The energy of decentering men is not about hating men or not dating men. It just means you’re choosing to not centre your life around being seen, picked or liked by men, you focus on yourself and pour all the love into yourself. You learn to appreciate and love yourself without leaning on how many men pursue you. I enjoyed the podcast, I just didn’t agree on that point about putting our energy of decentering men 🙏🏾
Bruh it’s CRAZYYYYY how accurate ur topics rrrrr. I just spent a whole day with this guy the day before my exam and was up so late studying when I could’ve jus seen him another day 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️I definitely need to stop letting my life fall apart for someone else
never needed a video so much. It was just 6 months but I lost so much of myself in that relationship. I’m only 4 days into the breakup/no contact/detachment and I’m so empty and emotional today. It ebbs and flows. I forgive, then I remember the little things that send me spiraling. it’s such a process. I feel like the relationship was a lesson, revealing to myself how real the anxious attachment within me is. I poured into him for months. I wish I could take it back, but I’m trying to just be present, feel & learn.
I’m praying for your healing!! I really respect your strength I’m still stuck in that relationship I don’t know how to get myself out of this situation or how to change sooooo anyone that was able to get out you have my full respect 💛
@@Lanina._ Thank you so much for saying this ❤️🩹 honestly, I would say to really ask your inner child if she would feel safe in the relationship you’re in right now or if she’d want you to speak up and get out. that’s what really did it for me. a lot of inner child work I didn’t know I needed. he treated me a lot like my dad treated me as a little girl and so it’s no wonder he brought out such intense anxious attachment issues from my psyche.
@@aeileen1844 sending you so much healing and love! 💖 Only four days into break up, be gentle with yourself, process all the emotions (the good and the bad). sadly some people trigger us more than others, you dont deserve that! Please don't wish you could take it back though, be so grateful that you have the capability to pour so much into someone (trust me, i know he didnt deserve it - my last relationship was the same), next time you will pour into the right one just think how loving that will be! 💝
This is so accurate. Wow has anyone ever felt anxious until the person finally says that it’s over or they want to break up? I would feel like I’m losing mind until they finally “put me out of my misery” so to speak. It was as if they didn’t validate what I already knew was coming next I was anxious waiting for the other shoe to drop. Which in actuality was probably not the case but because of my anxiety it drove them away.
This is crazy! Just checked my phone and been waiting for a response to a text I sent 18 hours ago. And I landed on this video. Not chasing!!! I’m focusing on myself now.
Yes same here waited 24hours for answer that is 3 words and my dululu thinks am in secure relationship with this man and i would die for this person. No more
Sitting here just filled with thoughts about what he’s up to while he’s not with me or texting me on a boys trip when in reality I should enjoy my me time. Thank u for the reminder to continue to choose me first always.
Thank you I really needed this. I’m struggling and I don’t want to be at the mercy of someone else anymore. It’s time to give care to that little neglected girl and stop abandoning her. ❤
really resonating with this right now. a 4-year situationship ended...where I focused all my attention on making it work and lost myself completely. meanwhile he never committed on any level and then dumped me. it's good to take accountability for what I did wrong and to promise myself I will never ever date an Avoidant again. in 4 years he didn't introduce me to his family even. I tolerated so much. Time to raise the bar so high, if a man doesn't jump , off he can go. Now I'm 'forced' to focus on my own well-being, job, home, art - and it's so much better than what that situationship ever provided. we deserve to prioritise ourselves ✨
I’m really so proud of you for finally taking your power back and realizing that you deserve more than what you were accepting. I love that you’re taking accountability and promising yourself a better future, it’s beautiful! Give yourself grace as I’m sure you know this was such a big learning lesson for you. The growth that follows this will be AMAZING 🤍🙏🏼
This video hits so close to home because I am 24 and I feel like I just became present in my own body...Keeping up with my appearance, giving myself grace, being my authentic self and now this is another thing I know needs work. I am 6 months into a relationship and these things manifest themselves. Heavy on the abondment issues. I am, however, not afraid to speak my mind and set boundaries but I definitely need to work on allowing space and distance...even tension. Glad I seen this video and I was able to conceptualize this. I was aware but now I can work towards changing my patterns. Of course, it takes time but this video was well needed for me....
I'm a dismissive avoidant currently reading Learning Love by Thais Gibson about attachment styles and healing them and it ahs been so helpful and such an eye opener knowing that 1. others experience what I do 2. i'm not broken just conditioned a certain way that I can recondition over time. Oh! I'm also reading your book that I bought last week...so identified with the body hate as a teenager. 😪
Ahh, i needed this today! The bit about remembering who you were before the relationship - i miss that me so much😭! On the healing journey to get back to that 💪 thank you for this!💖
This is what I really needed to hear right now. I’m currently stuck in that anxious spiral with my attention and energy focused on them. Even though I’m aware of this it is really hard to feel differently sometimes
this video is amazing. I’m 21 and going through my first break up and this made me realize I really do have anxious attachment. I’m glad I’m aware of it now.
this was such a great podcast *subscribed* even being in a healthy relationship for 6 months that's been feeling like a dream like the first time meeting them, there's so many points you said that really resonate, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your own personal experiences and not just speaking about general topics without your connections it really speaks to your own realness !! peace love and prosper !! rooting for you too in your own journey
I NEEDED THIS. I watched your video how to trust yourself yesterday and I was like I need anxious attachment style one or about codependency and BOOM😭thank youu I love your videos!!!🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
its so crazy, everytime i come here to hear my girl talk whether its at work or cleaning around the house I always take some knowledge from you lovely lady!! love that you share your wisdom with people going through hard times
Just wanted to say that i LITERALLY took notes while listening to this episode and i'll be checking these points every time i'm triggered, Thank you so much dear for this precious content it was so so so valid for me!! Sending you so much love and good energy
Girl, you have no idea how grateful I am that I found you! You’ve been the key to my healing journey and it’s amazing how much I’ve learned about myself through you ❤
This video resonates so closely with how I have felt in my new relationship, caused by my self abandonment. You have some really grounding and calming advice, said with compassion. Brilliant video I’m sure I’ll come back to this when I need to calm my nerves. Thank you for sharing this :)
Yes. Everything that you have mentioned has resonated with me to my core. Lately, I’ve been feeling some type of way. And maybe it’s time for me to begin healing. Thank You.
girl i felt like you were talking to me personally, and i needed it. thank you❤ im currently in a healthy relationship, but i realized i let go the things that made me center back into myself because i centered myself into my relationship. currently in the process of tapping back into it me
Don’t let the internet gaslight you into telling a story that’s not yours! This message came right on time for me a reminder to keep doing the work and getting to that healthy space no matter what! ❤
5:45 😢😢😢😢😢 relatable currently and I have a good person in my life right now. I need to provide me that same love. I found your page today and I appreciate you sharing your vulnerability.
This was so important for me to have heard. I was looking back if you had videos of examples working on you WHILE dating someone because it’s very hard to do both and this video was it!! I need this one, all your videos have been so kind and helpful to my growth this year. Thank you ☺️ Im here for a few more of these once and a while, 💕
I just started this video and wow. I have been struggling with this hard lately. I realized that it’s not healthy. So I try to stay busy or distract myself. But sometimes I really struggle. You are always right on time !
5 minutes into the video I had to stop and journal. You completely read exactly my whole life especially in my relationship, now marriage. And I still got 56 minutes left of this podcast wow p.s. literally this is why I’m so anxious and now I’m going to make it a journey to hug my inner child a sweet little girl who felt like she had no voice and who feels abandoned.
Thank you so much for this video it really came at the right time! Was literally in tears yesterday because my anxious attachment was triggered by a healthy relationship or atleast one that appear to have potential to be so this is perfect for me right now feels like a huge hug thank you thank you thank you for your podcasts ❤
Yay!! Found your channel yesterday and sent it to a friend too. Changed my life immediately lol - i had so many realizations as you spoke and my boyfriend and I talked through all these things between us and also my mommy issues and I processed and healed so much and I feel like a new woman today!!❤❤❤
Thank you so much, this is so helpful. ❤ I’ve just met a guy that is not really my type but I like him a lot. He wanted to date right away but I’ve just set my boundaries. In my mind I know it was the right thing to do but in my body and emotions I feel this huge need of getting him back. I think this is how much I need the emotional connection and reassurance from someone. Thank you for sharing your experience, it’s helping me to go through this craziness.
Love your honesty and your wisdom!! There will always b people who want to b offended you handled that with class ❤❤You spoke your truth ❤❤That’s all that matters
istg you are amazing, so emotionally mature and i LOVE your videos.this helped me loads. i've been dealing with this and i've been trying to work on this, incredible video and thoughts thank you for sharing your wisdom
I feel called out and seen at the same time. This couldn’t have come at a more accurate time. Two days ago I spent my night an anxious mess because I made myself get to a point of panic over a new guy who I thought I pushed away or hated me. But actually he may be securely attached and I just made up all these horrible things in my head? I need some serious healing… thanks for your insight! This was so good and I really need to heal that little girl who is really damaged from her upbringing. I really desire something healthy. And that starts with me putting in the work. Thanks chicka ❤❤
I'm litterally living this relationship right now, he is really mature, healthy and I realised I'm the red flags. But I'm learning, I want to do the job and coming back to myself. Thank you for this video, I really had the impression that you were speaking to me. Old key won't open new doors, so it's time now to give love to myself, to my inner child. And surrender. Thank you.
Elicia! I am having the hardest time right now. The cry you described at the beginning of the video was me today. Instead of a man, my struggle is literally my job! My body truly responds in a negative way when I support myself! This is sick! 🤦🏾♀️😂 But you know what, I’m here, doing the work, crying through it. The results will come! My damaged nervous system will recoup! ❤️🥹🤞🏾 Where would I even be without your videos…. That’s scary to even consider! Thank you for all that you do! ✊🏾❤️🚨🍾💝🎊 Im getting you a Christmas gift, it’s official! Confession: I brought my first 2 Christmas sweaters yesterday at Walmart. They already have them out! 😂🎉🎄
I struggle with my jobs as well seems like something a lot of people do it’s just not talked about. I’m glad you brought attention to this bc it’s not always a person.
Thank you! Currently not in a relationship but I’m an actress and I see how anxiously attached I am to receiving jobs and money. Literally yesterday I realised that and you released this video ❤ and I see so many similarities between what you said and my thoughts and feelings on that topic. That is why I believe that our attachments style might affect not only our relationships with others but also other aspects of our lives and it’s so much important to heal it!
This is so insightful!! Our attachment styles definitely manifest in other areas of our lives as well, I’m really glad you were able to draw that connection 🤍
I’m an only child with an absent father. I know I’m beautiful inside and out but it’s time to fully pour into myself! I learned from my past engagement I was so attached to him and now that the relationship is over I finally found my life again!
my 1 1/2 year co dependent, toxic relationship ended 2 years ago. I just went on a second date the first time I‘m being serious in getting to know someone. But I‘m really scared of getting into old patterns and being naive. My last relationship really fucked me up and honestly I‘m pretty much attracted to red flags not on purpose tho. Coming here and seeing I‘m not alone in this, really reliefs me. Thank you for sharing this, your experience, your thoughts and feelings. I think resonating with this issue I feel empathy with you and I guess I can feel some for myself. I hope someday I can gain a healthy relationship with someone else but also with me, and I think you can do so too, anyone reading this.
GOD literally put this video in my path. I’m in a 4 month talking stage right now and it’s been really hard to not be anxious when it comes to us not hanging out or talking. I just wanna be better for my inner child.
I wish I had known this about myself before marriage. It took me more than 5 hard years of struggling in my marriage to discover these deep truths about myself. It gets much better when you realize how you actually present in reality.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Oh lawwwwd, I really lost myself for a couple weeks there. He’s in Mexico for work. And I was supported him up until 4 days ago. He ghosted me again. Many times I will get so stressed that I can’t even cry. Thanks for a couple tears
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Only 4 minutes in and everything is resonating because I'm currently healing from something similar that was going on for 3 years
Same! Thank you girl for your transparency ❤ it is soooo needed
The energy of decentering men is not about hating men or not dating men. It just means you’re choosing to not centre your life around being seen, picked or liked by men, you focus on yourself and pour all the love into yourself. You learn to appreciate and love yourself without leaning on how many men pursue you.
I enjoyed the podcast, I just didn’t agree on that point about putting our energy of decentering men 🙏🏾
Bruh it’s CRAZYYYYY how accurate ur topics rrrrr. I just spent a whole day with this guy the day before my exam and was up so late studying when I could’ve jus seen him another day 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️I definitely need to stop letting my life fall apart for someone else
I’m going through this right now today I choose myself. I choose that little girl. I will never abandon myself again
Good for you queen🙏🥰
I choose myself too ❤
never needed a video so much. It was just 6 months but I lost so much of myself in that relationship. I’m only 4 days into the breakup/no contact/detachment and I’m so empty and emotional today. It ebbs and flows. I forgive, then I remember the little things that send me spiraling. it’s such a process. I feel like the relationship was a lesson, revealing to myself how real the anxious attachment within me is. I poured into him for months. I wish I could take it back, but I’m trying to just be present, feel & learn.
I’m praying for your healing!! I really respect your strength I’m still stuck in that relationship I don’t know how to get myself out of this situation or how to change sooooo anyone that was able to get out you have my full respect 💛
@@Lanina._ Thank you so much for saying this ❤️🩹 honestly, I would say to really ask your inner child if she would feel safe in the relationship you’re in right now or if she’d want you to speak up and get out. that’s what really did it for me. a lot of inner child work I didn’t know I needed. he treated me a lot like my dad treated me as a little girl and so it’s no wonder he brought out such intense anxious attachment issues from my psyche.
@@aeileen1844 sending you so much healing and love! 💖 Only four days into break up, be gentle with yourself, process all the emotions (the good and the bad). sadly some people trigger us more than others, you dont deserve that! Please don't wish you could take it back though, be so grateful that you have the capability to pour so much into someone (trust me, i know he didnt deserve it - my last relationship was the same), next time you will pour into the right one just think how loving that will be! 💝
Sending you so so much love 🤍
Me too, very similar. X
This is so accurate. Wow has anyone ever felt anxious until the person finally says that it’s over or they want to break up? I would feel like I’m losing mind until they finally “put me out of my misery” so to speak. It was as if they didn’t validate what I already knew was coming next I was anxious waiting for the other shoe to drop. Which in actuality was probably not the case but because of my anxiety it drove them away.
I'm glad I decided to give this a listen. I run into this in every romantic relationship and I'm sooooooo tired of it. Let's show up for ourselves.
This is crazy! Just checked my phone and been waiting for a response to a text I sent 18 hours ago. And I landed on this video. Not chasing!!! I’m focusing on myself now.
Yes same here waited 24hours for answer that is 3 words and my dululu thinks am in secure relationship with this man and i would die for this person. No more
Sitting here just filled with thoughts about what he’s up to while he’s not with me or texting me on a boys trip when in reality I should enjoy my me time. Thank u for the reminder to continue to choose me first always.
I know you've done a few episodes about anxious attachment, but pleaaase make more, this is resonating sooo much🦋
Thank you I really needed this. I’m struggling and I don’t want to be at the mercy of someone else anymore. It’s time to give care to that little neglected girl and stop abandoning her. ❤
really resonating with this right now. a 4-year situationship ended...where I focused all my attention on making it work and lost myself completely. meanwhile he never committed on any level and then dumped me. it's good to take accountability for what I did wrong and to promise myself I will never ever date an Avoidant again.
in 4 years he didn't introduce me to his family even. I tolerated so much. Time to raise the bar so high, if a man doesn't jump , off he can go. Now I'm 'forced' to focus on my own well-being, job, home, art - and it's so much better than what that situationship ever provided. we deserve to prioritise ourselves ✨
I’m really so proud of you for finally taking your power back and realizing that you deserve more than what you were accepting. I love that you’re taking accountability and promising yourself a better future, it’s beautiful! Give yourself grace as I’m sure you know this was such a big learning lesson for you. The growth that follows this will be AMAZING 🤍🙏🏼
This video hits so close to home because I am 24 and I feel like I just became present in my own body...Keeping up with my appearance, giving myself grace, being my authentic self and now this is another thing I know needs work. I am 6 months into a relationship and these things manifest themselves. Heavy on the abondment issues. I am, however, not afraid to speak my mind and set boundaries but I definitely need to work on allowing space and distance...even tension. Glad I seen this video and I was able to conceptualize this. I was aware but now I can work towards changing my patterns. Of course, it takes time but this video was well needed for me....
Love the part of not being afraid to ask for help
I'm a dismissive avoidant currently reading Learning Love by Thais Gibson about attachment styles and healing them and it ahs been so helpful and such an eye opener knowing that 1. others experience what I do 2. i'm not broken just conditioned a certain way that I can recondition over time. Oh! I'm also reading your book that I bought last week...so identified with the body hate as a teenager. 😪
How does every video you post make me feel like you’re speaking directly to me 🤯
Ahh, i needed this today! The bit about remembering who you were before the relationship - i miss that me so much😭! On the healing journey to get back to that 💪 thank you for this!💖
This is what I really needed to hear right now. I’m currently stuck in that anxious spiral with my attention and energy focused on them. Even though I’m aware of this it is really hard to feel differently sometimes
Thank you for healing people! I cried to this because I didn’t realize I had this attachment style😣
This top on you 😭🎀 needed this today 🦋
Thank you 🥹🤍
I feel I need to get back and listen to this every week.
this video is amazing. I’m 21 and going through my first break up and this made me realize I really do have anxious attachment. I’m glad I’m aware of it now.
this was such a great podcast *subscribed* even being in a healthy relationship for 6 months that's been feeling like a dream like the first time meeting them, there's so many points you said that really resonate, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your own personal experiences and not just speaking about general topics without your connections it really speaks to your own realness !! peace love and prosper !! rooting for you too in your own journey
I NEEDED THIS. I watched your video how to trust yourself yesterday and I was like I need anxious attachment style one or about codependency and BOOM😭thank youu I love your videos!!!🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
This was so good. Saving it to come back and remind myself that boundaries are useful and centering myself should be the priority.
its so crazy, everytime i come here to hear my girl talk whether its at work or cleaning around the house I always take some knowledge from you lovely lady!! love that you share your wisdom with people going through hard times
Just wanted to say that i LITERALLY took notes while listening to this episode and i'll be checking these points every time i'm triggered, Thank you so much dear for this precious content it was so so so valid for me!! Sending you so much love and good energy
Girl, you have no idea how grateful I am that I found you! You’ve been the key to my healing journey and it’s amazing how much I’ve learned about myself through you ❤
Ahhh I’m so happy that my advice is helping you!!! 🥰
This video resonates so closely with how I have felt in my new relationship, caused by my self abandonment. You have some really grounding and calming advice, said with compassion. Brilliant video I’m sure I’ll come back to this when I need to calm my nerves. Thank you for sharing this :)
Girl this episode ATE! Thank you so much. If we’re on the topic of relationships, jealousy in romantic relationships would be cool to discuss
I would be very interested in this topic!
I don’t think I’ve ever watched a RUclips video all the way through and genuinely listened and it help but this was amazing❤
I’m glad it resonated with you 🥰
I needed every word of this video. This is my first time listening to your content and I thank you!
I Know this excruciating feeling of anxious desperation to well.... 😢 Spot on video!! I 🙏🙏
reached me on a Sunday! The Sunday service I needed!
You articulate all these ideas so well! Thank you so much for expressing all this❤
Yes. Everything that you have mentioned has resonated with me to my core. Lately, I’ve been feeling some type of way. And maybe it’s time for me to begin healing. Thank You.
girl i felt like you were talking to me personally, and i needed it. thank you❤ im currently in a healthy relationship, but i realized i let go the things that made me center back into myself because i centered myself into my relationship. currently in the process of tapping back into it me
Don’t let the internet gaslight you into telling a story that’s not yours! This message came right on time for me a reminder to keep doing the work and getting to that healthy space no matter what! ❤
5:45 😢😢😢😢😢 relatable currently and I have a good person in my life right now. I need to provide me that same love. I found your page today and I appreciate you sharing your vulnerability.
I thank you so much for your amazing content. You’re literally a mirror for me. And I enjoy learning from you
This was so important for me to have heard.
I was looking back if you had videos of examples working on you WHILE dating someone because it’s very hard to do both and this video was it!!
I need this one, all your videos have been so kind and helpful to my growth this year.
Thank you ☺️
Im here for a few more of these once and a while, 💕
Wow every single word you said was powerful for me. Also the fact your an only child makes me feel so so seen 🌹
I just started this video and wow. I have been struggling with this hard lately. I realized that it’s not healthy. So I try to stay busy or distract myself. But sometimes I really struggle. You are always right on time !
5 minutes into the video I had to stop and journal. You completely read exactly my whole life especially in my relationship, now marriage. And I still got 56 minutes left of this podcast wow p.s. literally this is why I’m so anxious and now I’m going to make it a journey to hug my inner child a sweet little girl who felt like she had no voice and who feels abandoned.
Thank you for this. I'm IN the craziness RIGHT NOW. I'm so much older than you and am ashamed I haven't fixed this yet. it's ruined my whole life.
Ugh I’m sad that every video resonates and I’ve thought I’m so pick me but I’m just so hurt and need so much gentleness around me
You’re brilliant. Just the energy and content I needed as an anxious person
Thank you so much for this video it really came at the right time! Was literally in tears yesterday because my anxious attachment was triggered by a healthy relationship or atleast one that appear to have potential to be so this is perfect for me right now feels like a huge hug thank you thank you thank you for your podcasts ❤
Yay!! Found your channel yesterday and sent it to a friend too. Changed my life immediately lol - i had so many realizations as you spoke and my boyfriend and I talked through all these things between us and also my mommy issues and I processed and healed so much and I feel like a new woman today!!❤❤❤
Thank you so much, this is so helpful. ❤ I’ve just met a guy that is not really my type but I like him a lot. He wanted to date right away but I’ve just set my boundaries. In my mind I know it was the right thing to do but in my body and emotions I feel this huge need of getting him back. I think this is how much I need the emotional connection and reassurance from someone. Thank you for sharing your experience, it’s helping me to go through this craziness.
You cook with every podcast episode omg. Love you doooown!!!
The video is TEA !!
I love when your videos are exactly what is needed right now, thank you for the confirmation!!! Keep doing your thing!
Love your honesty and your wisdom!! There will always b people who want to b offended you handled that with class ❤❤You spoke your truth ❤❤That’s all that matters
istg you are amazing, so emotionally mature and i LOVE your videos.this helped me loads. i've been dealing with this and i've been trying to work on this, incredible video and thoughts thank you for sharing your wisdom
Needed this so bad thank you for the video sis ❤
I feel called out and seen at the same time. This couldn’t have come at a more accurate time. Two days ago I spent my night an anxious mess because I made myself get to a point of panic over a new guy who I thought I pushed away or hated me. But actually he may be securely attached and I just made up all these horrible things in my head? I need some serious healing… thanks for your insight! This was so good and I really need to heal that little girl who is really damaged from her upbringing. I really desire something healthy. And that starts with me putting in the work. Thanks chicka ❤❤
I'm litterally living this relationship right now, he is really mature, healthy and I realised I'm the red flags. But I'm learning, I want to do the job and coming back to myself. Thank you for this video, I really had the impression that you were speaking to me. Old key won't open new doors, so it's time now to give love to myself, to my inner child. And surrender. Thank you.
I’m so proud of you 🥺
@@theglowupsecretspodcast ❤️
Thank you. Your advice is really what I need right now…😢
Elicia! I am having the hardest time right now. The cry you described at the beginning of the video was me today. Instead of a man, my struggle is literally my job! My body truly responds in a negative way when I support myself! This is sick! 🤦🏾♀️😂 But you know what, I’m here, doing the work, crying through it. The results will come! My damaged nervous system will recoup! ❤️🥹🤞🏾
Where would I even be without your videos…. That’s scary to even consider! Thank you for all that you do! ✊🏾❤️🚨🍾💝🎊
Im getting you a Christmas gift, it’s official!
Confession: I brought my first 2 Christmas sweaters yesterday at Walmart. They already have them out! 😂🎉🎄
I struggle with my jobs as well seems like something a lot of people do it’s just not talked about. I’m glad you brought attention to this bc it’s not always a person.
Right on time with where I’m at. Thanks so much- such a great video!! I took detailed notes 📝
Thank you! Currently not in a relationship but I’m an actress and I see how anxiously attached I am to receiving jobs and money. Literally yesterday I realised that and you released this video ❤ and I see so many similarities between what you said and my thoughts and feelings on that topic. That is why I believe that our attachments style might affect not only our relationships with others but also other aspects of our lives and it’s so much important to heal it!
This is so insightful!! Our attachment styles definitely manifest in other areas of our lives as well, I’m really glad you were able to draw that connection 🤍
This was spot on for me so glad I came across this video! You’ve earned a new subscriber 🙌🏾
This helped me soo much right now!
Thank you so much for this. Really! I’m going to listen to it more than once.
Needed this!!❤
This came at the right time omg
I’m an only child with an absent father. I know I’m beautiful inside and out but it’s time to fully pour into myself! I learned from my past engagement I was so attached to him and now that the relationship is over I finally found my life again!
This is such a helpful video, I feel like I had a breakthrough with it. Thank you so much for doing the Lord’s work 👏👏👏
Truly thank you for this
How are you so spot on girl?!! lol I love your channel! ❤
my 1 1/2 year co dependent, toxic relationship ended 2 years ago. I just went on a second date the first time I‘m being serious in getting to know someone. But I‘m really scared of getting into old patterns and being naive. My last relationship really fucked me up and honestly I‘m pretty much attracted to red flags not on purpose tho. Coming here and seeing I‘m not alone in this, really reliefs me. Thank you for sharing this, your experience, your thoughts and feelings. I think resonating with this issue I feel empathy with you and I guess I can feel some for myself.
I hope someday I can gain a healthy relationship with someone else but also with me, and I think you can do so too, anyone reading this.
GOD literally put this video in my path. I’m in a 4 month talking stage right now and it’s been really hard to not be anxious when it comes to us not hanging out or talking. I just wanna be better for my inner child.
I wish I had known this about myself before marriage. It took me more than 5 hard years of struggling in my marriage to discover these deep truths about myself. It gets much better when you realize how you actually present in reality.
Thank you so much for this ❤ so helpful
this episode hit a little different, thank you for this 💛
so wise. so helpful. thank you.
you never disappoint
Ima listen to this everyday
Not one lie was told in this video
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I had wonderful chemistry with someone one time before and it was so wonderful
I needed to hear this wow ,been feeling it but didn't understand what it was ❤
Thank you. Perfect timing 🌻
Oh lawwwwd, I really lost myself for a couple weeks there. He’s in Mexico for work. And I was supported him up until 4 days ago. He ghosted me again. Many times I will get so stressed that I can’t even cry. Thanks for a couple tears
I was JUST searching for a video like this last night
this video is dope you are brilliant fr!
Thank you for this empowering video🤍. We often forget that whatever we seek, it starts within us.
I thank god I found this video 🥰 your amazing !
This came at the right and most perfect time!🎉🎉🎉🎉
GIRL THANK YOU
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This helped so much, Thank you 🙏🏾
Wow I needed this sooo bad ! message received 🥰
I think relationships are about giving time like fully in being aware of conversation good n bad!
never been so early ❤❤❤ such an inspiration 💖
i really needed to hear this.thank you
U speaking this morning !!🥹
Me watching this on a Sunday
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Everything is spot on! Thank you very much 🙏💚💚
Thank you 🙏🏼 goodmorning beautiful this hits deep deep 💖🫶🏼