You are absolutely right. Marriage market is decided by the earning power of the groom. Those men who are interested in getting married should focus on building a foundation first and then only look towards marriage. MAG
@@risinggamer3011 motivation to marry for high earning men should be to marry a high earning woman & not beauty. Beauty fades but wealth increases with time.
Earning money and being financial independent is very important being a woman or men because having money and wealth is very very important in life 💯💯💯
Money is the single most important factor whether practical or impractical People are mainly there for your money and not for you as a person or may give you importance till your money is disposable through your presence
Amazing Guruji.... vse toh guruji you said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage.
Wish we had this clarity some decades ago.. never mind Amit Sir.. better late than never.. hope this generation z and future generations discover the wisdom in your guru tatva elements..as you teach.. the guru appears when the student is ready .. Power punch in Gabbar's dialogue insertion btw 👍
@@Ritez_ main aapki stithi poora toh nahin lekin thode had tak samajh sakta hun mere dost... Aap sahi soch rahe hain.. 32 bohut critical age Hain hamari society mein.. aakhir main aapko hi nirnay Lena padega.. jaanta hoon bohot mushkil Hain ek raah chunna.. aapke aage aapka career, parents aur partner khade hain.. lekin jaisa Amit Ji ne bataya hain..aakhir mein ladke ka paisa hona , property hona aur achha career hona bohot maayne rakhta hai . Shanti se aapko khud decision Lena padega mere dost. Aapki tarakki ke liye shubh kaamna karta hoon.
This sir is like my uncle who tells me truth right on my face...fcuk i really needed such honest advice sir. Thanks for speaking on such sensitive topics
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
Majority of us don't care bout women's careers, or financial status. We want wives submissive , but last 50 yrs everything changing which lead to huge amount of issues in one man's average life
Right. Huge amount of issues for below average men who have nothing else to bring to the table other than their income....earlier they easily used to get submissive financially dependent wives who had nowhere else to go....sed lyf 🥲
Women too don't have anything to bring to the table other than their body which they sold 100s of times in their 20s so better shut your mouth @@fluffycalico
My mom is a decorated officer, like my dad. And my bhabhi is also working well. I saw both of them working so much. I want to work hard too but with financial ease of mind.
I wish I had this video in my college time...I have ruined my life by falling in love with nonsense girl ( I came to know it later)... regretting it...so guys, in my opinion, marry a girl who never lie at any cost, & who doesn't change her stand according to situation....
Awesome ❤️😃👍.Actually , this is also applicable to girls of (18-25 )yrs . Today girls are equally career oriented as much as boys and will choose life partner based on their standards also they might choose classmate as their life partner . So everyone he/she needs to career oriented and strong to face the battle of life . Career needs to be focus of your life and stability in marriage today depends on one's income and level of thinking , lifestyle . So financial independence and standard of living are equally important in choosing a life partner😇💐❤️😃👍
You loose 20% of female population at every phase: - birth - school education - college grad, post grad - work - well settled at work Because gender ratio is skewed. Now it becomes really difficult for a male to figure out a well settled working girl Girls have options and hence the choice becomes very difficult for well settled boys.
Very useful message. I have been following a girl who doesnt bothers me and wasted my precious time which i can used for studying but now i will shift my whole focus towards my goals for a period of next 5 years. Currently im 20 years old
This has to change I request guys to look for a partner who earns, otherwise this thing will never change. Both partners should earn amd run their families.
Sir, aapki baate ekdum dil ko touch kar jaati hai. Sacchi mai. Poore RUclips pe sirf aap hee aise ho jo ittna bluntly bolte ho. It really resonates with the youth. Bus ek hee request hai aapse, PLEASE NEVER STOP GUIDING THE YOUTH. Warna aaj kal ka youth yahi sab cheezo mai barbaad ho raha hai. Mai bhi unme se hee tha.
Amit ji , same holds true for young girls also. They also have few years to work hard and get good sustainable career. Girls ka to ho Jayega kya . Jo girls is stage Mei focus nahi karegi aa Gaye ja Kar life Mei kya hi ban jayegi.Unko bhi housewife ka hi role Melega, uska contributions desh ki GDP Mei zero hi rahega
We r not comparing housewife to working women. There is a big question to stay focused towards career and not getting distracted by opposite gender that needs to be addressed for youth.
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
No, same does not hold true for young girls as they can still get married to a rich man and live a luxurious life even when she has enjoyed with multiple men and does not earn anything..
Iska Solution Yehi Hai Ki Boys Aisi So Called "Beautiful" but faltu and unemployed to be Housewives Se Shadi Hi Na Kare. Boys Bhi Choosy Bane. Only Boys Can Change this #Jungle Ka Niyam. 😊.... Tab Tak Do Not Run After these Choosy girls and focus more on career.
Boys are simps and practical as well - they will never ever become choosy. A survey did find that only married men and unmarried women are happy - this data speaks a lot in itself that men become really happy after marriage. As a result, men will readily agree to marry housewife type girls provided they are sensible - the jungle ka niyam will never change, and it will always be girls who will choose competent men to marry. All men can do is to become competent so that they finally become marriage material.
Wah!! sir, Mazza aa gaya😊😊 please make one more video on this topic if someone is already wasted his 5/6 years actually one of my friend is in same situation his gf leave him because he is earning less than his gf ab mai usko ye hi bolta hu ki bhai yahi reason hai par vo samajhta hai nahi too app ek video banao ki if someone is him now boy apne aap ko kese sambhale kya kare agee kese focus kare
Men should not fall in love, they should struggle hard and achieve success and money. After marriage they should be kind, loving and dedicated to their wife. For women, they must struggle to look beautiful , they can like or love their boyfriend, but they must marry a rich and successful man . After marriage they must forget the past and love and remain dedicated to their husband. Rules in a progressive society.
As a woman I have one question, why aren't we encouraged to stand up for ourselves, isn't being independent applies to us ad well? Are we just for marriage and not having our own identity
It's not that relationship takes your time. It's that when you are getting constant external validation, you lose motivation to get it by working on yourself.
Can't agree more 👍. I always tell my sons same thing. There is time to work for their carriers, their goals. Pyar mohabbat ki dukan kholne ka time nahi hai. India pyar ki pipadi bajane ke liye nahi hai! Girls move on to greenar pastures and boy tuta hua dil tashtari per lekar ghumta rahta hai. Carrier barbaad, usee time ko use karke sincere ladke apna bhavishya bana lete hai. Bilkul sahi kaha apne👏👏👏
Sango, I have listened to a lot of your videos ... and I agree to all of them but I differ here. Sometimes Boys and girls are both smart and when you meet a person whose goals are bigger than yours, they work together and achieve a bigger victory. My friend was an average doctor, met this boy who was topper. Today they both are married have 2 kids and are one of best doctors in USA. So it depends sometimes , 2 pair of hands working towards a common goal brings outstanding results.
I agree , I am currently in a relationship which helps me grow it's not timepass, but I think he's talking about the majority of people of people who don't have such internal clarity and emotional intelligence to independently find an intelligent partner
Wrong, get into relationship but do not make it no 1 priority. Also do not chase girls. Chasing takes away a lot of times and is not worth. When you become successful be choosy. Do not chose girls with past baggage.
Sir I want to add a point for youth - At the stage of 12 standard in education and thereafter for next 5 years give 💯 percent of yours in whatever field you are and then enjoy life for next 50 years Else Enjoy in these 5years and struggle in life for next 50 years The choice is in the hands of individuals at this stage of life Thanks
There is nothing like you're gonna struggle if you don't do these things. You can study hard and still find joy by going for a walk in the park enjoying nature. Or you can even play sports to build discipline.
My dp is with my wife and I feel very happy. Yaar apni wife ko apne saat duniya ke samne face karni ki himat kari hey isko toh appreciate karo. Sab log aajkal ek hi baat ke piche pade ya toh shadi mat karo aur kar li hey toh wife ko jayda bhav mat do😅😅😅
True. Jab aapki wife khush hoti hai to bachhe bhi khush hote hai. Meri mother aur father me cheeze sahi nahi hai shuru se kabhi mummy ko papa ne bilkul value nahi di. Jiski vaja se meri mummy bilkul khush nahi hai aur uska direct asar mere aur mere bhai ki parvarish par pada . Apni maa ko rote aur dukhi dekhne se bhot zyada man dukhta hai bachho ka. Isliye brother aap bhot achhe ho jo apni wife ke saath khush rhete ho . Please continue this for your children’s happiness also! Agar aapki wife aur aap saath me khush rahoge na to you will also have a healthy mind and healthy old age life and also a good relationship with your children. :))❤️
I don't completely agree with the thought. To give a background, I am an NIT (Gold Medalist), an IIM graduate and an entrepreneur and happily married. I have had 10+ relationships (not proud or ashamed) over past 15 years. While I agree that getting involved with girls at age of 18 takes away your time and energy but it also gives you a maturity about the other sex. I have seen so many males in late 20's and 30s who are afraid to talk to girls because they were always studying in schools and colleges and didn't get comfortable with females and ended up developing strong and false stereotypes. As an entrepreneur also, we literally miss out on thought process of 50% of the market because the only females we would be in touch with would be our sister, mother or would be wife.
Yes there are people who are able to manage both but the video is being made for 90% of the youth who is indulged in these activities, wasting their time and ultimately not reaching anywhere.
Woman perspective samajhne ke liye, love shove pe time waste karna zaroori nahi. Plus most of the yoyng generation give more weightage to relationships, rather than focusing on building a career, with a few exceptions which manage both. You have been happily married because you have those titles, berozgaar hote toh kuch aur baat ho sakti thi, but I hope not. This video is for those young fellows who have no career goals yet indulge in side affairs.
@@danielcruise8644 Bhai jo young ladke, ladki ke chakkar mei, drug and alcohol mei phasse baithe hai, so called 'Kabirs' unse poocho jaake, and haan un ladko ki family se, jinhone young age me ladkiyon ke chakkar mei crime or suicide tak kiya hai, unki family se bhi poochna zra ki kaunsa raasta liya hota, toh acha hota.
Please aap girls jo college Mei apne career par concentrate karne ki jagah time in ladko ke saath waste Kar rahi hai unko bhi counseling chahiye. Is par bhi video banye.
Well...the other side of this opinion is that there are guys who are average but just to impress their intelligent crush , they study hard and become something to get thier love... love can b a motivation to achieve things...ladkon ko IAS bnte dekha hai sir to ask for their gf's hand in marriage
Because men have nothing at stake , they don't understand the reality of women's mind..and they suffer after breakup..whereas women have to plan this because they know what is at stake..Men should be aware of what is at stake and what they want...Men should also do planning..well how things are going ..women will suffer in future in getting good male partner as gendre ratio and rights are getting equal.
Women who do not accomplish much career wise are subjected to a life of ‘gulami’. But that is acceptable to many and its okay. Those who want to avoid slavery should follow what applies for men - stay focused and run away from any form of emotional entanglement.
I feel that a relationship is necessarily required to have a structure, which is provided by money gender roles and kids but its not necessary that two people who are in a structure of marriage are also in love with each other And that is because indians from their childhood are not supported or inclinated towards manifesting a true love relationship with someone and because there is such lack of emotional intelligence and clarity it becomes necessary to follow that structure of marriage otherwise people here would not even enter the family making process till wayyy latw in their life I personally feel the more evolved thing would be to wait for the right person doesn't matter how long it takes Otherwise just like our mothers bhuajis and tayijis these women will also find themselves late in life being dissatisfied with their love life and marriages except maybe for their children Extra marital affairs are already on the rise and in the future because of this Indian system of prioritising the family structure over finding true love and influences from the western culture families will break way more often than they are breaking right now Indians need to love more and earlier than when their parents did It is because of the pressure of success otherwise no wife Indian men commit suicide....this system needs to change i personally feel you should start dating as early as you can provided that you definitely don't sacrifice your career or mental health in the process Get married asap, grow for and with each other❤ ❤
Ye sab se better salah hai mat phase pyar ke lafde mai kaisa bhi love pehle success ho jao phir best partner dhundo most important thing in life to find right one warna akele raho, sex ke bahut raste hai don’t fall in trap
Women should do the opposite, women should do marriage in their 20s, after birth they should look to do business, imo. If too many women wouldn't have children it is extremely bad for the country.
In most other things I agree with you but in this case I think few people want a genuine partner even for that part of life to even survive, literally few people around me don't even feel the need to grow in life as they are alone no hope in life getting depressed like hell. Those people need to do this if not they won't be able to survive even.
Sir kisi bhi concept ko clarity ke sath kese understand kare so that hum bi utni clarity saath smjha sake . How can we DEVELOP, ENHANCE and SUSTAIN that level of clarity and understanding within us.? Thankful to you💐for sharing such useful insights.
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"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners."
Nice
Utter rubbish and non sense. It isn't wise to believe in such biases.
True.
Agreed
Real truth for present, unfortunately I experienced it.
In dating market, young beautiful women have higher bargaining power. In marriage market rich and successful men have higher bargaining power.
Primitive choices
Actually, both have higher bargaining power even beautiful young women
@@proudindian-73I don't think so bcoj many parents get worries for their daughters when they do not have a bf with a good job.
You are absolutely right. Marriage market is decided by the earning power of the groom. Those men who are interested in getting married should focus on building a foundation first and then only look towards marriage. MAG
It's not a guarantee that you will get a good looking girl even after decent earning , but chances that you can get a earning girl will be high.
@@risinggamer3011 motivation to marry for high earning men should be to marry a high earning woman & not beauty. Beauty fades but wealth increases with time.
@@frc_sc9114 yes brother but wealth will never be yours . It will just pass to others.
@deusphyllis so true 💯💯
Earning money and being financial independent is very important being a woman or men because having money and wealth is very very important in life 💯💯💯
Sakht Uncle ki Sakht advice to youth...100% agree
Can't we have a emotional friend who is female... it gives a feelings in cllg life like a high level drug ❤
Money is the single most important factor whether practical or impractical
People are mainly there for your money and not for you as a person or may give you importance till your money is disposable through your presence
Oh god.... you put all the right things together 😂😂
Haha truth is always bitter
Amazing Guruji.... vse toh guruji you said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage.
If the boy is successful they don't need to cook
Dono ek hi kaam karenge to dono kuch bhi dhang se nai kar payenge 😅
If you are not contributing your finances to the marriage, then you have to do something else.. and that should be 100% not 50-50.. There is no 50-50
Wish we had this clarity some decades ago.. never mind Amit Sir.. better late than never.. hope this generation z and future generations discover the wisdom in your guru tatva elements..as you teach.. the guru appears when the student is ready .. Power punch in Gabbar's dialogue insertion btw 👍
@@Ritez_ Clarity in terms of primary goals of life at a young age..for career, long term prosperity and happiness.
Hope this answers your query.
@@Ritez_ yes
@@Ritez_ main aapki stithi poora toh nahin lekin thode had tak samajh sakta hun mere dost... Aap sahi soch rahe hain.. 32 bohut critical age Hain hamari society mein.. aakhir main aapko hi nirnay Lena padega.. jaanta hoon bohot mushkil Hain ek raah chunna.. aapke aage aapka career, parents aur partner khade hain.. lekin jaisa Amit Ji ne bataya hain..aakhir mein ladke ka paisa hona , property hona aur achha career hona bohot maayne rakhta hai . Shanti se aapko khud decision Lena padega mere dost. Aapki tarakki ke liye shubh kaamna karta hoon.
This sir is like my uncle who tells me truth right on my face...fcuk i really needed such honest advice sir. Thanks for speaking on such sensitive topics
Yahi hai yahi hai yahi hai
Took my heart away 😊
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
Majority of us don't care bout women's careers, or financial status. We want wives submissive , but last 50 yrs everything changing which lead to huge amount of issues in one man's average life
Right. Huge amount of issues for below average men who have nothing else to bring to the table other than their income....earlier they easily used to get submissive financially dependent wives who had nowhere else to go....sed lyf 🥲
Women too don't have anything to bring to the table other than their body which they sold 100s of times in their 20s so better shut your mouth @@fluffycalico
Good sense of humour ! Practically this is what happens!!!
My mom is a decorated officer, like my dad. And my bhabhi is also working well. I saw both of them working so much. I want to work hard too but with financial ease of mind.
I wish I had this video in my college time...I have ruined my life by falling in love with nonsense girl ( I came to know it later)... regretting it...so guys, in my opinion, marry a girl who never lie at any cost, & who doesn't change her stand according to situation....
@@jlfEJLFcbNsdyEN only few remains forever.... that's the reality.
Awesome ❤️😃👍.Actually , this is also applicable to girls of (18-25 )yrs . Today girls are equally career oriented as much as boys and will choose life partner based on their standards also they might choose classmate as their life partner . So everyone he/she needs to career oriented and strong to face the battle of life . Career needs to be focus of your life and stability in marriage today depends on one's income and level of thinking , lifestyle . So financial independence and standard of living are equally important in choosing a life partner😇💐❤️😃👍
Not many very few are interested in working. Jisko bethe bithaye sab mil raha ho usko mehnat kyun karna.
☕
You loose 20% of female population at every phase:
- birth
- school education
- college grad, post grad
- work
- well settled at work
Because gender ratio is skewed.
Now it becomes really difficult for a male to figure out a well settled working girl
Girls have options and hence the choice becomes very difficult for well settled boys.
भाई पर सबसे ज्यादा ट्रक तो इसी उमर में होती है ना 😂😂
True 💯💯
Good message to youth sir..message for youth who are living in virtual life..thank you sir
Not only men should avoid but most importantly woman should avoid falling in men's love trap in any age applicable .
Girls never falls in men's love trap, even if they do , they are serious about their career, only boys are like that
Even if women falls in love trap still she can marry a rich man even if she remains unemployed..
Reality - Girl dates hero type , marries सेठ type
That's true
😂
🤣🤣
@@darkhorse5489 lol. Well said. Boys also like to date babe type and marry dodh-ki-dhooli type. 😀
Why not become both
Very useful message. I have been following a girl who doesnt bothers me and wasted my precious time which i can used for studying but now i will shift my whole focus towards my goals for a period of next 5 years. Currently im 20 years old
Very practical advice. Bachelors need to hear this.
Sakht launda, is the right answer.
Yes, 😋
🤣😂🤣😂
Sahi baat
Maan gaye saare point pakad lete ho aap sango saab 😀
This has to change I request guys to look for a partner who earns, otherwise this thing will never change. Both partners should earn amd run their families.
Sir, aapki baate ekdum dil ko touch kar jaati hai. Sacchi mai. Poore RUclips pe sirf aap hee aise ho jo ittna bluntly bolte ho. It really resonates with the youth. Bus ek hee request hai aapse, PLEASE NEVER STOP GUIDING THE YOUTH. Warna aaj kal ka youth yahi sab cheezo mai barbaad ho raha hai. Mai bhi unme se hee tha.
Amit ji , same holds true for young girls also. They also have few years to work hard and get good sustainable career. Girls ka to ho Jayega kya . Jo girls is stage Mei focus nahi karegi aa Gaye ja Kar life Mei kya hi ban jayegi.Unko bhi housewife ka hi role Melega, uska contributions desh ki GDP Mei zero hi rahega
We r not comparing housewife to working women. There is a big question to stay focused towards career and not getting distracted by opposite gender that needs to be addressed for youth.
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
Reality hai
Reality @@adarshdwivedi1950
No, same does not hold true for young girls as they can still get married to a rich man and live a luxurious life even when she has enjoyed with multiple men and does not earn anything..
Sir,
How you could be so blunt. 3:42
I feel your blunt pieces of advice could save teenagers of falling prey to fantasies of films.🙏
Rightly said Guruji
Thank you for showing me right path.
Iska Solution Yehi Hai Ki Boys Aisi So Called "Beautiful" but faltu and unemployed to be Housewives Se Shadi Hi Na Kare. Boys Bhi Choosy Bane. Only Boys Can Change this #Jungle Ka Niyam. 😊.... Tab Tak Do Not Run After these Choosy girls and focus more on career.
Boys are simps and practical as well - they will never ever become choosy. A survey did find that only married men and unmarried women are happy - this data speaks a lot in itself that men become really happy after marriage. As a result, men will readily agree to marry housewife type girls provided they are sensible - the jungle ka niyam will never change, and it will always be girls who will choose competent men to marry. All men can do is to become competent so that they finally become marriage material.
agreed
Yes, totally agree with you. Literally you are talking about sexual selection in human.
Wah!! sir, Mazza aa gaya😊😊 please make one more video on this topic if someone is already wasted his 5/6 years actually one of my friend is in same situation his gf leave him because he is earning less than his gf ab mai usko ye hi bolta hu ki bhai yahi reason hai par vo samajhta hai nahi too app ek video banao ki if someone is him now boy apne aap ko kese sambhale kya kare agee kese focus kare
True words ...I resonate with you
I usually send your videos to my sons to open their eyes 🙏🙏
Pranam gurujee...
U have change my life...
Thanks..for clearity n wisdom..
Live from bottom of my heart..
Great advice for youth ,
Aag sirji 🔥🔥🔥
A much needed video as my college is starting next month
Men should not fall in love, they should struggle hard and achieve success and money. After marriage they should be kind, loving and dedicated to their wife.
For women, they must struggle to look beautiful , they can like or love their boyfriend, but they must marry a rich and successful man . After marriage they must forget the past and love and remain dedicated to their husband.
Rules in a progressive society.
How men work hard whereas women love but whom?🤔🤔🤔🤨
Hahah..bhai Human hai yaa Robot
@@bondpond2388😂 sach meh
Bhai itna sach nhi kahana tha ! 😂
As a woman I have one question, why aren't we encouraged to stand up for ourselves, isn't being independent applies to us ad well? Are we just for marriage and not having our own identity
Sir you are speaking truth I have experience it...
I wish I had your advice when I was a young man.
We should rise in love 🔥🔥
It's not that relationship takes your time. It's that when you are getting constant external validation, you lose motivation to get it by working on yourself.
Can't agree more 👍. I always tell my sons same thing. There is time to work for their carriers, their goals. Pyar mohabbat ki dukan kholne ka time nahi hai. India pyar ki pipadi bajane ke liye nahi hai! Girls move on to greenar pastures and boy tuta hua dil tashtari per lekar ghumta rahta hai. Carrier barbaad, usee time ko use karke sincere ladke apna bhavishya bana lete hai. Bilkul sahi kaha apne👏👏👏
Sango, I have listened to a lot of your videos ... and I agree to all of them but I differ here.
Sometimes Boys and girls are both smart and when you meet a person whose goals are bigger than yours, they work together and achieve a bigger victory.
My friend was an average doctor, met this boy who was topper. Today they both are married have 2 kids and are one of best doctors in USA.
So it depends sometimes , 2 pair of hands working towards a common goal brings outstanding results.
I agree , I am currently in a relationship which helps me grow it's not timepass, but I think he's talking about the majority of people of people who don't have such internal clarity and emotional intelligence to independently find an intelligent partner
Wrong, get into relationship but do not make it no 1 priority. Also do not chase girls. Chasing takes away a lot of times and is not worth.
When you become successful be choosy. Do not chose girls with past baggage.
Really very good advice
@@khushalingole5931 past baggage means what?
What about girls ? Should they choose guys with past baggage ?
@izoldics Then why should women choose guys with past baggage?
@izoldics I'm a man not a woman!
Great perspective 👍
Sir I want to add a point for youth -
At the stage of 12 standard in education and thereafter for next 5 years give 💯 percent of yours in whatever field you are and then enjoy life for next 50 years
Else
Enjoy in these 5years and struggle in life for next 50 years
The choice is in the hands of individuals at this stage of life
Thanks
Only thing to be known is don't be in serious or committed relation so that you can be free to think and act for life in future
There is nothing like you're gonna struggle if you don't do these things.
You can study hard and still find joy by going for a walk in the park enjoying nature.
Or you can even play sports to build discipline.
Hard hitting but true
Best advice
If you like someone talk to them
But don't attached
Don't have regret
100% right but some time you can't control your feelings
My dp is with my wife and I feel very happy. Yaar apni wife ko apne saat duniya ke samne face karni ki himat kari hey isko toh appreciate karo. Sab log aajkal ek hi baat ke piche pade ya toh shadi mat karo aur kar li hey toh wife ko jayda bhav mat do😅😅😅
True. Jab aapki wife khush hoti hai to bachhe bhi khush hote hai. Meri mother aur father me cheeze sahi nahi hai shuru se kabhi mummy ko papa ne bilkul value nahi di. Jiski vaja se meri mummy bilkul khush nahi hai aur uska direct asar mere aur mere bhai ki parvarish par pada . Apni maa ko rote aur dukhi dekhne se bhot zyada man dukhta hai bachho ka. Isliye brother aap bhot achhe ho jo apni wife ke saath khush rhete ho . Please continue this for your children’s happiness also! Agar aapki wife aur aap saath me khush rahoge na to you will also have a healthy mind and healthy old age life and also a good relationship with your children. :))❤️
Wish I had your channel in my youth
Falling in love at college level faltu ki cheez hai. It is dangerous to your pocket and career as well 🤣😀😀
Very nice video.....pls make such videos for university and high school kids. They really need guidance. 🙏
Very much needed video❤❤
Thanks you sir
The BEST VIDEO
Someone should have told me this 10 yrs back .
I don't completely agree with the thought. To give a background, I am an NIT (Gold Medalist), an IIM graduate and an entrepreneur and happily married. I have had 10+ relationships (not proud or ashamed) over past 15 years. While I agree that getting involved with girls at age of 18 takes away your time and energy but it also gives you a maturity about the other sex. I have seen so many males in late 20's and 30s who are afraid to talk to girls because they were always studying in schools and colleges and didn't get comfortable with females and ended up developing strong and false stereotypes. As an entrepreneur also, we literally miss out on thought process of 50% of the market because the only females we would be in touch with would be our sister, mother or would be wife.
Yes there are people who are able to manage both but the video is being made for 90% of the youth who is indulged in these activities, wasting their time and ultimately not reaching anywhere.
Woman perspective samajhne ke liye, love shove pe time waste karna zaroori nahi. Plus most of the yoyng generation give more weightage to relationships, rather than focusing on building a career, with a few exceptions which manage both. You have been happily married because you have those titles, berozgaar hote toh kuch aur baat ho sakti thi, but I hope not. This video is for those young fellows who have no career goals yet indulge in side affairs.
videos are for the 95% of the public, congrats u r in 5%.. LOL
@@SapiensIndica women perspective janane ka iske alava koi rasta nhi h
@@danielcruise8644 Bhai jo young ladke, ladki ke chakkar mei, drug and alcohol mei phasse baithe hai, so called 'Kabirs' unse poocho jaake, and haan un ladko ki family se, jinhone young age me ladkiyon ke chakkar mei crime or suicide tak kiya hai, unki family se bhi poochna zra ki kaunsa raasta liya hota, toh acha hota.
Yes sir i agree 100%
ek dam sahi kahaa guru ji
Seedhi baat...no bakwas...
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Mature content
Please aap girls jo college Mei apne career par concentrate karne ki jagah time in ladko ke saath waste Kar rahi hai unko bhi counseling chahiye. Is par bhi video banye.
Ye toh un ladkiyo ko khud sochna chahiye...bus Oyo me Jake maze karna hai bus
Women work to gain independence from family.
Men work to take responsibility for the family.
Aap aur mai same nhi hai.
Yahi hai , yahi hai ….ye jeevan hai 😊👍
Thank You!
Nobody was there to advise me about this topic in my youth. 😮
Well...the other side of this opinion is that there are guys who are average but just to impress their intelligent crush , they study hard and become something to get thier love... love can b a motivation to achieve things...ladkon ko IAS bnte dekha hai sir to ask for their gf's hand in marriage
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You are right....
Amitji aap sahi baat kar rahe hain
It's more addictive than alcohol and cigarette
Because men have nothing at stake , they don't understand the reality of women's mind..and they suffer after breakup..whereas women have to plan this because they know what is at stake..Men should be aware of what is at stake and what they want...Men should also do planning..well how things are going ..women will suffer in future in getting good male partner as gendre ratio and rights are getting equal.
Yehi hai........👏👏👏
Why it's call fall in love rather than raise in love😊
"rise" not "raise".
Women who do not accomplish much career wise are subjected to a life of ‘gulami’. But that is acceptable to many and its okay. Those who want to avoid slavery should follow what applies for men - stay focused and run away from any form of emotional entanglement.
I feel that a relationship is necessarily required to have a structure, which is provided by money gender roles and kids but its not necessary that two people who are in a structure of marriage are also in love with each other
And that is because indians from their childhood are not supported or inclinated towards manifesting a true love relationship with someone and because there is such lack of emotional intelligence and clarity it becomes necessary to follow that structure of marriage otherwise people here would not even enter the family making process till wayyy latw in their life
I personally feel the more evolved thing would be to wait for the right person doesn't matter how long it takes
Otherwise just like our mothers bhuajis and tayijis these women will also find themselves late in life being dissatisfied with their love life and marriages except maybe for their children
Extra marital affairs are already on the rise and in the future because of this Indian system of prioritising the family structure over finding true love and influences from the western culture families will break way more often than they are breaking right now
Indians need to love more and earlier than when their parents did
It is because of the pressure of success otherwise no wife Indian men commit suicide....this system needs to change i personally feel you should start dating as early as you can provided that you definitely don't sacrifice your career or mental health in the process
Get married asap, grow for and with each other❤ ❤
Well said sir
Ye sab se better salah hai mat phase pyar ke lafde mai kaisa bhi love pehle success ho jao phir best partner dhundo most important thing in life to find right one warna akele raho, sex ke bahut raste hai don’t fall in trap
Thanks sir ji
Yes sir ❤
Make a vedio on why women must avoid falling in trap of love in their 20s ? And why it so important for their lifetime sucess and freedom....
Women should do the opposite, women should do marriage in their 20s, after birth they should look to do business, imo.
If too many women wouldn't have children it is extremely bad for the country.
Ladko ko hi ye baat smjhne ki jroort h, ladkiya smjhdar hoti h
Girls are good but as a man I don't think I can cope up with responsibility so I rather stay single
Excellent
In most other things I agree with you but in this case I think few people want a genuine partner even for that part of life to even survive, literally few people around me don't even feel the need to grow in life as they are alone no hope in life getting depressed like hell. Those people need to do this if not they won't be able to survive even.
Bitter truth but better life
I feel, atleast One punch is required in early age ,to b a pure gold.
Absolutely true
Sir please make a video on the age gap between two partners in a relationship or marriage. What's the saffer gap .
Acha bahut lagata hai let me tell you is best line
Right
Sakth Uncle ki Sakth advice for youth to become Sakth Launda.❤❤❤❤❤❤
An Intelligent girl will always choose a financial stable person rather than a chapri😅
Iss video ko dekhne ke baad mujhe bohot lagta hai hum sahi kar rhe hain life main 😅
Guys Don't think that girls are choosy Girl's Parents are choosy.
True sir
3:32 okay
Sir aap bhagwan ho Sir aap bhagwan ho
Nice
Sir kisi bhi concept ko clarity ke sath kese understand kare so that hum bi utni clarity saath smjha sake .
How can we DEVELOP, ENHANCE and SUSTAIN that level of clarity and understanding within us.?
Thankful to you💐for sharing such useful insights.
True fact