Distractions Kill Dreams - Social Proof Hot Seat🔥🔥 #14

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @living_water-
    @living_water- Год назад +73

    Everybody thinks they can coach. Sometimes, its more powerful to be the person that sparks conversations. A podcast were she interviews real experts and learn from them in real time will be a hit.

    • @TrunxKraft3000
      @TrunxKraft3000 Год назад +3

      Basically what David said.

    • @rebelrocksmm
      @rebelrocksmm Год назад +6

      Facts because it seems like with relationships ppl want to run to empowering ppl. Like do a lil more healing first

  • @AngieLeeBlog
    @AngieLeeBlog Год назад +37

    “You can’t save anyone else while trying to save yourself!” 😮 I felt that … David

  • @Afrikah2911
    @Afrikah2911 Год назад +25

    I feel like on her podcast, she should bring on people who got out of abusive or toxic relationships to tell their stories. No advice! Then the next episode she brings on a psychologist or therapist to break down all of the warning signs and red flags in the story and practical steps for what to do in those situations.

  • @Theconscioustruth1
    @Theconscioustruth1 Год назад +33

    Love this episode. Love her authenticity. I see that she really does want to be a better person it’s really just a process… stay strong queen you got this!! We all been through it.. 🙂

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад +9

    Lately I’ve been really into understanding how our brain tricks us and I think in some way we seek to help others as a way to fix ourselves. There’s something there. Delusion.

  • @luxurytaxprep
    @luxurytaxprep 6 месяцев назад +2

    Everybody that wants to start a business should watch this series FIRST

  • @TrunxKraft3000
    @TrunxKraft3000 Год назад +17

    She just has gotten good at sounding like she has something going on. I honestly don’t think that she’s in any position to be coaching anyone. If she’s going to self develop, I think that’s great but anything beyond that is a reach for someone in her position right now.
    I see this so much online where people get so involved in the character that they’re trying to portray themselves as on social media, that when you start asking certain questions, you quickly see that they have no clue who they are or what they want to be.

  • @Abigail-Hollis
    @Abigail-Hollis 11 месяцев назад +5

    I love these segments! David don’t listen to any negative reviews… You can develop these to become RUclips golden!!! Other podcast are not even producing content this productive!! I love this! ❤❤❤

  • @AngieLeeBlog
    @AngieLeeBlog Год назад +17

    David, this was another eye opener. I have to face my fears. Maybe she is scared of rejection or abandonment.

    • @TAOFS
      @TAOFS Год назад

      I believe so, she seems to have answer for her problems but not solutions or practical solutions

    • @tracyreadytv
      @tracyreadytv 6 месяцев назад

  • @catalex330
    @catalex330 Год назад +17

    😮 When she finally asked a question, “What do you think I should work on first?”, I thought progress had been made. Until she responded “coaching”
    We have to stay away from the distractions (relationships, sex, talking to people too) Fast from any of those distractions❤
    Continue asking questions sis. Write down what respect and self respect looks like to you. Accept nothing less.
    This is so cringe because it mirrored my self. It’s ok though we’ll be alright. Pour into your self and your overflow will pour into others.
    Love you ❤

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Год назад +4

    The videographer part was a good chuckle. There’s much growing for her to do…I hope it’ll come with time. Wishing her continued success.

  • @BeingMichelleYvette
    @BeingMichelleYvette Год назад +12

    Seems to me like she’s motivated by the potential money than passion for helping the women she claims to serve. The reason she gave for getting on the platform was to increase her brand awareness was suspect. Not wanting to build and serve a community, lack of self-motivation in her own personal development, living in her story…I can go on. Seems like she has a lot to work out from within to try and coach women with similar challenges. Bless her heart.

    • @fabulousswag6683
      @fabulousswag6683 Год назад +2

      This is constructive,hope she prioritize self awareness.

  • @dionnarobertson4362
    @dionnarobertson4362 Год назад +9

    Honestly girly you got so much growing to do. I agree with Dave get a product or a service and grow that and continue to grow and work on yourself just stay on this self love journey

  • @Christystcyrallen
    @Christystcyrallen Год назад +5

    This really blesses me. Got my whole life together. Jesus is the only one saving me and He got me doing the work and development! You can’t get around it! Gotta build!

  • @CalvinCook587
    @CalvinCook587 Год назад +3

    Bro, this just hooked me! GOD has been leading me in such an enlightening direction, since I started to forfeit the trash for HIM to help me abandon. Baby steps are necessary. There is a process of operations for reaching that final destination, and I am so grateful for this gift of inspiration. ❤️‍🔥🥰

  • @loveizaeah
    @loveizaeah Год назад +3

    Unc be dropping gems sometimes 🔥🔥 the social media comment hit fr

  • @blaqpho3nix
    @blaqpho3nix Год назад +7

    This should’ve been a hot seat with Donni

  • @AngieLeeBlog
    @AngieLeeBlog Год назад +6

    12:50 Daviddddddd you talking to me!!!! I am a student to many & a master at a very few!!!! No one is coming to saving me…. My issue is learning the skill but not executing in a timely manner 😢

  • @I_found_eric
    @I_found_eric Год назад +11

    It seems she believes the online her is the real her. That’s spooky

  • @sunshined5934
    @sunshined5934 7 месяцев назад +1

    The talking in circles nearly drove me to drink! You told her all the right things, David. This woman is regurgitating what she’s read/heard, but doesn’t have a real clue about how to help people.

  • @GoldieLox1
    @GoldieLox1 6 месяцев назад

    She is not ready to help others she has to learn how to not get distracted she gets attached to ppl and get side tracked. Taking time for yourself is very important, taking a couple of years to focus on myself was the best thing I’ve ever done. I showed for myself I’ve became disciplined and consistent I’m not perfect. But I learned that I had do it all myself and the right ppl will come. Good luck to her.

  • @EricArchives
    @EricArchives 7 месяцев назад

    I love these episodes and how David keep it so real!!

  • @janalanaexoxo
    @janalanaexoxo Год назад +3

    It sounds like she wants more influence than coaching, but the attention and validation that we sometimes look for will never suffice if not fulfilled by self!

  • @kaylamobley3703
    @kaylamobley3703 7 месяцев назад +1

    Relationships are an issue for her because she doesn’t love herself to know her self worth. She keeps attracting the same type of person because she hasn’t healed. And until she does she won’t be able to help anybody going through similar situations. When you truly love yourself you have no problem be alone with yourself. A relationship should never be a distraction. That person should add value to your life. If they don’t, you should immediately let them go. But you have to love yourself and know your self worth. And she doesn’t.

  • @vlove6355
    @vlove6355 Год назад +1

    Great job Tamera keep pushing there's more work to be done

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад +1

    17:50 yes it was harsh lol. But a good point because I never connected a lack of self love to inconsistency and a lack of self motivation.

  • @carlettateklemariam193
    @carlettateklemariam193 Год назад +1

    This was an amazing eye-opening conversation!!

  • @flyingjunkies
    @flyingjunkies 7 месяцев назад +1

    Pharrell sang "We're up all night to get lucky" stay focused fellas.

  • @GoldieLox1
    @GoldieLox1 6 месяцев назад

    Awesome Advice David❤️ thank you

  • @jas_thelifeinsurancelady
    @jas_thelifeinsurancelady Год назад +5

    You can’t learn from an empty cup. Not everyone needs to be a coach right away. Understood where David was coming from.

  • @blaqpho3nix
    @blaqpho3nix Год назад +3

    The fact that she couldn’t pick up on the videographer dude says all it needs to say. She’s looking for an easy fix to her own trauma and calling it passion. Let go of the distractions and she’ll get it.

  • @RTPMEMEMBERS
    @RTPMEMEMBERS 2 месяца назад

    I hope she takes heed bc he definitely just upgraded her plan💪🏾

  • @PlatinumPAT
    @PlatinumPAT 6 месяцев назад

    When people say Abusive then say Verbal I no longer look at them as a victim cause sticks and stones make break my bones but words could never hurt me

  • @Flare6
    @Flare6 11 месяцев назад +1

    David trying to put her on game in a variety of ways.

  • @marvfrank361
    @marvfrank361 Год назад +4

    Humble ya self my girl

  • @danielleamory5428
    @danielleamory5428 Месяц назад +1

    I'm confused here. What is she passionate about other than wanting people to feel sorry for her life choices.

  • @ketket0725
    @ketket0725 Год назад +1

    This was an EXCELLENT episode!

  • @reggeesexpressions
    @reggeesexpressions 8 месяцев назад

    David you pulled that out! You can be who you want online

  • @scottjones2261
    @scottjones2261 6 месяцев назад +1

    You worked at cheetah? Word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jk9084
    @jk9084 7 месяцев назад +2

    OMG some of these guests are really delusional ! It's almost like they want to be an entrepreneur because it is the cool thing to do, but they don't even understand the basics.

  • @melaniegenuinely
    @melaniegenuinely 6 месяцев назад

    David has done much wisdom!!!!!

  • @BanginVChef
    @BanginVChef 10 месяцев назад +2

    She spent all that time with David to come back 360 degrees to the same place. Coaching? No ma’am. Just have a conversation and interview. No coaching.

  • @jesscurrie
    @jesscurrie 7 месяцев назад

    How to stop I to into this stuff in a relationship: what she should have said is setting up boundaries for yourself and staying firm on those boundaries, if you’re noticing certain patterns that always happen, think about what you will do when you see it happen again you have a plain so it won’t happen again. It takes a lot of awareness

  • @solebrity409
    @solebrity409 Год назад +3

    I WOULD NEVER🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @tcouture2422
    @tcouture2422 Год назад

    I love your podcasts ! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @GGNaturals
    @GGNaturals 11 месяцев назад +2

    48:16 Only experience and gained wisdom will teach you what Dave taught her. Not ready at all to coach anyone. 49:18

    • @ludwinasky
      @ludwinasky 10 месяцев назад

      At all. She needs more time to grow and more wisdom before jumping to coaching. I think her speaking to young girls is perfect. I just don't think she's in it.
      My observation, she's not purpose driven. She's chasing a bag.

  • @anthonyd1659
    @anthonyd1659 Год назад

    All love.. Much respect.. Thank you for what you and your cohorts are doing for us and with us.
    but No cap tho 10:58 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @uxwithjack
    @uxwithjack Год назад

    That “YA” word always mess with me 😂😂😂😂

  • @geisha7450
    @geisha7450 Год назад +3

    How can we join the morning meet up ?

    • @RealSocialProof
      @RealSocialProof  Год назад

      with one click of a button lol www.TheMorningMeetup.com

  • @nicoleclement4850
    @nicoleclement4850 Год назад +1

    Psychotherapy is a part of personal development. She should try that first!

  • @ashluved
    @ashluved 6 месяцев назад

    This interview was so funny.

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад

    20:08 she just described the evidence of a lack of self love, worth etc. because you then are able to hold on to your self so you don’t become a bag lady.

  • @Neek1992
    @Neek1992 9 месяцев назад

    10 am lol I knew he was going to react to that

  • @s1n27
    @s1n27 7 месяцев назад +1

    notice how everyone says "I do ... and stuff like that" or ..."things of that nature". I feel like this all a way of not knowing what you're talking about but trying to say something to convince the person you're speaking 2!

  • @ajoeannabrown9563
    @ajoeannabrown9563 11 месяцев назад +2

    She thinks entrepreneurship is the strip club. She just run up in that joint ... show & shake her ass and get a bag of money.
    Maybe she needs to just stick to that avenue as it is the easiest & most lucrative (low hanging fruit).
    The fact that she had a complete stranger in her house while she sleep is completely WILD ... I wouldn't even want a man I know yet alone don't know to know a neighbouring community I live near yet alone be in my house as I sleep.

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад

    22:16 loved that ❤

  • @theinnerpeacepodcast
    @theinnerpeacepodcast 9 месяцев назад

    I would say her first step should be to find a good therapist, stop dating and learn how to be single as you work through those emotions that surface that influence you to keep running back to toxic situations, then focus on the podcast episodes during the process.

  • @cashbaby24
    @cashbaby24 8 месяцев назад

    Dave’s face at 45:16 😂😂

  • @tastewithcase
    @tastewithcase 9 месяцев назад +2

    She don’t need to be coaching no one sorry!

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад

    22:35 I hate when he’s right like this 😂

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 6 месяцев назад +1

    …this was draining

  • @tracyreadytv
    @tracyreadytv 6 месяцев назад

    She just doesn't know what she doesn't know.

  • @shanellejohn
    @shanellejohn 8 месяцев назад

    I probably was this hard headed at 26 lol

  • @marvfrank361
    @marvfrank361 Год назад +3

    Not feeling her attitude. How u say u danced at every club, but couldn’t name the other club aside from magic city?

  • @GatesontheGo
    @GatesontheGo 12 дней назад

    Im reporting her for unlicensed therapy!!! Lol her answer to the hypothetical was highly unqualified. Lol even for an amateur.

  • @LAteBloomerShow360
    @LAteBloomerShow360 Год назад

    Dope

  • @jesscurrie
    @jesscurrie 7 месяцев назад

    I feel like therapy and more experience will help her help people

  • @GGNaturals
    @GGNaturals 11 месяцев назад

    25:43 💯

  • @loveizaeah
    @loveizaeah Год назад +1

    Put me on uncle dave 😅

  • @TishN-r3e
    @TishN-r3e 3 месяца назад

    Shout out to David for your patience :) Respectfully, she sounds delusional and lazy.

  • @ChrisBookTV
    @ChrisBookTV 12 дней назад

    This is why I hate certifications… people suck at things but they think they are good bc they have a piece of paper that says they completed a program 😂
    Coaches, teachers, counselor back in the day were wise, smart people that got results. I’m talking before certifications.
    Y’all love herbs and home remedies… do you think those people back in the day got certifications 😂 no. They used to seek out knowledge, not degrees or certifications.

  • @femdivinemind7777
    @femdivinemind7777 7 месяцев назад

    The only thing I have an issue with is the fact that Dave as a business coach takes a business coaching approach to life coaching...with life coaching you're not giving them the answers...your signposting to help the client find their own answers/solutions... you're a guiding hand rather than someone that's providing the solutions.

  • @I_found_eric
    @I_found_eric Год назад

    How are you feeling being coined “Uncle Dave”?😂

  • @taoliproductionstlp9640
    @taoliproductionstlp9640 Год назад

    David think how therapist r, u dnt think they toxic?? Vs listen to everyone??

  • @taoliproductionstlp9640
    @taoliproductionstlp9640 Год назад

    Dnt ask a question wit a question!

  • @tiffanytyuse5947
    @tiffanytyuse5947 Год назад

    David.......😯😯😯

  • @johnathandejohnette4263
    @johnathandejohnette4263 Год назад +1

    All she needs to do is document her journey. Film the process. People will watch.

  • @honeybeehudson4424
    @honeybeehudson4424 10 месяцев назад

    41:32 not wrong, just the evidence

  • @xGecks
    @xGecks Год назад

    I see the potential girl… but this was rough…

  • @catherinek3409
    @catherinek3409 Год назад +1

    David vet these people more this one needs a psychiatrist

    • @RealSocialProof
      @RealSocialProof  Год назад +2

      No vetting needed. That’s the point of these sessions.

    • @catherinek3409
      @catherinek3409 Год назад +1

      I think you need higher quality guests with real business acumen. I think your podcast is about business not therapy for broken people.

    • @catherinek3409
      @catherinek3409 Год назад

      I think you need higher quality guests with real business problems. I think your podcast is about business not therapy for broken people. I

    • @RealSocialProof
      @RealSocialProof  Год назад +1

      Check out the episodes that release Monday and Thursday.

  • @taoliproductionstlp9640
    @taoliproductionstlp9640 Год назад

    U kant look from one point of view n life!!!

  • @davidboston8839
    @davidboston8839 Год назад +1

    This interview was going in circles. Very unintuitive

  • @mcphaulnotaryworldllc6377
    @mcphaulnotaryworldllc6377 Год назад +1

    I am not feeling these types of segments. However, this is your show and I will still support.

    • @RealSocialProof
      @RealSocialProof  Год назад +4

      I appreciate the support. Just adding on to our normal episodes. Trying something different. Thank you for the support

    • @catherinek3409
      @catherinek3409 Год назад

      Not feeling it either, it was giving Jerry Springer vibes. Am I being a hater or was this girl just stupid. It was painful to watch

    • @JKRealtyServices
      @JKRealtyServices Год назад +3

      I actually like these segments 👌🏾

    • @TrunxKraft3000
      @TrunxKraft3000 Год назад

      @@catherinek3409 what does this segment have to do with what you think of this girl in particular?

    • @catherinek3409
      @catherinek3409 Год назад

      @@TrunxKraft3000 At the end of the day it’s David’s podcast and these type characters aren’t very inspiring. David should focus on business and let therapists handle these type of cases

  • @TinaChristinaTD
    @TinaChristinaTD 10 месяцев назад

    She needs healing and deliverance through Yeshua Jesus Christ. Then and only then can her mess be used as a message to others. Her tests as a testimony. She can't be used in her confusion.
    The enemy will forever have her running in circles. I pray she repents and turn her heart to Christ.
    I see a HIDDEN light when I look at her. I pray that one day soon, her light is able to shine bright like the star she truly is✨🙏🏽🩵

  • @marlathompson9161
    @marlathompson9161 6 месяцев назад

    #GOD
    Please refer this extremely inexperienced young Female into some type of
    ** Therapy**
    #TEACHWHO
    😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮

  • @CJReactsTV
    @CJReactsTV Год назад +1

    I like her !

  • @YaYaR
    @YaYaR 10 месяцев назад

    She really needs me as her Self love & confidence coach @coachingwithyaya