I am a professional man and I watch your videos. I very quickly came to the conclusion my wife is an elegant woman, which I have always known. I use your advice to become a better man and appreciate my wife more deeply. Social graces and sound advices are need very desperately in our culture today. Thank you.
Hi elegant woman I love your program I'm learning and appreciate you for your smart and intellect way of delivering such tips and advice I wish all woman and men can watch your program for a better change as we go along with our life's journey God bless everyone.
1. Fake designer clothing. 2. Gambling and lotteries 3. Junk Food 4. Excess Parting & Jamborees 5. Over Expensive & Unnecessary Items 6. Only Fun & Adult Entertainment Site 7. Finances and avoid credits 8. Elegant Women Do NOT Spend Everything They Have. Learn to save to avoid unforseen circumstances.
With the rise of influencers and social media I think it's very easy to find yourself in a deep hole of unnecessary spending. Too many are getting into debt thinking they have to keep up with a stranger online when you don't even know how they've acquired that item. I think self control and education is important when it comes to what we say, what we put into our mouth and definitely how we spend our money. A great video. Always an inspiration ✨
One thing i dislike about fashion and trending outfits is the fact that you need to keep the trend alive, once you indulge you must always be updated, thats hell and imprisonment! Thank you Mme Vivian, I'm just a young girl under your guidance and advice, thank you always
I am yet to listen even the second point on this.Still on the first point,behold l got overwhelmed about the fact that elegant ladies don't put on take designer clothes,l pretending to be what they are not,not following trends: this was my most captivating part of it all.Even God in heaven knows how much l ignore trends.Being unique is my priority as long as elegance is concerned.Thwnk you for this ,Ma.
I love preparing my own food. In this economy, not only is it kinder on the purse but I’ve noticed my husband and I eat much better balanced meals at home for half the the price of eating out. We do feel for small restaurant owners who are trying to balance rising costs of produce and keeping customers satiated and happy. So we do occasionally eat out to support them as some of them are also close friends or have become friends. Also time to time, junk food as my guilty pleasures because I can’t say no hot chips ;)
Good morning beautiful ladies. I love this platform. This platform gives a lot of insight on matters which concern women. We must continue to work on ourselves daily. Wisdom is also a character of trait. As a descendant of Maryland the older and original black generation set a good example, but my generation lost something along the way. Growing up in urban areas makes us rough around the edges and takes away some of our etiquette and poise. Let’s have it Anyway. Thank you for keeping me on track.
I've worked with women who check all of these boxes:gambling, clubbing every weekend, bragging about sleeping around. One woman always won money but spent it on boy toys. These "live in the moment" behaviors cost these women their health(emotional and physical), they constantly lost friends and men used them😢. I felt so bad for them because most of them were lonely. So sad!
I have constantly been checking on this channel waiting for a video and now here it is. Welcome back vivian we must continue to work on ourselves daily.
The junk food really hits me. I remembered staying in Croydon when I first came to london and all the restaurants where chicken fried and other very unhealthy food. Shocking! I had to order online. 😅
Welcome back Vivienne. Thank you for this video. It is always good to have a reminder of good habits and standards that renew and keep our minds refreshed ☺️
I definitely buy things on credit but I do it in a way that is VERY affordable for myself. And I buy the things I NEED not just things on a whim or what the influencers have tried to convince me to buy. Not going to lie….I used to but I realized my mistake
Excellent video. The older I get the more value I see in carrying myself as a lady of elegance. Definitely instilling these tools into my two daughters. Keep up the good work.
Thank you so much, I think one can also buy things and you can pay installmentally depending on how urgent and important it is, that one I don't see it as buying on credit. Such a great video especially buying things to impress people.
Thank you so much Vee( if you don’t mind me calling you this, I can’t spell your name quite correctly yet) I’ve been watching your videos since I was 16, I’m 18 now and your videos have served as a remainder on the type of woman I want to grow into. I respect you so much for that ❤
Good on you for mentioning gambling…. I go to the casino maybe once or twice a year on a date and never spend my own money on it… it’s an utter waste of finances.
Great advice! I do understand about a few timeless pieces . Some people budgets don't allow...any advice for those who must shop at a lower discount for clothing.? Places to shop and brands to look for. Great, money tips....THANK YOU
I buy lotto tickets now and then, but don't consider myself a gambler. Also love junk food, once a week or so (pizza etc). I also put EVERYTHING on credit where possible, because I earn points. The money gets paid automatically each month and I am never in debt. I don't think this makes me a mess of a woman.
😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻 Romans 8:19 English Standard Version , Sons and Daughters , Chosen Ones , For the creation waits with eager , longing for the revealing , of the sons of God. So Blessed Thank you , Woman Of Elegance , 😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻
Good debt vs bad debt Good debt is a mortgage or your education when there is not other way of financing it in a sensible way. It could also be a car if you have no other means for getting to work. For some good debt is a business loan for vita equipment if your business is profitable enough to pay it back. Consumer goods like shopping or holidays or any other wants are bad debt
I'm enjoying the video as usual, but I will make a caveat on the gambling one. My tip there is, unless you're struggling with gambling addiction, consider the social situation. For example, my partner and I never buy lottery tickets and see it as a waste of money, but my partner participates in the office pool in order to be a team player. I participate in raffles and 50/50s at local events because at least half, if not most, of that money is going to a good cause(and often the prizes are donated to the organization). We never expect to win from those, but there's other benefits(camaraderie with coworkers and putting money toward good causes).
I am a professional man and I watch your videos. I very quickly came to the conclusion my wife is an elegant woman, which I have always known. I use your advice to become a better man and appreciate my wife more deeply. Social graces and sound advices are need very desperately in our culture today. Thank you.
We need more men like you 😊
As always you deliver fantastic information 🙏
Hi elegant woman I love your program I'm learning and appreciate you for your smart and intellect way of delivering such tips and advice I wish all woman and men can watch your program for a better change as we go along with our life's journey God bless everyone.
We all need more of Jesus. Thank you @@lilyvega7450
Pure Simp.
1. Fake designer clothing.
2. Gambling and lotteries
3. Junk Food
4. Excess Parting & Jamborees
5. Over Expensive & Unnecessary Items
6. Only Fun & Adult Entertainment Site
7. Finances and avoid credits
8. Elegant Women Do NOT Spend Everything They Have. Learn to save to avoid unforseen circumstances.
Agree
Thanks, got it!
Thanks ❤
Thanks!
Agree
I agree don't waste your money on trends.
With the rise of influencers and social media I think it's very easy to find yourself in a deep hole of unnecessary spending.
Too many are getting into debt thinking they have to keep up with a stranger online when you don't even know how they've acquired that item.
I think self control and education is important when it comes to what we say, what we put into our mouth and definitely how we spend our money.
A great video. Always an inspiration ✨
You are absolutely right. I totally agree with you.
I have been alive long enough to know that this is not a new phenomenon, what is new is the magnitude of the exposure.
One thing i dislike about fashion and trending outfits is the fact that you need to keep the trend alive, once you indulge you must always be updated, thats hell and imprisonment! Thank you Mme Vivian, I'm just a young girl under your guidance and advice, thank you always
I am yet to listen even the second point on this.Still on the first point,behold l got overwhelmed about the fact that elegant ladies don't put on take designer clothes,l pretending to be what they are not,not following trends: this was my most captivating part of it all.Even God in heaven knows how much l ignore trends.Being unique is my priority as long as elegance is concerned.Thwnk you for this ,Ma.
I love preparing my own food. In this economy, not only is it kinder on the purse but I’ve noticed my husband and I eat much better balanced meals at home for half the the price of eating out. We do feel for small restaurant owners who are trying to balance rising costs of produce and keeping customers satiated and happy. So we do occasionally eat out to support them as some of them are also close friends or have become friends. Also time to time, junk food as my guilty pleasures because I can’t say no hot chips ;)
Thats so sweet❤. Im in the city and fast food all around me Im getting sick of it Im back to cooking my own meals
Yes, you have to have a treat once in a while!
Off topic, but I need to say that the colour you are wearing is really lovely.
Finally you uploaded ❤The queen is back!!
She is very queenly ❤. Glad she's here to school us 🙏🏼
perfect! This was a great one. Self control is elegant.
You are my favorite RUclipsr, Vivian. You tell it like it is with a straight forward and clear communication style. God bless you!
Good morning beautiful ladies. I love this platform. This platform gives a lot of insight on matters which concern women. We must continue to work on ourselves daily. Wisdom is also a character of trait. As a descendant of Maryland the older and original black generation set a good example, but my generation lost something along the way. Growing up in urban areas makes us rough around the edges and takes away some of our etiquette and poise. Let’s have it Anyway. Thank you for keeping me on track.
Spot on!!! Thank you, Vivienne. Please post more. Miss you!
I've worked with women who check all of these boxes:gambling, clubbing every weekend, bragging about sleeping around. One woman always won money but spent it on boy toys. These "live in the moment" behaviors cost these women their health(emotional and physical), they constantly lost friends and men used them😢. I felt so bad for them because most of them were lonely. So sad!
I have constantly been checking on this channel waiting for a video and now here it is. Welcome back vivian we must continue to work on ourselves daily.
The teal colour is good on you!!❤
The junk food really hits me. I remembered staying in Croydon when I first came to london and all the restaurants where chicken fried and other very unhealthy food. Shocking! I had to order online. 😅
The United States is like this too. Fried chicken everywhere. Many (drive thru) restaurants have gotten rid of fish. I mostly cook at home.
An elegant woman is a wise woman,
Welcome back Vivienne. Thank you for this video. It is always good to have a reminder of good habits and standards that renew and keep our minds refreshed ☺️
This is such a sensible video, thank you for sharing 🙂
I definitely buy things on credit but I do it in a way that is VERY affordable for myself. And I buy the things I NEED not just things on a whim or what the influencers have tried to convince me to buy. Not going to lie….I used to but I realized my mistake
Excellent video. The older I get the more value I see in carrying myself as a lady of elegance. Definitely instilling these tools into my two daughters. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Sis. You have said it all❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Vivienne for this inspiring message today! Love and appreciate your advice ❤
I was happy to see your video again! Thank you for all your tips, love your videos!
Thank you so much, I think one can also buy things and you can pay installmentally depending on how urgent and important it is, that one I don't see it as buying on credit. Such a great video especially buying things to impress people.
I am so glad you mentioned lottery so glad. Thank you.
You are the woman I look up to! Extremely wise ❤
I have been watching your videos and so far i agreed with all of your points. You definitely know how an elegant lady should be.
Thank you so much Vee( if you don’t mind me calling you this, I can’t spell your name quite correctly yet)
I’ve been watching your videos since I was 16, I’m 18 now and your videos have served as a remainder on the type of woman I want to grow into. I respect you so much for that ❤
❤
Just love your videos, very inspiring. Thank you.
Great advice. Thank you, Vivian!
Learn a lot from you Vivian. Thank you❤❤❤
Ps: your editing is getting better 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Wow this video is a masterclass ❤
You're stunning , elegant and deeply intelligent
GOD bless you
I really love your facts Vivienne. I follow you every now and then ❤
Good on you for mentioning gambling…. I go to the casino maybe once or twice a year on a date and never spend my own money on it… it’s an utter waste of finances.
Very good advice about aving ur geeens...
Thank u❤
Pls teach about spiritual life as well....as the Spirit leads bless u
You always put an elegant smile on my face ❤
After watching this I feel so good of myself. I never regret some of my action.
Am always guilty after watching her videos but thankful because they help me change
Well said!
Sending love from Haiti 🇭🇹
Brava. I like how you explain things. Gracious but firm.❤
Great advice! I do understand about a few timeless pieces . Some people budgets don't allow...any advice for those who must shop at a lower discount for clothing.? Places to shop and brands to look for. Great, money tips....THANK YOU
Thank you so much for this
Serve the Lord 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Though not a woman, still I do enjoy tremendously your presentations. Thank you so much & God bless you.
Thank you for everything you are doing . Thank you for sharing
This is really great advice, I love it ❤. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.
Thanks dear for this information ❤❤
Hello from Los Angeles!
On point Vivian!As always...❤
Love your lessons, you're a Godsend ❤
Thank you dear, you are such an excellent lady, I really like the way you speak and behave I really wish I could speak like you
True talk my girl
I knew it, thank you for making this video!
Great advice as always, Vivienne.. Thank you!
Great video. I wish you were in my life when I was young ❤
Agree completely!
Amen
I buy lotto tickets now and then, but don't consider myself a gambler. Also love junk food, once a week or so (pizza etc). I also put EVERYTHING on credit where possible, because I earn points. The money gets paid automatically each month and I am never in debt. I don't think this makes me a mess of a woman.
Thanks You For This Beautiful Queen 👑💚🌹.
Thanks you inspire me so much
Thank you for another great video ❤
Proverbs 31:10-31 just like the virtuous woman from the Bible! 😃
Dropping gems as always, I love this.
Great advice!Thanks for the inspiration
Thanks for sharing with us madam Vivian
I just love this lady!! She is an amazing woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you❤
Thank you very much for this video. ❤
This as well as many other videos is great.❤
Life influencer 😇, you're welcome back with your beautiful lifestyle❤, we're always on RUclips for you 🎉💚🥳
Great video welcome back 💗
Excellent advice.
Thank you very much, Madam ! I appreciate this video. ❤😊
Preach sis my new friend !!!!!!!
Thank you for this video ❤
Thank you,I needed this, i need manage my money
Thank you excellent advice 👍
Thanks so much dear ❤
😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻
Romans 8:19
English Standard Version ,
Sons and Daughters , Chosen Ones ,
For the creation waits with eager ,
longing for the revealing ,
of the sons of God.
So Blessed Thank you ,
Woman Of Elegance ,
😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻
Good debt vs bad debt
Good debt is a mortgage or your education when there is not other way of financing it in a sensible way. It could also be a car if you have no other means for getting to work. For some good debt is a business loan for vita equipment if your business is profitable enough to pay it back.
Consumer goods like shopping or holidays or any other wants are bad debt
love your videos! thank you!
Well, I like to buy lottery tickets . I'd prefer to be a classless millionaire, than an elegant indigent, LOL!🤓🤠
Great advice. Thank you very much.
Good job 👍
My woman you talk sense❤
Even Princess Diana enjoyed the occasional McDonalds..
I'm enjoying the video as usual, but I will make a caveat on the gambling one. My tip there is, unless you're struggling with gambling addiction, consider the social situation.
For example, my partner and I never buy lottery tickets and see it as a waste of money, but my partner participates in the office pool in order to be a team player. I participate in raffles and 50/50s at local events because at least half, if not most, of that money is going to a good cause(and often the prizes are donated to the organization). We never expect to win from those, but there's other benefits(camaraderie with coworkers and putting money toward good causes).
@@chasb3234 that's exactly what I was saying. Consider the social situation 👍
Thank you vivian . ❤. Wonderfull as allways🎀🌺
Good advice
Great!!!
By watching your video I can recognize myself as a woman of elegance 🙏🌹
God bless you dear
Lots of Love to all 🌎♥️
Vivian youre a queen. ❤
You are the best, nice so much for this content
❤thanks Vivian
Thanks