What are Females attracted to in a Muslim man?

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  • @alromaani
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    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 года назад +1

      Talk more about issues of relevance

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 года назад

      "Become a Real Man and support group for men only"???
      Are you for real ..boi???
      You are talking about "fap or no fap" at a very critical time when real men are giving their lives to protect their families...
      Shame On You kid
      Grow up

    • @zaynshah4023
      @zaynshah4023 3 года назад

      CELIBACY with SIGMA PERSONALITY

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад

      @bill smith how do you know his intentions? have good thoughts as its sunnah unless you have a reason not to, and...
      because ppl are asking, if you don't need the help then know other ppl do, don't eb selfish , be a man be a leader!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад

      @@mohsinakhtar7876 ???
      marrige is half the din... as an ummah different ppl have to do different things or did that basic leave you?

  • @junaidabdulkader
    @junaidabdulkader 3 года назад +239

    I have no beard (no beard growth) ...no six pack ...no muscle arms....🤐 Just a Skinny Man...Many other men may aslo be like this...But Alhamdulillah...we should thank Allah because there are other men who are physically challenged...who have lost their arms..legs ,eyes,etc ...and we have been blessed with all these...The ultimate most important is Tawheed..

    • @antlion6796
      @antlion6796 3 года назад +81

      Hit the gym bro! Yes absolutely accept the things you can't change, that which Allah has decreed from His wisdom; but strive to change what you can for the better.

    • @MultiOzzyProductions
      @MultiOzzyProductions 3 года назад +29

      You need to change your diet bro. Eat eat eat more calories to put on weight. Not unhealthy food though

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 года назад +17

      Abu jahl..and his likes were well fed well satiated with loads of calories and nutritions..but guess what no tawheed..he got his rear end whooped.. well actually
      Sliced by to young kids. From the companions of the Prophet PBUH...even though he was on a horse ..the boys رضى الله عنهما were on foot ..with blunt blades..ripped cloths and most likely didn't eat a proper meal meal in all their life due to poverty.

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 года назад +22

      So eat according to sunnah divide your stomach for 3 portions water air and food.
      But eat healthy
      Don't listen to kids taking advice from the non believers for their nourishment.
      Khabib whooped connor not becaue he ate alot..he struggled in life that's all.
      Connor had more options to eat & drink from including pork, that whisky he kept braging you name it..
      KHABIB was on a restriced diet. Only Halal.
      29-0
      Wasn't money hungry either and obedient to his mother so didn't care about the last win.
      30-0

    • @laurarae6070
      @laurarae6070 3 года назад +18

      Muscles are not always attractive to all women. Personality and how they treat a women is the upmost important😊

  • @aliaasfar1791
    @aliaasfar1791 3 года назад +239

    Deen, good character, balanced, loving, honest, active, humor, adventurous.

    • @EnlytendFilosofar
      @EnlytendFilosofar 3 года назад +10

      So no looks at all?🙄🙄

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 года назад +48

      @@EnlytendFilosofar character makes one attractive or not to me. I married both types less good looking was awesome character, very good looking was arrogant and ugly in my eyes.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 года назад +29

      @@redsquirrel6176 Well, I'm talking about me. I'm real, not materialistic or superficial. I'm grown and and have values.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 года назад +20

      @Sami SA.M sweetie I'm 56 years old, I can teach u a few things! I still look good, ok. guys in 40s hit on me. I don't need to lie. I speak from experience.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 года назад +9

      @@redsquirrel6176 yes I agree with that, I'm a whole other generation lol

  • @aarfeenanees9147
    @aarfeenanees9147 3 года назад +112

    I have seen difference in what women of age 18-25 like and what women of age 25+ like. Younger women tend to flock for looks mostly but once they cross a certain age they realise looks are not as important as Deen and manly character.

    • @Anon-uv9mj
      @Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад +9

      Thats more like 13-17 vs 18 and above, but depends on the person ofc

    • @Aquacrystal78
      @Aquacrystal78 3 года назад +1

      So true

    • @beenish8189
      @beenish8189 3 года назад +1

      This is so true Subhan'Allah. With time you realise that it is only the heart and character that matters no matter how he looks like. At the end, The heart makes the man beautiful ♥️

    • @sameerkhan-qg3qi
      @sameerkhan-qg3qi 3 года назад

      I had seen girls who fall for money before 25 and seen women's who again falls for money thats it.

    • @aarfeenanees9147
      @aarfeenanees9147 3 года назад

      @@sameerkhan-qg3qi Emphasis on *tend to*

  • @Geebee67
    @Geebee67 3 года назад +44

    Nothing like a humble man.

  • @anikaabida6019
    @anikaabida6019 3 года назад +55

    Deen, confidence, striving mindset, physically and mentally strong, protector and a stable provider is attractive. Most women will answer ‘nice boy’, ‘caring’, ‘good humour’, but they themselves know that if they don’t feel financially secure and their husband is not fulfilling responsibilities, they will lose attraction.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 3 года назад +13

      @@blueflame3531 whether or not she is financially stable, the man in the marriage must provide still for the basic needs such as food, water, clothes, shelter, and among other things (within reason, to my knowledge, I could be wrong so may Allah forgive me, Aameen). Her money is her money, she gets to do with it whatever she pleases, now if she wants to help support the family in some way financially, that is up to her, but generally the men must provide in Islam to the best of their abilities.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 3 года назад +1

      @@blueflame3531 point is you buy most of the necessities for the wife

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c 3 года назад +5

      @@blueflame3531 he’s talking about a guys Islamic obligation

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 года назад +3

      @@user-pn9zf2lj4c You 2 are correct. Sorry for the unnecessary comments.

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c 3 года назад +5

      @@blueflame3531 no problem, May Allah bless you for being so humble

  • @moonlightaksar9113
    @moonlightaksar9113 2 года назад +11

    1) Taqwa
    2) kindness
    3) humble
    4) Personality
    5) beard

  • @sakilahmed6788
    @sakilahmed6788 3 года назад +18

    Nowadays, loyalty is becoming a rare trait, focus on that too

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 3 года назад +40

    The clever ones look for religiosity and eagerness to help others to do good. Also manliness in a man is very attractive to a female. Leadership qualities.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep angry face?! Also, what you mentioned after that isn’t appropriate so please delete it.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep
      Not all facts, just that which you stated.

  • @user-user-user-user.
    @user-user-user-user. 3 года назад +29

    The Romanian in Malaysian is kilin’ it! 💪
    A dose of masculinity and common sense! Allahu Akbar!

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 3 года назад +21

    Practicing Muslim men for me (praying and actively seeking knowledge) also Cleanliness, sincerity the “here is the truth like it or lump it way

  • @artismypassion
    @artismypassion 2 года назад +10

    I see someone telling the real thing now!! It's so much Bollywood, Hollywood!! Thank you for saying out loud!!

  • @bk-ash6770
    @bk-ash6770 3 года назад +152

    I like this kinda stuff because it shows me how to become manlier

    • @codedaily409
      @codedaily409 3 года назад +12

      Check out the book The Ideal Muslim by Dr Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi, the best book I've read on the way a Muslim should act

    • @bk-ash6770
      @bk-ash6770 3 года назад +2

      @@codedaily409 Thanks

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 3 года назад +1

      Ahahahahah

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 3 года назад

      @@daysklant7401 Yes I find it funny

    • @ibnamanot
      @ibnamanot 3 года назад +6

      @@abdullahahmad9300 simp detected.

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 3 года назад +16

    remember to send blessings to the beloved seal of prophethood

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal 2 года назад +39

    As a woman, a man who truly FEARS Allah. He will follow the deen, and ask Allah for everything on His path. I may be the result of his prayers. And isn’t that beautiful, being a shoulder your husband can lean on. Making him and writing him beautiful letters of dua, making sure that before he leaves the house you packed him his lunch, and gave him a big hug because of pure love for the sake of Allah. I’m writing this because Allah separated me from my ex-husband, but I always blamed myself at first.
    😩 I really wanted to my husband to be pleased with me to the point I started disobeying Allah. May Allah forgive me that. Ameen. But I prayed istikhara and Allah found me a way out, I was devasted. But Allah wrote me a way out and protected me. So Alhamdulilah. A year later, I am in Makkah now. Single. But alhamdulilah. My second husband must be God fearing.
    I always prayed for a man who loves the akhirah more than the dunya, and I still have hope that Allah will give me that. And that is one of the biggest tests from my Lord. Having true tawwukul. ♥️

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 2 года назад +3

      May Allah give you the husband of your dreams and inshallah you will be satisfied

    • @thealpha1687
      @thealpha1687 2 года назад +2

      May Allah grant you the righteous husband that you desire?

    • @Jamalishalal
      @Jamalishalal 2 года назад

      Ameen Ya Rab, Jazakum Allah Khair

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 2 года назад +1

      Doesnt matter. Just keep Allah in your mind and speak to him everyday.
      Hel if he want will grant you with a husband. He may have also removed you from your husband for reason you dont know ans for your own benefit

  • @umar3298
    @umar3298 3 года назад +28

    I just advice brothers to not make your life turn around a women, just follow sunnah and give her rights and concentrate on other parts of your life, learn Quran, your parents, dawah, sport (for strength and health not just for look, and doing sport is sunnah), work and have good manners with everyone. Today men have this mentality that everything they do have to fulfill women expectations of what a man is, never listen to a women listen to a man and this man is the prophet sws

    • @Reslessmeteor897
      @Reslessmeteor897 2 года назад +4

      That's a good reality check for me

    • @ummqudamah
      @ummqudamah 2 года назад +5

      The prophet SAW did not only give his wives their rights but also did additional to make them happy and spend time with them. No one likes a simp but a marriage is not just about rights and duties but rather living together in goodness and sometimes yiu have to sacrifice. A true man just like our prophet SAW knows how to balance life and be soft when need be and be hard when need be.

  • @n.i3381
    @n.i3381 3 года назад +12

    Assalamualaikum, Mashallah it was an amazing lecture.
    I love how you spoke openly and it was very easy to understand alhamdulillah.
    We need more open lectures like this one inshallah.
    We really appreciate it, especially for this generation.
    May Allah Bless you and your family inshallah . Ameen. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 3 года назад +10

    Active listening and interest in your woman. Applying knowledge into your relationship

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 3 года назад

      @MIKAAL what a vile manner you have may Allah guide you

    • @copainspammeur404
      @copainspammeur404 3 года назад

      Women don't know what they want

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 3 года назад +2

      @@copainspammeur404 girls don’t and boys make comments such as yours. Many grown women have an idea what they want from this life with the ultimate goal being jannah

  • @amird128
    @amird128 3 года назад +5

    Jazak Allahu Khayran for always speaking truth, Barak Allahu Feek

  • @ponderingspirit1475
    @ponderingspirit1475 3 года назад +3

    I'm pretty sure the vlogger is Adam Saleh. May Allah reward him, he has made an effort to change his ways

  • @afsaneh4340
    @afsaneh4340 2 года назад +6

    As a Muslim girl, I would say you are 100% correct these are the things I want in a man and most women want.

    • @afsaneh4340
      @afsaneh4340 Год назад

      @Dhi Mancini what shaikh mentioned in this video watch full.

  • @iamtheboneofmysword607
    @iamtheboneofmysword607 3 года назад +33

    A lot of these comments are sad. We can perceive people who don't comply with a specific standard of beauty to be attractive. The media you consume and whether you look at people as objects instead of people effects this. I think a lot of people in these comments would feel better if they take care of their health and spend much less time on social media.

  • @z4781
    @z4781 3 года назад +16

    Commitment to deen is a key factor, I know for a muslim woman.

    • @jazzstyles1246
      @jazzstyles1246 2 года назад

      Yes specially in the world full of hypocrites, ex Muslims, liberals and secular. There are a lot of disguised 'Muslims' who don't even know a bit about religion.

  • @Zeczam
    @Zeczam 3 года назад +30

    This generation is destroyed. We didn't lower our gaze.

  • @duokusmana
    @duokusmana 3 года назад +10

    As a practicing muslim, woman should be attracted to pious man. If the man is tall, handsome, and even rich, those are bonus.

  • @zayd8801
    @zayd8801 3 года назад +7

    May Allah bless you brother Gabriel
    Your content is very beneficial

  • @7aemr
    @7aemr 3 года назад +16

    I don't get how u can be a Muslim, and a feminist, or a nationalist, or any -ist/-ism for that matter. These ideologies are riddled with contradictions. These are man-made ideas. The same way pagans worshipped other than Allah, following these ideologies is following other than Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.

  • @azidesai5710
    @azidesai5710 3 года назад +4

    In my opinion women need & appreciates a man that is genuinely loving & sincere!

    • @copainspammeur404
      @copainspammeur404 3 года назад +2

      Not true

    • @azidesai5710
      @azidesai5710 3 года назад

      @@copainspammeur404 what makes you say that?
      Did you have a bad experience?

  • @etherealrosegold
    @etherealrosegold 3 года назад +8

    Sometimes a woman can't feel the attraction due to a lack of dominant approach from the man...

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад +6

      Because Imams don’t preach masculinity

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 3 года назад

      Dominant. Ok. What's too dominant?

  • @briantafolla2247
    @briantafolla2247 2 года назад +11

    I do my best to not look at girls. Instead im interested in Cars😉😊

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад +18

    As for the men, y’all really shouldn’t be that focused on looks, because the fact is, if you want a righteous and modest wife then you won’t see her body shape in that sense before marriage. I mean you can judge by the face and see if you are attracted. But whether or not she will be a good mother and wife is more important on the scale of importance.

    • @user-bc2ik
      @user-bc2ik 3 года назад

      @MIKAAL bro what are you saying? are you speaking before marriage or after? make it clear, don't say these scholars said something they didn't without evidence

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 2 года назад +5

      yes but looks are important. you shouldn't marry someone you are unattracted to

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 2 года назад

      I don't give a damn about looks
      Don't get me wrong I try my best because the prophet pbuh told us to
      I just don't want people to expect more that what I really am
      And I don't any girl to love based on my looks

    • @safwanshahriar4108
      @safwanshahriar4108 2 года назад

      Masjid Ribat is the best channel.

  • @someonepassedbyhere6363
    @someonepassedbyhere6363 3 года назад +1

    True words of wisdom
    .
    I feel like البصائر قد أُعْمِيَتْ
    Wheather we like it or not, we have some degree of globalisation when it comes to our thoughts. The way we're thinking has been orianted to some extent by the movies, anime..etc to the point where sometimes some concepts in our deen like polygany or true manhood.. (for ex.) might seem weird to us
    I truely feel the hadith بدأ الإسلام غريبا و سيعود غريبا كما بدأ islam has started weird and it's become weird again just like it started.
    طوبى للغرباء. Glad tightings to weird people.
    Videos like these make us wake our بصائر up
    Thank you for this may allah reward you

  • @sundus928
    @sundus928 2 года назад +4

    The only thing I don't want in men is ego. I'm too sensitive and I don't want to imagine my man constantly crushing me with his egotistical remarks.
    My father would ask me even at 12 am if I need anything ,even when I say no ,he would do it. Imagine leaving your loving father and living the rest of your life with the opposite of a man .

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 2 года назад +2

      Thats not ego. thats juat rudeness
      ego is good as its where a person belives he us

    • @Ricestlover
      @Ricestlover 2 года назад +2

      Before you get married, make sure to talk to him a lot and know him well. Meet him atleast 10-15 times so you two get to know eachother well

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 3 года назад +8

    I am attracted to a Sunni Iranian Muslim man that is a full package been praying for him. As a European Muslim woman. I love Farsi language. I am so tired of certain people that tell me who I should "marry". I shall be patient for my Persian man.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 3 года назад +7

      Sorry to break to you but there are no Sunni Persians, 99.9% are shia.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 3 года назад +3

      @@hasibabdullah3463 Gabriel is not from Iran bro

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 3 года назад

      @@Romon111 😂😂😂

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад +9

      @@Romon111 there are many Sunnis from iran, they have to keep is a secret because of the shi'a bigotry, they are 10 - 20%.

    • @afshanfathima976
      @afshanfathima976 3 года назад

      @@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 most of them are afghan refugees

  • @achrafagermoune2417
    @achrafagermoune2417 3 года назад +2

    Interesting! Thanks for sharing. Jazaka Allah khayran.

  • @aqanni
    @aqanni 3 года назад +13

    Never mind what they are attracted to my brothers! Focus on yourself and be the man you want to be for Allah and his messenger and for your societies and suppress your sexual energy and give damn about them then they will chase after you
    You cant and will never ever satisfy anybody’s fantasies!!!

  • @ahmedvorajee2430
    @ahmedvorajee2430 Год назад

    Assalamualaikum brother, Jazak’Allah Khair for this video. I found it very useful.

  • @ibraheemkhan9116
    @ibraheemkhan9116 3 года назад +5

    You know the biggest problem with the whole objectification in our communities is that it leaves the average-looking guys/gals in a tougher spot. Nothing you can really do about your looks except workout and some grooming/skincare, but because we live in such a society it's becoming more difficult for such brothers and sisters, and may Allah make it easier for them.

    • @Tippy257
      @Tippy257 3 года назад

      No I think we can watch these videos or see and hear whatever in the media. But the reality is both men and women find what they can have, what is tangible, the most attractive. Meaning if you look around where you live in your neighbourhood and family friends, people you actually mix with and know the background to, out of all those people, there will definitely be women who will like you or be interested in marrying you. This is because it’s a real possibility and they will know your background, not just some abstract idea. Girl /boy next door and all that.

    • @ibraheemkhan9116
      @ibraheemkhan9116 3 года назад

      @@Tippy257 Jazakallhuhairun for telling me this :)

  • @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest
    @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest 3 года назад +7

    A believer (practicing), a beautiful reciter of Quran, Stability, protection, confident, intelligence, humor, knows how to take charge when needed. Pleasing to the eye (doesn’t have to be handsome, but average), overall just masculine, clean, tall, a beautiful smile, and compassionate

    • @footb9ll217
      @footb9ll217 3 года назад +16

      "average" 🤣"pleasing to the eyes" 🤣🤣"beautifull smile" "tall" 😅😵

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer 3 года назад +5

      Women are funny tbh

    • @yaseenmalik1755
      @yaseenmalik1755 3 года назад +7

      Overall just masculine
      Knows how to take charge when needed
      So you want a feminine one. Nice requirements

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer 3 года назад +1

      @Based Department Lol

    • @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT
      @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT 3 года назад +2

      What you're seeking is supernatural.
      Impossible to achieve because everyone has good and bad sides.
      The best protector is Allah (SWT) and you shouldn't search for that in a man.
      He is not God Neuzubillah.

  • @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d
    @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d 3 года назад +3

    haven't women always appreciated looks in a man? like when Zuleika prepared a feast for the women and asked Yusuf a.s to enter and they all cut their hands

  • @shammaalali6889
    @shammaalali6889 3 года назад +23

    Personaly (a Muslim woman):
    -Character: confidant, secure, has peace with himself/not afraid to cry especially about something that requires it.
    -Respects his mom!!!: if he can’t respect his mom, know immediately that wallahi he will not respect you! Even if he was kind or seemingly caring, he has his motive and it is a scam!
    -Protective and caring: I like it soooooooooooooo… much when a man feels responsibility toward his woman and children. I have so much appreciation! This includes financial support, emotional support and being physically present meaning carrying stuff and such.
    -Religious: he should take good care of his prayers and be a decent man with good Islamic manners. Not being deceptive with others and such.

    • @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming
      @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming 3 года назад +2

      Don't forget money. Don't want my daughter marrying a broke, dusty boy.

    • @jokerq162
      @jokerq162 3 года назад +1

      It is not we are afraid to cry
      It's just we don't like to cry at all because it shows weakness and we heat weakness.

    • @ahmadshabz2832
      @ahmadshabz2832 3 года назад +1

      So pretty much a man with no flaws, what you state here is a perfect man which i think does not exist atleast in this day and age

    • @artarak497
      @artarak497 3 года назад

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans they are, when you're a 26 yo sisters with high degree. Your pool of options is ridiculous regarding this type of men compared to a younger sister ready for mariage early

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 года назад

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans Not in a world where both Men and Women work 40/60 PW how in earth can you possibly bond with your wife? Especially when she has a child. Then that kid becomes the center of attention, you add another child, where can you emotionally support a Woman then? Even when she works full time. Kinda hard to look what's described in a depressed world of overhours and breakdowns.

  • @cherryg.3042
    @cherryg.3042 3 года назад +2

    I’m pretty sure there was a Hadith about a woman wanting divorce from her husband Bc she found him to not be attractive at all… so …… it’s important to both genders … especially now a days where men still constantly gaze a women in front of their wives … we care about looks too

  • @bigboi6338
    @bigboi6338 3 года назад +8

    Not knitting

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 3 года назад +8

    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад +7

    Righteous, well mannered, caring, interesting to talk to, is hygienic, is a man.Also yeah the (initial) financial stability, but if later on in marriage there comes poverty, many be patient through that. Regarding looks I honestly don’t think they are important too much, so long as a woman is attracted to the man. But he doesn’t have to be ‘hot’ or what society describes as ‘good looking’ for that. One physical look that matters more than the others I would probably say is the amount of weight (I don’t mean a bit fat I mean being overweight (out of laziness, if it’s heath related that’s a different thing)).

  • @rutaz6176
    @rutaz6176 3 года назад +25

    "Guys running as well acting abit weird" 🤣

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад +1

      Lol

    • @rutaz6176
      @rutaz6176 3 года назад +2

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep no it is not OK at all

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 года назад +1

      Who was the blogger?

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад +1

      @@BintGumby Adam Salih

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 года назад

      @@MohammedAlSharif2002 hes just another spoiled arab boy like fousey tube, im surprised now too how so many women would have flocked to him

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 3 года назад +2

    Our prophet S.A.W was fit ,women like men that are bigger than them, none thing wrong, if a woman want a man who is well built.

  • @deedeee6271
    @deedeee6271 3 года назад +17

    LOOOL 4:25 - At least he gave the warning!!! hahaha
    To start, as a woman, I found that this was an incredibly shallow conversation about what women are and what they look for.
    A few other comments:
    1. Socialization is why women are not as expressive of their sexuality, in addition to, yes, a natural modesty women possess as compared to men. Sexuality is not a bad thing at all, but in many cultures it is very taboo to express that sexuality or any body positivity. Usually women's bodies are shamed, from the time they are very young. Even in the Muslim culture, it is very prevalent. For example, in some circles a non-hijabi is looked upon as a slut (i.e. loose woman) and even will be treated as such by Muslim men. Sisters are told that they are a "fitna", and that to have any sort of sexual thoughts is dirty and wrong. For women, it's much more internalized and shapes how you see yourself and your relationships with men.
    2. The conversation about objectification, as for the women, I find this to be a very odd way of speaking about women's sexuality. Women have attractions just like men do.
    3. Regarding the girls chasing the boy: Most all girls goes through this phase...hormones are high when you're young. Although admittedly it's hard to watch Muslims girls doing this. Not because they don't have the feelings, but because they are not expected to express them openly as non-Muslim girls do. Yes, success and status combined with looks can be attractive for girls. But it's most superficial, and as a girl becomes older and crosses into womanhood, this is tempered with a lot of other factors become more important.
    4. "Shyness" is not the same as speaking your mind, just fyi.
    5. No idea what Br. Gabriel was speaking about when he talked about women being "different from the front than the back"....but perhaps he was referring to the fact that women are not as direct as men..that's also from socialization. Society does not really reward women speak directly. They are seen as aggressive, so they learn to speak "nice and sweet" about things, even though you may not want to. Some women are better at this than others. And in fact, it's women like this that tend to be shamed by brothers like Gabriel as "feminists". Funny that.
    5. I think that finding a spouse for both Muslim women and men, but not necessarily for the reasons listed in this video.
    Like I said initially, I think this video does not encompass all of what women looks for in a man. Yes, physical looks and the ability to provide are important (and that's not a bad thing). For practicing Muslim women, character and faith are at the top of the list, too.
    Even a sense of humor can be a source of attraction for a woman. My point being it's much more complex and nuanced than Br. Gabriel makes it out to be.
    If you want a REAL idea of what women look for, watch this popular video by Honest Tea Talk. This is more of an accurate representation. ruclips.net/video/i3mWF4P9mAc/видео.html

    • @dspd0140
      @dspd0140 3 года назад +6

      The greatest fitna for men are women as said by our Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him). I don't like how you are using fitnah as if it was something impure . Fitnah means trials. And yes a woman not covering herself properly has a problem with Haya. Of course there are people exaggerating here and there but this is no excuse. If a woman is insecure about her body, then she should be more willing to cover properly in the first place. A Muslim shouldn't seek to be validated by society, the majority is non-Muslim.

    • @_Ruhul10
      @_Ruhul10 3 года назад +4

      ​@@dspd0140 she is a narcissist feminist clown she hates on brother gabriel passionately she acts like she has better knowledge then him on every matter don't waste your time lol.

    • @deedeee6271
      @deedeee6271 3 года назад +3

      @@dspd0140 Yes, that is exactly what I meant when I used the word fitna. Women are seen as impure and dirty (or a source of "dirty thoughts" for men). And that "good girls" are not supposed to project that to any man. Also, men need to understand, just b/c she doesn't cover doesn't mean she is trying to prostitute herself. She just hasn't come to the point in her faith life where she is ready to cover. Wear hijab is not easy, especially in the West.

    • @deedeee6271
      @deedeee6271 3 года назад +1

      @@_Ruhul10 Excuse me, you don't know me. Please don't comment here if you don't have anything nice and constructive to say.

    • @dspd0140
      @dspd0140 3 года назад +2

      @@deedeee6271 Being a source of lust=/= Being impure. We are asked to lower the gaze for a reason. It is much easier for men to be tempted by women especially in this era. Having desires isn't considered bad to begin with, it's using them in a haram manner that is bad(masturbation, dating, etc). I never said that wearing the hijab is easy and didn't say that non-hijabi are prostitutes either. However, it is a fact that she has a problem of modesty if she can't, which is part of faith.

  • @OnePunchMuslim
    @OnePunchMuslim 3 года назад

    Good vid brother. Enlightening

  • @MARYAM-Aspen
    @MARYAM-Aspen 3 года назад +3

    Abo 3obaida. He's hella attractive, and we don't even know what he looks like.

  • @MOHAMED-zd4ll
    @MOHAMED-zd4ll 3 года назад +1

    mashallah bro.important subject

  • @a.kedits8720
    @a.kedits8720 3 года назад +2

    You don't respect everyone you have respect those who deserves to be respected

  • @goodlifesince90
    @goodlifesince90 3 года назад +28

    What attracts a woman in my opinion in a man is :
    Respect
    appreciation
    Quality time
    Words of encouragement
    Actively engaged during a conversation
    Being a good dad to the kids.
    Having a good relationship with my family

    • @anonymousnoticer
      @anonymousnoticer 3 года назад +11

      You missed the most important deen 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @hamzasyed9749
      @hamzasyed9749 3 года назад +6

      @@anonymousnoticer I think deen ties them all together. If you have deen, you will have all of those.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 3 года назад +2

      @@anonymousnoticer of course 😄🤦‍♀️i forgot to mention that. But obviously deen is non negotiable (for me). This list is the extra things that are important.

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles 3 года назад +7

      confidence. If a man doesn't have that she'll quickly lose respect for him and leave.

    • @mistermaykul
      @mistermaykul 3 года назад +2

      Are you married? If you are not, I advise you to not expect your husband to be that engaged in conversation. Especially if you want a husband who is a good provider or one who is striving to be.

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 3 года назад +12

    That video reminds me of DAJJAL. Women will go crazy to follow him.
    May Allah safeguard us all from the fitna of DAJJAL. Aameen

    • @ndhikaatube
      @ndhikaatube 3 года назад

      @Millie Abdi what do you mean by "what do you mean"?

    • @sakilahmed6788
      @sakilahmed6788 3 года назад

      @bbmb they won't be able to control their desires unless they are very much strict with the religion

  • @abdallaabdelrahim4150
    @abdallaabdelrahim4150 3 года назад +20

    Hey Dr. I was just wondering where do you get your suits or are they tailored? Any recommendations in the UAE if so. Moreover, you have great content that I rarely see anyone tackle in this manner specifically from islamic paradigm and perspective.

  • @alghurraba
    @alghurraba 3 года назад +3

    A man should be provider and protector.

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba 3 года назад +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep that's what Quraan says. if men fail to do this they will be responsible on The Day.

    • @kaz9242
      @kaz9242 3 года назад +3

      @@alghurraba it takes two hands to clap. Don't expect to hear a clap with only one hand

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba 3 года назад

      @@kaz9242 exactly. Man has his responsibilities and woman has her responsibilities. Only if they both fulfil them, it will be balance and happiness.

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal 2 года назад +1

    Men, just be what Allah has commanded, and you will see barakah on your path. ♥️

  • @shaharia1591
    @shaharia1591 2 года назад +3

    Basically men have to be a chad muslim like me🗿
    Kidding... I have to improve chadness more😓

  • @rakivjabbar9632
    @rakivjabbar9632 3 года назад +9

    Gabriel is the one of the true scholars i come through. Those who attack him forget that hes guided by Allah.

    • @mk-ld8ih
      @mk-ld8ih 3 года назад +17

      He's not a scholar so refrain from referring to him as one. Masha Allah he's a student of knowledge.

  • @naffmusik2426
    @naffmusik2426 3 года назад +4

    Yes true good sheikh...make dua I get a good spouse 🤲👩‍❤️‍👩 InshaAllah Ameen 🌻

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 3 года назад

      What is a good spouse to you? And what are the needs of men? What do they want?

  • @zaidhernandez4601
    @zaidhernandez4601 2 года назад +1

    My main problem is how these female behaviors are super inflated nowadays and what they care about most are frequently also the most superficial. Like since women are competitive with each other and naturally want what other women like along with social media and everything it's crazy. Like a man in order to even be on the radar needs some crazy things that are ridiculous and not even practical at all. What needs to be valued at most is our deen and being a good provider...not a provider of mass amounts of dumb purses and trips everywhere, but instead what's actually practical and a bit of that superficial stuff because might as well, people like enjoying the gifts of Allah to a extent.

  • @aatif7518
    @aatif7518 3 года назад +10

    Height and muscular with regards to superficial aspect
    Both of these for symbolising dominance, sense of protection

    • @benardio6193
      @benardio6193 3 года назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @benardio6193
      @benardio6193 3 года назад

      You're a joke... Super what? 😂😂

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +3

      @@benardio6193 something funny bro?
      Superficial means outward appearance

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +1

      @Moo Miller actually most women like a bit of muscles over face but everyone is different
      By muscles, I mean natural and that's something definitely a plus
      Just like a lady's face is most important but body has a detrimental effect too

    • @zool4real369
      @zool4real369 3 года назад

      @@aatif7518 stop being mofty 😂 bro

  • @theterminator6121
    @theterminator6121 3 года назад +9

    There is no hope and help for the average man except Allah .

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 года назад +1

      Hahaha

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 3 года назад +1

      @@Purposeful_Scroll why you laughing

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 года назад

      @@theterminator6121 i found your comment funny & factual at the same time 😁👍

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 3 года назад +1

      @@Purposeful_Scroll thank you for these kind words

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 года назад +1

      @@theterminator6121 May Allah bless you with a pious & beautiful zaujah my bro ❤️

  • @yourfamilydoctor172
    @yourfamilydoctor172 2 года назад +1

    What women look for: financial and emotional security

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 3 года назад +4

    Are you telling us that the media, movies, and so on that cause women to go for attractive men ?maybe you have forgotten the story of the prophet Yusuf peace be on him. Women also like attractive well built men.

  • @aatif7518
    @aatif7518 3 года назад +12

    I don't care if she doesn't look like a model, don't care which nationality she is
    All I ask for is a religious HOUSEWIFE who is NOT materialistic
    Are there any women like these here? (Just checking if these are possible expectations and women like these were widely available before)

    • @benardio6193
      @benardio6193 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I know... But you won't find them now. It's just sad. You either deal with them or.....

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +6

      Oh, I forgot manners and bad words like using the word da*g
      Praying 5 times is the bare minimum, you are NOT religious if you do it, basic!
      Reading and memorizing also BASIC
      I mean a housewife who actively seeks ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE MEMORIZING THE WORKS OF SCHOLARS IN ARABIC AND IT'S EXPLANATION
      And no watching an Islamic lecture isn't knowledge
      So career women will DEFO not have time for Islamic knowledge when they have husbands and kids!
      And almost 90% of career women apply makeup outside, where is the Islamic knowledge here? Don't know what is halal and haram?

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +3

      @@frabgas27 it's really sad how many people think praying 5 times and reading Qur'an means you are religious

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +1

      @Moo Miller really not needed to over exaggerate the truth
      And o never claimed to be more religious
      I am talking about these women aren't religious

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад

      @Moo Miller yes praying and reading Qur'an is basic
      It doesn't mean one of practicing lol
      Each and every Muslim is SUPPOSED to do it

  • @emateiblin5409
    @emateiblin5409 3 года назад +23

    women are just as visual as men are. Personality only matters if the man is already good looking.

    • @vibes6255
      @vibes6255 3 года назад +12

      Yes but women are more forgiving with looks if he is rlly funny and has a good personality. That’s why comedians get a lot of woman

    • @RAH.910
      @RAH.910 3 года назад

      nope

    • @emateiblin5409
      @emateiblin5409 3 года назад +6

      @@vibes6255 That would only happen in a society in which women are financially dependent on men and also taught by culture/religion to choose personality and financial stability over looks. (most of the world today is the total opposite of that). Comedians usually have status and money. Women rate 80% of men to be below average in looks. blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 3 года назад +2

      @@emateiblin5409 this Man Talkin fax

    • @dspd0140
      @dspd0140 3 года назад +6

      "As visual as men"
      Nah, you don't know what you are talking about.

  • @shirinaakther6418
    @shirinaakther6418 3 года назад +9

    Assalamualikum Can you make a video on how to be consistent. For me Its easier to do something for one day but much difficult to make it a habit

    • @m9u7shuriken
      @m9u7shuriken 3 года назад +3

      I can give you advice that will change your life regarding this matter. And it is to take things slowly.
      You most likely go hardcore for that day so when tomorrow comes, you remember the trauma of yesterday and you are just put off from it.
      What you should do is take it very easy. So start of by just walking everyday for about an hour, rest during your walks if you get tired, you are not competing against anyone, the goal here is build up momentum with consistency.
      Once you've done this for a week or two and feel like your getting the hang of moving. Start doing running and walking; so you run as fast as you can for as long as you can and then walk untill you have rested, so untill your heart rate nears resting rate. Keep doing this in intervals and believe me, you will find that getting fit was never hard in the first place, but we make it hard by setting unrealistic goals for our workouts.
      And remember, people overestimate what they can achieve in a day, and underestimate what they can achieve in a year.
      Peace

    • @MultiOzzyProductions
      @MultiOzzyProductions 3 года назад +1

      Start being consistent in the most basic things like sleeping early at the same time, have a morning routine everyday, do your bed etc. When you are consistent in the small things it will help for the bigger things insha'Allah

    • @mysticminority9060
      @mysticminority9060 3 года назад

      Make dua then try your best.

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 Год назад +1

    Where are you from brother Gabriel?!

  • @aatif7518
    @aatif7518 3 года назад +11

    What do men look in a woman?
    A woman is willing to take care of her family without complaining (cooking, cleaning, etc)
    When men get these type of women, they will move mountains to please that lady coz she deserves it

    • @RAH.910
      @RAH.910 3 года назад

      you need to raise your standards
      are men really that easy
      to please? WOAH I am just shocked

    • @mysticminority9060
      @mysticminority9060 3 года назад +11

      @@RAH.910 Yes its really that simple to please man but most women on the other hand have many demands.

    • @anikaabida6019
      @anikaabida6019 3 года назад +5

      @@RAH.910 Actually they are pretty easy to please, like after my dad comes from a tiring day at work and when my mom makes his favourite dishes, instantly he is happy and gives compliments.

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад +2

      @@RAH.910 that's the main criteria
      If a husband when he sees his wife gets pleased, he will not wish for anything more
      When his wife cleans the home, cooks for him, he will be the happiest man in the world and he will be romantic too
      Opposite is also quite true, if she doesn't do, you can expect only bitterness from him

    • @mysticminority9060
      @mysticminority9060 3 года назад +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep Dont say god foresaken planet bro, remember this life is a test to see whether or not you will be grateful to Allah.

  • @goldentv8578
    @goldentv8578 3 года назад +1

    MashaAllah may Allah almighty bless you

  • @Selma-fp7ie
    @Selma-fp7ie 3 года назад +2

    I think we can use curtain instead of makeup

  • @Ok-gd3jl
    @Ok-gd3jl 3 года назад +12

    Money and looks

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 года назад

      Unfortunately

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 года назад +1

      Each women is different from one another. They have different qualities that they look for in a partner.
      But one thing is clear, if her partner lacks empathy for her , don't know her feelings and dont support her emotionally , then she will surely dislike him even if he is the most richest or handsome man in the world
      yes women do want the best husband in the world.
      But at the end of the day i think we must not forget that this life is imperfect. A person may not be perfect. He may have one good quality but may lack another. Most Women can understand this after they get married and may accept their fate and the Qadr of Allah .
      At best what they can do is to change them. For eg if her husband is not religious and not God conscious , she may give him dawah and talk about the wrath of Allah.
      About money , i have seen many women who dont really give importance to it. If he has enough money to provide for her and the kids then that is sufficient for her.
      At the end , it is subjective and may differ . There may be some who are intereseted about money.
      with regards to looks idk about that , Looks actually comes at the end of the list . For some girls an average man is more than enough . Looks will be useless if he doesnot understand her feelings and lacks empathy

    • @Ok-gd3jl
      @Ok-gd3jl 3 года назад +1

      @@shirinaakther6418 if a woman is so uninterested in me that she considers staying with me "accepting fait and qadr" then i don't want her. These women will never be happy and always be thinking about the "perfect man." That's why men should stay away from women. They can't give men unconditional love like men give them. Bad trade.

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 года назад

      @@Ok-gd3jl what??? you got it wrong . Im not saying that she will be uninterested in you .Mostly Many women forget about the list of qualities they want once they meet their partners.
      for eg among the list , she may want a humorous guy, but suppose that you are not a funny and a serious guy, why would she hate you for that , that's stupid , i mean there are plenty of other things to look at.
      Am sure she will be happy and will forget all the other things , if her husband understand her feelings and support her emotionally [ especially if he is an alpha male} .For her he is best husband in the world

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 года назад +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep idk ..........though statistically speaking height does matter for women.
      They want someone who is a bit taller to them. It also depends on her height. So if she is 5'1 then 5'6 is tall for her.
      Average height of a women is 5'4.......so you still have a chance

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 3 года назад

    Looks are important to women too

  • @marianamartinez4106
    @marianamartinez4106 3 года назад +1

    This Muslim brother is pretty accurate lol 😝

  • @ladyintheveil796
    @ladyintheveil796 3 года назад +1

    Every time Mahdi gets cornered, he changes the goal post, this is a common strategy when one can’t win an argument or has no basis for their claim.
    Very frustrating to watch.

    • @s0urbugz837
      @s0urbugz837 3 года назад

      How did he change it ? Can you explain further please

  • @navedian739
    @navedian739 2 года назад +1

    🌿اللوح المحفوظ🌿
    🌿البيت المعمور🌿

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 3 года назад +3

    May Allah forgive and protect all Muslims dead or alive and grant us jannah by His mercy Aameen yaa Rabb
    Let’s share the reward together few seconds great reward in sha Allah:)
    Al-Qur’an is the greatest dhikr🌳❤️🥰
    Subhan’Allah🌳❤️
    Alhamdu lillah🌳❤️
    Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌳❤️
    Allahu Akbar🌳❤️
    Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌳❤️
    Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌳❤️
    Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌳❤️
    May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🌳❤️
    Yaa Allah whoever read these Azkar guide and grant them jannah without judgment or punishment Allahumma Aameen🤲🏼❤️

  • @rh1no-m3v
    @rh1no-m3v 7 месяцев назад

    Good character is number 1

  • @Memic86
    @Memic86 3 года назад +2

    Better term for makeup is fakeup

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 3 года назад

    Subscribed 😀😀😀. Masha Allah

  • @TheOrganics01
    @TheOrganics01 2 года назад +1

    First is deen . Then if you marry him, u get attracted because Allah loves the halal. A woman gets attracted by her husband when she feels secure

  • @ibnamanot
    @ibnamanot 3 года назад +12

    Muslim or non-Muslim, women wants a tall, muscular, handsome, well-endowed man who can more than satisfy them.

    • @helenachristi7720
      @helenachristi7720 3 года назад +1

      Not true. For me I need an intellectual man.

    • @Geebee67
      @Geebee67 3 года назад

      So Not true stupid.

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 3 года назад

      @@Geebee67 he is talking about the general women you are most likely above that level in ignorance since you are calling him stupid he is your brother in islam

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 3 года назад +1

      Thats why you have a dog

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 3 года назад

      Stop describing me

  • @882517
    @882517 3 года назад +3

    I assume it has more to do with the personality type. There are people who prefer more depth and meaningful connections and others don’t. Not all men are like you describe them (mainly focus on looks) there are also some amazing ones who are thoughtful and have different values than those who focus on looks a lot. At the same time, there are also women who are more superficial and only care for looks. I doubt that it has much to do with gender.

    • @sundus928
      @sundus928 2 года назад

      True, especially if we look at Myer Briggs personality type. It's not always men or women. It's just people in general who have such personalitys.

  • @MohamedHassan-qx5cg
    @MohamedHassan-qx5cg 3 года назад +4

    Herd spirit when someone does something the rest of the group do it unconsciously

  • @sulthanilahi
    @sulthanilahi 3 года назад

    جزاك الله خير اخي

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238
    @yaslenemirandosimons1238 Год назад

    I'm married 22 years...✌💚👀alhamdulilaah

  • @DanishF
    @DanishF 2 года назад

    Salaam Br. Gabriel, what's your opinion on the muslim matrimony sites? What are the signs of a good site or bad site in terms of process and interaction?

  • @mohamedsmaili297
    @mohamedsmaili297 3 года назад

    بارك الله فيكم آمين

  • @Mountainfella
    @Mountainfella 3 года назад +2

    This video was brilliant masha’allah hit nail on this one.

  • @hadisergan1
    @hadisergan1 3 года назад

    oyalaikumussalam oyarahmatullahi oyabarkatuh, jajakAllah khairan, love you vai.

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238
    @yaslenemirandosimons1238 Год назад

    Aslm...I hear you...

  • @abusadi4742
    @abusadi4742 3 года назад

    How to reduce the stress of home management in one step and avoid kidney/heart disease.
    The man of the house should announce that it's a big stress on the head to buy different food every member of the home and clutter the home. All should eat the same. No individual taste preference

  • @ghurabaa114xx
    @ghurabaa114xx 2 года назад +1

    Females are attracted to males that are honest & respecting towards them :)

  • @modelstar7119
    @modelstar7119 2 года назад

    IF i could play this video every channel /every country ,,,I mean the speech its so beautiful and honest to the viewers,, ,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE VIDEO JUST END IT ...That makes you UNIQUE ...MASHALLAH 🤲🤲Respect and BLESSINGS to you INSHALLAH🤲🤲

  • @mahaalotaibi8352
    @mahaalotaibi8352 3 года назад +2

    Alhamdullah my husband is a very kind gentleman provider and loving however I dont feel any passion or chemistry with him even though he is very handsome. Please give me advice on this topic im really struggling internally. I was married before and I truly loved my first husband but my second one I feel no connection 💔

    • @sweettea1193
      @sweettea1193 3 года назад +13

      Maybe because you are comparing him to your first hubby.

    • @rustyray420
      @rustyray420 3 года назад

      There you go, you still have love for your first husband and cant let go.

    • @bananaboi2197
      @bananaboi2197 3 года назад +2

      It's just in your head. Pray to Allah so that chaytan doesn't plant the seed of division for stupid reasons.

    •  2 года назад +3

      It’s natural for a woman to feel this way. Women aren’t like men and they don’t have the ability to have love and affection for multiple men. It’s very clear in your own comment that your still in love with your previous husband and your trying to love current husband as well at the same time. Forgot you old husband. He’s not your husband anymore.

  • @haesa4863
    @haesa4863 2 года назад

    You should do one about what man want in a woman.

  • @aniqaliq7291
    @aniqaliq7291 3 года назад +6

    i think some women are more attracted to intellectual men who she can communicate with him intelligently...as some women believe...intellectual men are sexy in the long run...and especially a man who knows what she will do or what she will think or what she wants...just by observing her, yes a woman do attract to a man's physique but then again thats just lust or temporary...they will know him more and better through time in their marriage where lust might turn to love or might turn to hate , anger and frustration...i think most women more attracted to thinner men rather than fatter man..an ideal man should not be lazy dazzy ..they should be skilled...definitely they should defend their women and make her feel special...i remember...my dad whenever i went to the wet market during my teenage years (sunday market as we called it in my town)...whenever i bought food, vegs,etc...and when i carried the things i bought, my dad never failed to take it from my hand, always and whenever i asked money from him when i was in univ, he always give me more than i asked for...bless him...thats to me one of my father's loves he has shown me..when i was married, my kids had asma, happened nearly every 2 weeks 😊🤦‍♀️most of the time the father of my kids was not around...when i had to send my kids for oxygen at hospital nearby,i had to call my dad and he never said "huh" or "why", not even once...he went straight to my home and sent me to hospital, usually these happened most of the time at 3.00 am ( dont know why) and when i had shortage of money then, he willingly lent me eventho my hub had lots,he never questioned me, even now i think he still willing to lend me at his tender age if i ask from him...thats fathers love...he didnt ask me to obey him but he still love me , he didnt stop me from working or angry when i didnt work during my marriage but he still love me, he didnt blame me for my marriage, he just motivate me and my children until now eventho he has minor dementia..May Allah love him more than he loves me and that he has long healthy life so that i can take care of him.. if a man wants a woman to sacrifice for him, its an action and reaction scenario, love your wife unconditionally and she will love you more in return than you ever will...because most women are created in such a way.... she might not mind that man has more than 1 wife...becus her husband loves her unconditionally....there this famous saying.."a woman is cloth to man and man is cloth to woman".. the two of them perfect each other.. when her husband hold her hand...their sins will wash away like water streaming through their hands..and when a husband look at her with love and Allah will look at him with love too..when a wife cooked for him and had burnt mark on her hands...her sins will be forgiven..Marriage is MashaaALLAH if they play it right..its a short pathway to heaven but if they play it wrong then its a fast way to hell...scarry 😱..hope you guys enjoy reading this!!!!!

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 года назад

      Mashallah a great dad, and that last statement of men and women being clothes to each other is like a verse in the Quran.

    • @aniqaliq7291
      @aniqaliq7291 3 года назад

      @@MohammedAlSharif2002 thank you

  • @selinan3077
    @selinan3077 3 года назад +2

    Im wondering who was that guy running away..

  • @sahr366
    @sahr366 Год назад +1

    Mannerism and masculinity