I've been working in mental health field and been living in a Muslim community for a decade and I can say... it is absolutely true. It's amazing how Intimacy is so central to husbands and wives if only done in conformity with the teachings of Qur'an and Sunnah. I've been witnessing how people are venting in various ways- unIslamic ways. It's really heart breaking... May Allah bless your relentless work Brother Gabriel and may Allah facilitate to reach the whole Ummah.
I bet Brother Gabriel is such a good husband, he seems like it MashaAllah. Always great advice. And it makes it clearer to me how to articulate what I need in a man!
Assalam Aleikoum brother Gabriel. I am so glad I found your channel. I found it through a video of brother Saajid. I really appreciate how real you're keeping it. No sugarcoating all while being respectful. Your videos are very inspiring and motivating. Jazaka Allah khayran.
The african american community constantly talk-about having strong male figure in children lives - because it makes a major difference in how likely that child either succeeds or fails. For anyone living in america just a black person and they will tell you. The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.
Barak’Allahu feek brother. I would recommend speaking on the topic of sexual assault. I don’t know about other regions of the world, but unfortunately “more than 1 in 3 women [in the US] have experienced sexual violence” (CDC report), and the same report states “nearly 1 in 4 men”, and Muslims (especially reverts) are not excluded. Since you’re speaking about the subject of intimacy- masha’Allah and you’re doing a great job- this topic in relationship to intimacy problems could be a helpful and educational topic. Thank you, and may Allah عز و جل bless you and your family.
Assalamo alaykom brothers and sisters I'm a Muslim woman and we should talk about this more and help husbands and wifes and also teenagers. Jazakallahu khayran for this series Brother. May Allah reward you.
very refreshing. just been binge watching your videos,so needed , these issues are thought about amongst us but never openly discussed . jzk brother. its helped me so much
When I was a kid I lived in a place where male with the big belly were considered like being "The Big Boss" aka "Rich and famous" I can't believe it when I remember now!
-Overweight⚖️Underweight- Balance is 🗝️ Black Seed's apparently help men perform like their wives super heroes in bed! I'm divorced... Insha Allah... A husband is around the corner... Stocking up on some serious BLACK SEED'S! 😁
@@aatif7518 Apparently it does✨ WONDEROUS thing's 😁... I had no idea, until I stumbled upon this fact researching Black Seed Oil! Soo... Ladies...and Gents... I'd give it a shot! Might be the BEST SHOT IN THE DARK YOU'VE EVER MADE! Lol...🤣 Not kidding...
It's also hard after your 20's to stay in shape, especially in the Pandemic where Gyms are closed, Football clubs are closed, boxing Gyms are closed. Curfews, Oh, and Divorce rates in the Pandemic with all the stress that falls on Married folks.
@@RedRose-cn8ln it is still ok to call him sheikh or Ustath out of respect for him. Pls don’t forget that. Right now we are gaining knowledge from him so he is our ustath (teacher). It’s not a problem to call someone sheikh out of respect for them. Barakallahu feek
Alhamdulillah, Jazaak Allah khayrn. The Sheikh forgot a very important point that I have come to know in addition to what's addressed in the video. I can absolutely relate to what the sheikh is saying as myself I'm a mentor therapist but in addition I'm a Ruqya therapist. Many males and females suffer with intimacy and relationship issues due to jinn possession, envy, magic etc. The jinn and envy etc can interfere in intimacy and relationship inevitably causing marital discord. Shaytans aim is to divide rule conquer and instill illegal immoral lust desires in the believer's. (Jinn Aashiq Zaani)
@@ruqyahealinguk wht are the signs and wht may a person do to stay protected from it. its a bit scary when i first came to know abt it but i make sure to recite ayat ul qursi and Quls to stat protected from it and sihr
Yes, this discussion is much needed. So many Muslim women are running away from their husbands and in laws and families because the conversation is so taboo.
Temporary solution to insanity(hormonal problems)..This post below is taken from a forum.. .."Recently I had an endotoxin(bad gut bacteria) flare up and started getting a weird ear sound along with crazy neurological mania where I couldn't sleep for 48 hours basically. Never happened before. After a large raw carrot it cleared it up instantly and sleep resumed immediately through an unbelieveable 20 minute nap followed by a full 8 hours that night; and, the mania was gone."
First thing in the morning 🌄 take a probiotic on an empty stomach...wait 30min to eat breakfast... Eat 8oz. fermented vegetables... Sauerkraut especially...
Mash’Allah your bang on again sheikh. I have seen in uk friends and family’s marrying spouse from Bangldesh compared to uk how their behaviour effects the women’s attitudes. These men because they had the entry to uk through the women’s approval they behave some sort very weak more like a women so the wife will just treat him like a slave especially if she has bad character so the man will continue to put up because either feeling of submissive without choice or just to get his indefinite leave. I myself do not feel attracted to those men they are weak and not very confident in many things and when a wife is not attracted she will treat you anyhow she likes. Women also needs to be tamed by a men showing love, masculinity, confidence and anger at the right time otherwise you will be like my man is weak does he have any ***** I have close people who told me these men are such beggars even if you reject them they still want you, why don’t they have any balls to teach me a lesson then I will realise what I have lost so i will behave in the right way. No they are women they would rather have all the ranting from the wife in order to have their money. Mind you these men from back home love their money so much that they become a door mat and there is no transparency in them they are always hiding their finance. A real man will do everything openly he would be brave and confident, a women can sense it and won’t saying anything. Another major thing they are so tight with money god they have such weak small heart. I can go on more. Seriously our men are losing their masculinity.
@@Ricestlover I think you're exaggerating, most Bangladeshi women I know have abusive husbands/sons who don't respect women, they're lazy and don't work etc.
@@Ricestlover in UK at least most desis are backwards and poor. But the women in my story are working abroad and the men live back in Bangladesh on their wife's money.
Brother. Some people suffer from vaginismus. I wonder if you have any experience with dealing with this an if you can share some information about it. Jzk for your informative videos
Unfortunately some women only find out they have such conditions when they get married. It needs to be treated urgently otherwise it can have detrimental effects on a relationship. It can be caused by lack of emotional connection with the spouse and feeling unloved
@Kowsar Mohamud agree with your points about slandering. Your point about feminity and intimacy I'd say it is linked and Gabriel mentions this @ 27:10. How is a woman going to respect a feminine man and then by extension desire someone she doesn't respect or see as strong or reliable?
@Kowsar Mohamud Mufti menk and Ali Dawah tell women what they want to hear. So, I'm pretty sure there are women that after watching menk babble got even more self entitled and vindictive than they already were beforehand.
and yell just about a year ago a mom wanted me to meet her son and I said no then a few months later when I change my mind and I want to meet him I just found out that he’s dating someone else I feel very devastated😭
@@blueflame3531 well He was not supposed to move on and yes I can expect people to wait on me because if he really loved me he would not move on and he would wait on me forever😭
Just pretend you do not want it. She will be wondering why your not trying, and she may think you are not interested, so she will try. Believe me it will work every time, women do not like rejection 😂😂
I wondering how you basicilly know everything! The biggest problem is that many dads don't care about their kidz! Moms are to embarressed about say this to theirkidz, but dads are not, allah putted that shyness in us to talk about it spc to our sons,
Hey stranger we have many other 99.9% of channels out there to listen to who discuss about your "important topics" so why don't you "stop this rubbish" comment and leave his channel? As simple as that! Btw this is not attacking you. You're free to comment as much as you wish. It is just my sincere advice I would give my self and every one who is criticizing or is irritated to listen to such topics! Sensitive topics that are never discussed in other Muslim channels.
The problem you addessed about the food on minute 8:10 is really a problem in India and Pakistan. The food is really really bad. No diet caring whatsoever
I've been working in mental health field and been living in a Muslim community for a decade and I can say... it is absolutely true. It's amazing how Intimacy is so central to husbands and wives if only done in conformity with the teachings of Qur'an and Sunnah. I've been witnessing how people are venting in various ways- unIslamic ways. It's really heart breaking...
May Allah bless your relentless work Brother Gabriel and may Allah facilitate to reach the whole Ummah.
What’s the unislamic way? Feel free to share so we can teach our youth. Shukran
I bet Brother Gabriel is such a good husband, he seems like it MashaAllah. Always great advice. And it makes it clearer to me how to articulate what I need in a man!
Yes I think so to. Mash’Allah may Allah bless his family and marriage.
Where is br Gabriel from? Is he married??
Assalam Aleikoum brother Gabriel.
I am so glad I found your channel. I found it through a video of brother Saajid. I really appreciate how real you're keeping it. No sugarcoating all while being respectful. Your videos are very inspiring and motivating.
Jazaka Allah khayran.
Why are not many people watching this? Both married and unmarried should come and learn. May Allah S.W.T. help us seek beneficial knowledge. Ameen.
Good things are avoided bad things are accepted uks
Baraka Allah fiek Brother, keep on you are dealing with some very important problems the ummah suffers of.
The african american community constantly talk-about having strong male figure in children lives - because it makes a major difference in how likely that child either succeeds or fails. For anyone living in america just a black person and they will tell you. The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.
Barak’Allahu feek brother. I would recommend speaking on the topic of sexual assault. I don’t know about other regions of the world, but unfortunately “more than 1 in 3 women [in the US] have experienced sexual violence” (CDC report), and the same report states “nearly 1 in 4 men”, and Muslims (especially reverts) are not excluded. Since you’re speaking about the subject of intimacy- masha’Allah and you’re doing a great job- this topic in relationship to intimacy problems could be a helpful and educational topic. Thank you, and may Allah عز و جل bless you and your family.
@Religion comes first Islam comes first
1 out of 3 women are RAPED in AMERICA... or attempted rape!
@Religion comes first Islam comes first
She said that 30% of women are sexually harassed and 25% of men are sexually harassed with Muslims among them
@King khan Great khan
"she said" not me
Yes I agree this subject needs to be addressed
وَمِنْ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓاْ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَءَايَٰتٍۢ لِّقَوْمٍۢ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
@Black Roses Quran
Assalamo alaykom brothers and sisters I'm a Muslim woman and we should talk about this more and help husbands and wifes and also teenagers. Jazakallahu khayran for this series Brother. May Allah reward you.
Teenagers you said? Or those that are ready to get married?
May Allah reward you brother. This is amazing so beneficial.you are talking about topics we usually have no one to talk about
very refreshing. just been binge watching your videos,so needed , these issues are thought about amongst us but never openly discussed . jzk brother. its helped me so much
When I was a kid I lived in a place where male with the big belly were considered like being "The Big Boss" aka "Rich and famous" I can't believe it when I remember now!
Bc not every culture thinks thiness is good. In some countries women shouldn't be too thin and chubby is better.
@@Diamondraw4Real in those cultures, chubby is seen as healthy which is due to ignorance
-Overweight⚖️Underweight-
Balance is 🗝️
Black Seed's apparently help men perform like their wives super heroes in bed! I'm divorced...
Insha Allah... A husband is around the corner... Stocking up on some serious BLACK SEED'S! 😁
@@MonicaSĪGÑofJõñãhYUNIS black seeds help men ?
@@aatif7518 Apparently it does✨ WONDEROUS thing's 😁... I had no idea, until I stumbled upon this fact researching Black Seed Oil!
Soo... Ladies...and Gents... I'd give it a shot! Might be the BEST SHOT IN THE DARK YOU'VE EVER MADE! Lol...🤣 Not kidding...
It's also hard after your 20's to stay in shape, especially in the Pandemic where Gyms are closed, Football clubs are closed, boxing Gyms are closed. Curfews, Oh, and Divorce rates in the Pandemic with all the stress that falls on Married folks.
Barakallahoufik sheikh for this series, important subject
He is not sheikh
@@RedRose-cn8ln Check his older videos
@@artarak497 I am not shaikh she is right. Just a student. May Allah bless you
@@RedRose-cn8ln it is still ok to call him sheikh or Ustath out of respect for him. Pls don’t forget that. Right now we are gaining knowledge from him so he is our ustath (teacher). It’s not a problem to call someone sheikh out of respect for them. Barakallahu feek
@@RedRose-cn8ln respecting him won’t cost a dime maybe your country is different.
Jazaak ALLAHsw khayran Ustaaz Alromani🤗
People need to know this SUBHAAN ALLAHsw
Thank you dearly for your lesson & reminder
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BarakaAllah feekum!
Jazakallah khair
Excellent information!
Jezklahu kayren May Allah protect you, you really need you in this society.
Thank you for making this video
Love the realness
Alhamdulillah, Jazaak Allah khayrn.
The Sheikh forgot a very important point that I have come to know in addition to what's addressed in the video. I can absolutely relate to what the sheikh is saying as myself I'm a mentor therapist but in addition I'm a Ruqya therapist. Many males and females suffer with intimacy and relationship issues due to jinn possession, envy, magic etc. The jinn and envy etc can interfere in intimacy and relationship inevitably causing marital discord. Shaytans aim is to divide rule conquer and instill illegal immoral lust desires in the believer's. (Jinn Aashiq Zaani)
There is a.huge exaggeration when it comes to the jinn and sihir upon the masses of the ummah.
@@jasinjez3478 believe me it's NOT I wish it was.
@@ruqyahealinguk can a person overcome ashiq jin? and what are the signs of it
@meenharl yes they can overcome jinn aashiq requires understanding how to and consulting a raqi who knows individual specific case
@@ruqyahealinguk wht are the signs and wht may a person do to stay protected from it. its a bit scary when i first came to know abt it but i make sure to recite ayat ul qursi and Quls to stat protected from it and sihr
Jazakallahu khayr, keeping it real!
Thanks for the advice I appreciate you
Yes, this discussion is much needed. So many Muslim women are running away from their husbands and in laws and families because the conversation is so taboo.
Love the suit
Excellent 🎉
Thank you for helping me
Great video
Temporary solution to insanity(hormonal problems)..This post below is taken from a forum..
.."Recently I had an endotoxin(bad gut bacteria) flare up and started getting a weird ear sound along with crazy neurological mania where I couldn't sleep for 48 hours basically. Never happened before.
After a large raw carrot it cleared it up instantly and sleep resumed immediately through an unbelieveable 20 minute nap followed by a full 8 hours that night; and, the mania was gone."
First thing in the morning 🌄 take a probiotic on an empty stomach...wait 30min to eat breakfast...
Eat 8oz. fermented vegetables... Sauerkraut especially...
Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh ustadh
SIHR. EVIL EYE. ALSO A PROBLEM...........
Mash’Allah your bang on again sheikh. I have seen in uk friends and family’s marrying spouse from Bangldesh compared to uk how their behaviour effects the women’s attitudes. These men because they had the entry to uk through the women’s approval they behave some sort very weak more like a women so the wife will just treat him like a slave especially if she has bad character so the man will continue to put up because either feeling of submissive without choice or just to get his indefinite leave. I myself do not feel attracted to those men they are weak and not very confident in many things and when a wife is not attracted she will treat you anyhow she likes. Women also needs to be tamed by a men showing love, masculinity, confidence and anger at the right time otherwise you will be like my man is weak does he have any *****
I have close people who told me these men are such beggars even if you reject them they still want you, why don’t they have any balls to teach me a lesson then I will realise what I have lost so i will behave in the right way. No they are women they would rather have all the ranting from the wife in order to have their money. Mind you these men from back home love their money so much that they become a door mat and there is no transparency in them they are always hiding their finance. A real man will do everything openly he would be brave and confident, a women can sense it and won’t saying anything. Another major thing they are so tight with money god they have such weak small heart.
I can go on more. Seriously our men are losing their masculinity.
@@Ricestlover I think you're exaggerating, most Bangladeshi women I know have abusive husbands/sons who don't respect women, they're lazy and don't work etc.
@@sk-pp8uj idk where you live but in USA desi man work 12-18 hrs a day and have houses and cars
@@Ricestlover in UK at least most desis are backwards and poor. But the women in my story are working abroad and the men live back in Bangladesh on their wife's money.
@@sk-pp8uj that’s just wrong bro … these man needs guidance
Jazakallah khair
Brother. Some people suffer from vaginismus. I wonder if you have any experience with dealing with this an if you can share some information about it. Jzk for your informative videos
Unfortunately some women only find out they have such conditions when they get married. It needs to be treated urgently otherwise it can have detrimental effects on a relationship. It can be caused by lack of emotional connection with the spouse and feeling unloved
The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.
Agreed !
wa aleikom Assalaam wa rahmatuLlah wa barakatuH
Waaleikum salaam warahmatullahy wabarakatuh
Why and when do Men and Women reject intimacy? when they start listening to Mufti Menk and Ali Dawah.
True
@King khan Great khan I think he was referring to previous videos about mufti menk and femininity
@Kowsar Mohamud agree with your points about slandering.
Your point about feminity and intimacy I'd say it is linked and Gabriel mentions this @ 27:10. How is a woman going to respect a feminine man and then by extension desire someone she doesn't respect or see as strong or reliable?
@Kowsar Mohamud Mufti menk and Ali Dawah tell women what they want to hear. So, I'm pretty sure there are women that after watching menk babble got even more self entitled and vindictive than they already were beforehand.
@@hanzalaomar3234 Ali Dawah is pretty controversial to Mufti Menk who's more objective and more open minded to any situation than Ali Dawah.
Well what about having man who don’t get out house to go work and do for his family no woman wants husband home all the time in her way.
and yell just about a year ago a mom wanted me to meet her son and I said no then a few months later when I change my mind and I want to meet him I just found out that he’s dating someone else I feel very devastated😭
It wasn't meant for you. Say Alhamdullilah.
@@deedeee6271 Well supposed to be meant for me and I can make it for me😡
@King khan Great khan what do you mean?
@@adelineparrish9954 You said No. He moved on, can't expect people to wait on you.
@@blueflame3531 well He was not supposed to move on and yes I can expect people to wait on me because if he really loved me he would not move on and he would wait on me forever😭
True true
سلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
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Just pretend you do not want it. She will be wondering why your not trying, and she may think you are not interested, so she will try. Believe me it will work every time, women do not like rejection 😂😂
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I wondering how you basicilly know everything! The biggest problem is that many dads don't care about their kidz! Moms are to embarressed about say this to theirkidz, but dads are not, allah putted that shyness in us to talk about it spc to our sons,
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I don’t want dirt the sheets 😂 what??
Just get towel for intimacy time and put away afterwards
hygienne
Hey man we have many other important topics to discuss, stop this rubbish
Hey I’m Virgin
Hey stranger we have many other 99.9% of channels out there to listen to who discuss about your "important topics" so why don't you "stop this rubbish" comment and leave his channel? As simple as that! Btw this is not attacking you. You're free to comment as much as you wish. It is just my sincere advice I would give my self and every one who is criticizing or is irritated to listen to such topics! Sensitive topics that are never discussed in other Muslim channels.
@King khan Great khan in other words, he is saying in response that he is a virgin therefore this topic much is needed to learn tips for future
If you’re not happy about it move on !
We don’t need your rubbish here
Then you can look other chaannelsss byyyeeeeee...
The problem you addessed about the food on minute 8:10 is really a problem in India and Pakistan. The food is really really bad. No diet caring whatsoever
The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.
The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.
The brother making this video is 130% right. To all you who criticize stop trying to act holier than the prophet cuz you not.