8 Things Elegant Women NEVER spend their money on!!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @curtrn
    @curtrn Год назад +202

    I am a professional man and I watch your videos. I very quickly came to the conclusion my wife is an elegant woman, which I have always known. I use your advice to become a better man and appreciate my wife more deeply. Social graces and sound advices are need very desperately in our culture today. Thank you.

    • @lilyvega7450
      @lilyvega7450 Год назад +13

      We need more men like you 😊

    • @maameyaansiah3154
      @maameyaansiah3154 Год назад +2

      As always you deliver fantastic information 🙏

    • @DomingaNganayon
      @DomingaNganayon Год назад +1

      Hi elegant woman I love your program I'm learning and appreciate you for your smart and intellect way of delivering such tips and advice I wish all woman and men can watch your program for a better change as we go along with our life's journey God bless everyone.

    • @curtrn
      @curtrn Год назад

      We all need more of Jesus. Thank you @@lilyvega7450

    • @The_fashioner777
      @The_fashioner777 Год назад

      Pure Simp.

  • @annaidu5546
    @annaidu5546 Год назад +334

    1. Fake designer clothing.
    2. Gambling and lotteries
    3. Junk Food
    4. Excess Parting & Jamborees
    5. Over Expensive & Unnecessary Items
    6. Only Fun & Adult Entertainment Site
    7. Finances and avoid credits
    8. Elegant Women Do NOT Spend Everything They Have. Learn to save to avoid unforseen circumstances.

  • @hmm-zoolol
    @hmm-zoolol Год назад +13

    I agree don't waste your money on trends.

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite Год назад +162

    With the rise of influencers and social media I think it's very easy to find yourself in a deep hole of unnecessary spending.
    Too many are getting into debt thinking they have to keep up with a stranger online when you don't even know how they've acquired that item.
    I think self control and education is important when it comes to what we say, what we put into our mouth and definitely how we spend our money.
    A great video. Always an inspiration ✨

    • @oluwatoyinaderibigbe7563
      @oluwatoyinaderibigbe7563 Год назад

      You are absolutely right. I totally agree with you.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Год назад +1

      I have been alive long enough to know that this is not a new phenomenon, what is new is the magnitude of the exposure.

  • @kemjeilee2160
    @kemjeilee2160 Год назад +6

    One thing i dislike about fashion and trending outfits is the fact that you need to keep the trend alive, once you indulge you must always be updated, thats hell and imprisonment! Thank you Mme Vivian, I'm just a young girl under your guidance and advice, thank you always

  • @AgnesDione-sg4kd
    @AgnesDione-sg4kd Год назад +10

    I am yet to listen even the second point on this.Still on the first point,behold l got overwhelmed about the fact that elegant ladies don't put on take designer clothes,l pretending to be what they are not,not following trends: this was my most captivating part of it all.Even God in heaven knows how much l ignore trends.Being unique is my priority as long as elegance is concerned.Thwnk you for this ,Ma.

  • @kummiekins
    @kummiekins Год назад +56

    I love preparing my own food. In this economy, not only is it kinder on the purse but I’ve noticed my husband and I eat much better balanced meals at home for half the the price of eating out. We do feel for small restaurant owners who are trying to balance rising costs of produce and keeping customers satiated and happy. So we do occasionally eat out to support them as some of them are also close friends or have become friends. Also time to time, junk food as my guilty pleasures because I can’t say no hot chips ;)

    • @friedchicken892
      @friedchicken892 Год назад +2

      Thats so sweet❤. Im in the city and fast food all around me Im getting sick of it Im back to cooking my own meals

    • @annabeltheduchessofdessert7700
      @annabeltheduchessofdessert7700 Год назад +2

      Yes, you have to have a treat once in a while!

  • @peppercat8188
    @peppercat8188 Год назад +20

    Off topic, but I need to say that the colour you are wearing is really lovely.

  • @Anika99356
    @Anika99356 Год назад +70

    Finally you uploaded ❤The queen is back!!

    • @cyanbeam
      @cyanbeam Год назад +4

      She is very queenly ❤. Glad she's here to school us 🙏🏼

  • @Beccadette
    @Beccadette Год назад +16

    perfect! This was a great one. Self control is elegant.

  • @LB-ku6ry
    @LB-ku6ry Год назад +19

    You are my favorite RUclipsr, Vivian. You tell it like it is with a straight forward and clear communication style. God bless you!

  • @octaviahicks-braye9859
    @octaviahicks-braye9859 Год назад +38

    Good morning beautiful ladies. I love this platform. This platform gives a lot of insight on matters which concern women. We must continue to work on ourselves daily. Wisdom is also a character of trait. As a descendant of Maryland the older and original black generation set a good example, but my generation lost something along the way. Growing up in urban areas makes us rough around the edges and takes away some of our etiquette and poise. Let’s have it Anyway. Thank you for keeping me on track.

  • @mariannebaldetti2276
    @mariannebaldetti2276 Год назад +5

    Spot on!!! Thank you, Vivienne. Please post more. Miss you!

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 Год назад +5

    I've worked with women who check all of these boxes:gambling, clubbing every weekend, bragging about sleeping around. One woman always won money but spent it on boy toys. These "live in the moment" behaviors cost these women their health(emotional and physical), they constantly lost friends and men used them😢. I felt so bad for them because most of them were lonely. So sad!

  • @mwihakimukuna3240
    @mwihakimukuna3240 Год назад +3

    I have constantly been checking on this channel waiting for a video and now here it is. Welcome back vivian we must continue to work on ourselves daily.

  • @anthi9191
    @anthi9191 Год назад +3

    The teal colour is good on you!!❤

  • @chloewinfrey
    @chloewinfrey Год назад +9

    The junk food really hits me. I remembered staying in Croydon when I first came to london and all the restaurants where chicken fried and other very unhealthy food. Shocking! I had to order online. 😅

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 Год назад +5

      The United States is like this too. Fried chicken everywhere. Many (drive thru) restaurants have gotten rid of fish. I mostly cook at home.

  • @Cat-ik1wo
    @Cat-ik1wo Год назад +7

    An elegant woman is a wise woman,

  • @bdacostez7230
    @bdacostez7230 Год назад +15

    Welcome back Vivienne. Thank you for this video. It is always good to have a reminder of good habits and standards that renew and keep our minds refreshed ☺️

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 Год назад +11

    This is such a sensible video, thank you for sharing 🙂

  • @Chelsey458
    @Chelsey458 Год назад +13

    I definitely buy things on credit but I do it in a way that is VERY affordable for myself. And I buy the things I NEED not just things on a whim or what the influencers have tried to convince me to buy. Not going to lie….I used to but I realized my mistake

  • @rosieparez
    @rosieparez Год назад +2

    Excellent video. The older I get the more value I see in carrying myself as a lady of elegance. Definitely instilling these tools into my two daughters. Keep up the good work.

  • @ruthahenjir1925
    @ruthahenjir1925 Год назад +11

    Thank you Sis. You have said it all❤️❤️❤️

  • @catherine3340
    @catherine3340 Год назад +21

    Thank you so much Vivienne for this inspiring message today! Love and appreciate your advice ❤

  • @debbiedorsey2371
    @debbiedorsey2371 Год назад +5

    I was happy to see your video again! Thank you for all your tips, love your videos!

  • @Elohoralago
    @Elohoralago Год назад +3

    Thank you so much, I think one can also buy things and you can pay installmentally depending on how urgent and important it is, that one I don't see it as buying on credit. Such a great video especially buying things to impress people.

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 Год назад +1

    I am so glad you mentioned lottery so glad. Thank you.

  • @88_k_
    @88_k_ Год назад +6

    You are the woman I look up to! Extremely wise ❤

  • @Rose_Catwoman
    @Rose_Catwoman Год назад

    I have been watching your videos and so far i agreed with all of your points. You definitely know how an elegant lady should be.

  • @paschalinechioma7401
    @paschalinechioma7401 Год назад +24

    Thank you so much Vee( if you don’t mind me calling you this, I can’t spell your name quite correctly yet)
    I’ve been watching your videos since I was 16, I’m 18 now and your videos have served as a remainder on the type of woman I want to grow into. I respect you so much for that ❤

  • @gainiarubisou9755
    @gainiarubisou9755 Год назад +1

    Just love your videos, very inspiring. Thank you.

  • @paulinebrough9915
    @paulinebrough9915 Год назад +6

    Great advice. Thank you, Vivian!

  • @sepidehmahboobi9104
    @sepidehmahboobi9104 Год назад +7

    Learn a lot from you Vivian. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @chloewinfrey
    @chloewinfrey Год назад +3

    Ps: your editing is getting better 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @ousmanetamegakante3704
    @ousmanetamegakante3704 Год назад +7

    Wow this video is a masterclass ❤
    You're stunning , elegant and deeply intelligent
    GOD bless you

  • @sarahmusicnakawombe5260
    @sarahmusicnakawombe5260 Год назад +6

    I really love your facts Vivienne. I follow you every now and then ❤

  • @madelineasmr926
    @madelineasmr926 Год назад +1

    Good on you for mentioning gambling…. I go to the casino maybe once or twice a year on a date and never spend my own money on it… it’s an utter waste of finances.

  • @Loveistheway-prayalways.
    @Loveistheway-prayalways. Год назад +5

    Very good advice about aving ur geeens...
    Thank u❤
    Pls teach about spiritual life as well....as the Spirit leads bless u

  • @heelayahbahtisrael8438
    @heelayahbahtisrael8438 Год назад +5

    You always put an elegant smile on my face ❤

  • @ogebaby9951
    @ogebaby9951 Год назад

    After watching this I feel so good of myself. I never regret some of my action.

  • @SharneSelina
    @SharneSelina 3 месяца назад

    Am always guilty after watching her videos but thankful because they help me change

  • @jacquelinenoel2992
    @jacquelinenoel2992 Год назад +4

    Well said!

  • @cynboujee641
    @cynboujee641 Год назад +1

    Sending love from Haiti 🇭🇹

  • @patriziabellatreccia5526
    @patriziabellatreccia5526 Год назад +2

    Brava. I like how you explain things. Gracious but firm.❤

  • @reneachilds8111
    @reneachilds8111 Год назад

    Great advice! I do understand about a few timeless pieces . Some people budgets don't allow...any advice for those who must shop at a lower discount for clothing.? Places to shop and brands to look for. Great, money tips....THANK YOU

  • @PALSAcademy312
    @PALSAcademy312 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for this

  • @michellelogreco3351
    @michellelogreco3351 Год назад +2

    Serve the Lord 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @MrKiwuuwa
    @MrKiwuuwa Год назад

    Though not a woman, still I do enjoy tremendously your presentations. Thank you so much & God bless you.

  • @achillesimo5150
    @achillesimo5150 Год назад +1

    Thank you for everything you are doing . Thank you for sharing

  • @caramel0037
    @caramel0037 Год назад +15

    This is really great advice, I love it ❤. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.

  • @ChoiceObayuwana
    @ChoiceObayuwana Год назад +3

    Thanks dear for this information ❤❤

  • @ameryek.9607
    @ameryek.9607 Год назад +1

    Hello from Los Angeles!

  • @WonderingHead
    @WonderingHead 11 месяцев назад

    On point Vivian!As always...❤

  • @RonnieHicks-g4v
    @RonnieHicks-g4v 9 месяцев назад

    Love your lessons, you're a Godsend ❤

  • @ruthekwe-ep4it
    @ruthekwe-ep4it Год назад

    Thank you dear, you are such an excellent lady, I really like the way you speak and behave I really wish I could speak like you

  • @christinesealy463
    @christinesealy463 Год назад +1

    True talk my girl

  • @CC-hu3ie
    @CC-hu3ie Год назад +2

    I knew it, thank you for making this video!

  • @karencollins2440
    @karencollins2440 Год назад +1

    Great advice as always, Vivienne.. Thank you!

  • @lolajacomino6574
    @lolajacomino6574 Год назад +1

    Great video. I wish you were in my life when I was young ❤

  • @michellelogreco3351
    @michellelogreco3351 Год назад +1

    Agree completely!
    Amen

  • @SwatiPatelnz
    @SwatiPatelnz Год назад +1

    I buy lotto tickets now and then, but don't consider myself a gambler. Also love junk food, once a week or so (pizza etc). I also put EVERYTHING on credit where possible, because I earn points. The money gets paid automatically each month and I am never in debt. I don't think this makes me a mess of a woman.

  • @gloriahargrave4075
    @gloriahargrave4075 Год назад +7

    Thanks You For This Beautiful Queen 👑💚🌹.

  • @ingridwilliams8677
    @ingridwilliams8677 Год назад +1

    Thanks you inspire me so much

  • @mondeliyungu5711
    @mondeliyungu5711 Год назад +4

    Thank you for another great video ❤

  • @A.Hlalll
    @A.Hlalll Год назад +3

    Proverbs 31:10-31 just like the virtuous woman from the Bible! 😃

  • @NaaKomley
    @NaaKomley Год назад +1

    Dropping gems as always, I love this.

  • @viviane4850
    @viviane4850 Год назад +1

    Great advice!Thanks for the inspiration

  • @nassunaannet3157
    @nassunaannet3157 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing with us madam Vivian

  • @mightychondria3552
    @mightychondria3552 Год назад +1

    I just love this lady!! She is an amazing woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bandzilehdlamini7173
    @bandzilehdlamini7173 Год назад

    Thank you❤

  • @dajahbolden1022
    @dajahbolden1022 Год назад +1

    Thank you very much for this video. ❤

  • @faithamensmith9856
    @faithamensmith9856 Год назад

    This as well as many other videos is great.❤

  • @louisamarfo8487
    @louisamarfo8487 Год назад +3

    Life influencer 😇, you're welcome back with your beautiful lifestyle❤, we're always on RUclips for you 🎉💚🥳

  • @Product_snob
    @Product_snob Год назад

    Great video welcome back 💗

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop Год назад +1

    Excellent advice.

  • @aishwarya2016
    @aishwarya2016 Год назад +1

    Thank you very much, Madam ! I appreciate this video. ❤😊

  • @susanbullock7258
    @susanbullock7258 Год назад

    Preach sis my new friend !!!!!!!

  • @sarag4745
    @sarag4745 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 Год назад

    Thank you,I needed this, i need manage my money

  • @MARIAORTIZ-od3hk
    @MARIAORTIZ-od3hk Год назад

    Thank you excellent advice 👍

  • @rosemarythompson1145
    @rosemarythompson1145 Год назад

    Thanks so much dear ❤

  • @MICHELDILLIONS
    @MICHELDILLIONS Год назад +12

    😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻
    Romans 8:19
    English Standard Version ,
    Sons and Daughters , Chosen Ones ,
    For the creation waits with eager ,
    longing for the revealing ,
    of the sons of God.
    So Blessed Thank you ,
    Woman Of Elegance ,
    😊🤗💖🙏🏋🦁🦬🌼🌴🌻

  • @teenindustry
    @teenindustry Год назад

    Good debt vs bad debt
    Good debt is a mortgage or your education when there is not other way of financing it in a sensible way. It could also be a car if you have no other means for getting to work. For some good debt is a business loan for vita equipment if your business is profitable enough to pay it back.
    Consumer goods like shopping or holidays or any other wants are bad debt

  • @SolaScriptura-w8k
    @SolaScriptura-w8k Год назад

    love your videos! thank you!

  • @breadandcircus1
    @breadandcircus1 Год назад +1

    Well, I like to buy lottery tickets . I'd prefer to be a classless millionaire, than an elegant indigent, LOL!🤓🤠

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 Год назад

    Great advice. Thank you very much.

  • @ranjeetnk4660
    @ranjeetnk4660 Год назад +3

    Good job 👍

  • @BwaleNguni
    @BwaleNguni 11 месяцев назад

    My woman you talk sense❤

  • @itsdebs
    @itsdebs Год назад +1

    Even Princess Diana enjoyed the occasional McDonalds..

  • @gracemakeslace
    @gracemakeslace Год назад +12

    I'm enjoying the video as usual, but I will make a caveat on the gambling one. My tip there is, unless you're struggling with gambling addiction, consider the social situation.
    For example, my partner and I never buy lottery tickets and see it as a waste of money, but my partner participates in the office pool in order to be a team player. I participate in raffles and 50/50s at local events because at least half, if not most, of that money is going to a good cause(and often the prizes are donated to the organization). We never expect to win from those, but there's other benefits(camaraderie with coworkers and putting money toward good causes).

    • @gracemakeslace
      @gracemakeslace Год назад

      @@chasb3234 that's exactly what I was saying. Consider the social situation 👍

  • @HeliSvisa-pq7ki
    @HeliSvisa-pq7ki Год назад

    Thank you vivian . ❤. Wonderfull as allways🎀🌺

  • @kadiatuturay4078
    @kadiatuturay4078 Год назад

    Good advice

  • @freemark5849
    @freemark5849 Год назад +3

    Great!!!

  • @faridabouguermouh8879
    @faridabouguermouh8879 10 месяцев назад

    By watching your video I can recognize myself as a woman of elegance 🙏🌹

  • @conciliaogambaephraim4124
    @conciliaogambaephraim4124 Год назад +1

    God bless you dear

  • @Loveistheway-prayalways.
    @Loveistheway-prayalways. Год назад +1

    Lots of Love to all 🌎♥️

  • @JoanneBick
    @JoanneBick 9 месяцев назад

    Vivian youre a queen. ❤

  • @The.Review-Queen
    @The.Review-Queen Год назад

    You are the best, nice so much for this content

  • @ManifestationExpert
    @ManifestationExpert Год назад +1

    ❤thanks Vivian

  • @aishanamu4961
    @aishanamu4961 Год назад

    Thanks