day 13/365 of 2025 - the best has yet to come. it’s okay to be single in your 20s

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

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  • @wesleyooms
    @wesleyooms 16 дней назад

    Yes I'm not jealous of the people who are married. I'm single and really enjoy the freedom of it.

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  16 дней назад

      if we really desire to be married it will and shall happen. singleness only has a small window frame of time for us - once we got married and have kids it will never be the same again. :) let’s pour more love onto us so we can radiate more love to the world

  • @eduardomaldonado1647
    @eduardomaldonado1647 16 дней назад

    Word of advice hun. Men who want a committed relationship "Marriage" want a family. What is a family for a future husband?? a wife and children. women who are past age 30 the fertility declines substantially. Guys that want family do not want women in this category. A man who wants a wife is pursuing a woman who is in her peak of fertility that can give him children, that is the purpose of marriage. That is the main reason ALL men want young women as wives. It does not matter how good you look for age. AGE does matter. We also understand that a woman who is age 30 or above is also not a virgin. The longer a woman stays single it is good indicator that she is highly likely had many sexual partners. Men who want marriage do not want a woman with many sexual partners. If you are 30 and have no husband that means you had at least 12 years of potential suitors that you rejected. The pickings will get slimmer and slimmer for you as you get older. The good men will get snatched up by the smart women. The older you get now you also have to compete with girls who are younger than you. Your prospects will become less desirable and will end up getting a left over man. The alternative end up a single woman and get passed around from man to man who will sex with you but will never commit. You really want that?? GROW UP. Marriage is never a movie like Cinderella. Marriage involves work but there is also much benefit to it as well.

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  16 дней назад

      @@eduardomaldonado1647 excuse me you should never judge a person based on their personal preferences and so what if a person stays single if they wanted to. im not promiscuous who casually sleeps around. i focused on myself in my 20s (im 29) building my character, my career in a reputable field, healing childhood traumas, serving my community, helping my parents and earning my own money. all of the things you mentioned are just based assumptions and opinion. if a person does not want to rush for a lifelong commitment then they are not. there’s no fairytale story. i think it is pragmatic and wise to not fall into the same cycle and trauma of a failed and miserable family dynamic like the one i grew up in bec of rushing - just because “you feel you are late”. many men are still emotionally immature and just cant even handle themselves. i want a partner in life not an extended mother for them. if i cant meet one then rather stay single than be unhappy and miserable.

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  16 дней назад

      @@eduardomaldonado1647 hope you are happy in your marriage.

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  16 дней назад

      @@eduardomaldonado1647 also disclaimer when i said “dated” men i mean get to know people and taking time for it - not sleep around. anyway, feel free to think what you want to think

  • @kiwifrizzle2725
    @kiwifrizzle2725 19 дней назад

    I'm tired of being single 😂

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  18 дней назад

      @@kiwifrizzle2725 hahaha

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  16 дней назад

      i feel that too sometimes (or many times) lol but pour that love onto yourself more girl - so we attract the love we deserve :)

    • @kiwifrizzle2725
      @kiwifrizzle2725 16 дней назад

      @@smaeduavis Girl? XD

    • @smaeduavis
      @smaeduavis  15 дней назад

      @@kiwifrizzle2725 ohh idk just assumed sorry! haha

    • @kiwifrizzle2725
      @kiwifrizzle2725 15 дней назад

      @@smaeduavis No your good lol just didn't know I became a woman now lol