of elegance! I am transitioning to a more elegant, classy look and you have helped me out tremendously ❤❤
I am convinced i was born classy and modest 😂😂😂 these come natural 😅 Thank you for these tips Vivienne
Same here😊
Thank you for your advice. Much needed for those of us who aspire to be elegant
I love your channel and all your content. You really do inspire me. Thank you so much 💗
Hello Vivian! I wish to compliment you on your lovely hairstyle in this video. It’s especially flattering, and such a pretty look for spring!
Such a blessing.
Many thanks for keeping us elegant.
Vivian Elegance
Must needed this asap 🎉🎉thank you❤
Another very helpful video. Thank you!
Also worth noting is no high heels at polo events.
Amen. Meghan Markle would have looked much nicer in a pair of espadrilles.
Oh Call me Meghan cause I rock my heels ever so elegantly to polo events, picnics, baby showers, bowling alley...and gracefully so. lol
@@MrsReidPOGC how do you not sink into the grass with them? 😳 Do tell, please! Are you using these slip on (clear plastic) thingies?
@@thekingsdaughter4233I use them sometimes, however, not all soil is soft enough to cause the heels to sink. Now don't get me wrong...I always have an extra pair of either strappy sandal or canvas shoe. But for the most part...I'm a heels lady.
2:08😮😍😍😍Love the green ones! I'd def wear those🤭
Great video! Best from Italy
Thanks 🙏🏾 for this video. I’ve stopped wearing high heels 👠 for years. I have bunions and pain from wearing uncomfortable shoes. I now wear shoes that are comfortable for my feet
This video lets me know I'm on the right path.😅 thank you!
We miss the regular uploads dear Vivian :(
I LOVE YOU❤
Saving Elegance All Over the Globe!!
Thank you! Bless you! May God keep you, so we have a resource for Elegant Women. 👑
I used to wear 5 1/2 in heels and I was very unstable in them.. I have since figured out my most comfortable is 2-4" max..
I personally only opt for block heels. 2-4 inches is also my happy place in regards to heels!
Loved this! Not that I’m guilty of wearing any of these. I would love help on casual shoes like tennis shoes and flats and how to wear them.
Thank you!
Thanks for the update woman of Elegance 👍❤❤
I totally agree with your list
Just when I was about to invest in a pair of plastic shoes. I'm glad you stopped me. Thank you, Vivian.
Lol
@@ujunwaaniere9798 I haven't forgotten about the plastic shoes. I still might buy them. What can I say? They are cute and I have my own ideas on class and elegance.
Yes. All true. I love espadrilles they are so elegant and comfortable. Always in style.
Thank you ma'am. This is insightful
I am not 100% sure about some of your comments about elegance shoes like that what to wear what not to wear. I know you’re talking about from the British elegance fashion point of view. But other countries might not agree with you.
Great advice 💯
Each to their own❤
Yes ! Printed canvas looks fine with solid colored pants.
I am elegant and refined in my platforms. It depends on how you wear it and the type.
Exactly. Elegance to me is a personal style you carve out for yourself and the way you put your outfits together. As long as it’s kept simple and neat, you achieve elegance with your carriage
Exactly
I just love your content
I love the elegant humour in these videos
I love Vivian great advice, but how is 2:13 elegant? that image is very critical in my idea of simplicity and elegance!
You remind me of Venus Williams!🤩👍🏾
We learn everyday thru others its the way to go. If you cant change its up to you
Thank you so much, we need a video with bags 🎒 😊
I'm impressed by your speech and British accent
Thank you so this video Vivian 💖
You are astoundingly smart Vivien
I agree with Miss Vivian. Just because it is made in your size doesn't mean you have to buy it or wear it. If you look cheap and dress cheap that is how you should expect to be treated. Women of color has had to deal with stereotyping long enough. I beieve Miss Vivian is only saying "be the change that we as women would like bring about." Don't shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message or if the message steps on your toes.
It depends
Thanks 🙏 alot for this ❤❤❤
This is amazing
And fortunately these six types of shoes i really don't admire ever.
This is Jalani. I am 10 years old. Thank you for your advice on shoes.
Thank you for this 💖
Uggs and crocs look so bad too
More than both of those are birkenstocks, anyone who wears them automatically is gross, ANYONE.
When it comes to your back and health. It's mainly how you carry yourself that will portray elegance. As you get older, the platform works best, in my opinion, for all the right reasons.
Platform shoes look cheap not to mention they're dangerous. NOBODY looks good in those shoes especially short people.
They really are. I have the x-rays and medical bills to prove how dangerous they are. If only this video had come out in January so I didn't try to look "cute'
@@syn67501 I used to dress for looks and now I dress for comfort. Nothing is worth losing your health and well-being just so you can look "good". Your health is your wealth. Your body won't take care of you if you don't take care of it. Anyway, I'm glad you quit wearing those horrible things 🤗
Nawww those boots r cute with the rt outfits!🙂🤷🏾
How Ironic I have always ♥️ Espadrilles!! 😊
Matter of fact that center pic I wore mine like that on SaturDay to a meeting. 🤩
I expected crocs on this list, but definitely the rest of the list sounds about right.
If you have to work this hard to look elegant, you probably aren't elegant. There is jothing worse than fake elegance.
Just go with what feels narural to you.
Natural elegance should just ooze out of u, not dragged out of u😂
Thank you Vivan.
Say something about what kind of shoes best fits for example a fat or skinny, etc ladies.
Thanks sweetie 🥰
Please who determines what is elegant or not ? I love platform shoes and i will go on wearing them
WOW then I have to get the shoes that should be worn by an elegant woman😊😊
Kindly correct the title. First to comment 😊
I love your elegant sense of humor
Considering that in pageantry, required shoes are platform heels, are models considered not elegant?
Good advice to the ladies.
Thank you for sharing😂 that lady was walking funny with them hills!
Ladies read Ur Bibles Ruth was looking after her mother in law
Very caring
Had so much love for the elderly and she worked hard all day
The Good Lord rewarded her
You are all beautiful
It's your attitude that makes
you attractive 😃
❤as for your outfits, if you are comfortable it shows
This video has made me think about many things
Why will you wear shoes made from plastic? Good point
Wear clothes and shoes made from natural products
Wear clothes made from good fabrics n materials..
In my opinion Summer or winter it's good to wear clothes made from cotton and silk.. ( fair trade)jewellery too
For men or women look to it.
bless u🌍
💗💙
Hi Vivian,
I usually do not make requests but I have some winery visits in Napa coming up and would love some great tips.
Elegant kor elegant ni.I begg people should wear what they are comfortable in.All these social media know it all fashionisters putting pressure on people to live and dress a certain way if not you are not it.plss!
I don't know what it is but when I look at members of the public (because I watch videos such as this) when they're walking in a store I start going through my head at their shoes that that's not classy, that's not refined, that and that doesn't either but this woman's shoes aren't too bad.
Thx for sharing
Yes I dislike high heels & stilettos so much.
Point of correction, trainers are chosen according the foot type as well as physical activity being taken, looks are not necessarily necessary.
you just read my mind I ❤❤ canvas 😊😊
Glad more than me think platform heels are ugly. I agree with your list.❤
to me its like all shoes are wrong, pls say where and how to wear them
Exactly where are these parties 🥳
Cool!! 😎
Wow!!
Are you saying I should throw them away, thick soles😢😢
As for plastic shoes I think those who came up with the idea of making them did a great job coz they are recycling and helping to reduce global warming in a fashionable way , I think people should just wear what makes them feel comfortable coz not all of us can afford the elegant life style .
Vivian youre a wonderful and beautiful lady. Im such a fan. ❤
The shoes you said are not classy, are so Gorgeous. I thought u were going to mention Crocs, flip flops etc...i think the shoes you mentioned are shoes u won't wear
Watching this as I shop for shoes on SHEIN 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wear what you are comfortable in.
❤thanks
I wear only leather and latex and its the best thing i ever tried..guess to each their own😅
Hmmmmmm🤔
Elegant where??? Let b
People breath. Do YOU and let people do theirs. I feel so ashamed when women because of content creation prescribe a certain type of dress (do get me wrong I am not talking about clothes that shows your nakedness) or shoes for people. You don’t know peoples pockets. People are not fools. Who would wear cheap shoes if there is money. In all things give thanks. Some people don’t even have legs. Be happy for yourself.
what 'medication' are you on right now?
@@julijakeit a very elegant answer from you 😒
Black is NEVER elegant anyway so don't worry bout her or you😊.
Beautiful hair ❤I love looking at ur natural hair African people
and give glory to God! Created in HIS image for HIS glory for His pleasure -Revelation 4
-Gen 1
- ps 139
He made each person in the planet unique and beautiful
Love it ❤
Meditate in what's lovely 😊 Philip 4
Pray 4 all nations 🗺️🌍❤️ love peace joy
Unity wisdom.. Pray always
Live a minimalistic life King 👑 Jesus Christ is coming soon
Your real palace is with Him
We are ambassadors for Christ
Keep ministering you are Royals priests
Occupy untill He comes
The sheep and the goats
Will be sorted in the end....
Each person's deeds will follow them
Matthew 5
Let your light shine..use Ur gifts talents share do HIS will
To whom HE loves God speaks
Hear what the Spirit is saying❤❤❤💐
She looks like marie wiseborn
Logo trainers can look elegant if the rest of the outfit is plain. It all depends on how you style it😊😊