What Do Women Want Over 40 | Dating Tips Over 40
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Great info. My wife has told me that she was first attracted to my style and my confidence. We were out with mutual friends and later in the night, we all went to a 24-hour diner. We were having great fun and really connecting. So I took a big risk, I just opened my flip phone (yes this was some years ago) set it to add new contact, and handed it to her with a big smile. I did it lightheartedly but with the confidence of Patton. She grabbed the phone and put her name and number in and handed it back to me with a big sexy smile. I remember thinking "damn that actually worked!" We now have four kids and are best friends. :D
Well played!
This still works today
Good for you!
I'm Super Happy for you and your wife's good fortune!!! Cherish it Forever !!!
Usually it doesn't.
The style/dress thing is HUGE, and most men don't realise it. Younger women don't care as much, but for older women, especially 35+, it really matters.
Last year I decided to upgrade my wardrobe and bought some nicer coats, jackets, jumpers, shoes etc, and I noticed a difference in how women responded to me, including ones in my immediate social circle.
It really does make a difference, and older men who want to date should take their general overall appearance more seriously when trying to meet women.
Absolutely!
John I agree with you but I think there is one item missing, dancing. I’m 75 and have dancing all my life and every lady likes to be asked to dance, EVERY LADY. I may not be Fred Astaire but when I’m on the dance floor my job is to make a lady look good and feel like Ginger Rogers.
This is true...It's almost mandatory and borderline cliché for single women on dating apps to put they do salsa and bachata.
I totally agree!I go out and dance with men who want to dance and dance with me! I'm a really good dancer have been dancing all my life. Imalways friendly,but not flirty. I don't represent myself as looking for a date. Just fun and conversation on an adult respectful level.
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My father says the same thing. Started ballroom dancing in his late 40s/50s and he has all kinds of women lining up for a dance. Not just at the events.
Amen brother!! I'm 57 and dancing has helped me. In all ways.
Someone needs to make this video for women over 40!
Great advice! You are spot on especially with last point! Thank you
True story: Many years ago when I was single, I finally gave up and decided to follow the George Costanza “do the opposite” approach. It worked better than what I had been doing and I now have been happily married for 23 years. I wish I had had some of your advice back then.
Thanks for watching and commenting Robin!
@@40OverFashion You should do a video like this except with 40-65 subjects
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Do the opposite is the same as doing nothing?
@@asmrfoodieuk7965 Not really. It is taking actions that go against what your gut is telling you.
@@RobinsWatchJourney going against your gut? 🥴
Nicely done and well thought out.
Great Video. Very Inspiring. Keep them coming. Enjoy watching them.
Thank you for sharing.. its helpful and informative ❤😍😍😍
Great as always John!
Awesome video! One of the best I have seen here on RUclips. Thank you and well done!
Awesome content John! #2 very worthwhile!
Thanx for the advise wiseman.
I think you're spot on, John. I'm looking forward to Part II.
Thank you!
Make a part #2 , good job and keep the info comeing.!!!👌🙂
Good stuff John. I appreciate the videos. Thanks for doing all our homework too. 🙃
Thank you for watching!
Sounds good to me.
The loss of ambition (desire) and confidence (belief) hit me a while ago. I'm working on restoring them to long-lasting and meaningful levels, hence my interest in style channels.
Thank you very much for watching!
Good one. Would love to see episode 2
That was a very good video on a tough subject. Keep up the great work.
Excellent John, looking forward to next video.
Thank you!
Hei! This is great knowledge and it's clear it's coming from a great source! It's indeed educative and inspiring.
Thanks mate. Nice and simple.
Well said.
The bravest thing a man can do is to take care of himself and his family.
Thank you John, this is fantastic advice. I even got my note book out to make notes.
Thank you very much!
Pure Gold my Man! Yes part II please.
I love the Videos; not in my 40's but great information to help me plan things out for the future. Thank you
Hi John! Terrific video!!!!!!! Greate info!!!! Im looking foward for part 2!!!!!
Thank you!
Great points.
Great video, spot on.
Perfectly stated. Enjoyed your video
Glad you enjoyed it!
KEEP IT UP THANK YOU
You are 💯 on point, can’t agree more
Thanks John again and again.
Great video and info John, everyone can use a little help. Thanks 👍😊
I just got you sight this morning. I have to say you do a great job. Thank you for posting.
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching!
Nice work.
Very good content and advice, looking forward to part 2
Thank you!
Good information.
Great video. Very good, sensible advice, much appreciated!
Thanks for watching!
This was a good watch John. Looking forward to part 2. Have a great week. 👍
Thank you very much!
great video John!
Thank you!
Interesting insight
Thanks
Great video.
The number one thing women want is security. Whether that be physically, emotionally, financially, or even medically. They're most happy when a good balance exists in the relationship.
Great topic. Great Tips
Thank you!
Hi John, Good content waiting for part II. Thank you
Thanks for watching!
Thank you
excellent information, John
Thank you!
Yes, please make a part 2 John, I think this maybe a topic for a whole series
Thanks Russ!
Excellent advice
Love to hear part 2 John.
Thank you Peter!
Great content - turning 49 this year!
Right on target. Very informative content. Looking forward for part 2.
Awesome, thank you!
Well done sir
Very nice wise message plz send me the next part thanks
Good video man....thanks
Thanks for watching!
Thank you.
Lots of great advice.
Thanks for watching David!
Yes, Part 2, please. This is great "real world" advice that we probably already know but it gets covered up by all the other noise on this topic so it's nice to be reminded.
Thanks Steve! Appreciate your comment!
Ok
Really great honest content,
Thank you!
PART 2 PART 2, PLEASE!!!
Very good John, we need more of this, alot of what you are saying is Common sense, but Common sense is not Common, keep it coming, like the %%%
Thank you very much!
Nice job on this one!
Thank you!
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well presented gentleman. Give us more.
I like those tips
Sounds "right on point." I must say that being an older adult (70s) and trying to reestablish goals at this age is terribly difficult even though I'm not in the market for a new partner.
1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
Great topic and spot-on John, today's world has changed significantly. Have a great week!
Thank you Steven!
It was an amazing short lecture! Thanks. Raphael, Rio de Janeiro (Brazil)
Thank you!
Happy to see all of your dress sense especially for above forties. Ur videos are morale booster who have assumes that sunshine has gone.
Interesting. Good points
Thank you!
Good video as always. I'd recommend a second one, if not already done. As a 51YO single father in the dating scene, I can attest that these are important to know. Men have to have their stuff together and then look for compatibility items.
Great infor. and lesson for all the 40 plus
John. I appreciate your information you share with us. I watch a few different sources to understand women by women, but I look forward to your position and opinions also. Keep up the good work.
I appreciate that! Thank you!
That was pretty damn good, thanks
Thanks for watching!
Solid and reassuring advice, just need to fight the depression and get into action. Peace
1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
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New subscriber here! Love your content . On point !
Thank you very much!
A lot of great advice good comments from you hopefully it'll help some of these guys pull their head out
Thanks Mike!
I love your channel !
Thank you!
Very. Good. Advise. And. Help.
In a year I'll enter my 40's and after watching a Jordan Peterson video where he talks about dressing up, I found your channel. Great topics, I look forward to listening and learning.
Thank you very much!
I’m 37 years old now almost 38 this October and I’m already gearing up to be 40 years old in 2024 and I want to attend my High School’s 20th Anniversary in April or May 2024. I’ve become a self -starter small business owner and I’ve got a growing list of business operations on my business plan that I’m going to gear up for when I turn 38, 39 and 40. I’ve been making a network of business contacts with the SBDC and SCORE and the trucking logistics industries. I’m going to soon be a fleet owner and a owner operator later this spring once I secure the business credit funding. I’ve been studying for my CDL Permit to get my Class A CDL so I can have a financial security in the trucking business and the export shipping management business. I’m needing ALL THE HELP I can get right now
Great video! It hit home, and it hurt... I'm disabled, just turned 59, don't own a car, and am trying to repurpose my life after many years away from my career. At this point in my life I don't see myself ever dating again...
James many women would understand but the beginning point is up to you-the short term/ long term of a relationship.
It can start out whenever you know which you want.
James I dont know your handicap but one of my first jobs was working at a rehab unit of Tufts NE Medical Center, Boston. We got mostly males for long term rehab. Paraplegics and quads.The unde r 30s were sports injuries, diving off bridges etc, motorcycle accidents. 30s to 50s were often falls all these were spinal injuries. There are today many therapies to help even quads...I see in your photo you are standing....not sure why you mentioned your disability or what it is. If you are in an urban area there are likely available licensed trained surrogates who can help you....check for sex therapists they may be able to help and often use sex surrogates to do rehab...you are a young good looking man I see in your photo....you most certainly CAN date.
Sybil.Francis PhD clinical psychologist and professor
Just keep moving forward James!
Ok
Don't worry James your not missing out on today's liberal feminism. Unless you're a top 10 percent man they will chew you up and spit you out.No joke!
Great insights. Things that really matter. You cannot put it better than how you have done in this educational video. Simple things but really useful Thank you Grateful.
Thanks for watching!
Excellent superb very nice
Thanks for sharing
God bless you and your family 🙏
Wow you nailed it 👍🏻
Love your videos John. This is great, good to see dating tips as well for married men like myself, reason I say this is because in married life you can get a bit complacent and rusty with romance as you get comfortable being with your long term partner so it's very refreshing to get ideas on how to keep treating your long term partner like you guys have just started dating again and re assure your wife/ partner that romance is not dead. Also, I am Scottish, my wife is Polish. A lot of guys think eastern European girls just want western men for money, not the case my friend, my wife loved the fact I could treat her well, spend qaulity time with her, my job at the time I first met her was pretty average, so don't let the whole "women just love a fat wallet"get you down, go out and get that girl, who knows, she maybe turn out to be your soul partner.
Thank you! Well said! You can’t stop trying!
Absolutely.I am virtual talking with a Ukrainian woman.gorgeous inside and out.Hope our first meet be just as successful at the end of the month.
This is So True! We tend to get too relaxed and comfortable with the special someone person we've been married to for years (like 28) then seem to neglect and ignore take for granted that once great person we first married. My special someone has now passed now widowed 3 years.
Great Cliff Notes summary John. Some of the first 3 things I try to find out is, credit score, political affiliation/beliefs, and relationship with family. That'll tell you a lot about any person.
Solid advice
@@eyeheartsushi2212 huge deal in a relationship. Learned it early on thank goodness.
@@Shreadingtongood comment, I add religious (cult) beliefs as well as a red flag
Great vid John & spot on advice...
I’d consider adding this tidbit for Those who’re NOT experiencing THEIR desired success; ‘If whatever you’re doing isn’t working, do something else/different...’.
Be intellectually honest w/Oneself first & foremost...
You’re channel provides ‘high quality’ content & for that, I’m very grateful...
I’m headed to NOLA for live music & a brunch date...
Have a great weekend...!!!
Mac😎👍
Thank you very much!
Brilliant I love it keep on educat the unwise
Thank you for the video John; where I fail is stepping out of my comfort zone.
I have much the same issue when it comes to trying new routines, or just doing that one new thing I've never tried before.
What I found has helped me is to make the new thing my top priority for the month.
I'm an early riser but not a consistent enough exerciser so I made exercising one of the first things I do in the morning.
Try doing that for 30 days straight and see if you don't find yourself setting aside time to do it bc you've habituated yourself to the goal of ?
And you'll notice you'll start to miss the activity if you can't do it bc you have to go to the doctor.
Great on the money
Yup, communication is most important.
This is a fantastic list of attainable goals... a complete package of what seems to be quite obvious, though, and most unfortunate, it is not... Great job!
Thank you!
I subscribed good content.
Thank you very much Frank!
I'm married but everything you said works with me and I agree with you 💯%... And of course being a gentleman to a lady is a plus plus... Great topic though 👍
Yes itis true John. Thank you very much, your words are true, especiallt in the case of couples conseling. This will really affect on life if it isignored. I myself lost two relationship because of the inflexiblity of the other party in getting help and counceling... Thank you so much again🙏💛💜💗
Thanks for watching!
I know a guy who keeps blaming others for anything bad that happens to him, i noticed women don't ever get attracted to him. Worst is he doesn't take care of his physical appearance. It's no wonder despite his age he never had any girlfriend. Sori dude just had to tell the truth so others may learn. ✌🙁 👀
Good content.
Thank you very much!