8 Things Elegant Women NEVER spend their money on!!

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • 10 things Elegant Women NEVER spend their money on!
    It's not how much you earn but what you do with what you earn! it's important to self evaluate your financial priorities when you are on the elegance trajectory.
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  • @curtrn
    @curtrn 10 месяцев назад +199

    I am a professional man and I watch your videos. I very quickly came to the conclusion my wife is an elegant woman, which I have always known. I use your advice to become a better man and appreciate my wife more deeply. Social graces and sound advices are need very desperately in our culture today. Thank you.

    • @lilyvega7450
      @lilyvega7450 8 месяцев назад +12

      We need more men like you 😊

    • @maameyaansiah3154
      @maameyaansiah3154 8 месяцев назад +2

      As always you deliver fantastic information 🙏

    • @user-hu5gz3vm7r
      @user-hu5gz3vm7r 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hi elegant woman I love your program I'm learning and appreciate you for your smart and intellect way of delivering such tips and advice I wish all woman and men can watch your program for a better change as we go along with our life's journey God bless everyone.

    • @curtrn
      @curtrn 8 месяцев назад

      We all need more of Jesus. Thank you @@lilyvega7450

    • @almusawwir777
      @almusawwir777 7 месяцев назад

      Pure Simp.

  • @annaidu5546
    @annaidu5546 11 месяцев назад +332

    1. Fake designer clothing.
    2. Gambling and lotteries
    3. Junk Food
    4. Excess Parting & Jamborees
    5. Over Expensive & Unnecessary Items
    6. Only Fun & Adult Entertainment Site
    7. Finances and avoid credits
    8. Elegant Women Do NOT Spend Everything They Have. Learn to save to avoid unforseen circumstances.

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 11 месяцев назад +160

    With the rise of influencers and social media I think it's very easy to find yourself in a deep hole of unnecessary spending.
    Too many are getting into debt thinking they have to keep up with a stranger online when you don't even know how they've acquired that item.
    I think self control and education is important when it comes to what we say, what we put into our mouth and definitely how we spend our money.
    A great video. Always an inspiration ✨

    • @oluwatoyinaderibigbe7563
      @oluwatoyinaderibigbe7563 11 месяцев назад

      You are absolutely right. I totally agree with you.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 10 месяцев назад +1

      I have been alive long enough to know that this is not a new phenomenon, what is new is the magnitude of the exposure.

  • @hmm-zoolol
    @hmm-zoolol 10 месяцев назад +13

    I agree don't waste your money on trends.

  • @kummiekins
    @kummiekins 11 месяцев назад +53

    I love preparing my own food. In this economy, not only is it kinder on the purse but I’ve noticed my husband and I eat much better balanced meals at home for half the the price of eating out. We do feel for small restaurant owners who are trying to balance rising costs of produce and keeping customers satiated and happy. So we do occasionally eat out to support them as some of them are also close friends or have become friends. Also time to time, junk food as my guilty pleasures because I can’t say no hot chips ;)

    • @friedchicken892
      @friedchicken892 10 месяцев назад +2

      Thats so sweet❤. Im in the city and fast food all around me Im getting sick of it Im back to cooking my own meals

    • @annabeltheduchessofdessert7700
      @annabeltheduchessofdessert7700 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, you have to have a treat once in a while!

  • @peppercat8188
    @peppercat8188 11 месяцев назад +19

    Off topic, but I need to say that the colour you are wearing is really lovely.

  • @Anika99356
    @Anika99356 11 месяцев назад +70

    Finally you uploaded ❤The queen is back!!

    • @cyanbeam
      @cyanbeam 11 месяцев назад +4

      She is very queenly ❤. Glad she's here to school us 🙏🏼

  • @octaviahicks-braye9859
    @octaviahicks-braye9859 11 месяцев назад +38

    Good morning beautiful ladies. I love this platform. This platform gives a lot of insight on matters which concern women. We must continue to work on ourselves daily. Wisdom is also a character of trait. As a descendant of Maryland the older and original black generation set a good example, but my generation lost something along the way. Growing up in urban areas makes us rough around the edges and takes away some of our etiquette and poise. Let’s have it Anyway. Thank you for keeping me on track.

  • @AgnesDione-sg4kd
    @AgnesDione-sg4kd 11 месяцев назад +10

    I am yet to listen even the second point on this.Still on the first point,behold l got overwhelmed about the fact that elegant ladies don't put on take designer clothes,l pretending to be what they are not,not following trends: this was my most captivating part of it all.Even God in heaven knows how much l ignore trends.Being unique is my priority as long as elegance is concerned.Thwnk you for this ,Ma.

  • @kemjeilee2160
    @kemjeilee2160 8 месяцев назад +3

    One thing i dislike about fashion and trending outfits is the fact that you need to keep the trend alive, once you indulge you must always be updated, thats hell and imprisonment! Thank you Mme Vivian, I'm just a young girl under your guidance and advice, thank you always

  • @Beccadette
    @Beccadette 11 месяцев назад +16

    perfect! This was a great one. Self control is elegant.

  • @LB-ku6ry
    @LB-ku6ry 11 месяцев назад +19

    You are my favorite RUclipsr, Vivian. You tell it like it is with a straight forward and clear communication style. God bless you!

  • @Cat-ik1wo
    @Cat-ik1wo 10 месяцев назад +4

    An elegant woman is a wise woman,

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 11 месяцев назад +5

    I've worked with women who check all of these boxes:gambling, clubbing every weekend, bragging about sleeping around. One woman always won money but spent it on boy toys. These "live in the moment" behaviors cost these women their health(emotional and physical), they constantly lost friends and men used them😢. I felt so bad for them because most of them were lonely. So sad!

  • @chloewinfrey
    @chloewinfrey 11 месяцев назад +9

    The junk food really hits me. I remembered staying in Croydon when I first came to london and all the restaurants where chicken fried and other very unhealthy food. Shocking! I had to order online. 😅

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 11 месяцев назад +5

      The United States is like this too. Fried chicken everywhere. Many (drive thru) restaurants have gotten rid of fish. I mostly cook at home.

  • @Chelsey458
    @Chelsey458 11 месяцев назад +13

    I definitely buy things on credit but I do it in a way that is VERY affordable for myself. And I buy the things I NEED not just things on a whim or what the influencers have tried to convince me to buy. Not going to lie….I used to but I realized my mistake

  • @MICHELDILLIONS
    @MICHELDILLIONS 11 месяцев назад +12

    😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻
    Romans 8:19
    English Standard Version ,
    Sons and Daughters , Chosen Ones ,
    For the creation waits with eager ,
    longing for the revealing ,
    of the sons of God.
    So Blessed Thank you ,
    Woman Of Elegance ,
    😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻

  • @bdacostez7230
    @bdacostez7230 11 месяцев назад +15

    Welcome back Vivienne. Thank you for this video. It is always good to have a reminder of good habits and standards that renew and keep our minds refreshed ☺️

  • @anthi9191
    @anthi9191 8 месяцев назад +3

    The teal colour is good on you!!❤

  • @catherine3340
    @catherine3340 11 месяцев назад +21

    Thank you so much Vivienne for this inspiring message today! Love and appreciate your advice ❤

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 11 месяцев назад +11

    This is such a sensible video, thank you for sharing 🙂

  • @rosieparez
    @rosieparez 7 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent video. The older I get the more value I see in carrying myself as a lady of elegance. Definitely instilling these tools into my two daughters. Keep up the good work.

  • @paschalinechioma7401
    @paschalinechioma7401 11 месяцев назад +24

    Thank you so much Vee( if you don’t mind me calling you this, I can’t spell your name quite correctly yet)
    I’ve been watching your videos since I was 16, I’m 18 now and your videos have served as a remainder on the type of woman I want to grow into. I respect you so much for that ❤

  • @mariannebaldetti2276
    @mariannebaldetti2276 11 месяцев назад +5

    Spot on!!! Thank you, Vivienne. Please post more. Miss you!

  • @ruthahenjir1925
    @ruthahenjir1925 11 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you Sis. You have said it all❤️❤️❤️

  • @mwihakimukuna3240
    @mwihakimukuna3240 11 месяцев назад +3

    I have constantly been checking on this channel waiting for a video and now here it is. Welcome back vivian we must continue to work on ourselves daily.

  • @ousmanetamegakante3704
    @ousmanetamegakante3704 11 месяцев назад +6

    Wow this video is a masterclass ❤
    You're stunning , elegant and deeply intelligent
    GOD bless you

  • @caramel0037
    @caramel0037 11 месяцев назад +15

    This is really great advice, I love it ❤. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.

  • @88_k_
    @88_k_ 11 месяцев назад +6

    You are the woman I look up to! Extremely wise ❤

  • @debbiedorsey2371
    @debbiedorsey2371 11 месяцев назад +5

    I was happy to see your video again! Thank you for all your tips, love your videos!

  • @Loveistheway-prayalways.
    @Loveistheway-prayalways. 11 месяцев назад +5

    Very good advice about aving ur geeens...
    Thank u❤
    Pls teach about spiritual life as well....as the Spirit leads bless u

  • @sepidehmahboobi9104
    @sepidehmahboobi9104 11 месяцев назад +7

    Learn a lot from you Vivian. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @heelayahbahtisrael8438
    @heelayahbahtisrael8438 11 месяцев назад +5

    You always put an elegant smile on my face ❤

  • @madelineasmr926
    @madelineasmr926 10 месяцев назад +1

    Good on you for mentioning gambling…. I go to the casino maybe once or twice a year on a date and never spend my own money on it… it’s an utter waste of finances.

  • @paulinebrough9915
    @paulinebrough9915 11 месяцев назад +6

    Great advice. Thank you, Vivian!

  • @sarahmusicnakawombe5260
    @sarahmusicnakawombe5260 11 месяцев назад +6

    I really love your facts Vivienne. I follow you every now and then ❤

  • @Elohoralago
    @Elohoralago 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much, I think one can also buy things and you can pay installmentally depending on how urgent and important it is, that one I don't see it as buying on credit. Such a great video especially buying things to impress people.

  • @SwatiPatelnz
    @SwatiPatelnz 9 месяцев назад +1

    I buy lotto tickets now and then, but don't consider myself a gambler. Also love junk food, once a week or so (pizza etc). I also put EVERYTHING on credit where possible, because I earn points. The money gets paid automatically each month and I am never in debt. I don't think this makes me a mess of a woman.

  • @louisamarfo8487
    @louisamarfo8487 11 месяцев назад +3

    Life influencer 😇, you're welcome back with your beautiful lifestyle❤, we're always on RUclips for you 🎉💚🥳

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am so glad you mentioned lottery so glad. Thank you.

  • @chloewinfrey
    @chloewinfrey 11 месяцев назад +3

    Ps: your editing is getting better 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @gainiarubisou9755
    @gainiarubisou9755 9 месяцев назад +1

    Just love your videos, very inspiring. Thank you.

  • @patriziabellatreccia5526
    @patriziabellatreccia5526 10 месяцев назад +2

    Brava. I like how you explain things. Gracious but firm.❤

  • @A.Hlalll
    @A.Hlalll 9 месяцев назад +3

    Proverbs 31:10-31 just like the virtuous woman from the Bible! 😃

  • @PALSAcademy312
    @PALSAcademy312 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much for this

  • @R.Iamondi
    @R.Iamondi 9 месяцев назад

    I have been watching your videos and so far i agreed with all of your points. You definitely know how an elegant lady should be.

  • @CC-hu3ie
    @CC-hu3ie 11 месяцев назад +2

    I knew it, thank you for making this video!

  • @ChoiceObayuwana
    @ChoiceObayuwana 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks dear for this information ❤❤

  • @gracemakeslace
    @gracemakeslace 11 месяцев назад +12

    I'm enjoying the video as usual, but I will make a caveat on the gambling one. My tip there is, unless you're struggling with gambling addiction, consider the social situation.
    For example, my partner and I never buy lottery tickets and see it as a waste of money, but my partner participates in the office pool in order to be a team player. I participate in raffles and 50/50s at local events because at least half, if not most, of that money is going to a good cause(and often the prizes are donated to the organization). We never expect to win from those, but there's other benefits(camaraderie with coworkers and putting money toward good causes).

    • @chasb3234
      @chasb3234 11 месяцев назад +10

      Those don't really count. It's the ones that are endless financial black holes.

    • @gracemakeslace
      @gracemakeslace 11 месяцев назад

      @@chasb3234 that's exactly what I was saying. Consider the social situation 👍

  • @jacquelinenoel2992
    @jacquelinenoel2992 11 месяцев назад +4

    Well said!

  • @cynboujee641
    @cynboujee641 11 месяцев назад +1

    Sending love from Haiti 🇭🇹

  • @mondeliyungu5711
    @mondeliyungu5711 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for another great video ❤

  • @WonderingHead
    @WonderingHead 6 месяцев назад

    On point Vivian!As always...❤

  • @LisaCulton
    @LisaCulton 11 месяцев назад +15

    I do play various lottery games, - but I have won and continue to win significant money, and I can afford it. I play the draw games online and I put the scratch tickets directly into my authentic designer handbags.❤ ❤❤❤

  • @karencollins2440
    @karencollins2440 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice as always, Vivienne.. Thank you!

  • @lolajacomino6574
    @lolajacomino6574 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. I wish you were in my life when I was young ❤

  • @NaaKomley
    @NaaKomley 11 месяцев назад +1

    Dropping gems as always, I love this.

  • @michellelogreco3351
    @michellelogreco3351 9 месяцев назад +2

    Serve the Lord 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @achillesimo5150
    @achillesimo5150 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for everything you are doing . Thank you for sharing

  • @MrKiwuuwa
    @MrKiwuuwa 9 месяцев назад

    Though not a woman, still I do enjoy tremendously your presentations. Thank you so much & God bless you.

  • @SuicideDoIl
    @SuicideDoIl 10 месяцев назад +1

    Only buy on credit what you can pay back right away.

  • @ameryek.9607
    @ameryek.9607 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hello from Los Angeles!

  • @aishwarya2016
    @aishwarya2016 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you very much, Madam ! I appreciate this video. ❤😊

  • @ogebaby9951
    @ogebaby9951 9 месяцев назад

    After watching this I feel so good of myself. I never regret some of my action.

  • @viviane4850
    @viviane4850 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice!Thanks for the inspiration

  • @ingridwilliams8677
    @ingridwilliams8677 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks you inspire me so much

  • @RonnieHicks-g4v
    @RonnieHicks-g4v 5 месяцев назад

    Love your lessons, you're a Godsend ❤

  • @faridabouguermouh8879
    @faridabouguermouh8879 5 месяцев назад

    By watching your video I can recognize myself as a woman of elegance 🙏🌹

  • @nassunaannet3157
    @nassunaannet3157 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing with us madam Vivian

  • @dajahbolden1022
    @dajahbolden1022 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you very much for this video. ❤

  • @sarag4745
    @sarag4745 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @christinesealy463
    @christinesealy463 11 месяцев назад +1

    True talk my girl

  • @itsdebs
    @itsdebs 8 месяцев назад +1

    Even Princess Diana enjoyed the occasional McDonalds..

  • @mightychondria3552
    @mightychondria3552 10 месяцев назад +1

    I just love this lady!! She is an amazing woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ranjeetnk4660
    @ranjeetnk4660 11 месяцев назад +3

    Good job 👍

  • @teenindustry
    @teenindustry 8 месяцев назад

    Good debt vs bad debt
    Good debt is a mortgage or your education when there is not other way of financing it in a sensible way. It could also be a car if you have no other means for getting to work. For some good debt is a business loan for vita equipment if your business is profitable enough to pay it back.
    Consumer goods like shopping or holidays or any other wants are bad debt

  • @faithamensmith9856
    @faithamensmith9856 9 месяцев назад

    This as well as many other videos is great.❤

  • @howstunningly
    @howstunningly 8 месяцев назад +1

    True, that industry is evil, responsible for trafficking...😟

  • @Product_snob
    @Product_snob 11 месяцев назад

    Great video welcome back 💗

  • @HeliSvisa-pq7ki
    @HeliSvisa-pq7ki 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you vivian . ❤. Wonderfull as allways🎀🌺

  • @SuicideDoIl
    @SuicideDoIl 10 месяцев назад

    I have eating disorder, food addiction. Poor eating habits. Frequently failed dietary changes.

  • @reneachilds8111
    @reneachilds8111 8 месяцев назад

    Great advice! I do understand about a few timeless pieces . Some people budgets don't allow...any advice for those who must shop at a lower discount for clothing.? Places to shop and brands to look for. Great, money tips....THANK YOU

  • @ruthekwe-ep4it
    @ruthekwe-ep4it 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you dear, you are such an excellent lady, I really like the way you speak and behave I really wish I could speak like you

  • @OracleofDelphiTarot
    @OracleofDelphiTarot 10 месяцев назад +1

    I disagree with the dupes comment, I have 3 or 4 dupes that look better and have held up better than my real purses. It doesn’t take away from your style if it’s a good dupe

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 11 месяцев назад +1

    Excellent advice.

  • @michellelogreco3351
    @michellelogreco3351 9 месяцев назад +1

    Agree completely!
    Amen

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you,I needed this, i need manage my money

  • @user-oj9ss3im9y
    @user-oj9ss3im9y 10 месяцев назад

    love your videos! thank you!

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 11 месяцев назад

    Great advice. Thank you very much.

  • @susanbullock7258
    @susanbullock7258 11 месяцев назад

    Preach sis my new friend !!!!!!!

  • @Loveistheway-prayalways.
    @Loveistheway-prayalways. 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lots of Love to all 🌎♥️

  • @user-dy3bp3qy4i
    @user-dy3bp3qy4i 7 месяцев назад

    My woman you talk sense❤

  • @freemark5849
    @freemark5849 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great!!!

  • @MaggietheSubstituteTeacher
    @MaggietheSubstituteTeacher 11 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing video! Elegant women don’t cook? Never

  • @MARIAORTIZ-od3hk
    @MARIAORTIZ-od3hk 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you excellent advice 👍

  • @The.Review-Queen
    @The.Review-Queen 11 месяцев назад

    You are the best, nice so much for this content

  • @conciliaogambaephraim4124
    @conciliaogambaephraim4124 11 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you dear

  • @crystalquartz11
    @crystalquartz11 11 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent video, Vivienne.🌹

  • @luciamulopwe
    @luciamulopwe 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @rosemarythompson1145
    @rosemarythompson1145 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much dear ❤