The Abundance of Letting Go | Dr. Alison Tan | TEDxShanghaiWomen

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
  • DR. ALISON TAN is passionate about people. Overcoming her intense panic attacks gave her the courage to see her non-serving old beliefs, and helped shift her perspective to one of self-acceptance. Today, she supports senior executives to embrace whom they are, rather than whom they feel they have to be.
    DR. ALISON TAN is passionate about people. Overcoming her intense panic attacks gave her the courage to see her non-serving old beliefs, and helped shift her perspective to one of self-acceptance. Today, she supports senior executives to embrace whom they are, rather than whom they feel they have to be.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 83

  • @mikeygaming20
    @mikeygaming20 5 лет назад +42

    It's all about letting go man.. That is literally it. And in that letting go there's immense trust in higher powers within you, get out of those powers' way and let go and let it all unfold for you 💯

  • @funkychick4lyf
    @funkychick4lyf 5 лет назад +31

    Awhhh this is one of my favourite TED talks, to be reminded that we are here to serve and be free from control by letting go ❤️🙏🏾

  • @MotivateCommunity
    @MotivateCommunity 5 лет назад +11

    We hosted Alison, Dr Alison Tan for another talk in Shanghai. We've had 100+ Speakers. You might want to look further into Alison. Search, you will find very little. She is completely real. Completely genuine. Yet her 'ego' seems so small or perhaps she really did 'let it go'.
    The first times I met Alison she made me, feel 8foot tall and bulletproof. I feel her Self-Awareness, level of development and coaching is outstanding. When we hosted her as a speaker (and later gave her an award) I didn't hear she was a TEDx Speaker or Doctor once. Yet most coaches, including myself, put these titles at the front of many of our bio's trailing across the Net. Alison is more than genuine, a role model for coaches and change agents, a role model of excellence.
    Next time Alison if you read this THANK YOU, big hug!

  • @georgekiapos1
    @georgekiapos1 4 года назад +2

    I'm a TEDx junkie. This is, by far, the absolute BEST ted talks guest I've ever experienced!!!

  • @sonyaberkenpas5071
    @sonyaberkenpas5071 4 года назад +13

    I feel like I’m a 34 year old version of this lady before her epiphany. I don’t want to live any longer trying to control my life because all it does is give me anxiety and depression.

  • @Mia-ei4mh
    @Mia-ei4mh 2 года назад +2

    She's such a beautiful person ❤️ we learn from our mistakes that's what makes us strong 💪

  • @shazabd
    @shazabd 7 лет назад +44

    An absolute great genuine talk, it motivated and inspired me to have a second look on my actions and behavior..wish i've knew this a long time ago, but it is never too late.

  • @nicolemarieb.7044
    @nicolemarieb.7044 3 года назад

    This type of mindfulness, not obsessing and controlling symptoms, was a massive relief in my chronic pain.

  • @kah-mingng8049
    @kah-mingng8049 9 лет назад +29

    Simple truths are the most inspiring. Thank you for this!

  • @andjela6351
    @andjela6351 Год назад +2

    People need to stop to telling that being vulnerable is a bad thing and that you are a small person if you show your emotions. Learn to live, life could be very short when you realize you had it all and do nothing with it. Stop living for career and material things only, life is more, much more! That will not go underground with you.

  • @sneekis03
    @sneekis03 7 лет назад +15

    watch this once a day, good medicine

  • @princemarora
    @princemarora 5 лет назад +6

    Don't sweat the small stuff.... I chose to be a selective thinker.. Some will call me passive but I chose to let go of certain things that are not worth the sweat. I m only human.. We all are.. And all are limited.

  • @nidhi0211
    @nidhi0211 7 лет назад +26

    This is a powerful speech. Real in fact.

  • @katiekat4457
    @katiekat4457 4 года назад +3

    She did a wonderful way of getting her points across with humor. I listened to everything she said b/c it was funny. She did a great job of keeping the speech entertaining and funny without ever making a joke about the seriousness of her talk. Great Job!!!!!!!

  • @abbasesultan
    @abbasesultan 6 лет назад +6

    Loved her for the wisdom she shared. Thanks!

  • @cruisepaige
    @cruisepaige 4 года назад +4

    I don’t know why but I’m just crying while I’m watching this.

  • @titsc5941
    @titsc5941 6 лет назад +10

    Loved this so much!! Your honesty, your simplicity and modesty, your wisdom, your calmness, your charisma and humor..very inspiring! Cannot remember when I was for the last time so captured during a speech.

  • @paulaptre
    @paulaptre 5 лет назад +2

    You are such a beautiful person! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
    Thank you so so so much!

  • @aithancamo3748
    @aithancamo3748 6 лет назад +2

    Dr. Allison Tan, such a great speaker😊

  • @cruisepaige
    @cruisepaige 4 года назад

    Extremely moving. What a generous lady to open up like this.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад

    Life just happens! Specially when we love our life and control it. Beautiful impressive amazing soul. Vulnerable. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @nancychadderdon6776
    @nancychadderdon6776 6 лет назад +2

    This is what I needed to see. Thank you!

  • @BeatrizDemartini
    @BeatrizDemartini 6 лет назад +12

    Loved the talk, loved this woman!! She is so cute and funny! I want her to be my grandma :)

    • @riteshshukla1709
      @riteshshukla1709 5 лет назад

      Beatriz Demartini haha you are more funny than her 😂. Why you want her to be your grandma ?

  • @DaniaDraws
    @DaniaDraws 6 лет назад +3

    I am glad she changed and she is happy.I changed too.

  • @xCynHooliganx
    @xCynHooliganx 5 лет назад +1

    I needed it today, I really did! She’s so great, I could listen to her all day ♥️

  • @sophiarhodes1
    @sophiarhodes1 4 года назад

    Transparency, vulnerability, and strength! I truly enjoyed this talk!

  • @helengolovin7443
    @helengolovin7443 7 лет назад +18

    I liked the way she talked. It seemed very genuine and sincere. Choosing a topic for diner, Jesus :))))) Trees are messy. I wish my grandmother had listened to this. As opposed to her, she never understood she was a control freek, she drove everyone very crazy, making it difficult to love her, ruined all her close relationships, lost all contact with her daughter and made her life financially very difficult, trying to uphold various real estate taht she could not afford, but she would not sell. She would not tolerate any change, even if the living room table had been turned the other way, she went nuts. Control freeks make lige incredibly difficult for their families as well s themselves.

    • @lisa-marieshy9673
      @lisa-marieshy9673 7 лет назад +2

      Helen Golovin Your comment sounds exactly like my own mother. She hasn't been in our lives for over two years now. She finds great fault in everyone she encounters not realizing the common denominator is in fact her. She is a narcissist and plain outright mean. It's unfortunate, being the only child, she has nothing to do with my two sons. Her ONLY two grandchildren. She lives in a place of ego and lacks the ability to see her future ahead... alone. I wish she could have an epiphany like this amazing women.

    • @dreamless1988
      @dreamless1988 7 лет назад +1

      Lisa-Marie Shymkowich I had my share with people like your mom. How about accepting your mom as she is and reconnecting with her now while keeping the children away if you want . Do you think it's possible ?

    • @itsshantaatkins
      @itsshantaatkins 6 лет назад

      I hope that you all find peace with parents and that Jesus will help them relinquish control

    • @tinatjoanda1130
      @tinatjoanda1130 4 года назад

      @@lisa-marieshy9673 .

  • @ocean4332
    @ocean4332 6 лет назад +8

    Thank you for this talk, it is really helpful for me, because I have the same tendencies). You are awesome!

  • @dianamurugi1457
    @dianamurugi1457 7 месяцев назад

    I really needed this at this moment

  • @ML-el8vr
    @ML-el8vr Год назад

    Thank you! I needed to hear this right now!! 🙏

  • @anitchlikadze3451
    @anitchlikadze3451 6 лет назад +12

    Great talk and good sense of humour😁👍👏

  • @nancymendez1936
    @nancymendez1936 3 года назад

    So sincere...I needed to hear this...thank you thank you

  • @kaiawang9593
    @kaiawang9593 2 года назад

    Thank you!!

  • @soyamor6528
    @soyamor6528 5 лет назад +2

    I love everything about this speech, thank you. Ive been there too and it is unbearable for oneself and the others. So glad we both follow the path of acceptance and learnt to go with the flow (most of the time, hahaha)

  • @dalangie
    @dalangie 6 лет назад +1

    She is so great!

  • @rashadjaveed274
    @rashadjaveed274 Год назад

    A better or base talk on the subject. enjoyedit. thanks

  • @mangoyacho
    @mangoyacho 4 года назад

    Wow - excellent talk! Thank you for your honesty and great sense of humour!

  • @tj3954
    @tj3954 2 года назад

    This is a wonderful talk! So inspirational.

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @cindyangel7830
    @cindyangel7830 6 лет назад +3

    Amazing thank you sooo much

  • @maramariajarvis3425
    @maramariajarvis3425 6 лет назад

    Love her way, thank you!

  • @jimmychien5662
    @jimmychien5662 4 года назад

    Alison has a great sense of humour. I appreciated her sharing of her life journey through many pains & lessons learned. I wish she had spent less time on her past & more on the abundance she & her clients are experiencing. I wish she had shared what she told her clients to do. I wish to follow the rules she wanted her clients to follow.

  • @hillaryyy3659
    @hillaryyy3659 2 года назад

    Wow this was beautiful!!

  • @adrianasanchezperez2619
    @adrianasanchezperez2619 6 лет назад +2

    Wonderful! Thanks so much! So funny. And great advice :)

  • @yka5299
    @yka5299 5 лет назад

    Thank you you too so lovely !

  • @jj-2223
    @jj-2223 2 года назад

    This was Great!

  • @TheKapias
    @TheKapias 5 лет назад

    Enjoyed greatly! Thank you!❤️❤️

  • @Norazah-nj9gd
    @Norazah-nj9gd 12 дней назад

    Love this❤

  • @amswestyorkshire8048
    @amswestyorkshire8048 4 года назад

    Love this thank you for sharing 😊

  • @miladyamalia6446
    @miladyamalia6446 6 лет назад +3

    Awesome! Love it! Thank you!

  • @embodytoevolve6356
    @embodytoevolve6356 2 года назад

    loved it!

  • @st88ify
    @st88ify 6 лет назад +4

    That was laugh out loud funny. Great talk

  • @jadephang
    @jadephang 4 года назад

    Timely advice

  • @abitmuch721
    @abitmuch721 Год назад

    Hello Life! This was nice ..

  • @kirsty4444
    @kirsty4444 3 года назад

    Awesome 😎 thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @safroja369
    @safroja369 4 года назад

    That was wonderful

  • @bootszarawalken9987
    @bootszarawalken9987 6 лет назад +3

    Great talk. Inspiring.

  • @sharonwatson4085
    @sharonwatson4085 5 лет назад

    Spectacular!

  • @s.h.u.l.a.ministriesoverco6231
    @s.h.u.l.a.ministriesoverco6231 2 года назад

    Great talk and funny!!!

  • @KoreanwithNaz
    @KoreanwithNaz 4 года назад

    Good talk. I enjoyed it!

  • @soknachoeurn2369
    @soknachoeurn2369 3 года назад +2

    Sometimes, I just wanna be a cat. I don't want to feel fear of everything.

  • @kimberlyj4538
    @kimberlyj4538 3 года назад +1

    “Visually disorganized”! Lol

  • @williammaldonado3516
    @williammaldonado3516 3 года назад

    All I can say is! 🙏 Namaste! 💞

  • @heronalvimmoreira3956
    @heronalvimmoreira3956 3 года назад

    That's genious...

  • @duyenhoangphuong4170
    @duyenhoangphuong4170 3 года назад +2

    She is so cuteee 😂😂♥️

  • @yeseniapaz11
    @yeseniapaz11 5 лет назад

    Love 💛

  • @cecastrocelecastro2597
    @cecastrocelecastro2597 4 года назад

    Cómo puedo conseguir este video en español

  • @creativecorner4715
    @creativecorner4715 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tonibelladejelo4875
    @tonibelladejelo4875 6 лет назад

    I love you..

  • @anitchlikadze3451
    @anitchlikadze3451 6 лет назад

    💖

  • @Clevelandsteamer324
    @Clevelandsteamer324 2 месяца назад

    Let go or be dragged

  • @angelaramcharan7782
    @angelaramcharan7782 5 лет назад +1

    OMG, this so remind me if ME,,, wht....😐😐😐

  • @elijahgarcia5504
    @elijahgarcia5504 4 года назад

    Yeah go ahead and let go but dont dance please✌

  • @karishort7561
    @karishort7561 5 лет назад +2

    1k like ❤

  • @장-f6m
    @장-f6m 5 лет назад +1

    what a cute lady

  • @naimazubeir
    @naimazubeir 6 лет назад +1

    👋💋