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"Become a Real Man and support group for men only"??? Are you for real ..boi??? You are talking about "fap or no fap" at a very critical time when real men are giving their lives to protect their families... Shame On You kid Grow up
@bill smith how do you know his intentions? have good thoughts as its sunnah unless you have a reason not to, and... because ppl are asking, if you don't need the help then know other ppl do, don't eb selfish , be a man be a leader!
I have no beard (no beard growth) ...no six pack ...no muscle arms....🤐 Just a Skinny Man...Many other men may aslo be like this...But Alhamdulillah...we should thank Allah because there are other men who are physically challenged...who have lost their arms..legs ,eyes,etc ...and we have been blessed with all these...The ultimate most important is Tawheed..
Hit the gym bro! Yes absolutely accept the things you can't change, that which Allah has decreed from His wisdom; but strive to change what you can for the better.
Abu jahl..and his likes were well fed well satiated with loads of calories and nutritions..but guess what no tawheed..he got his rear end whooped.. well actually Sliced by to young kids. From the companions of the Prophet PBUH...even though he was on a horse ..the boys رضى الله عنهما were on foot ..with blunt blades..ripped cloths and most likely didn't eat a proper meal meal in all their life due to poverty.
So eat according to sunnah divide your stomach for 3 portions water air and food. But eat healthy Don't listen to kids taking advice from the non believers for their nourishment. Khabib whooped connor not becaue he ate alot..he struggled in life that's all. Connor had more options to eat & drink from including pork, that whisky he kept braging you name it.. KHABIB was on a restriced diet. Only Halal. 29-0 Wasn't money hungry either and obedient to his mother so didn't care about the last win. 30-0
@@EnlytendFilosofar character makes one attractive or not to me. I married both types less good looking was awesome character, very good looking was arrogant and ugly in my eyes.
@Sami SA.M sweetie I'm 56 years old, I can teach u a few things! I still look good, ok. guys in 40s hit on me. I don't need to lie. I speak from experience.
I have seen difference in what women of age 18-25 like and what women of age 25+ like. Younger women tend to flock for looks mostly but once they cross a certain age they realise looks are not as important as Deen and manly character.
This is so true Subhan'Allah. With time you realise that it is only the heart and character that matters no matter how he looks like. At the end, The heart makes the man beautiful ♥️
Deen, confidence, striving mindset, physically and mentally strong, protector and a stable provider is attractive. Most women will answer ‘nice boy’, ‘caring’, ‘good humour’, but they themselves know that if they don’t feel financially secure and their husband is not fulfilling responsibilities, they will lose attraction.
@@blueflame3531 whether or not she is financially stable, the man in the marriage must provide still for the basic needs such as food, water, clothes, shelter, and among other things (within reason, to my knowledge, I could be wrong so may Allah forgive me, Aameen). Her money is her money, she gets to do with it whatever she pleases, now if she wants to help support the family in some way financially, that is up to her, but generally the men must provide in Islam to the best of their abilities.
The clever ones look for religiosity and eagerness to help others to do good. Also manliness in a man is very attractive to a female. Leadership qualities.
As a woman, a man who truly FEARS Allah. He will follow the deen, and ask Allah for everything on His path. I may be the result of his prayers. And isn’t that beautiful, being a shoulder your husband can lean on. Making him and writing him beautiful letters of dua, making sure that before he leaves the house you packed him his lunch, and gave him a big hug because of pure love for the sake of Allah. I’m writing this because Allah separated me from my ex-husband, but I always blamed myself at first. 😩 I really wanted to my husband to be pleased with me to the point I started disobeying Allah. May Allah forgive me that. Ameen. But I prayed istikhara and Allah found me a way out, I was devasted. But Allah wrote me a way out and protected me. So Alhamdulilah. A year later, I am in Makkah now. Single. But alhamdulilah. My second husband must be God fearing. I always prayed for a man who loves the akhirah more than the dunya, and I still have hope that Allah will give me that. And that is one of the biggest tests from my Lord. Having true tawwukul. ♥️
Doesnt matter. Just keep Allah in your mind and speak to him everyday. Hel if he want will grant you with a husband. He may have also removed you from your husband for reason you dont know ans for your own benefit
I just advice brothers to not make your life turn around a women, just follow sunnah and give her rights and concentrate on other parts of your life, learn Quran, your parents, dawah, sport (for strength and health not just for look, and doing sport is sunnah), work and have good manners with everyone. Today men have this mentality that everything they do have to fulfill women expectations of what a man is, never listen to a women listen to a man and this man is the prophet sws
The prophet SAW did not only give his wives their rights but also did additional to make them happy and spend time with them. No one likes a simp but a marriage is not just about rights and duties but rather living together in goodness and sometimes yiu have to sacrifice. A true man just like our prophet SAW knows how to balance life and be soft when need be and be hard when need be.
@@copainspammeur404 girls don’t and boys make comments such as yours. Many grown women have an idea what they want from this life with the ultimate goal being jannah
I don't get how u can be a Muslim, and a feminist, or a nationalist, or any -ist/-ism for that matter. These ideologies are riddled with contradictions. These are man-made ideas. The same way pagans worshipped other than Allah, following these ideologies is following other than Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.
Assalamualaikum, Mashallah it was an amazing lecture. I love how you spoke openly and it was very easy to understand alhamdulillah. We need more open lectures like this one inshallah. We really appreciate it, especially for this generation. May Allah Bless you and your family inshallah . Ameen. ❤️❤️❤️
A lot of these comments are sad. We can perceive people who don't comply with a specific standard of beauty to be attractive. The media you consume and whether you look at people as objects instead of people effects this. I think a lot of people in these comments would feel better if they take care of their health and spend much less time on social media.
Yes specially in the world full of hypocrites, ex Muslims, liberals and secular. There are a lot of disguised 'Muslims' who don't even know a bit about religion.
As for the men, y’all really shouldn’t be that focused on looks, because the fact is, if you want a righteous and modest wife then you won’t see her body shape in that sense before marriage. I mean you can judge by the face and see if you are attracted. But whether or not she will be a good mother and wife is more important on the scale of importance.
@MIKAAL bro what are you saying? are you speaking before marriage or after? make it clear, don't say these scholars said something they didn't without evidence
I don't give a damn about looks Don't get me wrong I try my best because the prophet pbuh told us to I just don't want people to expect more that what I really am And I don't any girl to love based on my looks
Never mind what they are attracted to my brothers! Focus on yourself and be the man you want to be for Allah and his messenger and for your societies and suppress your sexual energy and give damn about them then they will chase after you You cant and will never ever satisfy anybody’s fantasies!!!
I am attracted to a Sunni Iranian Muslim man that is a full package been praying for him. As a European Muslim woman. I love Farsi language. I am so tired of certain people that tell me who I should "marry". I shall be patient for my Persian man.
A believer (practicing), a beautiful reciter of Quran, Stability, protection, confident, intelligence, humor, knows how to take charge when needed. Pleasing to the eye (doesn’t have to be handsome, but average), overall just masculine, clean, tall, a beautiful smile, and compassionate
What you're seeking is supernatural. Impossible to achieve because everyone has good and bad sides. The best protector is Allah (SWT) and you shouldn't search for that in a man. He is not God Neuzubillah.
True words of wisdom . I feel like البصائر قد أُعْمِيَتْ Wheather we like it or not, we have some degree of globalisation when it comes to our thoughts. The way we're thinking has been orianted to some extent by the movies, anime..etc to the point where sometimes some concepts in our deen like polygany or true manhood.. (for ex.) might seem weird to us I truely feel the hadith بدأ الإسلام غريبا و سيعود غريبا كما بدأ islam has started weird and it's become weird again just like it started. طوبى للغرباء. Glad tightings to weird people. Videos like these make us wake our بصائر up Thank you for this may allah reward you
Personaly (a Muslim woman): -Character: confidant, secure, has peace with himself/not afraid to cry especially about something that requires it. -Respects his mom!!!: if he can’t respect his mom, know immediately that wallahi he will not respect you! Even if he was kind or seemingly caring, he has his motive and it is a scam! -Protective and caring: I like it soooooooooooooo… much when a man feels responsibility toward his woman and children. I have so much appreciation! This includes financial support, emotional support and being physically present meaning carrying stuff and such. -Religious: he should take good care of his prayers and be a decent man with good Islamic manners. Not being deceptive with others and such.
@lord dopey rainbowbeans they are, when you're a 26 yo sisters with high degree. Your pool of options is ridiculous regarding this type of men compared to a younger sister ready for mariage early
@lord dopey rainbowbeans Not in a world where both Men and Women work 40/60 PW how in earth can you possibly bond with your wife? Especially when she has a child. Then that kid becomes the center of attention, you add another child, where can you emotionally support a Woman then? Even when she works full time. Kinda hard to look what's described in a depressed world of overhours and breakdowns.
The only thing I don't want in men is ego. I'm too sensitive and I don't want to imagine my man constantly crushing me with his egotistical remarks. My father would ask me even at 12 am if I need anything ,even when I say no ,he would do it. Imagine leaving your loving father and living the rest of your life with the opposite of a man .
Righteous, well mannered, caring, interesting to talk to, is hygienic, is a man.Also yeah the (initial) financial stability, but if later on in marriage there comes poverty, many be patient through that. Regarding looks I honestly don’t think they are important too much, so long as a woman is attracted to the man. But he doesn’t have to be ‘hot’ or what society describes as ‘good looking’ for that. One physical look that matters more than the others I would probably say is the amount of weight (I don’t mean a bit fat I mean being overweight (out of laziness, if it’s heath related that’s a different thing)).
Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani. Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
What attracts a woman in my opinion in a man is : Respect appreciation Quality time Words of encouragement Actively engaged during a conversation Being a good dad to the kids. Having a good relationship with my family
@@anonymousnoticer of course 😄🤦♀️i forgot to mention that. But obviously deen is non negotiable (for me). This list is the extra things that are important.
Are you married? If you are not, I advise you to not expect your husband to be that engaged in conversation. Especially if you want a husband who is a good provider or one who is striving to be.
You know the biggest problem with the whole objectification in our communities is that it leaves the average-looking guys/gals in a tougher spot. Nothing you can really do about your looks except workout and some grooming/skincare, but because we live in such a society it's becoming more difficult for such brothers and sisters, and may Allah make it easier for them.
No I think we can watch these videos or see and hear whatever in the media. But the reality is both men and women find what they can have, what is tangible, the most attractive. Meaning if you look around where you live in your neighbourhood and family friends, people you actually mix with and know the background to, out of all those people, there will definitely be women who will like you or be interested in marrying you. This is because it’s a real possibility and they will know your background, not just some abstract idea. Girl /boy next door and all that.
I’m pretty sure there was a Hadith about a woman wanting divorce from her husband Bc she found him to not be attractive at all… so …… it’s important to both genders … especially now a days where men still constantly gaze a women in front of their wives … we care about looks too
haven't women always appreciated looks in a man? like when Zuleika prepared a feast for the women and asked Yusuf a.s to enter and they all cut their hands
Each women is different from one another. They have different qualities that they look for in a partner. But one thing is clear, if her partner lacks empathy for her , don't know her feelings and dont support her emotionally , then she will surely dislike him even if he is the most richest or handsome man in the world yes women do want the best husband in the world. But at the end of the day i think we must not forget that this life is imperfect. A person may not be perfect. He may have one good quality but may lack another. Most Women can understand this after they get married and may accept their fate and the Qadr of Allah . At best what they can do is to change them. For eg if her husband is not religious and not God conscious , she may give him dawah and talk about the wrath of Allah. About money , i have seen many women who dont really give importance to it. If he has enough money to provide for her and the kids then that is sufficient for her. At the end , it is subjective and may differ . There may be some who are intereseted about money. with regards to looks idk about that , Looks actually comes at the end of the list . For some girls an average man is more than enough . Looks will be useless if he doesnot understand her feelings and lacks empathy
@@shirinaakther6418 if a woman is so uninterested in me that she considers staying with me "accepting fait and qadr" then i don't want her. These women will never be happy and always be thinking about the "perfect man." That's why men should stay away from women. They can't give men unconditional love like men give them. Bad trade.
@@Ok-gd3jl what??? you got it wrong . Im not saying that she will be uninterested in you .Mostly Many women forget about the list of qualities they want once they meet their partners. for eg among the list , she may want a humorous guy, but suppose that you are not a funny and a serious guy, why would she hate you for that , that's stupid , i mean there are plenty of other things to look at. Am sure she will be happy and will forget all the other things , if her husband understand her feelings and support her emotionally [ especially if he is an alpha male} .For her he is best husband in the world
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep idk ..........though statistically speaking height does matter for women. They want someone who is a bit taller to them. It also depends on her height. So if she is 5'1 then 5'6 is tall for her. Average height of a women is 5'4.......so you still have a chance
Hey Dr. I was just wondering where do you get your suits or are they tailored? Any recommendations in the UAE if so. Moreover, you have great content that I rarely see anyone tackle in this manner specifically from islamic paradigm and perspective.
LOOOL 4:25 - At least he gave the warning!!! hahaha To start, as a woman, I found that this was an incredibly shallow conversation about what women are and what they look for. A few other comments: 1. Socialization is why women are not as expressive of their sexuality, in addition to, yes, a natural modesty women possess as compared to men. Sexuality is not a bad thing at all, but in many cultures it is very taboo to express that sexuality or any body positivity. Usually women's bodies are shamed, from the time they are very young. Even in the Muslim culture, it is very prevalent. For example, in some circles a non-hijabi is looked upon as a slut (i.e. loose woman) and even will be treated as such by Muslim men. Sisters are told that they are a "fitna", and that to have any sort of sexual thoughts is dirty and wrong. For women, it's much more internalized and shapes how you see yourself and your relationships with men. 2. The conversation about objectification, as for the women, I find this to be a very odd way of speaking about women's sexuality. Women have attractions just like men do. 3. Regarding the girls chasing the boy: Most all girls goes through this phase...hormones are high when you're young. Although admittedly it's hard to watch Muslims girls doing this. Not because they don't have the feelings, but because they are not expected to express them openly as non-Muslim girls do. Yes, success and status combined with looks can be attractive for girls. But it's most superficial, and as a girl becomes older and crosses into womanhood, this is tempered with a lot of other factors become more important. 4. "Shyness" is not the same as speaking your mind, just fyi. 5. No idea what Br. Gabriel was speaking about when he talked about women being "different from the front than the back"....but perhaps he was referring to the fact that women are not as direct as men..that's also from socialization. Society does not really reward women speak directly. They are seen as aggressive, so they learn to speak "nice and sweet" about things, even though you may not want to. Some women are better at this than others. And in fact, it's women like this that tend to be shamed by brothers like Gabriel as "feminists". Funny that. 5. I think that finding a spouse for both Muslim women and men, but not necessarily for the reasons listed in this video. Like I said initially, I think this video does not encompass all of what women looks for in a man. Yes, physical looks and the ability to provide are important (and that's not a bad thing). For practicing Muslim women, character and faith are at the top of the list, too. Even a sense of humor can be a source of attraction for a woman. My point being it's much more complex and nuanced than Br. Gabriel makes it out to be. If you want a REAL idea of what women look for, watch this popular video by Honest Tea Talk. This is more of an accurate representation. ruclips.net/video/i3mWF4P9mAc/видео.html
The greatest fitna for men are women as said by our Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him). I don't like how you are using fitnah as if it was something impure . Fitnah means trials. And yes a woman not covering herself properly has a problem with Haya. Of course there are people exaggerating here and there but this is no excuse. If a woman is insecure about her body, then she should be more willing to cover properly in the first place. A Muslim shouldn't seek to be validated by society, the majority is non-Muslim.
@@dspd0140 she is a narcissist feminist clown she hates on brother gabriel passionately she acts like she has better knowledge then him on every matter don't waste your time lol.
@@dspd0140 Yes, that is exactly what I meant when I used the word fitna. Women are seen as impure and dirty (or a source of "dirty thoughts" for men). And that "good girls" are not supposed to project that to any man. Also, men need to understand, just b/c she doesn't cover doesn't mean she is trying to prostitute herself. She just hasn't come to the point in her faith life where she is ready to cover. Wear hijab is not easy, especially in the West.
@@deedeee6271 Being a source of lust=/= Being impure. We are asked to lower the gaze for a reason. It is much easier for men to be tempted by women especially in this era. Having desires isn't considered bad to begin with, it's using them in a haram manner that is bad(masturbation, dating, etc). I never said that wearing the hijab is easy and didn't say that non-hijabi are prostitutes either. However, it is a fact that she has a problem of modesty if she can't, which is part of faith.
Are you telling us that the media, movies, and so on that cause women to go for attractive men ?maybe you have forgotten the story of the prophet Yusuf peace be on him. Women also like attractive well built men.
@Moo Miller actually most women like a bit of muscles over face but everyone is different By muscles, I mean natural and that's something definitely a plus Just like a lady's face is most important but body has a detrimental effect too
I don't care if she doesn't look like a model, don't care which nationality she is All I ask for is a religious HOUSEWIFE who is NOT materialistic Are there any women like these here? (Just checking if these are possible expectations and women like these were widely available before)
Oh, I forgot manners and bad words like using the word da*g Praying 5 times is the bare minimum, you are NOT religious if you do it, basic! Reading and memorizing also BASIC I mean a housewife who actively seeks ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE MEMORIZING THE WORKS OF SCHOLARS IN ARABIC AND IT'S EXPLANATION And no watching an Islamic lecture isn't knowledge So career women will DEFO not have time for Islamic knowledge when they have husbands and kids! And almost 90% of career women apply makeup outside, where is the Islamic knowledge here? Don't know what is halal and haram?
My main problem is how these female behaviors are super inflated nowadays and what they care about most are frequently also the most superficial. Like since women are competitive with each other and naturally want what other women like along with social media and everything it's crazy. Like a man in order to even be on the radar needs some crazy things that are ridiculous and not even practical at all. What needs to be valued at most is our deen and being a good provider...not a provider of mass amounts of dumb purses and trips everywhere, but instead what's actually practical and a bit of that superficial stuff because might as well, people like enjoying the gifts of Allah to a extent.
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I can give you advice that will change your life regarding this matter. And it is to take things slowly. You most likely go hardcore for that day so when tomorrow comes, you remember the trauma of yesterday and you are just put off from it. What you should do is take it very easy. So start of by just walking everyday for about an hour, rest during your walks if you get tired, you are not competing against anyone, the goal here is build up momentum with consistency. Once you've done this for a week or two and feel like your getting the hang of moving. Start doing running and walking; so you run as fast as you can for as long as you can and then walk untill you have rested, so untill your heart rate nears resting rate. Keep doing this in intervals and believe me, you will find that getting fit was never hard in the first place, but we make it hard by setting unrealistic goals for our workouts. And remember, people overestimate what they can achieve in a day, and underestimate what they can achieve in a year. Peace
Start being consistent in the most basic things like sleeping early at the same time, have a morning routine everyday, do your bed etc. When you are consistent in the small things it will help for the bigger things insha'Allah
Money then deen. But that's it. And maybe his height and BMI, But that's it. Then maybe his face, But that's it. Then maybe his age. But that's it. Then maybe his job. But that's it. Then maybe if he has a nice house. But that's it. Then she might check what ride he came in to see her. But that's it. But that's it. But that's it. But that's it.
IF i could play this video every channel /every country ,,,I mean the speech its so beautiful and honest to the viewers,, ,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE VIDEO JUST END IT ...That makes you UNIQUE ...MASHALLAH 🤲🤲Respect and BLESSINGS to you INSHALLAH🤲🤲
i think some women are more attracted to intellectual men who she can communicate with him intelligently...as some women believe...intellectual men are sexy in the long run...and especially a man who knows what she will do or what she will think or what she wants...just by observing her, yes a woman do attract to a man's physique but then again thats just lust or temporary...they will know him more and better through time in their marriage where lust might turn to love or might turn to hate , anger and frustration...i think most women more attracted to thinner men rather than fatter man..an ideal man should not be lazy dazzy ..they should be skilled...definitely they should defend their women and make her feel special...i remember...my dad whenever i went to the wet market during my teenage years (sunday market as we called it in my town)...whenever i bought food, vegs,etc...and when i carried the things i bought, my dad never failed to take it from my hand, always and whenever i asked money from him when i was in univ, he always give me more than i asked for...bless him...thats to me one of my father's loves he has shown me..when i was married, my kids had asma, happened nearly every 2 weeks 😊🤦♀️most of the time the father of my kids was not around...when i had to send my kids for oxygen at hospital nearby,i had to call my dad and he never said "huh" or "why", not even once...he went straight to my home and sent me to hospital, usually these happened most of the time at 3.00 am ( dont know why) and when i had shortage of money then, he willingly lent me eventho my hub had lots,he never questioned me, even now i think he still willing to lend me at his tender age if i ask from him...thats fathers love...he didnt ask me to obey him but he still love me , he didnt stop me from working or angry when i didnt work during my marriage but he still love me, he didnt blame me for my marriage, he just motivate me and my children until now eventho he has minor dementia..May Allah love him more than he loves me and that he has long healthy life so that i can take care of him.. if a man wants a woman to sacrifice for him, its an action and reaction scenario, love your wife unconditionally and she will love you more in return than you ever will...because most women are created in such a way.... she might not mind that man has more than 1 wife...becus her husband loves her unconditionally....there this famous saying.."a woman is cloth to man and man is cloth to woman".. the two of them perfect each other.. when her husband hold her hand...their sins will wash away like water streaming through their hands..and when a husband look at her with love and Allah will look at him with love too..when a wife cooked for him and had burnt mark on her hands...her sins will be forgiven..Marriage is MashaaALLAH if they play it right..its a short pathway to heaven but if they play it wrong then its a fast way to hell...scarry 😱..hope you guys enjoy reading this!!!!!
Every time Mahdi gets cornered, he changes the goal post, this is a common strategy when one can’t win an argument or has no basis for their claim. Very frustrating to watch.
@@vibes6255 That would only happen in a society in which women are financially dependent on men and also taught by culture/religion to choose personality and financial stability over looks. (most of the world today is the total opposite of that). Comedians usually have status and money. Women rate 80% of men to be below average in looks. blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/
What do men look in a woman? A woman is willing to take care of her family without complaining (cooking, cleaning, etc) When men get these type of women, they will move mountains to please that lady coz she deserves it
@@RAH.910 Actually they are pretty easy to please, like after my dad comes from a tiring day at work and when my mom makes his favourite dishes, instantly he is happy and gives compliments.
@@RAH.910 that's the main criteria If a husband when he sees his wife gets pleased, he will not wish for anything more When his wife cleans the home, cooks for him, he will be the happiest man in the world and he will be romantic too Opposite is also quite true, if she doesn't do, you can expect only bitterness from him
I assume it has more to do with the personality type. There are people who prefer more depth and meaningful connections and others don’t. Not all men are like you describe them (mainly focus on looks) there are also some amazing ones who are thoughtful and have different values than those who focus on looks a lot. At the same time, there are also women who are more superficial and only care for looks. I doubt that it has much to do with gender.
Alhamdullah my husband is a very kind gentleman provider and loving however I dont feel any passion or chemistry with him even though he is very handsome. Please give me advice on this topic im really struggling internally. I was married before and I truly loved my first husband but my second one I feel no connection 💔
It's just in your head. Pray to Allah so that chaytan doesn't plant the seed of division for stupid reasons.
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It’s natural for a woman to feel this way. Women aren’t like men and they don’t have the ability to have love and affection for multiple men. It’s very clear in your own comment that your still in love with your previous husband and your trying to love current husband as well at the same time. Forgot you old husband. He’s not your husband anymore.
Yea women has a diversity of traits that are contrasting one another in personality that is why women in general has variety of preferences. I come to know as well that women are very different from men in terms of impressing from men or selecting of men spouse.men in general are attracted to physical beauty more while women are attracted mostly by social picture of men .if a man is viewed positively in a society or family due to certain reasons be that religious or cultural or any other personal elements there,she will be mostly attracted to him. Because women are more socially complaint than men so women will unconsciously change their likeness and dislikes based on society ,culture ,religion strong opinions,powerful narratives and all other social elements. Women's brain is working in a complex manner when it comes to decisions no matter for what.
@@Geebee67 he is talking about the general women you are most likely above that level in ignorance since you are calling him stupid he is your brother in islam
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"Become a Real Man and support group for men only"???
Are you for real ..boi???
You are talking about "fap or no fap" at a very critical time when real men are giving their lives to protect their families...
Shame On You kid
Grow up
CELIBACY with SIGMA PERSONALITY
@bill smith how do you know his intentions? have good thoughts as its sunnah unless you have a reason not to, and...
because ppl are asking, if you don't need the help then know other ppl do, don't eb selfish , be a man be a leader!
@@mohsinakhtar7876 ???
marrige is half the din... as an ummah different ppl have to do different things or did that basic leave you?
I have no beard (no beard growth) ...no six pack ...no muscle arms....🤐 Just a Skinny Man...Many other men may aslo be like this...But Alhamdulillah...we should thank Allah because there are other men who are physically challenged...who have lost their arms..legs ,eyes,etc ...and we have been blessed with all these...The ultimate most important is Tawheed..
Hit the gym bro! Yes absolutely accept the things you can't change, that which Allah has decreed from His wisdom; but strive to change what you can for the better.
You need to change your diet bro. Eat eat eat more calories to put on weight. Not unhealthy food though
Abu jahl..and his likes were well fed well satiated with loads of calories and nutritions..but guess what no tawheed..he got his rear end whooped.. well actually
Sliced by to young kids. From the companions of the Prophet PBUH...even though he was on a horse ..the boys رضى الله عنهما were on foot ..with blunt blades..ripped cloths and most likely didn't eat a proper meal meal in all their life due to poverty.
So eat according to sunnah divide your stomach for 3 portions water air and food.
But eat healthy
Don't listen to kids taking advice from the non believers for their nourishment.
Khabib whooped connor not becaue he ate alot..he struggled in life that's all.
Connor had more options to eat & drink from including pork, that whisky he kept braging you name it..
KHABIB was on a restriced diet. Only Halal.
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Wasn't money hungry either and obedient to his mother so didn't care about the last win.
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Muscles are not always attractive to all women. Personality and how they treat a women is the upmost important😊
Deen, good character, balanced, loving, honest, active, humor, adventurous.
So no looks at all?🙄🙄
@@EnlytendFilosofar character makes one attractive or not to me. I married both types less good looking was awesome character, very good looking was arrogant and ugly in my eyes.
@@redsquirrel6176 Well, I'm talking about me. I'm real, not materialistic or superficial. I'm grown and and have values.
@Sami SA.M sweetie I'm 56 years old, I can teach u a few things! I still look good, ok. guys in 40s hit on me. I don't need to lie. I speak from experience.
@@redsquirrel6176 yes I agree with that, I'm a whole other generation lol
I have seen difference in what women of age 18-25 like and what women of age 25+ like. Younger women tend to flock for looks mostly but once they cross a certain age they realise looks are not as important as Deen and manly character.
Thats more like 13-17 vs 18 and above, but depends on the person ofc
So true
This is so true Subhan'Allah. With time you realise that it is only the heart and character that matters no matter how he looks like. At the end, The heart makes the man beautiful ♥️
I had seen girls who fall for money before 25 and seen women's who again falls for money thats it.
@@sameerkhan-qg3qi Emphasis on *tend to*
Nothing like a humble man.
and taqwa in his heart
Deen, confidence, striving mindset, physically and mentally strong, protector and a stable provider is attractive. Most women will answer ‘nice boy’, ‘caring’, ‘good humour’, but they themselves know that if they don’t feel financially secure and their husband is not fulfilling responsibilities, they will lose attraction.
@@blueflame3531 whether or not she is financially stable, the man in the marriage must provide still for the basic needs such as food, water, clothes, shelter, and among other things (within reason, to my knowledge, I could be wrong so may Allah forgive me, Aameen). Her money is her money, she gets to do with it whatever she pleases, now if she wants to help support the family in some way financially, that is up to her, but generally the men must provide in Islam to the best of their abilities.
@@blueflame3531 point is you buy most of the necessities for the wife
@@blueflame3531 he’s talking about a guys Islamic obligation
@@user-pn9zf2lj4c You 2 are correct. Sorry for the unnecessary comments.
@@blueflame3531 no problem, May Allah bless you for being so humble
The clever ones look for religiosity and eagerness to help others to do good. Also manliness in a man is very attractive to a female. Leadership qualities.
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep angry face?! Also, what you mentioned after that isn’t appropriate so please delete it.
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep
Not all facts, just that which you stated.
Practicing Muslim men for me (praying and actively seeking knowledge) also Cleanliness, sincerity the “here is the truth like it or lump it way
Hm
The Romanian in Malaysian is kilin’ it! 💪
A dose of masculinity and common sense! Allahu Akbar!
I see someone telling the real thing now!! It's so much Bollywood, Hollywood!! Thank you for saying out loud!!
Nowadays, loyalty is becoming a rare trait, focus on that too
1) Taqwa
2) kindness
3) humble
4) Personality
5) beard
I like this kinda stuff because it shows me how to become manlier
Check out the book The Ideal Muslim by Dr Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi, the best book I've read on the way a Muslim should act
@@codedaily409 Thanks
Ahahahahah
@@daysklant7401 Yes I find it funny
@@abdullahahmad9300 simp detected.
As a woman, a man who truly FEARS Allah. He will follow the deen, and ask Allah for everything on His path. I may be the result of his prayers. And isn’t that beautiful, being a shoulder your husband can lean on. Making him and writing him beautiful letters of dua, making sure that before he leaves the house you packed him his lunch, and gave him a big hug because of pure love for the sake of Allah. I’m writing this because Allah separated me from my ex-husband, but I always blamed myself at first.
😩 I really wanted to my husband to be pleased with me to the point I started disobeying Allah. May Allah forgive me that. Ameen. But I prayed istikhara and Allah found me a way out, I was devasted. But Allah wrote me a way out and protected me. So Alhamdulilah. A year later, I am in Makkah now. Single. But alhamdulilah. My second husband must be God fearing.
I always prayed for a man who loves the akhirah more than the dunya, and I still have hope that Allah will give me that. And that is one of the biggest tests from my Lord. Having true tawwukul. ♥️
May Allah give you the husband of your dreams and inshallah you will be satisfied
May Allah grant you the righteous husband that you desire?
Ameen Ya Rab, Jazakum Allah Khair
Doesnt matter. Just keep Allah in your mind and speak to him everyday.
Hel if he want will grant you with a husband. He may have also removed you from your husband for reason you dont know ans for your own benefit
I just advice brothers to not make your life turn around a women, just follow sunnah and give her rights and concentrate on other parts of your life, learn Quran, your parents, dawah, sport (for strength and health not just for look, and doing sport is sunnah), work and have good manners with everyone. Today men have this mentality that everything they do have to fulfill women expectations of what a man is, never listen to a women listen to a man and this man is the prophet sws
That's a good reality check for me
The prophet SAW did not only give his wives their rights but also did additional to make them happy and spend time with them. No one likes a simp but a marriage is not just about rights and duties but rather living together in goodness and sometimes yiu have to sacrifice. A true man just like our prophet SAW knows how to balance life and be soft when need be and be hard when need be.
Active listening and interest in your woman. Applying knowledge into your relationship
@MIKAAL what a vile manner you have may Allah guide you
Women don't know what they want
@@copainspammeur404 girls don’t and boys make comments such as yours. Many grown women have an idea what they want from this life with the ultimate goal being jannah
I don't get how u can be a Muslim, and a feminist, or a nationalist, or any -ist/-ism for that matter. These ideologies are riddled with contradictions. These are man-made ideas. The same way pagans worshipped other than Allah, following these ideologies is following other than Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.
remember to send blessings to the beloved seal of prophethood
I'm pretty sure the vlogger is Adam Saleh. May Allah reward him, he has made an effort to change his ways
Jazak Allahu Khayran for always speaking truth, Barak Allahu Feek
Assalamualaikum, Mashallah it was an amazing lecture.
I love how you spoke openly and it was very easy to understand alhamdulillah.
We need more open lectures like this one inshallah.
We really appreciate it, especially for this generation.
May Allah Bless you and your family inshallah . Ameen. ❤️❤️❤️
As a Muslim girl, I would say you are 100% correct these are the things I want in a man and most women want.
@Dhi Mancini what shaikh mentioned in this video watch full.
This generation is destroyed. We didn't lower our gaze.
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A lot of these comments are sad. We can perceive people who don't comply with a specific standard of beauty to be attractive. The media you consume and whether you look at people as objects instead of people effects this. I think a lot of people in these comments would feel better if they take care of their health and spend much less time on social media.
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Commitment to deen is a key factor, I know for a muslim woman.
Yes specially in the world full of hypocrites, ex Muslims, liberals and secular. There are a lot of disguised 'Muslims' who don't even know a bit about religion.
May Allah bless you brother Gabriel
Your content is very beneficial
As a practicing muslim, woman should be attracted to pious man. If the man is tall, handsome, and even rich, those are bonus.
Thank you!
You can't say " should be attracted " because attraction is not in our control . No common sense nothing ?
women can choose whoever they want
In my opinion women need & appreciates a man that is genuinely loving & sincere!
Not true
@@copainspammeur404 what makes you say that?
Did you have a bad experience?
Sometimes a woman can't feel the attraction due to a lack of dominant approach from the man...
Because Imams don’t preach masculinity
Dominant. Ok. What's too dominant?
As for the men, y’all really shouldn’t be that focused on looks, because the fact is, if you want a righteous and modest wife then you won’t see her body shape in that sense before marriage. I mean you can judge by the face and see if you are attracted. But whether or not she will be a good mother and wife is more important on the scale of importance.
@MIKAAL bro what are you saying? are you speaking before marriage or after? make it clear, don't say these scholars said something they didn't without evidence
yes but looks are important. you shouldn't marry someone you are unattracted to
I don't give a damn about looks
Don't get me wrong I try my best because the prophet pbuh told us to
I just don't want people to expect more that what I really am
And I don't any girl to love based on my looks
Masjid Ribat is the best channel.
Never mind what they are attracted to my brothers! Focus on yourself and be the man you want to be for Allah and his messenger and for your societies and suppress your sexual energy and give damn about them then they will chase after you
You cant and will never ever satisfy anybody’s fantasies!!!
King
Sad to say but true 👍
Instead of suppressing, try to actively build yourself and your life and find a pious wife who'll be the best mother to your children.
Suppress until marriage
I am attracted to a Sunni Iranian Muslim man that is a full package been praying for him. As a European Muslim woman. I love Farsi language. I am so tired of certain people that tell me who I should "marry". I shall be patient for my Persian man.
Sorry to break to you but there are no Sunni Persians, 99.9% are shia.
@@hasibabdullah3463 Gabriel is not from Iran bro
@@Romon111 😂😂😂
@@Romon111 there are many Sunnis from iran, they have to keep is a secret because of the shi'a bigotry, they are 10 - 20%.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 most of them are afghan refugees
A believer (practicing), a beautiful reciter of Quran, Stability, protection, confident, intelligence, humor, knows how to take charge when needed. Pleasing to the eye (doesn’t have to be handsome, but average), overall just masculine, clean, tall, a beautiful smile, and compassionate
"average" 🤣"pleasing to the eyes" 🤣🤣"beautifull smile" "tall" 😅😵
Women are funny tbh
Overall just masculine
Knows how to take charge when needed
So you want a feminine one. Nice requirements
@Based Department Lol
What you're seeking is supernatural.
Impossible to achieve because everyone has good and bad sides.
The best protector is Allah (SWT) and you shouldn't search for that in a man.
He is not God Neuzubillah.
Interesting! Thanks for sharing. Jazaka Allah khayran.
True words of wisdom
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I feel like البصائر قد أُعْمِيَتْ
Wheather we like it or not, we have some degree of globalisation when it comes to our thoughts. The way we're thinking has been orianted to some extent by the movies, anime..etc to the point where sometimes some concepts in our deen like polygany or true manhood.. (for ex.) might seem weird to us
I truely feel the hadith بدأ الإسلام غريبا و سيعود غريبا كما بدأ islam has started weird and it's become weird again just like it started.
طوبى للغرباء. Glad tightings to weird people.
Videos like these make us wake our بصائر up
Thank you for this may allah reward you
Personaly (a Muslim woman):
-Character: confidant, secure, has peace with himself/not afraid to cry especially about something that requires it.
-Respects his mom!!!: if he can’t respect his mom, know immediately that wallahi he will not respect you! Even if he was kind or seemingly caring, he has his motive and it is a scam!
-Protective and caring: I like it soooooooooooooo… much when a man feels responsibility toward his woman and children. I have so much appreciation! This includes financial support, emotional support and being physically present meaning carrying stuff and such.
-Religious: he should take good care of his prayers and be a decent man with good Islamic manners. Not being deceptive with others and such.
Don't forget money. Don't want my daughter marrying a broke, dusty boy.
It is not we are afraid to cry
It's just we don't like to cry at all because it shows weakness and we heat weakness.
So pretty much a man with no flaws, what you state here is a perfect man which i think does not exist atleast in this day and age
@lord dopey rainbowbeans they are, when you're a 26 yo sisters with high degree. Your pool of options is ridiculous regarding this type of men compared to a younger sister ready for mariage early
@lord dopey rainbowbeans Not in a world where both Men and Women work 40/60 PW how in earth can you possibly bond with your wife? Especially when she has a child. Then that kid becomes the center of attention, you add another child, where can you emotionally support a Woman then? Even when she works full time. Kinda hard to look what's described in a depressed world of overhours and breakdowns.
That video reminds me of DAJJAL. Women will go crazy to follow him.
May Allah safeguard us all from the fitna of DAJJAL. Aameen
@Millie Abdi what do you mean by "what do you mean"?
@bbmb they won't be able to control their desires unless they are very much strict with the religion
The only thing I don't want in men is ego. I'm too sensitive and I don't want to imagine my man constantly crushing me with his egotistical remarks.
My father would ask me even at 12 am if I need anything ,even when I say no ,he would do it. Imagine leaving your loving father and living the rest of your life with the opposite of a man .
Thats not ego. thats juat rudeness
ego is good as its where a person belives he us
Before you get married, make sure to talk to him a lot and know him well. Meet him atleast 10-15 times so you two get to know eachother well
Righteous, well mannered, caring, interesting to talk to, is hygienic, is a man.Also yeah the (initial) financial stability, but if later on in marriage there comes poverty, many be patient through that. Regarding looks I honestly don’t think they are important too much, so long as a woman is attracted to the man. But he doesn’t have to be ‘hot’ or what society describes as ‘good looking’ for that. One physical look that matters more than the others I would probably say is the amount of weight (I don’t mean a bit fat I mean being overweight (out of laziness, if it’s heath related that’s a different thing)).
Yes true good sheikh...make dua I get a good spouse 🤲👩❤️👩 InshaAllah Ameen 🌻
What is a good spouse to you? And what are the needs of men? What do they want?
Assalamualaikum brother, Jazak’Allah Khair for this video. I found it very useful.
Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
I do my best to not look at girls. Instead im interested in Cars😉😊
What attracts a woman in my opinion in a man is :
Respect
appreciation
Quality time
Words of encouragement
Actively engaged during a conversation
Being a good dad to the kids.
Having a good relationship with my family
You missed the most important deen 🤦🏿♂️
@@anonymousnoticer I think deen ties them all together. If you have deen, you will have all of those.
@@anonymousnoticer of course 😄🤦♀️i forgot to mention that. But obviously deen is non negotiable (for me). This list is the extra things that are important.
confidence. If a man doesn't have that she'll quickly lose respect for him and leave.
Are you married? If you are not, I advise you to not expect your husband to be that engaged in conversation. Especially if you want a husband who is a good provider or one who is striving to be.
You know the biggest problem with the whole objectification in our communities is that it leaves the average-looking guys/gals in a tougher spot. Nothing you can really do about your looks except workout and some grooming/skincare, but because we live in such a society it's becoming more difficult for such brothers and sisters, and may Allah make it easier for them.
No I think we can watch these videos or see and hear whatever in the media. But the reality is both men and women find what they can have, what is tangible, the most attractive. Meaning if you look around where you live in your neighbourhood and family friends, people you actually mix with and know the background to, out of all those people, there will definitely be women who will like you or be interested in marrying you. This is because it’s a real possibility and they will know your background, not just some abstract idea. Girl /boy next door and all that.
@@Tippy257 Jazakallhuhairun for telling me this :)
Not knitting
I’m pretty sure there was a Hadith about a woman wanting divorce from her husband Bc she found him to not be attractive at all… so …… it’s important to both genders … especially now a days where men still constantly gaze a women in front of their wives … we care about looks too
Men, just be what Allah has commanded, and you will see barakah on your path. ♥️
A man should be provider and protector.
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep that's what Quraan says. if men fail to do this they will be responsible on The Day.
@@alghurraba it takes two hands to clap. Don't expect to hear a clap with only one hand
@@kaz9242 exactly. Man has his responsibilities and woman has her responsibilities. Only if they both fulfil them, it will be balance and happiness.
mashallah bro.important subject
Our prophet S.A.W was fit ,women like men that are bigger than them, none thing wrong, if a woman want a man who is well built.
Abo 3obaida. He's hella attractive, and we don't even know what he looks like.
haven't women always appreciated looks in a man? like when Zuleika prepared a feast for the women and asked Yusuf a.s to enter and they all cut their hands
You don't respect everyone you have respect those who deserves to be respected
Money and looks
Unfortunately
Each women is different from one another. They have different qualities that they look for in a partner.
But one thing is clear, if her partner lacks empathy for her , don't know her feelings and dont support her emotionally , then she will surely dislike him even if he is the most richest or handsome man in the world
yes women do want the best husband in the world.
But at the end of the day i think we must not forget that this life is imperfect. A person may not be perfect. He may have one good quality but may lack another. Most Women can understand this after they get married and may accept their fate and the Qadr of Allah .
At best what they can do is to change them. For eg if her husband is not religious and not God conscious , she may give him dawah and talk about the wrath of Allah.
About money , i have seen many women who dont really give importance to it. If he has enough money to provide for her and the kids then that is sufficient for her.
At the end , it is subjective and may differ . There may be some who are intereseted about money.
with regards to looks idk about that , Looks actually comes at the end of the list . For some girls an average man is more than enough . Looks will be useless if he doesnot understand her feelings and lacks empathy
@@shirinaakther6418 if a woman is so uninterested in me that she considers staying with me "accepting fait and qadr" then i don't want her. These women will never be happy and always be thinking about the "perfect man." That's why men should stay away from women. They can't give men unconditional love like men give them. Bad trade.
@@Ok-gd3jl what??? you got it wrong . Im not saying that she will be uninterested in you .Mostly Many women forget about the list of qualities they want once they meet their partners.
for eg among the list , she may want a humorous guy, but suppose that you are not a funny and a serious guy, why would she hate you for that , that's stupid , i mean there are plenty of other things to look at.
Am sure she will be happy and will forget all the other things , if her husband understand her feelings and support her emotionally [ especially if he is an alpha male} .For her he is best husband in the world
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep idk ..........though statistically speaking height does matter for women.
They want someone who is a bit taller to them. It also depends on her height. So if she is 5'1 then 5'6 is tall for her.
Average height of a women is 5'4.......so you still have a chance
"Guys running as well acting abit weird" 🤣
Lol
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep no it is not OK at all
Who was the blogger?
@@BintGumby Adam Salih
@@MohammedAlSharif2002 hes just another spoiled arab boy like fousey tube, im surprised now too how so many women would have flocked to him
MashaAllah may Allah almighty bless you
Good vid brother. Enlightening
There is no hope and help for the average man except Allah .
Hahaha
@@Purposeful_Scroll why you laughing
@@theterminator6121 i found your comment funny & factual at the same time 😁👍
@@Purposeful_Scroll thank you for these kind words
@@theterminator6121 May Allah bless you with a pious & beautiful zaujah my bro ❤️
Hey Dr. I was just wondering where do you get your suits or are they tailored? Any recommendations in the UAE if so. Moreover, you have great content that I rarely see anyone tackle in this manner specifically from islamic paradigm and perspective.
The land of my grandma! Did you try _Al-Kachins_ and _Al-Naseem?_
Google...?
i live in uae :)
LOOOL 4:25 - At least he gave the warning!!! hahaha
To start, as a woman, I found that this was an incredibly shallow conversation about what women are and what they look for.
A few other comments:
1. Socialization is why women are not as expressive of their sexuality, in addition to, yes, a natural modesty women possess as compared to men. Sexuality is not a bad thing at all, but in many cultures it is very taboo to express that sexuality or any body positivity. Usually women's bodies are shamed, from the time they are very young. Even in the Muslim culture, it is very prevalent. For example, in some circles a non-hijabi is looked upon as a slut (i.e. loose woman) and even will be treated as such by Muslim men. Sisters are told that they are a "fitna", and that to have any sort of sexual thoughts is dirty and wrong. For women, it's much more internalized and shapes how you see yourself and your relationships with men.
2. The conversation about objectification, as for the women, I find this to be a very odd way of speaking about women's sexuality. Women have attractions just like men do.
3. Regarding the girls chasing the boy: Most all girls goes through this phase...hormones are high when you're young. Although admittedly it's hard to watch Muslims girls doing this. Not because they don't have the feelings, but because they are not expected to express them openly as non-Muslim girls do. Yes, success and status combined with looks can be attractive for girls. But it's most superficial, and as a girl becomes older and crosses into womanhood, this is tempered with a lot of other factors become more important.
4. "Shyness" is not the same as speaking your mind, just fyi.
5. No idea what Br. Gabriel was speaking about when he talked about women being "different from the front than the back"....but perhaps he was referring to the fact that women are not as direct as men..that's also from socialization. Society does not really reward women speak directly. They are seen as aggressive, so they learn to speak "nice and sweet" about things, even though you may not want to. Some women are better at this than others. And in fact, it's women like this that tend to be shamed by brothers like Gabriel as "feminists". Funny that.
5. I think that finding a spouse for both Muslim women and men, but not necessarily for the reasons listed in this video.
Like I said initially, I think this video does not encompass all of what women looks for in a man. Yes, physical looks and the ability to provide are important (and that's not a bad thing). For practicing Muslim women, character and faith are at the top of the list, too.
Even a sense of humor can be a source of attraction for a woman. My point being it's much more complex and nuanced than Br. Gabriel makes it out to be.
If you want a REAL idea of what women look for, watch this popular video by Honest Tea Talk. This is more of an accurate representation. ruclips.net/video/i3mWF4P9mAc/видео.html
The greatest fitna for men are women as said by our Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him). I don't like how you are using fitnah as if it was something impure . Fitnah means trials. And yes a woman not covering herself properly has a problem with Haya. Of course there are people exaggerating here and there but this is no excuse. If a woman is insecure about her body, then she should be more willing to cover properly in the first place. A Muslim shouldn't seek to be validated by society, the majority is non-Muslim.
@@dspd0140 she is a narcissist feminist clown she hates on brother gabriel passionately she acts like she has better knowledge then him on every matter don't waste your time lol.
@@dspd0140 Yes, that is exactly what I meant when I used the word fitna. Women are seen as impure and dirty (or a source of "dirty thoughts" for men). And that "good girls" are not supposed to project that to any man. Also, men need to understand, just b/c she doesn't cover doesn't mean she is trying to prostitute herself. She just hasn't come to the point in her faith life where she is ready to cover. Wear hijab is not easy, especially in the West.
@@_Ruhul10 Excuse me, you don't know me. Please don't comment here if you don't have anything nice and constructive to say.
@@deedeee6271 Being a source of lust=/= Being impure. We are asked to lower the gaze for a reason. It is much easier for men to be tempted by women especially in this era. Having desires isn't considered bad to begin with, it's using them in a haram manner that is bad(masturbation, dating, etc). I never said that wearing the hijab is easy and didn't say that non-hijabi are prostitutes either. However, it is a fact that she has a problem of modesty if she can't, which is part of faith.
Are you telling us that the media, movies, and so on that cause women to go for attractive men ?maybe you have forgotten the story of the prophet Yusuf peace be on him. Women also like attractive well built men.
Gabriel is the one of the true scholars i come through. Those who attack him forget that hes guided by Allah.
He's not a scholar so refrain from referring to him as one. Masha Allah he's a student of knowledge.
Height and muscular with regards to superficial aspect
Both of these for symbolising dominance, sense of protection
😂😂😂😂
You're a joke... Super what? 😂😂
@@benardio6193 something funny bro?
Superficial means outward appearance
@Moo Miller actually most women like a bit of muscles over face but everyone is different
By muscles, I mean natural and that's something definitely a plus
Just like a lady's face is most important but body has a detrimental effect too
@@aatif7518 stop being mofty 😂 bro
I don't care if she doesn't look like a model, don't care which nationality she is
All I ask for is a religious HOUSEWIFE who is NOT materialistic
Are there any women like these here? (Just checking if these are possible expectations and women like these were widely available before)
Yeah I know... But you won't find them now. It's just sad. You either deal with them or.....
Oh, I forgot manners and bad words like using the word da*g
Praying 5 times is the bare minimum, you are NOT religious if you do it, basic!
Reading and memorizing also BASIC
I mean a housewife who actively seeks ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE MEMORIZING THE WORKS OF SCHOLARS IN ARABIC AND IT'S EXPLANATION
And no watching an Islamic lecture isn't knowledge
So career women will DEFO not have time for Islamic knowledge when they have husbands and kids!
And almost 90% of career women apply makeup outside, where is the Islamic knowledge here? Don't know what is halal and haram?
@@frabgas27 it's really sad how many people think praying 5 times and reading Qur'an means you are religious
@Moo Miller really not needed to over exaggerate the truth
And o never claimed to be more religious
I am talking about these women aren't religious
@Moo Miller yes praying and reading Qur'an is basic
It doesn't mean one of practicing lol
Each and every Muslim is SUPPOSED to do it
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My main problem is how these female behaviors are super inflated nowadays and what they care about most are frequently also the most superficial. Like since women are competitive with each other and naturally want what other women like along with social media and everything it's crazy. Like a man in order to even be on the radar needs some crazy things that are ridiculous and not even practical at all. What needs to be valued at most is our deen and being a good provider...not a provider of mass amounts of dumb purses and trips everywhere, but instead what's actually practical and a bit of that superficial stuff because might as well, people like enjoying the gifts of Allah to a extent.
This video was brilliant masha’allah hit nail on this one.
Aslm...I hear you...
Subscribed 😀😀😀. Masha Allah
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Assalamualikum Can you make a video on how to be consistent. For me Its easier to do something for one day but much difficult to make it a habit
I can give you advice that will change your life regarding this matter. And it is to take things slowly.
You most likely go hardcore for that day so when tomorrow comes, you remember the trauma of yesterday and you are just put off from it.
What you should do is take it very easy. So start of by just walking everyday for about an hour, rest during your walks if you get tired, you are not competing against anyone, the goal here is build up momentum with consistency.
Once you've done this for a week or two and feel like your getting the hang of moving. Start doing running and walking; so you run as fast as you can for as long as you can and then walk untill you have rested, so untill your heart rate nears resting rate. Keep doing this in intervals and believe me, you will find that getting fit was never hard in the first place, but we make it hard by setting unrealistic goals for our workouts.
And remember, people overestimate what they can achieve in a day, and underestimate what they can achieve in a year.
Peace
Start being consistent in the most basic things like sleeping early at the same time, have a morning routine everyday, do your bed etc. When you are consistent in the small things it will help for the bigger things insha'Allah
Make dua then try your best.
Looks are important to women too
Basically men have to be a chad muslim like me🗿
Kidding... I have to improve chadness more😓
What women look for: financial and emotional security
بارك الله فيكم آمين
جزاك الله خير اخي
oyalaikumussalam oyarahmatullahi oyabarkatuh, jajakAllah khairan, love you vai.
I'm married 22 years...✌💚👀alhamdulilaah
This Muslim brother is pretty accurate lol 😝
I think we can use curtain instead of makeup
Money then deen. But that's it. And maybe his height and BMI, But that's it. Then maybe his face, But that's it. Then maybe his age. But that's it. Then maybe his job. But that's it. Then maybe if he has a nice house. But that's it. Then she might check what ride he came in to see her. But that's it. But that's it. But that's it. But that's it.
And what are your demands?
IF i could play this video every channel /every country ,,,I mean the speech its so beautiful and honest to the viewers,, ,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE VIDEO JUST END IT ...That makes you UNIQUE ...MASHALLAH 🤲🤲Respect and BLESSINGS to you INSHALLAH🤲🤲
Herd spirit when someone does something the rest of the group do it unconsciously
Better term for makeup is fakeup
i think some women are more attracted to intellectual men who she can communicate with him intelligently...as some women believe...intellectual men are sexy in the long run...and especially a man who knows what she will do or what she will think or what she wants...just by observing her, yes a woman do attract to a man's physique but then again thats just lust or temporary...they will know him more and better through time in their marriage where lust might turn to love or might turn to hate , anger and frustration...i think most women more attracted to thinner men rather than fatter man..an ideal man should not be lazy dazzy ..they should be skilled...definitely they should defend their women and make her feel special...i remember...my dad whenever i went to the wet market during my teenage years (sunday market as we called it in my town)...whenever i bought food, vegs,etc...and when i carried the things i bought, my dad never failed to take it from my hand, always and whenever i asked money from him when i was in univ, he always give me more than i asked for...bless him...thats to me one of my father's loves he has shown me..when i was married, my kids had asma, happened nearly every 2 weeks 😊🤦♀️most of the time the father of my kids was not around...when i had to send my kids for oxygen at hospital nearby,i had to call my dad and he never said "huh" or "why", not even once...he went straight to my home and sent me to hospital, usually these happened most of the time at 3.00 am ( dont know why) and when i had shortage of money then, he willingly lent me eventho my hub had lots,he never questioned me, even now i think he still willing to lend me at his tender age if i ask from him...thats fathers love...he didnt ask me to obey him but he still love me , he didnt stop me from working or angry when i didnt work during my marriage but he still love me, he didnt blame me for my marriage, he just motivate me and my children until now eventho he has minor dementia..May Allah love him more than he loves me and that he has long healthy life so that i can take care of him.. if a man wants a woman to sacrifice for him, its an action and reaction scenario, love your wife unconditionally and she will love you more in return than you ever will...because most women are created in such a way.... she might not mind that man has more than 1 wife...becus her husband loves her unconditionally....there this famous saying.."a woman is cloth to man and man is cloth to woman".. the two of them perfect each other.. when her husband hold her hand...their sins will wash away like water streaming through their hands..and when a husband look at her with love and Allah will look at him with love too..when a wife cooked for him and had burnt mark on her hands...her sins will be forgiven..Marriage is MashaaALLAH if they play it right..its a short pathway to heaven but if they play it wrong then its a fast way to hell...scarry 😱..hope you guys enjoy reading this!!!!!
Mashallah a great dad, and that last statement of men and women being clothes to each other is like a verse in the Quran.
@@MohammedAlSharif2002 thank you
Every time Mahdi gets cornered, he changes the goal post, this is a common strategy when one can’t win an argument or has no basis for their claim.
Very frustrating to watch.
How did he change it ? Can you explain further please
women are just as visual as men are. Personality only matters if the man is already good looking.
Yes but women are more forgiving with looks if he is rlly funny and has a good personality. That’s why comedians get a lot of woman
nope
@@vibes6255 That would only happen in a society in which women are financially dependent on men and also taught by culture/religion to choose personality and financial stability over looks. (most of the world today is the total opposite of that). Comedians usually have status and money. Women rate 80% of men to be below average in looks. blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/
@@emateiblin5409 this Man Talkin fax
"As visual as men"
Nah, you don't know what you are talking about.
What do men look in a woman?
A woman is willing to take care of her family without complaining (cooking, cleaning, etc)
When men get these type of women, they will move mountains to please that lady coz she deserves it
you need to raise your standards
are men really that easy
to please? WOAH I am just shocked
@@RAH.910 Yes its really that simple to please man but most women on the other hand have many demands.
@@RAH.910 Actually they are pretty easy to please, like after my dad comes from a tiring day at work and when my mom makes his favourite dishes, instantly he is happy and gives compliments.
@@RAH.910 that's the main criteria
If a husband when he sees his wife gets pleased, he will not wish for anything more
When his wife cleans the home, cooks for him, he will be the happiest man in the world and he will be romantic too
Opposite is also quite true, if she doesn't do, you can expect only bitterness from him
@Chadjeet Fuqsdeep Dont say god foresaken planet bro, remember this life is a test to see whether or not you will be grateful to Allah.
First is deen . Then if you marry him, u get attracted because Allah loves the halal. A woman gets attracted by her husband when she feels secure
I assume it has more to do with the personality type. There are people who prefer more depth and meaningful connections and others don’t. Not all men are like you describe them (mainly focus on looks) there are also some amazing ones who are thoughtful and have different values than those who focus on looks a lot. At the same time, there are also women who are more superficial and only care for looks. I doubt that it has much to do with gender.
True, especially if we look at Myer Briggs personality type. It's not always men or women. It's just people in general who have such personalitys.
You should do one about what man want in a woman.
Im wondering who was that guy running away..
Adam salah
Alhamdullah my husband is a very kind gentleman provider and loving however I dont feel any passion or chemistry with him even though he is very handsome. Please give me advice on this topic im really struggling internally. I was married before and I truly loved my first husband but my second one I feel no connection 💔
Maybe because you are comparing him to your first hubby.
There you go, you still have love for your first husband and cant let go.
It's just in your head. Pray to Allah so that chaytan doesn't plant the seed of division for stupid reasons.
It’s natural for a woman to feel this way. Women aren’t like men and they don’t have the ability to have love and affection for multiple men. It’s very clear in your own comment that your still in love with your previous husband and your trying to love current husband as well at the same time. Forgot you old husband. He’s not your husband anymore.
Where are you from brother Gabriel?!
Mannerism and masculinity
Yea women has a diversity of traits that are contrasting one another in personality that is why women in general has variety of preferences. I come to know as well that women are very different from men in terms of impressing from men or selecting of men spouse.men in general are attracted to physical beauty more while women are attracted mostly by social picture of men .if a man is viewed positively in a society or family due to certain reasons be that religious or cultural or any other personal elements there,she will be mostly attracted to him. Because women are more socially complaint than men so women will unconsciously change their likeness and dislikes based on society ,culture ,religion strong opinions,powerful narratives and all other social elements. Women's brain is working in a complex manner when it comes to decisions no matter for what.
That is why we women can be manipulated easily !!!
women are more womb aka experience based creatures... and vary alot, they have triggers and emotional perceived ways to deal with them...
Muslim or non-Muslim, women wants a tall, muscular, handsome, well-endowed man who can more than satisfy them.
Not true. For me I need an intellectual man.
So Not true stupid.
@@Geebee67 he is talking about the general women you are most likely above that level in ignorance since you are calling him stupid he is your brother in islam
Thats why you have a dog
Stop describing me
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