I really get Freddie's prenup thing in regards to his disabled brother, who I imagine his sister would be taking care of, if something were to suddenly happen to Freddie and after their parents aren't around anymore. Imagine having to decide, whether you trust someone, you have known 6 weeks (?), with all of your savings, which could potentially make a difference in the lives of your siblings- that's a lot of pressure. His worry about Catherine having "materialistic tendencies" makes sense here. And it seems like she doesn't really let him voice those concerns without feeling so rejected by them, that she instantly shuts him down quite harshly.
This for sure! He obviously cares so much for his brother and isn't sure Catherine would take care of him, in the case that Freddie is gone. He's known his sister so much longer and knows she would take care for their brother in the case that their parents and him cannot.
@@ask_why000this too, but I think it was mostly because he already knew the truth of what happened and Sam in that moment was going completely mask off and showing everyone how much of a piece of shit he really is. It just confirmed all of Beniah's suspicions about Sam. Part of it was probably that it stung, and was embarrassing to hear, but I think most of it was just straight up contempt. Either way I'm glad he didn't give Sam the reaction he was looking for.
Jasmine’s mom…..YiKES. Saying that someone has to have a college degree to be intelligent or for you to be able to communicate with them is soooo classist and wrong. College doesn’t mean you’re actually a smart person with an intelligent mind. Her mom screams “control” and I can’t believe Jasmine didn’t say anything….
Yes, older generations need to realize that it isn’t like it was back in the day, a degree now doesn’t really mean shit anymore, on top of all of that, her mom is waaaaay too involved in their relationship, let your daughter love her life and be happy, like the over controlling needs to be nipped in the bud FAST 😬😬😬😬😬
@@djanime317seriously!!! And college is expensive to boot so it’s not an option for many SMART! People. The fact that she had no issues being openly rude was jarring. I hope Jasmine sets some boundaries in the future
i watch aaron and jo react to love is blind too and the DIFFERENCE between men and woman’s reactions!!! when that dude said ‘female’ i was like 😟😟😟 surely they’ll say smth and they didn’t even notice his language but YOU DID UGH!!!! u just get it
i def enjoy the more feminine perspective, it balances out with their vids too. literally watching one after the other to be caught up on ALL aspects of the drama!!
I’m so glad you said that Shay a that Sam was just being spiteful when he said that Nicole ending their engagement was because he rejected her when she wanted to be intimate with him. Sam is a liar and troublemaker. I’m glad at least someone is sticking up for her and noticed that she’s actually a nice person.
I totally think Sam is lying to Beniah. He kept saying to Nicole that she wanted "to get physical". That could mean she tried hugs and kisses and it's very likely she did try initiating something since Sam didn't exactly reassure her at their first meeting. Once she realized, "oh, he isn't even attracted to me", she called it off. Now, he's mad. He told Beniah she "tried to have sex with me and I said no" to make him jealous and also a little to get back at Nicole for not continuing with him and taking away his screen time. Sam is trash.
Look at the sequence. Tom told Tash that he’s having problems with Maria and they’re not sure about their wedding day decision. That was a bait for Tash to get bold and express her deep feelings. He knew what he was doing. Very Slick
I totally get Freddie’s decision to have his assets go to his family at this point in time. He worked for what he has years before even knowing of Cats existence, and has only known her for like a month if they get married. I think it is worth revisiting in maybe 3-5 years of marriage bc they’ll have time to really build a life together.
I think Freddie was smart throwing the prenup idea out. He is a funeral director. He works the families of young people who have passed. He must’ve seen the ins and outs of how money can ruin a family. Realistically. If he really wanted to. You can change a prenup in the uk. Or something like that. To where it’s just to be safe. And for knowing cat 6 weeks and she’s already being quite nasty to him. I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving her anything. Whose to say Freddie knows what cat would do with the money. He knows exactly what’s happening if he gives that money to his sister. Bc Then his brother. He has talked about his brother and how he or his sister would take care of his brother. The money going to his sister, to help out the brother in the long run. I think now cat is finding alot of things to be annoyed with him. Instead of hearing him out.
This is completely unrelated to the episode but you are SO gorgeous and it must be said,,, im not even kidding, when i saw your first love is blind uk video my jaw dropped and i truly mean this with the utmost respect 🥳 i really love your commentary too, your perspective is really relatable and refreshing 🥰 much love and may your days be joyous !!
Oh my god the idea of my boyfriend talking about another woman like that when I'm in the room, or at any time... His most prized possessions would be destroyed in the street when he got home ❤
i can imagine Nicole did want to get intimate with Sam while take it slower with Ben only because Sam wasn’t showing his love the way she would’ve felt it (if he tried at all) due to their probable difference in love languages, and since her love language is very physical i think she probably tried to find that feeling of Sam loving her through an act that will give her the touch she craves, as a last resort - which also just shows how bad Sam was and would’ve been for her.
I'm so glad that you acknowledged how disrespectful Sam was towards Nicole by repeatedly bringing up her wanting to be physical with him. I found it extremely disrespectful, childish, and disgusting. He used a private moment in an attempt to shame her. I was surprised at how so many reactors just glossed over that moment or thought Sam's actions were funny. It was nothing funny or amusing at how he treated Nicole in that moment. It was ugly and low, and I did not like it at all. As bad as that was I thought it was even more disgusting to use what may or may not have happened with Nicole in an argument with Beneiah. He should have kept his anger directed at Beneiah instead he used a private moment with a woman he claimed to care for in an argument with another man. Sam is a low human being. Thank you for expressing how disgusting his behavior was.
If you're that worried about your money when you get married, then get a prenup? Prenups aren't bad. They are sensible Edit: Postnups are also something you can get.
There is a misconception about marriage and prenuptial agreements being "unchangeable" after marriage. You can always get a postnup or add amendments to your prenup. I think Freddie not wanting to give Catherine access to his assets comes from the instance where he was being treated poorly, then Cat perked up immediately after seeing he has his own house. Knowing someone for 3 weeks and then getting married is WILD, I think Freddie had every right to want to make sure he wasn't being taken for a ride AND he wants to make sure his sister is able to take care of their brother.
Nah, what Maria did was goofy. It's like if a traditional dude offered to make his gf a plate, then got mad when she actually asked him to follow through.
Genuine question 1:04, where are Nicole and Benaiah at? Surrey (where she lives)? Where specifically? Or if it's another place in the UK please tell me :')
6:34 This is when I knew Nicole wanting to be in "the mess" of the season, not just Sam. Also, why is Nicole ashamed? She is a modern, independent women who was engaged to him at the time. If she offered to have sex with Sam and he declined - why hide that? It makes her look sneaky and shady.
i dont think she was hiding anything? its a very intimate thing so i understand her not wanting to share that and whats the need to share it? i dont think it changes anything. she wanted to be intinate with her fiancé at the time. thats normal. he declined. thats also normal. theres no need to make it a big thing, which is why beniah responded to sam in that way. sam revealing that as a "gotcha" moment or to try to shame nicole in any way was sick.
I really get Freddie's prenup thing in regards to his disabled brother, who I imagine his sister would be taking care of, if something were to suddenly happen to Freddie and after their parents aren't around anymore. Imagine having to decide, whether you trust someone, you have known 6 weeks (?), with all of your savings, which could potentially make a difference in the lives of your siblings- that's a lot of pressure. His worry about Catherine having "materialistic tendencies" makes sense here. And it seems like she doesn't really let him voice those concerns without feeling so rejected by them, that she instantly shuts him down quite harshly.
This for sure! He obviously cares so much for his brother and isn't sure Catherine would take care of him, in the case that Freddie is gone. He's known his sister so much longer and knows she would take care for their brother in the case that their parents and him cannot.
Right you can always fix the prenup later if you grow to trust her
EXACTLYYYYY
benaiah laughing at sam...the cackle i cuckled when i watched that scene lmaooo
That laugh read like blindsided and humiliated to me.
@@ask_why000this too, but I think it was mostly because he already knew the truth of what happened and Sam in that moment was going completely mask off and showing everyone how much of a piece of shit he really is. It just confirmed all of Beniah's suspicions about Sam. Part of it was probably that it stung, and was embarrassing to hear, but I think most of it was just straight up contempt.
Either way I'm glad he didn't give Sam the reaction he was looking for.
Jasmine’s mom…..YiKES. Saying that someone has to have a college degree to be intelligent or for you to be able to communicate with them is soooo classist and wrong. College doesn’t mean you’re actually a smart person with an intelligent mind.
Her mom screams “control” and I can’t believe Jasmine didn’t say anything….
Yes, older generations need to realize that it isn’t like it was back in the day, a degree now doesn’t really mean shit anymore, on top of all of that, her mom is waaaaay too involved in their relationship, let your daughter love her life and be happy, like the over controlling needs to be nipped in the bud FAST 😬😬😬😬😬
After I heard 3 failed marriage that's all I needed to know
@@djanime317seriously!!! And college is expensive to boot so it’s not an option for many SMART! People. The fact that she had no issues being openly rude was jarring. I hope Jasmine sets some boundaries in the future
i watch aaron and jo react to love is blind too and the DIFFERENCE between men and woman’s reactions!!! when that dude said ‘female’ i was like 😟😟😟 surely they’ll say smth and they didn’t even notice his language but YOU DID UGH!!!! u just get it
Yes agree
but aaron and jo are so funny though haha
YESS I watch them too so I’m kinda waiting on their new vid, but it’s nice seeing her speak out a lil more
i def enjoy the more feminine perspective, it balances out with their vids too. literally watching one after the other to be caught up on ALL aspects of the drama!!
They actually do notice things and call out things like that tbh, they probably just didn’t mention it in this one
I’ve seen them call out the use of “female” as derogatory in another video.
I’m so glad you said that Shay a that Sam was just being spiteful when he said that Nicole ending their engagement was because he rejected her when she wanted to be intimate with him. Sam is a liar and troublemaker. I’m glad at least someone is sticking up for her and noticed that she’s actually a nice person.
I totally think Sam is lying to Beniah. He kept saying to Nicole that she wanted "to get physical". That could mean she tried hugs and kisses and it's very likely she did try initiating something since Sam didn't exactly reassure her at their first meeting. Once she realized, "oh, he isn't even attracted to me", she called it off. Now, he's mad. He told Beniah she "tried to have sex with me and I said no" to make him jealous and also a little to get back at Nicole for not continuing with him and taking away his screen time. Sam is trash.
Sam outing Nicole like that was kinda disgusting. She wasn't ashamed I think, but just preferred being private about that intimate moment.
Tom mischaracterizing what Tasha said and downplaying his engagement in the conversation had me sitting straight up lol. Weirddd.
YES!! i was like… Maria RUN!!! and when he couldn’t openly admit to being superficial lol
Look at the sequence. Tom told Tash that he’s having problems with Maria and they’re not sure about their wedding day decision. That was a bait for Tash to get bold and express her deep feelings. He knew what he was doing. Very Slick
I totally get Freddie’s decision to have his assets go to his family at this point in time. He worked for what he has years before even knowing of Cats existence, and has only known her for like a month if they get married. I think it is worth revisiting in maybe 3-5 years of marriage bc they’ll have time to really build a life together.
Benaiah quickly became one of my favorites, he does not play around 😂
I think Freddie was smart throwing the prenup idea out. He is a funeral director. He works the families of young people who have passed. He must’ve seen the ins and outs of how money can ruin a family. Realistically. If he really wanted to. You can change a prenup in the uk. Or something like that. To where it’s just to be safe. And for knowing cat 6 weeks and she’s already being quite nasty to him. I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving her anything. Whose to say Freddie knows what cat would do with the money. He knows exactly what’s happening if he gives that money to his sister. Bc Then his brother. He has talked about his brother and how he or his sister would take care of his brother. The money going to his sister, to help out the brother in the long run. I think now cat is finding alot of things to be annoyed with him. Instead of hearing him out.
This is completely unrelated to the episode but you are SO gorgeous and it must be said,,, im not even kidding, when i saw your first love is blind uk video my jaw dropped and i truly mean this with the utmost respect 🥳
i really love your commentary too, your perspective is really relatable and refreshing 🥰 much love and may your days be joyous !!
Same gorgeous woman in all aspects! So happy I found the channel
She's Soo Gorgeous!!!!
Oh my god the idea of my boyfriend talking about another woman like that when I'm in the room, or at any time... His most prized possessions would be destroyed in the street when he got home ❤
i can imagine Nicole did want to get intimate with Sam while take it slower with Ben only because Sam wasn’t showing his love the way she would’ve felt it (if he tried at all) due to their probable difference in love languages, and since her love language is very physical i think she probably tried to find that feeling of Sam loving her through an act that will give her the touch she craves, as a last resort - which also just shows how bad Sam was and would’ve been for her.
I'm so glad that you acknowledged how disrespectful Sam was towards Nicole by repeatedly bringing up her wanting to be physical with him. I found it extremely disrespectful, childish, and disgusting. He used a private moment in an attempt to shame her. I was surprised at how so many reactors just glossed over that moment or thought Sam's actions were funny. It was nothing funny or amusing at how he treated Nicole in that moment. It was ugly and low, and I did not like it at all. As bad as that was I thought it was even more disgusting to use what may or may not have happened with Nicole in an argument with Beneiah. He should have kept his anger directed at Beneiah instead he used a private moment with a woman he claimed to care for in an argument with another man. Sam is a low human being. Thank you for expressing how disgusting his behavior was.
girl you deserve more followers... this is gold
funny you saying "ooh that's a woman right there" about jasmine when i had the same response hitting play on this video ☺️
I love watching love is blind alongside your commentary, so glad I found your channel. I could listen to you all day ❤
I feel like if you meet someone on a reality show it’s perfectly reasonable to ask for a prenup. It’s reasonable in any circumstance really
You’re the third person who I’ve been watching that’s been spoiled 😅 I’m so upset with people. Why spoil the show? Love your reactions btw!
If you're that worried about your money when you get married, then get a prenup?
Prenups aren't bad. They are sensible
Edit: Postnups are also something you can get.
I feel like Sam is playing up the villainy for the cameras at this point.
i literally gasped out loud when he cut in with the “because I didn’t wanna be physical with you” OOOOOOO LEMME AT HIM
You look mad. berserk. sublime. in this video. Good job on the thirst trap 👍
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lmaooo thank you babes 🩷🩷
Yeah the biggest thing I'm looking forward to on the reunion is what they have to say about Sam now that they've seen the show.
4 minutes? Ig I truly am obsessed w you
There is a misconception about marriage and prenuptial agreements being "unchangeable" after marriage. You can always get a postnup or add amendments to your prenup. I think Freddie not wanting to give Catherine access to his assets comes from the instance where he was being treated poorly, then Cat perked up immediately after seeing he has his own house. Knowing someone for 3 weeks and then getting married is WILD, I think Freddie had every right to want to make sure he wasn't being taken for a ride AND he wants to make sure his sister is able to take care of their brother.
I feel like the money will be going to freddies sister to look after his brother maybe
8:49 SAM COULD SAY I LOVE YOU JUST MEETING HER? Not you think? 💀
Just watched the other two so I’m all caught up! Thanks for making these, so excited to watch!!! ❤❤❤
I literally was like she sounds like a Filipino mom … clocked it 😂
Giirrlllyyyy whatttttt !?!? Ur from WA 🥰😭 what an honour to find local queen
0:02 UM, I think 🫵🏼you're🫵🏼 CUTE!!!
plz do vids like this on married at first sight AUS! usually gets released in january. the last 2 seasons have been very entertaining
so so happy whenever you post a video !!!
Jasmine’s mom is not Filipino pride like girl we don’t claim her 💀💀🙌
Your hair looks amazing! If it's a weave/wig please plug, if not, wowserrrr ❤
lol, I knew she was Nigerian
Freddie deserves better!
Girl tag your other channel ??? Literally can’t find it lol
Nah, what Maria did was goofy. It's like if a traditional dude offered to make his gf a plate, then got mad when she actually asked him to follow through.
I just stumbled upon your videos. You are so funny and sweetttt I subscribed asap
Genuine question 1:04, where are Nicole and Benaiah at? Surrey (where she lives)? Where specifically? Or if it's another place in the UK please tell me :')
Intensely Freo haha (ngl, especially followed by “is this a sock in the toilet???”)
Shay must be Sag.
She is a cap!
6:34
This is when I knew Nicole wanting to be in "the mess" of the season, not just Sam.
Also, why is Nicole ashamed? She is a modern, independent women who was engaged to him at the time.
If she offered to have sex with Sam and he declined - why hide that?
It makes her look sneaky and shady.
i dont think she was hiding anything? its a very intimate thing so i understand her not wanting to share that and whats the need to share it? i dont think it changes anything. she wanted to be intinate with her fiancé at the time. thats normal. he declined. thats also normal. theres no need to make it a big thing, which is why beniah responded to sam in that way. sam revealing that as a "gotcha" moment or to try to shame nicole in any way was sick.