How to Train your Mind to Stop Falling in Love

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  • Опубликовано: 13 фев 2020
  • Shwetabh Gangwar, Author of The Rudest Book Ever, talks about how to train your mind to control stop having crushes on girls or guys. How to stop falling in love with every beautiful girl you see!
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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  4 года назад +1253

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    • @ROHITKUMAR-mz4qg
      @ROHITKUMAR-mz4qg 4 года назад +7

      Bhai aap kha se belong krte ho 🙏🏻❤️

    • @SP-xb9dv
      @SP-xb9dv 4 года назад +3

      Sir book hindi me hogi ya english me??

    • @ronymallick
      @ronymallick 4 года назад +2

      👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

    • @ronymallick
      @ronymallick 4 года назад +2

      @@SP-xb9dv English

    • @Aryan-pj3iw
      @Aryan-pj3iw 4 года назад +5

      @Diversions and reality tum toh saakshaart machine ho bhai

  • @user-kx2ik9xw3i
    @user-kx2ik9xw3i 3 месяца назад +129

    Anybody in 2024 ?

  • @surajbelbase6212
    @surajbelbase6212 3 года назад +5410

    Falling asleep is better than falling in love.. atleast you get a peaceful mind 😀😀

    • @vipinniar7425
      @vipinniar7425 3 года назад +98

      Falling from bed in kids.. Even better

    • @inayathussain7383
      @inayathussain7383 3 года назад +29

      True bro 😂💯💯

    • @shashirupwate8105
      @shashirupwate8105 3 года назад +15

      Areyyyyyy hahahaha hhahaahhaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 bilkul sahi bhai

    • @erendripaeger9875
      @erendripaeger9875 3 года назад +3

      @@vipinniar7425 bilkul sch 😂

    • @sandhuboxer5511
      @sandhuboxer5511 3 года назад +17

      As true as fuck 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @GOODBOY-ic6tf
    @GOODBOY-ic6tf 11 месяцев назад +513

    1. No fake scenarios
    2. No expectations
    3. It's an biological attraction
    4. It's no so called LOVE
    5. Focus on goals
    6. Let the time & Life decide your soulmate
    7. Have patience

    • @bibhutisingha
      @bibhutisingha 10 месяцев назад +4

      I love your 5th and 6th line👍🏻

    • @arunkumark3118
      @arunkumark3118 9 месяцев назад +1

      So nice

    • @yusranaaz9406
      @yusranaaz9406 5 месяцев назад +5

      Umm.. but how to stop thinking about these f*uckin dumb fake scenarios 😑

    • @GOODBOY-ic6tf
      @GOODBOY-ic6tf 5 месяцев назад

      @@yusranaaz9406 human beings like to fantasies and we cannot do anything about that.... 🙂

    • @yusranaaz9406
      @yusranaaz9406 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@GOODBOY-ic6tf but because of these fs I can't focus on my studies and I always repeat the same scenario with that one faceless ollu ka pattha

  • @nikhildeka8357
    @nikhildeka8357 Год назад +476

    Marrying your crush is as similar as waiting for a train at airport 😅

  • @prarupjaiswal884
    @prarupjaiswal884 4 года назад +5506

    This type of education can reduce the crime rates rapidly. I think.

    • @cottoncandy5567
      @cottoncandy5567 4 года назад +39

      Well said

    • @prarupjaiswal884
      @prarupjaiswal884 4 года назад +156

      @@Successzone1234 thats what i am trying to say,that education is primarily for producing clerks. This is true education.

    • @abhinavrao2102
      @abhinavrao2102 4 года назад +31

      Bhai ye video criminal tak pahunchati hi nahi hai

    • @prarupjaiswal884
      @prarupjaiswal884 4 года назад +28

      @@abhinavrao2102 pahoch jae to criminal hi na bane kabhi

    • @B--singhjaykumar
      @B--singhjaykumar 4 года назад +7

      Absolutely true !

  • @ascended1802
    @ascended1802 2 года назад +2163

    "Rejection makes a man perfect "
    ~~ Jiraiya the pervy sage

  • @praveeendwivedi
    @praveeendwivedi 2 года назад +118

    He is gonna save our generation, huge respect for you sir❤️😭🙏🏻

  • @sid_dollboy6072
    @sid_dollboy6072 2 года назад +257

    You are saving so many lives bro!! Respect ❤️

    • @sujeet_08
      @sujeet_08 2 года назад +2

      Kya bro ab kaisa feel kr rhe ho 😂

    • @atharvnigam8107
      @atharvnigam8107 Год назад

      @@sujeet_08 😂😂😂😂

  • @amansantosh767
    @amansantosh767 3 года назад +4852

    “One sided Love is like waiting for the Train at the Airport!!"
    **Edit**
    “Jbb Chal pdaa tha Main Banjara Akela Jeevan ki Raah prr,
    To Kyaa Jaroorat Kisi aur raahi ki Jo Saath de"

    • @rupeshrajput5940
      @rupeshrajput5940 3 года назад +212

      Give him Oscar for this reference

    • @narayanrae3639
      @narayanrae3639 3 года назад +24

      😂 😂 😂 😁

    • @kartikprajapati1798
      @kartikprajapati1798 3 года назад +44

      😒current situation

    • @amansantosh767
      @amansantosh767 3 года назад +66

      @@kartikprajapati1798 May be you are waiting for the Train at the Bus stop!!

    • @kartikprajapati1798
      @kartikprajapati1798 3 года назад +49

      @@amansantosh767 situation is she waiting for the train at bus stop and I'm waiting for the Train at airport 😅

  • @aiml_49_srajalsrivastava96
    @aiml_49_srajalsrivastava96 4 года назад +1889

    This is Valentine's special...😅😅😂

  • @rajeshpal7280
    @rajeshpal7280 Год назад +27

    *"Humare Mann Me Tumhare Liye Izzat Aur Badh Gayi Shwetabh"* 💜💜

  • @ankurdas7595
    @ankurdas7595 Год назад +21

    Self-control - In any situation, you can realise your feelings or what is happening in your mind in reality and at that moment by self - questioning you can make decision on the basis of your life priorities.

  • @prasunbhowmick7243
    @prasunbhowmick7243 4 года назад +1863

    No.. I mean seriously, he will save our generation.. Respect🙌🙌🙏

  • @DjGamer-qp3hh
    @DjGamer-qp3hh 3 года назад +3421

    Today I crushed my brain to forget my crush and started preparation to crack my exams ,thanks bro...

  • @roger.0104
    @roger.0104 Год назад +29

    My college started 2 weeks ago and from the second day itself, I am having a crush on a really beautiful, stunning, cute and a pretty girl whose name starts with a T (TC). But now I understand that this is just a biological attraction and its normal for people. Now I gained the wisdom to not get distracted and just continue my life and chase my goals!!! 😇💪🏻🤟🏻💯😎

  • @rohitmukhia8862
    @rohitmukhia8862 Год назад +22

    Sir I am seeing myself as a fool after watching this vedio cause I was also being so emotional on these type of things. Now I'm fully ok being single .🙂😊😁

  • @anonymous0807
    @anonymous0807 4 года назад +1954

    In simple words he wanted to say :
    Bulati hai magar jaane ka nai ✌🏻

  • @kp8403
    @kp8403 4 года назад +611

    ""Asli mard ki yahi pehchan hoti ki mai yaha hu to sab comfortable feel krenge"" 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @abcdeeeeff
      @abcdeeeeff 4 года назад +2

      @Aman Raj ki mien yuha hu to subka khuda ho jaega😁

    • @vipinmaurya1296
      @vipinmaurya1296 3 года назад +1

      ye bhut quality mai sai ek quality hai.

  • @usehj8
    @usehj8 Год назад +12

    Yep, the ability to manage emotions and affairs is a very important trait

  • @ayushsinghrajput4405
    @ayushsinghrajput4405 Год назад +15

    2:48 Sir it's fully relatable to me.

  • @DanishKhan-ds5zm
    @DanishKhan-ds5zm 3 года назад +1360

    Love
    Waste of time
    Waste of money
    Waste of physical and spiritual mind
    Be single till 25 🤗🤗🤗

    • @lililililisa
      @lililililisa 3 года назад +4

      Yeah

    • @AhinDas2506
      @AhinDas2506 3 года назад +34

      No... Single till whole life....

    • @darshannn7001
      @darshannn7001 3 года назад +39

      Danish bro... Better to be singles.. There is a lot to explore in life rather than doing rubbish things like making gf and flirting etc etc...

    • @chikoo6642
      @chikoo6642 3 года назад +30

      koi milihi nhi hogi to single hi hoge na

    • @AhinDas2506
      @AhinDas2506 3 года назад +4

      @@chikoo6642 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sanjaydhungana8242
    @sanjaydhungana8242 4 года назад +589

    perfect gift of valentine day for singles like me

  • @Jhanvi_plyzRoblox
    @Jhanvi_plyzRoblox Год назад +35

    One of the best books I’ve ever read because it’s so real, not like pie in the sky! It is very relatable! Some lessons - People are weird, Screw Happiness, Screw your heroes and finally the most important of them all - How to Think! Thank you @Shwetabh Gangwar for writing this book and making the videos. 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @dhanumagar4620
    @dhanumagar4620 Год назад +8

    Boys fall in beauty, Mens fall in love, Nut legends never fall they rise, U r legend my friend. Keep grinding. Remember no matter what God is alwyas with u

  • @shivrajkirpekar3349
    @shivrajkirpekar3349 4 года назад +1651

    Gangs of Wasseypur 2 me ek dialogue hai- ''sala jab tak Hindustan me cinema rahega, log chutiya bante rahenge!" I agree!

  • @amansantosh767
    @amansantosh767 3 года назад +391

    “Crushes are Crushed!!"

    • @dambaka5096
      @dambaka5096 3 года назад +3

      yes true

    • @dorygaming9410
      @dorygaming9410 3 года назад +11

      Cursed sahi spelling ye h

    • @sais.here.5869
      @sais.here.5869 3 года назад +2

      U at 99 likes....i will make u 100

    • @shysugarmommy4659
      @shysugarmommy4659 3 года назад

      Curse😂🤣

    • @amansantosh767
      @amansantosh767 3 года назад +2

      @@dorygaming9410 I literally mean “Crushed" not “Cursed".
      Crushed(Past participle of Crush) is also a English word.
      “Crushes are Crushed!"

  • @nirajbhakte1317
    @nirajbhakte1317 Год назад +7

    You can't stop it but you can control it 💪

  • @aneeshjoshi5618
    @aneeshjoshi5618 2 года назад +12

    Whenever you think about her just realize that who you are and what do you want from her?
    The only thing you can understand from this video is whenever you get crush about someone just ask Questions to yourself☺
    That's what I learned

  • @manig4439
    @manig4439 3 года назад +223

    Ye Attraction hai!! Zindigi me aage wahi badhega Jo dimaag se kaam lega!! 🐈💞

    • @sarthakkapil6772
      @sarthakkapil6772 3 года назад +1

      Kaam kar rahe ho kya?

    • @mr.ak4sh422
      @mr.ak4sh422 3 года назад +4

      Deemag hi toh chutiya hai.

    • @utkarshupadhyay6035
      @utkarshupadhyay6035 2 года назад +2

      @@mr.ak4sh422 dost bura mat manna par jo dimaag pe kabu na kar paye vo chutiya hota hai, aur asal me sabhi chutiye hote hai hut waha se jo apne dimaag pe kabu paa le then he is not Chutiya..

    • @rameshchandsharma5049
      @rameshchandsharma5049 2 месяца назад

      Ha bhai ​@@sarthakkapil6772

  • @user-cq3kg8uc4z
    @user-cq3kg8uc4z 4 года назад +368

    Yesterday's work hours :
    1. 2.5 hrs workout
    2. 1 hour swimming
    3. 2hrs studying.

    • @AnonymousAlien2099
      @AnonymousAlien2099 4 года назад +53

      Itna bhi exercise mat kar bhai
      Heart par pressure aayega

    • @codered6874
      @codered6874 4 года назад +14

      Anonymous Alien Aise to michael phelps 12 ghante workout karta hai use to abhi tak kuch nahi hua

    • @sandeepp6834
      @sandeepp6834 4 года назад +45

      4. 1 hour wild masturbation

    • @AnonymousAlien2099
      @AnonymousAlien2099 4 года назад +25

      @@codered6874 Michael Pehlps ke paas trained professionals, nutritional experts, doctors ye sab facilities at door step available hai.
      Moreover he's a trained athlete.

    • @sunitamissal7690
      @sunitamissal7690 4 года назад +7

      sandeep p 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

  • @saadhussain6914
    @saadhussain6914 Год назад +16

    You nailed it, man. Absolute brilliant......

  • @adventuresoflife486
    @adventuresoflife486 Год назад +10

    17 saal ka hu... Very relatable sir ❤️... Understood and felt everything 🤗🤗🤗

  • @kaan1882
    @kaan1882 4 года назад +684

    The worst thing i regret in my life is destroying my life on crushes...oh god plz can you let me relive my childhood....bollywood😡cheap mentality🤬

    • @adityagoswami6881
      @adityagoswami6881 4 года назад +13

      I cant feel you😁

    • @kaan1882
      @kaan1882 4 года назад +16

      I have decided to be a child all my life🥺🙂

    • @lampoli5596
      @lampoli5596 4 года назад +13

      Yaar bahut khatarnak hai yeh cheap bodily mentality. Very dangerous.

    • @KapilKumar-zl9vf
      @KapilKumar-zl9vf 4 года назад +11

      Bhai, Dil pe lagi!🥺

    • @sakshamsalwan5060
      @sakshamsalwan5060 4 года назад +5

      Sahi me bC

  • @akaashnichani8988
    @akaashnichani8988 4 года назад +411

    Falling for someone's looks is pure infatuation , it can never be love. Always will be short lived...!

  • @arjunshinde5843
    @arjunshinde5843 6 месяцев назад +3

    This kind of videos/lectures should be part of the school curriculum.

  • @scullcandy9017
    @scullcandy9017 Год назад +40

    This was so straight forward, this is what we wanted ,hope we all change after this and do better at our lives

  • @rushikeshkarate7803
    @rushikeshkarate7803 3 года назад +1617

    Once a LEGEND said ,
    .
    .
    .
    Don't detroy your GOAL for a HOLE.

  • @basudevadhikari9178
    @basudevadhikari9178 3 года назад +887

    When i was 15 years old I had a crush on this really pretty girl but one day i thought ' Mai girlfriend banakr kar bhi kya lunga '. This thought saved me and now I know that real love, is self - love😌. Staying single or being in a relationship it's all up to you but remember never lose your inner self

    • @marvelnerd4544
      @marvelnerd4544 3 года назад +18

      boht kuch Kreta

    • @RajendraSharma-td4by
      @RajendraSharma-td4by 3 года назад +53

      बहुत सुन्दर विचार कल्याणकारी The man who is not attracted by the world can attract the whole world

    • @rishiverma4686
      @rishiverma4686 2 года назад +16

      Wise man 👌, last line he asal gyaan hai

    • @utkarshupadhyay6035
      @utkarshupadhyay6035 2 года назад +27

      Bhai maine aisa hi socha but kuch modifications ke baad mujhe laga bc apne baap ke paise kharch kar ke jo mujhe khane ko mile hai mai kisi ladki ko khila du this is cheap, apne time ko uspe invest karo bina aukaat ke har cheez puri karo, to indirectly uski jarurat mere pitaji puri karenge tab se maine soch liya jab tak i dont get a job, a house and a car no girls in my life hope this motivation remains constant...

    • @strectgamer5597
      @strectgamer5597 2 года назад +4

      good you are really good thinker

  • @GoodBoylove
    @GoodBoylove Год назад +6

    After getting heartbroken two times, my mind keeps having this pain "dude, let's fall in love again! " But when i look at any girl, i just feel "No you will be sad again"..

  • @BtwPankaj
    @BtwPankaj Год назад +15

    Hate is born to protect love 😍
    ~Madara Uchiha

  • @jimmyjordan5048
    @jimmyjordan5048 4 года назад +250

    Boy going to his crush to gift flower on valentine's day and swetabh says in notification-
    "How to stop falling in love!"😃

  • @inspi.rational_waves
    @inspi.rational_waves 3 года назад +1043

    Most of the boys need just an emotional support

    • @risingaditya4206
      @risingaditya4206 3 года назад +125

      Believe in God🔥god is always with us to support us❤️

    • @dimplekaur129
      @dimplekaur129 3 года назад +36

      I am watching this video cause I have a crush with someone too she's white Muslim girl ,she's so pretty I was thinking about to giving her love letter ,

    • @risingaditya4206
      @risingaditya4206 3 года назад +73

      @@dimplekaur129 arey Bhai don't waste ur time,focus on your goals,not girl's

    • @dimplekaur129
      @dimplekaur129 3 года назад +31

      @@risingaditya4206 my friend I live in America and I struggling here from last 8 years now I got a good job recently, and this girl came in my life suddenly she's Muslim white girl I don't know what to do but after watching this video I start focus on my goals

    • @risingaditya4206
      @risingaditya4206 3 года назад +29

      😂😂best option bro,don't love love hurts alot

  • @hardwork5142
    @hardwork5142 2 года назад +3

    sigma rule 344- " don't watch bollywood movies too much "

  • @Ch.Hemachander-03
    @Ch.Hemachander-03 2 года назад +7

    Your Articulation is mind blowing Sir... Very matured you are! Thanks for this video😊

  • @ajaytaur
    @ajaytaur 3 года назад +543

    When you start to love yourself,there is no such attraction to distraction.🔥

    • @suhailabaricz1161
      @suhailabaricz1161 2 года назад +1

      How can you love yourself?

    • @siddhantshah2228
      @siddhantshah2228 2 года назад +1

      How do u love yourself?

    • @narwadestiktok4u267
      @narwadestiktok4u267 2 года назад +1

      Yes bro true love yourself

    • @HOTSHOTGAMING-eb3ds
      @HOTSHOTGAMING-eb3ds 2 года назад

      @@suhailabaricz1161
      Well sheila loves herself
      Ab Dil Karta Hai Haule Haule Se, Main Toh Khud Ko Gale Lagaun
      Kisi Aur Ki Mujhko Zaroorat Kya, Main Toh Khud Se Pyaar Jataun
      (What's My Name, What's My Name, What's My Name
      My Name Is Sheila
      Sheila Ki Jawani
      I'm Just Sexy For You
      Main Tere Haath Na Aani

    • @nirojnayak5004
      @nirojnayak5004 2 года назад

      Sala gay hey kya 🤣🤣

  • @vishalmithapara1464
    @vishalmithapara1464 4 года назад +352

    What a timing brother. I'm just thinking about it.

    • @rsurajkumar7303
      @rsurajkumar7303 4 года назад +8

      Same here.. facing this situation with colleague at work.... Fortunately am being conscious and recognise this as an attraction and I have moved on to excel well at work.

    • @prashanttiwari6773
      @prashanttiwari6773 4 года назад

      Bhai same

    • @sheksanadi7237
      @sheksanadi7237 4 года назад

      Facing same bro

    • @0.2-Update-all
      @0.2-Update-all 3 года назад

      Yes me bee....

  • @ALPHA-xz2xc
    @ALPHA-xz2xc 5 месяцев назад +2

    My Story : Hello, currently I'm in college. Yday it was my Bday n she was alone then I arrived, when she just saw me she gave me a small hug n talks with me very well. Then we went to the Library n spent some more time. I noticed before also that she starts the conversation, asked if I'm single n when talking she frequently touches me. Maybe she became my crush n some feeling also created for her inside me.
    From the video I understood that for Emotional need n biological factor I may get attracted to someone. But I've to be aware n focus on Priority. Also I need to remember that maybe she felt alone n prioritized me only for that time later when her friends come then she maybe driven. I should keep a mental distance that if 2morrow she hugs another boy I shouldn't worry for that as she is only my Frnd not GF 😀😀

  • @lifefact7822
    @lifefact7822 Год назад +1

    Bhai ji
    Superb
    Deep information thanks 🙏🏻

  • @gogito728
    @gogito728 3 года назад +722

    Bulati hai magar janeka nahi💯

    • @mdaamersohail1417
      @mdaamersohail1417 3 года назад +2

      Lol

    • @vipinmaurya1296
      @vipinmaurya1296 3 года назад +5

      kmjoro pr ye statement thik hai, mjabut log aaye jaaye kyun ki wo is khel kai khiladi hote hai.

    • @adii_03
      @adii_03 3 года назад +4

      Bhai wo to chale gye jo bole the

    • @yaaronkayaar4171
      @yaaronkayaar4171 3 года назад +1

      😄😄😄

    • @amansantosh767
      @amansantosh767 3 года назад +11

      Phle bulano do phir Dekhenge 😂

  • @thevlogistsam882
    @thevlogistsam882 3 года назад +174

    Conclusion of video
    1 give first priority to u r carrer
    2 u cant stop the feelings bt u can control it
    3 if u like a girl tht doesnt mean u love her because u r liking a girl on the bases of her looks u dont know her personally nd u dont know is she is compatible fr u or not... If u like a girl dont commit tht i love u first u had to check her tht how tht girl is bt again i ll ur carrer should be first priority first focous on ur career

    • @ParulSharma-pl8lf
      @ParulSharma-pl8lf 3 года назад +5

      One. Thing also always listen to your mind ...

    • @54_ravi
      @54_ravi 3 года назад

      Hello bro plzzz subscribe my yt channel if u like pubg memes nd montages🥺❤️
      ruclips.net/channel/UCttm6w5S7IYnu_bx4Kv98-g

    • @pranjaldas4782
      @pranjaldas4782 3 года назад

      thanks bro

    • @TheBJChannel
      @TheBJChannel 3 года назад +1

      I can write biography on her

  • @manshgill5764
    @manshgill5764 6 месяцев назад +2

    I found this masterpiece after three fucking years i really need this😢

  • @brahmacharya.9796
    @brahmacharya.9796 5 месяцев назад +3

    respect like an sister and focus on goal because the end result of this like things are destroyed

  • @alien8180
    @alien8180 4 года назад +160

    Attraction is big disaster in students life

  • @gobindachandra11
    @gobindachandra11 3 года назад +208

    I can't believe ......how deep this guy think....no one discussing about this reality

  • @khiladikumar491
    @khiladikumar491 Год назад +3

    Falling in Love , attachment to girls is the first step of suffering .....

  • @Indian_Gigachad
    @Indian_Gigachad 6 дней назад +2

    I found this channel at age of 18. I'm thankful, bro saved my JEE preparation. I have 8 months, main phodunga.

  • @manofculture2085
    @manofculture2085 3 года назад +218

    I don't want to be simp anymore, I just want to be happy.

    • @francisbacon4363
      @francisbacon4363 3 года назад +20

      Here's a sad/educational story, I had this friend so one day she told me she had a crush on me and I said ok let's be in a relationship and she was the best person and brought out the best in me and then we had to break up for a neutral reason and now since 6-7 months I've been watching everything negative in my character show itself one after another and life is hell and I seriously would do anything to get her back but I kinda promised her and I'd rather die than not follow my word(I say that often) so i'm dying slowly and painfully and a lot of diseases(cluster migraine) worse than death are surfacing, so the lesson is that life is cruel and also that i'm stubborn enough to choose word over life plus I love her too much to break her cute little heart and confuse her
      Just to be clear i'm not saying don't fall in love but be prepared for pain and things waaaaay worse than death

    • @manofculture2085
      @manofculture2085 3 года назад +5

      @@francisbacon4363 ok man, I'm better off single

    • @shivanshhanda5410
      @shivanshhanda5410 3 года назад +2

      @@manofculture2085 what does simp mean🙄

    • @SaritaKumari-fy7co
      @SaritaKumari-fy7co 3 года назад +14

      @@shivanshhanda5410 ladkiyo ko apni life se zada value dena aur chat me Bob's and vegana maangne wale ko simp bolte h

    • @cornelldavid472
      @cornelldavid472 3 года назад

      👍

  • @anshugaming7855
    @anshugaming7855 3 года назад +982

    Love is harmful to a student life.

    • @krushnachandra503
      @krushnachandra503 3 года назад +55

      actually distraction is

    • @minakshikatoch2433
      @minakshikatoch2433 3 года назад +50

      Absolutely right ...but they don't know that it's only an attraction not love...

    • @AxemanMessiah
      @AxemanMessiah 3 года назад +15

      Student and every other part of your life as well!

    • @cianwelford
      @cianwelford 3 года назад +44

      Actually not for everyone,one of my friends is in relationship since class 9th still got 95% in 12th and studying in iit🙂

    • @pessivspenaldo3146
      @pessivspenaldo3146 3 года назад +8

      Exactly

  • @anshulgupta9754
    @anshulgupta9754 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks brother for the video. I needed this. Thanks for taking time and going in detail and repeating them, so they got imprinted on my brain. First time came across your channel and subscribed. Keep making some wholesome and most important content

  • @ShailendraSingh-ur1ze
    @ShailendraSingh-ur1ze Год назад +1

    Hats off brother ❤️

  • @aishwarya1895
    @aishwarya1895 4 года назад +230

    This type of education is what youngsters need these days... So that they can focus on their goal

    • @ganeshbisht1121
      @ganeshbisht1121 4 года назад +1

      👏👏👏

    • @saurabhshukla7664
      @saurabhshukla7664 4 года назад +4

      And can ignore the girls like you.....

    • @AbhishekRaj-ty5hy
      @AbhishekRaj-ty5hy 4 года назад

      Nice comment @saurabh shukla

    • @thatguy4010
      @thatguy4010 4 года назад +4

      @@saurabhshukla7664 aise chutie hai islie desh garib hai hamara😂😂

    • @jayashjain8677
      @jayashjain8677 4 года назад +4

      Aishwarya Gupta very true.just check the comment of boys on girls pic or her comment on instagram.they all act like creeps.i mean sometimes it feels like no one can bring a change in our youngsters,they all try to act waana be cool type

  • @devbhatia7107
    @devbhatia7107 4 года назад +83

    When you speak, you look very passionate.

  • @ukonway
    @ukonway Год назад +6

    10:23 crushed me from inside bro

  • @Arman-ie6sd
    @Arman-ie6sd 2 года назад +4

    Bro m a Teenager and ur video really helped me mentally Thanks alot!!❤️🙏🏼

  • @adityarokde1304
    @adityarokde1304 3 года назад +273

    L = Lake of sorrows
    O = Ocean of tears
    V = Valley of death
    E = End of life.

    • @imnobd8757
      @imnobd8757 3 года назад +7

      I guess I was right when i stopped loving my family then

    • @adityarokde1304
      @adityarokde1304 3 года назад +10

      @@imnobd8757 Bro, that is for girlfriend or boyfriend love. Sorry, if I hurt u.

    • @Abhishek_Kulkarni
      @Abhishek_Kulkarni 3 года назад +4

      Ye bhi sahi he..

    • @cloudy5342
      @cloudy5342 3 года назад

      @@imnobd8757 wait, thats illegle 🤨🤣🤣

    • @livelovelaugh3396
      @livelovelaugh3396 2 года назад +12

      L-Loss
      O- of
      V-veluable
      E- energy

  • @lavupalav617
    @lavupalav617 4 года назад +350

    Sandeep Maheshwari, Shwetab Gangwar & Sadhguru.
    These 3 will rewire anyone's brain. 🙏

    • @Life_Clarity_with_Shivam
      @Life_Clarity_with_Shivam 4 года назад +11

      Sadhguru ar Sandeep maheswari se iski tulna Mt kr Bhai wo SB super human hai..ye chutiya hai aise koi bhi Kuch bhi vidio bna Lene se koi great nhi bn skta...ye paisa kma rha bewkoof bna k

    • @englishgrammarshorts1
      @englishgrammarshorts1 4 года назад +8

      I believe without Action much knowledge is just waste...and everyone is super human in their field..

    • @prajwalkalangutkar3081
      @prajwalkalangutkar3081 4 года назад +6

      @Luv Kumar practical solution

    • @Life_Clarity_with_Shivam
      @Life_Clarity_with_Shivam 4 года назад +2

      @Luv Kumar JB SB tujhe pta hai to is chutiyo ko kiu sunta...ar ye kya practical solution dega itna sbko pta rhta hai bas dar dikha k tumlog Ka vidio p view Lete hai...sadhguru ar Sandeep is my Ideal unse is chutiyo ko compare mt kro..kal ko HM bhi RUclips p motivation bnane lge to hme bhi sadhguru ar Sandeep bna doge yhu hall rha tumlog Ka to khud se sochna sikho mentally gulam ho abhi tumlog ar tumlog ko bna rha..

    • @grewal2198
      @grewal2198 4 года назад +19

      He is better than sandeep but not than sadhguru

  • @aniketgamer5927
    @aniketgamer5927 6 месяцев назад +2

    After watching from Instagram then I came here

  • @RanjeetSingh-fq9cx
    @RanjeetSingh-fq9cx 3 месяца назад +1

    For the last 2 days I m listening to ur Videos. I m really impressed. I m thinking that why no one told this all earlier.

  • @akshith4901
    @akshith4901 3 года назад +232

    Is video ko jitnebi single he vohi dekrahe 😂🤣🤣age jake kuch problem na ho isliye😂😂

  • @alosser6402
    @alosser6402 4 года назад +175

    There is only woman in my life with whom I will love forever and that's my mom♥️❤️

    • @muhammadtayyabbaig2287
      @muhammadtayyabbaig2287 4 года назад

      Shadi bhe apne Maa se karogy? 😂

    • @funnybomb2571
      @funnybomb2571 4 года назад +14

      @@muhammadtayyabbaig2287 tu wahi banda hai na jo ladkiyo ko bheek mangta hai saath rehne ke liye

    • @muhammadtayyabbaig2287
      @muhammadtayyabbaig2287 4 года назад

      @@funnybomb2571 nope wo koi or hai 🤣

    • @alosser6402
      @alosser6402 4 года назад +9

      @@muhammadtayyabbaig2287 get fuxk out of here you idiot , I am not a slave of those fucking girls, like you r, u Dog, it's better to get love of your family then those shitty fake love and dramas

    • @vibhorgiri622
      @vibhorgiri622 4 года назад

      @@alosser6402 biology

  • @mahanidhibanakar3019
    @mahanidhibanakar3019 2 года назад +19

    " Avoid holes, focus on goals ".
    Quote of the video 👍👍👍👍

  • @jeetpal.arajila7673
    @jeetpal.arajila7673 Год назад +1

    Thanx bhaiya 👍🙂😘

  • @Alibhai22052
    @Alibhai22052 3 года назад +70

    One Sided love is like waiting for train at airport

    • @aakashkatiyar5005
      @aakashkatiyar5005 3 года назад +5

      Stolen

    • @sikander4458
      @sikander4458 3 года назад +3

      Hmmm🥺🥺🥺kash wo train va aa jati
      Kyunki me vaha ja jane ke layak nhi hoon
      Edit:use ke layk to hume ban na hai

    • @mahanidhibanakar3019
      @mahanidhibanakar3019 2 года назад

      Just break the track

  • @flawsome7552
    @flawsome7552 3 года назад +462

    Being a girl m watching this😂😂 and words of this guy is so so so practical.#respect 14:55

  • @MrBasu-iq6md
    @MrBasu-iq6md Год назад

    Thank you for such simple clarity.

  • @adsanskaribachha9761
    @adsanskaribachha9761 Год назад +7

    I felt that he is telling my exact story like i have told him my problems, it is useful for me. So, thanks for this amazing video

    • @CloudScience
      @CloudScience Год назад +1

      youtube.com/@PsychologyinHindi

  • @Deep420
    @Deep420 4 года назад +129

    12:10
    Zindgi + dunia = zundia
    Waaah🥰🥰

  • @satyamanand743
    @satyamanand743 3 года назад +196

    OUR PARENTS SHOULD TALK TO US OPENLY ABOUT ALL THESE THINGS.

  • @user-qk7lu5ry7r
    @user-qk7lu5ry7r 2 года назад +2

    Thank you sir u saved my life

  • @shubhamjaiswal381
    @shubhamjaiswal381 11 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best video 📸
    Thankyou so much ❤

  • @mirshiban
    @mirshiban 3 года назад +57

    Every teenager should learn by watching this.

  • @beyondzetabyte
    @beyondzetabyte 4 года назад +605

    *People Are WEIRED* and *REJECTIONS are NORMAL*
    Best lines I learned from the book and I remember always

    • @anirbanghosh9745
      @anirbanghosh9745 4 года назад +6

      *Weird

    • @AnonymousAlien2099
      @AnonymousAlien2099 4 года назад +22

      @@anirbanghosh9745 aagaya triggered *Oxford graduate

    • @rahulrathod1702
      @rahulrathod1702 4 года назад +2

      hindi matlab please koi samjao isla

    • @AnonymousAlien2099
      @AnonymousAlien2099 4 года назад +14

      @@rahulrathod1702
      People are weird : *लोग अजीब है* ।
      Rejections are normal : *अस्वीकरण सामान्य है* ।

    • @rahulrathod1702
      @rahulrathod1702 4 года назад +6

      Anonymous alien thanks

  • @atulbijalwan1523
    @atulbijalwan1523 8 месяцев назад +3

    Each and every word is damn true...I realized it when I was also trapped in this complex matrix but you really nailed it ..Thanks big bro👍👍🙏🙏🙏

  • @sahilbhai5547
    @sahilbhai5547 Год назад +1

    BACKGROUND THOUGHT ☺️

  • @bishal539
    @bishal539 3 года назад +132

    After seeing this iam feeling proud to be single. I didn't even have a crush 😂 and have never been in a relationship 😂

  • @lifethrownoutofthewindow
    @lifethrownoutofthewindow 4 года назад +313

    Final Outcome:
    *katega*

    • @parakramdivya6949
      @parakramdivya6949 4 года назад +2

      Wo toh hona hi h. Aaj ya kal. Chahe boyfriend ho tum ya pati. Pre planned rehta h sab

    • @lakshaysaggi9834
      @lakshaysaggi9834 4 года назад

      Whose pic is on thumbnail bro

    • @TravadiFatema
      @TravadiFatema 3 года назад

      Paisa bhi

  • @rockroy384
    @rockroy384 Год назад

    Thnx for clearing all doubts ❤️🔥😌👌‼️

  • @namangarg6959
    @namangarg6959 Год назад +3

    If you want to be Sigma don't follow crush culture 😌

  • @VikasKumar-pp4qr
    @VikasKumar-pp4qr 4 года назад +257

    Finest topic one can bring on Valentine's Day😂😂 Excellent work🙏🙏

  • @ajeetpandey5433
    @ajeetpandey5433 4 года назад +77

    "Ladki koi common noun ho, ladki koi prototype ho ,esa nhi hota" This is the best line. Every girl has her own character and her own likes and dislikes. The same type of actions would not be paid attention by girs and they would not be impressed at all
    So be logical and listen to what this guy says as he is one the best and most honest mentor whome I ever saw.
    Down to earth and totally practical guy . Hatts off .......

  • @Rick_27739
    @Rick_27739 Год назад +6

    “No matter what, the most powerful thing in the world is the human mind, and prayer, and belief in yourself and confidence and perseverance. No matter how many times you do it, you do it again, until it's right. And always believe in yourself." - Michael Jackson

  • @karundas4750
    @karundas4750 4 года назад +399

    We need people like you in politics. Really 'Hamara neta kaisa ho, Swetabh bhai jaisa ho'.😁😁

    • @b-Khush1102
      @b-Khush1102 3 года назад +5

      Shwetabh hamara neta hai, chutiyon ko muh mein deta hai 🤣🤣
      Shwetabh bhai is truly an inspiration 🔥🔥

  • @g-randhawa8581
    @g-randhawa8581 4 года назад +49

    She's not yours, it's just your turn. Keep this in your mind all the time and don't get over attached just focus on yourself and work hard. Self love is most important.

    • @nikhilkamble7585
      @nikhilkamble7585 4 года назад

      To bacche bhi khud se hi paida karle Bhai😂😂

    • @g-randhawa8581
      @g-randhawa8581 4 года назад +5

      @@nikhilkamble7585 tu jaake tik tok chala teri samjh ke bahar hai yeh baatein

    • @nikhilkamble7585
      @nikhilkamble7585 4 года назад +1

      @@g-randhawa8581 brooo getting attracted towards opposite sex is natural in every organism....and getting attached to one particular person is ook but without compromising with dreams...

    • @g-randhawa8581
      @g-randhawa8581 4 года назад +1

      @@nikhilkamble7585 bro this is 2020 social media and all those dating apps fucked up everything I understand we attract towards the opposite sex and getting attached but it's not easy to find a person like that now days it's sad when you see this generation wasting their time and assets for this so called love which won't even last for three month I've a friend who commited suicide just bcoz of that. the most important thing is women is never be your high priority expect your mother and all these garbage Bollywood love story craps brain wash the youth people start comparing their life with those trash love fairy tales at the end my point is focus on yourself you and your goals should be your high priority and when the time comes right person will come into your life. Always remember one thing even if you are married single or in relationship never make a women center of your universe and your happiness should never depend on her always play your part in the relationship but never do more or never less it should be balanced .

    • @nikhilkamble7585
      @nikhilkamble7585 4 года назад

      @@g-randhawa8581 agreed...broo it's love Which makes relations stronger.. coz javradstti vale never stay long .their should be equa love respect and responsibilities..from both...sides. and mom's place in life and life partner's place is totally different love and affection for mom and that towards a life partner are totally opposite wether it be mentally emotionally or physically....

  • @_PeterFootballer10_
    @_PeterFootballer10_ 6 месяцев назад +7

    Insta reels wale like thoko>>>>>>>🗿

    • @AagyaRaj
      @AagyaRaj 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me also from reel

  • @luckychoudhary9263
    @luckychoudhary9263 2 года назад +1

    one side love is very beautifull
    because,,just look at your crush and smile,,

  • @PankajDavesar
    @PankajDavesar 2 года назад +96

    "Life mein jo cheez nhi hoti ,uski value hum bada lete hai" - Line to be book marked.

  • @tarikhusain
    @tarikhusain 4 года назад +183

    Title should be “How to train your Heart...” 😜

    • @degavathkalavathi
      @degavathkalavathi 3 года назад +2

      @@priyadarshiashokgautam2455 what if brain 🧠 emoji is used in heart ❤️ emoji's place 😂😂

    • @RS-tw9bu
      @RS-tw9bu 3 года назад +1

      @@priyadarshiashokgautam2455 are o gyani bas karo usne majak kiya hai, tum to yaar pura science leke hi baith gaye ho

  • @MagicReverb
    @MagicReverb 6 месяцев назад +3

    People who watched it are 1%

  • @anshaykapruwan1328
    @anshaykapruwan1328 Год назад

    Jitne bhi log tum idhr aae ho ,
    Mubarak ho jo tumne life m ek aur acha step lene ka socha
    👏👏👏